The price of Being a Deborah!

[@KimParraway]

I am a woman! And I 100 Billion percent approve this message. I am in the midst of listening to it and I already know where you are going with it Prophet! In good faith, Women I pray you ask God for patience to listen and understanding to comprehend what the man of God is saying. I pray, as women, as Christian women, don't be defensive and insecure. This would save time and energy in therapy sessions down the road. You would build a healthier foundation for your relationship. I have worked as a therapist and Psychology professor for years. From a professional and spiritual perspective, Prophet Tomi is speaking the TRUTH!!! God bless you Man of God! Keep speaking. Who needs to hear and accept will hear and accept. Praise God! Amen!

[@faithoffiong3440]

You are right...and I got a msg from God not to do it again...but still get tempted..lol..God help me

[@andykirk26]

Yes sister, so glad you said this......👏🏼👏🏼

[@orange2pointo]

🙄🙄🙄

[@gregoryosborn9042]

The Hannah's are indispensable but it is thankless on nearly all sides except Elkanah got blessed where lack was previously and Israel lost a very wicked priesthood and the prophetic world came back fiercely as Samuel's words never fell to the ground even if a whole bunch of disobedient liars and idolaters had to

[@gregoryosborn9042]

Men if you are courting a would be minister and you aren't in ministry yourself Better look close at those Joyce Meyers husband's life real close before you decide to ... if you aren't willing to truly give your whole existence to God almighty to do whatever He wants ( and her spiritual ambition will be very demanding on your everything ) I ain't saying run from her but you better know how to run to HIM and stay in it all the time because the enemy will crucify every area He can get access to every minute of every day ... Better to have a mate who has temptations coming for them but they resist and stay repented up than one who seems to not have any temptations at all for when the heat is on what comes to the surface is what is inside still if you haven't seen the reaction to persecution come yet remember you are the one they will seek security from and if you don't really have it and you can't go to HIM for it ...... You ain't gonna be able to fake it or make it even if you dress that pig up nice it is still pork and you can't make pork kosher Perhaps my last metaphor was a bit overboard Don't through yourself overboard because it looks less dangerous than the boat fire 🔥 You better know how to swim exceptionally and well the sharks are never gonna be vegan

[@marakyrealtor]

“The truth doesn’t make you happy, it sets you free.” Mic drop statement!!!🔥🔥🔥

[@cherylannray4125]

I grew up in the Caribbean in the days where women wore dress or skirts only no makeup no earrings so I don't care about these things I wear it sometimes but I can do without it. When I came to the USA I still wore my dress because I really prefer them especially as I got older, I just can't do the tight clothes 😂. I ended up on the worship team at a church and I noticed after a while that the women stopped wearing jeans with tears in them or tight fitting clothes on the stage while they were worshipping, we can be an influence without even trying to just lead the way.

[@HummingbirdQueen]

Thank You Prophet for teaching this! The Lord has revealed to me that I carry this mantle and has been teaching me about the importance of submitting to my future husband and showing me that my pride is my biggest obstacle. I recieve this word!

[@naledijabanga2269]

I grew up listening to Beyonce, and nobody was there to tell me about Deborah. Thank you for these teaching cause I could tell if I carry on like this. I was going to destroy my family. This is God's mercy 🥺

[@sproutahead527]

I am 51 minutes in this and I want to clench my invisible pearls and at the same time yell "YEESSS". I am convicted but I need more of this! Thank you!! I may not speak for all women but I will speak for myself. This is needed.

[@nxtchpforme9154]

Take time to be on the word. Not from him. God will give us wisdom.

[@HumanResourceManager-fq2hn]

This is 100% APPROVED! It’s time to Heal and Arise

[@aaroncoles2433]

“David fell looking through one window. Do you know how many windows are open on his phone?” Even As a single man that hit me! 🔥

[@Adoniachild3]

Prophet this an amazing learning. Scripture is on point and as a now divorced woman, I personally took 7 yrs to get back in fellowship with Christ to understand my position and it has been phenomenal. Through God's grace, he has been consecrating my spirit, mind and soul. So many revelations and now, I'm ready and armed to be the woman God has called me to be! Ladys, this perspective from a man is powerful! Those that have ears 👂 to hear let him hear!

