The Power of Maintaining Your Cool with Beautiful Women

[@FWReacts]

This is definitely what separates you. Men have that primal instinct to forget who they are when that pretty girl come around. We all had those friends in school where the pretty girl comes around and the friend switch up on you for her attention 😂😂

[@WiiMan3121]

This reminds me of the movie up where the dog that talks with his collar screams out squirrel when he senses one in the middle of a conversation with the old man and the little boy.

[@eltonreynolds1310]

Very true

[@jeviasgodasmywitness6753]

Shit was mad cringey 😂

[@jacquesc4979]

Facts

[@banderas2000]

shit even at some work places to lol. i'm like dude fr. LOL

[@dayvonnedawkins580]

Yo Rom, some times I just have to tell myself “She’s just a human being like myself” nothing more nothing less.

[@RomWills]

💯

[@igbokwenu4934]

P!$$!es, $h!ts and Farts just like everyone else. 😂

[@MrAgsalud]

they eat, drink, burp, defecate, urinate, menstruate, have bad breath and body odor. so, don't look at them for more than what they are - human. if you relax, they'll relax. just be chill and take your time...

[@jackiechun5817]

If you've ever shared or cleaned a bathroom behind one...👀👀👀👀oh you definitely KNOW the headlocks and bodyslams they'll do to a toilet seat frfr🤣🤣🤣🤣🥲💯💯💯💯🧔🏾‍♂️

[@RomWills]

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[@ellisjackson3355]

​@@jackiechun5817 lol. A couple months ago on Pearl's show, Melanie King was going on and on about how her dad would yell at her if the bathroom still stunk after she used it

[@darlingtonobi3324]

Thank you for this comment I tell myself this time to time.

[@aryiascolbert8487]

@@jackiechun5817😂😂😂😂😂

[@baileyedward774]

The foundation of #THE GAME OF LIFE is (1) self-awareness,(2) self-reflection, and self-control.

[@shawnwilliams2381]

As a male model after awhile you get used to being around beautiful women. Alot ot the female models i know are insecure deep down. All women are insecure, but the prettier they are the more insecure they are. Great topic

[@RomWills]

I've seen the ladies in your IG photo shoots. You can definitely speak with authority on this topic.

[@ellisjackson3355]

Do they only become insecure around men they are attracted to?

[@sage_e_sage]

@@ellisjackson3355it simply amplifies but the insecurities are always there

[@felixperalta5154]

can you give some of their insecuritues, tks

[@ellisjackson3355]

@@sage_e_sage then they must be the masters of faking it till they make it because they sure act like they've never been insecure about anything for their entire lives

[@sniper11n.d.34]

Be you. Guys that try to hard and not realizing it are the worst. Calm from the inside but aware from the outside.

[@banderas2000]

They don't see a man being his honest self around them much. They aren't use to it. And when they come across it they may test at first but will open up fast or be more receptive, warm to to because your different than the rest. Always cool to see that.

[@GameOverDeath]

On one hand. Its like. Im more myself around 5s. On the other hand when a women so beautiful it can actually bring out the boldness. Depending on where Im consciously at.

[@cinquewilliams7161]

In my dealings with women I noticed just being cool, calm collected with a chill demeanor and let's not forget about the infamous "EYE CONTACT GAME" ( not in a weird way though lol) helps alot of times. It even make them a little nervous, but in a good nervous way. On the cool, even dealing with some those masculine women they even will tune that s#it down. That's just my dealings though.

[@MT-ip9rs]

Just had an interesting talk with my barber and he confirmed everything Rom has said about the shadow world

[@RomWills]

Thanks for doing your own research.

[@MT-ip9rs]

@@RomWills thank you for spreading awareness. Hearing it from someone I know really hammered it in

[@rellconnects4695]

Gotta Be Cool, calm, comfortable like a breeze

[@no_more_nyce_guy]

Many times men miss out because of timing also. It might be their day and they talk themselves out of the situation

[@ajtaylor8750]

Rom, you've always been one of the most transparent and honest guys on this platform when it comes to dating dynamic because you're not afraid to admit the losses you've faced and don't pretend as if you're always getting baddies. Most "dating coaches" pretend as if they only get dimes and have never struck out with women, so it's refreshing to hear someone be real about their ups and downs in dating. Now, for the topic at hand I literally seen this yesterday at work with one of my coworkers who definitely fits what you described: he's a player but he ain't pulling true dime pieces, and he can smooth talk the pants off an average looking woman but when a drop dead gorgeous woman came into the job he could barely contain himself.

[@garthyahudahandrews8504]

Semen retention and quitting porn helped me tremendously with this but i still get that slight anxiety but now i view it differently and just see at my body is excited and i dont judge myself too much

[@adghat7819]

How did you do that? Can you tell some tips.

[@kennethyoung4892]

Most of these women are really cool if you just have a regular conversation with them.

[@RomWills]

Real talk.

