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[@biabia9181]

For the “see?! Told you rich men aren’t the move!” Please realize and remember poor men abuse children as well. It’s not the status, it’s the man. Don’t forgo character just because he has money and is a provider. And don’t think a poor man is automatically gonna treat you any better.

[@royaltyinsidemydna]

Frfr and don't assume a poor man is abusive or can't attain a better standard of living.

[@ginihall1234]

@@royaltyinsidemydna👀

[@Whoisthatns]

I don’t know why y’all can’t just be happy alone #4bmeplease

[@Tha90sKid]

💯💯

[@saranghae2808]

Exactly!!!!!!!!!!! Honestly I feel a lot of these takes are people just gloating over her misfortune because they didn't have what she had.

[@hillydilly474]

My dad says that there are 4 types of men in the world. Good and bad men with money, and good and bad men without money. Pick the best one.

[@jen484]

That statement needs to go viral! That’s a whole word!😮

[@NandiJohnston-p6f]

🧨🧨🧨🧨

[@LovelyDayOneDay]

Thank you to your dad for those wonderful and powerful statements. I agree with him 100%.

[@firandcurly84]

Yes exactly 💯

[@IntegrityMeansAll]

Another differentiation: 1.Provider&Protector(both) 2.Predat. 3.Cowards/Enabler of the Predat.

[@randoomly39484]

"Stop making romantic choices from a place of desperation" So well said Chrissie 👏🏼👏🏼

[@24KinfO]

The same thing happened with Young Miami. She was all, look at me and my rich man Diddy.

[@7Mushrooms7]

This is the center of the problem. It's not hypergamy, it's not sheera, none of that. It's the desperation. She didn't do the necessary inner work to not be so desperate and not date from a place of lack and fear.

[@christmastree1682]

@@24KinfOyea and for halle berry when she dated two dusties. Because $$ has nothing to do with it

[@disneytoysr4fun975]

@@7Mushrooms7 Thank you! I don't follow any of these women for inspiration (I prefer a lifestyle similar to my parents) but Shera was never down with women buying their own wedding rings and jumping to the next man because you are about to be homeless!

[@lilly_ann]

@@7Mushrooms7 shera literally always says to never make decisions out of desperation. Even yesterday in a love someone made a comment about something and she repeated it. She's ALWAYS said it

[@Jaxjax1314]

I am in a relationship where he pays all the bills. I made the decision months ago to go back to work after noticing HUGE character flaws and him attempting to weaponize finances and my child against me. A cage made of gold is still a cage Edit: I’m still not paying anything I’m saving all my money and preparing to leave him. I’m not going to make an emotional decision to abruptly leave and jeopardize me and my son!

[@MelissaMartinez-n3n]

Yes it is, I feel the same way I’ve always worked .. so it seemed nice .. but I always say I live in a gilded prison

[@racheltruth3822]

That last line is a bar

[@Tionaintown876]

Just because you started working doesn’t mean you should start contributing to the bills honey stack stack stack your money for a rainy day if you need to get out of there with the quickness

[@ramblingrue]

why you not leaving him

[@liabw05]

Thanks for being honest!

[@ChimeraK]

This is why I'm prioritizing my education, career, and money over a man. So that having a hypergamous man will be a choice, and not a necessity.

[@tripleb1960]

BINGO! Women will never get it 👏

[@Sababbby]

Great idea! 😃❤❤

[@JoanneArc-or9sr]

Good girl

[@Amirah0777]

Same sis. I’ll see you at the top 🥂

[@paigemurray6700]

She made 94k a year at 24… she was doing just fine before she met him. She wanted a family…

[@shannalee80]

More women need to be taught how to listen and use their intuition.

[@Athirdofthem]

They clearly aren't as good as they make out, look at what Ted Bundy did and when women are left to their own vices they cannot pick men well.

[@lookatdadamage94]

Or men shouldn’t be pedos. Trust some of them can hide for years. A grandpa that everyone knew and loved was molesting his grand daughter. We can’t control men’s actions. And you just truly never know

[@Marieruth333]

​@@Athirdofthem you are absolutely right some women don't listen to their intuition or maybe don't have it. Don't forget how many husbands are being chosen by a father, the family realizes how their behavior is bad, unfortunately it's always to late for the daughter. And you should question yourself or study the reason why women have a tendency to gaslight themselves,why women ignore their guts.

[@Athirdofthem]

@@Marieruth333 I hear you, you do have a point. I wasn't saying that the father should be the only one that has the say, I believe that everyone should eg the mum, aunties, uncles etc.

[@Marieruth333]

@SolutionOrientedMan the problem is this kind of maniac or sociopaths have the ability to charms everyone and they know how to mimic the good behavior of the men around them.

[@Tiredttttttt]

She was a good mom for getting out of there so quickly but she was terrible in her thought process for marrying a man she barely knew in such a short amount of time & asking him if she can move in with him & him using her need for a place to stay to finesse her into a marriage, not to mention her admitting to buying the ring before he proposed just to push him into it, he was a stranger , this is insanity. He should’ve never had that level of access in just a few weeks

[@nicoleblu5764]

They both need accountability

[@cindychristian1700]

She bought the ring?!😢 After she gets through this, she needs some serious counseling to work on her rash choices, her very low self-esteem, her extremely poor judgement and get some family therapy!

[@SaharaKnows]

Well for “content”. And there always be an audience.

[@royaltyinsidemydna]

Getting out quickly? The damage was already done. The kids violated and herself R 4 damn times. Its so crazy disgusting its almost hard to believe.

[@bbydoll1222]

@@royaltyinsidemydnaHe also got arrested in November of 2023 for DV

[@cobleen3982]

Most women would have stayed quiet, but as you said-it is her responsibility to be honest and she had the integrity to do so. I respect it

[@criticalthinking6929]

Integrity where? Chile please

[@lululawson1653]

This behavior of molestation is hidden in families. The dishonesty in these comments don't match the statistics on dv, child abuse, cheating, divorce, unemployed men, single mothers, women heading households, etc.

[@almamater9346]

I agree. It had to have taken a lot to come out and admit what happened. It will also help others not follow that path

[@PoisonelleMisty4311]

But let's be real; while she dazzles under the spotlight, there's a fierce independence brewing beneath that designer gown. She doesn’t just want a husband; she wants a partner-someone who can match her energy and ambition. So if you think she's just a pretty ornament, think again. She'll be the first to show you that she’s not settling for anything less than extraordinary!

[@Itsteonna]

Her videos revealed she knew . U can hear her daughter in the background crying and saying ouch many times

[@godivainc4593]

Both my mother and a few other married women have said if their marriage’s did not work out while their kids were small they would not date. I get it. Child predators target single mothers.

[@IDidNotAsk4ThisHandle]

Yes they do

[@KingKahluaa]

Blaming shera because she moved in and married a man in 2 weeks is wild. Shera advocates for women to put themselves first -not to recklessly endanger themselves or their children. Shera is very protective of children and always states to put them first if you’re a mother.

[@prettypractical3372]

Agreed! Can’t blame Shera.

[@lilly_ann]

And she also says to never act out of desperation

[@Champagneplease41]

They don't listen to that part.

[@indigo8171]

Exactly. She Was Listening To 30 Second Clips From Fake Accounts and Not Listening To The Entirety Of Her Message.