[@marakyrealtor]

I just watched this again for the second time and it is so rich. ❤️‍🔥

[@shawnettewright9026]

Really good teaching prophet I’m tired of getting it wrong. I know at times I was watching and listening to others and I used the pain and disappointment of old relationships to distort my true identity and character and Love that is in me. Thank you for the Truth, I have done most of what you mentioned most times on purpose. I want to be married but am glad I am learning how to be a better woman and wife!!❤

[@janicemcdonnell224]

When do we learn about DEBORAH??

[@W.Olajide]

@@janicemcdonnell224 did you manage to miss it?

[@porschenator]

Thats what i want to know too.​@janicemcdonnell224

[@Itsdannib_]

This man is beyond wise! I am so glad I ran across this page! I’m taking notes!!

[@derinolaomoniyi1333]

I love this message…very convicting and funny at the same time.

[@righteousandrich]

😂😂😂 “God are you finished? Were you sleeping when you made her!” This live was needed but also hilarious!

[@candyireland2475]

this is amazing teaching. i had no idea i was doing this and probably the reason my first marriage ended. i will not make this mistake again with Gods help after hearing this teaching.

[@andykirk26]

Respect your humility & honesty......👏🏼👏🏼

[@HephzibahFrances]

Such humility

[@jennifemac8870]

Sorry to hear your first marraige ended. There is no condemnation in Christ ❤ We need to know the truth in God’s word. A husband loving his wife plays a big role in how God intended marraige to be. Sadly, it’s being flipped upside down to make women feel they need to do more to keep a man . “Husbands, love your wives, even as Christ also loved the church, and gave himself for it; that he might sanctify and cleanse it with the washing of water by the word, that he might present it to himself a glorious church, not having spot, or wrinkle, or any such thing; but that it should be holy and without blemish. So ought men to love their wives as their own bodies. He that loveth his wife loveth himself. For no man ever yet hated his own flesh; but nourisheth and cherisheth it, even as the Lord the church: for we are members of his body, of his flesh, and of his bones. For this cause shall a man leave his father and mother, and shall be joined unto his wife, and they two shall be one flesh. This is a great mystery: but I speak concerning Christ and the church. Nevertheless, let every one of you in particular so love his wife even as himself; and the wife see that she reverence her husband.” ‭‭Ephesians‬ ‭5‬:‭25‬-‭33‬ ‭KJV‬‬ bible.com/bible/1/eph.5.25-33.KJV Love precedes respect. This is God’s order and I am so shocked that women feel they need to “dim their light” to be wives. This is so sad.

[@jmdl9584]

To be able to speak like this it means you speak out of personal experience. We've been together for more than 44 years, have been faithful to eachother from day one, loving eachother more than when we started because of Jesus and Him alone. He is the only One who was is and always be able to transform both of us, both of us being a work in progress fixing our eyes on one goal: hear Him say "well done". We're both put in the garden of life, tending it with love, service, wisdom, respect, understanding, patience etc. all provided by God our Father through praying and fasting together. God bless you, your family and team brother Tomi

[@SaraiBermudez-2222]

This is very very true! Thank you for your boldness and unconditional love for the body of Christ. This was needed and needed to be said Apostle Tomi. Keeping speaking MOG. Blessings.

[@kaburagitonga]

I laughed and cried . Like you were describing me. And I didn't want you to shout. Say it silently because it's the truth..when we women fight we do it viciously! Women are powerful.

[@LifeOfAnOvercomer]

Thank you Prophet Tomi the truth dosen't make you happy ,it sets you free!!!

[@63eschultz]

My Gosh, what an amazing message! I am 60 this year and was in ministry for 20 of those years. Counseled as a pastor for 12 of those years. Prophet, you nailed it...hit it on the head! Just found you and have been listening to you daily. "Revelation IS the platform." Thank you, love you and deeply respect you! - Erick

[@theleadherlabwithmarsha]

Caught a part of the live and came back to watch the replay. You are indeed teaching truth and correcting us.

