The Power of Silence

[@drpaulacperez]

Lord, teach me to be silent. Help me know when to talk and when to listen!

[@donnadequire-rios3531]

Straight up. Same

[@angelahall7147]

Oh my goodness...I say this too much because I know I talk too much and I need help to cut it short. 😊

[@angelahall7147]

Thank you so much for this conversation...I literally need this SO MUCH...thank you, thank you ❤

[@withlovebyads]

This is a great prayer! I come into agreement with that for you and for me ❤🙏🏾

[@Hope-zt6ug]

Amen 🙏

[@shalesiamattews2981]

Hi chrystal thanks for sharing this honest advice I found your wisdom so inspirational. I Learned to move in silence and the result of my actions speaks for me, am happy i adopted this lifestyle and started to reinventing myself a year ago, I’m now living healthier, confident, stronger, making 6 figures, having leisure to enjoy family &friends. I feel happier and living my life for myself . This is to encourage someone “you can start anytime to have a reset it’s worth it! I’m striving to continue growing cus it’s a journey❤

[@marcosalvatore673]

Congratulations ma'am! Thanks for encouraging others with your story, I will love to get tips from you too

[@shalesiamattews2981]

Change your mindset, read self-help books, expand knowledge, budget and don't spend on impulse, save, take your finances seriously, eat healthy, exercise your body, meditate; the list goes on... I hope it is useful to you.

[@maxdmitry1912]

How did you grow to 6 Figure ? I’m honestly trying to work on my personal finance this year.

[@gerainduany5710]

Congratulations ma'am that's a great accomplishment keep it going 👍

[@shalesiamattews2981]

@maxdmitry1912 I learnt to be frugal, minimal on spending, saving and paying myself first through Investing, made Plans, growing passive income, Read a lot of books on finance, followed my plan consistently.

[@ms.mondie8913]

After watching this a second time, I decided to implement some of your strategies in my community today. And my God, it worked. I closed my mouth and allowed Holy Spirit to inform me what question to present when it was time. To my surprise, there were people in my congregation that were participating in the discussion who usually stay quiet. Because of this, we were able to address some of the fears they had. I will be trying this at work tomorrow. But I needed to circle back to you and say THANK YOU.❤

[@ChrystalHurst]

This is great!!

[@Naiaworship]

Thank you. My marriage is on the rocks, but we're meeting on Sunday. I will ask intentional questions and listen, instead of making demands or assigning blame. So once again, thank you.

[@shirleybrewer4210]

Chrystal,my grandma told me,a still tongue toasts a wise head.i agree to be silent, it's a better view of your self.

[@dorisvaldry2920]

Crystal, we've been taught to speak up so much, to name it and claim it, but this art of being silent is life changing. You are wise beyond your years. Thanks!!!

[@KMacheIsADiva]

Information overload problem…yes! Get quiet-that part! Ask the right questions-AMEN! Thank you so much!

[@crystaldavis-sd8us]

Yes silence is a Kingdom Super Power!!

[@Psalm5110]

I had to come back and say thank you an hour and a half after I watched your Video, I got a call from my oldest daughter she was sharing some very important information and not once did I want to interrupt, or need to interrupt I just listened, and spoke very little Thank you! you were there with me your words of wisdom great reminders and new information along with your calm and kind self 😊 Thank you Again Thank you Jesus 🙏🏼❤️🙏🏼

[@ChrystalHurst]

I love this!

[@motolani.0924]

Thank you Chrystal. You just opened my eyes because I never thought this was a problem until now. I feel others are too slow to think out a solution, so I practically think for them. Now I know better and will be intentional in building a silent culture🎉❤

[@Look6945]

“…the room to echo what they said.” That’s powerful!

[@miahuskisson5888]

Thank you for this word. My husband has explained this in the middle of a “spirited discussion “. I dismissed it then but I hear you now. Lord shut my mouth and open my ears!🙌🏽

[@deborahmay8408]

After listening to this episode, I realize the importance of being silent in so many areas: relationships with my husband and my adult sons as well as others I come in contact with. I also realize that I may have actually hindered others from growing by not being silent and answering and providing the solution upfront. I plan to apply the "being silent" strategy.

[@AnnEvelyn7]

This has perfect timing for me. I hadn’t been listening to your podcasts and today I am. Just had a leadership training at my church - tables leads for our Women’s Bible study. We discussed silence. I don’t have a problem being silent for a lady to stop, think and process a question about the study. It’s the timing of that silence knowing when I have to move on due to time constraints. I know for me outside of being a table lead, I need silence in my personal life…to listen to others and listen to God. I sometimes wonder if He can’t answer my prayers because I am talking too much for him to respond!

