THE PERFECT MATCH: Jessica is NOT a Girl's Girl , Harry LIED + Everybody Owes MELINDA AN APOLOGY

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[@diaryofanislandgirl]

Them saying she need 15 minutes of fame was highly disrespectful❗️ My girl hosted a whole Netflix show 🥴💅🏾

[@TheeJessieWoo]

A WHOLE NETFLIX SHOW

[@kayrup3712]

And him, who tf is he other than traveling meat....

[@camilabonfadini3332]

OMG YESSS

[@aalti]

I agree… However she should have never accepted this lower position. She came across thirsty as if she’s been feeling the contestants whilst hosting. It was truly sad to see. Harry is not all that for her to debase herself like that.

[@diaryofanislandgirl]

@@aalti Melinda is natural flirt 💄

[@michiebulayani3776]

It’s funny how the cast is moving on like they don’t owe Melinda an apology🙄 their apology should be as loud as their disrespect 🤞🏾

[@TheeJessieWoo]

!!!!!!

[@dadou1964]

With the footage at the end, she does not deserve any apology. She acted like a thirsty, desperate, pathetic child. Her trying to find spots where the camera wasn’t filming them just so they can kiss. How desperate.

[@newchapters600]

@@dadou1964would you be saying that if she were a yt lady . Her behavior wasn’t great and she absolutely needs to change but does that mean she deserved to be treated that way

[@kayrup3712]

​@@newchapters600 right, they all act like that in some aspects

[@regularity2556]

​@@dadou1964that's the show, they all come on strong on each other to get or take a match

[@Okra_winfrey]

Nobody deserved Tolú, not even Chris. She gave a heartfelt speech about why he was her match and his response was dry as a Popeyes biscuit.

[@anotherchance-rc9pw]

Chris is dry

[@glitterybubblez]

😂😂😂Not a Popeyes biscuit!!!😂😂

[@progressmaker09]

I caught how off putting Chris was too. He was just out to win, period.

[@Szaedit-m6o]

It's funny everyone was able to say Stevan but not Tolu

[@Okra_winfrey]

@@Szaedit-m6o that irked tf out of me. Who tf is tuhloo

[@AmandaKavana]

Someone finally said it. I always thought Jessica using her daughter as a ploy to get sympathy was weird. Like, why are you on these shows if you are so concerned with how you are being presented may impact your daughter? Also... you met these people 2 days ago! They should not come near your daughter for a while. It has already been proven the Netflix isn't vetting these people properly.🤨

[@MandaT0216]

I'm glad I'm not the only one who thought that was weird... she kept mentioning harry being a stepdaddy like girl u only known the man a few days wtf. Thats just weird. Everytime someone called her out on something she would somehow mention she's a mother and doesn't want to be looking dumb on television.

[@deadams8905]

Super weird! Especially since she has her daughter on her social media and Netflix is making her daughter a side character of some trashy dating show. Yikes.

[@MandaT0216]

@@deadams8905 thats so disgusting and sad omg

[@Reddhead316]

I feel like that too on both shows her relationship is more about her daughter than their relationship I thought I was the only one thinking that’s weird ?? & these dudes treat her like they would anybody else .poeple gotta stop thinking how you look is everything because these beautiful women getting treated the exact same way

[@lolololololollol4793]

shes wasting time on this show for attention while she could be spending precious time with her daughter???

[@Cookie-Monster-]

Someone said dom looks like he sacrificed a goat before coming 😭😭😭😭😂😂😂😂 I can’t unsee it that outfit is wild

[@user-mk6yr3xz6d]

Yesss, very demonic

[@JohnEklu]

🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣facts

[@DejaTheReal1]

@@user-mk6yr3xz6d paints his nails 💅 too no thank you

[@tiffanyr6444]

He wants to be Dennis Rodman so bad

[@TheeJessieWoo]

😂

[@to0effincrazii]

Jess really showed me exactly why she’s single. Going to Harry for love is insane; defending a man that everyone is warning her about, and saying “I love you” after being together for only a week was giving desperate

[@jessicanoelle2012jp]

She fell in love after she knew he makes 100k on only fans lol

[@DejaTheReal1]

@@jessicanoelle2012jp been saying this and made that in a day

[@DejaTheReal1]

@@jessicanoelle2012jp you’ll be surprised what a person can try to look past when money is involved

[@ikramrafi6481]

She was there only for clout let's be honest, the more drama she causes the more she is talked about and stays relevant while she literally has no qualities to be relevant.

[@Nanatalks]

Chris was as fake as Harry. If anyone in the house had been interested in him- he would have ditched Tolu. Saying "we will stay in contact" with someone you "love" is crazy work

[@joanikens]

I agree. His actions when Tolu wasn’t there said enough

[@CharisMaggieTV]

Tolu apparently been exposing him

[@joanikens]

@@CharisMaggieTV oh where? Gotta check it out!

[@TweetsIsBoss]

@@CharisMaggieTVyeah where can we find?

[@roxannelewis3293]

Yes where can we know he been fake he did this podcast Marry Fck Kill and he wanted to kill Tolu

[@terryr4623]

"Melinda is acting desparate" have we not seen the behaviour of EVERYONE on this show?

[@shedoesntlikepicture]

She and Christine were THE worst....

[@laurendilaurentis6467]

Nah but she was doing too much

[@terryr4623]

The notion Melinda needs Harry to get famous is wild.

[@bobococo89]

Exactly!

[@nd4610]

Harry who?

[@blacktara79]

No, it's not that she needs Harry. But she would do anything to stay relevant. Who knows how many other opportunities she got after hosting that one show? And whether you like it or not, attaching yourself to Harry the scumbag, does bring you a lot of attention.

[@WilliamsPinch]

I think the producers brought her on and told her what they wanted to do and insisted she would have viral moments if she did. Harry, Dom and Melinda are employed by the company in way the other contestants are not.

[@Ayanaah-ke1nz]

Right cuz wtf is a Harry jowsy

[@afrochica05]

I don't think Melinda should have done the show. She was elevating to a host & should have stayed on that path or higher.

