The Masculine WIFE.

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Chloe_

Chloe_

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@tonyas.6148
@tonyas.6148 4 ай бұрын
Ladies PLEASE send this video to ANY MASCULINE WOMAN you know including ones in your family 😢
@Gtamuva
@Gtamuva 4 ай бұрын
I hate to admit it. My mama is a masculina. I watched my mama work (she was married to my dad until he passed) my daddy didn’t work. He stayed at home, on the couch watching tv while my mama worked and payed allll the bills. She had no time or energy for any of her kids. My mama is 64 now and she didn’t age well. Masculine energy will drain you of your essence
@LisforLiving
@LisforLiving 4 ай бұрын
My uncle and his lady are the same way. This man sits back and let that lady do everything! It's sickening to watch.
@baba_agba
@baba_agba 4 ай бұрын
Pápá was drizzled
@Gtamuva
@Gtamuva 4 ай бұрын
@baba_agba 🤣 I had to think aboout what you meant
@tarao4382
@tarao4382 4 ай бұрын
@@Gtamuva Sorry, I must ask. Was your father disabled? Why didn't he work? Was it their agreement to have him home with the children?
@Gtamuva
@Gtamuva 4 ай бұрын
@@tarao4382 his first wife put him on child support and he didn’t wanna pay it so he didn’t work
@Besafe782
@Besafe782 4 ай бұрын
I gasp when she said he walk pass his dad and brother to go get his mother to fight😢 it say a whole lot
@NkNk-vg8fc
@NkNk-vg8fc 4 ай бұрын
I CAN RELATE TO THIS ITS EXTREME
@MSSHARIII
@MSSHARIII 4 ай бұрын
It's insane 🤯🤯🤯🤯
@shianeharris1340
@shianeharris1340 4 ай бұрын
That’s what I’m saying. What the heck is going on here??? 😢😮
@leona2222
@leona2222 4 ай бұрын
I left a fiancé because of this. He never stood up for me, never protected me, and he felt very feminine in a way that made me uncomfortable.
@Haterzarefans
@Haterzarefans 3 ай бұрын
Good for you! I'm glad u had discernment
@F3f3333
@F3f3333 4 ай бұрын
She was very vulnerable, you can hear how tired she is. I cringe when women will act like zena in front of men like why girl his muscles heavier than yours!
@Atim-q6q
@Atim-q6q 4 ай бұрын
Her Sons will now grow up as feminine men, expecting women to do everything for them. I’m glad she’s now self-aware. Love to her ❤️
@rhe987
@rhe987 4 ай бұрын
Them Nigerian men be like this .
@englishblade
@englishblade 3 ай бұрын
yup, these are the men who love saying, but mama did everything and women these days dont do anything like their mothers did, too masculine, when in reality its the opposite
@lizzyboo567
@lizzyboo567 4 ай бұрын
Unfortunately I grew up watching my mom operate like this woman
@Elijahboy555
@Elijahboy555 4 ай бұрын
Same hun
@Itcouldallbesosimple45
@Itcouldallbesosimple45 3 ай бұрын
Please, what were your father's duties?
@realashandaatlarge
@realashandaatlarge 3 ай бұрын
Indeed, I did too. My mom taught me to never rely on a man. She had no idea just how damaging her words were.
@Ohsnapitzann
@Ohsnapitzann 3 ай бұрын
mine too
@Pinkpanda811
@Pinkpanda811 4 ай бұрын
"A maid and a bodyguard" 😩
@Lovingmylife24
@Lovingmylife24 4 ай бұрын
We teach people how to treat us. If my son would have walked past his dad straight to me, I would have immediately required he ask his dad and brother. Her husband probably seen her a mile away. He knew she would provide for him. Prayers that she can find healing peace and rest in this new season.
@crystalparris4012
@crystalparris4012 4 ай бұрын
He is a leech
@Thatgirl12-fp3uq
@Thatgirl12-fp3uq 4 ай бұрын
@@crystalparris4012 yes but she also allowed it.
@tabbievon1665
@tabbievon1665 4 ай бұрын
She didn’t know. This is a situation of ignorance. You can see she’s only being self aware now. More grace to her.
@MariaLeeVegas
@MariaLeeVegas 4 ай бұрын
This exactly. Also my husband never asks me to help him lift heavy things like furniture. He would ask one of his guy friends. My face was like 😧when she mentioned he calls for her
@iamhestiaamora
@iamhestiaamora 4 ай бұрын
If we had not pivoted, this could have happened to so many of us. I thank God for our willingness to change.