[@Positivegirlii]

Right

[@bbydoll1222]

His name is Jermaine ORENTHRO Dowdy. Black male, 5’9 203 lbs. 50 years old. Born on 10/09/1974. He’s ex military. Currently works as a Cyber Intelligence Analyst. He hasn’t been arrested but they do have a protective order against him. He also was arrested in November 2023 for DV. I also think she was pregnant in November 2023 because. She posted a video in January 2024 where she was visibly pregnant.

[@yayatheunicorn]

Beating on his pregnant wife…yikes

[@defbaby5427]

Hes 50? Wow hoe hold is she?

[@LisforLiving]

Damn. Ya'll fast!.

[@jamrockk]

How did you get this inside information 👀?

[@PersistInTheMind]

@@jamrockkliterally how

[@dejanasnaturalway]

The problem is these girls who go for the “older man with money” half the time ignore the red flags. A lot of those men be weird, creepy and socially strange as hell.. but since he got money a lot of girls be blind . Chile I thank God everyday for my discernment.

[@natashadickson4819]

Yes, because using one's discernment and intuition is imperative whether the man has money or not.

[@R4a6]

Social media is motivated by people who want to make money off of your attention. Therefore everything should be taken with a grain of salt.! 🧂

[@brianamaldonado3059]

💯

[@BubblyRosé2468]

She was also SA'd when she was a child and she mentioned how "bcuz of my own trauma, I watch my kids like a hawk". BUT there are some videos online where she's talking to the camera doing her makeup, and you can hear her daughter screaming and crying repeatedly saying "Ow!" And she just laughs it off and says how "please ignore the noise in background. There's a lot of ppl in this house". She should've never had any kids bcuz she clearly wasn't ready esp for daughters.

[@natashadickson4819]

@BubblyRosé2468 Was the husband ready for daughters? Or is he unhinged and criminal? If there's audio of the child being abused, it's going to work in the mother's favor in court.

[@__Selena__]

A man pursuing a woman who is young enough to be his daughter hardly ever has good intentions. Those tend to be the p’s imo because they have an obsession with youth. To all the young and impressionable ladies out there, stick to your career goals and don’t fall for the okey doke. ❤ (yes this can happen to women of all ages but I’m centering the main demographic atm)

[@The-Oneness11]

I don't think there is anything wrong with age gap relationships if both individuals are older than 30. I don't think 20 year olds should be with anyone more than 10 years older.

[@AJ-fl3pz]

exactly!! men like that go for the youngest legal age they can and best believe if the age limits changed they would go for younger 🤢🤢

[@mimia.4810]

This had to be said! Men like to say “younger women are more in their prime and more attractive” but honestly any man who could date a woman significantly younger than him (a slight age gap isn’t bad, I’m talking BIG age gap) is weirdo. A man like that doesn’t actually value you as his equal partner or loves you. Big age gap relationships statically don’t last. Women need avoid the older men that honestly hit on us. It’s often times a red flag.

[@lululawson1653]

Most girls are pursued by grown men as teenagers. Women voted for men to control their reproductive rights, grown as adult women. Vet where?

[@lululawson1653]

​@@The-Oneness1110 years is a huge gap. Society has changed, but girls were married as young as 13. Ask your grandparents.

[@lbda9426]

Seeing the photos of her husband... I don't get it. She was actually a fan of Kevin Samuels whom was verbally abusive, a wifeless baby momma maker, and denied DV was a thing .

[@royaltyinsidemydna]

She thought like Kevin Samuels thought and got what she got. Kevin Samuels also believed single mothers were undesirable, that younger women should get with older men and that dark skin women were least attractive. Looking at her husband it's obvious she followed KS square head ssa.

[@royaltyinsidemydna]

She thought like KS thought and got what she got. KS believed single mothers were undesirable, that younger women should get with older men and that DS women were least desirable. Looking at her husband it makes sense she listened to KS square head having ssa.

[@leegaleaglenombo9430]

K. S. was from the pits, in my opinion!

[@mimia.4810]

It makes sense now. She’s one of those women that stupidly believe the advice redpill men like Kevin Samuels gave. She’s a beautiful woman, and probably could have gotten WAY better. But she believed because she was a single mother, if any successful man wanted her….she should take the offer as soon as possible. Telling single mothers and older women they are “less valuable” causes them to accept any man.

[@sunkissedn71]

​@@royaltyinsidemydna wow, she actually listened to him, okay that explains a lot..

[@eyeclapback7182]

She chose to ignore signs and Intuition and her daughters paid the ultimate price. 😢 She said she saw signs but dismissed them. And for what??? Money. Disgusting.

[@heyyahhh655]

Fr she basically told him she was a goofy and made her 2 sons told him about her assault andd thought a rich man without kids would really give her stuff for the free…… rich men dont give money away for free you always pay for it at the end . especially a christian man they not single and old for no reason the whole congregation would have been married him off to someone if he was a good guy 🚩🚩🚩🚩🚩

[@unbeknownst2me-o9t]

And a title. A marriage is only as good as the people in it. You cannot sacrifice your boundaries and respect for the title of wife.

[@tripleb1960]

BOTH her daughters paid the price. She's vile too if you think about it.

[@queennubian2573]

Daughterssss!

[@paigemurray6700]

Y’all victim blaming is disgusting. She made her own money before she met him. She wanted a family and he was their dad… she was raped by him and then the father molested his own children. A lot of ppl ignore red flags bcuz they want their family to work….

[@faevalentine9187]

I just don’t like the fact that Sheraseven is being blamed for this. If she REALLY listened to Sheras advice, she wouldn’t have been in this Situation. BecauseIf anyone has watched Sheras FULL videos she always says to Always have your own money and start a business. Don’t tell men that you have kids Don’t do online dating ALWAYS have high self esteem Don’t be desperate Don’t move in with men that you don’t know. Always have a backup plan . Keep your LEGS CLOSED as long as possible. I wish women would fully listen to sheras message ln FULL before they jump into a certain lifestyle.

[@ogolden8315]

Yes …. I believe before women even listen to Shera they go get some serious understanding of male nature and human psychology. Shera’s FULL videos give a wealth of information, but you have to be willing to listen to the videos consistently to get a clear understanding of her POV. She puts many disclaimers in her videos about the types of women her message may not be situation for. When Isis talked about Christian, Submission, buying the ring, etc …. I was like that’s not Shera. In the video I watched, she talked about watching Kitten Heels and agreeing with his advice. I mean Shera and Kitten don’t agree with each other. That’s going to give chaotic results.

[@Honey-fu4he]

Right…

[@JulianHat]

It's not possible for everyone involved with this type of thing to have a functioning business. Most new businesses fail

[@JulianHat]

And how can she say she doesn't have kids. They're going to find out eventually

[@no.6377]

@@JulianHat yeah, he'll find out _eventually_ . That doesn't mean they should be brought into the situation right away, since it'll attract predators

[@amyjay9403]

No shade but her husband looked suspect in that photo

[@J.R.noexcuses2013]

VERY MUCH SUSPECT

[@akalixa]

He just LOOKS guilty of something

[@Hiiiii-p7y]

Looks like my pastor who asked me out when I was 21 and he 52. I almost puke when asked me that

[@huhnahmai934]

this is part of the problem. You cannot know someone’s moral or ethical standpoint by the way that they look. nobody looks like a predator or a bad person. You know by their actions. People who think this way also use this superficial mindset to analyze other aspects of their lives and it puts them in situations very similar to this or worse. The same mentality that’s making you say he looks like a predator is the same mentality that made her look at this man and say he is my provider and he will treat me well. Pay attention to peoples actions not their looks. It will take you very far.

