The PROBLEM With GenZ (Explained)

[@vedantrusty]

apna worst OR best dating experience batao! and video like karo, varna algorithm push kaise karega? 🤨 Correction: the CBSE information is incorrect, apologies on that. But do you think schools should include this in their curriculum?

[@kizy3894]

nowdays people's mentality is relyed upon algorithm

[@erensApologist]

hum to arrange marriage wale hai😔😞

[@kshitijjha9291]

Bhaiya tht cbse adding a chapter wala part is not from a cbse book but a different book

[@tushar_23v]

bhai yeh CBSE class 9th mein aisa koi chapter nhi hai yeh fake hai for more information watch sartak goswami's latest sunday show '🤦‍♂🤦‍♂🤦‍♂🤦‍♂🤦‍♂🤦‍♂🤦‍♂🤦‍♂🤦‍♂🤦‍♂🤦‍♂🤦‍♂

[@Gauav80913]

I just wanna to say the fact you included about cbse ch9 about relationship is a false image, Cbse clarified it on their twitter account. Please checks the facts even before incorporating it in the video

[@RIASSENPAI]

The bloodline ends with me 🗣️🗣️🗣️🔥🔥🔥💯💯💯

[@tapashchoudhury8896]

Loser 😂

[@aadil._24]

🤣🤣🤣

[@Tushar_Talwar_09]

With that pfp it definitely will.

[@Ayushijha837]

❤️😂sameee

[@pritpalsingh5927]

Bro have a chill pill

[@chandasharma5531]

It's absurd that people now don't wanna settle for one always looking for someone better , there will always be someone better but the fact u still chose to stay with that person is love

[@rahulanand5801]

Jab log linkedin p apne date ko khoj rhe h to job switching and partner switching is common

[@RakshitaJangid]

It is quite true...I have seen many people changing partners in their teens but after karma hitting them with heartbreaks they try to opt for committed relationships rather than casual as before Even my older sister is in a committed relationship and it has been 3 years that too long distance... we should not lose hope guyz 💪🤞

[@nightmaregaming6706]

​@@RakshitaJangid my sister first relationship and first bf only but this year they completed 7 year of relationship and goona engage next year ... Relationship is not a skyrocket science but me as genz I don't think I will ever find true love i will better be lonely

[@RakshitaJangid]

@@nightmaregaming6706 u don't "need to find true love" we aren't living in america.....agr khud seh koi nhi milra toh parents peh chhod do.... Dude life boht badi h aur India ki population bhi sabse zada h Yeh typical gen z jo iss video meh dikhaya h I don't think itne percentage meh exist krte h.... mostly log abhi bhi committed hi chahte h.....

[@digitalpawan]

exactly

[@Yes_you_read_that_right]

A gen z guy here. Dating is a joke today. It's better to be single.

[@bhabhutiji1169]

how many dates have you been on?

[@Yes_you_read_that_right]

@@bhabhutiji1169 maybe like 5 million

[@adamgret-s6i]

@@Yes_you_read_that_right stop it kidoo...😂 life is all about having a purpose or goal...it can be anything you will understand sooner or later.period.

[@Yes_you_read_that_right]

@@adamgret-s6i yeah tell me something i don't know

[@Yes_you_read_that_right]

@@adamgret-s6i tell me something I don't know oldman

[@notPeacefulOne]

If dating a climbing tree competition, I am a fish

[@vedantrusty]

😂😂😂😂

[@KanakMane-lu4bp]

I am stone

[@claimer.]

I am that clown fish

[@animeshito]

Im the tree

[@shikharsingh1928]

i am snail i can climb but i take so much time

[@razkarki047]

Today in the bus found 3 college girls talking about the relationship situation of one of them. It was so engaging that i couldn't just mind my own business and listen to them. That one girl had a guy who was putting lots and lots of effort into her. She was aware of that and yet confused. The other girl asks her why she doesn't accept him. After all, he is putting so much effort into you. She hesitated for quite a long time, saying, "I dont know why, maybe my love language isn't efforts.."and other random bs, but after a while, words just slipped from her mouth saying arey woh kaala hai aur uski height bhi sirf 5'5 hai. I don't want to comment on her looks, but her expectations were on the moon, i don't know who that guy is, but he should start working on improving himself.

[@Stranger66724]

Everybody has preferences bro , I am also 5.7 feet , cofee colour , if someone is not attracted from me why should I force on them . I have also preference like girl should be tall 5.6 so that my children's have atleast a good height so they don't have to face any problems in future .

[@Shayistic]

that is okie bro she doesn't represent women as a whole she's just someone with some preference which I feel is okie also remember that we don't know what kind of dynamics those 2 individuals have so let's not judge them okei ?

[@sigmamaleslogokijalegi6683]

​@@Shayistic This is okay to u but it won't be okay if its other way around. Girls would be like he needs to get humbled💅💅✨✨

[@razkarki047]

@StrangerSub5 Yeah, having preferences is completely fine, but uss ladke ko koi kabhi yeh pata nahi honewala ki why she rejected him Kyuki woh usse apne aas paas rakhegi aur accept bhi nahi karegi. Free ka attention jo mil raha hai. Jab ki ladke ko toh bas yeh lagega ki usne effort hi nahi dala hoga but reason kuch aur hai. Woh ladki kabhi uss ladke ko nahi kehne wali ki teri height choti hai aur tu kala hai.

[@Stranger66724]

@@razkarki047 yes bro , but what we can do , world is very cruel if you are born with undesirable traits. 80% man come in this category .

[@tbpp6553]

We're living in a hypersexual age. Have deleted dating apps for now. Do not know how but apps or social media wouldn't be the way I will choose my partner.

[@pineapplejuice9814]

same here , brother.

[@UBERPANDIT]

SOCIETY HAS ALWAYS BEEN HYPERSEXUAL. YOU HAVE JUST REALIZING THIS.

[@baghelaryan85]

@@kingshuksarkar lol

[@AkhilBhaskar-h4r]

But why to get married... it's a waste of time and energy

[@Azulaozai._]

1. Dating apps are designed to keep you single. 2. Some people really need to touch grass. 3. Don’t curate a fake online persona. It will be incompatible with your real life. 4. Limit your options. 5. Don’t date just because you’re not getting any attention. 6. Date only if you really want to, not because you want to be able to say that you’re in a relationship. 7. Be upfront, no need to play mind games. 8. Think of what you bring to the table. Meet the standards you set. Being in love = being courageous & vulnerable. So think before you give your emotions & time to someone.

