The ONLY 5 Style Rules I Follow Over 45 (You’ll Love These!)

[@vickeytaylor9799]

I totally agree with you Erin, I am 67, but I do not dress like a 67 year old woman, because I do not feel li,like, a 67 year old woman

[@BusbeeStyle]

Love that, Vickey! xo

[@nancymartin347]

U wear what u want

[@joycegreer9391]

YES. Same here. I am 69, do not feel 69, and wear what I like as long as I am comfortable and like the way I look. Forget what is supposed to be "appropriate" for your age.

[@santoinetteberger]

@@joycegreer9391 Same here. 69 next month. I am training with my husband for a ten mile race so try to eat right and exercise and not dress frumpy! I do not wear bare midriff or other skin revealing. As you stated, dress for comfort, and that is very individualized!

[@60lollie]

One of my rules when buying bargains is the 3 outfit rule. Whatever I buy has to work in at least 3 outfits. Actually I use the 3 outfit rule for all my clothing purchases. 😄

[@fashionismypassiongirl660]

❤️❤️❤️I totally agree with you Erin, that the older I get the more ballsy I am. 😉👌🏻💕 If I want to wear trends, I do. If I want to look classy, I do. I see some bloggers say, you have to find your style. I’m like…. Why? Why do I have to find my style? I like a lot of things. I don’t have anything in particular I must follow. I just got to my mid forties and I love it. My three kids love my styling ideas, too. A lot of times we share clothes as well. We love it! 😁😁😁💕

[@BusbeeStyle]

I love that! I think "finding your style" makes it easier to shop and get dressed each day, but that never means you can't go outside of those parameters and experiment with all styles. Fashion is supposed to be fun...often times that gets forgotten! xo

[@ludmilamudrikova]

Totally agree with you, i'm 42 and discovered colours😁😁😁 never worn them before, i was typical sweats mom...and now i like to wear a lot of styles, lot of colours and gosh i wear dresses as well🤯🤣🤣...i hate when someone tells me at my age i need to wear certain things and have a short hair 'cos i'm too old to have them long...like wtf????

[@CarolynandherClothes]

Agree. 53 and wearing whatever I want.

[@lisahannah3175]

@@ludmilamudrikova I'm 52 and I'm wearing my hair longer than ever before. Even though I know my mom is rolling over in her grave because of it 😆

[@conniepleasantnails]

OMG I am totally here for your comment…such truth ❤️

[@tracys694]

Erin, I love you and your channel. At 44, after a lupus diagnosis and putting on considerable weight with medication, I hope everyone on here can learn love their body where it is at and not yearn for thinner years. You, and every woman over 40 watching this, have so much more to give the world than fitting into size 26 jeans. ♥️

[@BusbeeStyle]

Thank you, Tracy! xo

[@shailyy3202]

Stay Blessed Stay Happy 😘🤗🥰🧚‍♀️🦄🌈🧿

[@annieyahu676]

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[@deannaspencer2650]

@@BusbeeStyle you

[@ritaowens7378]

Having had systemic Lupus for over 25 years, it's been a struggle!!! I now do intermittent fasting. From 3pm to 7pm are my eating times. I feel better, I think my Lupus is more in control bc of the discipline and I certainly feel like my joints, muscles and bone health is better. When struggling with Lupus, you look for the small things that bring you JOY!!!!! Embracing the good, praying about the bad and simply living another day adding kindness and grace to this world!!!🤗🤗💖💖🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏

[@angiegoesadventuring]

I love you. Thank the Lord I've found you as a 40 something woman! Things I've thought to do but are not super confident with, you've given me confidence for. Rules I live by, you've reaffirmed my approach for. And generally I feel so much more confident in my body thanks to your videos so thank you. You're amazing 🙏🏻

[@BusbeeStyle]

Angie, I am SO glad that you are here! I'm honored to be a part of your journey and to hear that my tips are helpful to you. Thanks so much for watching! xo

[@PeachesSkinCare]

I loved this. My New Years resolution at 56 was to stop the sweats and get dressed in something lovely everyday. I feel fabulous. As we age as women we can be more fabulous and more confident if we stop allowing social media and marketing to tell us how we should look and be as we age. I teach women everyday it isn’t to late to be your best. This was wonderful. Blessings 🍑🙌🏻🧡Lisa

[@BusbeeStyle]

Love that, Lisa! It’s never too late to be your best!! xo

[@PeachesSkinCare]

@@BusbeeStyle Thank you for always being so kind. Come and say hello one day! I would be honored. 🙌🏻🍑🧡Lisa

[@tmomo7265]

I am 46, and I wear what makes me happy and feels comfortable 😊 I have been working from home for 10 years and I literally get dressed up to go grocery shopping just so I can look nice because I work in sweat pants all day.

