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[@laurabXOTWOD]

Maybe it's just me, but personally I have zero desire for a man to stare at me with a lobotomy smile creepily plastered on his face while fiddling with my hair.

[@sibongilenatashamshibe9728]

Lobotomy smile😂😂😂

[@3.cstasy]

makes me scared when my bf looks at me too long, like nooo dont notice my smile lines and pimples pleaseee 😭 im always worried one day he’s gonna look at me and see everything i dont like and realize im not as pretty as he thinks i am

[@ruthierue]

@@3.cstasyNooooo trust me no one actually sees you how you see yourself. Its scientifically proven that our perception is skewed by several things ( Ik this bc i struggle so bad with self esteem so i researched it loll) The camera is the biggest culprit but even in real life/ mirrors. I’d bet money your absolutely gorgeous and just being overly critical of yourself

[@pocohantas1972]

nope its not just you....freaking creepy

[@niraxlevi9930]

No definite not just you, add me too 😂 and lobotomy smile ? Slay 😆

[@mwon1673]

we all know cooper made this video just as an excuse to recreate those videos with Sophia

[@whatisgoingonbffr]

LMAOO

[@jazzjam214]

and we're here for it

[@mwon1673]

@@jazzjam214 oh hell yeah we are

[@GetElevatedWithMe]

Oh that’s smooooooth 😂❤

[@garbage69353]

Are you tryna recreate the comments on the cringe video's deliberately? If so that's actually funny. Well done.

[@yelhsasokolova8561]

The "golden retriever boyfriend" captions make my mouth salivate the way it does when I'm about to throw up

[@KDiamond666]

Or when I’m dying of cringe 😬

[@opheliadays5803]

😂😂😂

[@urmomisinmybed2591]

this is the realest thing ever

[@analea6531]

You lost me in the first half but thank God I read the whole comment 😂😂😂

[@INawtLucy]

​@@analea6531 SAMEE 😭

[@frog_kid9184]

the way this isn't real relationship goals, is the same way mr beast isn't real generosity

[@sashaaaaaaaaaaaaa333]

Based

[@OluwatoyinHafsat]

Tell us then frog kid what "real generosity" is

[@Jorel-i1z]

let him cook🥶

[@BrynnFinnerty-s2s]

Fr!!

[@jazmyne3223]

3:00 I’m struggling to keep it together with you calling this grown man “ConBon” 😂😂😂

[@365partyghostface]

and his nickname could also be conbon lol

[@laurel__]

this has really gotta mess with the younger generations perception on what a genuine connection and relationship is going to look like for them. if youre older than 20 and buying this, praying for you.

[@NinaWTF]

If you're older than 16 **

[@lillimen]

I am 24 and have met many young 20 somethings that buy this shit

[@karenjackie6820]

Not the "praying for you" lol😂

[@hayleyz1703]

And we thought *Disney* movies gave us unrealistic ideas of love and relationships 😂

[@xhdgvdfh]

older then 13 tbh

[@Sp1ne_Ripp3r]

Sophia IS SO PRETTY!! And that recreation was kinda peak.

[@daenerys02]

They might be the most bi panic couple to exist *RESPECTFULLY OF THEIR RELATIONSHIP*

[@whims6278]

​@@daenerys02accurate

[@e.meakin102]

@@daenerys02I 100% agree! They are a gorgeous couple. RESPECTFULLY

[@ini-]

​@@daenerys02100% 😭 They stir something in my tummy

[@YOUAreTheSecretToLife]

YES!!!!!🩷🩷🩷🩷

[@imkelsiciara]

hii i’d like to add something more to consider (specifically for Nan/Connor). I can’t help but notice a lot of their comments/audience appears to be black women and it really makes me think about the content I used to engage with. It’s fairly rare to see black women, especially dark skinned black women, loved out loud in media - there aren’t many forms of media featuring healthy love with black women at the center. I think this has led to many of us clinging to the scraps we receive, even if it’s not healthy or realistic, because it validates our desire to be loved, valued, seen, and adored (the same desires anyone has!) I think about the content on KZbin I clung to as an adolescent that was CLEARLY scripted (and oftentimes unhealthy), but featured women who looked like me being valued and loved. And how comforting that was to me when the world tried to tell me the opposite. But then, I consider the unrealistic expectations this media perpetuated and how it shaped my ideas and perception of love as I grew up and engaged in relationships..I went from feeling unlovable to having expectations no individual could fulfill. I can’t help but wonder if that unfortunate cycle is repeating itself.

[@beef8]

This is such a valid perspective, thank you for sharing. I would've never thought of this otherwise

[@imkelsiciara]

@@beef8 ofc, thank you for listening 🫶🏽🫶🏽

[@JasminMiettunen]

I was thinking this is definitely geared towards insecure people who don’t really have positive experiences of feeling valued, getting love, positive attention, etc. Having been raised by absent or abusive parents, being bullied (especially for your looks), neurodivergence, having a mental illness, but race is a perspective I didn’t even think about.

