Spilling The Perfect Match Tea w/ Tolú Ekundare

This week, Tolú Ekundare AKA the main character from Netflix’s hit dating show “Perfect Match” is here for some spicy girl talk! Get ready for an unfiltered conversation where Tolú spills all the tea about behind the scenes drama and what really went down with her “relationships.” Don’t miss this tell-all episode!
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[@juliannatrure]

Tolu was the only woman who knew her worth, and carried herself with class and FUN on the show. So much respect for this queen 🎉

[@mummytwinsj]

I agree with you 💯

[@nanettexg]

I think xanthi is on the same boat. Classy queens 🥳

[@Young4eva121]

And Xanthi and Alara too! Honestly I really wish all the ladies were treated better ❤

[@naabilariaj4207]

No because she took Chris back

[@lifestylemood]

🤨 She settled with Dom after he failed with Alara & then settled with Chris after basically several women told her he wasn't committed & he was trash

[@valentinanagy4008]

Everything that features Tolú gets a like

[@lindaa.o8605]

Tolu is such a QUEEN. Can @Rihanna please get her to model Savage Fenty? Gorgeousness and Class GALORE

[@phyrisehouman5114]

Oooh yeaaah

[@Jamie_Rosex0]

Ooooo yess!!!

[@Carollovessws]

yesss!!!!

[@LG-zg8mw]

They casted the most boring people, no wonder they thought she was too much, because they were NOT enough!!! Justice for Tolú!!! .

[@DaintyAbby]

No Tolu.. ur not crazy.. Netflix purposely casts black men that hates black women… its not ur fault

[@TennisBarbie119]

This is true. They don’t know how to find black men who like black women. And it’s a superficial dating show

[@Zzz3331]

Feel like y'all blaming the wrong thing. There's a bigger picture here.

[@silviamateevaloveintimacy6591]

Of course. The whole world spins only around making things bad for black women. The only agenda that exists in this world. Nothing else matters, for nobody. We all participate in a big conspiracy against black women, without exception.

[@midsectionmark8956]

Hates a strong word. I understand the frustration though. For someone who dates anyone he finds attractive despite the race, I do think that netflix just needs to bring on more bombshell black women that guys of any race would gravitate to more, to satisfy the fanbase. Other shows like too hot to handle had better luck forsure. On a side note in season 1 of Perfect Match we had Calvin, not bad looking dude preferred Black women, and look what happened to him. I mean let's not act like Black women are not desirable on these shows. The problem is that it's not a majority black cast. There's a handful of Black men and women. They all have a chance of getting picked or not getting picked. That's just reality tv and dating in general.

[@miekaxiii]

They pick the wrong men and women in my opinion, tolu is beautiful. I’m just saying women that are strong valued like tolu, jess and zanthi make theses men have to be better and they’re not ready to be better.. So they’ll go for the easier girls who are just as messy as them. Not to mention the fame is not good for young men while trying to be in a serious relationship. The entire thing is set for failure 😂

[@anxhisenja]

She is beautiful but her personality makes the whole package supreme. She is such a bright girl

[@EmeraldArcherr]

child, i can't get enough of Tolu! Put her on EV-ER-RY-THING!

[@Lindy-nw9rd]

hearing tolu roast Chris into oblivion gave me LIFE 😂😂

[@SW-vn7ve]

She is everything! I know people are like she has no hair, men like hair, but she is strikingly beautiful without hair. With hair she is just another pretty girl with fake hair trying to fit into a mold. For the record, the men on the show just did not like darkskinned black women....hair or no hair. I hate she went through that.

[@RochellBarbara4690]

Men also like big fake butts so I hope she doesn’t change for a man

[@sshias278]

She’s really beautiful…I can’t even picture her with hair at this point..this is definitely her signature look

[@LG-zg8mw]

I agree, those men did not like anything else than white women, and both the show and some men tried to profit from Tolú’s likeness. They knew the viewers will love her and wanted to tag along.

[@Flourish_today]

​@@sshias278I think she wore wigs on TRUST. She looked different with wigs. This other short wig she wore made her look like an Egyption Godess.

[@Smiley-yk7vw]

I don’t like that you said she was a personality hire. That is what she says herself and I don’t think that was kind to say. You probably confirmed her negative thoughts without realizing it. She is a beautiful beautiful beautiful girl inside and out. I love her bubbly personality, her confidence. She lights every room she walks into (all the podcasts, interviews, every episode on perfect match)team Tolu all the way through and through ❤️

[@simbaladesignsinsights]

Yeah unreal! She’s in a league of her own of beauty and THEN a personality and spirit to match. People like Jess and are a dime a dozen. Not sorry.