[@tanjadoesart9824]

We have the same name

[@jeannine520]

"Wear what you want" has been like an epiphany to me lately. I always bought clothes that I wanted to wear but never actually wore them. I was saving them for the "right" occasion, and what I mean by that is I was taking in to account what everyone else would be wearing around me so that I fit into whatever group I was going to be with. It dawned on me a couple of months ago that by letting the crowd dictate what I was wearing I was allowing strangers/coworkers/family members, etc., to dress me to the point that I was spending my life not feeling like myself. Kind of like getting dressed in someone else's closet and then feeling uncomfortable and resentful about it. I don't know why I didn't make those connections before but once I realized what I was doing it was easy to stop and dress only for myself. I can't overstate how much better I feel.

[@BusbeeStyle]

Love that, Jeannine! Maybe when your friends see how nice you are dressed they will be inspired too! xo

[@martinedeecee]

Same for me! When covid hit and we started having to work from home, after six months, I started ditching "office pants", "office sweaters", etc. I now have clothes I love, and those "office" clothes can be appreciated by someone else.

[@TalkWithJoce]

Yes! Be true to yourself and follow your joy!

[@autumnzellers3855]

Love this! Yes!

[@JessicaLovely1]

Thank you for the "no workout clothes in public" challenge. It drives me nuts. I believe that is exactly what our country needs right now.

[@nicolewily4846]

I Bought a Bucket Hat, yeah that simple!! Ive been wearing it instead of my usual baseball hat when I don’t want to wash my hair. Everyone stares (I feel like) and my mom said, “Aren’t you the trendsetter!” I just like hats even though the fit is out of my comfort zone and you don’t see a lot of people wearing them….I have just gone for it❤️😎

[@BusbeeStyle]

Love that, Nicole! If you feel confident...that's all that matters! xo

[@rosej9686]

Definitely agree we have to dress the body we have NOW and ignore the numbers! Great video! ❤

[@chandaharkins4418]

Oh, that ego sure can get in the way, though. :) I recently sized up, and my clothes feel so much better! Why was I waiting?? Pride.

[@ghc26]

1) Yes!!! 2) Yes! 3) Yes! 4) Yes!, and 5) Yes! I couldn’t agree with you more! (Watching your daughter dance in her red dress, makes my heart happy!♥️)

[@BusbeeStyle]

Thank you, Gretchen! Me too! xo

[@susiepattinson3031]

Agree with everything. At 66, curvy petite, I wear well fitting classics, and that works for me and my body shape. ❤️love your channel.

[@autumnzellers3855]

This was really great Erin. I loved 3 and 5 especially. I’ve been trying to sit on potential purchases a little bit longer to see if it’s something I need or an impulse buy. I think this is something critical especially with the bargain bin. You think, “Oh if I don’t get it now it’ll sell out and then I’ll miss it!” Just giving myself an hour or so to think about it can help me determine whether I need it or not. And it’s not even limited to clothes. It’s been saving me $$. And I thought 5 was so important. Going outside of your comfort zone just a little and wearing what you want can definitely make life more enjoyable. I bought a tulle skirt and have already worn it once. I thought it was only for something special, but it’s really fun. Even to the grocery store, makes life a little more lighthearted. Thanks again for your inspiration. BTW I loved the photos you shared, so beautiful!

[@silverfox5732]

You are queen, you are so right I pushed myself and bought this sleeveless white dress to wear to my granddaughters dance performance and it have a pull tie belt I never ever even think about buying let alone getting it to wear,but listening to you lately have me thinking and seeing myself differently 😉. and it's definitely making me feel better.

[@BusbeeStyle]

Thank you SO much for sharing that with me...I am so glad to hear that my videos are helping you to prioritize yourself, because that is so very important. NOW is the time to wear the dress, the future is never guaranteed. Thanks for watching and supporting my channel. xo

[@artdollz]

Great set of rules to follow and I agree with every one! Some years ago I lost 30 lbs, gained back almost 15, but managed to lose 5. I've been struggling to get rid of the last 10 and get back to where I was but I'm so tired of being hung up on numbers! I exercise and eat healthy most of the time, so I constantly have to remind myself that I'm fit and strong and to just accept my body for where its at. Watching your videos helps give me that confidence! Thank you!

