The Massive Differences Between Westerners and Filipinos!!! Maybe We Can Learn Something !!!

A brief talk on the huge differences between Filipino and Western People !!!

[@jerrymarshall2728]

When I first got here, late December, until I moved here permanently, end of May, I had too much negativity. It was a byproduct of life in the U.S. But some time in June, I noticed that I was on a more positive trajectory! I'm still working on my positive growth, and everyone around me is noticing.

[@andrewwhite1968]

President Reagan and Speaker of the House Tip O'Neill, a Democrat from Cambridge, Massachusetts, were friends. They didn't always agree, but they were civil toward one another and played golf together regularly. They talked and listened to each other. Those were the days. We need more of that today.

[@MrSteven5975]

@@andrewwhite1968 Both were a Rarity today. Most don’t understand

[@rickyt739]

Agree and enjoyed your topic and video. For our own wellbeing we should surround ourselves with positive optimistic people which brings the best out of us. Then too, there maybe some people who are drawn to us looking at our very positive outlook on life and enjoy being around us. Then as a very optimistic person we should strive to bring out the best of people that gather into our own closer circles of friendships.

[@maggiejohnson629]

It's accurate for people from my generation to have that resilience. I agree that we tend to have a more positive outlook and can find humor in tough situations, allowing us to laugh about them, move forward, and remain hopeful that things will improve if we put in the effort. We are grateful for each day and believe that better days will come. In contrast, I might say that the newer generations seem to struggle more mentally and emotionally, as evidenced by the high number of suicide cases among them and their tendency to complain excessively about everything. There is still a more optimistic mindset in my community and circle of friends.

[@clarkgordon2160]

My mother is German 1921, though 65 year old USMC

[@lazylarrylee2421]

Steve, positive people are happier because they don't expect the worst to happen.

[@jamesmacdonald9205]

About the first comments, Steve, I agree that our generation and the two previous, in N america, found ways to succeed after picking themselves up. And my wife certainly is like that, but mate, a lot of poorer province people, I feel give up too easily. Instead of taking those needed risks, they stay poor because of fear of failure. But they are outwardly happier than our current western entitled newer generation. Being brought up as a "depression" kid, as my parents were born in 32, and I lived most of my childhood with parents and fathers parents, made me more like a pilipino, not to mention that I lived in Asia for the better part of 4 years when younger, and it made me appreciate what I had, and have.

[@mrbrown9z]

Nice guitar on the wall.

[@MrSteven5975]

Thanks!

[@Srichardson64]

Hi Mr Lawrence...not even half way through your video...BUT want to agree about the filipino mentality...so caring happy and loving...men and women and always so polite////ok back to your vid

[@DanielFernandez-jv7jx]

The average Filipino is a believing Catholic, practicing to some extent. Love of God and brother may have something to do with their happiness and kindness. I don't mean to exlude other Christian denominations. These too contribute to the joy and gentleness of heart born of a life of faith.

[@UlilangMatapang]

Meanwhile on the other hand the WHO stayed that 150+ Millon Philippines are also suffering from depression so we need many sources to find a medium.

[@jsully4064]

There are a lot more cranky people here in the US. Its hard to keep positive when one of these negative people have an effect on your life, have to remind myself that is not who I am and to be positive. Do wonder what kind of expat I will become, an introvert perhaps, or will I look for Americans to hang out with, or maybe I will learn enough of the local dialect to be happy talking with the local Filipinos. Am mostly a positive person but can get cranky sometimes, am not perfect. Think its when things happen to us that we weren't expecting that can impact us and then we over react maybe. Unfortunately am working part time now and still have to deal with others at work, one day will be able to fully retire and enjoy my life and not be so affected by others around me who are not happy with their lives. Thanks for posting, Steve...Jim

[@rl8571]

The Philippines is only at president 7 after martial law (17 total since independence)while the US is at 46 (30 after the Civil War). That is a huge age gap for government growth and maybe the US current government culture is just reaching the age of senility while the Philippines is still far from being a teen. Just something to think about and consider. Good vlog topic as always. Thanks for sharing.

[@earthequake1]

Steven, please send me a link to the transportation service for the SRRV. I have an appointment with Mary Rose for next week.