@SuperDB215
@SuperDB215 4 ай бұрын
💯 facts! Cause I was definitely on this path
@iamhestiaamora
@iamhestiaamora 4 ай бұрын
@@SuperDB215 listen, on the path straight to hell. I will forever be grateful for that first femininity video coming across my timeline in 2020.
@VBoo459
@VBoo459 3 ай бұрын
BIG time. This would’ve been me 6 years ago, God forbade it and got me out. Now I’m marrying my amazing providing masculine man in less than 2 weeks! So blessed
@iamhestiaamora
@iamhestiaamora 3 ай бұрын
@@VBoo459 congratulations! 💛✨
@laurar.5929
@laurar.5929 4 ай бұрын
Her story was my wake up call. My immune system is trash now thanks to having to be masculine in my marriage.
@claudettemcleod7877
@claudettemcleod7877 4 ай бұрын
I figured it out when I was sick, that I had a feminine man who depended on me for everything and would not step up and take the lead financially, and it was my wake-up call to leave the relationship because I might have died in it with everything on my shoulders, I was exhausted, with carrying another adult person thank God there were not children involved.
@24goodbuddy
@24goodbuddy 4 ай бұрын
My children's father lost his job when I was on maternity leave. I went back to work, but left him. Never again. I have been single since.
@lavishlystar
@lavishlystar 4 ай бұрын
This is so scary to think women really are over doing their parts 😫
@VerleanHurd
@VerleanHurd 4 ай бұрын
That's what happens when you just want to be married, or in a relationship. You settle for anything.
@tonileolion9702
@tonileolion9702 4 ай бұрын
I see it all the time in my friends and unfortunately I Can’t and don’t feel comfortable sharing happiness coz I don’t have them issues at all 😂
@eternalabundance39
@eternalabundance39 4 ай бұрын
​@@VerleanHurdthink you are right you will endure or try to endure so much.
@Mynameshelenbtw
@Mynameshelenbtw 4 ай бұрын
Yup. If these men are the only option, being single is better. Prioritize your HEALTH ​@@VerleanHurd
@VerleanHurd
@VerleanHurd 2 ай бұрын
@@tonileolion9702 I don't have them issues either. However, every woman don't have standards.
@Bottledinsights
@Bottledinsights 4 ай бұрын
This man was useless
@cartomancycarmen
@cartomancycarmen 4 ай бұрын
I am the youngest and only girl in my family so I’m the damsel in distress but men always expect me to baby them 😂 yeah ok. I also don’t date men who came from a broken home; I expect you to be the provider. That’s how I was raised.
@ADRIENNE-mb6ff
@ADRIENNE-mb6ff 4 ай бұрын
Chole_ I follow this lady on TikTok & have watched all of her videos & her entire life w/her FEMININE HUSBAND!!!! My heart aches for her. She has since gotten out of the marriage, but she stayed far too long & did too much!!! SMH 🤦🏾‍♀️- NO JUDGING, BUT THIS COULD/WOULD NEVER BE ME!!!🤞🏾🤞🏾🤞🏾🤞🏾🤞🏾
@ajohonly3721
@ajohonly3721 4 ай бұрын
The sad part about this is some masculinas will not watch this video and continue to break themselves down.
@fortunatebabygirl8812
@fortunatebabygirl8812 4 ай бұрын
Exactly!
@onevenus6040
@onevenus6040 4 ай бұрын
I forward stuff like this to my female friends and family members, but some get irritated! I wish this platform was around for me 20+ years ago!
@fortunatebabygirl8812
@fortunatebabygirl8812 4 ай бұрын
@@onevenus6040 so true. I just share on my social media that way it doesn't look like I'm forcing stuff on people.
@ManipuraCentreCo
@ManipuraCentreCo 4 ай бұрын
I can relate to this so HARD! And I just had a conversation with my husband yesterday about a divorce. Just having the conversation and having him agree gave me a huge sense of relief and freedom.
@NkNk-vg8fc
@NkNk-vg8fc 4 ай бұрын
DO WHAT'S BEST FOR YOU. WHAT MAKES THE BEST SENSE....
@TheCelmap
@TheCelmap 3 ай бұрын
Uuuaaauuuu how things is going so far?
@THutch80
@THutch80 4 ай бұрын
My husband won’t even allow me to lift anything much less help him move a table! 😩 I hate that for her.
