the most frightening days of my life

[@DnDShorts]

You can support CDH UK directly here: cdhuk.org.uk/support-us/ You can support the Sick Children's Trust directly here: www.committedgiving.uk.net/sickchildrenstrust/ I misspeak in this video, incorrectly saying that the 1/200 infant mortality rate is 5%. It is 0.5%.

[@theheroofmagicical628]

I hope your fundraiser is succesful!

[@robinthrush9672]

I'm glad they're doing well now. Small correction: 1 in 200 is 0.5%, not 5%.

[@herma-morashegorath6215]

Thanks for being here! Greet your family from us! Only best wishes! :*

[@isaacsehoo1484]

😊

[@NkosiKrew]

may god bless all of the baby

[@ChaoticTrapper]

I can't speak for everyone but I think I can speak for most of us when I say we're here for you and your family. Now and always

[@donut6429]

I don’t know about everyone else but you speak for me.

[@starry_wizard22]

You definitely speak for me. I certainly hope you speak for everyone, however naive that may be.

[@TheGMan0000]

You speak for me as well!

[@the_mad_fool]

AND MY AXE!

[@sairicfire101]

And my nerf guns!!!

[@reagrenwright4277]

Daughter was born a month premature. Her lungs were weak and she suffered from high levels of bilirubin. She nearly died the day after she was brought home. Wife did CPR on her and got her back. Took her to hospital where she was placed in a tank with ultraviolet light (phototherapy) in an effort to get her liver to start working. I forget how many days we stayed in the hospital. I don't try to think of those days. Today my baby girl is a D&D playing college student. Vote to make sure Healthcare is available to everyone and not just those with money, fame, and political status. And it's needs to be real Healthcare that keeps you alive, fixes what broken, and doesn't put you in debt for the next 10+ years.

[@taylorforsyth4278]

Your wife is amazing! I'm glad you guys were able to save your daughter and have her in your life.

[@elementual]

This made me cry. So so so happy that she made it. Tell your wife she's incredible for me!

[@davilox07_15]

I’m glad your daughter made it through those tough times. I in turn owe my life to the Spanish universal healthcare system. My skull wasn’t developing properly so without surgery I would’ve died or developed brain damage in the best case scenario. Healthcare should be a right and not a privilege.

[@DeadRobit29]

As a father, I was shaking and on the verge of tears waiting to hear how the babies were. I am beyond relieved that both of them are are ok.

[@angelmanfredy]

I had to read these comments to find out because there is nothing more devastating to me than the passing of babies and children. Thank God they are OK.

[@CasketOfHearts]

Same here. I nearly lost my wife and daughter during childbirth due to pre-eclampsia. Maxed out on three blood pressure medicines and still hitting 190-110, and then dropping not a minute later to 90-30, and the bpm for my daughter dropped below 30. The room filled with doctors who ripped everything out of the walls and took them both out, without saying a word to me about what was happening. All I could do was sit down and focus on breathing, because I knew if I moved I'd do something I'd regret, even though it was no one's fault.

[@DeadRobit29]

​@@CasketOfHearts❤❤❤

[@robertb6889]

I had twins that were in the NICU for 5 weeks. I was terrified. They were okay. But I have never been so worried.

[@SawyerAnderson]

Same my man. I’m just sitting in the break room hoping no one ask why my eyes are watery. Thank God they are okay.❤

[@DUNGEONCRAFT1]

Thank you for sharing. My prayers are with Atticus. Most people do not know my wife and I lost a child due to similar circumstances. We are lucky indeed, to be living in these times. Best wishes. Professor Dungeonmaster, Dungeoncraft.

[@DnDShorts]

I’m so sorry for your loss, and grateful everyday for how lucky we have been. Love you man

[@samaelblack8107]

My sincerest condolences, Professor Dungeonmaster.

[@BlaineKodos]

"Sorry if this video is a downer" as Atticus comes out swinging with a nat 20 Con save. You're a good person for wanting to support those who supported your family, and I wish nothing but the best for both of your nephews in the future. They have good hands waiting to help.

[@kevlar427]

Thanks to the hospital staff they were rolling with advantage.