[@Smiley-yk7vw]

@@simbaladesignsinsights ahhhh yesss!!! Jess too!!! She is gorgeous and people hate on her just because she is beauty and brains lol

[@EMILY_RACHEL_]

agreed

[@TheMelmel18]

I love her bald head I think she’s sooo top model coded

[@Young4eva121]

How does this only have 500 views? WHAT? This is such a well-conducted interview and Tolú (or ✨TuhLoo✨ as Chris likes to say) is a beautiful soul! Ah!

[@AfterCurfewPod]

THANK YOU! 🤣🥰

[@svmto]

The algorithm is not in your side sis ..cause the production and interview is top tier

[@AfterCurfewPod]

@@svmto thank you! 🥰

[@en9665]

It just came out lol

[@RochellBarbara4690]

Because it’s not some plastic YT woman

[@SiiweulTVkhoumtedagane]

Honestly, I’m here because of Tolu 👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽❤🔥💐

[@mayaalexis9012]

I loveeee Tolu she was the realest and funniest girlie on the show and chris is a FOOL

[@NenaBabe]

Tolú’s energy is unmatched ✨ and that’s the tea 🫶

[@coder001]

Beauty is in the eyes of the beholder. The producers needed to get men who liked her look and personality or else get another woman.

[@trixsta54]

Totally agree 💯

[@hailey8708]

i could genuinely listen to tolu speak forever

[@jenniferhatfield6640]

Such a fun convo style interview. Honestly I immediately watched The Trust after this and thought Tolu was the absolute perfect way to advertise better shows than The Perfect Match. I'd watch her just for the outfits. And I loved hearing her perspective on how you don't need a partner to match your energy just someone who appreciates you without expecting you to change.

[@AfterCurfewPod]

So happy you enjoyed it! 💞🫶

[@alannashea6344]

She is the absolute best thing Netflix ever gave us ❤

[@juliexjune]

the way tolu emphasizes things makes me crack up 😂❤

[@queenk838]

One thing about me is!!! I love me some Ms TOLU!!! She is definitely the most beautiful and inspiring person from the show that represents us black girls right!!!

[@Ireneshaban]

Tolu is gorgeous

[@ninaenamorada079]

In the end, the prize wasn't a relationship with Chris (more of a punishment) or the vacation. The prize was Tolú, & the men lost out 😊❤

[@mariahkamora6953]

Did anyone else peep at the end she called “talu”😭 my girl can’t catch a break 😭😭

[@spongebob468]

I thought she said it right

[@skybritnei]

Clocked it! 🙄 and it was goinggg so well before that lol

[@bjsiau]

Bro my mouth was hanging wide open!!!!! DIRECTLY after they talked about the correct pronunciation too!!! Unrealllllll

[@nicolelittle6429]

Crazy that the best looking girl with the best personality wasn't the first choice.

[@AfterCurfewPod]

This

[@shellybelly6191]

I love her so much!! Tolu’s energy is literally EVERYTHING!!

[@jessicawalinski]

The interviewer is trying too hard to use Tolu’s slang and vibe. It’s cringe to watch. I watched her other videos where her voice is lower and not the preppy crackle voice.

[@itsmorganalexis]

girl stfu this is how she normally talks lol you’re just trying to stir the pot

[@bolu101]

It’s normal for an interviewer to try to match their guest energy, y’all need to chill out

[@closcrazy]

Tolu saved that season! The host is right she was THE personality.

[@zencee7543]

Awkward when the interviewer says her name wrong right at the end of the interview. 😫

[@jene70811]

Like why did she do that 🤨

[@Perennial1997]

As she’s talking about her name being mispronounced.

[@zencee7543]

@@Perennial1997I know. 🤦🏾‍♀️

[@amandamoore6789]

Hahaha I just got to that part and was like YIKES and ran to the comments. The disrespect 😭

[@adorastarr5090]

Tolu, your outfits were my faveeee! Every time you were on camera I was likeee "OOOOHHH GURLLLL" You're such an icon and your light is infectious!