@deepal3721
@deepal3721 4 ай бұрын
This is painful and sad to listen but it's also beautiful to see what a feminine awakening looks like. I hope she finds balance, it's not too late. 🌻
@l.mtselana9846
@l.mtselana9846 4 ай бұрын
OMG, if this isn't a wake up call, I don't know what is. I am shocked
@NkNk-vg8fc
@NkNk-vg8fc 4 ай бұрын
I AM....I AM BEYOND SHOCKED
@VerleanHurd
@VerleanHurd 4 ай бұрын
I'm shocked women are attracted to these types of men.
@phabulouss1
@phabulouss1 4 ай бұрын
This reminds me when my ex-husband allowed his father (my father in-law) to open my bedroom door, no knocking while I was getting dressed. I couldn’t believe it!! Both of them got a tongue lashing! My doo-fuss ex sitting with his dumb-mouth self. Both of them had no decorum, boundaries, etc., that’s why I’ve remained single for 30+ years. Thank you, ma’am!!!
@mistyfrost9974
@mistyfrost9974 4 ай бұрын
Is beyond madness, so good you left
@BVIEMPRESS
@BVIEMPRESS 4 ай бұрын
Say what now😮!?!? I have so many questions? How? Why? Why was he comfortable with his father seeing his wife's lady parts?!?!? The term enmeshment comes to mind.
@BVIEMPRESS
@BVIEMPRESS 4 ай бұрын
The term enmeshment comes to mind.
@Starr4242
@Starr4242 2 ай бұрын
Oh this is so true. I've seen something similar like this happen too! I was in complete shock.
@JewelPeace
@JewelPeace 4 ай бұрын
I can feel the heaviness in her voice. She is tired. The thought of divorce and starting over is scary. But she wants to live a happy and healthier life.
@onevenus6040
@onevenus6040 4 ай бұрын
When she gets out, she'll realize it was worth leaving and regret not doing it sooner!
@proudmarkers2880
@proudmarkers2880 4 ай бұрын
This is why being in your masculine all the time will hurt men too. My husband is masculine man with provider mindset, he work hard to provide and take care care of me and his family but it takes a toll on him physically mentally and emotionally. That I always make sure he get proper rest, appreciation and love from me, so he can refuel his masculine energy.
@Evanescene8444
@Evanescene8444 3 ай бұрын
I love this. He knows that although he's working hard there's someone soft and nurturing awaiting him.❤
@Boopooh43
@Boopooh43 4 ай бұрын
I feel for this woman and hope her physical and emotional health is restored. I've had to gather up a few men in my past for thinking I was going to be some kind of working pack mule, running myself ragged for nothing. When I see them coming with that feminine energy I'm gone.
@ChanelandWine
@ChanelandWine 4 ай бұрын
That is a sad, lonely, and stress life. I'm happy her eyes opened.
@truthinchocolate6156
@truthinchocolate6156 4 ай бұрын
I wish my mother new this. She passed away from always having to live in her masculine energy.
@fatsani27
@fatsani27 4 ай бұрын
Same!
@d.y.h.w.
@d.y.h.w. 4 ай бұрын
Mines too
@plmitch
@plmitch 3 ай бұрын
😢🙋🏾‍♀️
@kayway4014
@kayway4014 4 ай бұрын
“Like I’m the goon in the family “ took me out but this is not funny and I feel for her so glad she is aware that is the first step
@raquelmacdonald8572
@raquelmacdonald8572 4 ай бұрын
She looks soo trodden down jeezzz!!!
@CrystalCormier
@CrystalCormier 4 ай бұрын
Yep!!! Cause she's in her masculine energy like Chloe always says this is cautionary tale ladies. Smh
@sweetpeaj1952
@sweetpeaj1952 4 ай бұрын
Fr
@VerleanHurd
@VerleanHurd 4 ай бұрын
​@@CrystalCormier And, she's also had a stroke. Probably from all the stress of being a wife and husband.
@Banzii_Mavuso
@Banzii_Mavuso 4 ай бұрын
Boo hoo. Black women protect these men so much but they will never ever protect their own sisters ever, so I feel nothing for those who are going through it.
@Belevaqua
@Belevaqua 4 ай бұрын
Poor angel. I would love to send her on a month long vacation and enough money to START OVER! God will give her “double for her trouble”….but she needs to switch it all up!!!! ✨💄✨💋✨💝✨💐✨
@beauphomasterpiece3795
@beauphomasterpiece3795 4 ай бұрын
I am in the armed forces and on my way towards retirement. I have been so cognitive of this phenomenon. Once men know I’m in the military it’s like they don’t feel like they have to treat me like a lady like opening the doors , etc. I know part of it is that I have to show myself feminine and I do just that but once the occupational is known.. they have treated me differently. I agree with what you say .
