The ONLY Thing You Need to Know to Change Your Life Forever - Michael Neill

[@h.dbrown776]

Like Paul, mastering how to carrying on either abased or abound. It makes sense that life’s circumstances will change when we don’t allow our circumstances to dictate our response to them. Growing up, people thought I was rich when they met me. But they didn’t know I was living in extreme poverty. Hell, at times I didn’t know myself, I’d forget. I was too busy doing other things to wallow in my circumstances. Thanks for this video. Makes me recognize I was using this skill all along to - get along - in life. Now I want to actively play in my experience regardless of circumstances.

[@teamevents]

Michael, this was magical in Portland and has been @ the core of my experience since. This past week, I had some toxic circumstances to deal with that would have historically taken me out of the game. Remembering this distinction alone allowed me to reset, navigate and show up @ my best. It is literally a life changer.

[@lesleyperkins2311]

This is fabulous! It reminded me of the chapter You are not in Control in Clare Dimond's book Real. How we have zero percent control, and 100 percent responsibility, and that so many of us go through life thinking it's the other way around.

[@jlk8810]

You have the gift of teaching. My late husband also was in love with teaching. I realize you are happily married. It is time that I move forward and connect with love again. Do you have a friend who shares your passion for life who is open to a committed relationship?

[@napoleonbolanos8923]

A😊😊q

[@Farkle101]

This is a yt comment section

[@HTF4x4]

@@Farkle101fr lmfao like wtf 🤦🏼‍♂️🤦🏼‍♂️🤣🤣🤣☠️

[@maxokazaki]

This talk was incredible - what a powerful mind shift. Let us all dance and play more in the world of CIRCUMSTANCE, for it is our THOUGHTS and not our CIRCUMSTANCES that create our EXPERIENCE/REALITY. I am extra curious about one part in the talk: What does it look like to stop depressing ourselves? Is it just making this shift toward awareness and accountability? How can we help others see this way?

[@ericktucker1983]

It’s how you choose to see or view those circumstances. You are not your circumstances but that’s just the wave of thought you have to choose how you handle at the present experience you choose

[@Know_Allaah_The_All-Mighty]

Peace & Blessings from Sydney, Thank you!

[@NatashaSwerdloff]

I love this! So clear!! Thanks for sharing this Michael❤

[@Wooist]

Thank you Michael as always for helping me see things so clearly.

[@peterhirst253]

very clear distinction makes navigating life easier.

[@tuhinbhattacharya6607]

Really wonderful understanding.

[@vidalsisneros8063]

It is said that all knowledge is neutral and it depends on the user to give it a function. Over the years I have noticed I have become more sensitive to matters of the heart. Sensitive to my daughter's struggles and realizing now what you said she will be better. Thank you sir.

[@AlexMonas]

Very helpful. I shared this with a friend and he saw something profound. Thank you

[@debbiemilam5250]

Thank you Michael. So clear and simple. It is something I saw about separating out circumstances and experiences.

[@tcdeecontract2coe497]

This was so so good. Thank you, Michael

[@Chiara.Grandin]

So clear! Thank you Michael!

[@djkipping]

Great talk. And... I'd appreciate some examples of how this plays out for you in really harsh circumstances like people yelling at you, being angry, unreasonable etc.

[@l.w.paradis2108]

Or, how about Uvalde? GAZA?

[@ethericmystic]

Glad I stumbled across this. Thank you.

[@tuhinbhattacharya6607]

Very well explained. Thank you Neil.

[@SunilThakrar-c4q]

Love it too, Michael ,cheers : )

[@vicgilgeous]

great. thank you.

[@raylenerusthoven9604]

Excellent!

[@nikongormley]

Thank you!

[@mikesearles]

Wonderful stuff. Thank you, Michael.

[@celestewaugh]

So awesome, I wish everyone could hear this🙂

[@entrepreneurinflow]

Loved this Michael. Thanks so much for sharing it

[@MichaelNeill]

My pleasure!

[@sanekabc]

My axe to grind with the three principles is calling this creative force, "thought". It confuses people to no end about the actual point you are trying to make. Insight and creativity is not thought.

[@elifacenda9335]

I would agree fully that the word thought is not the best word to use because it’s so easy for that to get confused for what is being articulated. Since it’s a metaphor for the creative playdough, we can use a different word to describe the same metaphor

[@SandyLoyall]

I hear you... it's just that if you reeeally boil it down, there are subconscious thoughts at the foundation. "I don't like THIS!" "THIS should be happening quicker!" "Why isn't THIS happening instead?" "I want THIS to STILL be happening!" etc. etc.... Or... "Let's do THIS!" "I like THIS!"... But we can rest in no thought... by trusting Mind... As Syd said, “Your thoughts are like the artist's brush. They create a personal picture of the reality you live in.” 💜

[@sentientbeans]

Thank you for this!

[@joshuaedwards6870]

😊😊😊😊😊😊p😊😊

[@wealthypepe]

@@elifacenda9335 - what?

[@teetaunjj7894]

Great stuff

[@janebaraldi6949]

I'm only a couple of minutes in this clip, and it has touched me...thank you💙

[@MichaelNeill]

So glad!

[@maviskarn9280]

BRAVO, my dear friend!! Best Ever!!❤

[@MichaelEisbrener]

Awesome! Contexts don't cause contents. I can change the context. And too often I attempt to manage content.

[@SamuelHernandez-mb2cp]

damn he said nothing but facts !💯👌🔥

[@ManuelAguilar-ny7xf]

THANK YOU 😊❤

[@leisuretime9177]

This is all good but how do you actually separate circumstance from experience? What is the process to do so?