[@sumayyahadetunmbi4347]

Oh, you really explained what the main issue is well

[@DFC3770]

THIS RIGHT HERE !!!

[@basementdwellercosplay]

If a guy was looking at me like that, I'd be worried he'd want to recreate a scene from Hannibal

[@tackycardia]

2:29 NEVER apologize for bringing Sofia in, we love Sofia 💎💖

[@DayanaraTorres-e8t]

It’s not like she’s disliked but sometimes feels like he’s a simp. Should stick to his usual content and not end up looking like these guys he’s making fun of

[@notevennero]

​@@DayanaraTorres-e8t GOD FORBID A MAN LOVES HIS GIRLFRIEND 💀💀💀 ?!?!

[@DayanaraTorres-e8t]

@@notevennero you sound like those people in the TikTok comments

[@tackycardia]

@@DayanaraTorres-e8t she’s literally his fiancée, grow up

[@chesiresays]

@@DayanaraTorres-e8t I can’t believe someone who uses the word “simp” unironically watches coops videos💀

[@mialost-kv3ts]

i think we need some new words for 'pick me' cause there are so many new variations and species...

[@regulusarcturusblack13]

"species" 😭😭😭 why is it so true though

[@paradisesomeday6630]

First we got the bringothergirlsdown pick me, I'malreadytakenbutjustincaseotherpeoplewantme pick me, Idon'twannadateIjustwannaleadyouon pick me, Iwouldtreatyousogoodbutgirlsjustaren'tintogoodguys pick me, etc etc. tbh idk if everything I listed is pick me, but I think they deserve the same level of hate💯🔥🔥

[@0FreakShow0]

​@paradisesomeday6630 I hate everything you like pick me, and the I switch my whole morals pick mes

[@emziwlol]

It’s sad that this is true..😭🙏

[@nony690]

@@paradisesomeday6630that last type already has a seperate name. they're called nice guys and it's typical for them to get angry when you reject them and they'll say things like "hey i'm a nice guy you know? i'd treat you so well and we'd have amazing s*x, i've already imagined it in my head so many times. but girls never fall for the good guys. ultimately it's your loss though. i never actually liked you in the first place. you seemed so fake to me and i am not interested in that. besides, you don't even look that good anyways. good luck finding another guy as good as me"

[@BuckyBarnesvs.MyDepression]

The fact that yours and Sophia's videos feel less scripted than theirs even though we see the process says a lot 😭

[@KDiamond666]

That part!!! 😭😭😭

[@bear9295]

I know it's unrelated but you don't have to put an apostrophe in 'yours'. Just like in hers, his.

[@x.em0_k1tty.x]

Real

[@Mystic_Paths]

Pick me boyfriends often strive for approval and attention, frequently emphasizing how they are "not like other guys." This can manifest as trying to impress their partner by putting down other men or acting overly sensitive

[@himikotoga8007]

1:21 LIGHTSKIN STARE!

[@mahneekaha.nightmare5220]

Huh?

[@Dee_Dee216]

I was looking for the right way to describe this look and you just nailed it😂

[@lexduhrex3026]

😂😂😂

[@mmuleserage550]

LOL HELP-

[@sagezh.art-zz]

LMAOOOOOOOOO

[@Finnishgirl_0]

Whats up weirdos, humanity has failed us!

[@D33D33_Online]

Yippee

[@SpiderWithTime]

Hooray

[@smolmagicalbean4681]

Wahoooo!!!!

[@sinestesianestesia9079]

Lmaooo so accurate

[@emyarenee]

Yayyy

[@AngelaMarie426]

You and your girls reenactments have me cacklinggggg😂💀

[@AngelaMarie426]

Also I thought people knew videos like this were fake.. LOL. Goes to show the internet is basically full of teenagers who don’t know better 😅 EDIT: people* when you’re over 30 everyone is a “teenager” it feels like

[@itsshaunte246]

I was squealing 🤣

[@Strawrbaby]

@@AngelaMarie426it’s not just teenagers lol

[@AngelaMarie426]

@@Strawrbaby you’re not wrong. People**

[@solus8685]

It's mostly middle aged moms who eat this stuff up 😭😭

[@zofiakwiatkowska4646]

Sofia's laugh at 3:30 is so real I love it😂

[@gregsandwich4061]

Ik they're so good together 🥰

[@KaylaWayla2]

No for reallll😂

[@meifennellysieu7510]

Her cackle is great. I wish folks were more comfortable belly-laughing; we all need the diaphragm exercise.

[@myahill4040]

Literally came to comment this lol

[@shelliyahboatright7280]

Nah fr thooo

[@mooooochelle]

As someone who actually struggles with self-confidence related to acne, the literal LAST thing I’d do is put a camera with flash right on my face and broadcast it to the world 💀

[@amarisd.5430]

THANK YOU. For addressing this🤦‍♀️ cuz I start tweaking when I read the comments under these videos and people act like it’s real

[@UserUsing-p6o]

What'd I'd give to see coopers take on the woman who vlogged a baby's funeral gifted the grieving mother a bottle of tequila and sexualized the dead child.