@ochacal7794
@ochacal7794 4 ай бұрын
How can a men protect you if you had military training 🤔?? It's like a chef 👨‍🍳 demanding someone who cooks eventually to cook like a pro... no! Those who can do better the work should do it!!!
@beeznhoney4323
@beeznhoney4323 4 ай бұрын
OP, I'm just glad you recognized the pattern and shift in behavior when males find out you're a military person. A lot of superhero women think it's noble to fly their masculina capes in vain. Perhaps you tell your dates that the senior staff were so kind and _protective_ of you. Lay it on THICK how the men were rough with other military women, _but not you,_ they respected you and treated you like a professional _LADY_ 🐞
@beeznhoney4323
@beeznhoney4323 4 ай бұрын
​@@ochacal7794 Sir, your comment is OP's perfect example of unjust harsh treatment towards a woman. YOU proved her point🤡
@ochacal7794
@ochacal7794 4 ай бұрын
@beeznhoney4323 how? If she is a Navy SEAL, how can a man who was never a solder protect her?
@VerleanHurd
@VerleanHurd 4 ай бұрын
You control that. Regardless, of your occupation, a man will never twitch up. You were dating boys.
@LadyCharity
@LadyCharity 4 ай бұрын
It is sad that so many folks EXPECT a BW to mule no matter what. The minute she wants to lean back in her feminine she is out of pocket and undeserving. The woman being overworked literally AGED her. I had a client tell me that she just wanted emotional support from her spouse even if she has to pay bills :( My prayer is for a purpose-driven, protector and PROVIDER gentleman. If God can do it for the lady at the end, he can do it for me as well in Jesus Name, Amen!
@sidnisera
@sidnisera 2 ай бұрын
“the more feminine that a wife and the more masculine that a husband the stronger the chances of relationship harmony and survival” this is how God designed marriage to be in the *first* place. This entire video is describing my family, particularly what my mom has been going through. It’s like she’s been sacrificing her femininity most of my life with always being the provider, the protector, the independent black woman, and especially being a single black mother. I’m going to break that cycle because I wanna be more feminine and I want to be a soft girl because I love when a man is A MAN. Great video!
@yourentrepreneurjourney
@yourentrepreneurjourney 4 ай бұрын
This lady needs to get rid of this clown stat! Women being in the masculine too long causes her health and well-being to be ruined. I am glad that lots of women are seeing this and taking charge of their lives. Hallelujah 🙌🏽👏🏽🛐
@30daysorless8
@30daysorless8 4 ай бұрын
Tha issue is a lot of women say yes to whatever man ask for their hand in marriage. Woman should be picking the man they want. The same effort you put into picking the best college and the perfect job, do the same when picking a man. I know some women who like to be large and in charge, they don’t let their men be men, this is what happens.
@darkknight_8891
@darkknight_8891 Ай бұрын
THIS!!! like it's all the man's fault YOU CHOSE HIM AND OPENED YOUR LEGS!! alot of these masculine women are narcissist!
@Tephiffany
@Tephiffany 4 ай бұрын
I've experienced a few men like this Typically they the "nice guys" without any assertive, even when necessary, they cant seem to get important things done, smh Great commentary I'm so glad she moved on and prayfully she'll heal to her real feminine self!
@tam697
@tam697 3 ай бұрын
This almost made me cry. I feel like I’m heading down this road. I’m so glad she was brave enough to share this.
@rosegreen8441
@rosegreen8441 4 ай бұрын
5:35 Wow! She's doing more as a married woman than I am as a single mom 😢😭
@fatsani27
@fatsani27 4 ай бұрын
Bruuuh I’m a single mom as well and I outsource as much as I can!
@NkNk-vg8fc
@NkNk-vg8fc 4 ай бұрын
THIS IS INSANE....
@cv8452
@cv8452 4 ай бұрын
I think sometimes it feels good for women to be needed and never create boundaries especially with family. Then they become aware like this woman when it starts to affect their health, etc. Some women become aware but choose to stay out of fear or comfort of knowing what they are dealing with and not wanting to start over.