[@PureRythm]

I think the 4th, 6th and 8th point's are what this generation really needs to understand. Girls (and even some guys) have so much attention coming form Social Media and Dating apps, that most of them always keep thinking that "I can always get someone better", and then go on and cheat quite frequently. Merge that with boys who think every girl that talks to them is interested in them (desperate af), and then wanna get physical in the relationship to brag about it later on. All of this because they have more options than they have choices...and thus, they get overwhelmed with all of it. And then ofc, who in there right mind dates when they want...we, as genZ's, date only for fun, right?🤦 The biggest problem of this generation is accountability and commitment...they fear them, and just want the fun part of it, without undertaking the responsibility aspect, which is where the problem starts. And last but not the least, the table thing. With all the attention and validation one gets from Online and Social Media platforms, one doesn't realize that there worth in the real world is near-to NOTHING...and that instead of improving on it, they spent all their time worrying about how many followers they got, or what's happening in Bollywood, and some random stuff like that. Girls think they are worth more than everyone (boys do too)...boys think they don't need anyone (girls as well)...which basically promotes individualism. What does individualism lead to...a failed society like America. Economically, that is the best place to be at...Culturally and Socially, the worst. "You get what you sow..." Sow what you want, and you'll definitely get it...✌️🥂

[@shingaka]

Underrated comment

[@shuvra-kumar-das]

Bashed

[@Lastofhiskind-00]

🗿chad comment

[@Sadhrita2002]

Best comment 😂❤

[@yashkhanna2932]

Imagine you went on a so called “online date” and now that girl/guys tells you about all the dates they went to before you, the casual ones, the serious ones, the “maybe” types, the flings, etc HOW WOULD THAT MAKE YOU FEEL!!! SPECIAL?? That’s the problem. People earlier used to save themselves for marriage/serious relationship and reserved exclusivity and intimacy for that ONE PERSON…..

[@stxfdt1240]

aur bano modern

[@yami6499]

It has nothing to do with modernity....I am a millenial...did dating a lot in my young age...probem started once fmnsts started encouraging to use dates as 'foodie calls' or 'as much money u can extract from guy' competition. After which genZ boys also started planning accordingly. The culture of dating we see in genZ indians...was already there in millenial americans.

[@stxfdt1240]

@@yami6499 pfft...what is the need for all this

[@yami6499]

@@stxfdt1240 telling how it actually is.....like others i can also say some sweet lies and make some easy target like 'modernity' as villlain

[@stxfdt1240]

@@yami6499 yes but earlier and even today people try and do meet physically...human interactions matter

[@arunrawat4020]

I am Gen Z and I want to improve myself and I will. In this generation I choose Spirituality, Entrepreneurship etc but these patha are so difficult still I do. 😊😊😊

[@212letliveonearth]

tell me one think i m genz too , but i m kind of like introvert , so i m not too social [i m not even on insta , to itts anti social] . yeah situation actually itti kharab h like i haven't watched the video , but i think internet n west me hi esa chl ra h . kind of baat ka batangad types . but the more i open yout tube , the more i start inclining to follow unconventional paths of singlehood .

[@arunrawat4020]

@@212letliveonearth Bro use internet and train the social media algorithm what you like and you say introvert.Aise to kaam nahi chalega yaar thoda social hona padta hain un logon ke saath jo hamare mindset se match karte hain 🤗🤗. Brother jaisi situation aap bata rahe ho waisi meri pehle thi. Social ho par limit main

[@the_chosen_one07]

@@212letliveonearth as long as you are improving yourself and working to make your parents proud ..everything is fine ..a man will only find the girl he wants ( that actually stay's with him ) when he become the best version of yourself ..i myself am a isolated person and i too am not on insta , i was but its been 1 year and i deleted it for dopamine detox ... but i did it because i have goal to reach ..but if you are actually free then socialise ( just go out with your friend if you hae anyone and if you dont just go out try some food you will slowly feel better ) ..just become kind and strong

[@krox477]

Entrepreneurship??? Hows it improving yourself

[@arunrawat4020]

@@krox477 Bro I learn new things

[@kingmaker7923]

Man I have lost any hope that I would meet someone who will love me..I just think romantic love is not just made for me.Have been single for whole life and yeah sometimes it feels incredibly lonely in life..I just hope this loneliness doesn't kill me

[@kingmaker7923]

And yeah your video has just made more scared about Dating..I just don't know how can someone just look at someone's photo and decide whether to date or not.What about personality,comfort, intellectual abilities..Are these things not valuable anymore..Just feeling incredibly hopeless

[@rehmatkaurmann1285]

This is so sad. You'll find someone who is just right for you, when it's the right time. Don't give up on love

[@arrow2380]

@@rehmatkaurmann1285 love is a myth. God is cruel. Nature is ruthless. That's how it works

[@rehmatkaurmann1285]

@@arrow2380 who hurt you bro?

[@arrow2380]

@@rehmatkaurmann1285 nobody? Just saying what I'm seeing around me

[@Hi-HK]

I was born in the early 2000s and have never been on any dates. I'm not entirely a Gen Z or Millennial (kinda mixed). I don't know whether I should be happy or sad. Hopefully, I'll find someone, and if not, then it's okay. I'll just focus on the other things I want to do in life.

[@Adihaivai]

me too yaar

[@vector3d654]

Damn even I haven't been on any dates too.... Thank God I'm not alone 😂😂😂

[@poojagangwar4018]

Same😂

[@aena5995]

lol we are gen z there r 25-26 yos calling themselves gen z

[@Eal_14]

Ofc you are gen Z People from 1996-2014 are gen Z But yeah I am also from early 2000 i.e 2004 kid but never dated anyone 😂 Even though I had friends but not in the love way It's very weird to hear that some of my friends are sad saying I haven't dated for a year and here I haven't dated in life time

[@NehaBhatia-vt2vj]

As a gen z woman who has had both first hand and second hand experiences in dating you are right the most common problem These days is the abundance of options people even after having a good option want to explore and when they finally realize what they had initially was good it's too late to save that relationship. I have also noticed that people are not willing to have much honest conversation with each other even if someone makes a mistake our generation greatly underestimates how much a genuine conversation can fix things it's all superficial because having feelings and expressing them is a sign of weakness for some . My friends who are in a relationship 90% of them are in a toxic one just for the sake of not being alone

[@rajivhumain]

Wtf How did a gen Z became a women?