[@MrSteven5975]

Email me at [e-mail] and ask for my number

[@denyswoodroffe490]

There is also a large differences between a Kiwi and an American. I see this is why a Kiwi gets on better with the Filipino people.

[@highclassbum2538]

Kiwis are prob raised on a more positive healthy enviroment vs americans being raised on almost all negative enviroment

[@steelguitarunionhall]

Always a danger to generalize. And I would say that the American expat community is hardly representative of the american people as a whole. Your experience of our generation is vastly different than mine. Not to put too fine a point on it, but our generation (I'm 70) created the personal computer revolution. The Internet Revolution. Your ability to make money online and reach thousands of people sitting in the philippines is the result of the work and ambition of OUR generation.

[@muzon81]

Filipinos are generally happy because of support groups...doesn't matter what it is..whether it is the extended family, drinking buddies in the street, internet chat groups, etc...the need to connect to someone is foundation of happiness because even though the world would shhiiit on you, at least you are sharing it with someone

[@GeraldBeagan-ee6se]

That’s likely it

[@pa4765]

Thank you for the nice video. Positive thinking is key. I found that a challenging life is more exciting and beneficial for me. God Bless and you're family.

[@bornonjuly7052]

Americans are mostly Christians and so the Philippines but the Filipinos walk their faith as what the bible says" Love thy neighbor "

[@elitepctech]

As far as being a senior citizen, Rammstein's lyric "So jung und doch so alt".

[@vincen.4151]

Great video ! I find when visiting in PI, the cashiers at Starbucks, grocery stores, are all much friendlier and positive. The people at the gyms are open and friendly. They make me feel better and probably happier too. they lift my spirits just being around them. Be nice to people wherever you are.

[@mrdc2778]

Bad JuJu! 😂 HA 🐝 Positive. Have a good night.

[@elitepctech]

Rush said it best in Tom Sawyer. "Always hopeful, yet discontent"

[@MrSteven5975]

The Drummer was a good author also.

[@elitepctech]

@@MrSteven5975 - Yes. Neil Peart.

[@Phoenix_Renatus]

Anxiety, depression, and insomnia. Sounds exactly like me but my meds are hit or miss. Are you on anything? Can't imagine 4 days no sleep. Yikes

[@Zihuatanejo...]

After watching Elizabeth Gilbert: Your elusive creative genius on TED, a thought came to my mind. What if depression is a entity that comes to you, but you have power over it. So the second that I started having depressing thoughts, I said out loud "leave, get out of here and never come back" That was 20 years ago and I haven't since then been depressed.

[@stan1027]

I've heard expats talk about how friendly the natives there are toward them. But I'm wondering if they are as friendly toward each other as they are toward foreigners. Is it real, or just a facade?

[@bornonjuly7052]

Yes sir the culture of Filipinos are clannish and tribal. Would you believe that until at this present in the provinces when a relative or a friend visits their houses the household will serve them great menu of foods like chickens or special fish if they are in coastal areas . They will give them blankets, towel and other things that the household never use but just for visitors. These are the treats that make the family closer and frienships stronger.

[@stan1027]

@@bornonjuly7052 Another question comes to mind; what happens when one Filipino is caught stealing from another Filipino? Or is that something they only do to foreigners?

[@bornonjuly7052]

@@stan1027 sir there are bad people anywhere in the world and so are with Filipinos. There are some cases that some relatives condone the misdeeds of their relatives.But in random situations like in many many places of the country especially in the decent urban villages overwhelming majority of people does not condone the misdeeds of their relatives and friends who commit mistakes or crimes. Great majority of Filipinos values honesty and integrity since our country has a literacy rate of about 94%.

[@constantinemandylas715]

Thanks, good video.

[@MrSteven5975]

Glad you liked it!

[@rogerbryan3023]

Philippines is now very much like England was 40 years ago

[@samual3006]

🤣🤣🤣🤣 What planet are you from.🇬🇧

[@johnhuge3972]

When it was still English!!

[@samual3006]

​@johnhuge3972 Must admit its not England as I remember the good old days.The Philippines Philippines is a dump and always will be I'm afraid.