[@TaylorSilvers-sq9wo]

Wait whatt I need to know

[@ladyhexton3773]

Ohh yeah, that Tasha Paige thing

[@ladyhexton3773]

@@TaylorSilvers-sq9woyeah this Australian porn star went to a funeral for her acquaintances baby. She got drunk at the funeral, vlogged the whole thing on tik tok, LEANED AGAINST THE HEARSE TO MAKE A SPEECH, and said “I hope he gets pussy in heaven”

[@TaylorSilvers-sq9wo]

@@ladyhexton3773 I need more information.😭😭why did she say that and nothing else

[@snoopyluvr1111]

wtf??

[@lj0727]

Cooper you’re really giving people more credit than they deserve. Most people have zero self awareness lol they don’t realize how cringe a lot of things are.

[@realcreatyler9936]

But the worst is really the comments and people watching this 😭😭😭 I’m like what is wrong with the world, it’s so fake and painful

[@xiamariansupreme72]

Nah, I'm pretty sure they realize its corny AF, but they acknowledge that their desperate ass followers eats that content up, so they keep pumping it out.

[@belladonnnaxox]

​@realcreatyler9936 My little cousin came over the other day and her entire feed was all the cringe, weird, youtubers and tiktokers everyone wonders about! It's the kids and teens! The ones that grewup on the internet. That's who it's for.

[@AlissaSss23]

Narcissist. Or they don't care about the cringiness, as long as 40 millions of gullible people kiss their arses for a video

[@jessicab5448]

Jesus loves yall, and calls us to give our burdens and sins to him, so that we may be free from them. Declaring Jesus as your Lord and savior and having a relationship with him , by prayer, and reading the word the Bible, and repentance will save us. Salvation is a free gift, God bless 🙏🏾 ❤

[@dlwlrmaeve]

man every SINGLE time you brought sophia in i was absolutely blinded by her face card. she is so stunning

[@theesweetie23ca91]

I’m so glad someone is finally saying this, these videos are so embarrassing

[@DFERNANDEZ117]

Great timing Cooper, most of these behaviors exhibited by these individuals look possessive and or attention seeking and October is Domestic Violence Awareness Month.

[@hannahmyers8270]

Cooper has replaced my Cody Ko watches and they’re just so much better. Cooper scratches an itch that Cody never did

[@dashantaowens1701]

Same! First time I saw Cooper was his video about Cody.

[@hashtagmate]

@@dashantaowens1701omg welcome to the family new babies 🫶🏼

[@pasteluluu4089]

the adhd itch

[@ShoreFell]

I just realized that I’m doing the same and honestly, I haven’t looked back.

[@kazakukog]

:(

[@Duckryu]

3:12 he lowkey reminds me of those guys that are like “I wish I could take all the pain for you baby girl🥺🥺” when you’re on your period. Also SOPHIA IS SO PRETTYYY

[@h.r.9563]

Don't take my pain. Get me some chocolate and a back rub stat, ya loser. Lol

[@xfirewoman161x]

“who did this to you?” and “would you stop, for me?”

[@ryu246]

LMFAOOO

[@scoobyboo8837]

Stopp I like when they that. Makes me feel better 😂

[@tlh0121]

12:17 What girl actually genuinely wants their boyfriend to look at them like this? Because even if it’s not being filmed, it still feels performative, disingenuous (side note: as I started typing “dis” predictive text put up “disgusting” - which is also accurate) and corny.

[@jacksont9455]

@@tlh0121 it would make me SO uncomfortable if anybody stared at me like that, I don’t care if they’re my significant other or not

[@pogpurin]

Not gonna lie, it would piss me off if i was talking and my boyfriend looked at me like that lmfaoo Like what are you doing my guy???

[@maloryj7165]

Cooper saying "mind if I fkin spit in your mouth?" is so accurate lol. That's exactly what that look says.

[@JasminMiettunen]

I'd be like “I'm not in the mood right now”, because it feels weirdly sexual to me? I feel like that was the start of a different type of movie

[@imperfect3990]

3:30 The laugh here got me

[@Itunusosanya]

Literally what I was about to comment

[@daisy88ann]

Lol

[@dwaekkie_pump]

I giggle every time he sarcastically says "Conbon!" 😂

[@ZovaBe]

You have no idea how validating this video is for me. 99% of couple's channels are scripted and it blows me when I'm scrolling and scrolling and scrolling and not ONE, at least ONE person calls it out 😂 I seriously started thinking i was just a hater.

[@Rita-kx3yr]

They might be filtering comments mentioning how fake it is

[@Aleks-lr1cw]

Knowing how social media works, likely there are people who call it out - but they might have certain words which trigger so the comment doesn't get posted, like cringe or fake/scripted

[@ZovaBe]

@@Aleks-lr1cw oooh great point!