@BlackPositivityChallenge
@BlackPositivityChallenge 4 ай бұрын
Sending hugs and wishing that every woman awakens to her SOFT-BIRTH-RIGHT.🌺🧘🏾‍♀️😘 Thanks for sharing this Chloe!!🙏🏽
@90s_baby222
@90s_baby222 4 ай бұрын
💜💜💜 Thank God for cellphones & internet. We are learning from women we would probably NEVER Meet! And I'm forever thankful! My heart goes out to her.... Sending u Peace & Calm Energy!!! 💜💕💕💕💕💕💜
@Belevaqua
@Belevaqua 4 ай бұрын
I have been so blessed to be allowed to enjoy my feminine roll. My poor mother-in-law lived like this poor woman. She was married to a man child….When he wouldn’t build or fix things- she would do it all- and he would LET her! She aged terribly, and died of cancer so ANGRY! She was never treated like she was adored. No gifts, flowers ,hugs.😢 I have three sister-in-laws who have decided to never marry …...( I wonder why.)
@tlockha2
@tlockha2 4 ай бұрын
It’s also very possible that when she was younger, stronger, and healthier she enjoyed being in her masculine. Maybe over the years her husband stopped trying because she wouldn’t allow him to lead the family. Now that she’s older she no longer wants the role and wants hubby to take over the reigns and he’s like no, you wanted to be in charge keep doing it. He probably doesn’t want to be the cleanup man for the mess of a life her leadership has produced.. 🤷🏾‍♀️ her truth may not be the whole truth of how they ended up here
@24goodbuddy
@24goodbuddy 4 ай бұрын
Always the woman's fault. (Sarcasm) Men lead, women follow. Men initiate, women receive.
@tlockha2
@tlockha2 4 ай бұрын
@@24goodbuddy No it’s not always the woman’s fault, but sometimes what we are seeing is the direct result of her own stubbornness. Men can only lead a person who will follow.
@Parfumchloe
@Parfumchloe 4 ай бұрын
I am so glad this lady woke up and is planning her exit before the lifelong masculinity takes her life. She is so worthy of relaxation, rest, joy, and healing. 💫 *Can you share the content creator's name at the very end? I love to hear womens testimony from being in survival mode to thriving in their femininity! 🌸
@knowledgeispower7531
@knowledgeispower7531 4 ай бұрын
I feel so bad for her. She will probably end up having to be alone for quite some time to really really reset and to ease into her feminine hopefully starting with some serious self pampering. Unfortunately feminine energy is a huge affliction of our African American men. I used to be a huge tomboy as a teenager but wanted to change as I got into my early twenties. As an adult I have not really attracted African American men, which is something I still don’t understand to this day, I mostly attracted foreign men of all races. I have really found that foreign black men are not at all into role reversal and I have always attracted foreign provider men from the time I changed around 21 years old. I love hair and makeup and I have been told by both men and women that I’m super charming, polite and flirtatious. Even though I’m perceived as very feminine, I actually don’t feel so in the inside. I have to stop myself from trying to do “manly things” like fix things, carry heavy things, handle things myself etc. I’m not sure how to reconcile that even though my husband is a great provider…
@VerleanHurd
@VerleanHurd 4 ай бұрын
Self pampering the physical and the mental.
@Melhanilifestyle
@Melhanilifestyle 4 ай бұрын
I will never understand a woman choosing to keep a man around who is a net negative 😒. I'd rather be single doing it by myself. Stop choosing to be on the struggle bus with a man I beg!!
@BlackFairy-zk7wl
@BlackFairy-zk7wl 4 ай бұрын
Your wife shouldn't have to say anything if someone if coming for her . Period !
@VBoo459
@VBoo459 3 ай бұрын
Bless her, better to realise late than never. But let this be a lesson to us women. STAY HELPLESS even if you’re fully capable. Because men will treat you how you show up. I have a slick mouth and in the past I would go off at grown men (at the same time my ex was aggressive so I fed from that pot of aggressiveness). Men who would’ve cussed at me before, open doors for me now and call me princess now. I had to work a lot on it. But the less masculine I am, the less I’m in such situations.
@MillenialKay
@MillenialKay 3 ай бұрын
So eye opening This is still one of the most well put together and researched feminine education channel 👏 🙌🏿 Cant subscribe anywhere else
@empress6678
@empress6678 4 ай бұрын
That lady looks so drained.😢😢
@deneenlazard7014
@deneenlazard7014 4 ай бұрын
Oh my this scares me soo much. My last relationship I was feeling like a man. I hated everything about it. Now I’m in a healthy relationship and sitting in my feminine energy and continuing to work toward being more feminine
@siyashilla6885
@siyashilla6885 4 ай бұрын
I believe us men were created to protect and to serve .