[@Gaudyaesthetic]

His eyes are evil and dead

[@ChosenChild-j9i]

I like a man with money but he better have the right character about himself.

[@mukaniwatkins2598]

Exactly!

[@Redd91ful]

🎯 she did not vet

[@beepbopboop7727]

Which man has character? They are all dirty imo.

[@royaltyinsidemydna]

I'd rather have MY OWN money always.

[@ginihall1234]

@@royaltyinsidemydna👀

[@PrettyPrincess9609]

This is why women should always stack their money so they can leave if they are ever in a toxic relationship. I do believe in dating up but I also believe in women having a backup plan, making some type of money, and saving and investing their money. If you are a stay at home mom and you don’t work, make sure he is giving you an allowance and put it in a savings account. I feel like stay at home moms should at least have a part time job or a business. You can even start a KZbin channel or a TikTok account and profit off of whatever brings in an audience but if you don’t work at least get an allowance from your husband.

[@MayISpeak]

Im sorry but what does this have to with cases of SA? Since this also happens in lower class families

[@tripleb1960]

Isis had all of this according to her. This happened to her babies because she married a monster and gave him access prey (3 of them) even AFTER being r@ped 4 times early on.

[@royaltyinsidemydna]

​@@MayISpeak lower class or not, women need their own money for self preservation and protection of their kids. It just so happens that if your man has money that allows you opportunity to stack yours. I think by her having a YT channel that allowed her to get her own place. Assuming all this is true bc she does seem weird AF to me.

[@lululawson1653]

​@@royaltyinsidemydnaMultiple channels promote stay at home wives that trust the man to provide. All assets, money, decisions are solely his, nothing in the wife's name including house, credit, bank accounts nothing! He can leave and wife has nothing, no job, work history, assets, money nothing. The level of trust is mind-blowing .

[@BackStreetChippets]

Absolutely!

[@BM-dr4eu]

Kevin Scamuels is one of the worst things to happen to the black community. His followers have a hard time admitting that.

[@mimia.4810]

This! He is the source of so much dating content. All this men vs women and “high value” talk came from him. Plus, he reduced a the value of men to his money and reduced a woman’s value to her age/beauty. Which just causes people to end up in awful relationships.

[@dhqbrandi]

Def is he separated the community

[@sparker7768]

​@@mimia.4810 🎯

[@Delimon007]

KS literally said to not go after men like this because they are not high value and these are the types of men that women chase. What are you even talking about?

[@bkchic8824]

​@Delimon007 Get over it. Ya kitten heels daddy is dead.

[@TOFFEETASTICC]

THANK YOU. I was called hateful for pointing out her recklessness, desperation and her dishonesty. We can hold degenerates accountable and acknowledge the red flags she ignored. I'm just so tired of children getting hurt like this. 🙁

[@bubblesactivated]

You not wrong. I said the same thing. When she was low key trying to blame society for her decision making because she didn’t want to keep being seen as a single mom. Like girl you do worried about being accepted by nobodies that your children were prey to a predator. I wish she had of left when he was doing what he was doing to her. Those kids need real intensive therapy

[@deardaughtersofzion]

@TOFFEETASTICC it's sad to think that we live in a world where calling out the truth for what it is, is deemed hateful.

[@sunkissedn71]

​@deardaughtersofzion the truth is literally considered hate speech now, the book 1984 predicted all this..if someone doesn't agree with your comments they go as far as reporting you for bullying, I see some of the most vile comments that never get taken down but if you simply state facts or truth all of a sudden it's considered hate speech and bullying..smh

[@Ohmygodb]

You sound disgusting because we haven’t heard you bash the monster in disguise…

[@disneytoysr4fun975]

Please be so forreal. Yall did nothing to hold him accountable. Where was the investigation team to dox him and get him fired from his job? Where were the police calls to his listed residence? Yall don't even know if he was arrested or not, that's how much yall didn't care about his crimes. The real reason yall are interested in this story is because the pretty light skinned girl got her "just desserts" for profiting off her pretty privilege. You all just want to say your "told you so's".

[@louisewilliams9417]

If she wasn't broke, Why couldn't she find a place for her and her children to live instead jumping into this relationship.

[@butterflystardust3143]

Exactly! She said she made 90k a year. It's not adding up!

[@christmastree1682]

Lots of celebrity women who have tons of money that we can both name have been in ab*s*ve situations and not left. Please stop making it about money. Women of all different means could make this poor choice

[@filmadcamp1512]

​@@christmastree1682The same question should be asked of those women.

[@ginihall1234]

It’s her mindset

[@Lala-eo4eq]

@@butterflystardust3143 Unless she lives in the south, 90k with I believe 2 kids at the time, is not a lot at all.

[@UniquelyVickie]

Not to defend Shera, but the truth is she never tells women to move in with a man within a few days or weeks. Shera said her now husband paid for her apt and all her bills for a year. This lady could've done the same thing while vetting his character over several seasons literally.

[@jdbailey442]

This is true. Shera also tells women to have their own money and income.

[@faevalentine9187]

Exactly!! She didn’t follow any of Sheras advice.

[@The-Oneness11]

True. I think she was too stuck on the desire to have a complete family. She should have waited.

[@reparationslibrarian9710]

And also Shera said if you have kids, don't bring them around a man until they can defend themselves and that when you have young kids, remain single and work on yourself.

[@InsuranceAgentLeshay]

Rt. I don't think he paid for her apt for a yr, I thought she just moved in with him shortly aftr dating but they waited yrs before marriage then kid's. She def tells woman especially if young to wait and date a couple yrs till married.

[@ChosenChild-j9i]

She deserves better and those poor kids didn’t deserve that. May that monster go to jail.

[@tripleb1960]

Does SHE deserve better? Definitely the kids though.

[@wendylou239]

​@tripleb1960 Yes, she deserves to not be graped and abused by that man and to watch her kids suffer.

[@sheiswildlyfree7319]

HELL 🔥

[@ChosenChild-j9i]

@ Yes 💯

[@HaahmayanShaalManasseh]

She chose what she chose 😂 she married him so it’s on her unless I see a police report I’m suspicious it’s sick what he did

[@libfuzzy4629]

Tbh stay single!!!! There’s so much peace in being single!!! Unless God has revealed to you that it’s his will for you to be married it’s better to be single!!!

[@Whoisthatns]

The Bible literally says it’s better to stay single

[@queenme7691]

Sometimes is the shaming that people say you will later be lonely and depressed and then jealous of couples you will see everyday. That's why some rush.

[@bubullibooooo9928]

Is your god a man too?

[@aminaadam3617]

Chrissie,this video is so spot on.Most wealthy/rich men are not loyal,feel entitled to bad behaviour and their partners have to put up with it.Many content creators mention in their videos,when you want to get the bag,it may come with a lot of ugly things.Vet those men and decide if you can live with the consequences.

[@lululawson1653]

​@@queenme7691People lie about their happy marriages and relationships Cardi for one.

[@theotherworldlyconjurer1616]

She also overlooked things because her "provider" was a black man. She said in that video she did about the manosphere that she doesn't tolerate talking down to black men because she's married to one. Then she tried to throw shade at her husband's black female co-workers and said that they're not used to their fathers leading so they won't let a man lead at their job.

