The Most Relaxing Café on Earth • ASMR Tea & Coffee Shop Roleplay

The ASMR Café is the most relaxing and soothing coffee shop and tea shop to get a cup of your favorite hot beverage with a delicious pastry. It'll be hard to not fall asleep at your table so bring your own pillow.
#ASMR (Autonomous Sensory Meridian Response) is the pleasant and almost-euphoric physical sensation often described as a tingling sensation that usually begins on the scalp and moves down the back of the neck and upper spine. It is most commonly triggered by specific auditory or visual stimuli. Popular sound triggers include softly spoken or whispering voice, tapping, brushing, and crinkles. Popular visual triggers include hand movements, personal attention, and light. ASMR videos are meant to help you sleep, relax, meditate, focus, and study, and for some people it can temporarily reduce anxiety and PTSD.
00:00 Getting Ready
02:25 Taking Your Order
03:55 Coffee Selection
11:06 Making Your Coffee
18:48 Selecting a Pastry
23:38 Making Spice Tea for Friend
28:56 Serving Coffee, Tea and Pastries
34:32 Book Recommendation
37:44 Stuffing My Face
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[@leemcstink]

i’m a barista for a living and i did NOT expect this video to be as calm and relaxing as it is!!! absolutely beautiful, thank you for reminding me of some of the better parts of my job too 😴😴😴

[@donavonblair9753]

Of course it’s relaxing….He serves one person every 30 minutes 😂

[@genie_inabottle7691]

Ha! Seriously, if only being a barista were this calm...❤❤

[@pastyourbedtimeasmr]

Oh. My. God. It’s like someone rolled coffee, jazz, pastries and asmr into one-all my favorite things! Wow this sir is not ASMR. This is ART

[@TomWhoASMR]

Wow, thank you 💜

[@tadvananarayanan279]

I love❤❤the background!!!

[@GalaxyJazzGirl]

@@TomWhoASMRI love your videos, Tom! 😊 MidnightCastleASMR did a 1800s hair parlor role play. :)

[@GalaxyJazzGirl]

@MidnightCastleASMR , @PuppyBoy

[@GalaxyJazzGirl]

@@tadvananarayanan279same

[@kathleenbaker7277]

Stay with this. You’re a jewel in the asmr world. You relax and bring comfort to so many of us. Your voice, Tom is asmr perfection.🥰🌷

[@TomWhoASMR]

Thank you 💜

[@anthonyxj28]

How did I just find this channel, this is just a masterpiece

[@ashleylily6974]

The quality of this asmr roleplay is amazing! You work so hard to make us amazing videos. Thank you! 😄

[@TomWhoASMR]

Thank you for watching! 💜

[@Babygirl-eu5yn]

I agrée ! Hes definetly one of the bests 👍🏼👍🏼

[@OrionIsepic]

This makes me wish I had the time and money to find someone passionate running a very quiet obscure coffee place I could have this experience at.

[@heatherrobinson7313]

One of my favourite Asmr videos ever. I just love everything about it! So calming. Wish this was a real cafe it would be my second home

[@mariahdontcareyxo7380]

The noises of the coffee packs is stunning

[@happyness-fp1ro]

Coffee bag crinkle tingles are amazing!!! I love everything about this video, Tom. The set, the props, the dialogue, the tingly sounds, the inviting restful feeling…it’s all so cozy!!! Love your outfit (esp. crisscross suspenders). Aromas of…”Leather”. Book tapping. I want to hang out at ASMR Cafe now!!! Well done, Tom 🎉

[@TomWhoASMR]

Hi Happy, thanks so much, I'm so glad you enjoyed the video. I love that you notice all the small details. 💜

[@tahlsx605]

The first male ASMRist I've come across that I feel safe and calm listening to. Amazing work. Subscribed!

[@PotluckB]

It's always fun when I'm only two sentences into a video and I know I'm subscribing.

[@AJPS0119]

This is the first time in years I’ve had tingles again.. this was fantastic

[@sandrrah]

34:00 that cutting with such a grace!!! ❤

[@kimrodriguez3626]

I think you unlocked a new asmr level. Usually I can feel tingles..I can smell these ones 😍

[@ZoeAmory]

Your voice is so soft and smooth it makes me feel like a kitten in a warm basket of fresh laundry 😊 This is wonderful, thank you so much 😊

[@TomWhoASMR]

Haha love that description 😁

[@karinberryman2009]

Lovely analogy!

[@MegR.N.]

Now if only this cafe were real. I could really smell of the coffee and the pastry. Well done Tom. Thank you for always making feel safe and relaxed.

