REAL TALK: Episode 1 | Smiling when you’re not happy

[@benashaberry]

This level of transparency is what's needed in the church . ❤ Thank you for sharing.

[@RiseUpTheKingdomOfGod]

Amen❤️🙏🏼

[@rememberlotswife7874]

Prophetess Tahmar you always looks stunning in all of your looks, I love this look!! Godbless you lady of God.

[@LD-sj7uc]

Ensure your spouse is your best friend. Best friends respect each other, they don’t dominate each other, they do their utmost not to hurt each other. A lot of marriages are not made up of best friends.

[@mantleofelijah]

Yes, I think this is absolutely essential.

[@oshomaokhamafe7360]

Thanks both for your honesty, it's really refreshing and enlightening - speaking out some thoughts most of us married people have on our minds that affect our relationship with our spouses. Keep up the God work 🙏

[@nwanyibuifeobiako162]

What a powerful and vulnerable conversation about the dynamics of marriage - thank you both!! As a married woman, I'm grateful for discussions like these👏🏾👏🏾❤❤

[@mantleofelijah]

Wow this was raw and wonderful. Tomi’s advice to the single lady was 100% spot on. This was me, God told me this. I moved I was proactive and I married at 46, babies followed miraculously!! My marriage is amazing and was worth the wait! God is good! Break the delay!! 🔥🔥🔥

[@letscookeasyrecipes2370]

46 and am fretting at 33. Thank you for giving me strength

[@mantleofelijah]

@@letscookeasyrecipes2370 I get it, I was fretting at 33 too but it happened eventually. Fretting didn’t help by the way - potential partners are put off by the desperation as they sense it. Get close to Jesus, he is your all in all - make him that. Mix and meet people but exude confidence in who you are in God - this God given confidence comes across well and will be your inner strength whatever life brings. 🙏

[@ednawheddon3990]

It can't be any purer than this! Purest confession ever! Thank you both. ❤

[@aliuwaunoke366]

This live continued to shift my perspective on marriage...thank you for the honesty

[@rosemaryn.k.165]

What I see is Prophet Tomi really adores Mama T. Like truly loves her which is beautiful. I also love the look woman of God. Learnt a lot. Thank you for your transparency

[@MarisaLopez-bo6eh]

I am from NY. I Truly understanding hair growth and hair loss, as a mature Woman in Her Middle Years. First Lady Tahmar, You look radiant! I truly admire and applaud You. You are stunning! You have Natural Beauty! On the inside Shinning through to the outside 😊

[@ksaklove]

Thank you guys for being transparent! I pray that God will continue to flourish your marriage. You guys are two beautiful souls. 🙏🏾❤️

[@sylviadominion1328]

You actually look smashing with your new hair style I like it ❤

[@jennieschneider811]

This is so enlightening! Thank You Both so much for sharing and being so transparent! God Bless Y’all ! I Love The Two of You! You are absolutely Precious! 🙏💝

[@kandimulangu9645]

Thanks for your transparency... I've never commented on anything platform, but your testimony was very profound, beautiful, and solid. God bless your marriage.

[@j.a.3684]

I LOVE the transparency😍

[@uptonwilliams6315]

Straight up real!!!! This was and is a massive encouragement . May God continue to bless and strengthen you both. Defo answered a lot of my own questions. 🙏🏽

[@BlezzdSisArtist]

Wow wow wow!! Please do this mooore often!! These sessions are soo Blessed!! Thank You Jesus!! Thank You fam in Christ!!

[@DionneAlmodovar]

I love the real talk!!! You both are teaching me what to pray about with myself when I get married!! Thank you so much!!

[@nthabisengmohane1780]

This was really beautiful to listen to. Bless you both. Amen

[@ej_1600]

God bless you both and your family! Thank you for being so transparent!