@VerleanHurd
@VerleanHurd 4 ай бұрын
Definitely.
@jill616
@jill616 4 ай бұрын
I always tell my 5 year old niece (my sister's daughter), "Rana, stop acting like a boy or else they will treat you like a boy! And remember to sit like a lady. " because this generational MASCULINE programming of girls needs to stop in my family. MAJORITY of Filipina women needs to see this video. What's more depressing is, this role reversal practice in the family is considered normal here in the Philippines. And i hated it.
@GoaWay...
@GoaWay... 4 ай бұрын
Really? In the Philippines too?😮
@bratbonanza9023
@bratbonanza9023 4 ай бұрын
Yes lol. I'm half Caribbean and half Filipina and a lot of Filipino men are content to let the women run the show. Like idk if youre in the US, but in the US Filipina women are known for being hard workers and working tough healthcare jobs, etc. I have a very nice but dusty Filipino uncle who grew up in the US and moved back to the Philippines. ​despite having an american college degree, he's fine letting his wife be the breadwinner (they have a 1 year old child and the wife never stopped working). Meanwhile my uncle basically pursues his hobbies and makes no real money. His wife (i say wife but theyre common law) also does the brunt of the childcare @GoaWay...
@GoaWay...
@GoaWay... 4 ай бұрын
@@bratbonanza9023 thank for telling me. That's sad though that it's like.
@onevenus6040
@onevenus6040 4 ай бұрын
Surprised at this! I know a lot of BM in the military who sought out these women supposedly for being feminine, but I'm thinking now it was more like docility and hardworking that was the attraction
@stansmiley9737
@stansmiley9737 4 ай бұрын
@@bratbonanza9023I’m from south Florida and all the nurses there were filipino and they worked seven days a week and if they could work 24 hours a day they would.. their husbands barely worked and how do I know.. I built great relationships with them so I know their lives.. so ur definitely right about Philippino men and Indian men were doing the same thing.. Indian nurses work seven days a week too..
@geemalia1420
@geemalia1420 4 ай бұрын
Sending the lady in video lots of love and light ❤💫❤. Proud of her for being open to change and for prioritizing her well being.
@wanjirunjoroge5942
@wanjirunjoroge5942 4 ай бұрын
My grandma was a punching by for my grandpa. My mum was rhe 1st born and my grandpa's favorite and made sure she had an education and went to college and her independence. She had me at 29, she's 74 now. She was the only person in her circle who did have a child as a teen. She married my dad who is in his feminine lol. My mum paid 80-90% bills, worked and run rhe household. She says she's happy with him because he didn't want to dim her light and isn't violent so she's content. I'm theb1st born , self sufficient and struggle with rships because I have always had to dim and minimize myself for the providers I attract. I have reconciled that I am happier single and retired from dating 2yrs ago. I've never been with a feminine man, I'd be disgusted.
@towel8115
@towel8115 4 ай бұрын
So sad i was just in a similar relationship for 16 years im a 44 year old woman the man i was with is very feminine & was not a protector at all he actually put me and my children in harms way then ran somewhere safe for himself i am now free from that i left him almost one year ago never turning back & trying to focus on better & elevation 🙏🏾
@onevenus6040
@onevenus6040 4 ай бұрын
Happy you left and won't go back ❤
@leratononyana8277
@leratononyana8277 4 ай бұрын
My gosh can you imagine being seeked out to lift heavy furniture modimo I would die a million deaths
@tamaramlindi
@tamaramlindi 4 ай бұрын
😂😂😂 yoh! Certain way to end up in an early grave
@iamcedricpowell8051
@iamcedricpowell8051 4 ай бұрын
I have been married to a woman for 14 years that tries to put me in the same situation. Be the man and woman. And it’s not possible. So men and woman do this. It’s horrible. Men and woman must be wise in choosing a spouse. Both partners must understand their role and be willing to grow into it. I don’t agree with men saying all women are the same. Because they are not. And women should not say all men are the same because we are not! Be blessed
@Belevaqua
@Belevaqua 4 ай бұрын
It is good that you put this cautionary tale out for young women. At the end of the day, he isn’t gonna treat you and cherish you like a precious woman if you act like a dude. The lines have become too blurred these days. It’s fine to help each other out a bit, but still bask in our rolls we were meant to have!!!
