Spilling The Perfect Match Tea w/ Tolú Ekundare

[@LG-zg8mw]

They casted the most boring people, no wonder they thought she was too much, because they were NOT enough!!! Justice for Tolú!!! .

[@juliannatrure]

Tolu was the only woman who knew her worth, and carried herself with class and FUN on the show. So much respect for this queen 🎉

[@mummytwinsj]

I agree with you 💯

[@nanettexg]

I think xanthi is on the same boat. Classy queens 🥳

[@Young4eva121]

And Xanthi and Alara too! Honestly I really wish all the ladies were treated better ❤

[@naabilariaj4207]

No because she took Chris back

[@lifestylemood]

🤨 She settled with Dom after he failed with Alara & then settled with Chris after basically several women told her he wasn't committed & he was trash

[@valentinanagy4008]

Everything that features Tolú gets a like

[@lindaa.o8605]

Tolu is such a QUEEN. Can @Rihanna please get her to model Savage Fenty? Gorgeousness and Class GALORE

[@phyrisehouman5114]

Oooh yeaaah

[@Jamie_Rosex0]

Ooooo yess!!!

[@Carollovessws]

yesss!!!!

[@seallover4565]

@Rihanna

[@seallover4565]

@Rihanna

[@anxhisenja]

She is beautiful but her personality makes the whole package supreme. She is such a bright girl

[@DaintyAbby]

No Tolu.. ur not crazy.. Netflix purposely casts black men that hates black women… its not ur fault

[@TennisBarbie119]

This is true. They don’t know how to find black men who like black women. And it’s a superficial dating show

[@Zzz3331]

Feel like y'all blaming the wrong thing. There's a bigger picture here.

[@silviamateevaloveintimacy6591]

Of course. The whole world spins only around making things bad for black women. The only agenda that exists in this world. Nothing else matters, for nobody. We all participate in a big conspiracy against black women, without exception.

[@midsectionmark8956]

Hates a strong word. I understand the frustration though. For someone who dates anyone he finds attractive despite the race, I do think that netflix just needs to bring on more bombshell black women that guys of any race would gravitate to more, to satisfy the fanbase. Other shows like too hot to handle had better luck forsure. On a side note in season 1 of Perfect Match we had Calvin, not bad looking dude preferred Black women, and look what happened to him. I mean let's not act like Black women are not desirable on these shows. The problem is that it's not a majority black cast. There's a handful of Black men and women. They all have a chance of getting picked or not getting picked. That's just reality tv and dating in general.

[@miekaxiii]

They pick the wrong men and women in my opinion, tolu is beautiful. I’m just saying women that are strong valued like tolu, jess and zanthi make theses men have to be better and they’re not ready to be better.. So they’ll go for the easier girls who are just as messy as them. Not to mention the fame is not good for young men while trying to be in a serious relationship. The entire thing is set for failure 😂

[@EmeraldArcherr]

child, i can't get enough of Tolu! Put her on EV-ER-RY-THING!

[@Lindy-nw9rd]

hearing tolu roast Chris into oblivion gave me LIFE 😂😂

[@SW-vn7ve]

She is everything! I know people are like she has no hair, men like hair, but she is strikingly beautiful without hair. With hair she is just another pretty girl with fake hair trying to fit into a mold. For the record, the men on the show just did not like darkskinned black women....hair or no hair. I hate she went through that.

[@RochellB46]

Men also like big fake butts so I hope she doesn’t change for a man

[@sshias278]

She’s really beautiful…I can’t even picture her with hair at this point..this is definitely her signature look

[@LG-zg8mw]

I agree, those men did not like anything else than white women, and both the show and some men tried to profit from Tolú’s likeness. They knew the viewers will love her and wanted to tag along.

[@Flourish_today]

​@@sshias278I think she wore wigs on TRUST. She looked different with wigs. This other short wig she wore made her look like an Egyption Godess.