[@WarbearPrime]

I almost lost my son when he was 11 to an avocado shaped, and sized, brain tumor. When I found out, I screamed in rage, fear and pain. I then collapsed to my knees. I sit here as I write this teary eyed, and hoping all the best for your sister, and all your family. If I wasn't already donating to those places that helped us out, I would give you some.

[@Yet_AGOTI]

Almost?! What a fighter! That is amazing! I do hope that that almost holds up to today and far into the future. May his life be long and happy.

[@WarbearPrime]

@@Yet_AGOTI He is 15 atm, and before he had the tumor, he was diagnosed with ADHD and Coeliac's Disease.

[@Yet_AGOTI]

@@WarbearPrime brain bleed at birth and made it to 35. Autistic, adhd, but still kicking. Your son is my hero of the week! What a legend!

[@WarbearPrime]

@@Yet_AGOTI Thank you for saying that, he is a bit of a battler in our family.

[@robinferdinandsen7122]

so happy to hear your son made it

[@SpectralSavaant]

I already knew Jocat was right, but yeah, he was right. You are strong. Thank you.

[@bruno_is_here]

This man is the strongest person who I know, he's a hero

[@grindcoreninja6527]

Where can I find what jocat said?

[@TheDungeonCoach]

You have a big heart and THAT must run in your family too! So happy that those boys made it and you we're so strong for your family in that time of need! I have donated and will add this foundation to my list of charities as well!

[@robertadams6558]

As someone who as an infant was born with a collapsed lung and hernia and almost dying 3 times in my first year., I appreciate what you are doing. I survived and made it to 62 so far enjoying this hobby we all love and teaching it to my own children and grandchildren. Praying others get the chance to also grow and become role players or whatever else they want to be. Will keep you and yours in those prayers as well. Love everything you do and glad to see you use your platform in this way.

[@grindcoreninja6527]

I'm glad you made it, and I'll admit, I'm rather jealous I didn't grow up with a grandfather that looks like a wizard that DM's for me!

[@1chaosstar1]

My youngest was born with CDH, had surgery at 3 days old, so I fully understand how your felt. When I get my next paycheck I will be donating.

[@TLor188]

The infant mortality rate in the US is worse than most would think. I am glad you are shedding some light on it. I am glad they all came out on top. I hope the best for you and your family. Love you and the Viva La Dirt League team. Thank you for giving to a good cause.

[@popecj29]

The infant mortality statistics reported by countries is according to their own standards. Those standards vary greatly from nation to nation. If the world had to report using U.S.A's standards, We would be near the lowest in terms of mortality. China for example doesn't not consider the following circumstances as live births or count in their census data. 1. Death within 24 hours of birth 2. Miscarriages 3. Abortions (forced or otherwise).

[@StormTheSquid]

​​@@popecj29people have this weird perception that America is a developed nation and thus can't have the problems of starvation, infant mortality, etc. but that's a facade. We'd probably still be awful even if everyone used the same standards. Edit: Also, 2 and 3 aren't live births, so they shouldn't be considered as such, regardless of whatever your political stance on the latter is.

[@KTheStruggler]

​@@StormTheSquid the main thing is income / coverage. Infant mortality is quite low in the US if you don't count the poor people.

[@toms7114]

@@KTheStruggler If like in other countries the USA didn't count premature babies who don't make it, the USA has one of the lowest infant mortality rates in the world, regardless of a person's economic status.

[@KTheStruggler]

@@toms7114 that's not true, there is less of a disparity when you account for nonviable births but there is still a disparity, especially in the 1 - 12 month infant range and it is very closely associated with poor socio economic status

[@SmilerStrike]

The very moment I heard "Thanks to the effort of the wonderful doctors", I was cheering.

[@echoeurope]

You are one of the most genuine down to earth people i have seen on this platform. I know multiple survivors from CDH, and i could not be happier for them. Most people probably dont even know of this, thank you for bringing it to everyone's attention! Again, you are great. Keep it up, and i wish you and your family the best!

[@apjtv2540]

Remember: it costs nothing to be kind. Even if you can't donate to these charities, be kind to those around you. You don't know how much that kindness might be worth to someone.

