Holy- For the past two months I've been in this state of "numbness" and lack of motivation for anything, even life. I've felt like I was spiraling into a routine of hell daily, and seeing this video on my feed today just told me everything I've been subconsciously telling myself but was too afraid to commit to. That fear of the unknown and breaking away from everything that I thought I knew kept me from becoming a better me. A new me. I needed this, and judging from the similar comments here, everyone else needed it, too.
@kiwitastic9182 Жыл бұрын
Never heard anyone put it into words as best as this, it’s the exact same for me. Hope ur doing okay!!
@Ellie-jz6yu Жыл бұрын
I feel you deeply, deeply.
@venusd1946 Жыл бұрын
THIS VOICEOVER, THE CURLS, THE SUBTLE MOVEMENTS. May this be in more peoples algorithms. Just subscribed!! SHEESH!!
@DOULATIFFANY Жыл бұрын
Girrrla thank you for being open to share this cus this hit home! So many of us on the same energy wave✨❤️❤️
@abigxrl Жыл бұрын
💛💛🙏🏽
@its_jak Жыл бұрын
I'm actually on the process of building my confidence and socializing,and what I realized is that it's actually feels great and easier than what i always thought it's hard lol... I first started going on church (which is kinda crowded but fr it helping me a lot)
@robinandbiscuit168311 ай бұрын
God's grace is with you you've got this. I have had a similar thing of socialising in Church and my Church has an evening service which I prefer because its quieter but I have friends there. Find the right service for you if your Church has multiple and whatever happens know in your heart that God is in control no one else and he cares about you ❤
@fauna888711 ай бұрын
Wow I've never thought I'd see a similar circumstance here. Recently, I started joing the hospitality team in my church and realized that all my fear in socializing was nothing because I did fine in talking and knowing about other people! What really hinders us from being better is our mind that cages us. By God's grace I was able to serve without a problem. I'll be praying for you so keep on keeping on!
@Katherinn Жыл бұрын
Im afraid of youtube now cause WTH this was JUST ON TIME! bless you girl! kisses from Chile and many thanks!!
@abigxrl Жыл бұрын
Hahahahha 💛 thank you!
@QsLifeX Жыл бұрын
I have had a lot of moments in my life where I have been afraid of what will happen trying something new. I end up pushing it away, but this video makes me realize that I am halting success by working through this by simply trying. If I try then I can say I did it, the outcome shouldn’t matter. I needed this.❤️
@ugojijessica6977 Жыл бұрын
Exactly my struggle here. I really pray I get through this 🙏
@kerry-j4m Жыл бұрын
@@ugojijessica6977 You will.Just start small,baby steps. Make a small move.
@valentin.nguyen11 ай бұрын
this video is...... the EXACT push & energy I needed. one of the biggest fears I overcame recently was starting a youtube channel - fear of how people would perceive me, fear that people would not care for me or my content, etc. hearing you speak about your experiences what dealing with your own fears of the unknown has inspired me to continue pushing myself even when I feel the slightly bit of fear or discouragement, and think more about embracing opportunities in an optimistic way. thank you ❤
@XZ858XZ Жыл бұрын
This is such a beautifully made video! And I personally needed to hear this message. Plz keep up the great work!
@abigxrl Жыл бұрын
Thank you 🙏🏽💛
@serenedione11 ай бұрын
"The worship of fear emasculates greatness‼️" Thank you for this perspective. 🫴🏽✝️❤️🛐✨
@twinkincarnate Жыл бұрын
I really appreciate your existence. Even though I don't know you, seeing you reconnect with a past friend and living your best life made me very happy. It reminded me that anything is possible, and that I can do it too. I also haven't journaled since January this year, and yet somehow you've convinced me to open it up again and do the prompt you suggested haha. I don't want to live my life in fear anymore. I've been mentally and emotionally "stuck" this entire year, feeling rained with no motivation, rarely going outside, and not being close to anyone anymore. Anyway, I digress, thank you so much for this ❤
@abigxrl Жыл бұрын
Thank you so much for sharing 🙏🏽 I’m glad you found the story inspiring and I hope the journal prompt was helpful. Wishing you all the best 💛💛💛
@lacthetomato Жыл бұрын
The way you articulated it and put it together was so sweetly done I love every word you said 🥺✨🌈☀️
@dignoragonzalez9652 Жыл бұрын
I literally started implementing Nike's motto as a life mantra a few months ago because i'm so sick of living in fear. Since then, I've been planning so I can start taking action as soon as possible.