[@moonie28012]

Dated a dude like this who wanted me to use baby talk, it lasted like a month before it ended

[@EngeneZ19]

damn, sorry girl

[@L3sbian_J3llybean]

Baby talk makes me cringe so fucking hard. my friends used to use it and I just like stare at them and wait for them to stop

[@momoriing]

​@@L3sbian_J3llybean real

[@TrueImmortality]

So, studies have shown that any group of people who use an alternate, private form of language are actually forming closer bonds with one another. That's why so many couples, families, and friend groups use group-specific slang or baby talk with each other. It's a normal phenomenon amongst humans. But it is VERY cringe to see it played for attention on the internet.

[@kennamcg7977]

@@TrueImmortalityit’s also cringey that people literally use baby talk to communicate with me, a Deaf person. A grown adult and the minute some find out I can’t hear, they do the baby talk. As if that doesn’t make the whole situation worse to understand AND be a part of. Also if anyone is going to come at me with “you’re deaf. How do you know?” Exactly. I’m Deaf, but that doesn’t make me stupid. My eyes and brain still work.

[@BuckyBarnesvs.MyDepression]

I was just thinking, man I wish I had something to watch during lunch 💀💀💀

[@MrsAnnThropy]

love that he times his videos so well, i feel like he always uploads at lunch time and honestly that’s such a big brain move

[@kaitlyn7304]

saaame lol

[@arteguru25]

so glad it's coop for lunchtime watch and not that pdf file anymore

[@SpiderWithTime]

Coop always post at lunch for me 😋

[@MayaaR.G.]

Me too lol Cooper always knows

[@ksgnation]

1:46 I love my boyfriend so much but him doing this would actually annoy me a little 😂 why are you twirling my hair and staring at me when I’m trying to talk!!😂

[@spoop1948]

‘I know your ass read percy Jackson growing up’ called me TF out, do not dis my gng like that 😭

[@teasleymarie6528]

Right im sitting here percybjsckson tattoos, Percy wallpaper on my work desk top and was rewatching the show today 😭😭

[@elsabug6769]

Idk if anyone’s saying this but as a recovering obsessive shipper and fanfic reader, this kind of content is basically romantic, softcore 🌽 (but like, PG-13) for people🥲 I was caught by this stuff just earlier this year when I felt more lonely than usual. It’s definitely marketed towards lonely single people & it’s pretty disappointing lol. Thanks for the vid Cooper!✨

[@miraofalltrades]

NO THIS!!

[@silverdrag0n_]

i'm sorry, but how can you be a recovering shipper and fanfic reader?

[@shewho333]

I’m an elder person, and the look on his face right here is soooo not the lovey dovey thing people are seeing as. 1:08 I’m seeing something completely different. Maybe it’s just because it’s fake, or the number of abusive relationships I’ve been in, but it gives me “I’m going to strangle you if you don’t shut up” vibes.

[@fh6019]

I got the exact same vibe! It seemed really sketchy

[@Broza-hp7ue]

I thought all the comments were going to tell those women to run away. The information I get is that they don't respect their agency and will do wathever they want to you at any time.

[@joelleash8873]

I got a similar feeling, and I’m 23. You learn to spot these types when you have a relationship with some of them

[@snowandfrogs]

Yes, very dead in the eyes like they're tired of their bs act. And there's no way doing stuff like this doesn't take a toll on their relationship

[@JasminMiettunen]

Now that you mention it, the man constantly staring at the woman while she’s talking is giving “don’t slip up” vibes. Sure, tell the story, but if you say the wrong thing, he’s gonna pull your hair just a little stronger. On accident of course. “Then he got drunk and OW!”, “oh sorry honey, what were you saying? We had a glass of wine together, right?” situation.

[@RARITYLUVZ]

1:12 low-key this feels disingenuous as fck, like the way he’s twirling her hair seems like an act 😂

[@babyturkey8342]

100%!! It's the way he's looking at her and twirling. It doesn't seem like a man who's just playing with his girl's hair. It looks like an act for sure

[@kinghanaa1157]

his smile doesnt reach his eyes at ALL, not even a good act

[@cory.cat.]

High key

[@jenn8179]

​@@kinghanaa1157 FOR SURE! It's not even GOOD acting! Oof ... embarrassing 🫣

[@catchmybreak]

It is an act lol

[@magau3698]

“You didn’t even say I love me?” 5:28 lmao

[@ihavenoideawhatimdoingd5609]

I love the distinction cooper makes between his own life and his social platform life because today we see so many creators and fans have an unhealthy relationship of thinking that the person behind the screen is only there to entertain them and I feel like cooper always gives it a good healthy arms length love being a cooper fan❤

[@_evelynjoy_]

Ok, some of these things are lovely, in theory, and in privacy. But I do NOT want to see y’all doing this on the internet, hell even in person. ☠️☠️

[@immintyfresh]

exactly, keep that stuff in private. it's like we're in the oversharing era now

[@patlogin]

15:43 I love Sophia, she has no idea if your bit is done so she just 🧍‍♀

[@dalubuhlengwenya7188]

It’s so easy to break the fourth wall for yourself when watching these couple toks or most tiktokers in general when you remembered they set up a whole tripod for this video and snapped into performance mode when they pressed record, cringeeeeee

[@Mariam-do6jq]

I personally don't really care

[@sincerely.swift13]

@@Mariam-do6jqok.

