The Men are BACK 😯| POP THE BALLOON OR FIND LOVE! Ep.8 REACTION

[@KiteZz_]

For those who want to see SPECIFIC PEOPLE! Time STAMPS 00:00 INTRO 03:13 Lashawn 37:22 Alexis 1:24:30 Ivory 1:51:37 Jasmine (white Dress) 2:20:37 Shelly 2:53:46 Jasmine (Black Pants) 3:22:15 Monet 3:50:11 Our closing Thoughts

[@lorab74]

Like he rode the short bus

[@lorab74]

His extention span is short

[@kingmark4233]

The out love comment was trash....he wasn't cooking at all. She was talking about reciprocity and I agree. Reciprocity is a requirement because you don't want to be the one doing everything while your partner doesn't reciprocate....you don't want to be in a one sided relationship.

[@devrikcoleman]

Not going to cap, y’all give a lot of good wisdom in dating and relationships. I appreciate your insight and the fact you guys love God make that much more better. Thank you 💯

[@KiteZz_]

Thank you so much, this feedback means a lot to us, we are glad that we could give God and some Insight any way we can 😄😄

[@FromRoyalty1]

I'm 21 and I can't get enough of them.

[@HomeVidEdd]

A lot of good, some off-the-mark takes but that's what discernment is for.

[@GodsHappyFamily]

I second that 5:22 ❤

[@REDDCLAY804]

My wife stayed with me and we're still together after I was paralyzed... she's a RIDE OR DIEEEEEE !!!

[@KiteZz_]

She is a Gift from God and deserves to be CHERISHED.

[@condesabeatriz9303]

Blessings!

[@Caramelized_Suga]

She's your wife. It's a difference

[@asiadailey82]

This is hilarious 😂 yall was both confused calling eachother confused 😅😂😂😂 I really like yall

[@KiteZz_]

I think I was the most confused as I re-watch it 😂😂

[@asiakayla1]

@@asiadailey82 lol they are hilarious. Im on my 4th video

[@MrBossmanL]

First girls name is Lashawn, she didn’t like the fact that dudes name is Keishawn

[@KiteZz_]

Yeah, unfortunately we didn't get to review the peoples names until we were Uploading and making timestamps, then it clicked for both of us.

[@Mr.Bathelus832]

Because of a name is absurd. lol

[@Jessica.Shawnte]

It sounds like siblings twins even 😂

[@condesabeatriz9303]

Hilarious!!!

[@Caramelized_Suga]

Omg I know i wasn't buggin I was just saying her name gotta be LaShawn or something because his name is Shawn, clearly why her nickname is LaLa. Like come on man your wife was correct and you was the clueless one. Your wife was correct when Lala real name is Lashawn so she didn't give her real name.

[@CallMeMaykes]

The five love languages is a pretty popular book. They used to have the Author on one of the popular Christian stations my parents used to listen when I was a child, but it was written in back in 1992! There’s a quiz online that helps determine what you perceive to be/how you best receive love and I think it can be helpful information in any type of friendship/relationship! Ie) If words of affirmation is my love language but my significant other’s is physical touch, his physical displays of affection may not mean as much to me. I could be feeling like my “love tank” is close to empty because I haven’t received the words of affirmation I crave, while he thinks he’s doing a great job showing his love. The purpose of the 5LL is basically to allow you and the other person to effectively communicate your love for one another.

[@KiteZz_]

Thank you for explaining this for us 🙏😁 it makes sense now.

[@katevans4616]

Dr Gary Chapman still comes on Moody Bible Institute radio on Saturday afternoons . The name of the show is Building Relationships with Dr. Gary Chapman.. People call and leave their questions and Dr. Chapman answers . There was a Christian movie that was based on the book, I believe the film is entitled Firestarter.. He has many books, now I believe the latest is The Five Apology Languages.

[@jaydajohnson1706]

Thank God for his wife … because him thinking love languages is a nuance from the pandemic is wild. Love languages are apart of human psychology

[@KiteZz_]

I married young and was not social media raised. Love language was not anything I heard growing up at any point in cali. I didn't hear about love languages at all until I actually started content creation. Reality is, whats normal to you may not be normal to me 🤷‍♂️

[@HomeVidEdd]

​@@KiteZz_This comment isn't a good example of being humble when you make assumptions. You should admit that you were kinda just yapping to be fr. It's not even an issue but all of that you said was not valid excuses.