[@gbengaoretan2628]

This is changing marriages and life. If we all can share our struggles and pains then comes the help and solutions

[@mercyadoda4683]

Thank you so much for this. I have been thoroughly blessed. Prophetess Taihmar, I will take that advise to experiment for the next 3months, lord help me. Thank you Apostle Tomi, you both are healing homes and healing lives.

[@elizabethfionaoke]

Such a good and real conversation learnt to much! God bless you both for your transparency!! More grace to your marriage, family and ministry

[@annetaylor4683]

Prophetess Tahmar you look amazing 👏 You are a beautiful couple, I thank God for making all things beautiful in your union. You are both glowing

[@msrenata]

Loving the natural hair sis🤩 Welcome to the journey:))

[@daniathomas]

This was so powerful and full of wisdom!

[@Godismighty1968]

Honesty is so rare it shows Gods light

[@purepassion1373]

I am happy to hear your story. You guys are real. I learnt a lot.

[@NicoleSellsTexas]

I love that yall started with her hair!!!!! When you walked in at Esther Rising with that hair and that outfit I was like WOAH!!!!!!!! SERIOUSLY LOVE IT!!!!!!!!

[@LifewithAshleyBanks]

The transparency of this was on a different level. Definitely a quality and real conversation, and appreciated. Additionally, I too am going through a hair pruning process lol. Gotta let the damage go so the healthy will grow. Bless you both.🙏🏾

[@fi8170]

Wow! Wow! Wow! I learnt so so so much. I laughed, I cried I repented and I skabashed (spoke in tongues). Thank you so much Apostle Tomi and Prophetess Tamar

[@porshiajackson6476]

I do agree with “I feel that every woman knows what to do” . I told my husband that the other day However, marriages are better when both persons put in the efforts.

[@rosamorales5869]

So pure and transparent!!

[@hankstribe8738]

Thank you for your transparency. Would love to eventually come to a meeting. You two are great! LOVED listening to what you had to say. KEEP IT UP!!! Furthermore, the Body of Christ NEEDS NEEDS NEEDS to hear MINISTERS show that they are REAL PEOPLE!!! Tahmar, you are delightful and have obviously had to grow up fast being married to a preacher eight or nine years older than yourself. Tomi (because I'm much older than you!), thank God, you haven't let anyone despise YOUR youth. Psalm 119:99-100. God bless you two. 😄

[@NeikoJones-f3c]

I love this !

[@ItstheSumpters]

REAL TALK WITH APOSTOLIC/PROPHETIC GENERALS❤❤❤ LOVE IT

[@CP-nf5rj]

Yes! We love your hair style!

[@scbowling5]

Blessings thanks for the full transparency 🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾

[@keshathompson9675]

God bless you guys marriage and ministry. This information is very helpful for married couples. I am married and my husband and I are twelve years apart. I am experiencing some frustration in my marriage and I am giving God five years to heal and restore my marriage.

[@wandagordon8308]

I just love you both, I see so much love between this union.

[@carolmatu]

This indeed a real talk. This was an amazing and v authentic conversation. V helpful esp for married people. You’re a beautiful couple. Thanks for sharing with such honesty.

[@celeleon8821]

I love you guys!! Thank you for the honesty!

[@nellytchato4807]

I loved this interview so much, it was so real, i learned so much

[@AG_worlds]

Such a blessing😢! Thank you for the honesty 🔥Rewatching this 🙏🏼🔥🤍

[@dmsonline515]

Sister, I love your hair!!! You both are a beautiful ministry couple. I'm a wife in a ministry marriage. Marriage is our first ministry (for married couples). God's first ordained institution between Adam and Eve. Blessings on you both!!

[@aleciaburleigh7712]

This was awesome! Thank you for your honesty. As a member of RIG this has blessed me. ❤ You guys.

[@shenquejames7598]

I love wearing my protective styles and my hubby wants me to go natural. I definitely do not know how to care for my own hair yet. If doesnt help that I have eczema on my hands so I would really need lots of help. However I do love your hair maybe I will get to try my natural hair one day. Thanks for your testimony

[@rosamorales5869]

Love this!!! So helpful ❤

[@greatstart1867]

Thank you for Jesus. God bless and keep you marked with His presence.