[@Mookyjoe]

Jess is treating Melinda like she was a seducer and Harry had no mind of his own. It’s def giving micro aggression. I don’t think Jess would have treated a YT girl that way because it would have presented as mutual

[@dannieannie]

Right, she felt as though because she is beautiful etc that Harry couldn't possibly be attracted and still desire a black woman!!!

[@roxannelewis3293]

This!! If it was Holly or Brittan she would believe when they had that sat down I feel like she was literally laughing in her face at the possibility of that happen like girl ain't no way my man would kiss you or be interested in you when he has me

[@princesscarolyn5716]

Jezebel stereotype for sure

[@fatimaiqbal3452]

such as obvious jezebel comment

[@vanessagomez6548]

These comments on this channel always 😂 kill me. Such racism. Always hating white woman. What she did was not gaslighting. What she told Melinda about are you proud of yourself ? Wasn’t about what she did with Harry? It was about how she told her in front of literally every single woman at the table instead of in private and she said that. If you paid attention you’d know. It was never about the kiss. And she probably could have said something about the kiss cuz in the footage you can hear her say and ask Harry to kiss her because there’s no cámaras on them but she knew they were mic’d up so her saying he kiss her out of nowhere was simply not true and exaggerated while also throwing all the blame on him like she didn’t ask him for a kiss or told him no one is looking and instigated it.

[@victoriasmith7817]

Why is there so much aggression for Melinda? She was playing the game. It is HARRY’S fault for kissing her. Kaz didn’t kiss Christine while she was all on him. Melinda deserves an apology for all of them who said or agreed that she was using him for clout. Edit: She was very annoying and too full on to the point it made her look desperate. However, Harry decided to kiss her. People need to be accountable for their own actions.

[@joanna0988]

You know women are always given the burden of men's actions 😐

[@bobococo89]

Yes queen! Idc I stand for my sister Melinda! One of my fave people off Netflix

[@destinyschild5768]

Exactly Melinda didn’t do anything different from Holly, Christine, Brittan, etc

[@WilliamsPinch]

I think production gave her a role to play and she thought she would be well-received playing the villain for them.

[@dudaresende955]

Both were disrespectful

[@justinejustice_league1857]

Definitely not a girls girl. She sat at that table and told everyone she wasn't like them and immediately put herself above everyone because she felt embarrassed. She thought the entire table was going to jump on Melinda, but when they remained quiet instead, she insulted them all.

[@regularity2556]

Yup. From the moment she told Jimmy he was going to choke when he saw her VS Chelsea, I knew it. She put on a good act, but that's all it is, she a mean girl fr

[@jessicanoelle2012jp]

"Act like a lady" got me. Like Melinda is acting like a REAL woman and letting you know that your man is a clown lol. A REAL woman doesn't bring home a clown to her daughter fr clout

[@destinyschild5768]

She’s entitled because she probably feels like she shouldn’t be single because she’s attractive

[@jessicanoelle2012jp]

@@destinyschild5768 and what lesson does that teach her daughter :/

[@carolynekanyeru903]

​@regularity2556 I keep saying this. She feels she's soo beautiful that men should pick her over everyone. The fact that no one choose her on love is blind tells that beyond them looks, there's probably nothing much to offer, and that will tire a man very quickly. That's why she's still single. She can catch them but she can't keep them

[@roziebaybe1626]

*PLEASE bring Tolu on your channel. Her African humor + your Haitian humor= GOLD* 💯❤

[@lisaharris3427]

Oh my goodness!!! I will Love to see that so much!! Two chocolate skin sisters!!Black women History month for sure!!❤

[@daniellaprince6336]

The way Jess gets treated like she is Jesus on these shows be crazy to me because everybody be kisssing her azzz.

[@shola7987]

She's a industry plant

[@candyxox]

I don't think it's ass kissing. She's just an awesome person

[@RochellBarbara4690]

@@candyxoxis Jess out here creating bots 😂

[@TheeJessieWoo]

She’s a plant.

[@regularity2556]

​@@candyxoxshe definitely a plant

[@Mamaalexander2232]

Jessica put out a statement and everyone is like “you’re so classy” “you’re so graceful” the fragility is nauseating

[@sandaline]

The way they let harrys situation slide and crucified a black man for absolutely nothing 🙄

[@kristelmpone5350]

I am much more concern about them sacrificing a black woman's reputation to save their ho caucasian guy. Whatever is going on between b.m. and their oreferences should not be of our concern as black woman. M.o.

[@jessicanoelle2012jp]

Right!!! Bashing Kaz for playing the game while keeping quiet about harry like... 🤔🤔

[@TheeJessieWoo]

Micro aggression at its finest

[@daonlyboriqua11]

Well thats not their fault. They cant see what we see while they are there. Most of Harrys shenanigans happened away from them.

[@Linahdia]

Don't look at race here.Harry admitted to being the problem your black king was just full on player

[@Mandii271]

Believe Black Women.

[@vanessagomez6548]

She lied tho. Why aren’t people talking about how you can hear her say in the footage and ask him to kiss her cuz no cámaras are on them but she knows they are mic’d up ? She asked him twice before he did it then told Jess he kiss her out of nowhere 2 times and then she kissed him back. She was stretching how that went down go back and look at it

[@ashley.taylor174]

@@vanessagomez6548Stop doubling down and trying to live vicariously through Jessica. You’ll never be as pretty as Jessica. You’re not on her level or Melinda’s level.

[@IvyMercedes1687]

@@vanessagomez6548Wa wa wa 😂

[@Linahdia]

Naaaah not all

[@SW-vn7ve]

Tolu is seriously one of the most beautiful chicks I have seen on a Netflicks show and an excellent communicator.

[@SafiWharwood]

Unpopular opinion : Melinda is also a production plant . Hence there was no apology. How can she go from cast to host and back to a second fiddle cast ( not in the first 10) ? She was sent to disrupt the show. I can’t see a veteran in these shows honestly going after Harry for a ‘fling’. Also that’s why she was acting so extra. The goal was to take the other black girl man or to fuck with Mr and Mrs. Congeniality.

[@afrey4185]

Fair point😅

[@WilliamsPinch]

CORRECT. And she thought she would be well-received as the villain.