[@TomWhoASMR]

Hi Meg, I'm so glad you enjoyed it! 💜

[@jmarvo]

I’d like every cafe to walk me through everything like Tom did 🥰. Excellent service sir

[@craiglumsden76]

Good to have you back Tom 🎉🎉🎉🎉 💤 😴 💤 😴 💤 😴

[@josephmccracken8286]

Tom forgot my sugar. I specifically said 2 sugars

[@LemonyLemonOfficial]

This is very underrated and good job on the lightning! The scenery feels very real.

[@TomWhoASMR]

Thank you 💜

[@Zanyotaku]

this had me struggling to stay awake in less than 6 minutes. what talented tingles and how deeply relaxing! I'll definitely be coming back to this for some relaxation when I need it again.

[@reddwitdreadz]

I love your voice Tom! It’s so soothing and comforting. Please continue to post long videos like this!

[@TomWhoASMR]

Thanks! I will!

[@LittleChick896]

Cant believe i just found this channel. Thank you for giving me the best sleeps of my life (:

[@matthewdosson8674]

Nah theres something about this dude. He has so much Patience. Love this video.

[@hyacxntheVA]

This is so professional and relaxing, I love it, I have repeated it like three times already!

[@christianrodriguez620]

I’ve never had an ASMR video that I rewatch night-after-night, but I’ve gone back to this video for a few months now to guarantee I fall asleep quickly. Incredible video!

[@TomWhoASMR]

Thank you, so glad this video works so well for you 💜

[@sackofpeas2470]

I don't know what it is, but your cadence and movements just light up my ASMR like when I first discovered it on KZbin. Thank you for all the work you put into your videos!

[@TomWhoASMR]

Thank you 💜

[@Galex935]

Please make this into a series it's so good

[@luisalmada9025]

Such a delight to the senses! And what a handsome barista 😊❤

[@terryredd8043]

Lovely in every way. Loved the French press demonstration.

[@wesleyclark5441]

My two favorite things, Coffee and ASMR. Genius, this is easily my new favorite ASMR video.

[@janewalls169]

Oh wow...this is wonderful! I wish this cafe was in my neighborhood. Id be there at 6 am! Thanks so much I subscribed!

[@julia.goolia]

The algorithm gods put this video in my feed today....I'm so happy to have found you!! Your voice is so smooth and calming. Excellent video! It's a privilege to subscribe!

[@Butterflywings-td2ud]

A heavenly place that smells like fragrant coffee and pastries ☕️ 🥐 I will be back Tom 💜

[@stehmer3]

Holy crap. Instant subscribe. Crazy tingles - well done!

[@andrewevans8792]

the bass in your soft speaking is incredible, felt the vibration in my entire skull. such good quality audio, keep it up!

[@ericneversleeps204]

Who knew I'd be headed to a coffee shop to fall asleep tonight?! Fantastic content sir!

[@TomWhoASMR]

Glad you enjoyed it!

[@marstarr222]

I feel like the post production benefit are those pastries! Love this video.

[@TomWhoASMR]

They are!

[@ExploderMaster]

He's nice to look at, and even better to listen to. He really has it all going on. I love it ❤

[@zenmastermike25]

So glad I stumbled across your channel. Fantastic ASMR! 🙂

[@TomWhoASMR]

Thank you 💜

[@user-ks7pb5yj4n]

I can relax listening to this and go to sleep fantasizing about my morning coffee❤

[@PyramidsofGiza369]

Im so glad this was recommended to me. Superb quality ❤️

[@chinita623]

This is so relaxing. Usually the cafe videos have louder sounds or a lot of ceramic or ice sounds that are kinda high pitched for me, but all the sounds were so nice and different! Subscribed :)

[@user-ow4ko2fh7f]

Just stumbled upon your ASMR site, so glad I did. The bass tone in your voice is absolutely lovely. Very soothing, very smooth. Will definitely be looking at more of your vids!

[@TomWhoASMR]

Thank you so much!

[@samdragosa]

this is incredible for ASMR - thank you so much for this while I work on my blog 🥰💞

[@JessLRASMR]

Newbie here and gotta say I am obsessed this ASMR is incredible! Great job! 😁❤

[@TomWhoASMR]

Welcome, and Thank you 💜

[@DemeterTelphousia-Erinyes]

Your kindness and sweetness shine in this video, Tom. ❤

[@ziraffen]

What a voice, I’m so calm!

[@byebyebingeing]

Tiramisu for me and a coffee! This is so soothing. Great job!