[@bhabhutiji1169]

@@rajivhumain people born after 1995 are Gen-z

[@rajivhumain]

@@bhabhutiji1169 wtf it was 2005

[@HJHarsh-d8g]

​@@HomeSpace-v6i😅

[@kuldeepkhichi9220]

Women themselves like toxic guys they first reject or cheat good average guys n go for toxic guys first then woing around krne k baad jab unka fantasy wala toxic banda chord deta h to wahi normal average banda chaiye because koi high value men esi ghatiya ladki ko kabhi wife nahi banayega to resolve this women needs to accept good guys jitna unka khud ka standard h ,ya kam wala acceptance is the key because a woman who gives scs to everyone kicked out by everyone. 🗿🥱 As a guy mere liye to esi ladki jiska kisi se physical relationship rhe chuka ho wo rndi chnal h or kuch nahi because I believe in traditional values.🗿✌️

[@shashanksharma22]

I can say Genz is the most messed up generation. I just cant help out myself finding someone.

[@suhasinikumbhar8094]

Going through the same phase ... Actually afraid to love someone .

[@pratikashranjande7833]

Basically cuz they are the current teens

[@adamgret-s6i]

i am asexual now....😢

[@creepybucket8738]

cry about it

[@Lastofhiskind-00]

​@@creepybucket8738 🤯🤯🤯 chigma reply

[@demonshorts2482]

25:58 its not true, CBSE confirmed that the didn’t introduced any chapter related to dating or relationship.

[@PriyaUddesiya]

Yes

[@phew77]

Yea

[@VidhiBaishkyar]

but ICSE does have a chapter in moral science related to "sex intimacy and relationships"

[@phew77]

@@VidhiBaishkyar 🧢

[@nihalmohammed6674]

​@@VidhiBaishkyarcool cover art on your account

[@digitalpawan]

I am a 90s born and haven't gone on any dates yet due to my introvert nature. I feel a bit in-between generations, not exactly Gen Z or Millennial. Sometimes I'm unsure if I should feel happy or sad about it. But I'm hopeful that I'll meet someone eventually and this wait will be worth it .If not, that's alright too. I'll just concentrate on other things I want to achieve in life.😉💚

[@Aditya-pm4tl]

Same here😅

[@NotYoutube-cp3qg]

Introvertism is nothing but being insecure 😅

[@digitalpawan]

@@NotKZbin-cp3qg ok professor

[@rohitbhatt9516]

I am a 16 years old boy who is single because i never felt that i should be in relationship because of dating culture. I belong to a small district in uttarakhand. No a big city but still have seen people who get in a toxic relationship and make relationships like a timepass. I have seen many teenagers who change their partners like they are changing their cloths every 2-3days. They made relationship a joke in this generation. Sometimes i feel like i was born in a wrong generation. But the i will found a good partner i will tell u all in this same comment section.

[@himeshsinghshishodiya]

Good luck, mate. You are more mature than most Gen-Z guys.

[@Ms._Uniquee]

Same brother same i am 16 year old girl from a small city of Rajasthan and i see my friends getting boyfriends fighting and patching up back with them their life is more complicated than me who studys alot but i am happy i am studying to give something to my parents and i hope i will but i have decided i ain't gonna date someone just do a arrange marriage cause marriage is a gamble be it love or arrange

[@That_Perspective.]

​@Ms._Unique_79 same here bro!

[@jahnvisharma2415]

man being myself a gen z this is ridiculous to me... the only words I knew was FWB, double dating, situationships and ghosting which is ridiculous coz you don't wanna do an uncomfortable conversation, you just block the person ?? or just don't reply ?? it gives me ick... when I've something like that, it's uncomfortable for me too but it bothers me until I'm done with that conversation.... damn as a gen z I've a lot more and wayyy more important things to do in my life rather than "DATING" making some unrealistic and unpleasant and depressing relations which holds literally zero to no values at all, it's a waste of my time and youth.

[@SagarMeshram1729]

same , she's just blocked me and didn't replied , just to avoid uncomfortable conversation ! and now its bothering me coz I'm not done with my final talks😂 ,, don't know why stupid people like this exists , bitch didn't even thought of the good time I spent with her ,just stopped replying me like I'm nothing !

[@nashtrashcool]

​@@SagarMeshram1729patience rkh bha

[@hritwikchakraborty5602]

Not a day goes by without me realising how misfit I am in this generation.

[@abdulkaleem8927]

# Opinion As a GenZ, I have noticed that many of us are hesitant to share our feelings with others. This is because, in today's world, if you confess your feelings to someone, they may take you for granted and start judging you. It's almost like they have won you over, and in any situation, you will stick to them and never leave them. This gives them the upper hand to control you and your feelings, and dominate the relationship, which ultimately turns into a puppet show. Only one person (the dominator) will make decisions about the future, and the other person just follows their instructions. Meanwhile, if the dominator finds someone better or more challenging, they may ghost you like you don't even matter to them. This is similar to what Deepika said on Koffee with Karan, "In my mind, I'm committed to him, but I was seeing other guys." Unfortunately, even after getting into a relationship, people are actively looking for other partners, mostly girls.

[@ibelieveinmysupremacy2773]

frickin' true. and if we confess our true feelings, we are labeled immature. For most people, being matured = suppressing your feelings and acting neutral

[@dunus8076]

i don't know man but i think you are insecure about sharing your feelings. also "Only one person (the dominator) will make decisions about the future, and the other person just follows their instructions" that is a toxic relationship

[@Narayanputraa]

I have already told my parents that I'm not going to marry in this lifetime, everytime they ask me why not,i answer them that i like being lonely, I'm a genZ tho!! Edit: I was just expressing what I feel, I'm not recommending anyone to take a step like me

[@vedantrusty]

damn

[@raidenstark4964]

​@@vedantrustyBro, girls right and left are falsely accusing indian men of rape.