[@wandagordon8308]

Wow, this is amazing, I have learned so much here. Never to old to learn. I'm single and senior. Great job both of you.

[@BA-ds9dl]

Well done, you both. I love your sincerity

[@latoyanewsome9400]

Now this will deliver a marriage ❤

[@yvonneforbes268]

Thanks for being real!

[@Godismighty1968]

Love her hair and spirit God Bless y’all

[@carolinekusimba8154]

Wow I have just calculated your ages and wow......the wisdom and maturity from both of you is unbelievable!

[@deedeebereal]

This teaching was very good. Apostle Tomi and Prophetess Tamar, I appreciate your transparency. My husband and I are Pastors and I have been going through the same issues as Tamar in my marriage. We are seeking counseling and believing God for resolution. This video has opened my eyes and definitely helped me deal with me. I hope to see more like this.😊

[@spartalane13]

This is really sad…. I will pray for them. Nevertheless I really appreciate them for being totally transparent

[@InupiaqAngel]

Wow....this is so timely....33 years with my husband-27 of them married.....it's rough.....we are not one.....we just exist in the same house. I am committed to the Lord, he isn't.

[@mantleofelijah]

Pray pray and pray some more. Anoint your home and keep praying.

[@victoriouscruz1264]

How I love the transparency ❤❤❤ Thank you guys!!

[@savvysylvia]

A very nice session and the takeaway for me is when mama T mentioned that she had to submit to God as she was willing to loose it all as long as she had God. Thank you woman of God.🔥🔥🔥🔥

[@alisonweekes9425]

Try sister locs if your husband will allow

[@islandgirlnaturalessentials]

I find that my husband & I are on different pages spiritually now from when we were first marriage. Loss of our 25 yr daughter was the catalyst. It has been tough

[@nosanovia3250]

Oh my , I’m so sorry to hear this m. Praying for you, sending you love ❤

[@beautifultruth4777]

God is still powerful enough to bring healing and unity in your later years. Be encouraged❤

[@islandgirlnaturalessentials]

thank you @@beautifultruth4777

[@mantleofelijah]

Marriages sure do go through ups and downs and shifts. Hang in there and pray for him and over him. Anoint your home. So sorry for your great loss.

[@charlesMoore-zk4qe]

Love this message very revelatory

[@LD-sj7uc]

Abuse is not acceptable in marriage - whether from a man or woman

[@RiseUpTheKingdomOfGod]

Wow hallelujah ❤🙏🏼

[@hailip7992]

Wow. So deep. “Can you raise your daughter to be greater than your daughters?”

[@natashamaambo9101]

Thank you Apostle and Prophetess, i really learnt alot and enjoyed the discussion. Im sharing it with my husband and friends

[@kemiriver3910]

Greetings to both of you, love watching you both and hearing you both delivering the truth to the people. We need it, prophetess Tahmar your hair looks lovely. Thanks for the honesty

[@kaseygaston8710]

Mama T, I honor you.

[@deloresgrey2260]

Prophetess Tamhar, you are so beautiful. I love your natural hair🎉🎉🎉...🥰🥰🥰

[@narishabhantooa7515]

I rarely comment but wow what a beautiful couple ❤️

[@philomenamukami5214]

Loved the conversation it can't realer than this

[@sandraabbe6922]

Thanks for keeping it real

[@lawandasteed4186]

Lawanda from College Park GA...Prophetess Tahmar you are beautiful 😍

[@joshuacerone7703]

You are the best bro!

[@Mrs.Hale36]

I’m registered and definitely coming for a breakthrough. Great conversation.

[@samanthalodge2405]

This conversation was so refreshing to hear. Honesty Heals. Thank you.!