[@Smiley-yk7vw]

I don’t like that you said she was a personality hire. That is what she says herself and I don’t think that was kind to say. You probably confirmed her negative thoughts without realizing it. She is a beautiful beautiful beautiful girl inside and out. I love her bubbly personality, her confidence. She lights every room she walks into (all the podcasts, interviews, every episode on perfect match)team Tolu all the way through and through ❤️

[@simbaladesignsinsights]

Yeah unreal! She’s in a league of her own of beauty and THEN a personality and spirit to match. People like Jess and are a dime a dozen. Not sorry.

[@Smiley-yk7vw]

@@simbaladesignsinsights ahhhh yesss!!! Jess too!!! She is gorgeous and people hate on her just because she is beauty and brains lol

[@EMILY_RACHEL_]

agreed

[@lizootie]

agreed!!!! that comment also didn’t sit right with me

[@Tam974eva]

I think she had good intentions but could've worded it better. Tolu is gorgeous inside and out.

[@mayaalexis9012]

I loveeee Tolu she was the realest and funniest girlie on the show and chris is a FOOL

[@TheMelmel18]

I love her bald head I think she’s sooo top model coded

[@catrinahartz944]

Yes!❤

[@Young4eva121]

How does this only have 500 views? WHAT? This is such a well-conducted interview and Tolú (or ✨TuhLoo✨ as Chris likes to say) is a beautiful soul! Ah!

[@AfterCurfewPod]

THANK YOU! 🤣🥰

[@svmto]

The algorithm is not in your side sis ..cause the production and interview is top tier

[@AfterCurfewPod]

@@svmto thank you! 🥰

[@en9665]

It just came out lol

[@RochellB46]

Because it’s not some plastic YT woman

[@irina1siren]

Tolu is so gorgeous. If some men don’t like her it’s bc she’s not the cookie cutter insta filter look. She’s naturally model beautiful not slutty hot. And yeah women will appreciate that ❤

[@SiiweulTVkhoumtedagane]

Honestly, I’m here because of Tolu 👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽❤🔥💐

[@NenaBabe]

Tolú’s energy is unmatched ✨ and that’s the tea 🫶

[@catrinahartz944]

And the ☕️ 😂

[@ninaenamorada079]

In the end, the prize wasn't a relationship with Chris (more of a punishment) or the vacation. The prize was Tolú, & the men lost out 😊❤

[@alannashea6344]

She is the absolute best thing Netflix ever gave us ❤

[@adorastarr5090]

Tolu, your outfits were my faveeee! Every time you were on camera I was likeee "OOOOHHH GURLLLL" You're such an icon and your light is infectious!

[@jenniferhatfield6640]

Such a fun convo style interview. Honestly I immediately watched The Trust after this and thought Tolu was the absolute perfect way to advertise better shows than The Perfect Match. I'd watch her just for the outfits. And I loved hearing her perspective on how you don't need a partner to match your energy just someone who appreciates you without expecting you to change.

[@AfterCurfewPod]

So happy you enjoyed it! 💞🫶

[@hailey8708]

i could genuinely listen to tolu speak forever

[@coder001]

Beauty is in the eyes of the beholder. The producers needed to get men who liked her look and personality or else get another woman.

[@trixsta54]

Totally agree 💯

[@Ireneshaban]

Tolu is gorgeous

[@you_are_welcome97]

I hope Tolue starts her own podcast or channel love her and I feel like her content game is on point

[@allisonborne8221]

“Those with a palette refined enough to appreciate the tea that is you, they’re the ones who will be in for a treat” loved this.

[@shellybelly6191]

I love her so much!! Tolu’s energy is literally EVERYTHING!!

[@closcrazy]

Tolu saved that season! The host is right she was THE personality.

[@BibasBlessingsBox]

She is the ONLY reason I watched after the dumpster fire that was the first season.

[@carinelaberge5352]

This woman gets it. A breath of fresh air. From another loud, unapologetic eccentric woman!

[@juliexjune]

the way tolu emphasizes things makes me crack up 😂❤

[@pamelahernandez4453]

Tolú you were a delight to watch, your outfits, your personality, every time you were on the screen I was like, dude shes so beautiful. Thanks for being so real

[@queenk838]

One thing about me is!!! I love me some Ms TOLU!!! She is definitely the most beautiful and inspiring person from the show that represents us black girls right!!!

