The Neighbourhood - Daddy Issues (Official Video)

[@skyedavis4693]

director: how much color do u want the neighborhood: no

[@Isokatmydydecsf]

Isn't grey a colour ?

[@hrahman9425]

I ам иот яսssiаи sошу yea, one color

[@multifandom7168]

💖👏🏼😂😂😂

[@babeebel]

Please edit it and make it "no 🖤"

[@leahm1503]

They find it easier since Jesse is colorblind

[@shreyakhajuriaa]

"go ahead and cry little girl", and "and if you were my little girl" these lines always gets to me. damn!

[@shobhapaliwal6250]

I cry every damn time

[@mrs.katsukibakugou115]

This song makes me want to cry

[@bandajisrafmakinesidazai7121]

This song makes me cry. Especially these words.

[@ktswrld7338]

The way he says it 🥺

[@nened_master60]

Always gets me thinking… that I want that one person to fix and flip their life… make them forget they had issues…show them that I’ve been through that pain too but I’m more than willing to give my heart to make them see I can be…heh that sounds wrong but. You get the idea

[@nicoshusband]

“Go ahead and cry little girl” that line gets me everytime...

[@nav8288]

same ..

[@selinemirli7993]

i be like “okay🥺”

[@brainnandheart]

Same I just start bawling after

[@nathaliablinebury5546]

YES! And “You know what you’re daddy did too” 😭😭

[@Den-jp4yu]

I cry

[@junaidmalik1595]

"go ahead and cry little boy, you now that your daddy did too", shit hit home

[@SadiaKausar-xz8by]

I love this part, boys and men are afflicted by daddy issues too 💔

[@Joeyurib3]

As a young man with daddy issues who just figured out that I had them, it hurts… a lot💔😕

[@Seungmin_isntinmyroom]

It'll get better Dont worry

[@shafinrahman2199]

@@SadiaKausar-xz8by First world boys can afford to, maybe. Couldn't be us...

[@babyjeons97]

3:18 "go ahead and cry little boy" it breaks my heart that he starts talking to himself... :(

[@misolee455]

Army , like really it hurts

[@tanishasachdeva9071]

Army, be strong. Ily ❤️

[@srehsqs]

honestly :/

[@jhopesimportantbusinesseu369]

Same

[@sabrinaaaaokk]

ikr :(

[@hypegirlness]

*_"i didn't cry when you left at first, but now that you're dead it hurts"_*

[@savannahrutledge4150]

triplet line enthusiast this hits home so hard

[@celia-pi9nx]

chaewon

[@8015908]

He coulda stopped her death....

[@BlisQuest]

This time I gotta know.... where did my daddy go?

[@ava-jm8xq]

triplet line enthusiast my favorite line

[@booper-dooper]

Sending virtual hugs to everyone that has issues with parents, and just issues in general

[@mariavert8234]

I’m sending hugs back

[@b1mell66]

🫂

[@krwawamary7683]

Thank you

[@alejandronanclareseusse1662]

Do you accept CHRIST in your heart? Do you accept the life that GOD has for you??

[@FireCestina1200]

@@alejandronanclareseusse1662 shut

[@alaan.hrndzz]

"Its crazy what you do for a friend" so real

[@sturniologirl_4ever]

THAT' PART BROKE ME:(

[@PurpleSway]

Count me in.

[@Randomgirl-i4k]

I'm currently listening to music to get me to calm down before I talk to someone who's bothering my friends cause I don't play when it comes to them me whatever IDC but my friends thats a proplem

[@dawndawn33]

This is for the girls whose fathers broke their hearts before any boy could.

[@julima3828]

this hits hard.

[@nnoufaissa]

😔

[@kurmiclra]

accurate!

[@user-qh2vn7hn9t]

My first ex broke my heart and it made all the negative emotions (towards my dad) i was unconsciously suppressing resurface again. It's like a double heartbreak.

[@alisonramirez9382]

oh wow this hit cz same.

[@alienhomey]

“All children deserve parents, but not all parents deserve children”

[@urfavhoney5336]

Hits different

[@gustavojavierquirogapizzor3992]

Uff my dear friend. That's so true

[@senpai_dr9729]

Yeah so true 😔🤝

[@edwardliu5793]

Sir, you are absolutely right.

[@virgo8076]

Realest shit I heard a day💯

[@alittledeath9566]

this band is the definition of aesthetic.

[@ffs2410]

a little death yep.

[@easternoodles7058]

but better :)

[@kyxlier]

I am Soo they describe me :^}

[@nunile-]

no, joji is the definition of aesthetic

[@krissiacoraltoledo6530]

Check this out, is aesthetically pleasant ♡ kzbin.info/www/bejne/ioqtn5x5YtuKl5o

[@FxckedUpMemes]

"go ahead and cry, little girl"😭😭

[@Peri000]

Nobody does it like you do. 😭

[@Sierralovessky]

I know how much it matters to you, I know that you got daddy issues

[@SnoW-bk1zn]

And if you were my little girl .I'd do whatever I could do

[@Aaaaaleen.K]

And if you were my little girl

[@minahilqaiser9355]

A hug goes out to all the girls who's dads broke their heart before any boy could

[@valeriaalexandra9915]

Thanks🥹🥹🥹

[@maro25_]

💔👍🏻

[@nxdeflowers]

this-

[@brenasblock3037]

thank you. ❤️

[@gracieworthington356]

mine

[@emjareo4121]

The song is not sexual. It’s about loving someone, and accepting their trauma because you can relate to it, acknowledging their pain, while dealing with your own.

[@strangerranger1397]

The song is whatever you want it to be. It’s not just one thing

[@user-lw5ez6ic1d]

it’s not? People perceive music in a lot of different forms don’t tell people who to think

[@trinitig1115]

@@user-lw5ez6ic1d he’s literally talking about children you cannot view this song as sexual weirdo

[@trinitig1115]

@@strangerranger1397 it cannot be sexual

[@safirahmichel3742]

Amen!

[@imok.sadness]

To anyone struggling: You’re stronger than any test, paper due, breakup, money issue, or any battle you’re facing. Keep your head up.