[@robingray9519]

This was so powerful. I started listening earlier but had to leave. I was tested and immediately I went into silence and the individual played back what they said and boom 💥 victory was won without confrontation. Thank you woman of God🙏♥️🦋

[@lorannpoor7444]

What a great video!! I learned alot..thank you for sharing your wisdom❤

[@JessNell8]

Wow...im speechless...I would get uncomfortable with silence in study groups...so I would jump in....not because I wanted to be right or talk so much...I felt maybe nobody had anything to say...😢I willnot fill the silence...I will do and be better...now I know better...this was such a blessing and on time.🤗💛

[@lornamclaren1471]

Good morning Chrystal Thank you 🙏🏾 and it was nice seeing you in person at the “Desperate for Jesus Conference “. This was my very first time attending. It is life changing. Thank you

[@ChrystalHurst]

I'm so glad you were able to join us!

[@christinep.4238]

I was LISTENING to your every word ....especially when you said "when you're not silent, you're not listening".... you risk people disengaging, risk them becoming frustrated, risk losing trust & confidence, etc..... words I have notated :)

[@cordeliakimble2586]

Thanks for this word!!! Being silent is a struggle for me when it comes to marriage but you put it perspective for me ❤️

[@shakiramcgee2023]

I needed to hear this tonight. (Confirmation) I broke down in tears a couple of days ago because God showed me during a conversation with my son that I don’t allow other people to pour into me. That hit deep🥲 It was the first time that I felt like I let my son pour into me by asking him a question and being quiet allowing him to speak. Not just hearing him but actually listening. All this time I thought I always pour into others & they leave my cup empty but no it was because I don’t allow them to pour into me. Lord I thank you🙌🏽 All I could do was cry & hug my son while telling him how much I thank him ❤️

[@bridgeegibson2790]

Watched this twice..took notes the second time. As a teacher and small group leader I really struggle with talking too much and getting so excited that I tell all the answers, and don’t give enough space to others who are also capable. This is a word in season for me. The Lord had already said to me “There is power in the pause “. This is part 2. I will be asking my small group to help me and keep me accountable in this learning to lead journey. Thankyou Chrystal. [ From New Zealand ]

[@shaeisland]

Chrystal, thank you for your insight! Thank you for taking the time to give us what we need to hear and grow

[@victoriarenfrow5650]

Thank you so much Chrystal! I sent this to my son praying he will watch. It will help us both better communicate with each other. In Jesus name I pray Amen!

[@merryfeacher8627]

This was awesome I need to learn to be silent. Thanks

[@Introduction08]

Wow! If your voice sounded like mine, I would think that I had recorded this about myself, about my life. If it gets too quiet, I impulsively speak. No matter the environment. People think that I am extroverted, when in fact I am more introverted. More recently I have been working on keeping silent during those “weird moments” and it feels good when I pass the test and allow others to fill the quiet space. 😊

[@monicajackson5869]

I could have wrote this haha. I'm the same way

[@natoshab8513]

Thank you! This is right on time, I need to keep this on repeat!

[@la28575]

I will listen to this again. Thank God for using you to share this message ❤

[@messue428]

I’ve listened to this twice and want to listen to it again to make sure I didn’t miss anything! Great stuff.

[@deedowns8713]

This was so on time for me because I am the silent one in the room and it does make some uncomfortable. Thank you for your words of wisdom and encouragement ❤😊

[@tiffanytelfair1619]

This message was right on time. Thank you, Chrystal. ❤

[@rosiekmontgomery9763]

I was truly blessed listening this morning.

[@micheleking8755]

Thank you Crystal!! Praise the Lord, I needed this so very much. I need to increase the power of silence and the ability to ask good questions in every area of my life. I needed to hear it today due to a relationship hurting comment I made last night. God used your message to speak to a deep need in my life at exactly the right time. I am going to take action steps today. In Christ's love, Michele.

[@michelleduncan4615]

I must say I feel seen. For years I've felt like being quiet was a stigma. I was voted one of the quietest in my senior class, when in actuality I'm more quiet in groups than one on one; but just like you I tend to speak only when I feel compelled to say something. On the other hand if I was talking with someone and there was a pause, I would quickly try to fill it with words because I was afraid the other person would think I'm not interesting enough to carry on a conversation. However recently I've allowed myself to sit in the space, and discovered when that happens, the other person usually brings up something else to talk about and we continue to flow. I realize there's a time to speak up and a time to be silent, but this message is confirmation that when I am silent it is not a flaw.