[@starslayer8390]

Preach my friend. Kindness is incredibly easy to give, yet so many refuse anyway. Don't be like them.

[@bobertastic6541]

And maybe, just this once, turn your adblockers off for a video. Every small fraction of a cent helps, after all

[@enchantedshiv1741]

Several of the women in my family have experienced multiple miscarriages, and it's always a really heartbreaking experience. Thank you for helping raise awareness about such a socially "taboo" topic. No one likes to think about this stuff, but it's so important to be aware of these things. Thanks for being vulnerable with us about this. And I'm so happy for you and your family that the little ones are here and healthy. Babies are such a wonderful blessing. ❤

[@thod-thod]

I’m genuinely crying over this. You are so good a person. All of the support we can give is yours and your sisters. If I had money, I would donate. As it is, I’m turning off adblocker for the next videos.

[@Gnomeo5]

Our first son had a rough birth, and he spent two weeks in the NICU before we were able to get him home before Christmas. Much love to the babies and parents out there. Thank you for the reminder of how blessed we truly are.

[@orionstickguard790]

To be honest, I do not know what to say, I'm happy the babies survived, and I will definitely support these charities.

[@daddysidrak1330]

We had care-giving in agenda as an item of discussion at the United Nations the previous week... Different countries have different ideas of what care-giving is and who a care-giver is, but we should have no divergences on the matter. Healthcare must be free for those who cannot afford it. This is a state's responsability currently carried out by NGOs (in the US). Hope your family and the kids all good. Those rolls should be done only with the dices on a table. You have my support, as an italian delegate to the UN

[@aggonzalezdc]

The people who fall between the cracks have not failed society, society has failed them. Thank you for trying to change it.

[@fragehardt]

This is heavy stuff. Thank you for telling the story and using your platform as a device for good. If even one child is saved because of this video, it will have been worth it.

[@tomcaniff6437]

I knew I was in for it when he said "trigger warning" but when he said "infant mortality" I audibly gasped holy shit, did NOT expect that to be the topic of this video.

[@sandmanlives3]

Thank you having the courage to speak about a sensitive, but important topic.

[@Gazing_Finger]

May your sister be fine, my dude, much love

[@peternolder8145]

Youre not alone. Reach out, talk, scream, shout, let it out. Friends, family or strangers. Cry it out. Sending a virtual hug.

[@Saberwolf71]

Thank you for sharing this. My wife and I lost a baby ourselves and we now have two healthy and brilliant young adult children. I really enjoyed watching the "total raised" counter click upward throughout watching your video.

[@MxAndromeda]

So happy the boys are doing well. Thank you for using your platform to raise awareness about this.

[@g0ld3ney3]

So glad your nephews and sister are doing well. Thank you for telling all of us about such great charities, they're doing the unsung hero work that makes this world amazing.

[@EnterThePocketDimension]

Incredible use of your platform. Love and continued best wishes to you and yours 💖

[@CanadianNavyVeteran]

Much love from Canada. Best care to you and your family.

[@Steindaemon]

You are such a nice guy ❤

[@Nawka007]

Support is a understatement! I donated as much as i could which means naught to the comment im leaving as a human to a human you have a lot of love and support in Australia and myself! I hope all the parents and kids that need the support know and have it too!

[@robertdemare6140]

i dont have much to donate... but i'll leave this running in the background for the watch hours/YT monitization. good that everything turned out well. youre awesome for making this video, for actually donating it to charity.

[@FisherWilliams4]

That’s such a horrible thing to happen to a baby & as someone who’s significant other lost our unborn son due to illness I understand the pain of losing a child & am glad your sister didn’t have to go through that loss. I’m glad the baby is fine & I hope they have a fruitful & lovely life

[@parkerjones6071]

You’re going to be an awesome uncle. Congratulations!

[@Teraclon]

We'll join you on this journey, as long as you allow us, and we will be support you through it. All the love, mate

[@gavinmcgraw]

It's so heart-wrenching when children's lives hang in the balance. Love to these brave little adventurers and your whole family. My son had/has a congenital heart defect, requiring several surgeries, and it was touch and go for the first several months of his life. He's level 13 now and strong as an ox so it can be easy take for granted how lucky we've been. But every story like this brings me back to that awful feeling of fear and powerlessness of when it was all happening.