[@Esty5c]

Esther from Nigeria, thank you people 🥰

[@tinastv2071]

Soo sorry sister. Am glad you guys stayed together. Wonderful couple. Thanks for sharing

[@shalompeluola9328]

Thank you so much for this! I needed it! 😊

[@Quest_Buhle]

Loooove this! God bless you both ❤

[@Bethel-e3j]

I shall be at this appointment...season to encounter God in the area of marriage

[@karlenechambers2900]

She is worth it. Beautiful girl. You're handsome too. I know that you being from another nation may have been a part of it

[@shamilpate9778]

Prophetess Tahmar, I pray and believe God that your hair would grow back longer and healthy than what it was before it got damaged.

[@karlenechambers2900]

Wow, what a breakdown

[@dotchrenee]

Whew thank you Apostle T& T I love you both I would have lliked to be on this live oh how I needed this right now the transparency and truth 😩🙏🏾🤍❣️

[@jdy4681]

Beautiful. Which ever style you use you are beautiful.

[@DuruNilotu-yk9ul]

Welcome from FIJI ISLANDS

[@shamilpate9778]

Prophetess Tahmar, your hair will grow back even longer, stronger and much healthier than what is was before it the damage occurred.

[@Auuré]

…. No word. Thanks

[@nahomieriche4827]

This was so good,we need to be honest about the stripping process of The LORD in our lives because I believe marriage most important function for male and female in The LORD those that are called to it or desires it is to make us our best selves in Christ. And the ones who doesn't desire marriage, trust me The LORD has alot of other ways He can and will use to grow us to. I can speak to that personally I definitely had my share of crying out to The LORD that I can't take it anymore, (the fire of The LORD) as a single woman who never married and don't desire to marry in Christ😊 I do believe The LORD also wants us to experience happiness and joy because it's also The LORDs love language but disciplining us and purifying us I believe is most necessarily process we need to go through in the earth realm.❤We have all rest of eternity to fully enjoy The LORD and His Goodness without any Hard Work😅

[@CP-nf5rj]

Here from MI

[@okwudilichukwu2434]

Greetings from Germany

[@karlamariselabarth690]

We have a beautiful afro hair!! It's worthy to go natural😊.

[@charlesettawright4080]

I could tell that he was rough on her but I didn’t realize the age difference, I think when men are older than women, they act as your father, my husband was 11 years older than me and it was a disconnect, but her father knew it from the start, that it was not going to work, but some men want to Lord it over there wives, I believe somewhere in him, he did not want to deal with a mature woman, so he chose her, but he had to mature as much as she did

[@sharonereed81]

19 year olds are not equipped for marriage. They dont even know who they are. This is sad to me.

[@spartalane13]

How was he being rough on her? I know he says it but I never saw it

[@charlesettawright4080]

@@spartalane13 I could just tell by his demeanor and some of his KZbin videos

[@charlesettawright4080]

@@sharonereed81 some of them are but I believe he chose her because of her beauty as well and he thought that he could mold her into what he wanted her to be but it kinda of backfired, so they had to grow through it

[@mantleofelijah]

Clearly the marriage has had its ups and downs but all marriages do, that’s the point. I agree if singles are watching this they should take the advice to marry someone closer to them as a friend. Know them well before marriage. The age thing only matters if you are young. My husband is 16 yrs older than me but we are best friends and I was a mature woman when we married. He has never been a father replacement. I knew my own mind. Importantly I knew who I was in Christ. If you are young you can grow into this knowledge together but always have your eyes open to the process.

[@purepassion1373]

Love from Dublin

[@mcworldchanger]

Michelle pitter fm London, England, currently in Fort Lauderdale, Florida

[@godbless8233]

Good morning from florida

[@NeikoJones-f3c]

I am really enjoying this conversation. I cannot wait till this weekend. Do you guys offer counseling

[@heppal1828]

About the hair....wonderful lesson...simply work with nature my sister. 😊