[@marquitarichardson8606]

Lord, thank you for this as comformation that me being silent will be heard.

[@Krowood79]

Such rich information and a great perspective. I needed this. Thank you for sharing!😊

[@applelonya]

Thank you for giving me the language for what I already do.

[@mslashaundap]

This subject is the current theme within my household. I have been convicted to master the art of silence and to teach my girls the same. 40 years of learning toxic behaviors that are completely antithetical toward the aforementioned has made it significantly hard to achieve. However, I know Holy Spirit is able and I am willing so I praise God in advance for victory!🙏🏾🎉 Thank you for sharing such gems.❤

[@devjack9758]

I appreciate this topic so much. It hit home and confirms what my husband has been telling me all the time. When I ask him for an answer or immediate input or feedback in his silence he would tell me he’s thinking about what I just said. I’m the one looking for dialogue, an answer to my questions and concerns. He listens, and at times with frustration because I have all the words! 😣 Now I see why he has no words it’s because I have them all!😂 Thanks for the tips on asking the right questions. I need to work on this. I’m truly a work in progress. You were right on target for me today! ❤❤❤

[@shakiramcgee2023]

Silence teaches humility & I absolutely love your hair by the way ❤

[@jessicaredding5144]

I am blown away once again, sis! I have been struggling with being silent since I started my own family with my husband. Yes, I have a habit of jumping in every conversation and solving every promise that my family faces. They come to me every day asking what I think and say you seem to have the answer. This has humbled me very much. I will apply this and put in the work. Thank you, sis!

[@lakieshamurphy5311]

I need this so badly. I always feel like I need to prove a point, defend myself or actions and to seem smart. I’ve always loved a debate and it’s hurt me in so many ways. I reflect after and wished I’d just kept my mouth shut. Lord help me. I need a constant reminder to be quiet. Maybe I should get a tattoo on my hand.

[@ChrystalHurst]

I'm a "self-defender" too sometimes :). You can do it!

[@toniharris7471]

Listening to the replay this morning after a great disagreement between me and my husband on last night. God is definitely speaking to me and I am heeding this wisdom as of today. Thank you Lord for sending me something that I can definitely use and actually need to do.❤

[@ChrystalHurst]

Glad to hear that this is helpful to you practically.

[@Wavyfeels]

15:35 you’ve just described me. I never knew what it was but this is it. I just wanna add the information that was missing. That’s the key part in my opinion. Everyone get their ah-ha moment their lightbulbs go off. And you’re right. I don’t say much but when I do everyone’s attention is on me

[@wandabooker1394]

Thank you Chrystal! Such wisdom to grow by!

[@Webbgurl2000]

It depends on why you’re quiet. If you’re quiet because of fear that’s different. I think I want to learn to use my voice more healthily.

[@bevyboop.10]

Thank you so very much for sharing this. I felt like you were talking directly to me. I admit I was defensive at first, made excuses, but God's been telling me to be silent, and I've struggled. Your message has touched me and helped me to see the benefits of silence and reasons for my difficulty. Trust. Those I'm able to be silent with I trust. Those I don't it's almost impossible 😵😅 it also highlighted I'm not trusting God to work in them or speak for me. I can't thank you enough. I've been putting off joining your inner circle but I'm going to have to take the next step bcz you are such a blessing and I know there's more God will show me thru you. Thanks! Blesses to you 🙏🏽💜🙏🏽

[@ChrystalHurst]

YES, GIRL!! Join us in The Inner Circle. We have a lot of great resources.

[@marjorymsuku9312]

Wow, that is so cool! Learning to play a musical instrument! I love piano!😊👏👏👏💕💕

[@rosalindwooten190]

New Subscriber!! Love the Reference from Dale Carnegie about asking questions one will enjoy answering ! Needed this Powerful Lesson on SILENCE! The Importance of being QUIET to ponder for the Most Important Thing!!

[@monicasoyombo3360]

This is the best leadership lesson EVER! I always felt so bad about being quiet in meetings because I'm always thinking about what others are saying .....this is encouraging! I'm going to practice it more.

[@ingert1441]

This is my first time on your channel. I was scrolling along and the title caught my attention. To be honest its a long time that I have heard such sound and practical advise without all the “churchy” hype attached. For a mother of adult children I was blessed listening to your program. Thanks

[@ChrystalHurst]

Glad you found me!

[@emmahallback9510]

Such a valuable blessing for me! God bless you!

[@michellesanders5435]

I love you Crystal. You Rock and I were blessed to see you at Desperate for Jesus in Dallas Texas.

