The Main Reason The Dating Scene Doesn’t Change!

[@corijayy]

"Aye aye, Tony Gaskins here... Wanted to pop in and talk to y'all about...." & "Y'all got ta forgive meh" 😭😭💪🏽💪🏽🙏🏽 We appreciate you!

[@dii-N-sd]

😂

[@beefaye6861]

Facts 💯👈😂

[@shiagloshow]

🤣🤣🤣

[@aubreysellssofl]

Definitely the intro 😂😂

[@hellothere8347]

😂😂😂😂 if he ever stop saying that ik some ain’t right with him

[@winning3329]

Women need to stop dating and start courting with an end goal of marriage. Dating benefits nobody! Also being a girlfriend is a waste of time. A man knows the minute he sees you if he wants to wife you or not.

[@Emptytopfloor]

I genuinely don’t get why people accept these girlfriend, fiancé subtitles ……… they’re not title.

[@EsiriE]

Heavy on the “ being a girlfriend is a waste of time” 💯 i’ve been saying this

[@Vi_lovely]

How you expect somebody to meet you and just choose you as a wife. You need to see people in every season that’s why people fall for lovebombing get to know someone first.

[@AmericanDreamer]

@@Vi_lovely 💯 it makes sense exactly

[@motorbreath22]

Nah it takes more than a few minutes to know someone, you need to vette each other, a lot of men and women can fake the funk for a little while.

[@jessicascreenwritingservices]

The dating scene is so messed up because of jacked up advice. Even therapists be giving out bad advice too. Had to fire my therapist because she was trying to convince me that it was normal to shoot my shot at a man. Never in life 🙄🙃

[@akilahbatyah6505]

Eva Eva Eva in life.

[@rekiyaE]

Chasing a man is just pure foolishness to me. I don't care how anyone wants to present it, just doesn't make sense. A woman is VALUE, a woman is FAVOUR. Does it make sense that a supposed valued person, that brings favour is doing the chasing and not the other way round? 🤦‍♀️ Nahhh!.... Keep your dignity ladies! 💯💖

[@jessicascreenwritingservices]

@@rekiyaEexactly!! As a woman it wouldn’t feel right for me to ever approach a man.

[@Carolina480]

Jess tony has a video of why not we shouldn’t shoot out shot listen to it it’s eye opener and teach us to value us and love us

[@NikkiYourTallBestie]

Neva Eva!!!!

[@michelletingling2069]

I learned 11 years ago that online dating folks ain’t wrapped too tight 😆 I was outta there so fast and never looked bike (back) 🏃🏽‍♀️ 💨 💨 😆😂

[@kmydesire12]

Same! Changed my number and all!

[@nakooshaalbert8884]

😂😂😂

[@GoldSteeze]

Tony is right. There are too many women out here for a man to need online dating. If a man has to resort to online dating, something is wrong

[@tonyasherrod9042]

Tony, I tried online dating. It was the worst decision I ever made. There is nothing but perverts, sex addicts. I had so many men chiming into me. But I can't talk to more than one man at a time. But one of the guys, who was a Dr and physical. He said to me. What do you think these men want from you. I want sex. Tony. I cut myself from that sex cult. I'm so blessed with the man I have in my life.

[@HoneyBlonde26]

Love to see it 😂😂

[@thebarbieinvestor5428]

Horrible decision. Will never do it again!

[@ericad4569]

Every crazy, addicted, personality disordered, scary man I’ve ever met was from online dating

[@NanaLionessofJudah]

Whatever happens happens, but *intentionally* looking for someone online has always been weird to me. It's always men who are convinced all the women in their area are awful when it's the man who is the problem😬😂 It's a lot of sex addicts, porn addicts, predators, misogynists, freaks with disgusting... preferences... just eww.

[@goldengodyse1685]

Ok

[@MAC-tf7pw]

I’m having the hardest time finding a good man and a man who is ready for the next step. I go out to events (not clubs or lounges) I travel etc. and I’m not have any luck yet. I was always against online dating but finally tried it last year. Most of the guys from reading their profiles are comical. I met one guy and Thanks to Tony and Janice (diff channel) I saw the red flags immediately within a month of getting to know him. He secretly hates women, was perverted, and condescending. I’m so happy you are out here giving us women the game. It is really saving us out here. Although it is a hard journey, I refuse to give up and settle.