[@mariahkamora6953]

Did anyone else peep at the end she called “talu”😭 my girl can’t catch a break 😭😭

[@spongebob468]

I thought she said it right

[@skybritnei]

Clocked it! 🙄 and it was goinggg so well before that lol

[@bjsiau]

Bro my mouth was hanging wide open!!!!! DIRECTLY after they talked about the correct pronunciation too!!! Unrealllllll

[@AprilT72]

Aww I thought Tolu was in on it with Chris. This fool is still running around getting clout from her because she was a fan favorite. Let's be for real if it weren't for Tolu noone would be talking about him, just like noone was talking about him after the show he was on.

[@lillianidahosa3266]

lol, I agree Tolu is the catch.... him not so much

[@nicolelittle6429]

Crazy that the best looking girl with the best personality wasn't the first choice.

[@AfterCurfewPod]

This

[@daniellanduati915]

I totally agree with Tolu on Stevan. I don't know how most people didn't pick up on his fake 'loyal good guy' vibe. As much as I appreciated they were the longest-surviving couple, he just seemed so disingenuous to me. That's why I think Christine and Nigel def deserved that win! The other couples were just so off.

[@theresapenner38]

I don't agree. They should not have won at all.

[@theresapenner38]

Stevan Alora were the best couple.

[@lovelylady2910]

@@theresapenner38Steven was just using alara, he never liked her

[@TheStinkified]

this made me love tolu even more from the show! such a smart genuine woman, love to see it

[@JennyVanessac]

I absolutely love her! She is stunning on the outside but her inside is even better and that’s the most important thing. She is a queen

[@A.monroe28]

Main character energy! I love that and I'm going to add that to my affirmations ❤️

[@hafsahtauseef391]

She really is a girls girl. I love her sm 💕🎀

[@seallover4565]

She's so true she said she didn't wanna be love bombed she just wanted a man who shows love. And she wants a man who communicates and wants their woman to shine. 😢 She's like me fr fr like we don't wanna be judged we wanna be listened to.😍❤️

[@fabimendes9512]

Tolu is a wonderful woman, I loved Tolu and Alara on the show xx

[@zencee7543]

Awkward when the interviewer says her name wrong right at the end of the interview. 😫

[@jene70811]

Like why did she do that 🤨

[@Perennial1997]

As she’s talking about her name being mispronounced.

[@zencee7543]

@@Perennial1997I know. 🤦🏾‍♀️

[@amandamoore6789]

Hahaha I just got to that part and was like YIKES and ran to the comments. The disrespect 😭

[@Duckduckobtusegoose]

Girl not you saying her name wrong at the end of the video😭😭😭 she deserves an apology after she just clarified it a bunch two seconds before that. You said it like tah-loo and not toe-loo

[@Alli_bossmama]

I thought the same 😂😑

[@jessicawalinski]

The interviewer is trying too hard to use Tolu’s slang and vibe. It’s cringe to watch. I watched her other videos where her voice is lower and not the preppy crackle voice.

[@itsmorganalexis]

girl stfu this is how she normally talks lol you’re just trying to stir the pot

[@bolu101]

It’s normal for an interviewer to try to match their guest energy, y’all need to chill out

[@Flourish_today]

I would rather women tell me i am beautiful and not men. Women know a womans beauty more than men.

[@justytem07]

What a beautiful woman! The way she talks the man she needs is amazing 👏👏👏 Really hope she finds her person soon ❤️

[@codewithmurial5944]

Tolu is gorgeous and all natural, don’t listen to the haters.

[@hurrjenkins4916]

Tolu!!!!! Great interview!!!!

[@Bookalicious1717]

This is such a good interview ❤ the energy here is so amazing

[@AfterCurfewPod]

🥰🥰🥰🥰

[@melody556286]

The fact that this video has less than 1k likes is crazy! I love tolu and i loved this episode. Such a vibe!