[@kiwij7705]

she’s not just a production plant she also a fan favorite. She’s a model like most of them and just has a fun personality. I think she said she use to do hosting. And It’s all highly produced. Especially once a reality tv show hits it second season. I’m sure all the ppl were sent in to disrupt. To create drama for the show. Even the cast kept calling it “testing” each other. I’m sure all the THTH weren’t there for actual love lol but that kiss situation was real tv. The way Harry ran to production and lied and everyone attacked Melinda even offline. Melinda said that’s why she’s doesn’t even hang out with the cast now. Just a few girls. Jess saying she isn’t a “lady” and Melinda asking to not be spoken to like a child … Melinda deserved an apology

[@daonlyboriqua11]

She acted extra cause thats how she is 😂 In all her shows thats how she shows up. From Netflix to MTV. Its not production its Melinda lmaooo

[@JustJohnda]

Jess, you hit it on the head with the Jessica "single mother" praise being a race thing. I said that a while ago when a major publication did a whole glowing article about Kate Hudson having 3 baby daddies. Where would a black woman, no matter how successful, get that kind of glowing adulation in a major, mainstream publication. I'm not new to the game. I am 50+ sexy years in, and an avid reader and observer for most of them, I am not just assuming ish. It is what it is out here.

[@TheeJessieWoo]

Clock it

[@nSimone9]

Gweneth Paltrow? Are you sure? She was married to Chris Martin and shares two kids with him.

[@JustJohnda]

@@nSimone9 I apologize. You are correct. It's Kate Hudson. I read the article so long ago that all I saw in my head while typing the original post was "blond, white actress".

[@nSimone9]

@@JustJohnda 😘

[@SW-vn7ve]

The way Alara sided up with Jess and tried to make Melinda look like she was out of pocket, and Stevan siding with him, made me glad they didn't win. I did not care for Alara after that table scene.

[@fabibibine]

Stevan was on Nick Viall 3 DAYS AGO he still couldn't call Harry out. Men are always refusing to hold each other accountable when they don't act right

[@srm0520]

Men will always choose their boys over women. Always. And so many women betray other women for men. 🤮

[@Zzz3331]

No cause their childish and probably still live by the "bro code"

[@iamlaudz]

I was thinking the same thing about Jess! If it was a black single mother she would not have gotten the same treatment !!! It’s very weird. The way she responded back to Melinda was very telling about who she is as a woman… it’s ALWAYS about race.

[@crystalw.6033]

BM are the reason black single mothers get treated badly. When are we going to acknowledge that? They got a whole hate train going against black mothers for being the one that stayed and carried the burden.

[@jessicanoelle2012jp]

Jess is a passing Latina too... if jess was a BROWN Latina with the afro and thick hips and big lips, she would've got the boot immediately

[@Feather86xo]

Even as a white single mom, I was baffled that her single motherhood was viewed as a prize. If it wasn’t staged, I would suspect that Harry was a predator, the way he went for her right at the mention of her daughter, and how much she was mentioned.

[@priscillae93]

​@@Feather86xoHarry has predatory tendencies. He is lying in all their faces and gas lights any woman.

[@ashley.taylor174]

@@Feather86xoThis!

[@carcar0358]

Tolu and Chris were friends in the house before they matched. He treated her much better than Dom, but I feel he would've dumped her for any other woman who showed interested in him. Ultimately this was a game. Their best strategy was to stay together.

[@DejaTheReal1]

I heard Dom told everyone he hated Tolu they said it was a running joke. So they gave Dom a good edit as well

[@Tera-N-Tyler]

We already know Jessica isn’t a girls girl because on the other show when she told the guy he was gonna need his epi pen..that was her attempt to body shame and call Megan Unfox ugly. But let it be know you can be the baddest thing walking and if a guy is gonna turn his head he will.

[@TheeJessieWoo]

Such a good point

[@Goddess_Infinity]

This!!!!

[@fabiolamoreaucunningham7411]

If they can say TOFU, they can say Tolu.

[@pearlosibu]

Jess is saying it wrong. They were saying it right.

[@AdaezesSpace]

Thank you Pearl! They were actually saying it right. It is Toluuu not Tooolu. I hope that makes sense😅

[@Goddess_Infinity]

@@pearlosibuWRONG ! It’s Toe Lu , not Two Lu

[@loveourworldproductions6640]

@@AdaezesSpacethat’s not how she pronounces her name

[@loveourworldproductions6640]

@@pearlosibuYall need to watch how Tolu herself pronounces it

[@oddiek]

Thank you!!! No one could say Tolu properly but Xanthi wasn’t hard to say 🙄

[@katravandoe7697]

Let us remember, the issue isn’t that they kissed, yes they was wrong, the issue is that while she told the truth, HE lied and got everyone else to lie on his behalf. The other men were lounging with him and saw that shit but backed up the lie and agreed Melinda was looking for clout. She didn’t do anything different from Christine. But she gets no smoke

[@yuridiana9047]

aaand yet Christine comes out the winner lol I thought nobody would've voted for her because she tried to kiss kaz and just didn't seem to have had strongrelationships

[@loveourworldproductions6640]

They guys were saying they didn’t see what happened

[@95luannaable]

Bro I despise Harry but Melinda isn’t his type. She knows that we know that. She was desperate and I loved Melinda before. She threw herself on Harry and he just wanted to have s*x with her. That’s what he told her.

[@anoyanaomi]

Yess, Harry had the perfect opportunity to open up to Jess when he was sick and crying in the bedroom, when he lied I said it’s done!!😂😂😂😂 that was wild!

[@LaCreshiaify]

Right! Christine was relentless and far more aggressive than Melinda! But no one had smoke for her antics. Feels like colorism!