[@BusbeeStyle]

I'm SO glad! Grant yourself some grace. You will get there. xo

[@Mexicobeanpole]

What if you don’t “get there”. What if you decide that right here, right now, this is EXACTLY where your weight and body should be? I’ve been 25 lbs over what my favorite weight is since hitting menopause. I’ve lost 15. I’ve become obsessed over those last 10 lbs. To the point of working on it a full year!! I finally decided to take a 3 month diet “eat at maintenance” break, and then try again. If it doesn’t come off this time, I’m going to just listen to my body, that since menopause maybe it does not want to be that thin. Will I be happy about that?. No. Will I be ok with it? Yes. Sometimes, it just is what it is.

[@JennODonnell]

You’re so right about not focusing on the number but focus on the fit. I changed sizes and I look better when I wear what fits and it’s not like anyone asks me what size I am. I need to accept it and rock it.

[@ylcalif3681]

Another rule to add to the list: 1) Think about which clothing style best illustrates YOU (today) at a glance . . . you don't want your outward clothing messages to conflict with your inner self, intentions/mood/personality. Your clothing messages will change daily according to your mood and/or the event. That's why each woman wears an ever-changing range of styles (her signals to the world at that particular moment) I'm mostly classic + Boho + with a respectable bit of edgy

[@pixie3760]

When I worked in television I was assigned to help a few of our ladies, I agree about fit 💯% also clothes that can be mixed and matched some of our guests had to travel by plane and they didnt want to bring suitcases full of clothes for 2 days. Just a simple trick of separates helped them so much. And if all else failed, I kept around half a dozen pretty shawls and I'd throw one of those over the whole thing, lol

[@ruthrausch5237]

At 86 I wear what I want and lots of color. Jeans are a must and not just plain ones. My motto is "just because you are old, you don't have to dress old".

[@BusbeeStyle]

Love that, Ruth! xo

[@michellehamric6856]

At 67 I've learned to be confident in what I wear or I don't wear it, whatever "it" is. I've discovered recently how much I adore style/details reminiscent of the 1940's. The key is to keep the clothing updated, clean lines, chic, and classy. Also, I'm wearing lots of neutrals and mixing up the pairings. I'm even wearing neutrals that aren't in my color palette. I can make them work by using accessories or keeping my not best color on the bottom half. Confidence is truly everything!!

[@BusbeeStyle]

Thanks for sharing, Michelle! xo

[@jennm3708]

I love this! I recently lost a LOT of weight and have been using your advice to rebuild my wardrobe. I have literally had to replace everything in my closet (including shoes). Talk about a good excuse for a style reboot! (But also very overwhelming trying to start from nothing and build a closet without going broke😖) Some advice I would like to share-if someone is struggling with weight and feeling terrible like I was, finding a doctor that will listen is critical. I finally found a doctor willing to test me for an autoimmune disease, and getting the right diagnosis and treatment has changed my life. On the style rules: I can’t emphasize enough how important fit really is. In the process of rebuilding my closet, I have found brand sizes varying wildly. I am anything from an x-small petite/4P to a medium petite/10P depending on the brand all in the same day of trying on clothes. Bra sizes too-brands really vary a LOT, so really assessing how they fit regardless of what size the tag says is critical. If it doesn’t fit right, I don’t buy it. And on the bargain front, it is so true! I love a clearance sale, but if I wouldn’t pay full price for it, I don’t buy it. I look at the sales to find bargains on things I want but can’t stretch the budget to buy at full price. 1 style “rule” I live by: the right undergarments for the outfit are critical. Bad undergarments can ruin the nicest clothes, and the right ones can make a t-start and jeans look perfect.

[@BusbeeStyle]

Thanks so much for sharing, Jenn! Great advice! Congratulations on your weight loss! xo

[@stephaniekaufman1830]

Wow! Congratulations on your weight loss . Wonderful implemented tips.

[@debvoso9490]

Excellent

[@lisahannah3175]

I'm in the process of losing weight. Waiting for my weight to settle before I spend a lot on a new wardrobe, but making plans.

[@kellybonanno]

I completely agree, Erin! Wear what makes you feel comfortable and beautiful regardless of age. I never liked that no white after Labor Day rule, especially here in southern California when it's often 85 in November!

[@clairewillow6475]

Ya that rule only makes sense in places where it gets dark and grey in the fall/winter

[@worldover4616]

I'm in south Florida and wear white all year long. I don't give a flip about that rule.

[@Jacksonandjulian]

I love your personality! You are the first KZbinr I have found in my age group that really feels how I feel in my 40s, which is...still young and fabulous lol but also realistic and honest about the changes that occur at our age. Your approach is wonderful! Keep up the good work.