@blossomwithgrace
@blossomwithgrace 4 ай бұрын
And I pray she gets a second chance. You can tell she’s super sweet and super loving and just simply didn’t know better.
@neriahwilliams6906
@neriahwilliams6906 4 ай бұрын
Ahhh Sunday treats with Chloe_ ❤❤❤ always here for the schooling
@danaalexandria1743
@danaalexandria1743 4 ай бұрын
Chloe thank you. Cold hard truth. I appreciate woman like you.
@KeenyaTheStylist
@KeenyaTheStylist 4 ай бұрын
Absolutely, yes! 🌸 Waking up, leveling up, and embracing the beautiful provision and protection we deserve. 👑 Cheers to us for seeing the light and knowing our worth!🥂
@TolzThundercats
@TolzThundercats 4 ай бұрын
When she said her husband made space for her to be in masculine roles, he sought her out :(
@Timwinful
@Timwinful 4 ай бұрын
Please strengthen this lady lord! Gosh felt sorry for her. Glad she woke up knowing she deserves better.
@hadijakalyegira4107
@hadijakalyegira4107 4 ай бұрын
Great message, time to exist stage left ladies. Time to focus on self. ❤
@cbrown4293
@cbrown4293 3 ай бұрын
Queen, from one woman to another....thank you .Just thank you for sharing your struggle and your realization..... at 43 yrs old ,u may have just saved another woman's life from losing even more years
@Prettyinpurpose101
@Prettyinpurpose101 4 ай бұрын
Wooow 💕🌸 don’t settle ladies
@YGabi333
@YGabi333 4 ай бұрын
I am so in my survival role for so long that I didnt even know. This video came at the very best moment for me to remember that I am a woman!❤
@Financialride
@Financialride 4 ай бұрын
Ooooh Chloé 🥰🥰🥰 thank you for this video as it is right on time as I ended my call with a masculine man I am dating. I can’t describe the feeling it is to have a man in his masculine, healthy masculine divine. I can rest. I have always known, for sure that when it comes to me, I will see it and recognize it as I wasn’t sure about what was wrong (feminine content: I discovered it in my early 30s). How calm am I around that man. He leads in love and with so much love that even it is stops tomorrow, I have tested what it looks like and I am not going anywhere lower than that. I can understand this auntie sooo much. Without having the right words, my feminine devine always ran away as soon as I knew that man wanted me to be a masculina. My intuition wasn’t having it. Not knowing How to vet men made me get into relationships with them, but as soon as I was in and I could feel that this is my future, I was OUT. No question asked. I wish I can get old, at 90 years, so anything that tear me down, gotta go. No matter who, what, where, when, you gotta go, or I gotta go. This situation will eat your entire life, faster than a blink and they will continue their lives. I wish this on nobody I know. And there are women of our generation still doing this, despite everything available. You have to see How many of them would mention « but me, I would still build him up » under some feminine divine content.
@bridgetmurithi5615
@bridgetmurithi5615 4 ай бұрын
It's unfortunate that there are so many women who are still going through this and still unaware. What's even worse, in my opinion, is there are many men who are groomed to be passive and do not know the role of the masculine. Good thing is there is light, we are seeing more and more women awaken and collectively we are changing the narrative for this and future generation. Thank you Chloe for all you do, we can never thank you enough ❤
@barbaramorris5397
@barbaramorris5397 4 ай бұрын
I worked hard on getting rid of my masculine traits and adopting more of a feminine mindset when I was in my mid thirties. Got remarried in my late 30s to a financially stable man but he definitely okay with me taking the lead and I found myself over the years reverting back to past behaviors (im the primary driver, i organize all appointments, i keep a list of whats needed for the house, i plan vacations, i let him know when to take the cars for oil changes) things like that. Its starting to drain me again.
@MSSHARIII
@MSSHARIII 4 ай бұрын
Better late, than never 😢. Beyond the tiredness on her face you can see that this woman is very beautiful, hopefully she gets far away from that parasite and lives out the rest of her years in complete peace, harmony and happiness!💖
@cocohitchman3209
@cocohitchman3209 4 ай бұрын
So glad I found your channel Chloe even tho it’s later in my life the feminine education I have learned has been helpful and life changing. 🙏🏾 That lady is a testimony to all masculine women with feminine/non providing men. I might be tired of western culture dating but I’m still confident that I will now choose & find a provider masculine man no matter what, if I have a child or without. ❤
@charliecharles8517
@charliecharles8517 3 ай бұрын
I am 5 minutes in - thank you for this video. May God please help this lady and all those like her. This stress is probably what led to her stroke. This is TOO MUCH!!! God bless and restore her. ❤🙏🏾
@josephineedward8233
@josephineedward8233 4 ай бұрын
How do you cut grass as a married woman 😢?