[@SpaceGiraffeC]

Whole time Melinda was getting accused of lying I was thinkin like WHY WOULD SHE? I’m SO GLAD the truth came out

[@victoriasmith7817]

“Who is Tolou?” lmaoooo I’m SCREAMIN 😭😭😭

[@ShaeDaily]

I hated that for her! I thought I was tripping 🙄

[@care-a-lot1051]

They saying Melinda thirsty and desperate, but don’t feel that way about Jessica or other yt women who behave the same way 😂

[@dudaresende955]

No one kissed outside the caméras 🎥

[@sweetlooweeze]

Jess was mad cuz she sat there and told Harry “ I won’t be in the graveyard with the rest of the failed relationships you sabotaged” and then he put her right there with them, after filling her head with nonsense and making her think she had something Elyse and everyone else didn’t have

[@TheeJessieWoo]

Hello clock it

[@BlackXSunlight]

Jess' attitude toward Melinda has historical precedent. This attitude is why the tignon laws existed.

[@regularity2556]

What is tignon

[@BlackXSunlight]

@@regularity2556 It's a type of headscarf. The Tignon law was a 1786 law enacted by the governor of Louisiana when that territory was owned by the Spanish. It forbade black and Creole women from wearing their hair natural or with ornaments, instead requiring that they cover their hair with headscarves. And, as a testament to the perseverance of black people, most of these women still found a way to distinguish themselves and express their style and taste in spite of the scarves. Note that the law was specifically created specifically to humble black women, and before it was put into legislation, protests calling for such a law were largely held by white women who wanted the governor to do something about it.

[@pearlosibu]

@@BlackXSunlightthank you. Didn’t know about this

[@truelove9665]

Honestly, after the way Stevan trashed Melinda's name to protect Harry along with the way Alara went at Melinda in defense of Jessica (even though Jessica was clearly in the wrong) made me not give one care that they did not win. Had they not gone out of their way to disrespect Melinda, callling her a liar and clout chaser when they knew Jessica and Harry were in the wrong, the outcome of the show would have bothered me some. But at the very least Stevan was a witness to some if not everything that went down between Melinda and Harry and Alara literally watched Jessica verbally attack and belittle Melinda at that table yet still felt the need to protect Jessica from Melinda who was calm the entire time. I found their behavior almost as disgusting as Harry and Jessica's. Up until they showed me they were okay protecting a mean girl and f***boy, I wanted them to win. But their behavior in episode 9 totally turned me off to them. Melinda deserves a public apology from all of them. As far as I'm concerned, they could have pulled two random people off the street and crowned them winners, and I would have been completely fine with that. Stevan and Alara's behavior was ugly and they didn't deserve to win. Also, Jessica is one of the worst people I've seen on reality TV. She seems to be all about her looks and nothing of real substance. That was evident on Love Is Blind with the EpiPen comment. I think she's mean, shallow, and fake. Nothing about her says girls girl. Actually, it's the complete opposite. I couldn't stand the way she treated/talked to Melinda at that table. So gross.

[@veesmith9737]

Yes Alara and Stevan were trash af

[@babettemims6559]

Yes! I really liked Alara, but that really irritated me!

[@SiiweulTVkhoumtedagane]

Since this 👆🏾I hate Alara and Steven

[@LeXXeD25]

If you watch the show closely there are a lot of sly and trashy moves Stevan and alara were pulling when you pay more attention. They definitely did not deserve to win either so glad they didnt

[@latoya2763]

Micah already showed us who she was on the last show she was on and I didn’t forget. Kaz proved that he would leave her as soon as someone attractive became an option. He showed us that. These shows seem fake though because none of the people who are soooo together on the shows actually stay together. I didn’t buy the Tolu and Chris story. He seems like he liked her as a friend and she seems so desperate to be chosen. It was cringy to watch her. I wish that wasn’t the light that the bw on these shows are shown in. All of the bm they find are a bunch of Doms. I’d rather we don’t go on at all if it is gonna be like this.

[@pearlosibu]

Idk what jess is saying here. Tolu was doing all the talking.

[@ningyding]

I wish Tolu wasn’t saying that she found a man who “made her feel beautiful”. She is beautiful, no question, drop dead. FACT. Any man not seeing that is blind and should not be the main thing she is seeking. She should enter a relationship like, yeah I know I’m beautiful, what do you have to offer me besides seeing the OBVIOUS!?

[@vjones4769]

I’m sure her 2.5 year relationship where the guy got married while she still thought they were dating affected the way she sees herself. Curious how long ago it happened and if she’d been in a relationship since then.

[@CharisMaggieTV]

With the situation with Kaz, I think 2 things can be true. There were moments where Kaz was being a bit of a gaslighter and moments where Micah was talking to him crazy. When new girls who were his type came into the house, he did downplay his relationship with Micah to them which I think was the issue all the ladies pointed out. And then he would lie to Micah about what his convos with them really was.

[@neffthegirlneophyte]

I definitely don’t think they showed the footage at the reunion bc if they did we would have seen Jess give Melinda a long winded apology and all the hate be turned to Harry. Cause one thing about Jess is she’s very aware of the cameras and cares about how she will be perceived by the viewers. So she definitely would’ve tried to reconcile w Melinda if she had seen the proof. And I think production intentionally didn’t show it bc they wanted Harry and Jess to continue dating after the show to save the shows reputation

[@pearlosibu]

Agree

[@RockyR818]

That's a GREAT point!

[@Jennifer-rv9sb]

That’s what I am wondering to, did they ever show everybody those secret videos. I don’t think they showed them. They may have saved them until the actual actually aired. Because production is trashy and racist.

[@beefranco4789]

I definitely think Kaz was messy. He’s the only guy that kissed another girl IN FRONT OF HIS MATCH. Micah was not lying, he was flirting with girls in her face. I’m not saying I care about her feelings tho. Oh well. I definitely think Stevan and Alaura should’ve won. They were robbed. I also don’t agree with the take on Bryce - I don’t think he’s gay. I think he’s saying the quiet part out loud. You said it yourself, Nigel should’ve been in the house WAY before the end. Bryce saw that the white boys were PURPOSELY keeping Nigel out.

[@neffthegirlneophyte]

I agree with this 100%. Kaz definitely took every opportunity he had to lead girls on. But that is the name of the game. Micah should’ve had more grace for him and directed her animosity to the people who kept putting him in those situations in the first place.