[@staciadavis3714]

You are not alone out here. Let's pray for all of the good sistas wanting great marriages! Amen!

[@HSBsoulsurfer]

It's freaking hard. It seems to require a miracle. Never found anybody either. Going ro move 1 or 2 more times, then looking at leaving the country entirely at some point.

[@lwarfield52]

I agree! 👍🏾

[@thatboyruut2169]

As a 23 year old man …I can say I was in a desperate spot to find a woman. I was scared to approach women and I was wanting to a girlfriend badly. For me …he is accurate 😂

[@thedopeconversationspodcast]

Majority of new relationships today come from online dating

[@JoannA-sweetly]

And majority of headaches, games, narcissistic abuse & worse….💯

[@jackksterr]

He ain’t lying. I’m a flight attendant and all the pilots who have dating apps have a wife and kids at home. And most of those pilots are swiping right on women AND men 🫢

[@moyajosephcraven5156]

I am no longer doing online, I agree, Tony. My friends who met their husband online are complaining, and these men are messed up.

[@sherrielee7537]

" For a man it is too many women" - so true

[@heather7119]

“With your I beg to differ spirit” 😂😂😂😂 Tony we thank u for sharing the game ! We r listening , taking notes and praying for wisdom and discernment!

[@UpdatedView]

As a married man, I hate to be the bearer of bad news. Everyone isn’t cut out for marriage regardless of gender. It takes an exceptional person to get married and remain successfully married. The marriage and divorce rates numbers are accurate and it takes a special person to indefinitely pair-bond with another person. I pray for the best outcome for everyone. Honestly, there are some great people out there, but they are not great for marriage. God bless 🙏🏾

[@infiniteher0]

i absolutely love this comment! like WOW! i’ve been witnessing my auntie(s) and grandmother struggling with the marriage thing (pair-bonding) as an adolescent. as an adolescent, i just KNEW i was going to help them once my maturity kicked in and i get an adult age. come to find out, i fulfilled “my plan” that i had mentally as an adolescent with them and the mission completely failed seeing the end “results”. your comment is true. thanks for sharing..

[@andreabrown631]

Thank you so much for finally saying what I have been telling people. A straight man does not do all of this online stuff. And if he does and he is straight, he is a pedophile or a murderer

[@PeaceBeStill-]

💯

[@stephaniejoywoodside9942]

You are ABSOLUTELY right.

[@MOOOIOEMA]

This

[@CheriCiara]

I just shut my mouth when Tony be talking cuz how ima tell a man what men do best. It’s foolish

[@rhondachizer631]

I had a experience with on line dating and i can say "Don't do it " They are great at misrepresenting them selfs.

[@zaydotmp4]

He really not lying tho 😂🙌🏾

[@Tisha-oi5yn]

Me personally I don’t do online dating for reasons u said .. but it’s a lot of women who don’t get approached by men like myself.. it is extremely difficult for me to meet men and I live in major city.. but I guess I will just wait for someone to approach me

[@topazgraham2643]

Tony! Am listening…My Mom has been begging me for YEARS not to go on line dating, especially for the reasons you stated so I know your RIGHT!!!!. So happy I didn’t. God bless you Tony

[@audrey.m.w.v]

Tony, your voice is so needed! Keep speaking because you ARE reaching many many women who want to uphold Godly values and standards, and who want better for themselves like me and many others!

[@JermaineThomas4050]

It's worth it.

[@sjtalksandlife]

I tried online dating, and I was so disappointed I gave it up. Some of the guys I could tell by their phone conversation that they wasn't no good. I did meet one nice guy, but we had no connection. You are right their is some weirdos online. It's too easy for someone to pretend that they somebody else. I'm good..😬😉

[@Roni-Ron]

TG! I just asked my adult children in our family chat, does anyone do online dating- “they said murderers”😂😂😂😂😂😂😂 I have 4 adult sons and three daughters😂😂😂😂

[@karenbailey921]

Tony, don't stop bringing the game. 💙💙💙💙💙💙💙💙💙📢📢📢📢📢📢📢📢📢📢

[@atmedia9882]

I wouldn’t do online dating because it’s a pool for narcissist & predators of all kind, they will assume your desperate (& that u know your desperate) because your there and they create a false reality in their mind that they are just being a man and if women put themselves out there why not exploit those women, a man who meet you on a dating website will never value you or love you for more than what you can do for him, whatever that may be.

