The Paranoia of the Narcissist in Action

[@christinebeames712]

I am never surprised that there are monsters out there, but what does surprise me is the amount of people prepared to tolerate this kind of behaviour,

[@24Ruiner]

HG reading it back in his elegant voice is priceless.

[@callalilly1988]

Wow, this brought back memories. The flashbacks. I know exaclty how that poor girl feels. It's sickening looking back. I hope she gets out.

[@maryanneelliott97]

Agree, once involved it's so hard to see what's going on.

[@Tarnia11]

I really would end up dead if I had to deal with this as I wouldn’t be able to stop laughing 😂🤦🏼‍♀️

[@angelawilliams3361]

😂😂

[@NikkiBikkiNZ]

Oh god living with someone like this would be a nightmare, I couldn’t stand listening to this for few minutes

[@lauracox3856]

No accountability. Everyone is against him for criminal activity but it doesn't click that he's actually guilty. Paranoia then makes everyone seem like the enemy.

[@AliciaM5555]

Exactly. That would be my brother (narcissist) and all his cameras 🤦 ugh.

[@OnsKleinGezinnetje]

Somebody really is with him listening to this!? Amazing 😂

[@Marcia_Toms]

I’m really liking these examples. Thank you H.G.

[@MarinaM-o6p]

THE NARCISSIST LOVES TO COERCE AND CONTROL …..YOU ARE RIGHT …..YOUR CHOICE OF A PICTURE ON THIS VIDEO IS TRUE ….. THEY ARE STALKERS TOO .

[@madcatter972]

This Narcissist In Action series is fantastic H.G. The examples are excellent, & your analysis extremely helpful. I always learn things. Thanks for all you do. Interesting how close paranoia skates to very high levels of anxiety. As someone with PTSD my survival instincts are ALWAYS on high alert for finding the trap, because there was always a trap when it came to the various periods of abuse on my life. I'm safe now, but the hypervigilance remains.

[@kimberlyelliott7933]

I legit couldn't/wouldn't deal with that for 1 minute 🤢

[@kauffrau6764]

Seriously!

[@Geeronimo99]

All he does is talk...lijes sound of his own voice...like wordsalad folk...

[@maryanneelliott97]

It's scary and real when you're in the middle of these relationships. To the poor empath involved, it's not as easy as just ending it or walking out the door.

[@Ciara1594]

My mother would sit in the darken living room peering through the blinds (like it shows in your thumbnail photo) spying on the neighbors. She was absolutely convinced that "they" were "spying and talking" about her. Seriously. She would even call the police on them but they never responded. The police I mean. She would always tell me (as if she was bragging/her choice ) that she never had any friends at school. I never said anything but I thought plenty. That judging from the hard glint in her eyes and her rictus grin, that she was (still) very angry and hurt at being ignored probably teased and made fun of. Except for her oldest sister and a niece, even her family would avoid her.

[@Vixinaful]

Sounds a bit like my mother. She always had the blinds down and spied on the neighbours, convinced they were selling drugs. The other neighbour she thought was a prostitute. Hated having light into the apartment aswell. She lost custody of me later on.. They're braindamsged. The damages can be seen on MRIs and PETs. Look it up, its real sad.

[@SkylarK_x_bk_0]

HG's 'The Narcissist's Reality Gap' came to mind during this video.

[@Néerlandais-p1q]

So good explaining the behavior, of my brother so sad

[@jacmacsgirl]

Land of the "bent blinds.." I've been there..

[@lukehanley5392]

You’re saving lives HG.

[@maryanneelliott97]

Agree

[@maryanneelliott97]

So my past life (with ex narc) flashes before my eyes. Thanks HG.

[@1WhoCares]

Can't wait to catch this one!

[@rubytroy7756]

Love your work ❤❤❤

[@darcybarwick3766]

They are paranoid because of all of the damage they have done .. one day someone might wanna get even

[@LulusMom1961]

So much Schizophrenia. So many scenarios. I wanted out of that trailer or wherever in the Deliverence hell they were recording from!! This breakdown was excellent. Thank you HG.

[@normabracken9958]

Oh this will be superb..❤

[@Space_cadet0007]

Very interesting thank you for teaching us

[@imago9059]

Typical NPD monologue, grandiosity, trying to boost himself up. Paranoia feeding the grandiosity and victim play. Best she can do is prepare to leave quietly and keep recording him until then.