@abigxrl Жыл бұрын
Amazing to hear 💛
@ninaswinkels807911 ай бұрын
This vid popped up en I shed a tear at the end of it. In 2 weeks i am going to move across the world to south-Afrika for a half year. It’s been stressful. But you reminded me that almost 2 years ago i made the same decision to move across the country, it was the best decision ever. You reminded me that if I could do it then. I could do it now. And stop overthinking. Thank you🙏🏻🤍. Sending love ❤️
@fauna888711 ай бұрын
Thank you for this. This is exactly what I needed to hear today. Ever since we moved to a different country, I've slowly regressed into this mould. For 6 six years I've stayed in this mould because of fear. Our life here was so unstable that I fear for my future. I fear of the possibility of going back home where we would start everything from scratch. But hearing this, I'm trying my best to not fear and strive for the better. What I realized is that we shouldn't fear of the intangible circumstances. A lot times things are way out of our control and all we can do is just accept it. Again, thank you for this and God bless you!
@tiarobinson5961 Жыл бұрын
I needed to hear this from you girl, you talking about being nervous with presentations/job interviews really hit home for me as I’m a student right now in my junior year of university thinking a LOT about what will be of my near future. I thank you kindly for your words
@mariechrismuncal Жыл бұрын
GORL! THANK YOU for reminding me to have faith in GOD always. First video, I've watched on your channel and i love. Keep making these videos because it motivates be to put myself out there. xx
@kerry-j4m Жыл бұрын
Yes,have faith in God. The bible says-FAITH-without works is-DEAD. Make small moves at first to get out of your comfort zone. GO get'em-SOLDIER !!!! LOL.
@girl_moss11 ай бұрын
WOW this was just what i needed to watch. i'm at a very clear turning point in my life right now and i've been trying my hardest to not let *the fear* stop me from diving into the transition head first. it's almost always ourselves stopping us from leveling up in life, don't sabotage your own greatness!! thank you for making this video
@T_NallsOfficial Жыл бұрын
Your words of wisdom are so potent and powerful, Thank you for the work that you do🙏🏽❣️
@abigxrl Жыл бұрын
@ren.2374 Жыл бұрын
thank u so much for making this video , it made me cry but thats a good thing because i finally get what that eerie dark feelings that have been with me for years now really are - i definitely got closer to an answer over the years but this just described exactly what it is . Fear can hold our life's captive in so many different ways and with the endless chatter of social media u can just avoid facing your fears without even realising how and when every single thing in your life started catering to iT.
@abigxrl Жыл бұрын
Absolutely
@jordanelise5817 Жыл бұрын
This is my first video I’m ever watching of you and immediately, thank you for being so authentic and brave in sharing your voice. It’s so so nice to listen and learn a new perspective
@theseer165 Жыл бұрын
Thank you love, starting my business this week and this popped up, divine timing, peace and blessings 🧡✨
@kyndallhill36 Жыл бұрын
I did not want this video to be over! I was hungry for more of this goodness. Definitely was food for my soul. Thank you for sharing!!
@DiariesofaTwentySomething Жыл бұрын
Love this I totally needed this and spoke about overcoming fear as well and how it has really held me back from starting to do things that really align with my and not just with what people want me to be.
@TrueRay17 Жыл бұрын
Thank you definitely needed this. I keep doubting and wondering if I would be good enough but like you said..."finish our own race".
@timetravelingjukebox Жыл бұрын
This video appeared on my timeline at the perfect time! Thank you for the much needed encouragement and inspiration! And it was really special hearing about your experiences travelling. I hope to travel more someday!
@abigxrl Жыл бұрын
Thank youu 💛💛
@s.anasajid11 ай бұрын
If you are watching this video this is your sign to do things you always wanted to do
@stephaniemoura9325 Жыл бұрын
Not related but I loveeeee the set up on this video! The plants! The natural matérias, the soft warm light! It’s literally everything! ❤
@giselak1719 Жыл бұрын
this video reached me in a dire time of life. thank you so much for creating such a beautiful community. Love you back:)
@robinandbiscuit168311 ай бұрын
God made this pop up just in time. Tomorrow i go back to college after a term where i have been falsely accused for things and have been prejudiced and discriminated against because im a Christian in whispers behind my back and subtle hatred just to have to sit with these people tomorrow and this was perfect. I also have a few other decisions i need to be making and i am holding onto every thread God gives me in making those because making the right decisions is so important to me in this situation
@竹内湘 Жыл бұрын
I really like you. the way you talk with confidence, the way you tell your audience you love them without any shyness
@leaguillermo4454 Жыл бұрын
14:00 just wow, this message came to me at the right time. I just had a job interview over the weekend and got rejected so it’s been weighing on my mind but your words of reassurance really put me at ease so ty!
