1. Have a slight masculine edge 2. Slow down, need time to reveal his character 3. Know when to stop. Don’t be afraid to leave if it’s not working 4. Inflict pain. Make them respect your boundaries. Don’t be afraid to leave if it’s not working. Fuck empathy. 5. Speed up. Have the talk when it’s time. Walk away or speed it up. Walk away if he’s not going to seep it up. 6. Be able to be vulnerable… but able to walk away. 7. Warm conflict… argue respectfully and with love. If they can’t deal with an uncomfortable situation- LEAVE 8. Non verbal cues. Speak with body language and mood
@amphindianАй бұрын
Perfect. I can't more of his rambling
@Lolabelle5929 күн бұрын
Thank you. 😊
@L-ys5sr29 күн бұрын
😆😍
@SuperDubios27 күн бұрын
9. Knowing what not to forgive.
@gigiarmany25 күн бұрын
THX💥🔥👍🏽
@LoyaltyLoveRespect17 күн бұрын
I never had a professor wear a suit jacket with no shirt underneath 👀😂
@JesusFreak141110Ай бұрын
Mine went from non stop trying to impress and win me over constantly to now… basically not doing anything when now is the time to prove how much and how bad he wants me and should want to keep me in his life!!
@tula1433Ай бұрын
I’m in the same boat. Either they are obsessed with me or distant and pulling away when I finally show interest back. I feel you sis! ❤
@d6l.w8dsАй бұрын
Then... Walk away and be done duhh. He's clearly not into you or else he would. That's what he's been trying to teach to women. Just be logical, why want someone who doesn't want you. "But he did want me until..." Okay, but now he doesn't. So move on. There's more people in the world. Stop wanting the one you're attracted to he's not that attracted to you or else he'd STILL be into you.
@yourfutureisnow6480Ай бұрын
Cuz he doesn't like you
@keyshaw5015Ай бұрын
Yepppp. Horrible@@tula1433
@Rozlicious27Ай бұрын
Haven’t watched the entire vid yet, but if there’s no improvement you need to up your boundaries and be okay with being alone than settling for less and people breadcrumbing you to stay in a relationship. If you think he’s genuinely a red flag, and is very dismissive then leave. Unless you try couples therapy or something or talk this out and communicate, nothing will change so just leave
@varshamishra9009Ай бұрын
We don't crave for their respect ...don't seek anyone's validation....
@reemsaif3105Ай бұрын
True but respect leads to women's satisfaction because we are all connected ❤
@akxsha20 күн бұрын
Very nicely said. ♥️@@reemsaif3105
@lovelywizard-i2c11 күн бұрын
I am sure respect and validation are two different things. We need people to respect us or they would walk all over us. But we don't need validation from people otherwise our emotions will be constantly controlled by others. People who demand respect don't ask for it. People who ask are the one needing validation.
@sharonloveschloe2 күн бұрын
🤣😂
@GratefulGАй бұрын
I am super Proud of myself for reaching the stage where I enjoy Dating and getting to know people! I meet excellent people and they treat me Crazy good coz I am willing to walk away. I like people but I dnt love them anymore unless it’s authentic and natural and that’s rare! - makes it super easy for me to walk away when I see it’s not gona be love but just a liking ! Just dn break hearts but protect yours too! ❤
@aamimami2147Ай бұрын
This !!!
@WajihaKamran112 күн бұрын
I'm already on this stage that i have one step next to you and other step on exit door... I am tired of people that much that if I do like anyone it's doesn't mean I am going talk them.
@uberbabe585Ай бұрын
Respect depends on what kind of a man he is. If he is stupid or insecure or traumatized or red pill then he doesn't respect anyone no matter how great you are. So, ladies, stick to healthy, smart men and they'll see your value.