[@sincerely.swift13]

Literally and they take multiple takes 😭

[@lunavurt]

@@Mariam-do6jqwhy are u here

[@Mariam-do6jq]

@@lunavurt just to give my opinion, I don't really care abt the couple faking for the camera and playing some characters fulfilling people's fantasy. I guess the major problem is thinking that this is real, but the comments Cooper read aren't necessarily proof that those people believe in it. He's the one cringing and projecting his bias onto others.

[@kittycatie9058]

dude you changed your bg setup in the videos... i just wanted to tell you that the first time i clicked on a video of yours was cause of that background wall that was so aesthetically pleasing, my mom and me had an full blown hours long discussion about how we're going to design such same wall when i get a place of my own. the paintings and the mirror placements and the plants omg it was sooo soooo beautiful. my mom thinks that was so awesome and send you love.

[@geminite_music]

Yup completely agree. Currently planning a wall in my house inspired by his previous bg

[@jordy_nn]

He's just at his gf's place, he still films at the other location LMAO

[@krystle1695]

I love your segment where you talk about people choosing youtube for media consumption over traditional streaming service platforms. I dont watch any streaming services aside from youtube and havent in years and it feels refreshing to get to pick and choose who i give my attention and time to in what feels like a more personal way. Thanks for what you do!

[@idrownkids]

also it puts so much weight on peoples relationships because some people WILL think this is real and how relationships are 24/7

[@jessicaowens3365]

Mentioned movies: In the mood for love La La land Asteroid city Don’t worry darling Fallen Angels Before sunrise Killers of the flower moon

[@maddiehudson8741]

You’re a real one thank you so much

[@onyx4623]

i love u sm omg

[@hafsatasnim22]

ill come back to this

[@allister6092]

Whats the movie/show he mentioned, too.. Like wancore something??

[@Fluff_Noodles]

​@@allister6092 He said watch Wong Kar-Wai, not a show but a famous director lol

[@GorqeousNenna]

This is how I feel about people that film themselves crying. How? I’ve tried. You know what happens? My tears dry up and maybe it makes me feel better because trying to record a lil silly video lmao All I can think about is that people are holding or setting up a camera to cry. What???

[@mxttitude]

yep!! it’s actually so insane to me.

[@JasminMiettunen]

I'm sure I could record myself having an absolute breakdown, I have mental health issues so tears don’t just dry up like that, but I would feel extremely weird posting it. Although, I can imagine if you have nobody to talk to or vent in real life, maybe you just need some human interaction, even if it’s online. Who knows, I might be posting crying videos if I didn’t have my friends, boyfriend and therapist.

[@CinnamonBunBunify]

I'll be honest that in times when I have absolutely no one to listen to me or there, I'll do what I call a video diary. I vent and pour my heart out in a video. In a way, I feel like someone is listening to me. It helps distract me, and I end up feeling better after the vent. It's kinda sad when explaining it or doing it, but it has and can help me so much. I just can't see myself posting it unless I truly felt so alone and wanted someone to care, even if it was a stranger online or trying to reach out for help somehow. I usually delete it after I feel better but I've also had some times I go back and it's kinda a way to show me how far I've come or what I was feeling in that moment. Makes me realize things can change and heal. In that moment, it feels like everything can end. So I feel proud of myself I got through it.

[@SpecialBlanket]

Iiii can comment on this as someone who has taken T and had different lacrymal gland behaviors! Some people (or hormone states) the tears easily just keep falling right out, and for some anything will dry that shit right up and kill it like yr grandma walking in kills yr boner. Also for me if I'm upset enough that I'm crying I'm kinda dissociating in and out so even getting a camera wouldn't be like emotionally "close enough" to me to distract me or interrupt anything if that makes sense?

[@yourfavperson3748]

I only understand it is when they are talking about certain problems like, sexism, racism, sexual assault and stuff like that

[@michaelk2025]

the camera change when Conner and Sophia are reenacting the first video is comedy gold.

[@taewae]

i swear people on tiktok think tiktokers have hidden cameras in their eyes to capture these "real" moments

[@monsieur_swiggleton]

how could youtube wait 8 entire seconds before recommending me this😞

[@laurel__]

great comment, really adds a lot to the comment section and gave me so much to think about

[@MarilynPrieng]

Bro hid it for 24 minutes 😔😔😡😭

[@killian2365]

Damn ur right. Before, i thought this was just a silly comment, but now i see its true value! So insightful . Thinkin about praying to this 🤨🙏@laurel__

[@Flowerrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrr]

34 mins 😭😭😭😭

[@lobsters12111]

​@@laurel__ Well it did well on a popular video this week so now every kid who saw it has to post it on every video they see. So funny.

