How Detachment Triggers a Man's Emotions

[@coconuttrees]

I was discussing this with someone just this morning . Men LOVE the chase . They LOVE the pursuit you have to give them that thrill so that whenever they they finally do catch up to you they value you more as they had to put the work.

[@mayaveraviel2895]

After the chase many become complacent also. None can influence anyone unless that person himself has an inner urge to cherish someone

[@ArieneFariello-ey9us]

Men do not love the chase, boys do.

[@Love11904]

@@mayaveraviel2895so what do we dooo 😣😩😩

[@yemerocks]

@coconuttrees… u r right but what after chase…. Does that man recognise your true worth or he is going to ghost u again!!! And again the runner chaser cycle will start… I don’t think this will work for long..!

[@Meese29]

​@@yemerocks You have to keep allowing them space to chase. Not all but many men want the space to initiate and to achieve goals. Such as propose and planning it, getting married, getting the girl he wants. Keep giving the man some space even once in a relationship or married. Allow the man opportunity to step up. Unfortunately if the guy isn't mature enough or has issues or is not this type no matter what you do he won't step up also

[@karinajones1121]

This👌best lesson my Mother taught me-'Act like u DGAF '🙏

[@LWilb327]

"Tell 'em ya love 'em, tell 'em ya care, treat 'em like shit n they'll always be there"

[@mellie2576]

It’s so funny how my algorithm sent this video right on to me. I’m currently mastering detachment and it feels GREAAAAAAAT! 😂🎉 you hit very good key points. If you’re black like this comment. I like to see who’s watching this channel

[@the4cornersgarden]

Read the power of now that helps toooooo

[@BrittAnar]

Saaaaaame

[@melllgadurado143]

same it came on my feed

[@Laloudia]

Love how you’re talking about Buddhism. Modern psychology is now also starting to incorporate Eastern philosophy, but you make it sound interesting :)

[@kristinamilenkovic9371]

Father Alex, I like how authentic you are and everything that you are telling makes sense, no bs and straight to the point. You’ve changed so much the way I think and learned me to control my emotions. Greetings from Serbia for the best toxic dating coach!

[@aquariusense]

HIGH INTENTION...low attachment🔑💅🏆

[@melllgadurado143]

this is the realest rawest person ever. I support this channel! More power for u in 2025🎉

[@maryannestewart2384]

It's true and let them know your a real woman who loves but expects more back or move on! 💯 😮😊❤

[@Cararenee93xo]

Guys always come back around anyways.

[@fluffythebluepersian4888]

Yep.. I'm in a poly open marriage and most men I've been involved with almost always try to cycle back

[@Skeptical-n3h]

Women as well lol

[@Paigepensiero]

Yes. To all the ex’s

[@MyDarlingRocsi]

Yup

[@Skeptical-n3h]

@@Cararenee93xo no we dont

[@cheetahcat3940]

Right. Everyone should love conditionally. This whole I'll be here no matter what is nonsense. I always say for better or worse means things not within your control. It doesn't mean you have to stay if someone keeps creating a toxic mess.

[@iwantcrystals]

THIS ‼️‼️‼️‼️‼️‼️

[@the4cornersgarden]

That part

[@coconuttrees]

Very apt and timely for me . This is GOLD . A tactic I already knew and apply however you have broke it down and confirmed it well . Best video EVER !!!!!

[@mayakatreeza6087]

" I'm checking my food " 😂😅 I really love how you are 😂😅 ❤❤❤

[@casseychaaneel_]

😂😂😂

[@evapawlowska]

God bless you 🙏😂 and yes totally agree we’re not dating children don’t need to love them unconditionally!

[@michellemedford8524]

BEST VIDEO YET! but could be my awareness and readiness either way this message resonates with me highly!!!!

[@HallowedBeThyName33]

"Understand that things end" Need a whole video on this!

[@cindyd3769]

Thank you Father Alex! You're always insightful and Fun simultaneously! Never close this channel!