@gigiarmany25 күн бұрын
WORD🙌🏽🔥
@ksolo538221 күн бұрын
Exactly
@subspacescout9951Ай бұрын
We’re called Tomboys … a lot of girl w a little bit boy. We can climb trees, change tires, play sports, bake cookies, wear make up, nice clothes, smell pretty and walk away. Best of luck out there n the urban jungle.
@yoonahkang738423 күн бұрын
Or may me just humans. Make up and nails are fake after all. Capitalist Femininity is a performance.
@leoor11117 күн бұрын
bruh thats a normal person
@HyrrulianaАй бұрын
Father Alex with the unbuttoned shirt okayyyy
@cyndieestime23274 күн бұрын
Thanks!
@melanin_goddessАй бұрын
Your vulnerability is refreshing and comforting. I love it! Thank you for sharing 🫶🏾
@Nadineonyoutube24 күн бұрын
Thanks god I have a bit of masculine energy in me . And i feel so bad after listening to dating coashes who says you should be too femenine and it just does not come naturally to me
@MGarciareportingАй бұрын
Walking away is your Superpower, I wish more women knew that. Inflict the pain, let it burn 🔥 ❤. That F-bomb at 12:35, cracked me up!!!! 😂😂😂
@nonyabidness1838Ай бұрын
I aint tryna walk away from my everything-boo 😮
@iDianaRАй бұрын
You’re the only toxic guy I adore
@dg-qn5miАй бұрын
Same
@lorettabeltran240029 күн бұрын
He’s funny! 😂
@scorpiohughes238327 күн бұрын
@@lorettabeltran2400funny as hell 🤣
@GaliaRex25 күн бұрын
Lmao girl😂You did not just say that.
@tepsteppy126Ай бұрын
"some things that you cannot forgive" yep. they are only good at first and when they get me, they expect me to accept their unacceptable attitudes. they think i do not know how to step back, making me a punching bag with their unreasonable attitudes (that i do not know where it is coming from, it's just who they are). i gave them chances, until i formed my beliefs and opinions that they wont change their shitty attitudes that already exist in them thats not valid for me to take it --- that doesn't just apply in romantic relationships. it applies with toxic family dynamics too. i closed off my connection with them for years because of it. even we are just in the same neighborhood. i on and off , gave just a minute then none ('cause i dont wanna be treated again their kind of attitudes). i tried working my relationship with them 2022, (cause im getting older i felt) . and its just the same people. i was right, they were cycles. they dont change.
@CarmenPerez-kz6rwАй бұрын
Are you having sex with them?
@Pandababyy247Ай бұрын
I’m here for the comedy 😂❤
@abigaildavidholistichealth587829 күн бұрын
😅😅😅😅😅😅😅
@LanaSaysNO8 күн бұрын
Thank you for speaking deep on this stuff. I think we don't want to see things but we know when it's time to go. I was staying too long. I get a lot out of your conversations so thank you for trying to help couples and singles out there. It helps to hear these things especially from a man's point of view. I'm sure all the ladies on here watching feel the same. 😊
@sammikeiko886012 күн бұрын
I like a guy who takes his time - Christina Aguilera
@seolajun3653Ай бұрын
lol father Alex what’s with the Victorian school teacher stick
@nicorobin7666Ай бұрын
What the hell with these accounts yelling about a book,
@sunnyheaven369Ай бұрын
Those are bots. Don’t search for these books!
@eugeniaortega996822 күн бұрын
why do I always end up clicking in these videos 😭
@ceegee616527 күн бұрын
you cut before the 'unforgiveables'. I know what mine are- just wanna hear yours 😁💗
@mags8832Ай бұрын
3:00 camera man/women was un amused😂😂😂
@BrightestStar-z1kАй бұрын
😂😂😂❤
@luxuryqueen4223 күн бұрын
Y’all better listen to Father Alex! 👂
@is.b.1185Ай бұрын
I'm laughing at the train station. 😂
@EPIPHANY-1111Ай бұрын
😂
@ItspaolatinaАй бұрын
I'm cracking up at the gym
@gigiarmany25 күн бұрын
every 4-5 months one of your videos comes across my screen & it's always a good time..thx🙋🏾♀️💖
@mellindamelanin26 күн бұрын
My masculine edge is a Jamaican shotta. It balances my prissiness well.