[@discusswithdomo]

Why is no one holding the three thirsty women accountable either? Is it because their seeking a perfect match? Thats the point of the show and you can't blame jus Kaz for playing it. Did yall not see Christine basically hunting this man down forcing him to kiss her, the pink hair girl was delusional starting drama with Nigel to separate Kaz and Micah. Kaz aint perfect but its like yall are totally disregarding everyone's actions as a whole. Like Jessie said, anytime Micah was with other men, she trash talked Kaz when it wasnt even like that when the cameras was just on them two. Everyone is a mess plain and simple.

[@GladToBeNatural]

Unfortunately Stevan got a good edit. He was being messy too 😔

[@loyisog4795]

Harry was so annoying, saying all that with, pretending to be taking accountability, but still doesn’t apologise for painting Melinda as a thirsty liar

[@jayla5003]

I’m glad they did show the truth and then showed Harry and Jess talking in the car about them getting married and then putting in BOLD letters they broke up a week later. lol so in the end it made Jess look a damn fool which is what she thought she could dodge by “standing her ground” like girl we knew you were gone take him back bc what? A FOOL! I also find her whole single mother angle weird as well. Like okay girl you can’t be that serious about finding love. Coming on Perfect Match to find a husband and/or stepfather for your daughter is foolish

[@tiffanyr6444]

She blows me wort that “I’m not the one to play with. Girl you got okayed two shows in a row. Even the man in Love is Blind wasn’t drooling over her when he finally saw her in person.

[@hannahstewart7562]

Im glad Stevan & Alara didnt win simply bc Alara switch up on her “friend” Melinda to call her a clout chaser abt the harry situation. & Tolú should’ve won alone bc Chris dnt like her fr 🫠

[@joanna0988]

Well it wasn't the best friend show, Alara and Stevan were the best match. Alara was up Jess's and Harry's asses so that's why she tried to make Melinda look bad.

[@TheeJessieWoo]

!!!!!!!

[@SiiweulTVkhoumtedagane]

@@joanna0988mind you Alara doesn’t have that much followers, so she thought linking up with them «The powerful people» on the show and after the show (social media content) and kissing Jess and Harry’s A$$

[@CharisMaggieTV]

The footage with Harry and Melinda wasn’t actually shown at the reunion y’all. It was inserted for us the audience to see. The cast saw it the same time as us

[@pleasantreverie]

15:42 I saw this TikTok that was talking about how black men who only like white women and gay men give off similar vibes and I think this applies here😂😂

[@shyranhilaw4352]

Jess being upset that Melinda told everything in front of the other girls when she asked for her to share her side is wild. What difference would a private chat have made? Aren’t they being recorded anyway? She’s full of it. But the real reason she was mad was because she looked a fool for being with Harry due to his reputation.

[@Legallyglory]

I don’t think Micah was exaggerating. I think Netflix edited to make it look like that. Dominique went on TikTok and said Netflix made it seem like the fight w her and Brighton was about yoga and she said it was about hate speech but they edited that part out to make her look crazy. There a lot of stuff taking out of these shows and we have to remember they don’t show us everything to portray their own narrative. Same thing to with Kaz. They prob gave him a good edit.

[@TheeJessieWoo]

Brighton at the reunion pointed out that they were fighting about yoga too. Editing is definitely insane but idk

[@msbellefleur27]

The way your nails be clicking and clacking against that screen when you making your point I HOLLER EVERY SINGLE TIME 💅🏾😂😂😂😂😂😂

[@shauntelrenee9197]

Right! It's so satisfying 😂😂💅🏽💅🏽

[@chanelledimarco7058]

Jessie! I'm surprised you haven't commented on the whole Harry situation from his entire stint on the show. This man likes Black women. Period. But won't admit it. On the first day, Harry was interested in Tolu but then chose Elys. He even matched Dom with Tolu, saying how perfect and gorgeous she is, as if projecting his own feelings onto Dom (who wasn't interested, obviously). My only save for Dom in that conversation is typical for white people to assume that black people must be attracted to only black people. Harry can't have Tolu on his arm. That's crazy this is TV, but Doms black, so... Which speaks volumes that Dom supposed to be your friend you have zero clues on the type of woman he is attracted to.Then, when Melinda arrived, Harry was secretly involved with her and we seen how that played out. I'm tired of white men wanting a Black woman but acting like it's a secret like they have to bust out of a closet with it. It's disturbing, and his whole behavior on the show indicates that as facts.I was waiting and expecting your thoughts on this.

[@vjones4769]

Interesting take. I can definitely see this being true.

[@adev9764]

Seems like a fetish rather than genuine interest … especially the stuff about having an athletic baby if it was with Melinda

[@irenernfuturemsn7689]

Yes it's sad but that's just white people history

[@irenernfuturemsn7689]

White men have always desired black women but society doesn't allow that especially someone like Harry. Harry is a typical white guy so he can't have a black woman on his arm.

[@irenernfuturemsn7689]

And yes Harry want Tolu but didn't want to judged. I mean tolu had the best body and she's pretty.

[@Autumnjeannette]

I cannot stan Tolu and Chris because he immediately acted stupid at boys day. Also, his obsession with threesomes was very creepy and weird for him to ask Dom and Melinda

[@jessicanoelle2012jp]

Jessica EVEN AFTER harry confessed he was wrong for lying, she thought "yes, this cheating only fans womanizer is PERFECT for my underaged daughter"... like what? Girl!!!! Honestly I think Kaz and Micah were fine. A prime example of women wanting your man and when he turns them down for you, they tell u to leave him. It's a game yal, it's not love is blind. Chill Stevan and Alara should have won but there was a pact made by the singles to vote for the singles if they made it to the finale. This is pure cheating and a waste of time. The audience should vote in my opinion. Tolu deserved better, and I'm sad she didn't listen to her REAL girls girl xanthi. Tolu is the type to try and keep a man no matter what. And it's not right. If Christine was a man, she would be canceled for how much she came onto Kaz let's be real. Nigel deserved so much better, I'm mad he wasn't chosen by anyone in the beginning 😤

[@JC-unome]

Well Harry kissed Melinda told her he wanted to put a baby in her, fetisize her based on her race by saying their children will be athletic and basketball players and then lied on Melinda and called her a clout chaser and he still isn't canceled so why would Christine be canceled for telling Kaz "I know wanna kiss me" ya'll act like she took him in the back and r*ped him. She came in as "bombshell" she came in to apply pressure but in a world where men who are confirmed r*pist and abusers still have their careers so I think those if Christine was a man comments so unnecessary.