[@rxts505]

Thank u. I needed that

[@sanchi7410]

man idk

[@loganfoster3012]

Thank you so much I needed that🖤

[@zehraakarsu4346]

Thank you so much, i needed

[@sinkaleidoscopic912]

thx you so much

[@Kateadorable]

"태하(시든꽃에 눈물을)" 때문에 검색한 사람 손~Who looked up this song because of "Taeha"from"Shedding tears over a withered flower"

[@신은숙-o8v]

저요✋🏻

[@김지연-y2u5j]

저요!!!!

[@aki-cc8cd]

me too bro 😂

[@MJ-ch1xi]

Here ㅋㅋㅋ

[@바뱝-z8p]

👋

[@xenon1801]

THE NEIGHBORHOOD IS THE MOST AESTHETICALLY PLEASING BAND ❤️

[@alexalopez7680]

I love your profile pic 💕

[@rubieleigh6765]

True tea sis

[@dianesacosta_]

EXACTLY lmao

[@whatevermaann]

AGREED BUT ALSO THE 1975

[@sallymacmahon3039]

@@whatevermaann AM TOO THOUGH

[@lemonboi487]

i’ll never be able to understand how it feels to have daddy issues, but i’m sending my love and support to you all from someone with mommy issues

[@remziyedincer5150]

Yeh

[@keith720]

Thanks sending love and support right back at you

[@deeary]

i use to have mommy issues before

[@axqlina]

It feels like theres nothing it feels like theres a hole but you cant explain it, it feels like half of u is missing you feel like you wanna die it feels like ur empty it feels bad. I cry every night about. Daddy issues suck.

[@-avril2643]

I got them mommy issues

[@timothymadison2673]

Daddy issues is a psychological term to describe girls and women who felt a vacuum of some sorts through their father. It's not sexual per say, though there are documented cases of such being as so. Incest. However more often that not it's some form of absence or disconnection with a father. And yes, even death. And if that vacuum is still felt when she is older and has a boyfriend or husband, daddy issues may manifest themselves into sexual difficulties for the woman and her partner. A real man does not want to be your daddy. He wants to be your partner or your husband. If you treat him any differently, you're sabotaging yourself and your potential children. The lyrics to the song play up to the girls issues. As the narrator describes himself as wanting to be her daddy. It's a form of manipulation on the part of the man. A play on her weakness. Yet in the same breath, the girl/woman allows this to proceed, because of prior issues with her father. Filling an emotional void. Usually the woman grows up and overcomes these things. And that daddy figure ends up screwing himself. A smart man knows better and won't play a daddy role unless it's with his own children. Here is the definition of what daddy issues is: Daddy issues is an informal phrase for the psychological challenges resulting from an absent or abnormal relationship with one's father, often manifesting in a distrust of, or sexual desire for, men who act as father figures.

[@m_obodova6526]

I haven't heard anything like that before, it's very interesting Thanks a lot for your explanation 💓💓 Now I'm able to understand the meaning of this song

[@ANT-kl7ol]

You know men can also have daddy issues right? And what about lesbians? How does it affect them?

[@skyinuri8868]

Im crying for this describtion

[@armyyyyyyyyyyyy]

Woah this comment is so fucking underrated

[@hehehehe9921]

Dang dude you took the time to write that. Props to u

[@EmmanuelThepearl]

It hits diffrent when you actually relate...

[@xyciqx]

Yes that why i like it

[@JaclynAlways]

Yes ❤😢

[@s4vda951]

I see these girls with perfect dads and loved by them. Wish I had that childhood.

[@a.d9562]

my childhood wasn't the greatest but after reading someone comments. I'm going to have to start appreciating the small things my dad do for me

[@aknadulyan25]

I can't even imagine how they're dad's are like so. It's confusing.

[@keepingupwitriv7763]

Same

[@sixthlid22]

@@aknadulyan25 they just are like there are bad people and good people in this world so some of us got nice and loving parents and others have really fucked up ones

[@grusenpai]

it just hurts when you see it

[@l.bofficial3897]

song hits different when you actually have daddy issues

[@mc-ob7vp]

yes because you cry instead of being turned on

[@Mia4342]

m c me crying rn while listening to the song 😭😭

[@shelbynewell8088]

seriouly it does

[@venusxskull2291]

:(

[@panij.4226]

That's sad but true🖤

[@blackandblack7]

I remember Wearing my headphones, listening to this on full volume, running to my father’s grave I miss you dad. I miss you so bad.

[@boredommademedoit]

Holy fuck. I can't even begin to imagine the pain you've felt. I hope your life is on the right path and that you and your family and friends are safe and happy. Stay gold

[@noorfatimah9013]

This MV was posted in may exactly before a month my father died this song means so much to me...

[@noorfatimah9013]

Same I miss him the most it feels like I'm alone and not strong enough to deal with this world

[@NG-jy7zg]

Guys I’m really sorry for you all. But daddy issues isn’t ACTUAL daddy..? I’m really sorry forgive me. Best wishes to y’all.

[@NG-jy7zg]

4y agreed. Well I really listen to it on Apple Music, I wanted to check I there’s a official video

[@jamaalramaphane381]

I swear they're no comments saying this song is sexual but there's a hundred comments telling no one to stop saying the song is sexual.

[@whalefin1173]

Ikr

[@micmicbungee]

Exactly

[@fairyxox4019]

its not the comments, theres people out there saying that, ive seen many people in tiktok or instagram saying that this song has sex vibes

[@ElisiaWrites]

If you’d watched this a couple years back like I did ? Oh Chile it was ONLY sexual comments

[@klara2129]

I think they mean daddy issues in general because women's daddy issues have been sexualized for years.

[@TheDanielleDenise]

The song makes me cry. The video makes me feel better.

[@Luna-rw6fm]

Ik

[@shortangel9801]

The Danielle Denise opposite for me 😂

[@the-sf5jf]

!!!!

[@liasaad3061]

Afraid makes me cry

[@layla-jo9lc]

“ is crazy what you do for a friend” this is so intense

[@louspeachrry]

i didnt get that part

[@cowgovroom9788]

@@louspeachrry same

[@elisax5016]

@@louspeachrry same

[@fqiryjhvl7099]

whatdidshesayy-

[@mallikabirla]

for all those who didn't get it, usually, parental issues are caused by the parent leaving, not paying enough/pays excessive attention, being detached or aggressive, etc. due to these reasons, a child may grow up thinking that they were the ones at fault, which made their parents behave this way as if something was wrong with them. What happens in these cases is that these children often go out of their way to help/ be there for others either in order to either do what their parents were unable to do or fill voids caused by them. so the line "it's crazy what you do for a friend" means that a person with parental/daddy issues may do a lot for friends and others cause they have never had any relations with family, so they try hard to form relations with outsiders for peace or closure.