[@billrichards2000]

TOW will not leave quality. As soon as she did, she would lose the "Duchess" title, and thus, her meal ticket 😅

[@mrs_rick_s]

H.g. Tudor is really Harry’s voice…😂 If I don’t stop this…nobody will(where is your inheritance)(Meghan,Harry,Me)(Lady Diana Spencer..is still your mommy?)Theresa(Mothers Mary)(We are GOd)(no higher house)(hot girls)(who are already spoken for)(they picked us remember?)(King Charles?My new Dad?)(good I thought there might be some ongoing type threat)(military WW3)(We already took it all)(easily…we are somatic narcissists)(with young children)(I am working on it again)(sure I am 18 again)(They took my pot away…I was already old enough to be drafted…and drive at 16)(I will show up 9 months preggo…if he wants me to)(huge and pregnant…with as many babies as can fit)(GOD tricks…can shrink to fit at least the last 7 👑 I already took from Billy no gate 🎉 4/17 💎

[@rubytroy7756]

Good evening HG❤

[@GearsinMotionGraphics]

Sounds like my uncle, who I just got an OP on, and kicked him out of the house he's been living in over 19 years.🕒

[@MaartjeTosca]

Wonder if Hitler's infamous table monologue were like this one.

[@lionessroarsjohnson2684]

That dude is all over the place. Too many energy drinks or something has him hyped up. Going on and, on about something that makes no sense.

[@skyleawood2649]

Lol😂😂😂^^^THIS

[@clarissimaadayinthelifeofa1782]

Yep, I thought so, too. He was manic. At one point, he was talking so fast that he was stuttering. It almost sounded like Tourettes. If that's him smoking weed regularly, then what's he like not smoking it?!

[@lionessroarsjohnson2684]

@@clarissimaadayinthelifeofa1782 I have no idea. Could this person also have manic depression? Can a narcissist be manic? Is it what he's smoking? Whatever it is its not good.

[@lionessroarsjohnson2684]

@@skyleawood2649 I didn't mean this to be funny. Actually he sounds manic. I don't know if it's the narcissism or some other mental illness or the Marijuana.

[@clarissimaadayinthelifeofa1782]

@@lionessroarsjohnson2684 Yes, is mania part of narcissism ? That is the question. Probably separate from and not necessarily part of his narcissism, is my take. Other than that as he gets more paranoid, he gets *even more paranoid* and more nervous, so everything speeds up on in him, or in him. I was already wondering from the previous case of the narcissist in action, whether he could be a paranoid schizophrenic, but he wasn't. This guy actually might be, along with happening to be a narcissist, perhaps. Nb. Weed can make you paranoid, but not so hyped up. He could be on other 'pharmaceuticals' and use weed to 'come down'..He might be off his usual medication, as he seems to mention.Or of course, he is just plain bonkers.

[@lionessroarsjohnson2684]

Are paranoid schizophrenics misdiagnosed and, they are actually narcissist? Can a person be both? Odd that he brought it up saying a doctor would give him schizophrenic medicine.

[@Vixinaful]

The covert that abused me had schizophrenia.

[@lionessroarsjohnson2684]

@@Vixinaful I wonder if both are connected? I'm so sorry that you were abused. It's terrible that people with feelings for another end up getting hurt.

[@maxhammer4067]

My brother coked up looked out his bedroom window,he seen his nabours get out of a taxi and go in to there house, is brain snapped and he thought the nabours where spying on him, in his pjarmers he walked out and knocked on there door, he forced his way in to there home and held them hostage, he then calls the police to come get them, the police arived and arrested my brother and he was sectioned

[@Geeronimo99]

Poor bloke😅

[@lightbeforethetunnel]

How was it determined the man in the video is a narcissist? Couldn't he just be paranoid? And have substance use issues?

[@Journeyoflove13]

Wow, this paranoid narc just sucked the life right out of me. 😵🥴

[@melanieeyquem9166]

If that was me I'd tell him to go to the doctors because he definitely needs those meds lol what a nut job!!!!

[@Vixinaful]

HG, I'm wondering about a series about Geri Halliwells husband who's cheated and I see signs on her arm of bruising, so maybe he also abused her physically? Theres one picture in the daily mail where he holds her neck in a grip as a doll he's steering and I recognize that grip all to owell so I think he could be a cluster B'er. Would be interesting to dig into.

[@juliechurch1799]

Vix please be careful cos that's slander? No proof !

[@Vixinaful]

@@juliechurch1799Haha, right. WHo are you going to bust? Vixinaful? 😆 be real, she has a bruise and he is a cluster B, it cant get more obvious.

[@clarissimaadayinthelifeofa1782]

Very interesting how this guy's paranoia links into the existing standby operating paranoia of the narcissist, looking out for those threats to control, always wary..Hyper alert.

[@billrichards2000]

The male's accent is distinctively American!!

[@ZYX54321]

👀 👄…

[@Kintsugi979]

Are they in a gym?

[@BalmzZz]

No they are probably in the kitchen/ living room with a high ceiling I can hear the kids TV show playing in the background. There is also a ceiling fan running

[@MaartjeTosca]

He very much sounds like a Somalian that chewed a bit too much qat.

[@Dj.D25]

I thought taking weed was supposed to relax you?

[@KissMahGrits]

Depends on the strain. If this idiot is smoking sativas he'll be out of his mind paranoid

[@madmadgrrl]

Sounds just like Kanye🤮