[@knowabhimishra]

Same here bro ❤😂

[@user-xd8mm4ph4r]

Apna haath jagannath 😂

[@SanataniDevansh4]

​@@user-xd8mm4ph4r Hey,you idiot how can you say jagannath bhagwan's name in something like this

[@tanaymalikk]

it honestly makes me feel proud to belong to the gen z and having a stable and long term relationship with my gf who i met during school and we're still together in college, with the intention to marry. I don't believe the ideology of "living your college life to the fullest", you can be committed in a long term relationship and enjoy the hell out of your college life. Id rather have a comfort space i can go to during tough times that i have trust on since a lot of years than whore myself around for momentary validation

[@soumyadipmukherjee6627]

Everyone life is not like yours bro exceptions are there but majority are like this itself

[@tanaymalikk]

sure i do agree with that. I got pretty lucky with what i got

[@dannyboy3413]

​@@tanaymalikkwhat is your height and looks?

[@tanaymalikk]

i look above average imo, but i am around 5'8 and my girl is 5'9 so height definitely did not play a role

[@wasteland3000]

tbh...depends on what kind of girl you're dating...most mature women won't see anything other than your personality...this is the truth...the others however demanding looks and 6 ft are immature ones😊

[@saloni357]

Please bring back OLD SCHOOL ROMANCE❤ Who is Gen Z like me but is an old school romantic?😊💗

[@Hashitjadav]

U got the point, why we are going in Western cultural relationship and I think after some year we will also buy a dog or any pet for giving love as they are more loyal then any person 😢😅

[@rahulanand5801]

Next gen will be picky in choosing pet in future​@@Hashitjadav Until people go to the basic they cannot be happy Career and relationships are two different things Switching in career gives you growth in career While staying in relation makes your relationship to grow But now everyone applying the formulae of career growth in romantic relationship and they are suffering from this You do benching Likeit company do I heard this 1st time and I am be like what the hell these guys are doing Even in career benching is oainful thing and you are doing it in relationship

[@kumarabhishek1064]

Use slowly

[@soumyadipmukherjee6627]

That'd tough now in this gen literally pure and real love is endangered now

[@ft.rishav]

Old school romance is time waste for men.

[@rishu.myself]

I keep hearing podcasts taki depth information mile. But ye choti si video me hi bahut depth me properly chizo ko explain kiya. Great video, keep uploading quality content. 💯

[@ibelieveinmysupremacy2773]

hey vedant, I appreciate your video. I just wanted to let you know that the news about CBSE is actually wrong. CBSE just announced it officially on their website. It is a page from another book. One thing, however, that should be discussed from that screenshot of the page is the quote on the top about relating to similarities and respecting the differences.

[@MDMR1]

We need to spread this message more harder now

[@creepybucket8738]

@@MDMR1 where? ur mom?

[@moudipas8025]

Love is an emotion and current marketing and social engineering somehow corelated it with beaty and looks and social status. We as kids don't make friends based on looks or social media but we have very fulfilling relationship in childhood. Relationships are like good investments so we can't take out the time factors from it. However having a healthy and debt free partner is very necessary for any. Long term relationship, but strangely this two details are never available in social media profiles.

[@Xyz-zr4jq]

In my opinion Dating culture is just timepass.

[@Dattebayo3089]

It's just hawas😂😂

[@alexryan43244]

Even worse than time pass. Time pass is a very civilized word 😊

[@Xyz-zr4jq]

@@alexryan43244 yes you are correct.

[@alexryan43244]

@@Xyz-zr4jq thanks for giving validation

[@Iamconfused-yn2qx]

Completely agreed!

[@RCBvlogs]

BEING INTO A RELATIONSHIP FOR 5 YEARS AND THEN SEEING YOUR PARTNER WITH SOMEONE ELSE ON VALENTINES DAY IS HEARTBREAKING!

[@wasteland3000]

uff😢

[@RCBvlogs]

@@wasteland3000 Gen Z issues...Where seriousness is a joke

[@wasteland3000]

@@RCBvlogs fr being genz I'm ashamed of some of these ppl

[@RCBvlogs]

@@wasteland3000 yeah

[@divy-]

I am a millennial, my partner left me after 5 years because "He was not *interested* anymore " So this is not a Genz issue relationship are a joke tgese days , irrespective of gender or generation. Abundance of option never allow you to be in peace 😅

[@namanmishra84]

Aajkal dosti ke naam pe bhi bakwaas ho raha hai

[@aena5995]

hain yar then the parents say why dont u hangout with ppl how do i tell them about these fake ppl

[@rockyjohnson6248]

The world is an illusion...dhoka hi milega yaha ...follow Acharya prashant

[@Trueneutron]

@@rockyjohnson6248 Mera Bhai Milgaya 🫂, A.P = ❤‍🔥

[@rohitbhatt9516]

sahi bola bhai aaj kal ke dosti bas ab chutiyapa ho gaya hai bas thabi mera koi accha dost nahi hai bas hi hello wale he hai

[@HEHEHEHEHEHE10]

I am afraid to date in this generation I'm in the early 20s but every time i meet some or go out with im afraid that it will end up in a situationship or other bull shit . You cannot love somone and expect that they will like you back cause this generation has so many options, and you look for the perfect good looking guy / girl to date and to make reels i feel ugly inside and out after dating somone and putting all my efforts but at the end efforts are useless until your handsome or beautiful this the thr truth for this generation and i cannot change myself and play try to catch me wala guy / girl everything is tooo Messy and i don't want to clean it up anymore

[@RishUnplugged]

This is your first video that i watched and guess what, subscribed right away! Initially had that shyness while watching a video on a not-so-discussed topic, but the way you said it all, and that too while being very clean and clear all throught, makes me feel like sharing this video with more people! Will definitely share with the GenZs in my Contact. Keep it Up❤

[@laxsneha]

Its pretty alarming that some of these people dont even want to look at each other as human beings! I am sure not all Gen Z are like this, yet its a huge numbr of people who are. I am wondering when these people would actually want to settle down after all these actions, how will they deal with this baggage? Because, this comes with huge emotional and psychological baggage.

[@rahulanand5801]

And we are saving water for this generation 😂

[@dunus8076]

its the fear of rejection

[@KanakMane-lu4bp]

​@@rahulanand5801 😂 school ke juniors ko dekhar mene petrol , electricity, pani sab ka kharcha bada diya he.