[@mariss22]

I absolutely love this video and am so happy it was recommended to me! Perfection 👌🏼👌🏼

[@Mintydream02]

Yes Barista Tom! 😄 Absolutely loved this video. Your dedication and effort is unmatched 👏 So professional I felt like I was in an actual café! The pastries look so delicious 🤤 Great job 💜

[@TomWhoASMR]

Hi Minty, thanks so much, really glad you enjoyed the video 💜

[@irinaosmolovskaya6194]

I am so glad I subscribed to your KZbin! When I miss your lives on tiktok, it's comforting knowing I can hear you speak elsewhere before I fall asleep! Thank you, Tom. I adore and appreciate you!

[@TomWhoASMR]

Hi Irina, thank you 💜

[@iiwantwaffles]

I keep coming back an I’m never disappointed! Your videos are always high quality and you have such great vibes. I also suffer from insomnia but watching your videos always helps me sleep, so thank you I’m beyond grateful!

[@TomWhoASMR]

Thank you 💜

[@cocoacrisp3699]

This was such a cozy video! I love the sounds of the coffee bag and the coffee grinder.

[@wonderingthru.2979]

omgggg i just found this and I am HERE for it! Such great quality! giggled at that last bit that's called "stuffing my face" lol

[@DaCrksh]

This video is just perfect. Why is no one talking about that little QUASO reference? Keep up the incredible work!!

[@TomWhoASMR]

Thank you 💜

[@cassiemarieasmr]

I freaking love this. I love jazz on KZbin. It’s always playing on my TV in the background. Keep up the good work, I love your content sweetie.☕️

[@TomWhoASMR]

Thank you 💜

[@jacobparadis5120]

Doesn't matter witch of your videos I'm listening to its always a guaranteed cozy and relaxing sleep!😴

[@frogmella]

You are a new discovery of mine and boy am I happy I found this! So relaxing, love your vibe.

[@TomWhoASMR]

Thank you, welcome aboard!

[@xandria_magic777]

Your video was shown to me a few times so I had to watch it and didn't regret it at all, so relaxing, especially since I love coffee, great job on this 🥰

[@TomWhoASMR]

Thank you, glad you enjoyed it!

[@gerrimiller3491]

I can imagine smelling the scrumptious pasties and coffee ☕! It's like walking into a Paris Cafe. So relaxing....love it💕

[@Necromonger701]

So classy and perfect . Randomly showed up on my recs and now you’re my favorite asmrtist. Keep up the good work man 🫶🏻

[@TomWhoASMR]

Thank you 💜

[@faeriecourtezrealmeow]

i've rewatched this video so many times! i love it so much, i would love love love if it was put on spotify so i could snooze to it !! keep up the amazing work :D

[@jayvillemin]

I’m always excited to see a new Tom Who ASMR video in my feed 🥰

[@mlzotter6405]

wow, this is GOLDEN!!! tom, i found you on tiktok and immediately was immersed in your asmr! you have the best, most soothing voice and sense of humor! the effort here is just impeccable… the background, the shelf, the pastries, just WOW! thank you for all that you do, and for making my and many other people’s nights so soothing 💤❤️ KEEP DOING YOU!!

[@TomWhoASMR]

Thank you so much 😀

[@sushifiggy]

As much as I love my ASMR ladies, I do love the coffee bean sounds and the pastries 😋, and tea. Everything! Yes I'd like to smell the coffee beans ❤

[@buddy1623]

It’s wild to me how videos like this don’t have hundreds of thousands of views, you deserve it

[@TomWhoASMR]

Thank you, maybe eventually!

[@Miss-Placed.1]

Thank you for transporting me to a lovely, calm place. I can smell that coffee :)

[@kelseydean3137]

My first time watching one of your videos. I really enjoyed this! So lovely and relaxing. I love the cafe environment ☕️ 🫖 Thank you for such a wonderfully relaxing video 😌

[@TomWhoASMR]

Welcome to my channel, thank you 💜

[@rebeccavenema1579]

This was absolutely incredible Tom. You did this with such finesse and class. You present these videos with such Grace and perfection. I loved every minute of it. You were gentle from beginning to end and I wish it were real and I could come to your cafe!! ❤️

[@Holly-ro3yq]

You are incredible! You definitely go the extra mile.❤

[@genaS18]

I would absolutely love this cafe if it was real. It looks so cozy to study in or even just cozy up with a book in. I wish cafes were like this😢

[@hollib3900]

This video appeared in my recommended, and though I only watch a handful of ASMR channels, I clicked on this video. Oh my goodness. There is something about the timbre of your voice that has the perfect resonance to my ears. Your voice is so instantly soothing to me. So glad to subscribe to you.