[@ayo_nivin]

It hits hard when you have both Mummy and Daddy issues 🥺🥺 ("Go ahead and cry little boy" Got me😢)

[@starsmidnight]

I don't have any parental issues but, reading some of your stories genuinely had me sobbing for half an hour. I'm so sorry you had to go through that. Some adults should have never been parents. The ones who were supposed to protect and love you became the demons in your head. Please remember that while you can't choose your parents, you can choose who you love in the future and I really hope that you'll find someone who will love you more than you can ever imagine.

[@okibye8600]

Thanks , just wish n believe will find a guy who never fights with me , idk how shattered i d be to ever go through that what i saw n experience while growing up.

[@bluewolfchicken7310]

I wish everyone was as empathetic and understanding as you are... Thank you very much

[@insha7556]

I pray that we heal and attract healthy relationships with others

[@dislexiiea]

same, but i only have mommy issues. anyways take care of yourself, you are worth it.

[@alejandronanclareseusse1662]

Do you accept CHRIST in your heart? Do you accept the life that GOD has for you??

[@kalady3671]

“You know what your daddy did to” and “you know what your momma went through” Get me crying every time it’s just so deep.

[@lol-cu3zp]

samesamesame.

[@sofiasedits466]

Same

[@audreywang3060]

"every time you tell your daughter you yell at her out of love you teach her to confuse anger with kindness which seems like a good idea till she grows up to trust men who hurt her cause they look so much like you" to fathers with daughters - rupi kaur

[@alyahusna6932]

Oof

[@coldlava5436]

Its never out of love believe me there's no love

[@BRUH-rj1mh]

I just wish he could stayed but he left idky when ig i was 4 like he moved put of our house we still stayed in touch but it was very little and now it just doesn't exist like he'd call me once in ig 3 months or smtg like he doesn't even gaf abt me i don't understand how do u just forget ur daughter like that I'm currently 16 and ik it's been a while since he left and stuff butit hurts so much and everytime I listen to this song it makes me cry thinking abt the entire situation like what could have i done so he still could've stayed and my mom? She keeps on telling me how I am an disappointment and laughs at my face if i cry bcz it's too much and she tells me that I am being manipulative by crying like dude how I don't understand can I not even express my feelings or smtg without being called manipulative she also tells me that she is doing the part that my father could've done but it stills affects the fact that he left right? He could've stayed and we could've been a happy family but nah. Anyways I had a lot going on in my head so I vented out here and ily and thanks if u read the entire thing🥺 have a nice day ahead and I will always love u ! Bye!

[@coldlava5436]

@@BRUH-rj1mh he doesn't deserve you or your mother . You are not a disappointment . I'm so sorry you had to go through all this . Who knows if he didn't leave . He could have been a great dad or the one like mine abusive and just evil . And yes you can cry and no one can stop you from expressing your emotions . Hang in there buddy at this moment I personally can only say we can get out of this and we should get out . We don't belong here . And its not like running away or giving up . We just don't deserve this . Its not worth staying for. Don't forget to laugh its no one's business to control our emotions. Good day:)

[@BRUH-rj1mh]

@@coldlava5436 THANK YOU SO FKIN MUCH FOR THIS DUDE. I really needed this rn and yesssss we can get through this and we indeed do deserve better and I am so sorry for ur abusive father tho u deserve SOOO MUCH BETTER and I pray that the best comes ur way buddy and we can make it to the better part of life:)

[@DUCK-WITH-COFFEE]

My dad was never abusive Always loved me and supported me And this song still a banger Respect to people with abusive/absent fathers 😔✊

[@Monkeboiiiiii]

I’ve always loved this song not due to an absent father but because it let me express myself same with cry baby

[@Maelej]

I don't have any daddy issues or something. Just reading yall comments. Kinda make me sad ngl yall don't/didn't deserve that.

[@ediluccv7075]

Me too :( I'm lucky to have my dad

[@myluciferislonely4313]

same :((

[@Sam-rn5vj]

same i just have general issues :/

[@ashnohomo]

Omg hi Stilesssssss 😂😂🐺

[@Maelej]

@@ashnohomo suppp

[@l0v2e]

him sitting in the car she's smashing shows that she's mad at him like most girls with daddy issues are towards men, but he's trapped, too. he has the same issues, same pain.

[@FluorescentRebel]

That makes a lot of sense... This has me thinking. Thank you for posting your perception

[@jesseriddlecameron6261]

Wow, yeah it definitely make sense

[@ivyfrog]

not me crying

[@tasheannabetts1503]

I feel that's why he's singing too. To show he feels the pain too.

[@ice-ux2yo]

vso ponyatno

[@payget3882]

I think that the girl lost her dad and Jesse is letting her take all the pain and anger out on him but he also has daddy issues but he puts that aside and focuses on her. "It's crazy what you'd do for a friend" is like how crazy Jesse is being for letting that girl destroy his car but he remains calm.

[@ruth5460]

Holy shit that makes so much sense

[@cheeto1353]

Thank you. This makes sense now

[@sixofsnails6364]

Wow. That was a beautiful description. I felt it.

[@Jpickle555]

My take on the video is showing how crazy people can get when they have abusive parents. The boy sits there, not caring because he understands.

[@visibleconfusion192]

My guess would be to establish the relationship and how he might be/is obsessed with the girl.

[@Farahalsharae]

Just here in the comments to say how peaceful and therapeutic listening to NBHD is !! 2:18 “It’s crazy what you do for a friend” always gets to me..

[@tenebae1999]

I love that this song actually talks about the fact that anyone can have mommy or daddy issues because it's not limited to a need for sexual attention from the other gender, sometimes it's about having a parental figure, or a missing part of your person because you know that person didn't want you, it can be about lots of things

[@kokobebekoko]

Oh.. Bro

[@Jesussaves852]

Jesus loves you and may God bless you .