[@karenbailey921]

Tony, you have many subscribers such as myself who truly appreciate you and your honesty about giving away the game. I have no interest or desire to do online dating. Thank you!!! Blessings to you and your beautiful family. 📢📢📢📢📢

[@gapeach7814]

💯

[@freckledfacedbeauty151]

“It’s booties swangin!” 😂😂😂 thanks for keeping it real with us Tony! We be needing to hear it bad

[@Ash2beauty]

I don’t think there are many, but there are successful relationships that started online. When you know how to weed out the counterfeits and have discernment it can be accomplished IF it’s the will of God, because truth is, every horrible man that you described could be and have been met in person and a good man can be found online. I met my guy on Match, we are both saved, parents are saved and are confident in our love, and we will be 2024 bride and groom.

[@spokenpoet5074]

I'm 59 and single after a divorce many years ago,and I appreciate your knowledge and faithfulness I agree I don't trust online dating periodt why cant a man or woman meet someone organically not online because for a small small percentage of people it's a big a red flag for foolishness, lying and deception. As you stated you have to. Be desperate to date online unless your a millionaire and need someone to try to help you date,but for the average person no matter where you live there is an abundance of people to meet organically. The. Killers are always online periodt and I would never date anyone online why would I take a risk on my life when I only. Have one

[@akilahbatyah6505]

Yep!! Spell it out for them!!! It’s a lotta real SKILLERS on them dating apps!

[@stilettosnstethoscopes9109]

Toni maybe that’s my problem I need to stay off the dating apps! They start off good and end up 😩🤮🙄😒

[@Sherri_Speaks]

I like when you say , "Ya'll gotta forgive me."My opinion about those words show humility and recognizes not perfect and we all have oops 😊.

[@JoannA-sweetly]

No one had to convince me of wisdom! Thank you for the advice.. 🎯❤️

[@karenbailey921]

Listen to the Sound, wisdom, and knowledge that's coming from the man of God. Mr. Tony Gaskins 🙏🏼🙏🏼🙏🏼💙💙💙📢📢📢

[@msboomsboo9543]

As women we are forever trying to tell a man about a man. We are women. This is why I have a small group of GROWN men that I Check in with... They sound so much like you..

[@RocSkater09]

Yoooo that is hilarious. People paying to debate is crazy. I'm have to agree with Tony. As a man, I feel less then going online seeking a relationship. Never have and God forbid I ever think less of myself. When I tell ya! There is so many woman out here and not to toot my own horn or nothing but they just won't stop seeking my attention. I got swipe left in real life! Plenty of jezebels out here. Lord keep me!

[@priscilla6977]

Thank you Tony for blessing us daily!!! You’re the big brother I never had.

[@TwilaB0721]

On-Dating sucks! I can vouch for it!

[@winning3329]

Nothing but dumpster diving

[@SmileyQueenlife]

This message was good Mr.Tony, I used to be on dating apps and I thought they were ok to be on but now since I been watching your videos about online dating I changed my mind. Thank you for giving us the game. I been listening to you for about 4 years now and I learned so much about men

[@PearlLoves1YAH]

Once again...the Genious speaks again. Ladies, listen to TG. He is called by God to help us. Take Heed!

[@karenbailey921]

Amen, Amen I totally agree TG man of God he is

[@bunnygirl3357]

The first 5-7 minutes 😂😂😂😂😂

[@jam1369]

THANK YOU Tony. I never felt comfortable about online dating. This is so confirming. I pray for those who are not listening. 🙏🏿

[@FamousGirlK]

I love this channel. I’m never settling! I feel like this is the dad I never had. ❤️

[@Tiggity80]

Tony ain’t lying. The men online dating are grown boys

[@sross1990_]

Never had a good/decent experience with online dating - NEVER!

[@cynthialacey9595]

Thank you for this . I’m 60 and single and several folks have told me to go online and find someone . It doesn’t sound like a good idea !

[@lefthandedmystic777]

The world is too damaged to worry about dating anyways . Real love is found within . Real love is unconditional and very rare now days . Too many operate from their lower self but good luck to anyone who found the one . I’m done living in lala land . These folks not right how many times we gotta bump our heads ?