[@MoonsShadows]

I have a golden retriever boyfriend and the best part of it is the privacy. Not out in public or being filmed for the reward, he just wants my own personal attention and it’s the sweetest. I mean, yeah I’ve shared that he’s a golden retriever, but ya’ll don’t get to be a witness. Also no baby talk

[@Alicia-Rene]

This is exactly it. My husband has this type of personality and the last thing he would want is his genuine affection for me plastered all over the internet for validation from strangers. He’s a sensitive, shy person who just wants to be with and around me, not to put on a show of wanting to be around me! I’m so glad you get to experience this kind of man too 🤍 and experience it for real, not the pretend TikTok version lol

[@MoonsShadows]

@@Alicia-Rene oh my gosh yes! That’s exactly what it’s like. Just them being able to spend time with the person they love is enough. Even if I try to take a sneaky photo because he’s cute and it’s just for me, he just wants me to stay in the moment. Ugh it makes my heart so happy to hear your husband is a beautiful soul x

[@Alicia-Rene]

@@MoonsShadows oh thank you :) I’m so happy yours is as well. It’s a rare and wonderful thing, truly!

[@SpecialBlanket]

I'm the "secret nice partner" in these stories. My behavior in private is totally different (I'm a woman btw, and I live at my worksite of mostly men so I have to keep some professionalism just running around most days).

[@hrosexo]

yes❤

[@sundeyknight]

While I agree with you for most of this, part of the issue that comes with Nan & Con is that they are farming a specific demographic (black ladies) for engagement. So because a lot of men (regardless of race) publicly disrespect black women, Nan & Con are using that negative history to get engagement and its benefits from that community. But 5 totally cringe and weird how staged everything is.

[@realcreatyler9936]

Yeah it is cringe but on the other side it gives little black girls the representation that they need, that they deserve this kind of love. I just scroll really quickly because I can’t 😭

[@gachathis4858]

Wouldn't that means with their perception of what about actual relationship looks like?? It would cause so many problems not to mention other races can connect regardless​@@realcreatyler9936

[@miraofalltrades]

I think this is probably why they’re the only couple who do this that I bought into. It’s just so nice seeing a black woman experience that and it’s nice seeing a man of colour behave in a way that’s not “macho” or whatever idk.

[@noemmemaarlijm]

3:34 "you're a grown man! YOU HAVE HAIR ON YOUR FACE!" ive been quoting this for weeks now

[@LearnwithN]

"he's not late for anything, he's about to reshoot this 3 more times and call it a shift" 😂😂😂😂😂 you kill me

[@puppylord4961]

im sorry cooper i could NOT finish this video bc of the amount of cringe at 10:30 ill catch you on the next one😭

[@sillyboyglueburt]

HELP SROP

[@lilkeyla5769]

damn that bad? im at 10:09, i'll have to see 😭 oh my god it is that bad i HATE IT

[@Lav_Pixie2007]

Yeah I'm tapping out lmao bye weirdos

[@Justchillinr]

SAME I ALMOST THREW UP MY PIZZA

[@puppylord4961]

@@lilkeyla5769 I'm sorry, we both need therapy now 🥲🫶🏾

[@sagetheplantboi8612]

As Kendrick Lamar said, “some shit just cringeworthy, it ain’t even gotta be deep I guess”

[@abigailshaw5753]

it really is comforting to realize that tiktok couples are planning out what we see and that irl relationships are not going to look like a scripted, edited video 100% of the time

[@Ander83534]

It took this video for you to realize that?

[@xiamariansupreme72]

@@Ander83534 No, they're saying they like that some content creators are clocking these obviously fake couples videos, cause many other content creators defend these weirdos by claiming its all real and how we're just jealous and whatnot.

[@Ander83534]

@@xiamariansupreme72 that's completely different from what they said but sure

[@carterzealand5423]

thank you ohhhh my fucking god it never ceases to amaze me how it seems like NOBODY can tell they’re obviously acting like??? 😭😭

[@emziwlol]

the recreations made this video 10x better 😭❤

[@catherinethecatlike]

5:29 “you didn’t even say I love me??!” 🤣

[@yourfavperson3748]

WHY IS NO ONE TALKING ABOUT THAT

[@xoxoprncss]

LOL

[@lovelymill]

HOW DIDN'T THEY NOTICEEEEEE IM CRACKING

[@ll1444cat]

THIS THREW ME

[@missdenisebee]

I didn’t know this genre of influencers even existed 4:21 minutes ago, and I was HAPPY living in that timeline😭😭😭 I can not & will not allow myself to believe people are actually eating this up for real. It’s all a performance. It’s like NoSleep, “everything is true even when it isn’t”. Omg.

[@RileyTA846]

In that timeline 💀💀 same bruh

[@trashgremllin]

I really liked hearing you talk about how media is becoming performative, and how the real art isn't the default anymore. I also just put asteroid city and lalaland on my imdb watchlist!!