[@BusbeeStyle]

Thank you SO much, Jackson! xo

[@sonyavs455]

I so appreciate your channel, Erin! I am 63 and I have found with added years comes more attitude that I’m going to wear what pleases me. As America continues its decent into more casual, aka slouchy, I have maintained my classic style and appreciate it more than ever. It’s my form of ‘rebellion’ - ha! I like dressing up and will continue to do so. It makes me feel good. As for the numbers, with vanity sizing that started so many years ago to feed our egos, it’s clear that numbers haven’t really meant anything in a long time anyway. It’s good to know your inch measurements for an accurate fit if you buy things on line, but no, the numbers in my closet go from 2 to 10 and they all fit!

[@damayanti3231]

Confidence joy..added with comforts..absolutely agree !

[@Slaugenour]

Thank you for this, Erin! My favorite idea of yours is to wear whatever I want, even if it's just cozy lounge clothes. As long as it supports the mood I want to achieve; either feeling relaxed or lovely in a pretty sweater.

[@rjones3955]

When you described how the dresses inspired the opera trip, the hotel stay, the photo shoots...I remembered that when my first daughter was born we threw a big party and that it was originally inspired by a beautiful dress I wanted to put the new baby in! I felt silly admitting that at the time, but I had since forgotten that the dress inspired the event, while the event itself is a fabulous memory. I think for some of us, the dream outfit is like a window into what we might want to create in our lives. Thank you for that insight! 💖

[@BusbeeStyle]

Love that! How sweet of a memory to look back on...Thank you for sharing! xo

[@iggybiggy821]

Awesome video! Best place to get to as a woman is embracing and dressing for the body you have and feeling wonderful in your clothes because they actually fit properly....because you bought the correct size, fit and style for YOU! That alone will make you feel better about yourself. Not to be misconstrued with giving up fitness and nutrition goals. I've been less fit, more fit or really fit (but not completely unfit) and I full on recommend learning to accept and love all of those versions of yourself younger than I did and dressing for them as required. You'll waste less time disliking your body and no money can ever buy that feeling! Add to this the classy strategic showing of skin, bargain beware and wear what you love, this video nails it Erin!

[@BusbeeStyle]

SO true!! Glad you liked this one, Iggy! xo

[@mistysstudio87]

Yes!! I wear mostly what is comfortable! Unless I’m running late and ate Mexican food the night before... Then I don’t have time to change my mind! 🤪 I appreciate the look and feel of just wearing what I want. I make the most “statement” in our family and I raised boys, so it’s fun to see everyone’s face when they see me show up time an event. *It helps that I’m a Cosmetology Operator Instructor. I live “styling” anything! Erin, you are always beautiful! Keep up the good work! Love your videos and I pray for your family.

[@BusbeeStyle]

Thank you, Misty! xo

[@fabulisa5561]

One of my favorite videos ever....Loved you trimming the, no doubt expensive, Tulle dress for your daughter, a memory she'll always cherish❤

[@BusbeeStyle]

Thank you so much! It actually was not too expensive, but totally worth it for that smile! Glad you enjoyed this one, Lisa! xo

[@peggyjohnson4651]

First of all, YEA for #5!! As a woman of a certain age, I have finally embraced not caring/paying attention to sizes. Size is just a number! I go for comfortable, flattering fit now - no matter what the size is. When I first started to embrace this idea, I actually cut off the size tags of some of my clothes - a mind game, I know, but it helped!! Thanks for the inspiration and joy, Erin!

[@BusbeeStyle]

That's a great tip, Peggy! I tell people to do that all the time...totally works! xo

[@stephaniekaufman1830]

Great tip Peggy. And I love what you wrote!

[@fabienneclavier5984]

Yes and no. Yes, size is just a number, and even varies from brand to brand, but our state of mind still depends on said number. I am a short woman already wearing a size 18, took me years to accept the 18 as “just a number” - and I have never been skinny or a size 4 or anything. But because of perimenopause changes, and despite being careful and mindful, my body is currently changing big time and I feel it shouldn’t be long before I have to buy a size 20. And that’s a whole new psychological step here, going from “1” to “2”... very hard

[@EweTube4]

I wear what flatters me, what fits, what I feel comfortable in, what matches the occasion. I wore tea length dresses to my daughter's and my son's weddings. Weddings were outdoors. I wanted to dance and party! I work at home now, but I dress in nice blouses or tops (no one sees my jeans or leggings on video). Travelling to Ireland in Fall. Ireland is casual. Jeans, layers, and one pair of nice dressier slacks. Nice new Boots and walking shoes, that's it. I am 68 and all my life loved fashion! I am often told I look late 50's, that is so nice! I stay out of sun and have good genes. Also, life is joy! Put a smile on, it is your BEST accessorie!

[@margarettuimising9995]

This was a great one. Thanks Erin. Love these connections between outward and inward styles. Love the mother-daughter outfits. Nothing sweeter than creating memories for our loved ones😍🥰

[@BusbeeStyle]

Glad you enjoyed it, Margaret! xo

[@martinedeecee]

@@BusbeeStyle I actually got teary eyed when you spoke of the mother daughter dresses and your special opera night. She will treasure that memory her whole life.