[@tenebae1999]

@@Jesussaves852 thanks but I'm good

[@tenebae1999]

@@blerinaxhelaj8797 if this is true, call the suicide hotline. Your dad can't keep things like these under wraps for so long, you'd be surprised at what adults can do to help you get out of this situation. Your mom likely is abused physically, and your brother likely isn't safe either, even with you here. Abusers wont just limit themselves at one target, you're not "distracting" him from harming your other family members. Please don't take your own life, your need to be here to protect your family. Try to get proof of his assault and report him. I can't tell you what to do for sure, because I'm not a professional, but there are professionals who CAN and WILL help you, so don't give up, this is a fight you can win

[@shaysyester6713]

I have mommy issues no daddy my father was no issue . But I always seem to crave females attention and when I do get the nurturing mature it attacks me more then sex like I can be controlled more tht way. My life is hell and I'm tired . If it weren't for these kids I'd be gone from this place .

[@yashny]

This song hits differently when you can actually relate to it. Sending love and healing to everyone who has had an abusive/absent father xx

[@Starmadzia]

Reall

[@yashny]

@@Starmadzia yes

[@Ash-ho9og]

my dad hits me

[@bunnydahl1353]

This comment I totally have a terrible relationship with my father it’s totally fucked that he was never here for me but can do stuff with his girlfriend that he couldn’t ever do with me

[@doc.jekyll7709]

il m'aimait il est mort trop tot je ne me souviens presque de rien de lui seulement quelques échantillons d'amour il me manque tellement

[@kouffeejelly]

Listening to this on fathers day seeing all my friends posting their dads while i just watch their stories

[@Sanjiscumslut]

Same here.... I wish I knew what was a father's love

[@melike8498]

and i don't have a friend

[@clevermind5865]

@@melike8498 you fine man?

[@user-vf8qw5od7z]

I was watching Netflix just to avoid that, and then a really wholesome father-daughter scene came up, and i just started sobbing uncontrollably 🥲

[@reniela4644]

i want to experience being "daddy's girl"

[@권나영-n9s]

범태하❤❤

[@MJ-ch1xi]

꺅ㅋㅋㅋ

[@yoyoyoyovanessaa]

I don’t have daddy issues but just reading the comments makes me feel so bad for all of you :(

[@turntoallah3148]

ur lucky :)

[@i-dont-know-who]

im here feeling same

[@pandasdotor8497]

Feel you

[@noellesnoodles5484]

Same here, I feel so bad :((

[@user-qx8io8ig8y]

Gods favorite

[@seliamarguerite8291]

I actually have daddy issues he never beat me or anything but his words are more hurtful than that

[@senpai_nim375]

Please don't let anything bad he ever sad to you got into your head,dear. Remember that you are special in your own way 💜

[@seliamarguerite8291]

@@senpai_nim375 thank you 🥺🥺 you’re so sweet

[@senpai_nim375]

@@seliamarguerite8291 How are you doing nowadays,dear? Hopefully good 😌

[@seliamarguerite8291]

@@senpai_nim375 pretty good I’m in a good mood these days

[@senpai_nim375]

@@seliamarguerite8291 Great!Hope you will always in a good mood this year,dear☺️

[@irdc]

"go ahead and cry, little girl" always gets me..

[@yaso5333]

I know that you got daddy issues

[@alyssabeetham8214]

Same.

[@luacsc__]

me too.

[@Planespottingwithimogen]

Younger me needed someone to say that to her

[@irdc]

@@_T_he_Editor_ hell yeah

[@bacistime]

The song that cannot be replaced by any other song. I even hear it twenty times a day, on the road, at school, and when I sleep.

[@kayleecundiff6774]

i miss this era of the band tbh :( happy they’re successful now tho

[@michellealvarado9494]

Kaylee Cundiff me too

[@bads5780]

Wdym? Didnt wiped out! Have more success than hard to Imagine the neighbourhood ever changing?

[@MayStephan]

Their sound hasn't really changed though

[@ElleBellsChannel]

I pray the wires aren't coming

[@katu3390]

@@MayStephan yes it has

[@stephanglo8234]

HOW DID I *NOT* KNOW THEY HAD A MUSIC VIDEO FOR THIS SONG???? i've heard it a thousand times but never seen this

[@biankapadilla1221]

Steph Anglim Lagones GIRL SAME!!!

[@Johnsmith-no2di]

Ugh legit just found the video

[@johanakohoutova741]

EXACTLY

[@sarahelisabeth03]

exactly why i came here lol

[@whatever8165]

Absolutely same. *SAME*

[@sicklyhere5803]

When I was younger my father was EXTREMELY abusive to my mother, physical and mentally but he was sweet to me and my brother and loved us. But one day when I was around 5 years old and he malested me. I remember everything. That day changed everything, he wasn't ever present and didn't try to fight for us. 2 years ago he killed himself and I know this sounds bad but I'm a little relieved. I can finally feel safe away from him.

[@freedom1667]

Aww sorry for what happened to you❤️❤️❤️❤️

[@Rcoal]

Hey he did something unforgivable. You being relieved is okay. Anyways I hope you’re doing better now

[@annahprevite112]

don’t ever feel like you’re wrong for being relieved he’s dead. what he did you you, your mom, and your brother was terrible and you’re right for feeling that way😙

[@claudianextdoor]

Your story explains this song perfectly

[@b.luealien]

you did not deserve to be treated like that and neither did your mother. :( thank you for sharing, i’m proud of you. you have all my support and love 🥺❤️❤️

[@probablyreading3627]

happy father’s day i guess?

[@sarah69240]

HELPP

[@Go_Goobie]

NO YOU CANT SAY THAT(/j)- HELP 😭😭😭

[@KYO_0x]

No.

[@Gracex_xpancakes]

BAAAAAAAAHHHH----

[@Cocopreppypinkviscogirl]

Shit

[@sophia.6233]

I feel like they would play this song in a club while everyone thinks it’s a sexual song but I’m on the floor crying my eyes out because i actually have daddy issues and I understand the meaning of the song

[@jodie7951]

Same, I can't listen to this without breaking down

[@caffeine1720]

But you’re nishinoya u can’t be sad

[@unfortunateson5016]

It's always the kids with anime pics yikes.

[@sophia.6233]

Unfortunate Son yeah and what about it? Tell me😀!🧏🏾‍♀️😹 oh okay 😐👎🏾 .