[@ruachnaim0305]

Excellent!! Very helpful. I want to maximize the gift of other people in my life. Lord, help me cuz talkers TALK!😂 Help me to grow in wisdom and make space for others, in Jesus name. Thanks sister Chrystal ❤🙏🏽

[@d.crosby451]

This was soooooooooooooooooooooooo GOOD. I am working on being silent...with my adult daughters. It's a process.....

[@winniemwanzi866]

Well well Chrystal you never disappoint...i need to pose and practice the power of silence...coz i am like...i should be speaking all the time amd in the case of my kids i normally dont give them time room to answer...ooh my God... it's a turn around for me...thank you ❤

[@n2medrums]

You B.E.T.T.A. PLAY DIM CHORDS!!! 😊 I love that B half diminished chord!! B.A.N.G.!!! B.A.N.G.!!! ❤❤❤

[@isabellechassaing6922]

Definitely an area of my life I am being more aware to work on. This is very helpful and thank you for talking about this subject 🙏

[@nicolemwamondwe9875]

Thank you so much for Crystal. Am starting this power of silence in all areas of life

[@lisablack5244]

Beautiful message, well said thanks for this video, God bless you and your family!💕🙏🏽

[@laurenciahilarynauses8340]

Yo this is so powerful. Very interesting lesson.

[@sumayabrown]

This is incredibly helpful. Thank you!🙏🏾

[@cubavsusa]

Having always been quited,shussb and silent treated ..I never though Silent were a gift ...a new learnt tool 🔥

[@glenda7846]

It's wisdom to shut up sometimes and it's kind!

[@MsGratefulgal]

😅Proverbs 1:20, 21. Wisdom shouts in the streets. She cries out in the public square. 21 She calls to the crowds along the main street, to those gathered in front of the city gate: Luke 19:14 And He answered and said unto them, “I tell you that if these should hold their peace, the stones would immediately cry out.”

[@glenda7846]

@@MsGratefulgal Whoever restrains his words has knowledge, and he who has a cool spirit is a man of understanding. Even a fool who keeps silent is considered wise; when he closes his lips, he is deemed intelligent. Proverbs 17:27-28

[@MsGratefulgal]

@@glenda7846 thanks dear. It is important to know when to speak, and to be moderate in everything. Jesus, a great teacher started teaching at 12, practiced the power of silence early in the mornings (Mark 1:35) and the rest of the day, He engaged with people. Anyway people came to Him freely to listen. It depends on what you are saying to others. If you are speaking life to others, it is saving and people will listen to you. If you are quarrelling with another, then you restrain your mouth, you shut up not to increase anger in another person😊 "The words that I speak unto you, they are spirit and they are life"...Let us choose to speak life unto others, if it is not life, helping word, keep your peace😊 Noah preached for 120 yrs Lot chose to live a righteous life in fear of the people around him. Heavens declare the glory of God without speech, without lips Speak life to others with your lips and your life

[@delisaseale5881]

Appreciate this talk, Chrystal. I’m convicted all the time about needing to be a better listener and more kind and considerate in conversations. I have ADDHD and always in talk mode if there is someone around. Dominating conversations is one of my big downfalls. I don’t really set out to do so but when I open my mouth, away I go. I know that all that you said is wise and correct it I also know having knowledge and implementing are two different things. I thought the other day I should PRAY before every conversation ahead of time. And, actually take time to find a book study or articles that offers practical tips and goals, that I could journal and work at putting into practice. I really want to be present for my people, and others in general to listen and learn from what they have to say. Like you said it is a gift we can give others. Thanks!🙏🏼

[@ChrystalHurst]

Praying for you, sis! Its a great gift to give others.

[@delisaseale5881]

@@ChrystalHurst much appreciated 🦋

[@karenfranklin7836]

Needed this. Thank you!🙏🏽

[@JanesMiraclesInMotion]

That’s good,wow.i have learned silence is good.putting others first and letting them have space. I need to hold space for others. Better listener. Thanks.

[@donnadequire-rios3531]

This was for me . Thank you ❤

[@mercedezdiane]

Thank you for your intelligence and wisdom! May God continue to bless you! 💝

[@maryhammock3489]

Thank you for this message. I am a person that need to think before I speak esp when I am learning something new. If I am rushed when I am learning I feel stressed and can't think of the answer. If I have time to think about it I can give the right answer.

[@tamikabrown8539]

Amen. I absolutely love this.

[@quetinajones9200]

Right on time!