[@lynettebagonza7706]

1:21:11 The glory goes to God for this teaching. Very timely for this time and season. God bless you prophet Tomi. Been making many of these mistakes and this message has been such an eye opener for me. Stay blessed🙏🏾🙏🏾

[@tolugbenro3632]

"The mantle of Deborah must come upon the Virtuous women so that it doesn't manifest itself on Jezebel"

[@Free7tibb]

Thank God for a bold and compassionate effort to save our women from the deception that wasn't doing them any good. Most male counselors and preachers have helped women remain in error by praising their pebbles while crucifying men for their boulders. Also loose dressing among women is hardly rebuked these days, but when men misbehave as a result, they face severe penalties, another example of 'pebbles and boulders' situation. This message is an endtime rescue operation for all of us. Praise God!

[@ginnywoodhouse6350]

I'm enjoying this so much! Your humor is so refreshing. Preach on to the sisters! The dress code really needs to be addressed. It's embarrassing.

[@marakyrealtor]

This is 💯 accurate. Great teaching. As a married woman, these teachings are not only accurate, but biblical. A strong marriage doesn’t just happen, it is built. A woman is just as responsible for their role and making their marriage successful as a man. My prayer is that we allow ourselves to hear the truth and allow Holy Spirit to cut out what needs to go so that we can be the wives and leaders we were created to be. We must be willing to love correction from the Lord. He corrects us because He loves us. Love will not compromise truth because of pride and offense. Love speaks truth. Love and truth are married. We all have things we are working on. ♥️🔥🔥🔥♥️

[@andykirk26]

Yesssss Amennnn Tomi!!🙌🏽🙌🏽👌🏼👌🏼👏🏼😊 That spirit of Pride in women! I am suffering it right now......😮‍💨😮‍💨

[@CB-cu1ne]

Oh my goodness, this is soooo good. I am a Deborah woman. And this is all truth, the truth shall set you free. Preach it Bro Prophet.!!😂❤️ I am listening and learning

[@nsimmons7754]

Prophet Tomi Continue to Speak the Word, for us Women to be Free and Healed. Amen

[@benatural49]

Peebles and Sniper? That was good! I needed to hear this video 20 years ago, but better late than not at all for future references. I respect a man who is honest. I have not come across that many but I remember one man being honest with me up front to not mess up our friendship and I respect that man to this day. Yes, the truth does hurt depending on what the situation, but I rather hurt a little bit and be set free to move forward than to live in a lie. The truth hurts but a lie kills the relationship. Thank you Tomi!

[@Adoniachild3]

I love your teaching and humor. Although I missed the live, I still however appreciate your wisdom on this subject. Please continue to do what the Lord puts in your spirit!

[@reginapugh]

This has helped me so much! Please keep teaching such as this coming. I am really observing myself!

[@carolinetakamhere]

Couldn’t agree more ♥️

[@karengreenidge-silcott4220]

Just came across this KZbin video (a year later), I'm so glad i did. This is one of the best talks for a woman I have ever heard. Thank you, Prophet, for stating the true. It is so needed today. Women need to hear this even though it is challenging. THE TRUTH SHALL SET US FREE 🙌🏾

[@denishacleare23]

This message is so so GOOD!! Thank you for this video. For those of us who want to grow and be better we will take this message, meditate on it then apply it to our lives 🔥

[@ceciliacaceres3028]

Thank you Prophet Tomi. I take your word this morning and I know i have to repent to the Lord and to my husband. You put words to a wrong actitud that grieve the Holy Spirit. I don’t want to destroy my home.

[@feliciafolmar4841]

I agree with the Sister that 100 billion percent approves of this message! Openness and honesty! Tamable beast! Yesssss Pastor

[@mantleofelijah]

Brilliant teaching and so true. Thank you apostle Tomi. Lord forgive me for the pebbles.

[@francinemoses-turner4336]

Analyzing my pebbles right now. Loving correction....holy spirit search my heart. So that my pebbles don't dam up the river in my marriage

[@jennieschneider811]

Woman Up and The Price of Being a Deborah have taught me more than I’ve ever learned in my life of how to behave the way I was formed! I listen to them over and over always gaining more insight to even one sentence that slipped by. I can not thank you enough Apostle Tomi Arayomi! God Bless You and Your Warrior Wife! 🙏👑✝️🕊️🔥

[@historywithms.esther4173]

Great teaching, write a book! I think it would be good for premarital counseling too! I am a divorced pastor’s wife after 32 years of marriage. Please make mention of those who are co-dependents also. They wouldn’t dream of checking their husband’s, phone etc., but have other ’peebles.’ God bless you and your family!!