[@bobococo89]

I unfollowed Jess. Idc how extra Melinda is, Jess isn’t getting away with how she treated Melinda

[@joanna0988]

I never liked her. When everyone was cheering for her speech to Jimmy I found it really evil. The man has deadly food allergies (my son does too) and for her to say he's going to need his Epipens when he sees her was gross. If you've ever seen someone in anaphylaxis you'd never use it so flippantly.

[@gigif169]

Character. Love it

[@candyxox]

Melinda is desperate and thirsty

[@pearlosibu]

@@joanna0988wait, it wasn’t a flippant remark? He actually has allergies? Anyway, I already know she’s gross

[@joanna0988]

@@pearlosibu Yes! He said in an interview he told her he has to carry his Epipens all the time.

[@Kanous862]

Jessie I screamed when you said Clay and Harry went to the same therapist because I said it. As soon as harry started taking about therapy I said this is Clay 2.0

[@showorchid2641]

Haha!! Izzy and that slurred speech- could it be the open bar 🍻 👀 🤭

[@roxannelewis3293]

The way Tolu was crying about feeling loved and beautiful gave she needs self work cause you should already feel like that and not need someone else to validate those feelings

[@tiffanyr6444]

In the Trust I felt like she was very confident. I think being around those white/British girls with long hair softer faces made her insecure especially since the men showed interest in them. I think the men looked at Tolu as a cook person/friend but nothing sexually.

[@nokibin9676]

Yeah Jessica had way too much smoke for Melinda, also their job was to try and tempt the boys that day !

[@user-vf3fz7qv6v]

It is a race thing. I definitely saw how they mistreated Tolu and Melinda but I didn’t see Kaz mistreat. Thank you for calling out the aggression against Kaz.

[@stuntchick89]

Honestly Jess, I wanted to give you a trigger warning before you saw this episode with Harry and Melinda. Throughout the episode I couldn’t help but think that Jessica is the type of person who would victim blame/ shame. She had the same heat for Melinda as the people who went under Cassie’s comments sharing nothing but hate and bad wishes for her when the lawsuit came out. Prior to the video footage of the hotel. Literally these men who are abusive and play a victim show the same patterns. They always accuse the woman of wanting their fifteen minutes of fame or money, they always shed tears, present as physically unwell to distract the intention of the confrontation, so that the sympathy lies with them. Jessica needs to be cancelled and I’m never about the cancel culture, but that behaviour she exhibited was atrocious. At the drop of a hat if a man is showing these personality traits and not honest about what he did plus victim blames, DIP! Especially when your priority lies with a vulnerable child in the home. DIP!

[@ivapetrovska9986]

So Melinda is the victim in your scenario, right ?!😂 Not Jessica and her adequate response to Melinda, especially after the final episode revealing how Melinda - even persuaded Harry for a secret kiss, only to disclose it immediately after, and to tell Jessica victoriously pretending she'a a girl's girl ?! And you want to even cancel the only victim Jessica ?! I see you are all for protecting victims' and women's rights 👏

[@kalikayy]

It was sooooo anti climactic for Christine and Nigel to win. I was definitely dissapointed at first but then I thought.... well atleast they went on the damn vacation! 😂 I'm not sure Tolù and Alara stay with their guys for 4 weeks after the show 😭 But really though it was Netflix fault we felt as dissapointed as we did. Christine and Nigel did a whole other challenge and had another date... why didn't they put that in? Cause they're too damn worried about pushing Jess in our faces! Why did we see Jess and Izzy together at the end when they unmatched right away but they didn't put in more screen time for the couple that literally won the show. And people are eating it up!! Her insta comments are nothing but she's an inspiration and a class act.... did we see the same show???

[@kalikayy]

But thank God we saw Izzy sweat INTO JESS'S MOUTH 🤮🤮🤮

[@loyisog4795]

Melinda was so annoying on this show OMG. It felt like she couldn’t believe Tolu could be picked over her.

[@SW-vn7ve]

This part. I side with her over Harry and Jess, but I didn't care for her energy in general. I could tell from post interviews and the finale that she really views Tolu as competition. She even mentioned she and Jess are cordial now. She should have had worse energy for her.

[@RoboThot3000]

Idk Melinda was live on TikTok yesterday and said she is rooting for Tolu and didn’t deserve to be used the way she was on the show. She also said the producers told all the new people to basically create drama and test the relationships so that’s why her and Christine were doing the most lol. It wasn’t anything personal against Tolu it was a part of the game

[@dudaresende955]

Thats why I didnt care when they all treat her like shit at the end . She treated tolu like she were inferior to her.

[@essencepierce273]

Look… this is my honest take. You called it on Jess having a connection but it’s so funny to me how desperately they tried to make her the main character when it was Tolu the whole time. Would have loved for you to interview Tolu and or Melinda. I also keep saying I need you to look into the clips of Jess being micro aggressive to Tolu in at least two interviews. Melinda did come on strong but she absolutely deserves an apology. Final thing I’ll say, the character they are trying to give Jess just isn’t landing for me. I’m a single mom and you wouldn’t catch me talking about being engaged simply for money, won’t catch me on Perfecf Match showing my 🍑, you couldn’t catch me talking down to a woman while passifying a grown child.

[@pearlosibu]

Everything you said

[@mrsroseyp109]

At any rate no need to be invested in these fake relationships…it’s a game…they are all paid actors…none of these people act this way in the real world and thus the relationships will not last…they aren’t meant to…y’all really think Tolu will take a stripper home to meet her African parents (Nigerian nonetheless)? Like come on

[@mrsroseyp109]

Another sign that it’s fake was who they chose as the winners

[@Journalbythewater]

Can you imagine Dom walking into a Nigerian household dressed like that ? 😂😂😂 ain’t no way ! .