[@wanda5581]

@@unfortunateson5016 profile pictures dont rlly matter but go off

[@blehbleh6248]

All the lovelies, who have been hurt by their mommy or daddy, always know you deserve all the love in this world. Never settle for someone like your mommy/daddy. Never involve yourself in an abusive relationship. They'll tell you it's love, they'll fool you because you are never ever loved properly to know the difference between love and abuse but as soon you know that, RUN AWAY, as fast as you can.

[@hradipati3560]

Thank you, I needed this❤️

[@frogsareelite3942]

Thank you so much❤️

[@manaswithakur7510]

Just the pretty ones??

[@richardmcgraw6881]

I got Daddy issues! and I dated many boogers before I learned my lesson and learned to love myself.

[@KJ-fq7tg]

Much appreciate this

[@nico-ji5om]

The “you know what your daddy did too, you know what your momma went through.” Hits even more

[@CristineNtumbaKitenge]

"its crazy what you do for a friend" that part is so real

[@nikvlai9730]

i don’t have daddy issues but this song is really calming for me edit: ok maybe i do? recently discovered my dad might be a bit abusive

[@angie-lynnfajardo2868]

This song makes me cry because I relate this.

[@brandonar868]

I think you all have daddy issues then....

[@Autumn-rt8jg]

Same, I don't have them, but I like listening to this

[@magdalenagavric6819]

catra 🥺🥺🥺

[@deathbysunset1318]

Dad : Ight imma head out to get some milk Mom : ok dear Two hours later : no return Five years later : no return Yep I don’t have daddy issues

[@jakjak25maria12]

The most underrated song and band. I'm happy they're still our little secret, but it pains me that the amazing work behind The Neighbourhood's music is not more recognized. Gives the true meaning to "hidden gem".

[@gracelynmclamb3608]

Rosestyles8 omg your so right this band is amazing

[@sneekz07]

The video has 3 million+ views. They aren't 'our little secret'.

[@anirose6807]

Elle Keener 3 million views is nothing for a band. Cage the Elephant has more and they aren't barely even on the grid. Taylor Swift gets billions of views. Remember, a view isn't even on person, a view counts for 1/8 of a person since each person views a video more than once. That's not even a million people. That's extremely underrated for a talent this great.

[@hraeu]

Rosestyles8 LARRY LARRY LARRY

[@f0rumrr]

Sweater weather is pretty well known... 145 million vevo views...

[@bluewolfchicken7310]

Dear Dad, I appreciate and am grateful for everything you have done to bring me up. But just providing financially isn't enough. I feel guilty whenever I cry about you because i know that you are trying hard not to lose your patience. I need you here to comfort me and tell me that everything will be ok, not tell how pitiful and useless i am compared to you. I'm still waiting for you, Love, your daughter.

[@Nazzz12345]

Dear Stranger, Even if your feelings are not reciprocated by your dad, know it in your heart that you are strong. You have come this far, do not give up on yourself now just because someone else did. You owe it to yourself to be kind and gentle with your scars and shortcomings. In time everything will turn out just fine. You will see and maybe even smile back to your past self who held on with so much strength. So hold on. Sending you virtual love and prayers. Take care of yourself, okay? ❣

[@bloosmbabe1675]

He loves you but in his own way, read about (love ways..) This is his way to give you love, to protect you from the world roughness it will be useful and will understand how to deal with him❤️

[@anointedfavourgeorge5294]

Omg the financial part hit home

[@tayalamb225]

im in the same situation. virtual hugs🫂

[@raquelsrefurbishings8346]

Please send this ti him. Be more specofoc on your needs. The touch of appreciation works wonders. And tour love shines thru in the fact you sre still waiting. ♡

[@alyssahernandez9778]

my dad thinks providing financially is enough and that’s all he needs to do as a father. there’s no love it’s just all anger and i hate it when he tries to touch me (not in a bad way) but like any touch because of everything he put me through, when i show emotion he doesn’t try to make me feel better it just always ends off on bad terms then pretend like nothing happened and it’s all ok. i can’t remember the last time we told each other we love each other and we live in the same house but i do love my dad but it just hurts that we can’t have a good relationship and hope one day to get out of here.

[@zariarobinson3257]

This song makes me cry so much. I wish i had a dad. I want that daddy and daughter relationship i never got to have. I want to feel the love dads are suppose to give to their daughters. I want to feel protected. I want to feel like im worth something.

[@QueenPreniece]

Same. 🥺

[@wasted8376]

Same😓

[@Hikapika6]

Same

[@meenaupadhyaya6581]

Same 🥲🥺

[@luvvin_lu]

Same ...

[@gremlin6968]

I want to listen to this song at 1am on the beach anyone wanna join

[@the1andonlycakelover57]

I will

[@lili-rl4wu]

coming

[@rahpet3576]

Will come

[@jaylendontexist9860]

I will come

[@nikvlai9730]

i’m down

[@tanisha._b9033]

This song has such a deep meaning and tiktokers are over here making thirst traps to this song. That's embarrassing

[@h_a1019]

Agreed.

[@chokedmekuroo4068]

Hell yeah 😭

[@tanyadutary2203]

Agree

[@artmmmm8279]

I don't really understand the meaning of the song. Can you explain please?

[@oliviamaher2333]

@@artmmmm8279 he’s talking to a girl about how he understands and accepts that she has a bad relationship with her dad and how that makes her feel uneasy trusting guys that she dates and he can relate to that and he wants her to know she’ll be safe with him and he’ll love her unlike her dad, because girls with daddy issues have trouble with dating because they fear they’ll be left or not enough, the same way their dad made them feel. And the last bridge in the song he talks about how he feels pertaining to his dad, and how even if his dad is gone and he tried to let him go and acts like he doesn’t care, deep down he wish he could tell his dad what he’s done and wants his dad to be proud of him. Further trying to make the listener who can relate feel understood and safe and know that it’s ok to feel that way bc so does he but that we’re enough and worthy of love and we’re strong and deserving of being proud of

[@Joeyurib3]

As a young male, it really has only been getting worse and it hurts so incredibly bad. I do hope to find that older male mentor someday. The pain is really just killing me.