[@soumyadipmukherjee6627]

Well people are staying single now majority won't even marry also for sure majority will avoid dating and ignore women and girls this is the reality being a gen z saying the reality

[@govindkaudichya3184]

Honestly Speaking, I agree that meeting in person was way better and also very effective..the online dating is still tough for the average people. They are not still getting matched as each dating app is playing on the insecurities. I mean just by looking at pics people are drawing opinions which is not great. A meet or two would make it more understandable. The dating Term are just too many situationship , bread crumming etc. I guess people are doomed for sure

[@vedantrusty]

Patience bhi to nahi hai date karne ka

[@dannyboy3413]

What if a man is 5'3? Yeah, dating is pointless for him, online or offline, he's automatically disqualified. Preparing to die alone after my parents will pass away.

[@aakanshakapil8199]

Being a millennial, I have faced this behaviour from the men of my age or who are elder than me. . So, it is not the prob of gen z. . It is the problem of the whole human race...

[@AdityaSingh-ot8vu]

I am born 2002 genz hoon lekin sharam aati hai yar kya hi ban diya hai kash 90s kid hota mein khud ko genz nhi maanta bhake hi hoon .ladkiyon ka dimag khrb hai kdrama ki wajah bas ladkiyon ko looks aur accha ladka chaiye galat nhi hai par standards bohot zyada hain ladkiyon ke ladke bbi kam nhi .mujhe toh smj nhi aata agar aise hi chlta rha toh relationshipsaur marriage toh hone se rhi . Mtlb aaj ke time mein true love mushkil hai rare hota hoga .

[@AdityaSingh-ot8vu]

@AashishTelgote-zx4wp voi toh aaj ke time mein aur chud chuki hai relationships

[@Shayistic]

hmare standards me toh koi fark hi nhi aaya bro 🤡 (insta + corn)

[@SS-vf5zf]

Indian drama bhi kuch accha nhi sikha rhe . Apne Behen ya friend ke husband pr line Maarna,... Pati dusri shaadi kr le toh Pati ko blame krne ki jagah dusri ldki ko blame krna, ... chahe kitni bhi educated rich aur intelligent female lead dikhaya jaye pr pyaar toh aise ldke se hi kregi jo phele se shaadi shuda ho, uski disrespect krta ho ,char baar ghar se nikaal dia ho.

[@anurag.twentysix]

Are bhai mai bhi 2002 wala Genz hoon and I feel the same.

[@rockyjohnson6248]

Do you even need anybody..are you incomplete alone? ...this is just an illusion..Follow Acharya prashant

[@shriyasp304]

So I truly consider myself lucky to have found that ONE person I want to LOVE for the rest of my life. I won’t say the Generation is fucked up, I’d rather say, they are in urgent need of help ; emotionally, mentally and spiritually. There will always be someone better, but the best feeling in the world is to see the one person become better for you over the course of time.

[@JjkJjk-or9kc]

Lol everyone says that until breakups happen, dating culture is unstable and there's a reason it results in the breakdown of family systems

[@user-gq1ij]

Yeah, it's easy for you to say

[@himeshsinghshishodiya]

​@@JjkJjk-or9kc Ho gaya? Nikal le ab.

[@sufferbetter1387]

I was becoming better for someone and she rejected me, good for her

[@RIASSENPAI]

The rope and chair looking at me cutely I can't avoid it.

[@shwayne9864]

Same😢😢

[@adityasalunkhe1288]

what is rope and chair??

[@BHAGAWAT26]

💀

[@rahulanand5801]

Khudkhusi ka baat kar rha h wo​@@adityasalunkhe1288

[@helium999_]

💀

[@amitjha9397]

This man has revived his channel preety well KZbin ka course launch kardo

[@vedantrusty]

lol, last time kiya tha channel doob gaya tha ab nahi karunga xD

[@teekshanheeragcet--]

A few things i noticed- more interaction with us better sound quality sophisticated sound effects TITLES ARE DAMN CATCHY "DARK REALITY ,,,,,, TRUTH OF ,,,,,, ETC. TRENDING GENERAL TOPICS TRIED AND TESTED BY OTHER CREATORS

[@amitjha9397]

@@teekshanheeragcet-- let's start an agency 🕺

[@Imrealwizard]

Dating is pretty hard in this generation ask me why? 1)ladkio ki expectations chand pe pohch gayi h(6ft atleast, gora , good hair , facial structure and what not) 2)jo pesa me kisi ladki pe spent karunga vo khud pe karke ya apne parents pe spend karke khud ko satisfy kar skta hu 3)HOOKUP CULTURE

[@mrperfect587]

1 to hu me per me 2 point ke Karan me abhi single hu

[@silvermeta2421]

Blonde?

[@anushka__rajak]

I agree with you.👍🏻👍🏻

[@maleuser]

Bhai yaar there are millions or girls only few of them are so called this type not everyone yaar 🤧

[@anushka__rajak]

@@maleuser yeah, we know, but ajkal maximum girls in India are like this. The proportion of bad has increased and good has reduced very much post pandemic. I'm a girl and i am saying you this, from my observations on female friendships yaar. Friendships par kitna zyada gand feli huyi hai, ye love, dating, relationships mei to aur bhi zyada hai.😞😞💔💔

[@mohammadshafashaikh]

As a genz i can confirm everything you said is right.

[@premchawariya6464]

10:00 I agree it happened to me and I hate it that something which felt beautiful was eventually started to effect me negatively

[@hrys_321]

Thank God, i and my boyfriend love each other alot and we have been together for 3years now and i just wish that we always stay together, we try to know abt each other and learn what makes the other one sad, so that we can improve ourselves...i hope people learn to be loyal and clean with a pure partner

[@baburao103]

As a pretty above-average looking (I believe a decent 6/10), peculiarly well dressed, Indian male in my mid 20s, tier 1 city. This video is spot on with every analogy and analysis. It's a sad state of affairs for our generation, man. Don't even ask what toll it takes on a man's self esteem when bad experiences happen through dating apps, or you're not even able to score any match at all ! (and yes I am photogenic). On top of that ghosting is like a habit on women side due to the "entitlement" and abundance of options - issues you discussed and the natural loneliness that we were just given by fate being born in this time. What can I say man, no solutions just god bless us and everyone.