[@titusmhardy45]

You don’t need to be prophetic to understand practical wisdom. Great advice and this is real!!

[@carolynjohnson1075]

I tell you I have never laughed so hard listening to this truth!!! I am a strong personality learning submission!!! So I will say this, Thank you, first of all for the laughter which turned into my medicine!!! Good for the soul!

[@drchidijewelkalu7992]

This was such an eye opener and I know sometimes us women get defensive and don't want to hear the truth. I was divorced 17 years ago after 21 years of marriage, and my ex decided to end it and married someone else 3 weeks after our divorce. I had to learn to forgive but spent the last 17 years learning the principles of God, what needs to change in me not because I thought i was a bad person or did anything wrong. However, I knew that we are ever growing and learning and I have spent years understanding the psychology of men and women. This is so helpful and God has taught me so much as I stayed yielded to Him. I am so excited and in anticipation of my next relationship. It shall be quite blissful as we both build the vision God has for us. Thank you for your courage to speak on these things and I pray we lay our pebbles down and listen with wisdom. God bless you.🙏🏾

[@joannayow8045]

Well preached! I agree and would back you any day seriously. I made some stupid mistakes many years ago but thank God I woke up to the truth and stopped the nonsense! All for truth! All for liberty! Love the revelations about the enmity between the woman and the man when it supposed to be the woman and the snake! I remember sharing with a female believer who was facing crisis in the marriage. When I very gently asked if it's possible that there may be something she was doing that may have contributed to the marital issue, she shut me down, blasted at me and cut me off. I realized then sadly not everyone wants to be set free. In terms of pride, I discovered that when we are not secure in our identity in Christ, it is what gives rise to pride too! For me that was liberating! Thank you for this awesome message!

[@ferrisnaine7471]

Congratulations prophet Arayomi on your own channel Invazion. Extremely powerful message on "The price of being a Deborah"

[@maryndahangwapo354]

This is one of the best messages on women that I have heard in recent times. God bless you for not mincing your words or hiding the truth. And yes I am a woman. God help us

[@ElizabethClements83]

This 100% accurate! Thank you for delivering truth in love. Some women didn’t have male figures to speak this into them. This is like Mordecai preparing Esther.

[@jennifemac8870]

This is the truth “Husbands, love your wives, even as Christ also loved the church, and gave himself for it; that he might sanctify and cleanse it with the washing of water by the word, that he might present it to himself a glorious church, not having spot, or wrinkle, or any such thing; but that it should be holy and without blemish. So ought men to love their wives as their own bodies. He that loveth his wife loveth himself. For no man ever yet hated his own flesh; but nourisheth and cherisheth it, even as the Lord the church: for we are members of his body, of his flesh, and of his bones. For this cause shall a man leave his father and mother, and shall be joined unto his wife, and they two shall be one flesh. This is a great mystery: but I speak concerning Christ and the church. Nevertheless, let every one of you in particular so love his wife even as himself; and the wife see that she reverence her husband.” ‭‭Ephesians‬ ‭5‬:‭25‬-‭33‬ ‭KJV‬‬ bible.com/bible/1/eph.5.25-33.KJV Love precedes respect. This is God’s order and I am so shocked that women feel they need to “dim their light” to be wives. This is so sad.

[@tiiiinamsklxnlj]

This is tough! I have always thought the day I’m Silent I’m gone literally gone from that relationship..

[@deborahyap2597]

Thank you for your msg. Honestly speaking, both man n woman have to reflect n re-examine their hearts. Your views about woman from a man's standpoint is impartial but straightforward n that is good. For anyone of us who has a good conscience n a right mind will want to correct what is wrong especially if we cannot see our own blind spots. Yes, humility to admit one's mistake or folly is commendable. PTL for truth and sincerity.

[@shazaharris8174]

I needed to hear this. Thank you for being honest with us.