[@rawr6412]

The worst part about daddy issues is when you have that mom who just sits back and* is like "well...what do you want me to do ?🙂"

[@ahanaroychoudhuri]

You are spot on 🙂

[@patricialondon520]

Fr it’s the worst, she just says life goes on and people have had worse. Lol my dad is married and didn’t tell his wife about me and he didn’t tell me he was married, sis how am I supposed to just move on from that.

[@rawr6412]

@@patricialondon520 Some moms be just as toxic as dads or worse 😀👍

[@Miseducation8]

toxic mom 😍 and dad is out getting milk 🥛 love it here

[@youremother1774]

Ikr 😞

[@nvwalker7827]

“go ahead and cry little girl. nobody does it like you do. i know how much it matters to you. i know that you got daddy issues” hits hard

[@alana3722]

😐

[@radialaalaoui5098]

"If u were my lil girl I'd do whatever I could do id run away and hide with u" hits me hard

[@asf-xj6xz]

As it should

[@vivlodia]

idk why that one line makes me so sad

[@Moonplaysrblx]

"Its crazy what youll do for an friend" True words said from an wise man-

[@pearlgirlMSP-cl2vv]

This song 1. Made me cry 2. I can relate to 3. is the song I always circle back to know matter how many songs i listen to

[@Hannah-um4gh]

pearlgirl12310 MSP why did it make you cry?

[@Noir98]

as a person who has Daddy issues; this song is so special for me. someone who is saying me everything I ever want to hear "Go ahead and cry little girl, nobody does it like you do, i know how much it matters to you"

[@ricardoruiz6517]

K.

[@angelcalixto3141]

Same Keyla, well as a guy in my case

[@SamKhan-oq7ux]

I can completely relate, this song speaks to me in that way aswell. Also, all i need in life is for someone to tell me that.

[@dhull5060]

I'm sure he's saying nobody doesn't like you too

[@nbenasfre]

+D hull no Keyla is correct

[@ellalau6698]

Sweater Weather: A happy 15 year old with both parents Daddy Issues: a depressed middle aged woman going through a mid life crisis

[@addicttt]

8 years later and still amazing

[@fllatespring]

this song turned something bigger to me. as if it's a safe place. as if it's not just about daddy issues, it's also about every trauma. as if it's a hug. as if someone you've hurt because of your trauma understands and turns back to you.

[@fllatespring]

@@707mimi you're right. just as one would expect from someone with a hachi on their profile. best wishes for you

[@mondaybluesenthusiast]

This

[@Elsss_01]

The only reason I still have friends is because they knew about my trauma because they were there with me as I was getting more and more traumatized over the years. So the more I tried to push them away they stayed over and over. Choosing the hurt I caused over leaving the scared little girl hiding deep inside.

[@FlourishNelson-d5u]

😭😭😭

[@Cybernkva]

This is so true, like how'd you know I have a younger brother! how'd you know my mother waited for me, her sun, to shine and so much more. I never thought I would ever hear my whole life composed into a 3 minute song.

[@momsnothome2088]

this is probably one of the deepest videos I've seen in the past few years. Beautiful

[@gxcci_tae4166]

the whole song hits but when he says " I didn't cry when you left at first, but now that your dead it hurts, this time I gotta know where did my daddy go?" hits for some reason.

[@meghasaini7973]

Ok what does that really mean??

[@gxcci_tae4166]

@@meghasaini7973 when his dad left he didn't feel any emotions but know that he's dead he started to have emotions.

[@niakowinchester]

@@meghasaini7973 i'm in the same situation. My mom and dad divorced when i was like 8. I didn't care because he never really looked after me or showed me some kind of affection. I was even happy because it was more peaceful at home and my mum was enough. Now I am 25. He died about a year ago and i felt this overwhelming sadness. My friends tell me that it probably has been always there and I just never noticed it or i'm sad because he never gave me this childhood i needed. I can't explain it very well cause i don't get it too.

[@meghasaini7973]

@@niakowinchester yoo im really sry ik what u feel that's really bad but look i hope u overcome that because u got a life ahead and it might've been tough for u to see all that in your childhood bro u tge strongest 💖💖

[@ariahmccurry2089]

Ikr... Army btw!

[@dblmtattoo]

The Neighborhood-this is the best thing that has ever happened to humanity

[@javs-]

being the child of married parents who should be divorced and hearing the "i'm not entirely here, half of me has disappeared" just hit different

[@okibye8600]

I m at the point where i d be more than happy if my parents divorce n go diff ways chase their own happiness, while i can rehab from mental torture . Chase my own happiness.

[@thalita99]

I feel the same

[@ruthlessssraisins6666]

Same

[@grusenpai]

i'm very sorry

[@rosalinedegreate5251]

i got to feel so surprised bcuz it's exactly how it feels like

[@bleached3360]

My take on this: Jesse cares about this girl and lets her let out all of her emotions around him because he knows how important it is to her. Personally, he wishes he could do the same and let out all of his emotion but he hasn't even come to accept that his dad has died yet. He is emotionless and takes her problems in as if he were her dad in hopes that he can gain that feeling again.

[@synchronicity8947]

hmm.

[@synchronicity8947]

My Dad is a sociopath. I won't go into further detail. My "man's"(?) dad left when he was young and then his Dad died. We're a trope in a popular song though. Seems trivial when you look at it that way. How many people have been through this exact same situation.

[@ASTHTCALMM]

hmm.

[@sstarsteppa]

I agree

[@internetjunky4327]

my dad died when I was 11, this definitely hit too close to home

[@gersoncuevas8137]

This is basically sweater weather but on drugs and depression.

[@season4646]

deeeeep ! love it!

[@viennas.]

Sweater Weather- trauma edition

[@silverbloodronin6960]

HAHAHAHAHAHAHHA YES

[@pauline6074]

this is the most accurate cmment i`ve ever seen

[@JA-yx3wj]

OOP-

[@Lilgeekr]

I dedicate this song to aimey as she loves this band , I never found the right words to tell you how much you mean to me. But if you ever wonder, know that you’ve always been in my heart , even when I couldn’t say it i was stupid to wait for the right time

[@lunamoon17]

I like the background sounds of the car being smashed in this video.