[@ArjunVerma-wx7tf]

Yup women do have alot of options as their social value is higher than that of a man as women can get somebody in an instant where we have to work hard again to get another women to like us. Man is expected to chase, impress, work hard to get a women whereas women just only judges a man cuz they know this gen has pedestalize them that another person is ready to hit on her as she can pick and choose which person is more favourable. I'm not being misogynistic here but that's the sad reality.

[@kamartaj3010]

I agree with you. Girls loge ghosting purposely. Timepass k liye hot bad boy chahiye and marriage k liye well settled banda

[@baburao103]

@@kamartaj3010 yeah cuz fuckboiz ain't marrying around // will not be faithful husbands even if they do marry haha ! it's a rigged game out here bruh.

[@suryanshsharma780]

great video Vedant, just a suggestion.. try to summarise video points in the end because sometimes we lose track

[@rahulkulkarni2611]

I can't thank you enough for making a video on this brother ❤ it really should reach a lot many guys and girls out there.

[@vedantrusty]

Hope so

[@subhajitsarkar4432]

Nowadays relationship has become a vegetable market. People go to the market and bid. If the bid is made then it is made. If you don't like it, bring whatever you like.

[@adityasingh-tr3tu]

Bahut ch:utiya analysis h , it's not like that, you are a agony aunt

[@rahulanand5801]

And here we are saving water for this generation 😂

[@rehmatkaurmann1285]

dating sphere me kuch bhi kar le, par zinda rehna to fir bhi deserve krte hai hum 🥲

[@PriyankaKumari-mp2ve]

If u r saving them you are saving for future not this gen ... genz

[@slayer81]

​@@PriyankaKumari-mp2ve rahul gandhi and salman khan both are gen z

[@PriyankaKumari-mp2ve]

@@slayer81 definitely 😂 genz

[@That_Perspective.]

​@@rehmatkaurmann1285exactly 😂💯

[@sibot6482]

Great video ❤ , I deleted every social media apps from my phone 1 yr back n let KZbin stay bcz I listen to music tho , it feels great trust me

[@Prak_anand]

Thankk goddd u showed light over thissss

[@vedantrusty]

Welcome

[@ironicaaz3593]

AS A GEN Z GUY, DATING APPS IS THE WORST THING EVER INVENTED

[@xa4ryuffy]

This generation is filled with losers, and its destined to face its inevitable. The best will survive with the power of adaptation and reasoning along with me and would create a hook on the failures finally dominating em.

[@rehmatkaurmann1285]

Dissing an entire generation. Waah bhai 🥳

[@misogynisticMAN]

Gotta agree on this . We haven't worked enough in ourselves (myself mainly)

[@slayer81]

​@@rehmatkaurmann1285 50+ bhi rahul gandhi and Bollywood k budhe star's h

[@xa4ryuffy]

@@slayer81 what?

[@VS-0987]

Yeah bro that's the confidence 😂

[@darkvader125]

i am also 1996 guy born in octber can atest to that dating is hard because we people are way too bombarded with info and no one wants to live slow and practical life to till this date i am a single and i am okay with it

[@vedantrusty]

True

[@darkvader125]

Though some consider me as gen z and some gen y

[@saaranshkaul3184]

You make quality content. Sometimes I disagree with your viewpoints, and still I like watching your videos.

[@sarthakkharade7112]

great video rusty bhai, such a long video but at no point was i bored, i was hooked, great work

[@vedantrusty]

Thank you so much 😀

[@harshrajput-fj4qm]

Not going to watch this video because i have seen a ton of videos like these where genz is like apparently said to be the worst generation. They always get away saying this jaise ki is se pehle wali generation ekdm sadhu hoti thi . Hookups existed before bs we did not know about it because we only saw those thing which were showed to us. Since there is internet access to almost everyone around the world we think that ki is generation me hi kharabi hai.

[@Ayushijha837]

Finally a sensible comment

[@Doom-r4v]

read some social researches conducted and you will find the truth .Its always easy to assume things brother.And i can bet with you the people who are conducting these reasearches are a lot better than me and you in this field .Maybe try listening to them.

[@sahilprusty]

just an observation... Whenever u lower ur tone during a monologue, the audio is really inaudible.. U gotta fix that problem... So many parts I just have to guess what u r saying

[@jeredquidlars8819]

metaphors doesn't really matter when the story you are telling to the people just to prove a point.. WE MUST INDIVIDUATE EVENTUALLY.

[@sahilprusty]

@@jeredquidlars8819 what ??

[@teekshanheeragcet--]

thank god " dark reality" is not there this time

[@vedantrusty]

lolll

[@nishchaysrivastava6251]

Me being a millennial who met my wife on tinder…

[@vedantrusty]

Damn

[@adityaadhikary942]

U wife must a millennial too...ig 🙂

[@NaanuBharat]

Bhai log, feeling veryyyyy lonely please talk to me about my problems. I don't know what to do. I am having anxiety attacks. I haven't dated in my life time and I am 25. I don't know how to express what is going on in my life right now

[@vedantrusty]

oh no

[@chrome6715]

​@@vedantrustyrusty thats sooo cold 😭

[@MunichNagar]

Bhai Shwetabh bhai ko dekha kar

[@Sarcasmka14]

Bhai bahar jake ke gumo firo Job Karo, skills sikho or exercises karo

[@harshaddewangan]

​@@vedantrustyvedant saale pagal hai kya 😔

[@himanshimahajan76]

And that's why I avoid any relationship.... For the time being I'll just focus on myself..✨

[@mohammadshafashaikh]

Genuine question, when are you getting married? What age do you think is right, what's your op on arriange and love marriage, in case love marriage, how are going to approach it assuming you have a hell lot of options. Just curious

[@mohammadshafashaikh]

@vedantrusty

[@rehmatkaurmann1285]

Fun lag raha tha, toh I'll also answer. I'll get married when I find the right person.. This is so vague but I believe ki when it's right, I'll know. I think both love and arranged marriage are cool, kyuki aaj kal arranged marriages bhi thori change ho gayi hai na. Ladka ladki get to know each other before agreeing for marriage. The only difference is ki parents introduce karate hai. But ideally toh I would want a love marriage. I am pretty young, in my teens, so I don't know how I'll approach it. I just hope to find someone along the way, organically.