[@asteriaishrat4403]

Finally someone said it! Its them setting up a camera, act like its candid and overreaction are the problem! Either film a true candid, or film intentionally and dont overreact! Moreover, when the audience don’t acknowledge these as acting or performative, it creates unrealistic expectations in their mind!

[@shiburu]

Imo people love romance, that's why romance genres of books, comics and movies are so popular. But the problem is as you said with these tiktoks it's extremely manufactured and there's no longer that mental barrier of "what I am watching or reading is fictional and crafted to tell a story". The intention could be there from the tiktokers, but it's blurring that line since majority of the time peope consume social media with the general idea that it's genuine. That can be very dangerous for people who are not very social media literate and give people bad perceptions on what a real relationship is :(

[@nightmareunleash3402]

Man. I was eating and having this on in the background and all i hear is 13:48 “mind if i spit in your mouth” and now my appetite is gone. Left the building. Thanks cooper😭

[@Bvnny_Gvts]

I think we should starts hiring these pick me couples to be babysitters for children who’s parents are going through a divorce cause we all they they would do way better of a job pretending to be in a loving relationship than their parents 😭

[@dontmindme.4220]

Great idea. My baby never met his dad. On the other hand: NAH I'd rather burn in this hellfire of Cooper's backframe than introduce any of these psychos to my kiddo. I hate inauthentic people.

[@realcreatyler9936]

Lmaoooooo this comment should have waaaay more likes

[@eugeniaceselli4069]

This kind of content really fucks with people’s heads, sometimes if I’m feeling sad and maybe I had I fight with my boyfriend I fall into it. It’s just a performance to grab attention and cause envy, but it’s envy for a fake thing so it doesn’t even make sense.

[@-.Echo.-]

cooper, i watch on laptop w/ netflix, crunchyroll, dropout, spotify, hulu, disney, and peacock on it, but I watch you every time you upload. you're my favorite tv show lmao

[@seallover4565]

9:03 "Stawwp🥺🤭✨️" Sophia's so funny i can't

[@zymph0ny]

yep I watch your content on my TV while I'm doing laundry or eating by myself. It's really comforting and makes my home less lonely. It feels like my friend is here and talking about what is grinding his gears lately!

[@peacefully_dead]

Bruh pick me boyfriends are so annoying and pick me’s in general

[@myra-yves]

fire is hot, ice is cold…

[@kaitastrophic8]

i think the worst ones are when it’s a about something depressing/ the girl is depressed about something and they film each other cuddling with him comforting her it’s so odd and takes away the authenticity of the relationship and that moment of being comforted by your partner

[@ToriCunningham-u3w]

25:16 i’ve watched lala land 4 times and i’ve become a different person each time

[@fandomlove6607]

Love how he had to pull in Sophia to reenact the video, and her scream was so hilarious, she was giving the best reactions lol. Also my gods is she gorgeous, I'm loving her makeup.❤

[@klymothe]

13:14 i bet there are comments like "you summoned booktok" 😭

[@pinkcatz00]

Frrr😭😭

[@TweSunshine]

Whats that?

[@pineapple9476]

@@TweSunshineplease, for the mother of god, keep it that way. to explain it vaguely, it’s a tiktok community that reads VERY and ONLY suggestive books; stay out of it as much as you can 🙏

[@Goblinkatie]

What’s seriously messed up about this is that kids are watching it and it’s subconsciously forming their expectations of what romantic relationships should be like.

[@myranbelle7438]

The thumbnail is giving D'angelo with the painting frame. Film Cooper you aren't slick i'm onto youuuuuuu

[@grace-cv6zi]

the line “second hand smoke of romance” goes unbelievably hard. also when u started getting all film bro i was just waiting for u the talk abt la la land and with 40 seconds left in the video u did not disappoint when u yelled la la land

[@Ditzybaby]

Also omg dude!!! Sophia is sooo freaking gorgeous and your vibes together are so entertaining!! Y’all’s acting had me dying, her facial expressions were everything 😂😂

[@that_bisexual_nerd7567]

Sofia’s hair length is such GOALS. I’ve been growing at my hair for almost 2 years now and I wish it was that long😭😭

[@eliz-eia]

15:00 if im talking with my hands and my boyfriend awkwardly grabbed one of my hands with both of his i would be looking at him funny idk if thats just me or what

[@joelleash8873]

Yeah I would honestly forget what I was talking about

[@JasminMiettunen]

I'd be a little… Idk, insulted? Are you trying to tell me to express myself less? Am I being too loud? Too animated? Too hyper? I would definitely get self conscious if I was just talking like normal. If I'm nervous in a situation and talking too much, my boyfriend would probably do this to calm me down if he realises I'm anxious, that’s the only time I'd understand this. If my hand was just on the table and he held my hand, that’s completely different, but grabbing it from the air when you are talking and using your hands is weird!