[@jaydajohnson1706]

@@KiteZz_ that’s one reason why I said … “ thank God for your wife”!

[@KiteZz_]

Theres nothing to be humble about, if I say I had never heard of Love languages before content creation, its not a flex nor is it yapping. If something doesn't make sense to me I have the free will to speak on why or how it doesn't make sense to me and also give my opinion on it. Like stated before whats normal for you may not be normal to me. Just because you and the people around you have deeper understanding of love languages does not mean its something that is commonly spoken about every where else. 🤷🏾‍♂️

[@73mskeith]

I just became acquainted with pop the balloon and the reviews. While I enjoy these reviews, this couple talks in absolutes. “Everyone…most…etc”. Unless you’ve done research, the information is misleading and only from your perspective which seems to be “know it all” and judgmental. Food for thought. IJS

[@JaiMarie86]

In regards to the “ride or die” conversation, I think she was saying “that’s a man’s perspective” to mean “you’re a man, and ride or die is usually more beneficial to the man, and that’s why you don’t understand me seeing it as a negative.” I see where she’s coming from, but I think she’s dating on defense. She doesn’t understand that she’s basically telling the men “I’m not loyal,” when she’s meaning to say “I won’t blindly submit.”

[@DancingandEmphasizing]

Love this take! They knew exactly what she was trying to say. Kitez even read three different definitions that said the thing she said and he still called her a liar 🤦🏾‍♀️

[@Caramelized_Suga]

I tell men or people I'm wifey material not ride or die.

[@valyncia3961]

Joe has me saying “that’s peace” too Alex 😂😂😂. Loving the hair also!

[@akareactions_]

Thank you ❤ And Joe & his peoples are funny to me lol 😂😂

[@dimitriassession2327]

I was patiently waiting for my 2 favorites to recap this episode. Love y'all takes

[@KiteZz_]

WE HERE! Hopefully you enjoy!

[@dimitriassession2327]

@@KiteZz_ Hell yeah

[@alan.jb_]

Y’all have me cracking up every video. I love these videos!

[@brianaknowles762]

About wanting a leader/provider, it’s about trust. People are entering relationships when they struggle with trust or continue to be with someone that they don’t trust. If you trust your partner you’ll let them lead. Instead of saying you want a provider or you’re a ride or die people should focus on building trust and getting to know someone. Cause you can say you’re a provider all day and night but can I trust the words. I wish they were required to provide examples/show your work when they give answers like in job interviews. Like oh you’re adventurous tell me about your last adventure.

[@valyncia3961]

So excited to watch with you both! One of the more mature episodes for sure

[@KiteZz_]

Yeah for sure it was. There was some HICCUPS but here we are !

[@veriteetfeu]

The definition of “ride or die” that you all found on Google sounds like it matches her understanding of the concept- at least the way she was explaining it. However, when she first used the term, she did apply the meaning that they guys have. So, in short, she’s not “ride or die” in any sense of the term. 😂

[@KiteZz_]

I see what you mean, and yeah she wasnt 😭😭

[@Raidan97]

The love language has been around for at least a decade, people just recently have been starting to actually read and do research on their partners. A lot of therapist offer and suggest these books so that way can learn other peoples communication style and how differently it is than you, especially when it comes to how they expressed their love. being able to figure out how your partners love is expressed you are able to love them better and it reduces divorce

[@asiakayla1]

Yes its good for all relationships, even with your children and friends.

[@BrandiMadridd]

I am BUGGGING why yall so funny😭 you doing the workout math

[@joodeeboochoo]

02:24:09 I thought the entire video had paused by itself. 😂 I stopped and looked at the screen and no one was moving. I thought, “Wait…why did it stop by itself?” Then one of you moved and I figured out you two were in deep thought. 😂😂😂

[@KiteZz_]

It be like that sometimes 🤣🤣

[@MoniVenSmit]

I also thought I wanted 5 kids until I had my first one and she humbled me real quick lol

[@CullodenJones]

My gf said that, but I told her I lead the direction of this ship, and I decide how many seeds is reasonable for the garden!

