The Mixed Consequences Of Setting Boundaries

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[@agreatday9566]

This video came at the perfect time. I just did this with my husband (with whom I am separated but was hoping for a reunion)…and I was very afraid. Because of my abandonment wounds. But I realized I was abandoning myself by not setting the boundary, no matter what the outcome was…oof

[@phayes9346]

Oh my word, yes. "Abandon myself if not setting the boundary." So true, so true.

[@helenquinn9444]

Thank you for being so realistic about setting boundaries, there's lots of boundary setting information out there, but they often miss this part out, thank you.

[@cecilialhoward]

“You’re not responsible for someone else’s reaction “ ❤❤❤

[@Mberann]

Thank you for sharing your story Renee. Your videos have helped me so much with deep trauma and feeling powerless in time of court proceedings. Thank you a million times for being brave and continuing to move forward! Your approach is so authentic yet, sweet and in tune. It helps so many people just by you being you!! ❤ With love, Mikayla

[@klyrebird]

I am glad I found you. I appreciate this topic. I have always felt too scared to set boundaries. Over the years I denied even having needs because of this, and now I am working to reconnect with them. Most people, I find, get angry or take it personally. I feel that to truly respect someone, you need to know what their boundaries are. But I also find many people don't recognise respect. They don't perceive correctly others motives. I still detect the topic of feelings or anything deeper than chit chat to confuse people. It is a lonely existence for me, which is why having access to people like yourself helps tremendously.

[@positivity1990]

I know how it can feel to be scared to set boundaries and deny your own needs and happy you're starting to find yourself again. Also, happy you found a place that helps you feel more understood. Much Love

[@ikbelsoua]

I respect authentic people, that stand up for themselves. and I wish I could become one of them.. you are of great help Renee. Your videos are a great source of affirmations for me, and I also feel safe when watching you. Thank you

[@DmarrcaImage]

This is very insightful information. I had to set a few boundaries and it did not feel good at all. But it is done now and now I am feeling the aftermath however I feel much better because I was in my truth and so I am able to understand that their reaction is on them. This is much better than feeling not being authentic any day!!!!

[@cptheartist]

Thank you. I needed this

[@swaggkoolaid]

So good❤

[@positivity1990]

Appreciate this video, been doing a lot of deep work lately including have to have a difficult conversation with someone I've known the last 16 yrs the other day about boundaries and me possibly having to step away from them. It went better than I thought but I'm still at a place of seeing did they really take in what I said and change their actions. Either way, I'm at a point where I'm ready not to feel so drained from others constantly taking or me constantly giving too much and not enough to myself. Change is hard but beautiful.

[@phayes9346]

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