[@Duckduckobtusegoose]

Girl not you saying her name wrong at the end of the video😭😭😭 she deserves an apology after she just clarified it a bunch two seconds before that. You said it like tah-loo and not toe-loo

[@Alli_bossmama]

I thought the same 😂😑

[@daniellanduati915]

I totally agree with Tolu on Stevan. I don't know how most people didn't pick up on his fake 'loyal good guy' vibe. As much as I appreciated they were the longest-surviving couple, he just seemed so disingenuous to me. That's why I think Christine and Nigel def deserved that win! The other couples were just so off.

[@you_are_welcome97]

I hope Tolue starts her own podcast or channel love her and I feel like her content game is on point

[@irina1siren]

Tolu is so gorgeous. If some men don’t like her it’s bc she’s not the cookie cutter insta filter look. She’s naturally model beautiful not slutty hot. And yeah women will appreciate that ❤

[@TheStinkified]

this made me love tolu even more from the show! such a smart genuine woman, love to see it

[@hafsahtauseef391]

She really is a girls girl. I love her sm 💕🎀

[@fabimendes9512]

Tolu is a wonderful woman, I loved Tolu and Alara on the show xx

[@Flourish_today]

I would rather women tell me i am beautiful and not men. Women know a womans beauty more than men.

[@codewithmurial5944]

Tolu is gorgeous and all natural, don’t listen to the haters.

[@karennnnnn17]

Tolu is real as fuck, love her energy 🫰🏼🫰🏼🫰🏼

[@hawiioceanview]

Main character energy! I love that and I'm going to add that to my affirmations ❤️

[@JennyVanessac]

I absolutely love her! She is stunning on the outside but her inside is even better and that’s the most important thing. She is a queen

[@blockiana9714]

Be patient sis I know this video will blow up, also I love your energy

[@AfterCurfewPod]

🥰🫶

[@rinverno9]

i love the fool isn't even mentioned by the name :P

[@mqk1697]

Tolu, you are that girl!

[@LG-zg8mw]

We ride at dawn for Tolú!

[@kadeembest4752]

I just love Tolu!!!!!!

[@freyas5809]

Tolu is literally helping me become more confident. Watching her mannerisms and hearing her speak, I get so inspired to match her qualities.

[@pamelahernandez4453]

Tolú you were a delight to watch, your outfits, your personality, every time you were on the screen I was like, dude shes so beautiful. Thanks for being so real

[@kandeebaybee2492]

They could NEVER make me hate Tolu 😭❤️

[@melody556286]

The fact that this video has less than 1k likes is crazy! I love tolu and i loved this episode. Such a vibe!

[@alejandraromaniortiz6107]

I love her so much! She really is everything!

[@Bookalicious1717]

This is such a good interview ❤ the energy here is so amazing

[@AfterCurfewPod]

🥰🥰🥰🥰

[@AprilT72]

Aww I thought Tolu was in on it with Chris. This fool is still running around getting clout from her because she was a fan favorite. Let's be for real if it weren't for Tolu noone would be talking about him, just like noone was talking about him after the show he was on.

[@lillianidahosa3266]

lol, I agree Tolu is the catch.... him not so much

[@Perennial1997]

She literally called her “tuluuu” right after Tolu was talking about people mispronouncing her name 🤦🏻‍♀️

[@m4cks165]

Tolu you inspire me to death girl you make me cry happy tears❤️🥺

[@cookeechoc8824]

Out of the Perfect Match bunch, Tolu was the most beautiful, sexy, warm, genuine, kind, fun.....❤️

[@Lillytodd1]

Excellent advice!

[@justytem07]

What a beautiful woman! The way she talks the man she needs is amazing 👏👏👏 Really hope she finds her person soon ❤️

[@hurrjenkins4916]

Tolu!!!!! Great interview!!!!

[@jadetotherescue]

I really like your podcasting style! I’m interested to listen to you more! Subbed! Also Tolu’s energy from The Trust to Perfect Match and these interviews is so lovely! It really changed my opinion on her.

[@tylargrant3441]

This interview was EVERYTHING 💕

[@AfterCurfewPod]

You are 🥰🫶

[@chelseanmars]

Tolu is too funny 😂😂 love herr

[@tfoxx17]

The motivational speech at the end 🙌🫶

[@jillianlenna]

Such a fun episode! 🎙️💞

[@jaydedean7648]

Def a fav on both of the shows she was on she is an icon😍😍😍

[@missabeerk]

HERE FOR THIS AND FOR TOLU 👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼

[@AfterCurfewPod]

@@missabeerk 🫶🫶

[@otherjackieo]

My favorite interview so far! We stan Tolu!!! 🎉🎉🎉🎉

[@AfterCurfewPod]

@@otherjackieo 🎙️🥰

[@katrinarositaa]

Love this episode ✨✨

[@LavenderDreams6762]

I loved this!!!!!!!!❤❤❤❤

[@StephanieLouise]

She's everything 💜

[@bigbrotherspoilers9756]

tolu is a queen!