[@MoniVenSmit]

@@CullodenJones girlfriend? Lmfao

[@aliciaaa6021]

@@MoniVenSmit lmaoo

[@Jessica.Shawnte]

@@CullodenJonesyou literally thought it typed it and posted the comment???

[@seventyNG]

Monet was a whole crashout 😭 I started dying when she got mad at onury’s answer then randomly threw in “the scarf, the glasses, everything’s throwing me off”

[@MrRodiculous]

new sub, only feed back i would give is kitezz you let a lot of these people effect you emotionally. Much love for y’all content because it’s needed from a relationship prospective.

[@KiteZz_]

Thats fair 👍

[@nathiSTEFF]

This group was really cooking with more in depth questions

[@whollyshift7782]

Alex is so beautiful 😍 thanks for the content yall and thanks re-recording…that’s a lot of work lol

[@KiteZz_]

We do it for yall 👍

[@akareactions_]

Thank you!!

[@73mskeith]

I completely understand and agree with the young lady in the green. Being supportive through hard times is one thing. Riding blindly for foolishness is another.

[@shaelovesJesus]

KiteZz googling be tickling me 😂😂😂

[@CognitivCole-zx6xf]

Just bc you haven't heard of something doesn't mean it wasn't in existence. He so controlling damn. Why you try to control your wife? You're annoying

[@KiteZz_]

You are in too deep 😭😭. Just click off the video, my wife does what she wants when she wants 🤣🤣

[@shaelovesJesus]

Love Language have been around for a long time. So long. I think it matters in a relationship.

[@elissj7065]

Ok timestamps 👏🏽

[@SleepyJu918]

I love y’all reactions. The black love between y’all 2 is pure BEAUTY. Let’s give all Praises,Honor and GLORY to the Most High GOD of the Bible. ❤️

[@KiteZz_]

Amen 🙏

[@successafterlockdown]

21:32 La’Doordasha😂

[@X4hunterx4]

Im glad I found you guys. Hello from the 652.

[@CK7Breeze]

You need to also accept when you’re wrong. The woman said from her perspective ride or die means something and then you disagreed and read the definition which is different to what you both said but you still stood on her being wrong but she was right. Her perspective was different to hers.

[@sunnygibbs925]

If you search the book "The Five Love Languages", it was published from 1992....so it's been out for a long time. I found about it when I was getting married, when it became relevant to me. It's a good book!

[@Raidan97]

I love how there’s a lot of people who don’t understand astrology, or the spiritual aspect of relationships and yet dog them, if you learn someone’s astrology, you learn someone’s love language you learn all these little things about them. That is less likely that you will divorce later, a lot of y’all grandparents knew a lot about this without having the definitive terms for it. They just said they knew each other in another lifetime.

[@rockon8174]

🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄 No. 😑

[@condesabeatriz9303]

​@@rockon8174😂😂😂

[@HomeVidEdd]

Knowing someone's astrology has nothing to do with a lasting relationship. My fiancée is a Virgo. That information tells me nothing about her.

[@Tcab96]

I’m embarrassed this has any upvotes

[@PreciousSullivan]

The guy in the red hat is giving me Metro Booming

[@UniquelyAttractive]

I love hearing the keyboard sound before they give their opinion lol

[@KiteZz_]

We are sorry 😭

[@alexisjames3444]

Alexis is just strong headed because of immaturity, a ladder 🪜 have two ways up and down, when we fall we would like for someone to be there to help pick us up, and a person have to be open to learning (maturing) don't matter the age.

[@HomeVidEdd]

What you talking about Willis?

[@malcolmd7050]

Lool, with the first guy who zoned out… another reactor said they ADHD going crazy before he even spoke 😂

[@KiteZz_]

The insane part, towards the end of the video HE WAS ACTUALLY INTELLIGENT. I guess he just needed a while to get out of his socially awkward shell.