[@deborahlarson1211]

Can I say well done!! Truth with clear depiction of who and what we should never be! Praise God for a man who is not intimidated to speak truth in love, for the Fathers heart is so large and you have shared it!! Don’t ever shrink back sir!! ❤

[@theresahealing4457]

Praise God I love this man's preaching listening from South Africa

[@DionneAlmodovar]

Yes 👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾 Apostle Tomi! You are preaching truth!! I am a woman and you are speaking my language! Lord search my heart ♥️ I don't want to be like this when I get married. May God bless you for speaking truth 😊

[@walterineellis]

What you're saying is absolutely true. I am a woman, been a woman all of my life and what you are teaching is true. If we as women would all be honest the words you're speaking are spirit and life. Glory to God for a man of God who understands and won't be punked by spirits of domination and ignorance. Glory to God, I'm loving it.

[@idomagirlabahi7786]

“Been a woman my whole life” 😂 important to specify in these times we’re in... Bless you...

[@stellaayinde5164]

I also sent it to my church women platform. So rich n annointed.

[@beginnerzart7494]

Keep doing what you are doing! I’m a woman and I loved your lesson on Eve being a warrior and the lack of being a Proverb 31 woman! 🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾

[@minerva9273]

Thanks!

[@ritanoakes3569]

I am a woman and want to say thank you!!!! This has truly changed my life. It is truth 🙌❤️

[@harif3656]

So I recently discovered Prophets Tomi and Tobi. I was listening to this message replay this morning while driving and was shocked when at 22 mins he called my name and said “Hariet Potter silent treatment is the spirit of witchcraft”. Now idk if there was someone else watching this when it aired life with the same name but I believe this entire message was for me personally. A year ago it may have seemed out of place because I was single but today with the change in my circumstances and recent turn of events, this is a timely message! Will listen till I grasp everything that can help me navigate this season!

[@kgomillion3796]

This was a blessed and convicting message. I literally am free!!!

[@cassandrashort8320]

Absolutely Powerful Teaching!!! So Good! THANK You!!!

[@amandahughes3288]

This is SO GOOD!!! I have been feeling all of this struggle like sandpaper and I stand on Tommy Tenney's quote "Don’t prostitute the anointing for lesser lovers..." The struggle is real, because we have been indoctrinated to believe our only value lies in the cheapest attributes, so we over compensate to overcome with manly tendencies and fight to compete for our place in a man's world. ENOUGH!!! Woman's greatest strength is in her gentle grace and beautiful wisdom. The meek inherit the earth. The soft are STRONG!! Rise up Deborahs!!!

[@stellaayinde5164]

Love this teaching so much,sent it to the women in my life;my daughter n my two daughters in law.God bless you Prophet. I know it's for me too.

[@snurplepurple3650]

Harriet Potter was the best part. You speak truth but the humor helps the medicine go down. Thank you for being honest .

[@anilynn8707]

Wow! Thank you for this. The Peebles missed me up. Bless you for doing the Lord's work. I've had a lot of Peebles. Jesus is cleaning me up one day at a time.

[@toniturner3478]

I love your boldness!! You are not lying! I didn’t realize you were so funny! “Coordinates…”. 😊😅😅

[@jessjackz_]

Tracking with you Prophet. These teachings are helping me. There isn’t any good example of a godly marriage in my bloodline nor did I have a present father to speak into me. I’m hearing everything you’re saying thru a concerned father’s heart. Hope more Deborahs arise and feel convicted to receive this message.

[@chibesakay1166]

I loved this message.... I was blessed. Thank you apostle

[@ebierekoroye2327]

This is such a touching message. So vulnerable and to the heart. Thanks Prophet Tomi.

[@RadicalLives]

Brother in Christ as a woman I encourage you to continue speaking the truth.

[@xochiltalvarez9954]

Knowing the mind of men is helpful to us because we need to understand how they experience life. We are different and we experience life differently. It goes the same for men, they need to know how we experience life. This message is very insightful and helpful.