[@asolanara]

Thank you for speaking up and taking action. So glad the babies are doing well. I am one of the lucky ones as well

[@rubenperez5432]

My man thanks for sharing and take care

[@Duskbreaker1780]

Seriously one of my favorite KZbinrs. You have a huge community supporting you man.

[@Celestial_Reach]

Sir, you do great at balancing the thing you do as a job, v.s. some times we jsut need to talk, and share what experiences we go through. you are a role model

[@roykrzeszewski2569]

Im happy for you and your family much love from Michigan. Much love to all the nurses and doctors in the world.

[@mightyzeus1e]

It's inspiring that you're using your platform to help others in need, and you've inspired me to join in and donate. Atticus & Luther are in my thoughts and prayers, and I look forward to hearing of your RPG adventures with them in the years to come. Peace, love and blessings to you and the fam!

[@Ben-Re]

Thank you for raising awareness of this disease, but also of the importance and indispensability of good healthcare and what it means not to have it. I live in a privileged country in Germany as far as healthcare is concerned, as it is available to everyone, but for many it is not. So a plea to everyone, if you can do anything to help, do it to protect those who can't help themselves and have no luck in the birth lottery. Thank you!

[@DakJD]

My friend... your authenticity is inspiring. I have seen very few people who radiate kindness, concern, and passion the way you do. Sharing your story and using your platform to spread awareness and raise money for those less fortunate warms my heart. The world would be a better place with more people like you in it. Keep up the good fight, and much love from me to you. I'm happy to give what I can.

[@slapdookieonastick4746]

Appreciate you sharing this obviously very difficult experience. My wife and I lost our third daughter 15 years ago and not a day goes by that i dont think about her. Prayers to your sister and your family and especially to them two little boys

[@BB-pn2qv]

I can’t watch this…. But thank you for talking about this. Thank you. I’m so so sorry.

[@ninjablade2]

Just so you know, the baby thankfully survived and seem to be in good condition~

[@BB-pn2qv]

@@ninjablade2 thank you for this, I’m very glad

[@MikeSalopek]

well for 1) thank goodness all worked out ok for the kids, absolutely an answer to prayer. Great news, and I applaud your move of compassion for others families in the thick of this. As a Ryoko backer, i am glad you have taken a step back, this is the priority. As excited as I am for the completion, I am happy you have been able to be supportive of family and it is my hope you take all the time you need in this before continuing the project. Blessings from Tennessee!

[@74gould]

❤ Much respect to you for this, and love to your family.

[@SilverionX]

We should take care of each other and make sure everyone has what they need to live and thrive. I firmly believe this is the greatest task of society on a large scale. It benefits the individual, their families and every one else in the long run. This is important to talk about and I appreciate the little window into your life you gave to benefit others.

[@TheSilentScreamX]

I'm so glad everything worked out for your family, and it's such a great thing you're doing for these charities. They do amazing work and deserve all the support they get.

[@michaelbutcher6269]

Dude, once again you prove what an amazing human being you are, humble, honest and true. Love to the family

[@rsbandbj1]

sending a hug across the pond.

[@josephpilkus1127]

They are precious...very brave to share the story, and I appreciate all that you do for the hobby, and clearly beyond...

[@EdBurke37]

Thank you for sharing this with us. You're one of the best.

[@duanebradway1627]

I admire your resolve. Talking on topics like this is not easy. I love that you are though. Awareness of a topic like this can make all the difference. Stay strong and take advantage of the precious time you have with family. Every moment is a blessing.

[@kfirgal6722]

Amazing, absolutely amazing that even in the harsh times we all are going through, there are people that are kind. as soon as I’m home I would like to support a little for these charities

[@geewaf]

Thank you for sharing - I'm so pleased to hear everyone is doing well

[@terryruegg7365]

Thank you!! Prayer for you and your family. My good friend and colleague experienced this 2 years ago. Stella was born 6 weeks early, and spent 3 months at McMaster Children’s hospital in Hamilton Ontario Canada. Blessings to those doctors and nurses and Ronald McDonald’s house. Good on you for doing this!! ❤

[@HappytintheClown]

Thank you for taking the time to use your platform for importing things like this. Your candid energy and integrity make the message stand out .