@LoloHaru-q8u5 күн бұрын
this healed me
@jlucena65627 күн бұрын
This outfit is 🔥
@MsSecretladyАй бұрын
Parttime lesbian 😂😂😂😂
@luxuryqueen4223 күн бұрын
Lol
@karenmiller613129 күн бұрын
Hahaha... you're good! Thank-you!
@shonjackson939524 күн бұрын
That drawing on the right looks like Thomas Jefferson
@iXChels28 күн бұрын
Bruh you’re funny as hell, and very smart ! My first video idk why I’m curious are you a Leo or Virgo?? Random just wanted to know great video.
@scorpiohughes238327 күн бұрын
He gives off Gemini vibes to me for some reason 😌
11 күн бұрын
Definitely giving Virgo vibes
@user-j7t8uАй бұрын
I want us to create our own Christmas tree 🎄😂
@besunshineforsomeone2979 күн бұрын
Quite informative. I di have myown perspectives in this. But yeah, most part is really informational
@GG-nm7jwАй бұрын
Alex is a nice guy 😂
@thebrujabxtch28 күн бұрын
the cameraman deserves a raise. just saying
@luxuryqueen4223 күн бұрын
Father Alex 🙌🙌🙌
@mrsebonyabera26 күн бұрын
I literally have all these traits 👑 💍 💗 ♈️
@Kassiex522 күн бұрын
No judgment but it felt like when he was talking about the virtual assistant , he was actually going to speak on it being a guy he dated & then changed up the story lol . Come out at your own pace, friend but it’s okay . I feel most wont judge you iffff that’s the case
@Valerie26BlossomАй бұрын
Like a corrupt ref “ 😂
@SieraTheChosenOne28 күн бұрын
10:17 LMAOOOOOO I can't stop laughing
@Petty_princess-i9xАй бұрын
That music doe 😂
@ItspaolatinaАй бұрын
Father Alex there is something about you that reminds of young "Alejandro sanz"
@schoolofthoughteduАй бұрын
First trait I used to call being a TomBoy.
@streetracer1o12429 күн бұрын
Damn now i see why guys like me when I don’t I’m Just myself that means never kiss ass I always says it how I sees it and I never care what ppl think Haha I played bball for 15yrs born into cars got my own race car now but surprisingly many guys r jealous of me cuz of that and jealous of me as a person cuz I’m Confident asf and don’t care what ppl Think -those are always the insecure guys who are jealous of me I’ve noticed
@justsomeone970514 күн бұрын
And you look gorgeous..you go gurl!
@CeciledeLuireАй бұрын
great video : )
@balika18527 күн бұрын
I have 6 of these qualities
@Maria-vidАй бұрын
Thank you
@ItsblueeeeeeАй бұрын
I would never take his course serious 😂😂😂 maybe a real life coach
@Rain-v8eАй бұрын
You're comment pissed me off, lol
@rebecca_muniz29 күн бұрын
May you please make a video of why everyone seem to love Selena Quintanilla she’s one of my favorite singers in the whole entire world.
@mauritasutherland996420 күн бұрын
Lmao you Make me laugh 😂
@JBjornАй бұрын
I love this 😆
@CarmenPerez-kz6rwАй бұрын
He’s right though.
@muskankaushal70229 күн бұрын
Masterpiece type shit
@ektaaasarАй бұрын
How slow... If they reach out once in 2 months don't initiate despite seeing you almost everyday at fitness Centre & in between they randomly come & be romantic with you or flirty with you.. but don't plan any dates etc.. What should you do specially if ur attracted to them..