[@truthof7382]

You can’t control the wind but you can control your sails. Done. Next.

[@l.w.paradis2108]

Uvalde? Gaza?

[@mhhkjhkjhlk888]

@@l.w.paradis2108I understand what you’re saying. Completely, I do. I do believe there are potentially elements of toxic positivity in this talk. He presumes perception dictates our experiences regardless of our circumstances. I admire this philosophy but I don’t think it’s fail proof. Some things and circumstances can happen to us, as humans, that can ruin our lives immeasurably, that we had no control over. It does seem to disregard the very real tragedies, I.e. circumstances, people have gone through that have permanently changed their experience. I think having the ability to “find the good in everything” is possible in many circumstances but is certainly not possible all of the time. It may be possible that some things are simply not good or beneficial or positive or moral. Some things may simply be the antithesis.

[@l.w.paradis2108]

@mhhkjhkjhlk888 "Toxic positivity" is just another phrase in the grand game of advertising. Try thinking it through. Why do you admire such a repugnant view (it's not a "philosophy")? It was already rejected in The Book of Job, well before Christianity, not to mention by Plato (Apology, Gorgias -- his entire work, really, the point of which was to demonstrate that Socrates' death sentence was unjust). We're 2400+ years behind the times. The fact that Oprah and Joel Osteen made fortunes on it is hardly in its favor.

[@l.w.paradis2108]

@mhhkjhkjhlk888 I keep getting censored. Out of here. Seems the new trigger word is w a r. That is exactly what got the Athenians out of their mindless stupor -- losing one, and seeing what that's like.

[@daablurg3482]

I put on a joe Bart video got and add and then instantly got sent here

[@dannyfaith1754]

One of the best talks I have ever heard! Thanks!

[@mariusz_kozlowski]

Is that workshop available to purchase (recorded version)?

[@philhathaway8212]

Oh my goodness...😊

[@ladymissna]

In other words...use your common sense but remember that your experiences has consequences and you are the only accountable person for your own actions. That's exactly what my grand parents, my parents and now me to my own children have been saying for years!!

[@danijelastrauss7069]

That s all great.. to become aware.. BUT HOW to change it!? If in the moment of when circumstances ‘hit us’ our nerves get shot.., irritation.. anxiety etc. HOW to overcome this?!

[@fieldnote_music]

If you understand that your emotions come from thought you don’t have to do anything. The understanding makes all the difference. You will still be fooled by circumstance but less and less so…

[@danijelastrauss7069]

@@fieldnote_music i do understand and being aware.. still that doesn’t help in the moment.. all this ‘teaching’ is just information, not reality transformation

[@fieldnote_music]

@@danijelastrauss7069 believe me it works, you will never be free from feeling things though, try not to put value on your feelings, there really i no such thing as a bad feeling, its just a feeling… accept it and a new thought and feeling will come.

[@fieldnote_music]

Our experience of reality is thought created…

[@Emmy-z8]

Feelings and emotions are temporary experiences try the 4-7-8 breathing techniques to calm you I believe this will help with better decision making during difficult times

[@paulwright3562]

Masterful

[@mthorpe06]

This sounds great but is it a privilege not to be concerned about circumstances? I have seen a lot of poor people in this world a product of their circumstances.

[@shirleygray1647]

You’re supposed to do in the book that they got going out there cause I don’t want anything to do with it

[@blanenoel4231]

Say no more!

[@lisamarie870]

You say people won’t be happy once they are successful or have money. While I do think the mindset of that is important, what about the millions of people who just want to be able to pay their bills and simple things like get their oil changed on time? The relief of stress from just having enough to say not count change to get groceries would definitely make any human happy. I can tell you that as a fact because it’s happened to me. Setting up autopay on bills and not taking from Peter to pay Paul would overjoy me. Opening my eyes in the morning and the first thought isn’t the fear of checking my bank account balance would be bliss. Maybe your talking about the type of people who think a new million dollar yacht would make them happy. I wish more in this space would talk about the millions who just want to have basic needs met. Def more poor than rich in this world.

[@teetaunjj7894]

Vote Trump 🇺🇲❤️🇺🇲🙏

[@paulanealey7690]

I couldn’t keep watching because the sound of the marker was just too excruciating

[@lovenhighlights2233]

Dang I don’t understand

[@l.w.paradis2108]

How would you do in Gaza? You're a journalist, you could go find out.

[@Annihilator-d6z]

The most famous class

[@mafia38504]

Unfortunately, this is the individualistic way of thinking that are government wants us to be in. If you listen and really think about it, it makes the situations YOU are currently experiencing a lot easier to manage but does not solve the issue. Yes, most situations are close to impossible of solving by yourself, but that in itself should encourage you to want to build a community to solve that problem in numbers. Stop thinking about yourself or our species as a whole will go extinct. If I have to be the one who is hated till what I'm saying becomes a reality, then so be it.

[@roshnipatel263]

Isn't it easier to create change when we're not overwhelmed? I think it can be used to change things locally or nationally

[@ZiziusFeywind]

i like your model, but if i may, respectfully, your cloud analogy shifts from a comfy illusion to a turbulent one without much explanation about the sudden shift, analogically speaking.

[@hunterhughes692]

This guy is going to get diagnosed with cancer, then befriend an old students in hopes to create a meth empire… IDK just an idea

[@mandymusic5036]

Can't judge people hun

[@mandymusic5036]

U make no sense