[@its_maya_hee]

I totally disagree. Tolú’s beauty is conventional and is for everyone, why can Doja Cat be bald and no one bats an eye, but a dark skin woman is bald and everyone gaslights her into believing her beauty is not attractive to men?? The only men that aren’t attracted to her are weirdos or have micro aggressions

[@TennisBarbie119]

Doja Cat looks crazy bald too. Looks way better with hair.

[@95luannaable]

Stop capping. I seen a lot of men saying Doja isn’t attractive anymore because she’s bald. But obviously we know black women and darker skinned women have it 10x harder.

[@Pushnotificationsalwaysoffbye]

Doja cat has been getting dragged since she shaved her head, she’s written about the feedback in several of her songs including some chart toppers, people have written essays and done video breakdowns on it, what are you talking about? lol

[@lifestylemood]

1. Doja is thicker men commonly like thicker women - Also are we going to act like Doja & Tolu do not have two completely different facial structures ? 2. You don't see people mad at Nia Long with short hair in the 90's because she is .. conventially attractive 3. Are we going to act blind & oblivious like back in school & the workplace there are not people we deem commonly attractive & not ? Women went crazy for Michael B Jordan because of his looks I don't see them do the same for Kevin Hart or Jay Z .. Stop this nonsense

[@CrystalM1917]

​@lifestylemood I think she is conventionally attractive. Tbh, her a doja have similar facial structures, and Doja has lost weight lately....maybe she undid her bbl. She may have a longer nose than Doja and fuller lips but other than that, similar Sharp features and bone structure. The biggest difference is she has kinky hair and is dark skinned. If that's not conventionally attractive than that's not something she can change or anyone who falls into that category.

[@tylargrant3441]

This interview was EVERYTHING 💕

[@AfterCurfewPod]

You are 🥰🫶

[@Barcelonabby11]

2 weeks and Jessica was saying I love you after two days lmfao 😂😂😂💀💀

[@alejandraromaniortiz6107]

I love her so much! She really is everything!

[@LG-zg8mw]

We ride at dawn for Tolú!

[@otherjackieo]

My favorite interview so far! We stan Tolu!!! 🎉🎉🎉🎉

[@AfterCurfewPod]

@@otherjackieo 🎙️🥰

[@trini_islandboi]

I just love Tolu!!!!!!

[@jaydedean7648]

Def a fav on both of the shows she was on she is an icon😍😍😍

[@karennnnnn17]

Tolu is real as fuck, love her energy 🫰🏼🫰🏼🫰🏼

[@jadetotherescue]

I really like your podcasting style! I’m interested to listen to you more! Subbed! Also Tolu’s energy from The Trust to Perfect Match and these interviews is so lovely! It really changed my opinion on her.

[@rinverno9]

i love the fool isn't even mentioned by the name :P

[@missabeerk]

HERE FOR THIS AND FOR TOLU 👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼

[@AfterCurfewPod]

@@missabeerk 🫶🫶

[@margaretgerrans4140]

She was the reason I watched Perfect Match. I saw her on The Trust and she made that show interesting.

[@tashafoxx17]

The motivational speech at the end 🙌🫶

[@m4cks165]

Tolu you inspire me to death girl you make me cry happy tears❤️🥺

[@elenamoreno7644]

I liked how she carried herself I just didn’t like how scripted she was. “It’s giving honey no” “baby I stay ready always” it was like watching someone try and be trendy 24/7. She did carry herself well tho as far as relationships went and knowing her worth

[@Perennial1997]

She literally called her “tuluuu” right after Tolu was talking about people mispronouncing her name 🤦🏻‍♀️

[@chelseanmars]

Tolu is too funny 😂😂 love herr

[@shellyree5708]

I wasn't sure of Tolu on The Trust, but after PM I'm a huge fan. She is 💯 Supreme!! Tolu is goals for every woman!!!

[@143Shayx]

This lady is queen

[@eauxkei702]

This interview is so relatable. I too am tired of these dusty streets!