[@tulius123]

I very glad to hear that both babys are doing good, this video was very important, and I hope many people will be touch by it! My daughter is 1 and a half years ols and videos like this just make realize how luck i am.

[@Kevlar-78]

Well done with this initiative and thank you for sharing your story. 🍻 to you and yours.

[@arturogonzaleznaharro4828]

You are an amazing person sir, thanks a lot for the video and for the donations.

[@cwshumate914]

Thank you for sharing your story.

[@garebear44]

Thank you so much for sharing. I am so happy to hear that your nephews are safe and healthy. I’m in my early 20s and father of two. Unfortunately, our first child went to be with the Lord one week after we became aware of their existence. That truly flipped my world upside down. Hearing your story brought me to tears. Your kind words about this topic really touched me. Thank you for sharing your story and using your platform to let others know they are not alone.

[@madelinehutchinson]

Don’t have anything else to say that others haven’t, but I’m still commenting for the algorithm and to say I’m glad your family is okay ❤

[@zifir4803]

I’m so glad everything is good with them. It was so stressful for you and your family, and I happy that everything is ok. (Adicus is a nice name.)

[@thecornerkid402]

Praise God your nephew made it. Also glad you’re okay. I know that exact stress. It is crippling. Excellent charity to support.

[@Sixfifteen81]

Praise the surgeons and the medical staff..

[@okayhellohihowyadoin]

Praise the researchers, nurses, doctors, and other staff that saved the baby’s life.

[@shealupkes]

praise the past 4000 years of development in medical knowledge and technology

[@korpakukac]

God tried to kill his nephew. The doctors saved him. May wanna reevaluate whom you praise.

[@alexbirchall9537]

5% mortality is 1 in 20, not 200. I'm sincerely glad that your nephews have come through it though. This is a topic that needs to be talked about more

[@dragonmagelet]

Mortality rate is calculated per 1000 live births.

[@alexbirchall9537]

@dragonmagelet thank you for correcting me. In the video we were told 5%, hence the confusion. I'm just glad that the truth wasn't understated (and also glad it's not actually 5%)

[@HeyWillson]

CDH sounds a lot like the Ottawa CHEO - Children's Hospital of Eastern Ontario - they provide support for folks with kids in the hospital, and also child health care. It's okay. I am glad you, your sister and her kiddos are okay mate. Take care and be well, you are doing a great job.

[@torinmccabe]

The infant mortality rate in the US is half a percent, not 5%. You correctly stated it as 1 in 200

[@Alnakar]

Yes, 5‰ not 5%

[@Supremax67]

1 in 200 are pretty big odds. For instance, people plays the lottery and those odds are usually 1 in 20,000,000.

[@Alnakar]

@@Supremax67 Yeah, by no means is anybody saying that 1 in 200 is fantastic (although it's better than it has been in a lot of other time periods, or than it is in many places still). We're just clarifying that he obviously misspoke when he said 5% (which would be 1 in 20), but was correct when he clarified 1 in 200. 1 in 200 is correct.

[@bobertastic6541]

They measure it by the 1000, so it’s 5% of 1000

[@davidkhan5279]

@@bobertastic6541I know you mean well, but 5% of 1000 is 50 so still 5% and 1 in 20. I think you mean 5 (vs 5%)?

[@errolbugh3142]

February 28th, 2018 I know these feels man. Thoughts and prayers.

[@ottoback5375]

how dous this have dislikes I dont get people

[@TheKing72.]

I wanna give you a hug right now I don’t understand what it feels like to have this happen but I can see you probably need a hug

[@bluelance8605]

You say you can do significantly little, but it is you, and people like you that are the reason charities and research get funded. You are making the biggest difference by enabling others to do things you cannot.