@LoveIsTheMainKey Жыл бұрын
Your poem grabbed me and the title. This is so inspiring and motivating. Thank you for sharing this with us 👍💕🔔
@ajahcanty10 ай бұрын
what a beautiful video. the visuals, but most importantly the message. we all need to hear this regardless of the path we’re each on. life is so beautiful and fragile yet rewarding when you push past your own limitations. “the worship of safety emasculates greatness.”
@a.lumpia11 ай бұрын
I've been watching videos all day to prepare myself for 2024...but yours is one of the best. This video was just so real and just everything I need to get that push to start. Thank you!
@vviva5 Жыл бұрын
I feel like I've been stuck in a cycle of fatigue and frustration longer than the times that I've let myself try new things, because i didn't trust myself to explore life and fail meanwhile trying. When you wrote Villajoyosa I knew instantly that I was meant to come across this video beaucse all of what you're saying resonates with me and, most importantly, I live really close to there, I hope you all had fun and muchísimas gracias for the video, for rekindling the passion of lots of people and for being authentic, you're an angel.
@abigxrl Жыл бұрын
Waw thats amazing, wishing you all the best 💛
@belsi8207 Жыл бұрын
What you have shared with us in this video are the exact thoughts and realizations that have suddenly been lingering in my mind for the past three days. I'd like to add that I don't use KZbin as a motivator; meaning that I only use it for entertainment. This video appeared on my feed and I usually would ignore it or even tell KZbin that I am "not interested" but I am so glad I clicked anyway. I love this confirmation. I love how you took the time to share this with us. Most of all, I love how this invisible energy? force? thing?? knew I didn't completely understand, or in words at least, and took this video that you made 2 months ago and put in on my feed. I hope you know what a great thing it is that you are doing. Striving for this peace, learning it, feeling it, battling it, and to then make a beautiful piece of art to share the wisdom you've acquired with all who may need it. Thank you so much Abi. xx
@haru_1997 Жыл бұрын
this is pure motivation + nice storytelling ❤
@faustine1717 Жыл бұрын
you have no idea how much I needed to hear this right now. All I can say is I LOVE YOU SM AND GOD BLESS YOU!
@souriko9146 Жыл бұрын
Thank you so so much for your video Abi ! 🥹🫶🙏 I am in a phase of my life where fear is eating me alive in all of my different spheres (friendship, love, career, personal projects, etc) so thank you for your videos. It really resonated in my soul and my heart. I’m ready to kick off that FEAR 🦵🏻💥💥💥
@adeniekelewis-gibbs3711 Жыл бұрын
And I am so happy we connected ❤ What a beautiful lesson in being fearless, ignoring the what-ifs and embracing possibility!
@abigxrl Жыл бұрын
Nieke!!!! love you girl can't wait to reconnect again
@ttrosee8 Жыл бұрын
I absolutely needed this, safe to say I’m inspired 💜🥹 subscribed && I’m tuning in .. peace + blessings ✨
@mayabdu3862 Жыл бұрын
I'm in my last year of high school so this helped me put things into perspective more, thank you!
@paulbudnowski9750 Жыл бұрын
Such good content. You have a certificate calming demeanor, and paired with the motivation... Such a good feeling
@aylinnnnnnnnnnnnn Жыл бұрын
Ur video has popped a while ago on my page and i downloded it without knowing your channel,you etc.The way you speak about friendships and connected it to our human life literally gave me the vibe of me talking from her highest form,future self.Or it was simply a big sister advice that i have never experienced of at home.Thank you❤
@raiahjade Жыл бұрын
This video just inspired me to take that leap of faith, love it! 😊
@PicturingArt Жыл бұрын
Yes, it's really is cool to reconnect with or remain friends with a childhood friend. Imagine experiencing this at my age; 64. :)
@basedmish Жыл бұрын
Thank you for this - listening to this as I shower
@abigxrl Жыл бұрын
So good to hear 🥰💛
@rreyyahh Жыл бұрын
samee !