[@kiwij7705]

Melinda said in an interview that her Jess spoke afterward in DMs and are now at least cordial and understanding of one another as women. I do think she deserved a public apology because that was a very public attack. Also I don’t think Dominique is that weird. I think she really just don’t like the other castmates and doesn’t like to play along lol she stuck up for Melinda when a lot of the other girls at the table were mute

[@Solana_360]

I haven’t watched a single episode of this. Just watched it through our seeeestaaaa 😂❤

[@bobococo89]

I’m glad I didn’t. It would have been a waste of time for me

[@kf4778]

Kendrick Lamar had all the domestic abusers in rap on stage that night. 🙃And having the abuser at large Dr. Dre open your song about accusing other people of abuse shows how disingenuous and unserious they truly are. The groupthink on this is wild. 😁

[@Zen_Wrld]

This. I get it's for the "culture." But this is still a yikes part of the culture to glorify. Then again, almost every person up there is gang affiliated soooo...

[@williamparker5351]

THIS!!!!!!!!!

[@shanelle5054]

Exactly

[@alexajay6896]

Crazy!

[@nyasha7721]

ANNA OOP

[@Zzz-ff1np]

"Dancing on Drake's grave" ☠ diabolical 🤣

[@jamisontanksley112]

Not a sledgehammer to kill an ant 😂😂

[@Ria-wq9gu]

Tolu looked really good & the best in the finale. Not liked all her trads outfits but this outfit was just lovely & the colour blended so well. Her personality/looks are great for the media/fashion industry & hope she capitalizes on this opportunity & also gets a guy that appreciates her & can raise (or at least not lessen) her self-esteem.

[@Ricardodiaz17762]

I agree with almost everything you said except 2 things: Bryton isn't gay and Chris is a phony/pretender. Bryton is too conceited and he knows what to do get airtime and sound bites. And Chris is only with Tolu because nobody else wants him.

[@lailalewis3293]

I loved seeing Tolú happy but I definitely don’t think Chris liked her fr I feel like it was a show for him and a way to stay in the house. From the way he reacted when xanthi came and he was tryna talk to her by downplaying his relationship with Tolú, to the way he doesn’t pronounce her name properly to the way at the reunion he said they’d “stay in contact “ it all threw me off overall tho Tolú deserved so much better and I’d love to see her something else where she’s celebrated and really appreciated

[@kinostyles936]

I just start cracking up when you roll both your wrists and point at the camera!😂😂😂 I just know you've got a point to make and you're gonna make it loudly, and I love it!❤

[@Africanbeautyy93]

I also noticed a massive difference with the way Kaz interacts with Micah vs Christine… he was a bit short tempered with her vs Micah who basically would talk to him anyhow.

[@pearlosibu]

Christine is a rude person herself and used to having her way. She’s the one who called him stupid.

[@Bbygurl1999]

When Bryton said that about Nigel unprovoked I screamed and immediately thought of what you said about him in your other videos 😂😅

[@itsQueMajor]

Tolu and Chris should have won? Um.. did yall forget how Chris disrespected Tolu when talking to Xanthi then tried to switch up his words? Chris only stayed with Tolu because no one else wanted him. Bffr And lowkey, after all that, Tolu knew Chris was playing around …but she chose to play the game. Tolu didn’t have a chance with anyone in that house either. So she stayed with him.

[@TheeJessieWoo]

I honestly think he was just playing the game I could be wrong

[@pearlosibu]

He was just playing. I don’t think he dates her a minute outside that house.

[@AdaezesSpace]

I think once the cameras shut off at the last episode, Chris sighed a big sigh of relief because he was PRETENDING! He wasn't into Tolu as much. I think he just wanted to smash and dip.

[@messybarbie]

Yeah I heard somewhere Tolu said that when the cameras where off Chris wouldn’t even talk to her and they where in bed he would sleep on the farthest side and that it was really uncomfortable she would try to talk to him and he would tell her that he wanted to be left alone… so yeah 😬😬

[@kaec1213]

I’m glad someone feels the same. He clearly was not interested in her. I had to fast forward all their scenes

[@loyisog4795]

I agree Jess was very micro aggressive to Melinda. These white women acted so funny when their man goes and does things with black women.

[@ccleavemebe4790]

Yeah they’re highly insensitive and insecure so they want everyone to hate BW because they are highly insecure

[@YPM498]

Lmao I was waiting for someone to bring up Dom wearing a mesh top with a heart shape and a mini skirt 😂

[@ShaeDaily]

Sadly even though Harry is in the wrong Melinda will get the short end of the stick! She didn’t need to do much on here this is her 3rd show and the last one she was the host of! I don’t think this will progress her career.

[@rosereign888]

Every time they say “Like” after every other word is going to become my Roman Empire, LIKE 🙄🙄🙄. Tolu looked good af! Best dressed of them all period! Love youuuu Jessie boo ❤❤❤

[@KeilaniFilms]

While I did think Alana and stevan were going to win I was hella happy for Nigel and Christine I root for everybody black and black love even if it is possibly fake lol

[@pearlosibu]

Nah

[@lesleyq3206]

@@pearlosibuyeah

[@pearlosibu]

Nah

[@saphire2214]

Same! All them couples are fake anyways.😂

[@ccleavemebe4790]

This is crazy 😂

[@kevinortegarojas]

Jess here’s the thing with calling Brighton gay … it’s biphobic and queerphobic in general. We’ve never heard Brighton say he has no attraction to men. He might. He could also be attracted to women. Love you down friend but it is superrrrrr problematic to hold men to this weird standard. Or he could be straight and comfortable to say whatever comes to mind. Idk lol

[@crystalw.6033]

Not gonna feel bad for a man that says he prefers women not to speak. He can be BI all he wants, he doesn’t seem to prefer or like the company of woman. Why are we gonna be gentle with someone like that just for possibly being bi? Not an excuse to be misogynistic. Gay, straight, or BI - don’t be a sucky person

[@kevinortegarojas]

@@crystalw.6033this is where people get really mixxy about these conversations. When I or anyone defends the way we discuss queer people or even Black people … it’s about the group and how we are portrayed in the macro. It’s not about the defense of one person. You can call Brighton an asshole all you want. That’s valid. But the way we discuss ONE persons sexuality actually impacts and trickles down to how we discuss the sexuality of others in general. And Black men and their masculinity is policed more than enough. And the policing of Black men and their masculinity and their sexuality is the reason for so much abuse and violence in the world. Homophobia, misogyny, transphobia, femocide, etc etc these are all symptoms of the same root issue … the policing of Black men’s sexuality and manhood. Just saying.