[@AkaiOtinashi]

She was a follower of K. Samuel no not surprised she was male identified. I also see comments saying her being mixed is irrelevant when a lot of time women like this look down on black women especially if they're darker and/or unmarried.

[@Itsteonna]

KS also told women don’t believe their daughters that say men SA them That is why in her live stream she didnt go check on her daughter who was clearly saying ouch and screaming . She even looks off in the video because she knows

[@Quinkerbell_3604]

90K for a family of three isn’t a ton of money but it was enough for her stand on her own feet and make smart choices. She made poor choices and the consequences are a nightmare. My heart goes out to her and her family. I hope they get support and her followers get smart.

[@hillydilly474]

I’ve taken care of a family of 5 with that amount. Learning to live within your means is an important skill.

[@AJ-fl3pz]

@@hillydilly474 her point is still correct, your experience (especially one thats not current and does NOT factor in today’s inflation nor the COL in her city which is likely more than yours) does not change that.

[@hillydilly474]

@@AJ-fl3pz you’re right. I actually work and make less now. I agree with her point that it’s enough for someone with good money habits. People can make 150k or more can still be tight on money. I wonder why my friend has a $5000+ / month mortgage and is now house poor. Money habits don’t change just because people make more money.

[@vashposh]

you acting like she had her kids in private schools 😂 she was rent avoidant for years at a time making 90k but didn’t have enough saved to BUY a home even? i could save upwards of 100k in a 3 year span if im being tight 5 years w no debt and car payments at most. ppl just live beyond their means

[@TheWhyteRabbit9]

So many ppl keep calling her a good mom for exposing him!!! Who tf moves their children in after a week????

[@Itsteonna]

And who hears their child say “I don’t want to” , “ouch” more than one, and scream as if they’re being hurt and ignore it to focus on looking pretty on KZbin live?? Only a bad mom.

[@TheWhyteRabbit9]

@ exactly I’m tired of the bs fr.

[@maliyah7346]

@@Itsteonna she said what??? Omg this is crazy, I really feel bad for her kids😢

[@lethalaffection9705]

im confused why K. Scamuels isnt also getting blamed. she said his "advice" helped her get her husband. and shes also said anti-black woman things.

[@GabriellaDeLaRosa-t3d]

He’s dead blaming him is pointless. This woman knew the type of man she married and unfortunately chose to accept him.

[@Truthbetold630]

I agree. He should definitely be blamed if you're going to blame that lady.

[@filmadcamp1512]

His name has been called.

[@saturdayschild8535]

@@GabriellaDeLaRosa-t3dHis ideology is alive and well. That’s why he is blamed.

[@Eby98194]

It crazy you say this when I believe this situation was literally why he died.The last thing he talked about was a woman not believing her child immediately if the child says the woman’s spouse harmed them. Crazy.

[@tomatofeind2019]

I hate how this has become a "gotcha" moment. This happens to poor children all the time

[@lilly_ann]

Alllll the time!!

[@beautyinme1292]

The sad part is the kids he touched was his own 😢 I applaud her for speaking up in such a hard time

[@Afrinaturality]

The sad part is that he interfered with kids whether or not they were his own.

[@Melinanextdoor]

Gross 💀

[@claudrine]

@@Afrinaturalitycorrect but sadly, inc3st adds an extra layer of trauma ⚠️

[@Afrinaturality]

@@claudrine Yes, I hear you. 😔

[@Itsteonna]

Which she allowed. Her daughter clearly alerts her in her live stream by saying ouch and “I don’t want to “ to the dad. She also screamed as if she was in pain. The mom knew and is trying to play innocent for go fund me money because he probably drained her account after another dv situation and she finally exposed him Both need to be jailed

[@Honey-fu4he]

SheRa can’t make women have common sense. She teaches to think for yourself. And no she really can’t be blamed but I do appreciate Isis bringing this to light.

[@bubblesactivated]

Exactly. She was making decisions from a place of desperation and wanting to be socially acceptable because she was a single mom.

[@naiya.nicole__]

A lot of women that are new viewers of shera ask the silliest no brainer questions on her lives. They don’t think before they ask her questions and just think her road is the pink print to copy. I’ve been watching shera since 2018 but I also am a deep thinker and had guidance by VISUALLY watching pickme women in my family, masculinas in my family and hypergamous ones. Each level of women have pro and cons. I actually have a friend who is listening to her advice but her results are unyielding vs. I took a bit of Chrissie and shera advice. Shera’s came in for me for confidence and control of my emotions. Chrissie when she had her hypergamy and femininity content posted I followed. And I also am hyper intuitive, so I’ve had a few run ins with men that thought I was desperate, until they noticed they got blocked and I reminded them of their age and how society views them as odd balls for being so old and unmarried still chasing young girls. And majority of us don’t like them fr. The oldest I go for and current with is 40 I’m 29. 5-12 yrs older than me is my age limit .

[@IYeleven]

I blame shera because shera claims wealthy guys will throw money at ladies for free

[@lilly_ann]

Shera always says to not make decisions from a place of desperation

[@SageJack87]

She was raped DURING THE MARRIAGE. So that means she may not have considered it rape at that time. Lots of married women have been raped and don’t consider it rape. Maybe she came to that conclusion later on… or it was in the back of her mind but she couldn’t accept it. Unfortunately she definitely should have unanimously decided it was rape the second it happened.

[@jdbailey442]

A lot of men don't believe it's grape or SA if it's their wife as well. There are surveys and that have been done on men from all over the world regarding this. Let's not forget that a lot of Christian women also tell women to have seggs with their husbands even if they don't feel like it.

[@brittneywade-oo3db]

When did she say that? I missed it

[@wildearth3992]

You can’t be raped by your husband… He’s your husband you own him s3x

[@bubullibooooo9928]

Because women allow men to lead them. That's why they allow him to abuse them.

[@24k-u6o]

@@brittneywade-oo3db 4:03

[@LearnAsYouGo.]

I stopped dating for a while because I noticed that I had a pattern of settling, not vetting enough, & I was making choices from a place of desperation. When you know better you do better.

[@PrincessYonna1]

That video made me so uncomfortable and ANGRY Your own biological children. That Mf is sick!!!

[@tripleb1960]

Question, would it have been less uncomfortable and angry if he did it to someone else's 2 year old and 4 year old?

[@YounhaMizuki]

Unfortunately, it’s much more common than you think, but people never disclose this.

[@ANG3LZ_12]

@@tripleb1960 no,but sadly inßest adds a extra layer of traume :(

[@definitelydoing]

​@@tripleb1960 If you were forced to have sex with one of your family members and the options were (depending on your sex), mother/father or 3rd cousin. Would you feel that one of those options is more uncomfortable than the other, or do you feel they're both the same and you'd choose either option equally?

[@tripleb1960]

@@definitelydoing that's such a disgusting take because you are essentially asking someone "Which r@pist would you prefer, A or B? Are you slow?

[@ChosenChild-j9i]

That’s why I stay silent on their issues, because when black woman get disrespected they stay silent. I trained myself to focus on me.

[@ChosenChild-j9i]

I’m not having children until I get a ring on my finger. Also I’d rather stay single instead of accepting crumbs. I’m rising to the top.

[@Age_Of_Aquarius84]

I married and still ended up a single mother. Choose wisely and good luck.

[@name3950]

She had those girls after marriage. She did that.