[@janberryhill1159]

CD

[@mohanienandlal4672]

Love this l! Thank you. My favorite rule is wear whatever you want !!

[@BusbeeStyle]

Mine too! Glad you enjoyed this one, Mohanie! xo

[@LizLyonsPhD]

Amen! I love "I wear whatever I want". This was so encouraging Erin. Thank you.

[@jaycole2109]

Erin! The tulle skirt and dresses are great on you! Love this video!

[@nikicolka6195]

Thank you for this video, i'll be 35 this year and i feel it's time upgrade my closet more feminine, more clear in neutral colours, more organized. I love your chanel ❤ greetings from heart of Europe

[@jac1797]

Since you went to Madrid your style has evolved and your hair style has evolved and you look fabulous and so classic. I enjoy watching everything on your channel now so much more! And I'm in over 50 watcher.

[@BusbeeStyle]

Thank you so much!! I appreciate the kind comment! xo

[@marialicemorgan19]

I’m 56 and love classic style with lots of color. No neutrals for me. I have been using Erin’s advice for years now. She really is on point. I get compliments all the time now. I have purged all the ill fitting clothing and wear everything with confidence. Even if I’m in workout clothes. My husband of 33 year even noticed how polished I’ve been looking!

[@BusbeeStyle]

Yay! I love to hear stories like this, Marialice! Thank you for sharing! xo

[@marieflorjacinto9390]

I agree with you about being comfortable and how confident one is in their clothes and style.

[@letajohnson8838]

My favorite style "rule" for myself is also not wearing I'll fitting clothes, and I couldn't care less what the number size is! My favorite bootcut jeans come from a discount store ($14), and although I truly wear a 10, they are a numbered size 8, but they look like a size 6 because they fit so well. They are a dark wash, have just the right whiskering, and are durable. Who cares what the numbered size is when it's sewn inside the jeans? Nobody but me knows what it says anyway.

[@lp1243]

Can you tell me more about where I can buy these jeans?

[@madelinesheridan3765]

Yes, I’ve never noticed anyone going through my clothes to see what size they are 😁

[@theresagarza1578]

My favorite rule is: wear whatever you want. In a way, I'm kinda lucky because I'm a performer, so I feel it's almost my duty to wear "risky" outfits. I'm in my fifties and I play bass in a rock band, so I'm already a bit of a unicorn. And now I'm going to tell you something I know you know: you look fabulous at the weight you are. I appreciate you telling your viewers you've gained a little, because most of us probably didn't notice a few extra pounds - that's how good you look RIGHT NOW! I'm just glad to see you meeting your goals & living your life & enjoying your adventures. That's gotta be so much more satisfying than working out for 3 hours a day (or at least that's how I would feel about it). Thanks for your content!

[@BusbeeStyle]

Wow...love that you play the bass! Very cool! Thank you for all of your kind words, Theresa! xo

[@debra2415db]

Wow! When you said you wear something a couple days in a row. Because you feel confident in it, that made me happy!!! I've literally did just that recently. Wonderful to step out of the house and feel awesome, knowing you look and feel great! Then you said you can wear whatever you want at any age. Love, Love, Love!!!🤯🥳🤩😍❤🧡💛💚💙💜

[@BusbeeStyle]

I'm so glad this video resonated with you! I truly appreciate your comment. xo

[@MaureenDriscollRomance]

You and your daughter at the opera! Such joy.

[@cheryljaquez7556]

That blush dress is absolutely gorgeous

[@ArtsyCupcake]

Wear it with confidence - so true!! ❤️

[@ambermullins6158]

I teared up when I saw you and your daughter together in those beautiful dresses! 🥺💗 I love how her face lit up! ❤️ My favorite rule: Where what you want! I need to remind myself of this.. I get stuck wearing the same old thing cuz I think I have to! Thanks Erin! You're amazing! 😘

[@BusbeeStyle]

Thank you so much!! I just love looking at the pure joy on her face in that video clip! SO glad I captured this moment! xo

[@marianamedina9299]

Finally a woman very honest! You are amazing Erin! I'm 46 and I will follow the rules that works for me! You are stunning!