[@malcolmd7050]

@@KiteZz_ forreal

[@Bronzerbabe94]

Sunday starts the week MONDAY starts the WORK week by HR standards

[@nicolettelivingston3797]

I've never verbalized or understood that "non challant people" infuriates me. I knew I couldn't put my finger on something about them but I finally know what exactly i couldn't put my finger on.

[@alexismyers1698]

Thank you guys 😂😂 it was definitely an experience 😅

[@KiteZz_]

@alexismyers1698 Thank you for watching, hopefully what we say did not offend, we are not God so what we say isnt law. Just purely reaction 😁🙏.

[@TheVexedScribe]

This line up of dark skinned men is outstanding

[@brandonmassingale6911]

That chick in all black she giving me set up vibes and gold digger vibes forreal I wouldn’t waste any time getting to know her there no point.

[@CK7Breeze]

Rico is Terrance twin in how they sound

[@nickbongos]

Why the woman in the green at the end was saying yes yes when all the balloons were popped

[@hortensiacontreras4944]

Commentator is being one-sided 1hour in with the lady in green 💚 she has a valid point, she's clearly explained and it makes perfect sense. we should stop dating potencial and see people for who they are.

[@KiteZz_]

We just see things differently, and thats okay 👍

[@shaelovesJesus]

My husband and I have disagreements but we don't argue. There is no yelling at one another. We voice our concerns and listen to each other point of view without hollering at each other.

[@charlessmith8638]

Le-a😂😂 I'm about to crash my car

[@KiteZz_]

Drive responsibly please 😭😭

[@burnthrust]

Dude got eliminated for his hair texture. Imagine the outrage if a woman gets eliminated for her hair texture 🤡

[@KiteZz_]

Don't say that too loud brother 😭😭

[@alan.jb_]

I saw it more as being appreciative for a texture that is deemed less beautiful. Most ppl look at that man’s hair texture as being “good hair” Just like when people come on and say they prefer darker skin… it would come off differently if they said they preferred lighter skin. Just my perspective

[@alexismyers1698]

My only push back is that y’all read the definition 😂 and it was what I said lol 😂😂

[@KiteZz_]

This is true, by defenition you are correct. The way people interpret it is also important because defenitions are not always created based off the majority. But again, yes you were correct!👍

[@asiakayla1]

Exactly!!!!

[@rockon8174]

51:51 women overseas are very much accountable. Very much! Thailand, Japan, Phillipines, DR, Eastern Europe, Russia, Africa, Saudi Arabia. Where there is no Welfare State, the women own up to their decisions!

[@honks9484]

Have you been to any of those states?

[@Yo-ey4ue]

@@honks9484countries*

[@asiakayla1]

Lol you ok?

[@larrystephens3163]

Hold up im a double le amputee from a car wreck and I had a ride or die the only reason I dont now is because I fucked it up doin dumb shit and not taking accountability for my actions. It literally had nothin to do woth me losing my legs or my wreck ut had everything to do mwith my actions most women oare so shallow these days is disgusting trust me I know I deal with it all the time

[@OfficialCompact]

I hate these pop a balloon videos cause they always make A MID ahh girl get to chose between guys that not even in they’re bracket , im not sure if that’s planned but in the real world most of them wouldn’t even look her way unless they 8 drinks in .. and in other videos all these girls popping they’re balloons off of the first comment .. the guys actually keeping they’re balloons and observing as much as they can before they do

[@chaneloladele154]

History shows Women have gotten smarter and not staying in bad relationships. There was a time when women stayed because they had to or because they loved him even though the relationship was not good. On the other hand, the past show men expected women to put up with bad behavior or the bad marriage which is very much still going on today. This could be the reason men did not file. But again studies show women are more educated making more money and don’t need to take abuse. They want to be happy so they file for divorce

[@atlasbonds6095]

Considering there are so many methods where it's possible for the first lady to have kids that would still be hers/theirs, i don't think she needed to announce that. She still wants kids, it seems like, and said she'd go thru additional steps if necessary. Does sound like more of a first date convo, but i do respect her being that up front.

[@VYT6171]

I legally changed my name at 22. Best decision I ever made!