@alwayspushforward26 күн бұрын
Ignore his ass TF..hes playing and you're allowing it
@BeenyKayАй бұрын
All the bots in the comments is crazy 😂
@whyherrodere3784Ай бұрын
Seen them comments in tiktok too 💀
@GaliaRex25 күн бұрын
The shit we got to do to keep a man down😂jeez.
@magwambui8251Ай бұрын
Alex 💕
@Riv111124 күн бұрын
Ayudame senor 🤣❤️
@DalinaPop-v1hАй бұрын
And cry shall he then 😅
@VYT6171Ай бұрын
12:35 🤣🤣🤣🤣
@ChristieG920Ай бұрын
I just liked so much more his videos without this board and writing it makes the videos a lot longer and it hits my ADHD hard I have a hard time concentrating.
@JBjornАй бұрын
11:00 😂😂
@biaotochАй бұрын
who’s the camera man? 😝
@luxuryqueen4223 күн бұрын
Lol
@ursula4632Ай бұрын
Stop distracting with an unbutonned shirt 😂🙈
@angiea.3999 сағат бұрын
Ta bien Lenny Kravitz
@capalathoma627423 күн бұрын
He looks crazy af lol
@sharpwip5607Ай бұрын
Father Alex, you are completely useless to me as I am already everything you are trying to teach very young women or women who have not found their Emperor. However, I find you so entertaining to watch.. YOU are so funny!😆🤣 But all in good vibes, I hope you get to help many and help the young women of today realign and become better versions of themselves. 🙏
@maneyarainАй бұрын
3:30 being a truck driver counts? 😂
@nurseannesinspirationalwellnesАй бұрын
🚀⚔️🚀⚔️‼️
@Airendeau2095Ай бұрын
3:29 she a stem
@Celeste21ytАй бұрын
6:18
@Mary-t2p6p24 күн бұрын
Just do you
@zainabrose9612 күн бұрын
Thissss
@Funsoul828 күн бұрын
Like your content but please STOP taking the lord Jesus Christs name in vain and swearing. It takes all the power away from your words.
@redrumff19 күн бұрын
Probably caused by the environment he grew up in , it might take time before it stops I also struggle with cuss words😂 but I know God will help me one day
@ibnebatuta486812 күн бұрын
What if woman speeds it up?
@lylyginnyАй бұрын
My avoidant ass takes so much time to respond even with the guy I like I always felt so bad so I always got back with the best attitude then I got ignored. How do I fix this 🥲🤧
@gypsylizardqueen857228 күн бұрын
Watch Thais Gibson ❤️
@alwayspushforward26 күн бұрын
Work on your avoidant issues 1st
@AMADOOreillyАй бұрын
don’t waste your energy on weak stuff, ebook Magnetic Aura by Takeshi Mizuki is the real move
@reemsaif3105Ай бұрын
😂 sad
@AubreyMaurer-k3jАй бұрын
this is cool and all, but ebook Magnetic Aura by Takeshi Mizuki shows the whole picture
@InocenciaLuskАй бұрын
why stick to surface-level stuff when the ebook Magnetic Aura hits you with the real truth
@reemsaif3105Ай бұрын
Because you are surface level.
@tepsteppy126Ай бұрын
"some things that you cannot forgive" yep. they are only good at first and when they get me, they expect me to accept their unacceptable attitudes. they think i do not know how to step back, making me a punching bag with their unreasonable attitudes (that i do not know where it is coming from, it's just who they are). i gave them chances, until i formed my beliefs and opinions that they wont change their shitty attitudes that already exist in them thats not valid for me to take it --- that doesn't just apply in romantic relationships. it applies with toxic family dynamics too. i closed off my connection with them for years because of it. even we are just in the same neighborhood. i on and off , gave just a minute then none ('cause i dont wanna be treated again their kind of attitudes). i tried working my relationship with them 2022, (cause im getting older i felt) . and its just the same people. i was right, they were cycles. they dont change.