[@TomWhoASMR]

Welcome to my channel and thanks for subscribing 💜

[@LarryLarpwell]

Tom how many times do we have to watch this masterpiece before you upload a new awesome role play … between this and the hotel manager we are spoiled but pls upload and end this suffering

[@TomWhoASMR]

I’m working on it. Tomorrow I’ll be posting my car ride video.

[@myracle001]

My first time watching your content - was looking for cafe ASMR (which is grossly under-represented) and this is AMAZING. I'm watching this on repeat. Thank you for providing exactly what I Was looking for and doing such a great job with it!!

[@TomWhoASMR]

Thanks for watching!

[@claudiaaguilera6893]

Please make more cafe videos! I love this one and keep rewatching it 😭😭

[@jenniferm6286]

This is my first video of yours I’ve seen, and I love it! I’m both tired and craving a pastry now too! ❤😂

[@TomWhoASMR]

Probably putting pastries into a video when most people watch at night wasn't such a great idea :D

[@itzbex1918]

This is the best, most high quality asmr video I've ever seen...and I watch alot....outstanding Tom!!!❤

[@TomWhoASMR]

Thank you 💜

[@shannaandersonzongo8128]

What a wonderful concept for ASMR. The coffee bag crinkles and bean sounds are so good! Also, kicking horse coffee is one of my favorites so I was able to clearly imagine how nice your cafe smelled!

[@TomWhoASMR]

Glad you liked it!

[@danielfoster3154]

This was one of my all time favourites. Amazing at what you do!!

[@1Eparadigm1]

this was so relaxing & wholesome

[@lexibrb]

I love this!!!

[@flavorsings]

love the sounds of coffee beans, coffee grinder, and wooden sounds! ☕️❤ you are an attentive, kind, gentle and calming barista.. very nice to listen to! ❤

[@TomWhoASMR]

Thank you so much!

[@ValerieK1971]

Welcome back, so glad you are feeling better ❤

[@starlastarz822]

I really appreciate you Tom! I’ve had the pleasure of watching your lives! You are seriously the absolute best! I’m so new to ASMR, and i don’t need to go any further. Much love Tom! And thank you.

[@TomWhoASMR]

Thank you 💜

[@nii_san1201]

your roleplays always manage to put me to bed whenever i cant :') thank you for all that you do, tom !! i really appreciate you 💕

[@gabrielleangelica1977]

This is the first time coffee ☕ has put me to sleep 😴. Tingasm! 💥

[@upstatelife]

Loved this and have watched it several times ❤

[@Decadence13666]

that shirt crinkle at like 30 seconds in is just perfect. Dunno why but fabric sounds are so nice for me!

[@nancyaloupis3974]

I’m so relaxed right now😴

[@Kaitanji]

The quality and work put into this is amazing. I love coffee in the morning, so this is up my alley. Thanks for this awesome video! 🙏

[@TomWhoASMR]

Thank you for watching

[@ericacockrell9736]

5 minutes into the video and I subscribed. Wow. As someone who has listened to ASMR since before it even had a name, it’s hard to get the tingles that I used to. This video did it for me hands down. Thank you so much for all you put into your craft ❤❤

[@TomWhoASMR]

Awesome! Thank you for subscribing 💜

[@ginashaw6402]

Ive watched this several times now and im yet to make it to the end because im asleep 10 mins in. Thank you for the wonderful content ❤

[@maurinho6030]

This is an amazing ASMR video! One of the best on youtube

[@rebeccarincon9133]

Thank you for your KZbins! It’s what I need to make it through the weekend. I would frequent your cafe if you were here in Santa Barbara. Thank you for the relaxing video. ❤

[@TomWhoASMR]

Thank you for watching!

[@halietorris_art]

The most tingles I’ve had… EVER. I’m so grateful this video was recommended. 🫶 also those pastries look decadent 🥐

[@TomWhoASMR]

Wonderful! Welcome to my channel 💜

[@tokilecaine4405]

This man’s wife is a lucky lady. Getting a man who has good taste in coffee and style🙏🏼🤝🏼

[@TheScientist43]

😂 🏳️‍🌈

[@matthewknopps165]

Your work is wonderful. And this is by far a favorite of mine, and I'm talking of all ASMR. Thank you for your dedication 😊

[@antjeweienbach6689]

I stumbled over your Channel by chance, thank you so much. I love these role play videos ❤. If there would be a coffee shop like this, I would spend a lot of my spare time in there 😊😂

[@nannafish]

This is so lovely! Glad to have found this channel ☕🍵💖

[@cameroncameronh5098]

That was the best asmr I've ever herd! I love all the different sounds