@cathlinivana Жыл бұрын
i wish i have the courage to reach out to old friends, wish i could be brave enough to try things and pursue whatever it is. but i literally run on anxiety and worries. even in my cozy days, i still feel uneasy. i just do what im told and stopped pursuing what i like because it feels scary to the point that it numbs me. i’ll save this vid and rewatch, along with the other videos that i found. thank you for sharing your thoughts and making this video. hope people who are like me will keep going no matter how hard it is to move one step ahead.
@dorothykapembwa3237 Жыл бұрын
This video is so timely💗
@azariaferrer Жыл бұрын
this video was so inspiring! your energy is amazing and i completely resonated with your point about embracing the mystery. instead of operating out of fear, why not operate from the energy that maybe things will turn out better than you expected? anyways, this video was so creative and empowering. love it
@ch3ngg Жыл бұрын
i loved the poem at the start! i find your voice so calming!
@mekj663 Жыл бұрын
I love you! I just came across this video in divine timing of course. But you have a new member to your channel. Thank you! Let's be a blessing to one another!
@RuckyArt Жыл бұрын
Thank you for this video, I came out of a very very chaotic emotional moment and I'm making some decisions and setting very scary goals for a near future and even though I'm aware we're capable of achieving everything, putting our minds and heart to it, there are always mental blocks and fears that prevent us from taking the first step towards our best life. Your words inspired me and filled me with courage to go after these goals even more confidently now! Wish you the best!
@rooted.seaside10 ай бұрын
So happy to have found your video! This is exactly what I needed! Universal magic ✨️❤️
@maryoffduty Жыл бұрын
omg I probably just landed this video in my feed because I needed to hear this. what a vibe < 3
@newromantichs Жыл бұрын
Glad this video found me :) I really needed to hear this as someone who always has anxiety about the unpredictability of the future. Loved the way you articulated the need to try in the first place and embracing the possibility that things could go well one way or another
@maddilathan5350 Жыл бұрын
This video impacts me in so many ways I don't even know how to describe. Thank you for sharing this message.
@CoreEssence Жыл бұрын
This was so inspiring and wholesome!! 🥰 I'm here for the embracing the mystery portion of life 👏🏽👏🏽
@leeleethefree Жыл бұрын
I love this video so much. You did such a good job structuring the different topics. This video is very much needed for me at this season of life. Thank you for pushing through and posting this!
@zofiasitarska3615 Жыл бұрын
oof I needed this😮💨 I loved the ending ‘journal prompt’ too! felt like it was a step in the right direction ☺️
@N0-Guidance-Records11 ай бұрын
Thank you so much, this helped me sm today. It takes courage to speak such truth I hope u r proud of urself.
@angelicnic777 Жыл бұрын
needed this so bad. this is the push i needed to change my life entirely. thank you angel
@soupafleye Жыл бұрын
fear is really controlling my life rn
@loveamara. Жыл бұрын
I love your vibe already! It’s calming and loving and big sisterly🌷🍃definitely going to supporting this channel
@abigxrl Жыл бұрын
thank you girl! love youu
@loveamara. Жыл бұрын
@@abigxrl totally!💓gonna be watching ur upcoming vids!!
@thatgirlacademy6753 Жыл бұрын
Omg you have been so consistent, I’m so happy to see this video blow up!!!!!!
@sourgreendolly7685 Жыл бұрын
New subscriber! Love it when I get recommended someone with such powerful thoughts to share 💕
@aintrove Жыл бұрын
thank you so so so so much! your words are so magical to me feels like there's someone encourage me and your video helps me a lot. hope you always in a good condition, God bless you!
@giuliam2431 Жыл бұрын
New subscriber here! I love the way you talk and the vibes you emanate, you've such a soothing voice and you're super wise 🤍
@abigxrl Жыл бұрын
Thank you!!!
@felinefokus Жыл бұрын
Feel the fear and do it anyway. Discomfort is good. Your nervous system is trying to keep you with what's familiar. But change/growth/evolution is the purpose of our being. When you take action the universe will intervene and make things happen better than you ever could have imagined. 💚💫 *#MoveAdjust* when's the last time that you did something for the first time?
@sierra.lynette Жыл бұрын
your brother and cousin just going out and chatting with locals and having fun really resonated with me 💗
@DilCardyn Жыл бұрын
Summary: Overcoming fear and seizing opportunities is the key message. Shared personal experiences of reconnecting with old friends and embracing uncertainty.
@lucyxu5823 Жыл бұрын
Thank you! whoever reading this God bless you and have a good day!