[@Lifeisgood11_]

This really works lol this one girl gave up the pvssy cause I didn’t ask for it and I was just being cool as shit 🤣

[@dirtyworld1984]

One of the keys fellas Don't get excited

[@WiiMan3121]

Old school cartoons kind of imitate this kind of aspect of this topic. You see the characters minding their own business, and as soon as a curvaceous woman hits the scene with a jazzy motif they stop being himself with their eyes, bugging out and panting, like a dog. Wolf whistling. That’s exactly how guys act in real life when a beautiful woman shows up.

[@ellisjackson3355]

Good point lol. The cartoons were based off what we see in real life

[@WiiMan3121]

@@ellisjackson3355 examples, being red hot Ridinghood shorts from MGM and Jessica rabbit from who framed Roger rabbit come to mind

[@AyeYoZay]

I got a couple of beautiful women at my job, one works in my department. 2 are both married. And one that works with the married ones now knows me because of her. Theres more, but collectively all of them have chose and continue to choose up even though I leave em alone especially the ones that are married. All of them young too the oldest is a beautiful sista, professional type. It’s crazy how much playing it cool opens the flood gates. I caught myself chopping it up with 4 of the ladies the other day and the only thought on my head was damnit I’m tryna go on my lunch lol. Looked up and all of em just smiling, the one who is married was checking out the sista, anotha was in the back like scheming. I could see the roles/competitiveness at play even though leaving the building was still first on my mind. Felt a lil weird so I got outta there😂

[@jackiechun5817]

@Isaiah Hardy prepare yourself for the games and the attempts at "making it happen". You're about to get ALOT of requests for "lunch dates", "what time you getting off...oh I'm getting off that time too(while smiling at you)", and DEFINITELY they'll start (accidentally 😒) touching/brushing up on you for the LEAST little reason. Good luck... you're gonna need it🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣💯💯💯🧔🏾‍♂️

[@AyeYoZay]

@@jackiechun5817 yea, the one that works with me is already on that. Fortunately there’s no cameras over where I work…it’s been a weird couple of weeks.

[@coreymoorer669]

I'm definitely working on this. I can't understand psychologically why I'm more uncomfortable around someone I'm more attracted to vs an average or below average woman. You'd think it would be the other way around based off of attraction. Lol.

[@schophi]

Because you really want it to work out in your favor with someone you're really attracted to. The more attracted you are, the more you want it, the more you are afraid to blow it.

[@andreharris144]

@@schophi exactly leading to putting yourself on a leash and castrating yourself

[@BC-pl3df]

Yeah, if you can do this you have reached another level of confidence. The type of woman you described is exactly the type of woman I like and is attracted to me. Most aren’t capable or interested in going deep on these subjects. I know for a fact that’s uncommon and even a dime piece version of my type will recognize that cannot be easily gotten or replaced. I know this and operate with this with everybody. Only takes a few minutes to display this attribute so they know I know keeping it cool. When it comes to the mind, I am the dime piece.

[@Blvkkise]

Spot on game 💯 dont be so much in your head thinking of what to say or how to act..keep it organic in the conversation and if there's a vibe well then u got action

[@frezsh1]

Uncle Rom I tried to friend you FB it wouldn’t let me smh. Another dope in depth video love it early morning game content

[@jordiedmond5744]

I saw you thinking about that sexy argentinian woman what I see you both got some history together... it made me laugh you need something to share right there 😂

[@seekstruth]

THANK YOU OG FOR THE FREE GAME / ADVICE I HOPE A LOT OF YOUNG MEN SEE THIS

[@hakeemalexander2534]

Rom with the smooth walkout entrance 😂💪🏾

[@Aquil84]

Mr. Rom that was me in college placing women on a pedestal. I had a bad Eritrean woman who was on my heels and I screwed it up playing ignoring her. When I say bad I mean top 3 prettiest women I've ever seen.

[@Ajay.427]

Another one loved marvel, xbox and dc movies.

[@keem7910]

Facts I was chilling with this IG model and for days she wonder why I wasn’t press to smash. I told her “ I’m used to being around a women, so I’m chilling enjoying my time” she was thrown off and on me even more” Nevertheless I’m focus on my mission now at 28, no kids so females not really a priority ATP

[@tyree9834]

Rom i was walk in park yesterday minded my business listening to music beautiful fine lady walk pass me then she say what wrong my leg I thought in my head there wrong with my leg so maybe she been checking me out. Because every time I see her we say good morning

[@marleyxl8959]

Thanks!

[@RomWills]

Thanks for your support.

[@schophi]

Thanks Unc 🙏

[@victorscott7982]

When beautiful women come around, these cats get all hot n bothered! 😂

[@Han-uc6hq]

What is the outro song?

[@RomWills]

Check the credits.

[@DineroDaOne]

It’s really that easy 🫡

[@rxtexas5708]

Whats that intro you use caled Rom? Also wanted to say thank you for all you do, youre helping the youth in many ways and you dont even have to but you choose to 💯🫡

[@RomWills]

It's All About Love by Stanley "Mellif" Lewis.