[@ekongeno]

This was a very timely and needed message. Thank you so much, Apostle Tomi for your wisdom and heart for the people. I laughed, I almost cried from laughter, but I took notes and I’ll re-listen to this one again. #GetRigged

[@royalistkellyjones5560]

Thank you,for using real life lessons. Help us Lord

[@walterineellis]

I am a single woman and have never appreciated being call the "b" word. Never played like that and didn't let anyone call me that growing up. That is so degrading to me.

[@sedoobelaboh728]

God bless you Prophet. I was an expert at throwing pebbles until I almost lost my husband. I only began to enjoy my marriage when i learnt to pray more than complain. Everything you have said is the absolute truth. Pls keep teaching, my generation of women need this word.

[@kathleenwall3134]

This changed my life!! Lay the pebbles down ❤

[@andykirk26]

So spot on the money Tomi, when you say about a wife's response/reaction to a man's honesty....... experiencing alot of what your saying right now.........Please please keep speaking about what you speaking about! Women's defenseness of the truth can be there own downfall!

[@rippleeffectsministries7422]

Silence is not always manipulation, it is hurt being processed, so we don't act irrationally. Introverts take more time to figure things out, but we will get back to you.

[@nellieflores9288]

Amazing words Prophet

[@lubabaloskepu9777]

Wow, what an interesting teaching, praise be to God Prophet. Thank you for the transparency and this teaching is and will build household to those who will chose to listen and take it in.

[@kumu_tania]

Whooo hooo👊🩸 This is anointed and I am a “wahine” (woman). Better not be dishonest with me💪 Listening from Hawai’i 🌺 Teach it brada!!!

[@onyinyeagbi5925]

You gave a prophetic word about me at when women pray that I'm a Deborah of my time 3 years ago, and few weeks ago I saw Deborah Enenche Hawthorne give me one of her dresses, I now remembered the word you gave about me, I've been trying to seek clarity from God until I stumbled on this message.

[@lboggans1]

LITERALLY, this SHOULD BE ON EVERY MARRIAGE COUNSELORS LESSON PLAN!

[@reginapugh]

This was a very good and relevant teaching. I also pray that you get a chance to circle back around to the Debroah teaching because I had my pen and paper ready!!

[@ezranok1]

Oh, how I wish there are multiple thumbs-up buttons because I love this message at multiple levels. I wish all men of God would preach this message and not care about losing members.

[@clarahostetler]

Thank you for sharing this! I receive this!

[@walterineellis]

Thank you so much for all that you say on here. It explains a lot to me. God bless you in Jesus name!

[@shrebaquach]

❤❤❤thank you for this

[@jbadianyama]

You are preaching. I ve also come to realize that many women are proud and struggle in marriage/relationships because of pride. Feminism is fueled by pride. I love the revelation: the woman ate the fruit because she wanted to be like God, above the man.♥️♥️🇿🇦🇨🇩

[@FS-virtuoso]

So much truth at once! I wish I’d understood these things before three broken marriages. Would I have listened? I am now a peace filled senior and have learned to wait on the Lord.

[@wondacore2305]

Man of God you are speaking truth, the problem its not just because we want to br in charge, but when your in a marriage where you are honor your husband as head of the house or priest of the home but he is never there, but won't see me as a partner

[@wendymireles1047]

This is so good!

[@tonirodriguez7606]

As a woman, I feel this is a very relevant word that Prophet Tomi gave this morning. Thank you Prophet. I am in agreement with this message, today. I feel you are 100% right. Only pride will stop anyone from receiving this word. A word should not be rejected just because it's a bold representation of what's is happening and give you this wisdom on how to move forward and discern on these things going forward. God bless you Prophet!

[@tiffanymonique82]

This hurts a lot 😨😫But I love this and am so grateful and looking at my life I know God led me to this truth in order to ReBuild!!!

[@jeannaicrichlow1317]

My gosh... truth release here.. God you are Lord...this message is so needed for us women...

[@deannaborman5505]

Excellent excellent teaching! Thank you!

[@keeundisaustin635]

This is a real message of truth, we need a tune up in the spirit. We have lost reverence for the presence of God 😢😢😢

[@JenniferThompson-z3c]

Amazing teaching Brother!

[@latoshajones582]

This is a blessing.❤Thank God for this man of God.

[@Iamyinkadavies]

This is so insightful thank you so much sir