[@ChosenChild-j9i]

@That’s what I’m sticking to and thank you 🤎

[@solitairewisdom995]

The two children he assaulted were his biological children that she birthed after their marriage. So having the ring doesn’t exempt anyone from experiencing this level of devastation.

[@ChosenChild-j9i]

@ I understand that but I am still sticking to my words. I’ve had to turn down dusty guys for trying waste my time. I don’t want a boy friend. I want a man.

[@christmastree1682]

I really wish Zombie Kitten Heels was receiving more of the backlash because accepting men who do this specific type of assault, even to kids, is something I have literally heard him say in a clip that he thinks women should tolerate

[@lilly_ann]

Woah did he really say that? Disgusting!!

[@christmastree1682]

@ yes he did. He was talking to a woman that had children already. And he explained to her that he would never date her because if her teen daughter were to accuse him of that type of assault then she would believe the teen daughter over him. He then told her that she should dismiss her teen daughters claims if that were to ever happen

[@scarletttommy5313]

😮😮

[@milkchan202]

she was a christian pickmesha and learned the hard way. prayers to the babies who's lives are forever changed due to their mothers desperation for porsches and chanel bags (iykyk)

[@cynique46]

Exactly she sold her sold for money and this is the end result.

[@Athirdofthem]

@@milkchan202 Yh, the devil always ends up showing itself. You can't hide it.

[@derynn1213]

Why you word it like that💀

[@ACrownofRoses]

Rich man, Middle class man, or poor man. This happens regardless of the man's financial state. Predators come in all income brackets. HE could've been a dusty at home while she worked two jobs and still did this. It really takes being able to walk away at the first red flag and not being reliant on a man (not only financially but emotionally too)

[@pettypattytheprincess3784]

@@ACrownofRosesright

[@Honey-fu4he]

As much as I love SheRa, I know I cannot date an ugly provider man. I’m starting to even get turned off by older men all together but she’s definitely imbedded things most of our mothers did not. Isis navigated from a place of survival and desperation…and I’ve been guilty of that as well.

[@there_she_is-s6i]

i so agree with the older men thing... my thing is if a man was a catch/didnt have red flags before meeting me then his peers would've snatched him up!

[@nanomia]

Same I'm 26 I can't imagine dating older ugly men even if they're handsome nope I can't with older men I don't care how much money they make one time Shera was asked about this a woman was feeling unattracted to her provide man and this affected their sex life shera said "girl close your eyes" ...so like prostitution? It's a no for me.

[@Tiakesha]

The men she telling yaw not to date at younger ages turn into the men she want u to go after and marry at your young age😢

[@karzymimi42]

@@there_she_is-s6iThis is the hard cold truth. Dating an older man is not the flex young women think it is. They’re not always attractive, it depends if they take care of themselves. They’re not always mature, financially stable, have good character or even have basic skills. It’s pretty sad seeing young women dating a man 10-20 plus her senior and he looks like Uncle Ruckus from Boondocks. Like damn… where the sexy silver foxes at?? I’ll tell you. They’re with women just 5-7 years younger. Also men who date younger women are carrying major baggage, looking for a nurse wife or trying to make a lasting legacy before their time comes. Smh…watch out ladies, these men are playing games on us everyday.

[@PrincessYonna1]

Older men that like young women are pedos

[@someauraplay]

OR she could stay off of the internet for a while and focus on finding her and her children a good psychologist. This is traumatizing for those little girls.

[@leisureandlace]

for real.

[@WhyIsGhostInTheArena]

Agreed

[@deardaughtersofzion]

@someauraplay exactly! This happened only a month ago but she was quick to upload. She keeps making bad choices... one after the other. She needs to focus on her children

[@disneytoysr4fun975]

yeah I don't get the influencers who keep saying she needs to be making apology videos or detailed analysis videos on where she went wrong. Its one thing if she was the only victim, but her children don't need to have their trauma disected for entertainment or "learning" purposes.

[@Itsteonna]

She is probably looking for her next husband to marry She knew what he was doing as u clearly hear her daughter tell the dad ouch and I don’t want to

[@mdg6117]

My mama always said STAY ALERT AND PAY ATTENTION. As small and as subtle as they may be, there are ALWAYS signs. A man like this can never completely hide his true character.

[@Freerangewords]

accountability is absolutely needed here! As much as it hurts her she needs to understand moving your kids in with a man you barely know, having a child by a man who simply sees you as an object and worrying about your channel name when you need to be focused on litigation are all wrong moves!

[@AuroraFox444]

Her situation is so sad. Thank you for your insight Chrissie

[@beautifulblackswan01]

Remember ladies... SHE BOIGHT THE RING FIRST. Desperation 101 rite there.

[@BlissHealth]

she admitted that?

[@aaiirriiccaaa]

​@@BlissHealthwatch her older videos

[@bubblesactivated]

Listen Chrissy. Like I said before, I don’t wanna even date men anymore. I’d rather just be single and have my flings every now and then. I’m a single mom and it’s just too much of a risk to take. I’d be devastated if somebody comes in and brings struggle to me and my son after I’ve really built this up by myself.

[@mom2suns857]

Same

[@akuasunshine]

I'm with you sis

[@N0va..]

I get the urge to have flings too but afraid because men unalive women they have casual sex with too. It’s scary.

[@tommyt264]

Unfortunately you still gotta vet the small flings also.

[@bubblesactivated]

@@N0va.. it’s so true! Like I don’t even want anything from you but sex and you still wanna hurt me. Like people are so weird.

[@geminipyt]

Keep your own dollars ladies.married or not

[@WeShareTheSameAffliction]

True, but money wasn't the issue here. She had her own money. Her issue was her desperation for a man, plus ignoring his red flags.

[@MayISpeak]

Yeah cuz people are trying to use this as a cautionary tale for women who go after men with money. As if the same crap couldn’t happen in lower income families.

[@tripleb1960]

​@@MayISpeakthis isn't about him having money. It's her knowing he r@ped her 4 times and then went on to give him 3 kids who end up being his prey.

[@MayISpeak]

@@tripleb1960 thats what i was saying. She ignored his problematic behavior

[@cynique46]

Okay if she was making 90k a year, why she didn't have her own place? You can still practice hypergamy but have your bag and vet properly. Especially when you have young kids. I see why my grandmother was like you don't date when you have younger children because stuff like this can happen. It's very sad and I pray for her and her children.

[@Cory-zn5mq]

Get your own money so you can't be controlled by nobody im a man saying this

[@chasingthelight8502]

💯

[@VicariouslythroughChrisceil]

Her husband wasn't wealthy. He was a normal working middle-class man. She created this persona to make money online. They have pictures of the very humble home they live in circulating tiktok. You can even tell from her videos that her home is humble. If she was making 90k annually before she met him, she would have been making the same salary, so she wasn't hypergamous unless she was being untruthful about how much she was making. Prime example of influencers and social media being fake.

[@leila_de_hautjardin]

Some people act like if she wasn't in a hypergamous relationship, it wouldn't have happened. But broke men can grape and be PDF files too. However hypergamy is relevant to the conversation. It's probably the reason why she stayed after being graped. This is sad. Some things are non negociable. Even if you're dating Idris Elba you should be ready to leave if he treats you wrong. It's great that she's telling her story. There are so many young naive girls ready to accept anything (even Diddy stuff) if the man is rich.