[@sescalante7587]

I love my girl Tolú

[@143Shayx]

This lady is queen

[@alyssamelody]

Tolú is the best 💖💞💖💞

[@Barcelonabby11]

2 weeks and Jessica was saying I love you after two days lmfao 😂😂😂💀💀

[@DaintyAbby]

Good job with this podcast!

[@AfterCurfewPod]

🥰

[@fionagallagherapologist5968]

i love this interview 😭

[@AfterCurfewPod]

@@fionagallagherapologist5968 🥰

[@Fazs1144]

Rare beauty requires a rare man. Its about quality not quantity

[@eauxkei702]

This interview is so relatable. I too am tired of these dusty streets!

[@its_maya_hee]

I totally disagree. Tolú’s beauty is conventional and is for everyone, why can Doja Cat be bald and no one bats an eye, but a dark skin woman is bald and everyone gaslights her into believing her beauty is not attractive to men?? The only men that aren’t attracted to her are weirdos or have micro aggressions

[@TennisBarbie119]

Doja Cat looks crazy bald too. Looks way better with hair.

[@95luannaable]

Stop capping. I seen a lot of men saying Doja isn’t attractive anymore because she’s bald. But obviously we know black women and darker skinned women have it 10x harder.

[@Pushnotificationsalwaysoffbye]

Doja cat has been getting dragged since she shaved her head, she’s written about the feedback in several of her songs including some chart toppers, people have written essays and done video breakdowns on it, what are you talking about? lol

[@lifestylemood]

1. Doja is thicker men commonly like thicker women - Also are we going to act like Doja & Tolu do not have two completely different facial structures ? 2. You don't see people mad at Nia Long with short hair in the 90's because she is .. conventially attractive 3. Are we going to act blind & oblivious like back in school & the workplace there are not people we deem commonly attractive & not ? Women went crazy for Michael B Jordan because of his looks I don't see them do the same for Kevin Hart or Jay Z .. Stop this nonsense

[@CrystalM1917]

​@lifestylemood I think she is conventionally attractive. Tbh, her a doja have similar facial structures, and Doja has lost weight lately....maybe she undid her bbl. She may have a longer nose than Doja and fuller lips but other than that, similar Sharp features and bone structure. The biggest difference is she has kinky hair and is dark skinned. If that's not conventionally attractive than that's not something she can change or anyone who falls into that category.

[@katelyncarrera6910]

Love it

[@rosie-en1lz]

Love Tolu! ❤️

[@Baloney01]

Tolu needs to be on season 3!

[@marielaurenadiaz6679]

Hahaha 😂 I love when they are roasting chriss

[@StarGirl_C]

I’m loving the roast go TOLU 😂

[@lhollyrivera3408]

Tolu u are stunning those men were intimidated and knew they can't handle this goddess

[@izeyodiase]

Love Tolu ❤

[@angesosamx]

If anyone deserves all the backlash is Dom and Harry

[@ashleed12]

“She’s giving, it’s giving ” but say it like a million times.

[@AmeliaBrown-co8ro]

loveeeeee sm

[@mimmimus6403]

Beauty standards are indoctrinated in our society. The most attractive thing is a human that understands this and as a result don't even have a superficial type but more so have a preference for a certain personality trait

[@JanzZone]

What’s wild is, to me, Tolu was and is the most beautiful lady to have graced that show

[@jordenwhitehead7724]

She should have 1m followers

[@carlinebarnes4953]

Corkscrew sent me to heaven. Not in a good way.

[@AfterCurfewPod]

🤣🤣

[@gladiceiglesias9885]

What month was Tolú born December or January? January capricorns are usually known to be super kind while December capricorns are headstrong. Just curious!

[@bigbrotherspoilers9756]

lol she said tolus name wrong at the end

[@cafewithexotiese2722]

Why is this interview only about Chris? let me see if topic changes as I go🙂🤔

[@reebeanify]

I la la loveeee Tolu

[@Sdority905]

Tolu is so beautiful! I loved her personality. She kept the show alive. I would have stopped watching if she had left.