[@GodsHappyFamily]

How y’all make it through this video😂😂😂😂 almost 4 hours lol 18:52

[@Jessica.Shawnte]

I get what LaLa was saying about the name thing it’s childish but she has a point😂 they’re names are similar to the point they sounds like siblings twins even..

[@RodJoseph-b3w]

Not the trash cash sound bro. It was better than that. Good work! Ya'll coming up now! And we we Preciate ya'll too lol.

[@Kingmobe84]

People are becoming more aware of the psychology behind human nature mental health is more relevant now because of the toxic behavior and the necessity for individuals to heal which breeds a possible healthier long term relationship in the terms of a 50/50 relationship you learn over time the recipe behind two whole individuals becoming one unified entity which means we're only half of the body realizing your strength along with your partner along with acknowledging the weakness you basically fill in those patches when ones more depleted the other steps in for balance the act of service goes both ways love the video reviews you guys both cook together y'all create the ultimate feast keep feeding the people

[@Raidan97]

Also EVERYONE TAKE PSYCH COURSES IN COLLEGE OTHER THAN INTRO 101! U learn alot of relationship building mindsets

[@rockon8174]

Read Dale Carnegie.

[@flowergal253]

Love languages are based in couples therapy.

[@TheCuttaz]

Nice guys are empathic

[@chellez29]

Her name is Lashaun. She goes by "Lala." It's stupid, but that's her thing🤦🏾‍♀️

[@Hinokami777]

Bro I’m shocked you didnt say dude next to Rico look like Aff from Rdc 😂😂😂😂😂

[@smokeyyjohnson3826]

Had me dying 😂😂😂😂 your forehead to big 😭🤣😭🤣😭🤣

[@bsugarpot44]

You are not being honest. You are looking up who initiates divorce in general. The young lady is talking about a sickness, illnesses, or accident. Google, who leaves marriages when a spouse gets sick. Surprise, she was right.

[@HomeVidEdd]

I thought you were lying but looked it up and it's true.

[@rockon8174]

3:38:21 born in the 90's means you are 30+. By that time you could have a Trade like Plumbing or Electrician and afforded to buy 3 homes, easy! MeetKevin bought his first home at 19! Dude was born in the 90's! He showed folks how to get their first homes and he lives in Southern California. Making money is the EASIEST thing you will do in this life! Easiest! Especially, when you live in a country with a stable electrical grid and access to banking and capital!

[@HomeVidEdd]

False. The last 90s kids are 24/25

[@OfficialCompact]

Peep her face at 29:00 she obviously not used to being around these type of men or atleast having this type of dialogue with the mf

[@rockon8174]

3:39:07 depends where you live. Plus some kids live with parents that smoke and that ages them fast!!!!!! Kids be eating chemicals instead of food, too. They look prematurely aged, rather than mature.

[@rockon8174]

1:49:30 poor girl. She regrets it already. 😔

[@Girlmom3024]

Alex looks so pretty this video ❤

[@CullodenJones]

That B2K look up shyh , made y'all miss how he strolled off on yellow dress and and not give her an arm, or escourt her off the meat-market properly!

[@rodddb]

That whole lead a man spiritually things was scary. I wish she could have elaborated more on what she meant. It didn't help that she said she wasn't a traditional woman so I also wish she had elaborated on that more also.

[@SuperClayden]

@1:40 he sound like Omarion

[@sharondalewis1620]

Ooooh you talking about Stylz right?? Because I was literally thinking this way before I caught your comment 😅😂

[@SuperClayden]

@@sharondalewis1620 yeah lol

[@Clove.floatin]

If u understand hurt people hurt people u won’t take comments seriously. Bc I love you guys n if someone talking sht they life is sht n that’s fact . Yall king n queen!!

[@Gameboy_Quaddy]

Didn’t he say his business expanded 3 times and then 2 times or am I tripping 🤔

[@KiteZz_]

I think he did switchup 🤔

[@CullodenJones]

Yes, I think he is one of those guys who sends and recruits ppl fresh out of college and gets them to switch to A.T.&T as a sub-contractor!