[@jillianlenna]

Such a fun episode! 🎙️💞

[@katrinarositaa]

Love this episode ✨✨

[@StephanieLouise]

She's everything 💜

[@Lillytodd1]

Excellent advice!

[@kandeebaybee2492]

They could NEVER make me hate Tolu 😭❤️

[@mimmimus6403]

Beauty standards are indoctrinated in our society. The most attractive thing is a human that understands this and as a result don't even have a superficial type but more so have a preference for a certain personality trait

[@DaintyAbby]

Good job with this podcast!

[@AfterCurfewPod]

🥰

[@Kelz-u8r]

Tolu is a QUEEN!!!! Loads of love from India gurl ❤

[@lhollyrivera3408]

Tolu u are stunning those men were intimidated and knew they can't handle this goddess

[@sescalante7587]

I love my girl Tolú

[@cookeechoc8824]

Out of the Perfect Match bunch, Tolu was the most beautiful, sexy, warm, genuine, kind, fun.....❤️

[@Anduresta]

Tolu's charisma and commanding screen presence is for sure main character, but she makes viewers feel comfortable and at ease. She needs to host some sort of reality show or control her own show in some fashion. BTW I am not a female and I am not gay. This lady has a following of straight dudes who aren't grown man-childs.

[@slimgirls78]

Tolu, was completely unappreciated in every way, Dom especially seemed repulsed by her. It's sad to watch her being treated in such an awful way. There she was constantly forcing a smile, working ten times harder than everyone else, on and on, trying her best to conjure something up, while all the other women, sat back and chilled and where appreciated and treated with respect. When will BW understand that shows like Perfect Match are not designed to show BW (especially dark skinned BW) in a positive light. Come on, wake up and stop participating in shows like this. Participation is bad for your emotional and mental well-being.

[@fionagallagherapologist5968]

i love this interview 😭

[@AfterCurfewPod]

@@fionagallagherapologist5968 🥰

[@ashleed12]

“She’s giving, it’s giving ” but say it like a million times.

[@bigbrotherspoilers9756]

lol she said tolus name wrong at the end

[@JanzZone]

What’s wild is, to me, Tolu was and is the most beautiful lady to have graced that show

[@EllieMart92]

I loved this!!!!!!!!❤❤❤❤

[@bigbrotherspoilers9756]

tolu is a queen!

[@alyssamelody]

Tolú is the best 💖💞💖💞

[@Fazs1144]

Rare beauty requires a rare man. Its about quality not quantity

[@ShesGottaFastCar]

I loved Tolu on the show!! she is absolutely beautiful with A- one personality. None of those dudes were worthy of her time and beauty.

[@gladiceiglesias9885]

What month was Tolú born December or January? January capricorns are usually known to be super kind while December capricorns are headstrong. Just curious!

[@nattieconner1700]

Then you haven't met enough of January Capricorns😂

[@spottyem]

I love Tolu! I became a fan from the Trust but she was the ONLY reason I continued watching Perfect Match because the men were not worth the time. Beautiful woman, I can't wait till you find your equal

[@Baloney01]

Tolu needs to be on season 3!

[@dayna7401]

I hated Chris. In person it might be different but anyone could tell he was fake even from the first show he was on. Thought he was the shit when he clearly isn’t

[@srm0520]

I love Tolu and think she’s drop dead gorgeous and she was 💯 the best woman in the house, but…I’m a little confused by her trashing of Chris. I mean Chris was/is trash I’m not questioning that but her attitude w him on the show was not this. She came off looking like she was very into him and said multiple times that he made her feel beautiful. She cried saying that I think multiple times? So that was just to keep him matching w her and to keep her on the show? It seemed genuine to me..and this also seems genuine to me so 🤷🏽‍♀️ I’m confused. I’m not saying she can’t have come to her senses and realized things after the show but I dunno I guess I’d hope she’d be a tiny bit more vulnerable and say she had genuine feelings and was hurt (understandably) rather than act like she thought he was a tool the whole time and knew he wasn’t a catch.

[@aliceandappetizers]

I love Tolu so much

[@mqk1697]

Tolu, you are that girl!