[@msteach3082]

My niece recently broke up with a handsome, young black millionaire after a few short months. She said he was the most toxic, verbally abusive person she ever dealt with.

[@47shadows76]

Have you ever met a nice millionaire? Maybe KS was right that you should go after a man on your level who would thank God he found you.

[@Itsteonna]

It seems like bm with money are worst ever especially if they’re with a bw they’re extremely mean to them Of course this can be for any race of men but just something I noticed with bm that rich or broke , they’re mean and never happy to bw…

[@Itsteonna]

@@47shadows76no bm is nice no matter if he is broke average or rich.

[@tiffaniielle9167]

It’s always the woman’s fault! Not one video talking about these predators 😡

[@godsfavorite2060]

The Hate is real

[@leisureandlace]

A lot of women in these comments keep wanting to "blame" someone for the bad decisions Isis made. But the only one to blame is Isis herself. She put both herself and her kids in danger, and the only ones I feel sorry for are the innocent children.

[@proudblackwoman4824]

Am I the only one who finds the husband UNAPPEALING? She was waaaayyyyy too pretty for him. Just my opinion.

[@shiningstar4885]

That’s usually how it happens. Older rich man who has wicked ways seeking young trophy wife who’s vulnerable

[@thetruesoulofanaquarius9302]

I was in tears when she was telling her story. So sad and sickening. 🥺 prayers going up for her and those innocent babies.

[@kjm485]

She should have been telling the truth from the beginning. She was giving guidance while living a nightmare. She was irresponsible from jump.

[@NandiJohnston-p6f]

13:41 So true! even Dr. Umar had the courage to say, publicly say, if Cassie were dark-skinned would she have netted the Same Sympathy from *Blk* Ppl??

[@Ricoque-u2m]

Nope!

[@Ohmygodb]

She didn’t get any sympathy. Everyone said she deserved it

[@NandiJohnston-p6f]

@@Ohmygodb 'they' DiD?? *Who* are those 'Everyones'? Rhetorical, don't answer that. Those babies didn't deserve [it]! InsaneLogic, there! No innocent 'deserves' TheWorseCrime on the Planet!!! 😞

[@Sheabuttahbaby]

Only victims are the babies. Shes a dummy

[@briantbmoth6472]

💯

[@simplyyynice3599]

Never heard of her and not sure why she showed up on my algorithm. First thing I’m thinking is clout chasing. Don’t care for their lifestyle and she can’t give me advice.

[@marteumar8429]

Poor children, I can’t stand with these things happen to kids 😔

[@La-db8pm]

It is so interesting to me that these things (hypergamy and SA) are being juxtaposed on other channels. We have seen for YEARS (especially in Black media) mothers who have allowed their daughters to be SA by their significant other. They are usually depicted as poor unattractive Black women too. So its so interesting how this is viewed as a STAIN on hypergamous dating.

[@AM.A24]

Beyond interesting it’s strange. Black women and their children are harmed and unalived daily by the dustiest of the dusties and yet all it took was this one incident for people to spin this into “this is what happens when black women strive for more than crumbs.” I hate to see it.

[@N0va..]

@@AM.A24right.. how many stay at home unemployed dusties SA and unalive children? Endless stories every single day

[@christmastree1682]

@@La-db8pm THIS!

[@christmastree1682]

@@AM.A24 omg yes 👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼

[@sheritownsend5359]

Looking at her heroes: Kevin Samuels, Pearly Things, etc. I can see why she may have overlooked some 'red flags".

[@Victoria_15]

When I saw that Tyrone I already knew he was up to no good. R

[@angeljohnson234]

I heard about the story but didn't know her history. However, I had a feeling that she ignored a lot of red flags. This is incredibly sad and my heart goes out for her and her babies . This is an excellent example of why women need to vet ALL men. It might not be healthy but I assume all men (regardless of profession or new worth) are trash until they prove they're not.

[@NJkimomo07]

💯

[@no.6377]

Girl, same. I consider myself sexist for that😂, but the things I've heard men say, from professionals to men on the street, has made me cautious and I see it as a net positive.

[@jaytruth6503]

Also what I noticed is Ashley Dalton gives the same advice that Shera 7 gives, people on TikTok are always coming down hard on Ashley. I really believe it's because she's dark-skinned because they do not have the same smoke for Shera 7. #Colorism

[@PrincessYonna1]

Never heard of her. I will check out her content

[@jaytruth6503]

@@PrincessYonna1 yes I love Ashley Dalton, she's a very beautiful classy woman she has a KZbin page also.

[@DaffieA]

Ashley is actually a really kind woman. Her online space is also quite positive with little to no mean comments. Before going to her livestreams I had a totally different idea of who she was. But when I went to look for myself I was actually surprised on how positive everyone was and how kind people were to eachother.

[@thirdeyeopen2606]

It’s the expectation vs audacity in people minds. Women are tiring sometimes like just go live and see for yourself.

[@sunflowerlovesbees]

After been R WORDed 4 times, she should have left. I am so tired of these beautiful, well put together women ran ragged by these monsters. I still don't understand why she kept having children. 5 Children is alot my goodness especially in todays economy. She already had 2 boys before the marriage she could have stuck to that and even if she wanted to have a child with him 1 is enough. Sigh... Ladies please let us stop making decisions out of desperations. Also i need this man picture and videos plastered all over the internet.. I need for him to be seen and shamed by the public

[@Ricoque-u2m]

Shera is bi racial and this woman is multiracial, you should be telling the preferences this.

[@sunflowerlovesbees]

@@Ricoque-u2m what does been bi or multi racial have to do with this please.?

[@Ricoque-u2m]

@@sunflowerlovesbees When a bi racial or multiracial is down bad fully black girlies get lectured about ALL black girls. When it’s something positive about biracial or multiracials all of a sudden it’s only about the cry racials. Keep the same energy and warn the preferences moving forward. In her other videos she was trying to feel superior to fully black girlies and got the same black man….

[@sunflowerlovesbees]

@@Ricoque-u2m ah now I understand, thank you I didn’t realize that . I haven’t watched any of her videos but I can imagine the cockiness about being preferred

[@melaninmel9213]

It’s crazy how she was making $90k a year at 24 and had her own place, a car, her children were fine until she decided to chase man. The red flags were in her face all this time. 20 year age gap, quick dating and rushed marriage, listening to social media influencers and idolising social media. She had soooo many chances to run away. Even when he committed those horrible acts on her during the early stages of the marriage, she should have seek protection for herself and children but she ended having 3 kids with him AFTER all that!? The guy was showing who he was from the beginning. She would have been better off staying in the $90k per year lifestyle with her own house.

[@Pinkpanda811]

Don't forget she bought the rings 😮

[@InLKdream]

People are ignoring stuff this woman has said in earlier videos. She admitted to getting pregnant on purpose with her first child to basically entrap the guy. Her not wanting to be homeless after ending things with previous guy is peak hobosexual behaviour. I hate to say but the truth is like does attract like. Her character may stop short of this kind of abuse but what she and her husband have in common is a lack of virtues like intergrity, honesty. I will say she does have courage but it would have been best exemplified had she left after he r***d her and my guess is she stayed to have kids to secure the bag. I've commented on other videos that the only victims i acknowledge are the kids, there are 2 perpetrators in this situation as far as i'm concerned.