[@slayy9091]

Luna Moon same

[@InVerseHailhydra000]

Yeah. It was so satisfying

[@Zealant]

the only thing I don't like about this video

[@ayannalopez3308]

You and me both

[@auroramatiz1425]

I love this song. Is really magical ✨✨

[@nickkruger3384]

I can't describe the sadness I feel when I listen to this song. It reminds me of the mother of my children. Im a daddy to 2 girls. She abandoned my daughter's almost two years ago and nobody's really heard from her since. She got into drugs. I dont demonize her. I love her from a distance. She knows we all love her and the door is always open when shes ready. Her poor soul never deserved the torment she endured during her lifetime. She never knew her biological father, and the man that stepped up to raise her for her entire life that she called dad tragically passed away in a house fire. This is just one part of the countless unfortunate things that have happened over the course of her life. But daddy issues resonates. And as I sit here and listen to this song, my heart aches for her. I pray that she finds the peace and love that she deserves. As the intro melody plays, all I can picture in my mind is looking into her empty eyes and seeing the sorrow and pain that aches pours out of them. I pray she finds her way. "And if you were my little girl, I'd do whatever I could do. I'd runaway and hide with you. I know that you got daddy issues." ..we love you Katy.

[@jewels8836]

Wonderfull man

[@_aconite_cj_]

I'm prayin with you man, Katy will be okay, we all will be 🦋✨🌹

[@giannacherry1698]

*Gotta add this to my cry time playlist.* But honestly this is song speaks to me deeply. My father didn't exactly physically die but the man I knew him to be has. The one who actually cared is now dead and I have to explain that to those who ask about him.

[@centipedehee6248]

that is literally the same exact for me

[@zeta3469]

Ok I feel you

[@maddielangley1124]

I felt that on a personal fucking level

[@perpetua111vv]

I have the same situation

[@alwandekhanyile9366]

i relate to this so much like woah

[@Dracomalfoy-c4f]

1:13 always makes me cry

[@light_rrr]

_the nbhd is the bloody chillest band ive come across_

[@ohno7018]

Makes me wanna go destroy a car, but I’m too lazy and too scared to get arrested so I guess that ain’t happening

[@woodlandreader]

Oh No thats a mood

[@Jadei74]

Mood

[@shania9333]

To do it with your old car if u have lol then u buy a new one

[@lucasfenty7511]

Oh No Watch the serie "Bates Motel" the scene of Rihanna. She destroy a car with this song.

[@gsgzhzvs2632]

Oh No Dude if you really want to, buy cars that cost 1000$ and under and do whatever you want with it

[@setaremirzaei]

if you reading this you have a great taste in music

[@aleja7963]

2020... still alive? - 🦋

[@AJBrook-1017]

Heyyy

[@allicyaadny]

Hello

[@netlixo150]

No

[@penguineeee6440]

Hi

[@ginalover8666]

Hiya mate

[@Mia-hq5qb]

my dad passed away two months ago. i’m thirteen and it’s hard to imagine my future without my best friend. my dad was a role model to me and this song just helps me let it all out and cry.

[@steminhotpokets]

Im sorry nobody but my said anything but stay strong my guy:)

[@emilyrose4406]

ily you are so strong i hope you the best in life

[@bridie9029]

Awww I’m sorry 🥺

[@courtneylynn9457]

Hey I know EXACTLY how you feel. My dad passed when I was 4 and I hardly knew anything about him at all. But as I got older my family told me more about him. But now that I'm thirteen and more mature I guess you could say I have accepted the fact that he's gone and that there is no bringing him back to life. I wish I could so so so so so bad!! Now I have a peice of shit step dad who comes and goes as he pleases and I know my dad would be so angry. But anyways whatever you wanna talk about just know you can come to me because I've been in the situation you've been in. Just lmk if you want my snap ok. Keep your head high gorgeous ❤️

[@ariapops204]

it’s okay, you have your memories

[@lu_baby7]

I'll never get over this song, its always so strangely soothing to me 🖤

[@Nesquik-3683]

Same, I turn it on when I’m rlly down and it calms me down idk why. I can even fall asleep to this song, I’m so glad I found this song

[@kunu92]

🤍

[@janetuss6496]

If y'all haven't heard the Pied Piper x Daddy Issues mashup (slowed version) by planetaerium, highly recommend

[@RMB.55]

I feel pain in my heart when I listen to it and this song is just too strong (:

[@zxcbezdar]

I have a suspicion that I have mental problems, but this song just saves, but not much

[@danielafecanji3143]

The fact that this is a masterpiece...

[@gracereddan8225]

stop saying this song is sexual I'm tryna read everyone's daddy issues and see if they're as bad as mine

[@nissanssa]

for the girls and gays hello yes what’s urs mine is emotionally abusive and neglectful 🦋🦋

[@xxsophxx999]

Mine is literally the same as that person’s ^

[@nazifaanjumaumee3371]

@@nissanssa Yup the same.

[@mxstical_]

@@nissanssa mine is mantipulation and absence for about 5 years of my life xx

[@angelinarose4670]

I hope you guys are okay :(

[@ariawebber1760]

My father left me and this song makes me think about him. He knows what he did. I am way better off without him.

[@oesallv]

Stay Strong❤❤

[@gabrielledeguzmangillera8016]

Why am i crying because of this comment

[@gabrielledeguzmangillera8016]

I'm so sad because my father left me too when i was 7

[@stinewatson3875]

@@gabrielledeguzmangillera8016 im so sorry. my parents are divorced but i like with my dad. my mother was an abusive, cheater and a psycho woman. glad she's gone now so ig i have mommy issues

[@gabrielledeguzmangillera8016]

@@stinewatson3875 my dad was the abusive one but my life is better now

[@user-vp4um7xq1i]

Take you like a drug I taste you on my tongue You ask me what I'm thinking about I tell you that I'm thinking about Whatever you're thinking about Tell me something that I'll forget And you might have to tell me again It's crazy what you'll do for a friend Go ahead and cry, little girl Nobody does it like you do I know how much it matters to you I know that you got daddy issues And if you were my little girl I'd do whatever I could do I'd run away and hide with you I love that she's got daddy issues, and I do too I tried to write your name in the rain But the rain never came So I made with the sun The shade Always comes at the worst time You ask me what I'm thinking about I tell you that I'm thinking about Whatever you're thinking about Tell me something that I'll forget And you might have to tell me again It's crazy what you'll do for a friend Go ahead and cry, little girl Nobody does it like you do I know how much it matters to you I know that you got daddy issues And if you were my little girl I'd do whatever I could do I'd run away and hide with you I love that she's got daddy issues I keep on trying to let you go I'm dying to let you know How I'm getting on I didn't cry when you left at first But now that you're dead it hurts This time I gotta know Where did my daddy go? I'm not entirely here Half of me has disappeared Go ahead and cry, little boy You know that your daddy did too You know what your mama went through You gotta let it out soon, just let it out Go ahead and cry, little girl Nobody does it like you do I know how much it matters to you I know that you got daddy issues And if you were my little girl I'd do whatever I could do I'd run away and hide with you I love that she's got daddy issues, and I do too If you were my little girl I'd do whatever I could do I'd run away and hide with you I love that she's got daddy issues, and I do too