[@rogerbryan3023]

@@samual3006 ❤️🇵🇭

[@rogerbryan3023]

@@johnhuge3972 Absolutely Sir One of the big reasons why I live here now in the beautiful Philippines 🇵🇭

[@petepinal8415]

Hey Steve, it’s me, Pete, Good topic, I think the word you’re searching for that describes Filipinos, is that they’re “resilient.” I’ve heard many other Vloggers use that word, to describe Filipinos, 😎👍🏼😉.

[@ghostwolfx]

When Filipinos rally behind their elected officials, I just want to say that's not necessarily good, and the western politics isn't necessarily bad. There's a reason the Philippines is so poor and it's because they keep electing terrible leaders and not being critical of them, and not diving deep into the policy and whatnot. There's a reason the US for all it's faults is the wealthiest country, and it's because people really care about who they elect and that fervor is part of what causes democracy to put up better candidates, because bad ones illicit a lot of justifiably upset citizens. The division in the US is because unfortunately propaganda has done it's job in confusing the public, but ultimately the root of it is that people care about their country and want it to go in the right direction, and so they fight for it, and let me tell you, if you don't fight for positive change, you'll never get it.

[@edwinwerdna7061]

Please see the two latest Leah and Blair Slog videos and your thoughts if you agree with their fight to include ten USN personnel in the Vietnam war memorial wall.

[@accord50]

I know that you don't discuss issues on your channel, but this is the utmost importance. I want to relocate to the Philippines. I would be relying on my Social Security and VA benefits to live off of. With the presidential election coming up, and one Canidate saying he's going cut social security and take away our VA benefits how would an expat survive ? I would be in a foreign country with no physical means of support. This scenario could become a reality. What if anything would you recommend ?

[@MrSteven5975]

Never going to happen.

[@accord50]

@@MrSteven5975 And you say because you know what ? Read the broken down version of project 2025. Before I post anything on this platform I do my research Project 2025. If you think average people are “ignored” now and in dire straits, enactment of Project 2025 under Trump will make you miss the good old days. Partial list of proposed changes by Project 2025, with chapter and page references: • Privatize Social Security (c22, p715) • Privatize veterans' healthcare (c20, p635) • Decrease regulations in healthcare (c14, p450) • Reduce funding for public health programs (c14, p455) • Repeal the Affordable Care Act (c14, p460

[@gerrymcnally9344]

Very true words. I'd rather be around Filipinos. They are happier and uplifting. The US is going down slowly as well as other countries. And I'm getting crusty in my old age. But the Filipino effect gets me out of it. I'll be going back in October. Testing the waters on a longer stay will be. I've been on shorter trips, but slowly they get longer. We shall see the effect. Great video Steve.

[@danielprout3837]

Great lines

[@stoicfreediver]

60 is not “elderly” if you’re not obese and stay fit. My 94yo expat buddy runs 10km three times a week and knows how to use the latest apps, AI, etc.

[@theasianjaywalker4455]

He should be featured as a guest as almost all humans are dead before 94 and its astonishing he runs 30 km a week. Do a video on this absolute extreme outlier you used as an example of elderly people!

[@markreynolds5363]

I can’t agree with some of this one. Too many stereotypes for me. My experience is that people are people, and they’re all pretty similar. Most are good/positive people whatever country you’re in, there are a few negative people in any country and they tend to try and recruit others and drag everyone down. Same everywhere. What’s different is the economy, and that makes people behave differently. Poverty explains most of the differences between the Philippines and NorthAmerica. But that’s just my opinion. Good content, nevertheless. Keep the videos coming.

[@MrSteven5975]

As I said I’m not stereotyping but going off percentages.

[@markreynolds5363]

@@MrSteven5975 yeah, I know you said that. Still, I hear a lot of stereotyping in this video nevertheless less. We may have different definitions of the word. Still a worthwhile video.