[@TiyaLeonard-jf7og]

Men need to know you WILL LEAVE. I’ve done it. I didn’t want to, but I am better than that. It was the audacity of the chase😒🙂‍↔️

[@studyaccount9662]

one of best video so far 🤩

[@BrittAnar]

The first man I dont mind listening to

[@evapawlowska]

Ty Father Alex you saved the day :)

[@royalsemaj6217]

Realism at its finest ❤

[@sadiyyahgovan7661]

This is truly a blessing to learn Thank you Jesus for the positive 😮 understanding I'm grateful for the Lessons

[@mattanderson6672]

Fantastic discussion Excellent analysis Thank you Sir

[@The_Whimsical_Avoidant]

Why's this so hard for people to grasp? I understood this as a teen. This reminds me of the anxious/avoidant dynamic. Anxious people hate, but WANT thr unavailable person and then get angry and desperate when that person doesn't want them so they chase, which is extremely unattractive and in the end it never gets them the man/woman. Make it make sense.

[@nicholeb2746]

Because our Subconscious runs the show. Unless your extremely self aware and aware of attachment styles. Knowledge is power baby!

[@The_Whimsical_Avoidant]

@nicholeb2746 I understand what you're saying, but in my case I always knew better. Yes my subconscious attempts to run the show, but I've always been self-aware enough not to act on my triggers because I knew at a young age that nobody wanted the easily available girl. They prefer the confident person who doesn't say yes to everything.

[@alyssavannelli]

@@The_Whimsical_Avoidant same but like, want a cookie ? lmfao. ur demeanor exudes arrogance, boastful as hell. not productive! not everyone's a natural, hun.

[@Hoodlullaby]

nowadays a lot of men want to get chased to protect their emotions n to pick the right woman that actually wants to be with them

[@marwaderfoufi5059]

Lol they get chased then get into a relationship ans leave the girl or cheat.... It's not gonna work

[@Hoodlullaby]

@@marwaderfoufi5059 you gotta have a strong heart and pick the right person obviousfuckingly 😁

[@Miska_Lada]

Voting for ✌️"best video" from you so far. I just ask myself why the guys find out too late that I am willing to walk away. Now I have 3 running behind me in whom I am not interested anymore, because they didn't pay enough attention to me and one who will find out soon if he doesnt wake UP lol ... Will make nice groupe of labradors lol 😂

[@Reeluvs111God]

I concur🎉

[@HighPriestess1007]

Happy Holidays Father A, ur the man & be safe in Mexico Papi 🥂💯

[@sueannemathews4037]

This message was Divine Sent. Thank you for the info ❤

[@PrincessLoX0]

I needed this so much you have no idea. Thank you ❤

[@seesee143]

We love you father Alex thanks for keeping us on code

[@oliviakaptein9977]

Best video ever

[@hemlock5115]

But the paradox is once he gets you he’s looking for his next prey. He has conquered you now now he’s chasing the next woman.

[@marwaderfoufi5059]

Give just enough but don't satisfy his needs.... This is kinda super toxic.

[@taniathomas7353]

Why would he be looking for his next “prey” if he really wants to be with you?

[@hemlock5115]

@@taniathomas7353 the same reason why he playing all these damn games in the first place lol 😂

[@handerson-vl7df]

Brilliant ! ❤

[@streetangelco]

So true about the air of attachment repelling unhealthy toxic guys. I took things slow and was a bit detached in the beginning and my ex wanted out, he was loooking for total control and often said he wanted a submissive wife

[@simply.sustainable]

I just want to say that your videos are healing women lol. And preventing them from being in toxic relationships and potentially abusive (or worse) situations. You are the ultimate feminist haha

This was good

[@Mbalenhle_Salvatoris]

Thanks Father Alex ❤

[@cheri1666]

Thank you for posting. ❤

[@Beautiful-b8t]

I LOVE YOUR EXAMPLES ❤❤❤❤

[@healthyreveals4718]

Great dense content in this video, worth listening twice.

[@dinab.1478]

This was amazing

[@ap6255-i2l]

I watch his videos everyday

[@Sudakshina_Kina]

Thanks Dude...this makes sense!

[@iamasia_perez]

Yup this is me 🧘🏽‍♀️

[@KSever-x2t]

Thanks, you are amazing😊

[@goddessshala]

It’s actually so hard for me to like somebody so I’m always detected and when I actually find someone that checks my boxes I become feral lol I know that’s a problem though because I may be a little too intense, but I just hate the fact that once I actually detach, it’s not me doing it as a skill I just truly don’t GAF and it’s very hardto turn that off and I end up not even liking them anymore. I wish I could have a easy middleground.