[@ShajiraYaniceli]

Thank you for this. Literally just had a moment this morning of wanting my friends something "about themselves" but I ran across this video first, God's Glory!!! Didn't say anything but my friend knew exactly what he could do better. ❤ Thank you Crystal.

[@jacquelineharris6407]

Love this and will be putting these tips into practice! Thank you!!

[@lisaknowles4623]

Very encouraging Crystal!

[@rosalindwooten190]

Looking forward to more of Your Tuteledge🙏🏾❤️🙏🏾 Blessings to YOU Crystal🤗

[@cemathis985]

Wow!!!! This is valuable information! I needed this 👂 I use the power of silence at work but not at home. At work, where I'm a SPED Teacher, others love to fill the space quickly, so I pull back. Maybe this isn't good silence. However, at home and as a church leader, where I'm most confident, I need to learn how to ask quality questions and pause longer.

[@chiomabassey1538]

Hi Crystal, Thank you for this. Silence helps correct listening errors. Been practicing this more lately and seeing profound benefits at work, home and relationships. It's a secret mystery!

[@rochellekendrick1416]

Crystal, this was needed and an eye opener. I know how to be silent very well (complete shut down) I've almost mastered it, but it's not in love, grace, or demeanor. Lord, help me know when to speak and when to be silent but gracefully with the understanding that You will handle that issuen those problems.

[@ChrystalHurst]

Yea... I know about that shut down too :)

[@thembie_mampane]

Amen!I totally enjoyed this conversation because naturally I am a quite person. Sometimes I be judging myself that maybe I need to speak up more 😅but then I'm also like there is really no need especially when others have already added and its enough. I believe its good to speak when it is necessary. This really spoke to me and made me feel understood. Thank you so much ❤🙏

[@laurahyman2114]

I needed to hear this. Right on time. Thank you fr.sharing again.❤🎉

[@n2medrums]

YAAASS M.A.M.E. BE INTENTIONAL!!! B.A.N.G.!!! B.A.N.G.!!!!! IT REALLY IS SOMETHING ABOUT THAT S.I.L.E.N.C.E.!!!! 💥💥💥🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾 Just sit and hold space!! ❤❤❤ Leave room!!!!

[@muganireyayeri5974]

Imma listen more when I ask those questions...and leave room and space for others to speak too

[@minniejohnson441]

You are so right and this is so very powerful 😮. This is the first time I ever heard you and I truly appreciate all that you are saying. Thank you

[@angelangel4476]

Amen. The power of silence. Love love love. Thank you!

[@shakiramcgee2023]

Wow & silence also allows people to feel seen 🔥

[@messue428]

So much insight here… thanks Chrystal.

[@evelynesser9246]

This was so Encouraging !! thank you 🥀🌷

[@eyesmilecards]

thank you!!! this will be on repeat 😊

[@xchorro]

i’m learning how to communicate so bad! sometimes i feel like i need to speak and then i feel super convicted. i’m seriously learning at work cuz my work place is kind of toxic but not terrible. just a lot of trash talk and complaining

[@marvaodle278]

This morning I was told that by my husband that I always talking thanks for your massage

[@user-sh2ba4ss4g]

Thank you for this talk. I will try this assignment

[@summer7honey]

I'm not sure how I stumbled on your message but I'm grateful to God. It reaffirmed my tendency to listen for understanding before speaking. I also appreciate the reassurance that it's okay 2 be the quiet one😊.new subscriber here 👋🏾

[@ChrystalHurst]

Glad you're here!

[@katrisalarry38]

Great teaching and so needed ❤️

[@tinahoward521]

I need this

[@dereckamcknight3247]

Yes, im goinf to watch this everyday

[@peacebalance8067]

So I exercised silence this weekend with family. And for a minute, I began to feel my silence was anti-social, but it wasn't. I was still communicating through the body language of silence and was powerfully showing up as one of the most confident persons in the room. I kept asking, 'Why do people keep low key following me, watching me, the most unlikely people want a photo with me?" I just understood my whole weekend by LISTENING to this video. Yeah. This pod cast hit different. Gotta listen to it again.....this is meat, potatoes, and greens rolled up into one. Thanks.❤

[@ChrystalHurst]

So glad you were able to listen! Thanks for the encouragement!

[@cherylwalcott4154]

Listen more and wait

[@pollyjames2023]

This is powerful thank you for sharing. ❤

[@thelivingword1238]

Thank you so much for your wisdom 🙏❤

[@maryfaith3501]

Hallelujah 🙏

[@traceypalmer7002]

Awesome! 🙏🏾🙏🏾 thank you Chrystal!