[@skorwolf2719]

I don't think they was tryna roast the girl he really felt she had a big forehead

[@HomeVidEdd]

Exactly

[@jesstiss222]

I love Alex’s ad libs! And why is she so far away from a mic? Give her her own please! Bro keeps tryna snuff out her light instead of enjoying the seasoning that she’s adding to his fussy, judgmental, lowkey dry opinions. Does she have her own channel? Keep shining, sis!💖

[@KiteZz_]

😂😂 understood

[@shaelovesJesus]

Chile, the "ride or die" thing just took me out. Girl, don't speak for me. Red flags. Run

[@Hinokami777]

First dude look like a buff Martin Lawrence or am I tripping

[@reigng4804]

No lie Jasmine in the Black looks like a scammer 🤷🏾‍♂️

[@KiteZz_]

We on the same page brother, you see what we see 😂😂

[@malcolmd7050]

lol she just wants a man to fund her lifestyle since she’s in her juvenile stages, “mentally” it gives you a bit of insight on which kind of guys she dates also

[@lennypena5587]

MAAM MAAM BRO KITEZZ YOU HAD ME DYING!!!! But you were right that lady in the yellow dress was annoying as hell!!!! Beautiful though but how you’re not aware of the camera man’s job, you need to stay in frame!! And the host was trying to tell her several times to get closer. Great show guys

[@mikhailcrawford1165]

Ole gurl in green needs theory in my opinion. Most women are hurt, scarred on past relationships and they never recover. So they take stuff all the left or right. I would also add that most women arent direct and they dont stand on nothing..the same women that wants her man to play his masculine role to the T is the same women that wants to lead her men.ý

[@KiteZz_]

I get it, well put 👍

[@melaniemaat2801]

Don’t sleep on our short men! I’m 5ft. I actually like 6’0 and under 😊

[@Clove.floatin]

What does the robot say lol

[@kenriccook8489]

Chiefs are in Kansas City Missouri. We don’t associate with kansians lol

[@CullodenJones]

Barely in Missouri and St. LOUIS dont claim Missorian-nytes!

[@sharondalewis1620]

Ayyyyooooo 7:02 😂😂😂

[@peasinapod200]

Rico sounds like a younger Terrance.. am I crazy?

[@shaelovesJesus]

Alex, you good? 🤣🤣🤣

[@REDDCLAY804]

Preston sounds like Big Boogie

[@Ytremz]

Women are breeding out the short kings it’s sad.

[@CullodenJones]

White short dress sent her jab back, then she doubled down with a hair-line. I mean, send ur quick return-fire and stay focused on task, let's me know she is easily distracted! 1. Pants 2. Forehead 3. Hairline. OVER-KILL!

[@MatiLaQ]

1:16:18 Preach!

[@lorab74]

I am confused

[@Caramelized_Suga]

Saying you're not a red or die isn't a bad thing because as a woman seeing other females take that role end up having the short end of the stick or come to find out the man isn't a ride or die. I was always told i was a ride or die type of woman and i had to correct them and say I'm wifey. Because im not going to hold you down while you're in BS and I'm just the girlfriend riding hard for my man. Chile miss me with that. Im wifey

[@rockon8174]

3:38:25 bus drivers, postal carriers earn six-figure incomes! If one thinks they are above these type of jobs, they have nothing to complain about. There's PLENTY of work! Dating? In your 30's you should be married, not dating. 😑

[@lorab74]

Her name LaShawn

[@rockon8174]

3:47:00 hope she clips this. Your commentary is sharing gems.

[@johnnieblack1061]

Kansas City is in Missouri 🤷🏾‍♂️

[@jesstiss222]

1:37:20 - bro you keep going off about yellow dress exposing the set but i think you’re failing to recognize that she is probably trying to stand where she can see the lineup of gentlemen! How can she compare and choose between what she can’t see? I get your point but maybe Arlette and BM need to EXTEND THE SET a little or change the lineup angle so that the contestants have room to see better. Respectfully, you seem to make a lot of judgments based solely from _your_ limited or biased perspective (like saying Love Languages just became a thing since the panini just bc YOU hadn’t heard of it sooner) instead of compelling that maybe _you_ have the limited perspective and the person who’s aggravating you is actually acting reasonably for _their_ perspective. Step back, my guy! 😅