[@dlyteeats3868]

im the same way i just detatch and it just comes naturally for me to do i dont even realize im doing it

[@virgoteaze]

I feel the same way. Once I’m done I’m done

[@evapawlowska]

Damn straight willing to walk away!

[@evapawlowska]

I’ll hit you up in the new year for coaching :)

[@edithk2997]

Great video Alex

[@KeegiiBaby]

The thing is I'm all or nothing

[@lalea9311]

I need a PhD in multiple domains to keep up with the manipulative dynamics of dating nowadays. My parents didn’t watch KZbin videos on these topics but here I am 😂🤷‍♀️ I guess these videos will help me find the right one.

[@evapawlowska]

K I’m gonna keep you on repeat. If that’s how it is then great, easy 😂 and I know that’s how it is cuz every other guy I’m NOT crazy about is crazy about me! Smh 😡😊

[@Itspaolatina]

How do You do that?

[@evapawlowska]

@ do what? Attract guys I’m not crazy about? What father Alex says - not care not chase lol then it’s easy. Tricky when you do like them tho lol

[@CandyFrazier-i5n]

When I detach they never come back so idk if this is true. But thank you for the advice

[@dpaper7962]

That means they didn’t care or like you in the first place. It only works if they truly do like you and/or care for you. He also said this in the video

[@justindunningt]

@@dpaper7962nah that’s not true there was a girl that i wasn’t sure if i liked them and she kept showing how much she wanted me and i slowly started liking her more and more and started dating her

[@justindunningt]

@@dpaper7962if she detached we would’ve never dated

[@sergioguaman2000]

Detachment is Masculine energy

[@gigiarmany]

middle aged female grown kids twice divorced career going strong well maintained looks independent & self sufficient fully able to detach found myself less & less inclined to even consider a relationship again Oh well.. will watch video for entertainment value.. 💖💥🔥🙌🏽🙋🏾‍♀️

[@gabriellagarcia382]

I agree with everything he said apart from the plant comment because that's downright disrespectful and there's no need to speak to anybody like that and if anybody spoke to me like that I would dump them straight away! There's a way to show that you have a low tolerance 4 disrespect and life is too short to waste on somebody who's not worthwhile without all the vulgar and horrible comments

[@kellyismond9351]

Thanks ❤t❤thanks ❤❤

[@sandy-leechetty9703]

Father Alex, is doing the teacher thing....I'm waiting for the magic stick and prayer.😇

[@turquoiseheart03]

“Sorry the dog is here” hahaha love this

[@Marta-b9m]

Always datach🎉

[@noik_11]

The politician example was gooooood

[@Shasharinabina]

Yes afraid of losing something! It’s kind of pathetic attachment.

[@sasipriya3449]

What a analysis brother 💯💯💯 true but you need to improve explanation part to reach everyone some words are fast otherwise super

[@sisi6056]

You can file for divorce in Sharia law, please get your facts straight!

[@eminecilek2040]

But the law doesn’t protect women s rights

[@sisi6056]

@ While Sharia law theoretically grants women rights such as ownership, financial support, and the ability to seek divorce, the extent to which these rights are protected varies depending on interpretation and implementation. Sharia, in its essence, aims to ensure justice, balance, and protection for all, including women. Many of its principles were revolutionary for women’s rights in the historical context, providing them with financial independence, legal protections, and status in society. However, challenges arise when patriarchal cultural norms influence its interpretation, leading to restrictions that are not inherent to Sharia itself. It is therefore inaccurate to claim that Sharia law inherently fails to protect women; the issue lies in its misapplication rather than its core principles.

[@sisi6056]

@ While Sharia law theoretically grants women rights such as ownership, financial support, and the ability to seek divorce, the extent to which these rights are protected varies depending on interpretation and implementation. Sharia, in its essence, aims to ensure justice, balance, and protection for all, including women. Many of its principles were revolutionary for women’s rights in the historical context, providing them with financial independence, legal protections, and status in society. However, challenges arise when patriarchal cultural norms influence its interpretation, leading to restrictions that are not inherent to Sharia itself. It is therefore inaccurate to claim that Sharia law inherently fails to protect women; the issue lies in its misapplication rather than its core principles.