[@mr.brooks9802]

I’ve had great experiences with online dating. If you are desperate online you are desperate offline. Just take your time and use discernment. Even in this video Tony said the people “had a look” about them.

[@angelamoore261]

Tony I understand your point some people don't understand that their situation or the people who they know are usually an exception to the rule

[@angelamoore261]

Or they don't understand the whole situation

[@kayjeffs3741]

I think maybe some years ago...online dating was fine..but not now. Tony is right...stay away from online dating!

[@1922mistyblue]

Thank you Tony. I had been on the fence about online dating and now I see why.

[@msbubblyqueen3536]

Tony I'm 47 & Found Out Years Ago Online Dating Is The New Horror ..I Was In My Late 20's & I Said Never Again… Your Right We Don't Listen To The Advice Bcuz Hunnie It Only Take One Bad First Time Apple ..Tuh Too Never Ever Again…I'm Still Single & Abstinent Kids Are Grown No Drama Here & Don't Want It...Either We Meet Face Too Face Nothing Less I'm So Good❤❤😊

[@InGodITrust-u2c]

It's not just dating sites...it's anything online. You may not know how easy it is for them to research you and come prepared to deceive.

[@staciadavis3714]

Thank you Tony. You are always on point!

[@ericahenderson2425]

Thanks Tony! That was the real TRUTH💯.

[@lisamcpherson8947]

That's the truth right there no lie tony

[@veeyanaweva]

i just watch the whole video you did about that today and then all of a sudden that reel popped up. the world needs this, even if it only helps 1 person to take themselves more seriously

[@ya_sopretty]

U better speak 👏 🗣️!

[@genesedonald3229]

Tony Gaskin is now the only relationship coach I listen to now, I was listening to some of the ones that have been called out. Tony is the real deal and is crazy funny,😂😂. He speaks about how we should go about this dating and marriage to way the WORD OF GOD TEACHES, and most want to do it their way and it fails us every time. Let's try it GOD'S WAY AND SEE HOW IT GOES. GOD BLESS YOU ALL ❤🎉

[@sylviasalcedo8569]

These statements should scare us enough "he gettin the lining wore out of him",,,,and "you got a daughter?, she gettin touched"..it did for me...mission accomplished Thank you, Tony

[@eagles-soar]

THANK YOU MAN of god for your WORK, my prayers are for you be blessed!!!!!

[@tequila1816]

Thank you again Mr.Tony, I’m listening

[@victoriawest5477]

I agree I absolutely don't want any man online , I tried online 7 years ago, and I was online for 2 weeks, and it was ridiculous 😫 so I've never done it again.

[@goldengodyse1685]

You need to host a couples match making event or seminar.

[@jenniferpoitier]

So true Tony so true I did meet a good man online. We’re only friends now, but he wasn’t a weak space when we met. And clearly, so was I. Thank you for keeping it real.

[@kimberly0717]

I met a man in 2016 online and our chemistry was on point. We were different in many ways, but can talk about anything and everything. Yet, he wasn’t ready for anything more and after a while I was so I decided we’d be better friends so I here what we are. I actually spoke to him yesterday. 😊

[@PatrickGrant-i9e]

He ain't telling no lies

[@erieb720]

Tony didn't tell any lies. The truth cuts like a sword.

[@queenkeesh8660]

Online dating got worse then before people jump in my inbox to waste time n or talk sexual n that’s instant blocked a real man has confidence n approach me off line

[@NaturallyTi]

Some of us women are so hard headed and know-it-alls. He isn’t lying. Wisdom is knowing you don’t know everything. Best dating advice I’ve ever followed is from men revealing themselves or sharing about male behavior. I sit and listen. A woman’s silence is power, especially in dating. So hush and get blessed 🤫

[@sherrielee7537]

Check out Hardly Initiated - episode with pastor Tim and Princella. Wish you were involved in that discussion . There needs to be a part2 - and they need invite you.

[@zoejaiattoh1243]

It’s mind boggling how ppl just don’t listen to sound advice. Please 🙏🏾 have patience with them brother. May God give you strength.

[@Kingme1love]

It’s soooo funny cause you say every time and I always chuckle, keep at it Tony we forgive you 😂

[@jlove2smile]

You are on point!! I want a man not a boy!! All that online dating is not it.