[@GreenGorgeousness]

It's not about any single person. It's about how we treated and perceived the gay community in general and yes that includes not using anti gay stuff to horrible people. ​@@crystalw.6033

[@GreenGorgeousness]

Exactly. We need to be away of how we speak on the community. Even to horrible people.

[@ccleavemebe4790]

Oh be quiet

[@Hersheychocolate12]

Also Dom didn’t he call Melinda a clout chaser after the Harry & Melinda rumored kiss? Like his best friend Harry doesn’t make a living being a clout chaser ? Or basically anyone on this show cause it comes with the job.

[@DejaTheReal1]

He a clout chaser fake liking Tolu to get into the house

[@dudaresende955]

dom is worse

[@VEA561]

Coming in on Lil Ceasar’s energy-Hot n Ready-is crazy Jessie🤣😂

[@sonicclover639]

I think it’s also Netflix fault for who won. The design of the show is pretty weird and everyone should have been in the house in the beginning so everyone would have had a fair chance 🤷🏽‍♀️. Maybe have new people the first few episodes but new people the day before they choose the winner is not fair for anyone.

[@Heyyyyyy870]

Dom is ew…sorry. Never liked him :/ he definitely goes both ways

[@marianaya5824]

Your woocation with the sisters looked and sounded amazing! Thank you for celebrating us Jessie. Peace. 😌🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽

[@ChinaRitz84]

I’m sorry but Melinda was DEFINITELY encouraging Harry to kiss her. She was assuring him that there was no cameras and egging him on. Harry is still the villain of the story and a liar, but Melinda is not innocent.

[@heathermartin6097]

Yes!

[@leonoraphillipsjemmott8163]

The point of this show is to flirt and break up couples in the house to maybe secure a spot......

[@imanipatrice9492]

This came at the perfect time! I was just getting bored at work😭currently hiding in the supply closet listening to this so my shift ends faster

[@Kblaber]

Jessss how could you not talk about Jess and Harry after the show ended? I thought you were going to talk about that. Also I agree 1000% Melinda deserves an apology.

[@babieeden]

We dont care about then wypipo🤣

[@nathaliechishungu719]

Nigel literally never tried to stay in that house he liked Cristine before this show even happened. When he was told to go after Micah he didn't so I don't understand why anyone would say that, out of everybody in that whole house this man played the game the least. Also we can't go around supporting Chris who literally used Tolú but in the same breathe hate on Nigel a man who literally just minds his business!

[@acee9908]

As much as i support my black couples on these shows, Nigel and Christine should not have won. I really believe they won cuz everyone else had beef/personal issues with every other couple in some way shape or form. I feel they won by default.

[@babieeden]

I didn't like how they did Kaz either! Racial undertones were felt. Christine throws herself at him, they match and prolly hunched so she's mad that she did all that for Kaz to go back to Micah. Lol she did it to herself

[@tiffanyr6444]

Right lol. Kaz probably hit because it was easy. He really don’t like black girls.

[@Blahgirl283]

Stevan did all of that just to ghost Alara in the end and string her along about moving in together 🫠

[@MandaT0216]

The sad part is I watch alot of these reality shows such as too hot to handle, perfect match, love is blind, and even love island and the main thing I notice is alot of the times the cast or even production treats black women and women of color a certain way. Theres alot of colorism, racism and micro-aggression that gets looked over and no one ever takes accountability. I may not be a black woman but I am a latin woman and grew up around Black and Hispanic culture and one thing I notice is the way they treat lighter-skin women or white women vs the way they treat dark skin women is very different and as I said overlooked. No one seems to address it and its apalling.

[@ccleavemebe4790]

Yep .. life as a BW

[@MandaT0216]

@@ccleavemebe4790 its so sad and disgusting to watch.

[@ifyouweremeforreal]

As a jamaican who is also apart of the lgbtq community, JESSIE!! YOU ARE TOO FUNNY!!! AINT NOT WAY THIS LADY IS THIS FUNNY YALL IM IN ACTUALL TEARS!!!!

[@melissagarcon3750]

Why am I crying…. I can’t wait to feel chosen

[@nursefulness2274]

Why do u feel this way? :( what’s going on?

[@Victoria-jg5dz]

I would love to watch you interview Tolu

[@lindaennin-sampson2281]

Girllll you caught every scene that had to pause for a second. When Brayton made that comment I was like whatttttttt. I actually replayed to make sure I heard correctly lol

[@IsaGemini]

No real sympathy for Kaz. They did give him more smoke than i expected in the reunion. There was just something about how he cow towed to Micah who was insecure and mean to him but he held on even though it seemed toxic all while steady going for other women giving mixed messages. It felt like he was playing a game and not going for what he wanted, until he was backed in a corner. Even then I truly believe he only picked Christina because she kissed Nigel. Then his comment about Nigel at the end was pretty. Sir you said Christina wasn’t your type so why you care. He just didn’t want to see her with an upgrade.

[@RoboThot3000]

I’ve always been team Melinda, she was my favorite person as soon as I saw her and made the show more entertaining! She should’ve f’d Harry to really spite Jess lmao. He’s disgusting but that’s all he’s good for, that man isn’t looking for a girlfriend. Also as cute as Chris and Tolu are, I don’t think he’s looking for a gf either. Like when Dominique mentioned monogamy to him, he lost all interest. And I watched Melinda’s TikTok live yesterday and she said he was doing it for screen time. It kinda sucks that no one was really genuinely interested in Tolu and she was really putting herself out there (maybe too much tbh. Like when she was with Dom she said she didn’t want to explore any other options, I cringed)