@DivinelyRoseTalks Жыл бұрын
Yes this is how I got over most of my anxiety even though there is a lot of fear. You have a way with words! Definitely subscribed, and even if things don't work out, at least you were brave enough to overcome it
@AndreaMeireles10 ай бұрын
I'm in tre process of making big changes in my life and I have no doubt this video found its way to my recommendations. I love your reflexion and I just wanted to let you know that you inspired me, motivated me, and I'm a new subscriber. Keep up the good work and keep fighting the good fight. Much love😍
@FreeBright11 ай бұрын
Girl I spent 80% of my watching time oozing over your hair. So pretty. And the rest just being mesmerized by your voice ☺️ nice video. 👌🏽
@HoaPhan-e6d Жыл бұрын
Recently i struggle with myself a lots. The pressure coming from my study really press me, and some plans i want to do but i haven't. After watching your video, i realize that "oh, the beauty of life come from the things we can't control, the things are unexpected". and i realize that how am I strong to be here today, i overcame so many challenges in the past that i had thought i can't. Many thanks to you ABI (sorry I don't know exactly your name in real life). I feel better now and I will do the things I want to do now. Love 🧡
@nellwieschnell Жыл бұрын
thank you so much, great reminders, big topic for lots of people probably, certainly for me, so thank you :)
@lunamoonstar Жыл бұрын
I am so glad that I came across this video of yours. Literally needed to hear these words so badly right now. In times of change, fear is always present, espacially when you have an axiety disorder but people like you inspire me to try and go out there. Thank you so much. 🤎
@melanie5512 Жыл бұрын
this is a masterpiece, I love the way you edited this, thank you so much
@themusicthing5803 Жыл бұрын
Girl thank you so much I love you, I have a new journal notebook and I was wondering what I would write about on it but you just gave me an idea. This video could change my life forever.
@melissamcgovern1264 Жыл бұрын
This is such a cute video… I miss the old school actual photographs… and the message is great too
@Carmi15 Жыл бұрын
Thank you I really needed this, and the algorithm came in the right time.
@eamza7455 Жыл бұрын
either God wanted me to see this or my FBI man listening in 🤣
@jlnae Жыл бұрын
Such a timely video! So glad you popped in my feed. Thank you!
@milesmoo4352 Жыл бұрын
your hair is so beautiful, your entire being
@terrikc9 ай бұрын
I enjoyed this video and the advice you gave was much needed . Thank you ❤
@HermitwithKrisi10 ай бұрын
This video showed up at the right time! Going through the same things right now. Thank you for this! ♥
@xauceamani Жыл бұрын
Your beauty!! So striking and holds warmth. 11:44 - 12:27 Those written words. " The worship of safety. Emasculates greatness. "
@tinairwin487810 ай бұрын
Thank you! For the encouragement!
@NotTheSameGirl26 Жыл бұрын
Such a profound and real message! This was so synchronistic for me ❤ Thank you for sharing
@TatianaX96 Жыл бұрын
Ooh, I so needed to hear these words. THANK YOU 🫶🏾
@rasi3625 Жыл бұрын
aaaah i really need this. thank you for sharing!!
@jericaasmr8 Жыл бұрын
I let my what ifs talk me out of many things. You never know until you try! I am working on being more mindful and embracing my mystery.
@maryterrietteaseari7414 Жыл бұрын
I needed this. Thank you. 💗✨️
@vitoriam.9038 Жыл бұрын
Thank you so much, i really loved this video 🥺, it made me rethink a lot of things, especially my actions towards me and my dreams.
@RebaMiran Жыл бұрын
I love your poetry in the beginning I also write too, maybe I’ll share with the world again, also I really loved this video, it was very timely ❤
@squeakyscauldron Жыл бұрын
I was thinking the same thing! Which is so apropos for this video. Shaking off the fear of sharing those vulnerable, beautiful parts of us. Good luck, I hope you share your poetry soon!
@RebaMiran Жыл бұрын
@@squeakyscauldron thanks!! 🤗I actually did it’s on my channel 🤗
@fanficker690711 ай бұрын
11:45 my timestamp to listen to this again when I need it... (it touched my heart!!!) Thank you for the comfort that your words gave me, bless you :)!!! I really really just have no words (And so sorry if u saw the other super out of topic comment I deleted, it was meant for another video :(!! I got confused for a sec, too many tabs open at once)
@arizonamartinez2654 Жыл бұрын
What a beautiful video, thank u sm for ur words of encouragement♥️
@torig897110 ай бұрын
Thanks Queen. This is right on time.I never comment on videos but felt lead to comment. 🧡✨️🙏🏾