[@BreakFeast]

I have been watching your videos for quite some time now but this deserves to be your most popular video on KZbin💯

[@abhayagarwal2589]

Dating and marriage in India is extremely risky for men with the kind of draconian laws we have. If you breakup with your gf after she cheated on you, she can still file a rape on false promise of marriage case on you. If you marry, fake 498a, dowry Harrasment, DV cases can be filed against you. Even if she cheats, she will still be entitled to alimony and maintenance. Hence, India is a risky place for men to have coitus. They are on the mercy of whims and fancies of women.

[@thevains]

Indeed it's not worth it to marry anymore now in india after ucc bill that have applied you can't even be with in a living relationship in india you literally have to register yourself to be even dating one person and now it's compulsory for every marriage to register after marriage so you have to involve government and court in your personal life I can't see a reason why you should even date or even stay in India after all this

[@bhagyashree28d]

Wow seen so many girls have breakups and no one filed a rape case . Based on few cases cant judge everyone. By logic even women are not safe what if the guy rapes and kills the girl.

[@bhagyashree28d]

@@thevainsindia ke bahar bhi tumhare misogynist mindset ke sath tumhe koi ghaas dalne nai wala

[@AmishKumar-lc7zs]

​@@bhagyashree28d Get lost attention seeker.

[@amartyaroychowdhury3977]

Editor messed up in those light leak transitions 🙄, forgot to change the blend mode to 'screen'

[@strategicarts8969]

Ya something's f**ked up here 18:10 😀

[@VrushaSharma-is6ev]

After listening and reading articles about how doomed GenZ is literally and figuratively, it's safe to say that dating and marriage is just for show. Love has lost it's essence and today lust is the new love. It's wild and pathetic now. Better to stay single, in peace ,than to have bad company.

[@vedantrusty]

damn

[@dunus8076]

but isn't marriage always been for show. in olden times marriage was used as political bargaining tool, to form alliances b/w 2 kingdoms.

[@VrushaSharma-is6ev]

@@dunus8076 from that pov, what you're saying is correct but I'm talking about marriages that are born out of love. There are so many examples wherein two people get married because they think they're in love but when the actual responsibility of being married falls on their shoulders, they suddenly realize that it wasn't love and file for separation. We really have the meanings of love and lust twisted these days.

[@RishavKumarAum]

​@@dunus8076only kings used to marry for alliance other all were normal married only 1 time

[@ppwholesquare]

You are judging 99% of Genzs by seeing the actions of very small percentage of Genzs. Also they are from metro cities. But in Tier-2,3 cities actually your all points are not valid at all.

[@vedantrusty]

nope

[@User-22ps457]

​@@vedantrustyYou are wrong. I live in Jhansi and here youths are way more concerned about their career. Mostly people are Middle class with no option rather than getting job. These are mostly common in metro cities. Not here.

[@D402S]

​@@User-22ps457Exactly. These "modern" gen z people are kids in cities who come from rich backgrounds and spend their entire time on the internet, dating, girls, etc. Most of us are just middle class trying to get into IITs, IIMs, FAANG, etc.

[@chaitanyaatre574]

@@User-22ps457he hasn’t said anything about career and stuff. He’s concerned about dating part of GENZs

[@gauravpathak17]

Yes i agree with you, I'm a gen z too but I'm concerned of my career and life and ofcourse family

[@roshanpatty]

26:00 cbse offically cleared that they have not added relationship chapter in their curriculum that image is from completely other book.

[@agx111]

25:35 yeah i approached it also failed approaching does not work either

[@rehmatkaurmann1285]

It was never a fool proof method. Rejections and heartbreaks have always been around. Happens to everybody, it's a part of life

[@ravijotsingh7831]

Lovely research work Rusty Bhai.... I am like wow wtf!

[@vedantrusty]

Thanks mate

[@maclen8331]

bhai 9th ki book me koi chapter introduce nahi hua hai wo koi aur book hai do proper reserch man btw love your work

[@avinashprasadfilms]

Main point of the video: 26:47 (Save your time boys)

[@vedantrusty]

bas iss jaise log hi fir point miss kar jate hai aur akele reh jate hai

[@mohammadshafashaikh]

😂😂​@@vedantrusty

[@BharatZimmedarNagrik]

​@@vedantrustybhai tumhe to watch time chahiye na koi na

[@andyc9902]

​@@vedantrusty talk about the attention deficiency. And reels culture too. This step from it.

[@pandyssianrat]

Damn, is Vedant also doing AI thumbnails now?

[@aryansingh8088]

26:00 its a fake news. CBSE has not introduced any chapter regarding "Dating and Relationships". It has been clarified by CBSE itself on their twitter handle. The viral image is not of any Textbook of standard 9th but in fact from a book titled "A guide to Self Awareness and Empowerment" written by Gagan Deep Kaur. The CBSE neither publishes nor recommends books of any private publishers. Hope Vedant Bhaiya will see this comment and try to correct it as soon as possible.

[@Kshitij_Ballaya]

why did i find this video while i just found a match on a dating app

[@Harsh_2006e]

The Universe is giving you a warning

[@aayushii_m]

Sign*💀

[@theexploringneuron]

The concept of dating apps and stuff is SICK!

[@gaurang_the_dhamankar]

16:45 Now I understand why many tech company CEOs said that "AI is scary". Even if that clip was on mute, it is terrifying to see how AI is like an unleashed demon. I am not well-versed with laws, but if it is not included in the IT act, we need a separate and robust law for AI systems governing what it can and cannot do.

[@Suraj.5260]

My story no relationship in life currently I m 22 had some crushes but never had a relationship.😢

[@kiran75424]

This year I'll turn 29 no relationships nothing better to start working yourself

[@xa4ryuffy]

you dont need a relationship for now atleast... Arent you loved enough by your family?

[@rehmatkaurmann1285]

@@xa4ryuffy It's a different kind of love. Nothing wrong with seeking romantic relationship

[@arrow2380]

@@rehmatkaurmann1285 not realistic for most men

[@rehmatkaurmann1285]

@@arrow2380 i polietly disagree

[@harsh....6549]

Well i look decent, and in the past i had couple of proposals but i have rejected them bcz my family did my engagement when i was 7-8 years old... I am now 19 and haven't seen her in like 6-7 years... I dont know how she looks or behave but only expections i have is she should have a good character and she should be understanding... I hope she is not cheating on me right now 😅

[@subhchintak3485]

Real engagement 😮?