[@eminecilek2040]

@ so it is still risky to give power to an authority that claims to rule by Sheria law ,as there is possibility to misinterpret as you say ..There is not a country that is successfully applying the rules as we see they only manipulate religion to their own interest

[@maram1637]

Please ... Women have so many rights in islam el hamdoullah. Only providers men can deal with that religion as it is so demanding for men​@@eminecilek2040

[@ryanthomas6418]

Awesome video! I wanted to see the dog 😢

[@Flower-v8w]

Aww, I wanna see your doggie in your videos. ❤❤

[@MindfulAttraction2.0]

No! He deserves his privacy

[@elmorchdiamel663]

Just don't have feelings...

[@emopals2390]

Are your courses lifetime access?

[@carleencarpenter]

brilliant

[@thatsmellsdivine]

Does detachment work if you already effed up and chased a little bit and then detached afterwards?

[@Joysings86]

Yip

[@mayaveraviel2895]

Nothing happens 😏. You detach they have plenty of other options.

[@laetitia9652]

And so do we! That’s the whole point of detachment!

[@Zia_zia210]

It’s the drawings on the whiteboard for me 😂

[@madinaibrahim540]

Pls learn about “sharia”(that’s if you mean Islamic). Divorce is very allowed in Islam! Nobody’s allowed to kill anybody in Sharia. There’s no compulsion in marriage

[@tinadavis7742]

I never ever chase these no good men,they aint worth the chase.they always chase me. I could careless about men. Im single and happy.focusing on my health.

[@aliaalchemy]

This my last day trying

[@FlorenceLunsford-sk2nj]

World wind of emotions

[@priya3220]

What if he has already involved in someone else

[@Adelina24244]

What if it doesn’t….? Does that mean he is a Narc..?

[@Love11904]

Everyone is teaching us how to love predators 😅

[@ejprilonil2688]

That squeaky pen haha 😵‍💫🤌

[@yyc246]

Damn Alex . Under sharia law you can actually get divorced for the right reasons.

[@MindfulAttraction2.0]

Hey, I don't know LOL good to know

[@yyc246]

@ it’s alright just laughed at it when u said it 🥰your fun from Canada 🇨🇦

[@auditt5450]

COUPON CODE "BLACK" 😂

[@jwalka534]

Alex what's up with that ponytail....

[@lindaavery6984]

It's not fair you can't show your true emotions

[@BloodyPsychoGurl]

I have detached for almost two months now and nothing happens.

[@whiteliner2253]

You have to do it etleast a year… 2 months is nothing… I’ve been gone 4 yrs… He still tries…

[@debbiebyrne6573]

Five mibths of ghisting ? Explain this I did reaxh out he reokued w dsys later as he nit in FB as much

[@ExcitedJungleWaterfall-cj5wj]

Wat if h doesn't chase😢😢😢😢😢😢😢😢😢😢😢😢😢😢

[@love-cs8iw]

Nothing i tried but he moved on with another women and applied divorce

[@theathea3064]

You know I'm one of those girls that walks away now. I fall in love only to get the message that I'm not good enough, so I'm now like who does this guy think I am? Someone stupid perhaps? Then when they come around. I started to pick their flaws. Then its done. Ladies, men are complicated, because they like a complicated relationship. Stay away from them. They are actually nuts. It's not you ladies. It's them. Sick in the mind.stay away.

[@reemsaif3105]

The videos are covering similar topics and its all assuming that the lady is chasing the guy. Many women want intimacy but fear relationships just like men, otherwise relationships would have been smoother. Like that girl you met in tinder who told you shes only wants friendship ^_^ Being chased sounds great but in reality women get nervous ❤ Im afraid of them being needy and controlling. Its true willing to walk away is key.

[@emiliostarottea]

Does this work for same sex. I wish u touched on that

[@haidyn1230]

yu make this video twice a week atp 😂

[@michellefiery739]

Oh my goodness, Sharia Law 🤯

[@Yikkoofficial]

If you detach they disappear lol

[@mp7140]

❤❤❤

[@nurseannesinspirationalwellnes]

❤ ✂️

[@Sabrina-7728]

Codependency..is poison.

[@dusya_askar]

👍🏻

[@CW-rx2js]

You're not a golden retriever 😂

[@Reconsider-hr4fl]

This me

[@gigiarmany]

I cant read any of the handwriting..part of the appeal I guess..💖❤️