[@deardaughtersofzion]

@InLKdream 🎯🎯🎯🎯

[@carolakamarleygreen3329]

I doubt that he even r**ed her. She's on a revenge tour to get even with him for cutting her off.

[@TheGalsenn]

It wasnt brave it is inappropriate!! Those poor girls have their trauma out now... it isnt fair to them. Now their trauma is known by people they do not know... anyone can 5, 10 or 15 years from now tell them isnt this your mom? Is it your story? Poor girls.... they should decide to share this trauma or not... not her!!!

[@sheeshman23]

I agree. I literally said the same exact thing, it isn’t fair to them. Not only are they navigating this awful trauma, they have no idea how to comprehend any of this because they’re 4 and 2 years old! This is disgraceful and disgusting on their “fathers” part and the mother should have went about this completely differently for the sake of her girls

[@carasnow8441]

She has no respect for her children. "Inappropriate" is putting it kindly. I can't bear to listen to this story. Did the Mom at least go the police???

[@TheGalsenn]

​@carasnow8441 she did according to what she said she went to the hospital to check all her kids and involved the police. That is the least she could do though. She should have deleted her account or stop posting and take care of the kids

[@MwtcultureisSHE]

She needs money now. Look at her background, it looks like she’s in a relative’s basement infront a futon. I think she was desperate when she met him and desperate now

[@taraking8555]

I dont believe this woman waa making $90k a year!! She wouldnt have been that desperate! The average woman thata making bread will not put up with BS!! This woman is lying!! She was chasing a 💰 She never had her own to begin with she was looking for a man to take care of her and these kids!! Im sure the first guy was taken care of her, too. God bless the kids!! Their mom makes terrible decisions!

[@Ricoque-u2m]

That’s a good point. Her channel didn’t have much views and she moved out of one guys apartment into the old dude’s apartment like a ‘poor’ person.

[@AYKAY88]

How was she making 90k and couldn’t get her own place… 😢

[@thirdeyeopen2606]

She could have but people want to live outside their means.

[@AM.A24]

Hypergamy existed before Shera and it will exist after, it’s a cultural thing not an online trend. It’s fairly new in the black community and black women have had to adjust and learn game that other women have passed down for generations. Women like Isis need deep healing before they date let alone date providers. This situation was caused by her unhealed trauma and lack of self esteem.

[@_Ridethemaverick]

A woman making 90k desperate for a place to stay?? That doesn’t add up at all.

[@Isonics]

She has 4 kids and the cost of living is expensive as hell

[@chosen1afrique304]

​@@Isonics she only had 2 boys at the time.

[@carolakamarleygreen3329]

I think she's not being completely honest about A LOT of things. She plays the victim role really well. If she has the skills and ability to land a 90k job, then why not go back to work instead of starting a GoFundMe to get help raising HER children? This girl is a lazy opportunist who's using her children to get back at her husband because she had to leave their home. There was a court order for her to leave, but shes not telling that part. She has yall believing this man violated his daughters and that's why she's not in the home. Go check court records for the truth. There's a reason he has not been arrested.

[@Isonics]

@@carolakamarleygreen3329 Yea this whole story just doesn’t make sense imo. I want to believe her but at the same time I know how these modern day women are and a lot of them try to abuse the court system against men for financial gains. However, even though she’s making 90k which is almost at the six figure range, she literally has 4 kids that she’s most likely raising alone now. A lot of things just don’t add up honestly. I just think the moral message people and especially women should take from this story is that being a trophy wife is not worth it anymore. Men will become hostile and abusive towards you because they know what your after which is the money. 🤷‍♂️

[@Isonics]

@@carolakamarleygreen3329 My uncle is in a somewhat different but similar situation as this one as well. He’s in jail right now because the woman he was with lied to the cops and told them that he did XYZ. He was with her for almost 2 whole years, paid for her to go on vacation trips with him, paid her entire rent etc. I don’t know much about her but I know that she didn’t have to work throughout that entire time because he was providing for her. However, their relationship started to get toxic and that’s when she started threatening to call the police on him and eventually she did. He was able to bail out the first two times though until he couldn’t the third time because he breached his contract. He basically wasn’t allowed to go anywhere near the area she lived in at the time but he did and the only reason he went is because he wanted to tell her and let her know that he was done with her and he was done paying for her rent and everything else. She got bitter about it and call the police not long after and said that he did XYZ. He’s been in jail for like 2 months now and his trial starts like at the end of next year. So yea, I don’t really believe a lot of these women who come out with these stories honestly.

[@thebougiehippiechick]

I know everyone aint religious but when looking for a husband the bible is the best way to vet. And i dont mean get a man in the church. I mean get a man who lives by the words in the bible because if we read it we would know it tells both women and men to submit to each other when in a marriage and not just the women. When you lack knowledge people can use it against you.

[@DaintyAbby]

Yes.. the fruits of the spirit

[@TitanZey]

This! Read the Bible, those pastors only give you bits and pieces that agree with their misogynistic views, but in reality they're twisting God's words and not holding men to the standards God set in place for them.

[@AlmondBean730]

It's crazy how it comes in full circle to be honest and I've been seeing this pattern a lot. People look for answers when the answers are in the basic instructions before leaving Earth (bible), and I say this respectfully. I get it though, because in this world who isn't trying to find guidance and the answers they need to navigate life? It's hard out here.

[@thebougiehippiechick]

@@TitanZey exactly men want to lead and honestly we women want them to too but you are not about to lead me hell with your BS. If u cant submit to God or me i cant submit to you, that idea is biblical and the promises of the bible are for a righteous man.

[@thebougiehippiechick]

@@AlmondBean730 every knee will bow and every tongue will confess. GOD told us to trust no man and to look at his character not his appearance. When poeple realize that they dont know everything they will be back like the prodigal son.

[@RedElephant169]

I’m so sad for ISIS. It’s unfortunate that the only lesson bw take from these stories is to avoid men with money instead of vetting. Bw are so convinced that vetting is impossible that they will point to any other explanation besides “I MUST VET”. They’ll say it’s because “he has money”, or “because he’s a different race” etc. It’s a tragedy that could happen with any demographic, class status, profession of man. if we walk away from this without being more convicted to vet the character of all men then we missed the whole point

[@2021noname]

Some of us women are so lacking in discernment that vetting feels like a skill we just cannot use at all

[@tankissed]

so so so happy you spoke about this. watching that video broke my heart, and you're the only content creator I trust to give level headed and sound advice on this topic.

[@icanbreathe9161]

Now look at those pictures and you’ll see she married a black man!!! I keep trying to tell y’all black men will do this regardless of their income and social status.

[@Sunnyd222]

Any man of any race can be a predator; and any man of any INCOME can be a predator . This is about vetting, not being desperate, and discernment

[@Angie-mk1vf]

Let’s come down to earth now. Any race of man is capable of being a demon. Your way of thinking will get you effed up everytime.

[@angelasyn.t6249]

⁠​⁠ please stop! statistics shows that’s 75% of child sex offenders are white men…. Please do better. Just saying anything to say it.

[@ev6564]

​@@angelasyn.t6249 That could just mean white men are more reported. Less coddling than black men face. We all know how under wraps SA in black families is kept. I wouldn't trust those stats. I don't think white men are worse in this regard, or better than black men. They are all filled with wicked men.

[@tanyareed4967]

Exactly the blk community will say it's only the unemployed pookie and Ray Ray that do stuff like this.