[@SpecialBlanket]

My partner has done this, I'm just like okay okayyyy. Will also sometimes start kissing my hand with other people there!!! We're 35 and 40 it's super embarrassing but it's not like making out with it, idk if I'm overreacting bc I both have a middle eastern dad AND mostly lesbian so I grew up getting in trouble or overreacted to for the mildest PDA, and think everything is this crazy PDA. Like I got pulled out of a test and called to the vice principal's office in high school because a homophobic kid had told their parent they saw me sit on my gf's lap allegedly and the parent CALLED THE PRINCIPAL. We were SENIORS and other kids would straight be making out practically grinding in the commons and I supposedly sat on my gf's lap which I definitely never did bc I'm so shy about that shit. Anyway bc of this I get embarrassed about even like sitting too close to my own partner in public like if the couch is kinda small.

[@henapple1461]

sophia is so gorgeous

[@Kiisara18]

Just gotta tell you Cooper - that necklace looks fantastic with that sweater, and it all compliments your hair really well!! My husband has the same hair color as you and I can’t wait to find a sweater like that for him now lol

[@SuperChocolatejuice]

The "I'll punch you in the jaw" is so real tho. There's really women out here like that. I used to be one of them but then I realized that it will push a man away. We gotta heal from the trauma ladies. Because good men need to feel that reciprocation of affection and love rather than animosity and violence.

[@diverre3374]

THANK YOU for talking about this these videos are such a pet peeve of mine

[@daniquedecloedt4895]

2 of my friends used to do this on their instagram. One of them cheated 🤡

[@shellymadriana1978]

🤣🤣 girl that is so crazy

[@scotthearts9634]

😂🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

[@Raine-eats-dirt]

3:51 this is hopeless core

[@CaritheEntertainer]

Lmaooooooo I feel like I've been personally accosted watching this videos. You owe me emotional compensation 😭😭😭

[@ZyeeiWithAnApostrophee]

Cooper bringing Sophia in every few minutes to recreate the TikToks is killing me😂

[@babyturkey8342]

Omg you and Sophia reenacting the cringe 😂

[@babycakes4288]

Literally, I have not watched Hulu or Netflix or anything and probably about four months. I’ve just been watching KZbin on TV so we appreciate you for providing me and the content. I always tell my friends like people don’t realize KZbin is like a whole Nother world with all these Sub worlds and Sub genres that you can get into there’s a place for everyone on KZbin I think as long as you’re being appropriate. I love watching TV and I’m literally commenting on my phone while I watch. 😂❤

[@Alicia-Rene]

Yes! I use KZbin exclusively for media content now and I hate that I can’t talk about all the little worlds I’m part of with other people lol. I forget not everyone uses it like I do!

[@babycakes4288]

@@Alicia-Rene same here! i’ll like get all excited cause i see someone posted a new video and while everyone is like watching all these normal shows but honestly i am so grateful my phone connects to my tv cause i lost my remote 2 years ago lmao but i always just connected whatever app im watching to my tv thru my phone so another win! 🤷‍♀️😂

[@Alicia-Rene]

@@babycakes4288 haha yes!! I’m sure my remote is around somewhere but I only use my phone 😂

[@tracimoyer]

i will literally watch like, anime’s on youtube in multiple parts instead of paying a streaming service or trying to find a pirating site that doesn’t have porn ads

[@babycakes4288]

@@tracimoyer can I get an amen lol 😂

[@LexRex1800]

Early bird gang, go crazy rn. Also, can we go back to when relationships were lowkey, and only the most important ppl in our lives knew our business?

[@SuzanneEvans99]

Watching this on my TV commenting on my phone and will definitely watch Asteroid City and La la land because your movie recommendations are usually spot on, thanks Cooper!

[@connollygedge924]

yk what ive realised😭 i cant eat without wanting to watch film cooper like its a HABIT its bad but like im not complaining 🤷🏻‍♀️

[@7reasonsssssss]

SAME 😭😂

[@aubsthegreat]

We need a “cooper and Sophia recreate cringey couple tiktoks” series PLEASE

[@bslavin3437]

14:50 “again not saying there’s anything wrong with this I just hate it and I think the world’s going to explode because of it “ 😂 got me rolling Love your content cooper!!!

[@bluey.and.bingo.156]

Hi cooper! We all scream in unison

[@cosmodusty]

HI COOPER

[@cookiezofdoom]

HI COOPER

[@Justatherian35]

HI COOPER

[@urf4v_brvnette]

💗HI COOPER💗

[@Lialion.]

HI COOPER

[@Ladybird91]

Thank you for such a well reasoned, unbiased vid, as always. Thanks for the hard work!

[@MsSimaholic]

I think the reason why this kind of content is popular is similar if not the same as why family channels are so popular. They are selling a fantasy to people with broken homes or relationships or people who aren't happy in their current relationships.

[@kimilynP]

the fact that it's not professional is what makes aspirational tiktok content so attractive. the creators feel closer to the average viewer* which makes these scenarios feel more possible for the average viewer. (*the average viewers being insecure teenage girls)