[@BusbeeStyle]

Thank you SO much, Mariana! xo

[@Soldout564]

This is such a refreshing video! For me, I feel uncomfortable following trends that are a great departure from my clasic personal style. I can now feel affirmed in "wearing what I want" provided I look appropriate for the occassion and feel confident. ❤❤❤

[@BusbeeStyle]

Thanks for watching, Kim! Always wear the things you love! Fashion should be fun. xo

[@carolcrowell6432]

Great advice, Erin! I still just love that you cut the red tulle dress for Elizabeth. What a special memory you created for both of you. After all, at some point down the line, we can always hang on to the memories. xo Carol

[@BusbeeStyle]

Thank you, Carol! It was such a special night! xo

[@jennifercrockford2381]

Love this video! I have a lovely maxi dress that I feel fabulous in and I’ve never worn it because I haven’t had the occasion to.Now I’m inspired to wear it wherever I want!

[@BusbeeStyle]

I'm SO glad, Jennifer! Go for it! xo

[@mdoctor69]

Everything she says just makes so much sense👍

[@mobe494]

How wonderful to see you and Elizabeth going to the opera! 🤗 She looked pumped!👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽 So happy you and your husband stepped out of your comfort zone and gave your children this priceless experience! Growing up abroad (as a military brat) shaped my ideals about culture and my place as an American in the world! Invaluable!!

[@BusbeeStyle]

Thank you! I just love watching her face in that video! xo

[@aidahimawan]

These tips are soooo on point, erin. You really got down to the core of styling above 45. I ll be 55 years old this year. You have helped me rock every outfits with all your tips. Fashion has been my passion since young. You literally saved my menopause years. Warmest regards from Singapore🌸God bless u and your family🌷

[@BusbeeStyle]

You are SO sweet, Aida! So glad my content is so helpful for you! xo

[@AnnieAtRecess]

Love this! Love YOU! We are completely different body types, BUT like the few other ladies I respect on KZbin, your advice translates across size, height, and age. I appreciated your recommendation to seek out pieces you love and wait for them to go on sale. I especially like to do this with my wardrobe staples like my favorite white tee. They are normally overpriced in my opinion, so I wait until I see them go for 70% off annually, and buy multiples.

[@BusbeeStyle]

So glad you loved this one, Annie! xo

[@cindihunter9119]

Erin, you look so beautiful! Spain is totally agreeing with you! Love your style, and advice! Wished I looked better, and I'm working on my "self talk!" Confidence comes from within! Be the You-est, You can be! 🇪🇸♥️👠♥️🌱♥️🐓♥️

[@BusbeeStyle]

You are so sweet! Thank you! It really does! You got this!! xo

[@tararosin8613]

❣️amen❣️ “I will wear what ever I want at any age” love this rule!

[@maddyanttila6690]

I love the idea of extending a mini dress with a tulle skirt. I did fall into the bargain trap by buying an Ulla Johnson mini dress and haven't worn it once, but a tulle skirt may work.

[@BusbeeStyle]

I love how the tulle looks under the dress! Such an aha moment! We all fall into the bargain trap once in a while! xo

[@ArianaSarahaFlightBehavior]

I almost always wear a longer skirt (often even full length) under a mini dress - I love how the mini dress accentuates the hips, shaping the longer skirt better - but I’m definitely more of a long skirt than mini skirt girl…

[@heatherwhittaker6169]

I love your channel Erin...I too want to move to Europe. Fingers crossed...I'm happy there..thank you for another great onexx

[@kathygann7632]

I saw a travel video where the gal recommended wearing faux leather pants when traveling because they never get dirty and they never get wrinkled. Well, that sounds good, but I’m 72 years old! I was at TJ Maxx and they had leather pants, but the dressing rooms weren’t open so I bought 3 so I could tell myself I tried then I was going to return them all. I kept 2 of the 3!

[@BusbeeStyle]

That's a great idea...glad you found a couple that work for you, Kathy! xo

[@mariay.cotter8842]

I'm sooo grateful I found this channel!!!! ❤❤❤❤

[@fionabrown4466]

Such great advice. I've worked in women's fashion for many years, and I'm constantly encouraging my customers to shop for the size they are, not the size they want to be. Be happy now, don't wait to be happy because you are X size.

[@BusbeeStyle]

So true! Postponing happiness till you reach a specific weight is so sad! I love that you share this positive message with your customers! xo

[@fionabrown4466]

@@BusbeeStyle thank you. Love your channel. You are cheering up a chilly afternoon here in Edinburgh :) x

[@charlierogertango1055]

I bought two tulle skirts, one black the other salmon. I love them! They are sooo full! Tiered with three layers...I love how I feel in them!

[@BusbeeStyle]

Yay! Love that!! xo

[@mellie5899]

Seeing you buying and wearing the tulle dresses and having such wonderful experiences in them is what made me want to subscribe! Love the tulle!!!