[@Josie3387]

This stuff happens on all income levels. I'm tired of seeing think pieces tying this to Shera7 and hypergamy.

[@Honey-fu4he]

Right look at Chrisean’s family. A family full of poverty and molestation.

[@DaffieA]

Poor men abuse their kids too, maybe even more. Poor unregulated societies with no rules are so dangerous for women and kids. I am not sure why people pretend like all rich men will harm your kids. It's ridiculous.

[@DaffieA]

She didn't observe and watch him at all. That's on her. Also Shera7 advise is not for naive young girls with little to no life experience. Chances are that you could get yourself in some serious problems listening to her if you are too young.

[@ccchic2]

I wouldn’t take marriage advice from anyone that has been married less than 10 years. Anything else is just “relationship” advice.

[@maisha_yangu]

Unfortunately, I can relate to this as well. It happened when I was a teenager. She moved us across the country to be with a man on the rebound. She knew him from middle school, but I didn't know him at all. Plus, I don't think she really spoke or saw him since then. I tried to tell her at one point, what he was doing to me, but she just shut me down. I'm still healing from so much family trauma, abuse, and toxicity that my mother and half-sister have put me through.

[@PrettyPolyInPink]

I’m confused. If a man grapes a woman, SAing kids is not that far off. That kind of deviancy can’t be cured and they aren’t picky about who they victimize. She needs to check on her sons too!

[@aae7583]

She is accountable too. This woman knew very very very well what that man was. That man was going after her children MINUTE ONE. and she knew. None of you are holding her accountable. This female is NOT brave. She is a predator.

[@Darkskinbeach]

I also think that Shera is legit lying about her lifestyle. KZbin is her job

[@criticalthinking6929]

All these damn women are lying.

[@InsuranceAgentLeshay]

She's alway's telling woman to have their own business.

[@AM.A24]

I’ve been following Shera for years and she’s been on KZbin way before going viral. Her content and lifestyle has always been the same so while it is another source of income for her I don’t think it’s a job necessarily. Lots of housewives have hobbies and start businesses to occupy their time and bring in extra money for themselves.

[@IYeleven]

@@AM.A24 Her home was lower middle class when she started her channel. She makes money from KZbin

[@lilly_ann]

People may have lied on her behalf in the beginning because she never (used to) say she was rich. Just that her bills are paid and didn't have to work. Also she always used to say that someone doesn't have to be rich for women to be hypergamous

[@mrs.jack-string2420]

By now, BW, no matter how good they think their relationship is, should know we can't brag on BM. At all. A lot of BM have control issues, mommy & daddy issues and are POOR communicators. IDGAD how "good" he appears! 💯🎯‼️

[@Ricoque-u2m]

That’s really, really true. Im married to a black man and I sleep with one 👁️ open. I think sometimes they have violent mental breakdowns.

[@shopwithleslie]

What NEVER ceases to amaze me about people who live or aspire to this lifestyle (e.g., sugar babying, trophy wife, sprinkle sprinkle) or whatever you want to call it, is their lack of perception of how "game" is a TWO WAY street. The only questions then are 1) who will get the better of the other in these types of situations or 2) will they both sink. I have not seen a win-win situation or what I would call one yet.

[@thirdeyeopen2606]

Good point.

[@Magnoliaspeaks]

Women must understand that ignoring red flags and moving out of desperation will always cost in the end

[@Evanescene8444]

Blk manosphere and the pickme brigade is quiet as usual. If he was yt they would have been loud. So sad and unfortunate no matter the race.

[@TheBerkeleyBeauty]

What was the come up here? Was he rich? Because he certainly wasn’t good looking.

[@GabrielleSeunagal]

😭

[@jenn4593]

Yes. He was rich.

[@Hiiiii-p7y]

It’s not about look tho. Some people work hard for their money so they are afraid to spend it on look.

[@mimia.4810]

All her old videos are about how she went from “single mother to spoiled housewife” I think she thought lowly of herself because she was a single mother and was so grateful that a successful man wanted her. That was the “come up” for her.

[@princessmorebucks]

That's what Shera teaches is an ideal man 🎉

[@skinco3203]

In her video she said, “ he raped her 4 times in the first few months of marriage “ it’s crazy she stayed.

[@SheCanSmile]

this is why you must never trust and believe what women say about their "perfect lives".

[@JJ78X]

right

[@kyramichelle5041]

It’s never perfect

[@ogolden8315]

I saw a comment that I think fits ISIS and her tie to Shera. She was “inspired” by Shera (more the superficial aspects - looks and advice about provider men) but she definitely was not really listening to Shera bcos there were many things she mentioned that really wasn’t Shera but more Kitten Heels and other CC she was listening too. Also …. Just from her life story, due to her unresolved childhood/adult trauma, even if she never listened to S7 or any other influencers ….. she still would have been victimized. Maybe what happened to her kids wouldn’t have happened bcos of slightly different choices in men, but she definitely would be a victim of a romantic partner she had.

[@coconuttrees]

am about to say something very controversial but I honestly do not think there is any bad side to hypergamy. Broke men and less financially free men can equally behave negatively . It is up to said lady to do her due DILIGENCE when dating such a man investigating matters of character etc and ensure that she SAVES money and empowers herself through starting her own business and creating a means of income for herself just in case rather than be prioritized with just frivolous things . There are GOOD wealthy men out there let us not demonize wealth and riches as poor men can equally be just as BAD !

[@MariaLeeVegas]

I agree. Both broke men and wealthy men are likely to be abusive. It’s better to be with a man with money to offset the risk dealing with him. There is absolutely no point in dealing with broke men

[@coconuttrees]

💯❤️

[@Luxebarbie]

she broke the internet. hopefully she saved many children’s lives and many poor decisions from being made with all these discussions

[@Tinesha7]

Maybe it’s just me, but I hate the fact that she announced to the world that her daughters were assaulted in this manner. She should’ve focused only on her assault and prosecuted him as privately as possible.

[@amoragirl15]

She could have shared it without mentioning which children were affected.

[@JenniferCynthiaHair]

The man pictured next to her appears to be over 20 years older than she is and likely lied about his age. He looks to be in his 50s or 60s.

[@viciousreasoning504]

$90,000 a year but cant go get an apt for you and your boys? U have to move in w a man? Nahhhh

[@Gemma-e7c]

Wait she made 90k a year and needed a place to stay with her children? Make it make sense, seems that she went from one abuser to another knowingly.

[@ohanaohana8844]

The odds are against you when you mess with BM. You will keep finding out the hard way. I know predators come in all colors, but the numbers and stats don't lie.

[@KittyGothXO]

It’s always black men

[@xpnn]

I don’t agree with the Shera blaming - she always encourages self love and no desperation

[@williambreeze2659]

To be honest a lot of women choose to ignore the red flags if the man ticks her box. She knew this man was abusive from the start and she claims he "graped" her. Yet she decided to stay and give him multiple kids. Desprate for $$$

[@conniemorgan9992]

Something is wrong. If she was making 90k & she needed somewhere for her & the kids to go. You had money & could have gotten your own before jumping in a relationship with a man you don't know! And you already had kids 🙄

[@sunflower-u6u]

Yup that girl lying about 90k

[@Sunniekey]

Don’t see why people started telling all their business to strangers like this…Just too much. We really shouldn’t know about this especially with children involved and an open SA case🤦🏽‍♀️ Talk shows definitely contributed to the downward spiral of our society😞