[@Kaye.Nicole]

"And you know why my options are endless to cheat on my wife because it's always going to be millions of women who don't listen"......tell them again Tony. I see it in my everyday life with women I know.

[@germiabaptiste1179]

Hi Tony @tonygaskins, I love and appreciate your message. Thanks for always taking the time out to pour into us. I do have a question. My issue has never been attracting men. It has been attracting a man of quality who is a Christian. I've realized it's been getting harder and harder to find a good, God-fearing man. Even in the church, there are more women than men, and the men it does have are already taken. When men approach me outside the church, they aren't typically Christians. If so, only by name but their lifestyle aren't reflective of that. Do you have any advice on where Christians can meet each other? In regards to online dating, I've had my co-workers set up an online dating account for me because that's how they've met their spouse. They tell me all the time I shouldn't be single, but online dating is just not for me. I deleted the app after a month. I've always preferred meeting someone organically. It's just something I admire about men who have the courage to approach. It just exudes masculinity, and I have more respect for them.

[@thecouragejohnson]

Hey @germiabaptiste if you're truly a Christian, just follow Jesus. Stay in him and you'd know his heart for you. Also, position yourself well, as who you truly are. The right person will find you. Trust me.

[@zero1188]

Not really. Online works. Like in real life, sometimes it works, sometimes it doesnt

[@hellothere8347]

I’m not doing online dating. It ain’t never that deep too me honestly

[@Cece-cares]

I like the y’all forgive me it’s awesome keeping it going 🎉😂😂

[@jasminemcguire7298]

Right Tony you said it your talk has to match your walk. Those you try to help the most. They don’t agree totally with the word of God. I know you not paying them no attention. But you got a heart Tony that’s why you went to explain. Like you said some just won’t listen and it’s sad….

[@ShanniSlayTV]

If they believe in it so much then why don’t they have nobody and been in there years that shows that it don’t work right there

[@shaybutter3403]

Lol I am cracking up. This video was right on time!

[@ladykadiijha]

My uncle told me he got online because he really wanted someone and he let desperation take over. He ended up marrying a woman that his sister (my aunt) introduced him to and they have a child and seem to be happy together. They have been married for 6-7 years now I believe.

[@queenkeesh8660]

N I met me exes off Facebook never again n ig I was finna start talk to him but he seemed crazy too I’m done with online crap

[@sheilagrant4530]

I love truth❤I thank you and appreciate this information. To God be the glory! 🙏🏽👍🏽🫶🏽

[@brownsugarglamour]

Tony isn’t lying! I’ve been SA from the app, men wanting move in or use me for money. Had to get off! Tony knows, I shared with him directly!

[@Szey79]

I absolutely love your videos! Praise God for speaking the truth 🙌

[@stilettosnstethoscopes9109]

lolllll about the hat… you are hilarious! Thats why I like you because you from the South! I get you brother!

[@ebangoosa]

Hopefully, there are billions of 'exceptions to the rule '🏃🏾‍♀️🏃🏾‍♀️🏃🏾‍♀️

[@eurspenc]

Jesus!!!! God bless you Sir!!! Keep it all the way 💯!

[@abbiewalker3730]

Omgggggg!!!!!! I’ve been saying this since I was younger! The men on there just 19:33 don’t seem right to me!!! Not my thing! No thank you. Good for you and ya friend who found happiness online! Y’all be well over there.

[@Always_Leveling_Up]

The “We buy homes cash” is probably a group of whole sale investors 😂

[@HSBsoulsurfer]

My online experiences were all bad, and admittantly, all the experiences had an lgbt thing going on. The issue is, though, this appears to be the entire generation.

[@luevondataylor6286]

👍 thank you

[@Deede913]

If Tony was bashing women. The would be all in these comments and Hi five TG all day every day 😢

[@Erika-f1f]

I totally agree with you , online dating is for impatient people . The word of God “ wait upon the Lord again wait on the Lord !!! He will give you the desires of your heart ❤️

[@glendanesmith]

& thats that ON THAT!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

[@ashleybrown1637]

And we’re going to forgive ya every time!

[@PopFizzPaperDani]

I would get eaten *alive* on dating apps. No thank you 😂