[@MDMR1]

Damn

[@SumitAcedMagic]

From rajasthan?

[@anurag.twentysix]

What will you do if you find out your one is dating someone else?

[@harsh....6549]

@@SumitAcedMagic madhya Pradesh bro!!!

[@unknownspirit3967]

Hey, Vedant. can you provide link to the psychology experiment? I want to know more about it. I tried finding it but I couldn't.

[@Trueneutron]

Arrey wo Psychologist vedant khud tha 🤫🤓

[@RishiePathari]

The topic i needed to be cleared by you is here finally 😌

[@vedantrusty]

ayeeeee

[@selina9002]

honestly nowadays being in a relationship is shamed over being single.

[@NivitMishra]

Dating is less about having a loved one and more about validation, having a partner is an accessory, I don't like to shove down my idea of dating down someone's throat, but words have meanings and what's going on is more in line with pleasure seeking than relationships BTW feels good to see Rushty Saab doing good in terms of views, good luck man

[@Failed_Abortion]

A bit of over sharing, so my mom dad are divorced, my dad cheated on my mom and i have grown up in a not so good environment constant fights abuses. Cut to now I'm dating a guy who i love alot and he loves me too and i know he wont cheat on me cause he has waited 7 years for me but he has a very odd career he wants to be a director and is constantly busy in his shoots there are days when he doesnt even text me that's not the issue, the issue is when any girl comes near him i start feeling the rage and it's uncontrollable what should i do?

[@aena5995]

thats why i am not sure if i wanna be in one because men are such cheaters and dont even communicate properly

[@Shayistic]

communicate with him tell him how you feel most probably you have an anxious attachment style because of your past with your dad read about it and let him know

[@Failed_Abortion]

@@Shayistic I told him he says he'll stay away from girls but ofc girls are bound to talk to him because of his role, I get enraged and my heart starts pounding because of it, man I'm just dead idk what to do 🙂

[@abhiwagh2312]

​@@Failed_AbortionDon't worry if he is giving you all the signs to trust him just trust him and try to put your mind into something else some other activities keep yourself busy, these thoughts won't come in your mind. Just don't do anything stupid such as keeping eye on him or fighting or arguing just based on something you just thought. Also just engage with each other about what you did in the whole day just as some fun activity daily. Nothing will happen. Chill.

[@Shayistic]

you should read about activating mechenism in anxious attachment and how to work through it I know this feeling tbh lol, it feels like you whole world's gonna fall apart you can read the book 'attached' to know yourself better (just the anxious part ) one advise would be work on your self esteem @@Failed_Abortion

[@poojaprasad7354]

In my opinion, relationships have been commoditized to support the social media personality rather than the other way round. Gen z has been brought up under an overprotective umbrella with a lot of resources. Therefore, the adults of this generation have now come to expect the same comfort and instant gratification from every facet of their lives. Working hard, having patience and waiting for things to unfold in their own time is not something that the generation holds in high value.

[@reetupaswan8244]

Great video Sir. You have done great study and research. 😎

[@Viom890]

srsly patience nd adjusting is really declining day by day in people !

[@Leeknows_Iris777]

Because Millenials made casual relationships and live in relationships so normal that Gen Z's are stuck in situationships, lol. Also, Bollywood has further propagated it through movies. Don't just blame us!

[@arunimaverma8130]

as a girl who has been on dating apps... 4 out of 5 matches are trying to get laid. It's really frustrating when you think someone actually likes you or is interested but just ask for noods instead

[@kingdomprotista4057]

I'm a gen z and literally my dating life is so fucked and like I am even scared to talking to people... These ghosting stuffs has affected me emotionally Like last relationship was I was continuously pretending to be that version of myself which I was not irl . That guy acted up in every small details and I just went w the flow and finally decided to break up a 3 year relationship

[@speedythings7396]

Over for jeets

[@kshitijnale6913]

I usually don't watch new KZbinrs, because of they don't have art of storytelling, but bro you hold my attention for almost 25 mins and your other vids too. Now I'm your subscriber!!! Keep growing bro!!

[@workwraith]

We need to understand that relationships are built over time. It's not that they're perfect since the first day. There can always be a better one but the relationship you build yourself with a person will always stay unique, hence irreplaceable.

[@Arnav-p9i]

Mujhe first time khud pe proud mehsus hua because i belong to Gen Z born in 1999 but have really got obsession for Old era.

[@HEMANTKUMAR-hi7th]

As per Modi Ji, this is “GENDU GENERATION”, and really this upcoming smart generation is really ripped off. this makes me fear about more darker times waiting in future, if these things were not managed and controlled. really F up generation.

[@snehaprasad9554]

He is only talking on relationships ; but not on future of genz's which is a very important aspect

[@passionatefootballfan1462]

Have been watching your videos for quite some days. Your new subscriber. Keep going brother 👍👍👍

[@vedantrusty]

Welcome aboard!

[@rs-tarxvfz]

Your audio recording is very BASS can you lower down bass.

[@rl3920]

The gay dating world is even worse. Loyalty, fidelity, monogamy and other pious things are out of window there !! Gays cant express themselves in public or classroom or to parents to find partner so only way left is dating apps but its just sex there sadly!! Have given up finally ! Learning to enjoy my own company though i am not good at it but kya kare...... destiny 😅

[@imdead_-7756]

R u gay bro?

[@anulavanee3441]

As a person who had suffered from toxic and backstabbing friends, I've lost faith in friendship as well as any kinda relationship either it's casual, serious or one time. I've decided to be single for lifetime, support my parents and enjoy with my younger siblings. I've also seen my classmates who were giving their 100% in relationship end up being betrayed or having toxic partners, I don't want any drama in my life so being single seems best option for me.

[@shubhamsingh-no8jf]

Do you think dating has same commitment values that of a serious relationship which people think will weigh them down in their career ? So they prefer hustle over relationships ? Even for casual sex we are picky 😂

[@VG__]

6:02 compromises 10:15 insecurity 17:13 ⭐