[@martyg1717]

Although I agree with most of your videos this one I do not. I found the Filipinos to be lazy and ignorant for the most part. I found it to be an extremely passive aggressive Society. I also disagree if you bring one over to the United States they will change, I lived over there did not like it at all, mostly because of the people to be honest, but I did meet a wonderful woman and brought her back she is the same now as the day I met her. Although it is true, chances are marriage will work better in the Philippines, they do not allow divorce that is the main reason, just my observations and my personal opinion

[@MrSteven5975]

It’s ok to disagree

[@PracticalPerson2024]

Good video Steve. It's no easy to explain what you are covering here but I get it. I have thought a lot about these differences in American culture and Filipino culture over the past 5 years. I think it's not so much that Americans these days do not have ambition as it is the Internet just keeps droning on about the extreme examples. Much like all the news ever showed us (and still does) are the worst of other countries. If you went by the news you would never believe that almost 2 million Americans have moved to Mexico and live there. "how could it be when that is all drug cartels and so dangerous!!" ha ha So a lot of it is conditioning. And going along with that is another big difference. Something that I have realized over the past decade and come to dislike more as time passes. In the USA... "everything" is such a BIG DEAL. Even the slightest little thing is often blown out of proportion and causes trouble for people. We have a culture where "everyone" looks at other people including their neighbors with a crooked eye because people have been programmed to "see something say something" watch other people and distrust them and report them. All of that in my opinion... taking everything so overly seriously... attacking other people with calls to "authorities" and so forth over trivial matters... that is largely all missing from many other happier countries including The Philippines. Life might be harder in many ways in other countries but it is not as stressful because not every little thing can cause you trouble as it can in the USA. Just my 2 cents.

[@PracticalPerson2024]

Really it is both far simpler and far more complicated than what I wrote because there are multiple factors that cause this huge difference. And the simple way to sum it up is that in the USA everyone is raised from childhood on to be independent. Basically everyone is encouraged to "be out for only themselves - look out for #1" - whether that was intended or not. In the Philippines, the culture is not only much more family-oriented - it is also Barangay as in neighborhood-oriented. And here is a perfect example of these things... earlier this year my girlfriend's cousin birthday celebration was going on. It was 1:30 AM and they were still going strong on the karaoke. I laughed and asked my girlfriend "one of the things I love about the Philippines is I think you are supposed to stop this karaoke around 10 PM but people just ignore that and yet nobody has tried to cause your cousin any trouble by contacting the local authorities. In the USA someone would have called the cops by 10:45" She said "Of course not! That'c crazy! Over here we are considerate of other people. Nobody will contact the local authorities about someone having a celebration because those other people know they will want to have their own celebration in the future. We wouldn't want someone to cause trouble for us just for having a celebration so we do not try to cause trouble for them!" That really hit the nail on the head. In the USA, in general, all thinking about courtesy and consideration seems to be people talking about how they want everyone else to be CONSIDERATE OF THEM... it is more a self-centered view without any real thought of what the other people want. AND it is also almost like some people just enjoy trying to restrict everyone even when they are ultimately hurting themselves too. And what she was describing was more of a mutual respect and sense of unity to "watch each others back" Basically they know it is always best to keep things between themselves. Of course, if there is a problem the local Barangay will work it out with no punishment to anyone involved the majority of the time.

[@cmorales5]

That’s a Les Paul design guitar….

[@MrSteven5975]

It’s a good guitar!!! Love that thing

[@dovoso5685]

The difference started when they took god out of schools.

[@ross9580]

Nah. There are a handful of countries already with more than a third of their population identifying as atheist or agnostic and they manage fine. If someone needs the fear of God to be a good person, maybe they're not so good after all.

[@ross9580]

Deleted comment. No surprise

[@comodice905]

Bloke not any really difference al same same shipmate

[@atricate5928]

bro you my man and everything but it is not like you to be over analytical .You really dont know ,you need to think bro people work jobs in America more than one job America is America . You live here in Asia bro it is different that is why you here dont be comparing bro it dont mean much man , Of course it is life its your opinion but really dont over analylize do you vote in the philliphines. what you really know about work life here of course your opinion matters . Bro in the long run bro really knowing everything is just an opinion comparisons in the long run are changing every day.

[@MrSteven5975]

I worked 2-3 jobs till I left the USA

[@atricate5928]

@@MrSteven5975 exactly people work it up to you.

[@atricate5928]

@@MrSteven5975 people are people it there drive and ambition don't really matter where you from. And being poor bring more drive and ambition if you positive.

[@johnbergeron9997]

Yes in my time Reagan was our very best president