@likhonancate3366
@likhonancate3366 4 ай бұрын
Always on time babe ❤❤❤❤❤
@VerleanHurd
@VerleanHurd 4 ай бұрын
Im praying for her spiritual, physical, and mental healing.🙏
@thekarmendanielle
@thekarmendanielle 4 ай бұрын
Yess thank you for this important Sunday word 💕💖
@CrystalCormier
@CrystalCormier 4 ай бұрын
And let the church say amen sis!!! We as single women especially black women need this word.
@SuperDB215
@SuperDB215 4 ай бұрын
😢 there is power in a testimony. I hope other women see this and decide to put down the sofa… this reminds me of women I’ve known growing up. I hope she gets to experience softness and protection in the years she has left
@F3f3333
@F3f3333 4 ай бұрын
Omgggggggg yes thank you Chloe ❤❤❤
@klae7058
@klae7058 4 ай бұрын
Chloe again thank you I have been subscribed for 3 years now. So much self healing so much time alone and loving myself thank you for the push! New ladies or lurkers take what resonates and I hope your personal mission or journey becomes clear as it has for me❣
@BatsiraiMusuka
@BatsiraiMusuka 4 ай бұрын
3:34 l don’t know American culture that well… but here’s me thinking… “Men don’t just jump into confrontation… we are not ‘goons’”. We assess situations, we definitely are not led by our teenage children. We guide… and only when the other party proves a danger to us and ours do we then and only then escalate the situation into a confrontation. And even then we will try keep it non physical.
@nessaearthangel
@nessaearthangel 4 ай бұрын
Hearing this story from an older woman hits differently!
@onevenus6040
@onevenus6040 4 ай бұрын
Anybody want to bet that her husband asks for spousal support, even after all this? I'm sure there's a lot more that occurred than what we're hearing now! She probably had to facilitate her own rehab and recovery from the stroke despite having a husband and 2 sons! Pitiful
@tanyshapalmer5644
@tanyshapalmer5644 4 ай бұрын
Truth...Truth...& dare I say more Truth 👏 👏 👏
@soulfulfilled4382
@soulfulfilled4382 3 ай бұрын
She also needs to start saying no to anything masculine
@stephaniepierre8496
@stephaniepierre8496 3 ай бұрын
sending her lots of love
@ThisIsGenevieveSaintJames
@ThisIsGenevieveSaintJames 4 ай бұрын
Love the clip at the end! 💕💕
@ayemelinda5796
@ayemelinda5796 3 ай бұрын
Unless she is a nurse, only black women work outside the home after dark. I never notice any other women but us working after dark. Is it me or what?
@PEACE_HAIRGREASE
@PEACE_HAIRGREASE 2 ай бұрын
Facts
@heymisswest
@heymisswest 4 ай бұрын
It's heartbreaking 💔😭 but women literally sign up for this... PLEASE leave these men and situations alone
@moreni2nd405
@moreni2nd405 4 ай бұрын
🥹😭 Omg!!! You can feel the pain in her voice!!! She is exhausted!!!
@darlenerosa
@darlenerosa 4 ай бұрын
Always look forward to your videos ❤❤❤
@Forflower33
@Forflower33 3 ай бұрын
This made my heart bleed when my husband hugs me my 4 year old son wants to fight his own dad because he thinks his dad squeezed me to hard. This poor woman
@_itsmejanae
@_itsmejanae 3 ай бұрын
She's telling it ALL !! this lady is tired 😫
@MysticButterfly22
@MysticButterfly22 4 ай бұрын
Couldn’t wait to see this one.🙌🏽😘
@nessawithsmiles
@nessawithsmiles 4 ай бұрын
I sent this to you as a video request! Glad to see your take!
@bbgirl800
@bbgirl800 4 ай бұрын
I want to stay how do you get to that point? Live out of balance that long, have a whole stroke and still don't make a change. But it's probably common.
@crownhoneycleaners5553
@crownhoneycleaners5553 4 ай бұрын
Fantastic video and analysis Chloe. Thank you. This is something I constantly beat my drum about
@empress6678
@empress6678 4 ай бұрын
It is gonna be very hard for her to get her balance back. 😢
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