[@asrahussain3650]

Thanks

[@scarrost]

w o w

[@anitabkf]

I love how yall just post the lyrics whiteout further comment

[@Pinepine0]

I've been searching for a line which says " i could see it on your face, it was rough"😶

[@shortD00dle]

8 years later and this song is still a bop and it’s home SO HARD ☹️

[@beomgyulvrr2277]

I wish my dad cared more about me,i get so sad seeing other girls being so happy and laughing with their dads,spending time together,jealousy.

[@fazetta]

You're not alone

[@reybau3137]

Honestly, growing up I thought fathers are just financial providers and the one who would give me a ride to school. I didn't know they could be best friends too. Until I heard from my classmates how their dads would play with them. And saw it in movies too. I was like "Woah...dads do really do that?". I know full well that he loves us. I just... don't feel it.

[@Malia-h5y]

So true I went to a wedding and cried when the bride danced with her dad cus i know that will never be me, dancing with my dad.

[@Lexis6789]

I felt this 😓☝️

[@hola-yq7sm]

Almenos no gritaban lastima que mi papa levantaba la mano contra mi mama y peleaban todo el tiempo me despertaba cada rato por sus gritos de suerte se fue pero fue horrible esos dias :/

[@chleag.h7185]

After my father walked out on us, every time I cried, not because I missed him but I thought it was unfair, my mom used to tell me "he doesn't deserve your tears. Even if he's not here, I am. You dont need him". And it is true, I never needed him for anything but it just hurts sometimes you know? The only father figure Ive had all these years is my grandpa. Im so blessed to have him

[@kqwpqqesy9185]

same..

[@kqwpqqesy9185]

my grandpa was best person..

[@space676sof]

I am so sorry for that :(( I hope thi gs get better and that your okay..

[@space676sof]

@@kqwpqqesy9185 I'm so sorry for that! But I know that your grandpa Is looking above you from heaven right now and is showering you with his love! So don't worry, I hope that angel lives in peace 🕊️❤️

[@kqwpqqesy9185]

@@space676sof thank you so much!

[@swagnemit3]

any recommendations for these kinda songs? love this

[@emuvuu9645]

Tolga Kücükbiyik wires by the neighborhood

[@titooktavian1833]

try Cry Baby

[@aviannaknight5527]

Lana del rey.. the girl version of this band.

[@bunnie9158]

Avianna Knight Why do people say that? In my opinion she has her own style different from them..

[@anthonysmith9972]

there are alot of subscribers you just have to find throughout you tube. they're out there. click on the mixes that's recommend with other artists.

[@scottfisher7254]

My dad showed me this band when they came out with sweater weather. He was the absolute coolest best most amazing dad i could ask for. He passed away in 2014 when i was 28 and even as a grown man it hurt not having him around. I do the same for my 2 boys they are the world to me and im sorry to anyone whose dads were messed up to them or just not there. Everyone needs a father figure in their life

[@jeenaatjuhaa3771]

The comment section of this song really feels like a home to me, after getting to know that I'm not alone here in this cruel world. To those with mommy/daddy issues, never settle, nor cry for someone who isn't reciprocating with that. Us people with parental issue, we also deserve love and affection, but not the fake ones. The moisture of our eyes is valuable, don't shed them for people who doesn't treat you like you deserve to be. Love, Someone who's also struggling with daddy issue

[@mahiwinter6]

I agree Everytime when I listen this song always read comments section than I feel I'm not alone in this world

[@raphl4428]

your comment is way too long to read stop riting so much

[@Rose-e4o1h]

When you don't have a good relationship with your parents and you're listening to this song....:)

[@shin3071]

Same here

[@chloebaker4056]

Yah my dad not left but we constantly arguing and hurts me and my parents are constantly arguing and my mum hurts me to sometimes

[@hanniep1e]

Chloe Baker I have never related more

[@salfishermybeloved7134]

Same:/

[@nav8288]

yeah :)..

[@ssdsatan7861]

2019 still love the song

[@mertgocmen8916]

Kes

[@shardaesheis1081]

I just discovered this band today because of the movie, The Dreamers fan edit! 🤷🤷🤷🤷

[@UntitledFloat]

2020 and still obsessed

[@danielle-5701]

2020 here

[@sangwoo.obama.bestship]

@@UntitledFloat same

[@alyssa0411]

The lyrics to this song take me to sad places in my past. Sending virtual hugs to anyone who has been there when they were young.

[@neverlandwinwin6095]

is the neighbourhood in that list of artists who write songs for people who think that could murder someone but actually they're afraid to even ask for more ketchup in burger king? I think yes

[@f4rz102]

no

[@stinewatson3875]

did u just describe me

[@kokettadesse7418]

Thats me

[@HahaHaha-lp9jj]

this is so cringy i can't-

[@psychopatheliens6587]

This song goes pretty much with killing stalking don't u thing sangwoo;)

[@vinciandzane]

I'm crying while I read the comments. I also have daddy issues, me and my dad have a bad relationship and his words cut deeper than a knife. Freakin hurts when u see that he doesn't care or try to act like he cares at all.

[@cottagecore7584]

same my dad once encouraged me to kill myself

[@wethesharpesttools]

@@cottagecore7584 I’m so fucking sorry to hear that, please stay strong. I’m sending love your way

[@klaribug7817]

@@cottagecore7584 omg same. I don't get why are some parents like this. :(((

[@Everf11]

Literally he was never there for me and is just using me to get back with my mom and it hurts because he reminds me of it everytime I talk to him. And then he expects that I treat him with respect when he shattered me when I was so young I hate him so much

[@zinnia7344]

Mine too same I can feel you