[@BusbeeStyle]

SO glad you are here and that this one resonated with you!! xo

[@juliekelly283]

Wear whatever you want! Definitely 🤗❤️😊

[@beautyforumbyangela]

I so agree with you. Do not get caught up in the size number. I am buying 2-3 pairs of jeans in different sizes to accommodate my menopausal ebbs and flows. This really helps my confidence. Thank you for your great style tips. Cheers 😉 🌷

[@mariehebert9597]

I agree so much with what you say. Experiment and go out our comfort zone...try different clothing first in stores and see how you feel about it. I am 63 y.o and I know for sure that I will only live once... nothing is too old as long as think it looks elegant ( classic or bold) :).

[@patbailey-persad6516]

Great content. I have put on a lot of weight n hate it but unable to shift it tho have not given up the fight. I concur with you and the comments that wear whatever you like once you feel good about it

[@SandyCheeks63564]

The blush tulle & and then Elizabeth in the red! Stunning ladies

[@BusbeeStyle]

It was SO fun! xo

[@hopefully2224]

Your advice & personality is the best!

[@bellonjm07]

I never worked from home during the pandemic, so I struggle getting out of my PJs on the weekends. I’ve upgraded to leggings and a sweatshirt. It sounds silly, but I’m working towards wearing real clothes on the weekend.

[@BusbeeStyle]

Makes perfect sense...start small! You got this, Jaime! xo

[@christycarter1571]

I definitely follow your style “rules”….but, getting to this point at 50 has been quite a mindset transition (my 20 year old daughter loves it…she can borrow many of my items to make them work with her style as well….age is just a number). My biggest obstacle now is that I work remote….I exercise/yoga pre-work, mid-day, pre-bed….so, wearing much other than leggings/sports bra/jacket on weekdays is a true challenge….I just cannot justify the effort to change back/forth….and by the evening, I just resign myself to the comfy look. However, I do feel sexy, fashionable, young and fit! But, I very much miss the rest of my closet. Love your videos and insight 💕

[@BusbeeStyle]

I know you are not alone! Some days that makes the most sense! Glad you enjoyed this one, Christy! xo

[@marisacooper5364]

They are all my favorites- such timeless and thoughtful tips to consider... however, the message behind “getting the risky piece and seeing where it takes you” was moving, you are so genuine sharing so much of yourself with your daughter as well. And, getting dressed each day and wearing what makes you feel amazing is such a simple gift to give ourselves- the effort is little compared to the boost of confidence it brings. 🌷

[@BusbeeStyle]

Thank you SO much, Marisa! Glad you enjoyed this one! xo

[@jackieestarellas1523]

Thank you for this video and your pep talk. I just turned 50 in February and I’m having a hard time with my wardrobe. After watching your video my new attitude is I’m going to wear what I want, what feels comfortable for me and what makes me happy. The heck with my age😊.

[@BusbeeStyle]

I am so glad this resonated with you! Thank you for your sweet comment. xo

[@cynthiacollins1378]

Love these, I have fallen for the bargain trap many times, thanks for talking about the fix to that

[@hennievanderglas3961]

Love the tulle dresses, especially the blush one! Love from the Netherlands!❤️

[@inktvis6453]

Hi Erin. Thanks for your interesting fashion video. All the clothes are very elegant on you.

[@BusbeeStyle]

Thank you SO much! xo

[@pichichipichi]

Glad you had a lovely time in my country! Those hotels are made to have guest like you. Gorgeous! Regards from Madrid

[@MariekevanBuytene]

You give the best style advice! Cheers from the Netherlands!

[@michelelee5339]

My favorite is 1-5! Thank you for sharing these tips. They're spot on!!!

[@BusbeeStyle]

You're so welcome, Michelle! xo

[@kathyellis2506]

Thanks for sharing your weight struggles and you still look great. I too am about 10lbs overweight and it is a constant struggle. But I still think I look pretty good for my age.

[@sharijensen1130]

I loved this video!!! I’m 60 and I do want to wear whatever I want!!! I loved all your advise! Thank you!!!

[@BusbeeStyle]

So glad, Shari! xo

[@debbiecs1964]

Oh my goodness. All these things apply to me right now. Just yesterday I was wearing a top that is now loose and I had to keep pulling it up. I didn’t want to let it go because it was one of my favorites, but now makes it feel a size too large. There are also days when I just feel like wearing workout clothes and times I want to wear jeans or whatever. When I follow that feeling is when I feel comfortable and confident that day.