[@TheDoomed]

My heart goes out to you and your family, with a child of my own I find these videos vary hard to watch, I never want to imagine what it would be like to go through what your family is going through. Best of luck and stay strong..

[@jorisvanhal5680]

You're an incredible person❤

[@theshamtai]

I could hear the fear in your voice. I am so glad to hear you and yours are doing good. We all can hear and feel how strongly you feel about this. Thank you for adding your voice.

[@battlebrand4525]

I love your videos - my DM and the rest of my party love them too. We could tell you're funny, charismatic, creative, articulate, and smart. But now we know you're also kind and sensible and immensely respectable. You're a good man.

[@alexsmith9617]

The obvious caring and generosity of your character is the main reason that I watch you. I’m so happy for your nephews and hope they have long productive lives. I’m sure that it will happen because of the palatable love in your family.

[@JasonOfWolves]

As a twin, I cant imagine living without him. If I knew he had died in the womb a big part of me would be missing. So glad to have him around. Happy that your family got to grow!

[@dhrekkin9055]

You've got a good heart man, the interwebs needs more like you

[@MrLeighKemp]

NHS coming through with it's DM inspirations! Thanks for the story and I am glad things are looking up for you and the family!

[@DrStrange-6T0]

You are by far the best Human being I know. Thank you for speaking out on all the issues of the world that you have and will do. Not everyone knows these issues and your reach helps to spread that light. Thank you, for being you.

[@larictheadrian9744]

That's mind-blowing infirmation. Thank you for sharing. Im glad to hear your family is okay. I wasn't expecting to feel quite that much today.

[@pukenukem2745]

Thank you for sharing. Kind wishes to you, your sister, her partner and the boys. They are adorable!!

[@Slit518]

Wil, you had me on the first half. I am glad your intuition was correct and both babies were fine and Atticus is recovering well. I have 3 young kids myself and one just born this year, they're truly little precious ones. May health and good fortune follow you all further into the future.

[@DrewLavers]

You Are a Guy I look up to and I'm so glad you covered this subject keep up the great work !!! Thank you again

[@trentsmith4208]

Incredible! Much love brother! Thanks for making this video and using this platform in such an incredible way!

[@domnikogas5086]

My heart goes out to you and your family. I couldn't imagine lossing my kids and how heartbreaking that is. I am very fortunate and grateful that my kids had no serious health issues when they were born. It really is something that makes you feel so small. Thank you for using your platform to increase awareness and helping others.

[@1Bearsfan]

My goodness. Congrats on being a new uncle and thank you for getting the word out. I hope the kiddos both live happy, healthy lives!

[@FuzzyErThanThou]

Thank you for using your platform to speak honestly to your values. Very glad to hear that your family is safe, and that this experience broadened your worldview to include the less fortunate.

[@ashgreenspinner1503]

Your obvious emotion has me choked up! What a great guy. I'm glad the little ones are ok. 💖

[@kesterhamilton3395]

Thanks for sharing openly about this. I've known many families who have lost children from the womb or in early days. It's a good thing for us to understand and be able to talk about.

[@brettmelnrick4854]

Thank you sir for sharing and providing support to those who have faced terrible situations like your sister. Our hearts go out to her and your whole family.

[@stephenferry3017]

I am so happy for your sister and your family and the twins. You're bang on about being lucky. My daughter died this past April from compliations due to a premature rupture of membranes. She was three hours old. When we asked the doctors what we could have done, they said there was nothing. Most prenatal complications are just random. A lot of them are fatal. Good healthcare can even the odds dramatically. Thank you for talking about this. And again, I am so happy for your family. That is such a gift and a joy.

[@LPdragonfly1989]

thank you so much for bringing up this matter. As someone who would have had a twin brother or sister but it died shortly befor we were born I'm really thankful for helping those great charities.

[@TheSilvrRonin]

I am very glad that all is well with your family. What a blessing it is to have healthy children. Thank you for shedding light on the life-saving work our medical professionals do. A noble cause, indeed.

[@KevinWhewell]

I'm so glad to hear that both of the babies are well and thriving. Love to you and yours.

[@jamesthomas8161]

God bless your child and family. I will pray for a complete recovery. May God be glorified.