[@katerinahuskova4596]

Good point. I'd say less is more, I always try not to look like a Christmas tree or an advertisement poster. And my second rule may not be popular, but I think blue denim is not office appropriate, no matter what the dress code is (but just like I said, it's just my oppinion 🤷🏻‍♀️ )

[@daphnehill8444]

I definitely need to be reminded (again and again and again…) to avoid the bargain trap. So many killer deals in my closet I’ve never worn. My favorite guideline is to just wear what you love. Those tulle dresses are magical, and the mother/daughter night out was priceless! 😍

[@BusbeeStyle]

Thank you SO much, Daphne! We all fall victim to the bargain trap sometimes...just something to keep in mind when you are shopping! xo

[@MK-hh1vo]

😄 I must be European at heart (although I'm of African descent). I cannot imagine wearing sweats, leggings or work out clothes in public! The lockdown didn't change that. Even to throw out trash and check the mail I must be dressed in *outdoor clothes* ! My favorite tip is do not wear ill fitting clothes!!! I've held on to so many designer items that never fit right no matter what size I was! Then in 2020 I found your videos and did a purge of the "will NEVER look good on me" items. It wasn't easy, I let go of some beautiful items. But thanks to your guidance I finally realized the difference between beautiful on a hanger vs on my body. It's been so liberating to have a closet of clothes that I KNOW I look good in because they fit well! In fact, today I gave up the blouse I wore to work for this reason! It looked nice when posing in the mirror, but after a day of pulling, tugging, adjusting I didn't think twice about putting it in the donation bag! All these tips were wonderful!

[@BusbeeStyle]

I’m so glad you find my content so helpful! Thanks so much for sharing! xo

[@joywhitley3141]

Yes girl! I wear what I like and feel good in. ❤️

[@gypsybelle4757]

I *love* your tulle skirt and the dresses! Thank you for inspiring us to go for it!

[@kimm1169]

I love this video! I’m so guilty of the bargain trap! Lord help me! I have bought so many things just because then get them home and don’t even like them! Uugg! Also I love how you said to push yourself in things that you love but don’t normally wear! I’m going to do that!! By the way I love your Hair! It’s looks amazing!!

[@fabyfischbein1732]

I absolutely love your mom and daughter moment. ❤️

[@BusbeeStyle]

Thank you so much, Faby! It was so special! xo

[@worthigirl2946]

I don't have rules for anything usually, but you are right on the money with your guidelines!! Agree with all!!💕💕

[@teriheilman717]

Thanks Erin! I’m an old chick but I love that you speak to us with fashionable choices and still look fashion appropriate! ❤️

[@BusbeeStyle]

Thank you SO much, Teri! xo

[@anasaldate4402]

Thank you Erin! I’ve never been a stickler for following style rules but have had a hard time dismissing that little voice in the back of my head that I’m breaking a rule. These guidelines make so much more sense and will be my new rules to style by. My favorite rule is wearing what fits. I just received a style box this week and there was a coat that I absolutely loved, but it was too small for my broad shoulders. I grudgingly sent it back because I knew that, if I had kept it, every time I wore it, the I’ll-fitting shoulders would nag at me and I wouldn’t feel completely confident. Thanks for challenging me to shift my thinking to open myself up to so many more fashion possibilities.

[@BusbeeStyle]

You’re SO welcome, Ana! xo

[@ivanahanus5101]

Hi Erin. Thank you for a great video. I am glad that I am not the only one wearing what I like at any age. I am 63 years old and I dress classy and elegant every day and I wear pastels and light colors in my basic trousers or skirts and get a lot of compliments. My shoes are from Europa art, and all are heels, I don't wear flat shoes as they are not comfortable for my feet. I don't feel like I am in my sixties, I have a young mind set, and live for each day.

[@BusbeeStyle]

You are so welcome! Thanks so much for sharing! xo

[@isabelbarragan5314]

I agree with push ourselves for that dream outfit you may think is not for you, genius Erin! You and your daughter looked as two princesses at the Opera night! Congratulations to you 👏

[@BusbeeStyle]

You are SO sweet, Isabel! Thank you! We felt like princesses! xo

[@pampenney9600]

I have the same issue with hormone menopausal weight gain!!! I’m struggling and having issues with acceptance and it’s a struggle to lose this. Thanks for these ideas

[@2twentysix]

I do most of what you discuss and learnt some more but what I loved most is the special memory you created with your daughter ❤️

[@BusbeeStyle]

Thank you so much, Silv! xo

[@Zemmawesth]

After joining a swap wardrobe, I have found out that depending on brand, cut or even fabric, I range anywhere from a xs to a large! But I used to really be hung up on numbers, just like you describe.

[@nancyfisher3887]

I have been watching your Busbee Style for a couple of years and you are always on point. I love how very real you are and how perfectly you demonstrate how and why. Thank you for your wonderful support and guidance. It is always nice to see WHY. Thank you.

[@BusbeeStyle]

You are so welcome! I appreciate your kind comment, Nancy! xo