The real reason Jane Austen wrote about romance | Pride & Prejudice Ch 1 analysis, Brit Lit 101

The first 1,000 people to use the link will get a 1 month free trial of Skillshare: skl.sh/ellieda... 💕 Watch the Chapter 1 Reading: www.youtube.co... It's been said that a Jane Austen novel doesn't end until everybody's married. But why is that? In this video, we analyze the first chapter of Pride and Prejudice to see why Austen wrote so much about romance. We also look at how we view Austen's work was influenced by Regency Era societal expectations of women and views on romance novels. And discuss how our society today still tends to dismiss female interests.
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[@EllieDashwood]

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[@shirleyanne6573]

When i was a kid and first read the book, to me, Mrs. Bennett was the ultimate embarrassing mother. Now I feel really sorry for her. She's the parent who fully realizes how precarious their situation is. Mr. Bennett, the 18th century epitome of cool, drifts through the novel without seeming to realize how chunky things are going to get if he drops dead. It's a romance novel, but it's also a scary one and Mrs. Bennett is the only one who seems to find it so.

[@dudleymaryannjones9509]

Mts Bennett loves her children, Mr Bennett not so much. He is careless about other peoples lives and every time I read or watch P&P I like him less.

[@shirleyanne6573]

@@dudleymaryannjones9509 He definitely loved Lizzie, but you're right, otherwise he didn't have much of a grasp of reality

[@mcmurtryfan]

I agree with this take, however, Mrs. Bennett is also highly manipulative and has a very shallow understanding of human behavior. I'm not sure that she understands her children at all, or even cares to know what makes them tick. It's no accident that Mr. Bennett sees Lizzie as his favorite, whereas Mrs. Bennett spends more time praising Lydia and Mary.

[@shirleyanne6573]

@@mcmurtryfan Yes, what you say I agree with. I think Austen even mentions how Mr. Bennett knows too well the folly of marrying a pretty face and cheerful personality without delving any deeper. She is nowhere near his intellectual equal, but on the other hand, she has a pretty fair assessment of the way things stand. I always thought that if I were to write a fanfiction take on P&P, I would write about what probably would have happened to those girls had the Bingleys not moved into Netherfield.

[@sophiagomez5619]

Mrs Bennet is practical, but to the extreme. Like an immigrant parent dismissing their child’s dream to be an artist or writer and pushing them to become a doctor or lawyer. She has a one track mind, and although it’s in good faith, it can steam roll over her children’s wants and desires. Like when she tried forcing Lizzy to marry Mr Collins. She’s practical to the point of not seeing the bigger picture that her daughters would think of when thinking of marriage. Mr Bennet on the other hand is obviously a lot more cynical of marriage to the point that he sometimes misses the practicality of it for women, especially his 5 daughters and wife who are vulnerable without it.

[@PokhrajRoy.]

Jane Austen was a political commentator and satirist expertly hidden behind the veneer of what we thought was just a cute story. It’s a pantomime of society through interesting characters.

[@jamiejamison6795]

Agreed. After the first re-reading the political and cultural critique really stands out.

[@jathompson37]

Reading P&P in high school is like being punk’d. Very few high schoolers have the life experience to appreciate it for what it is.

[@kawaibakaneko]

It is not exactly hidden, the opening of Pride and Prejudice is obviously biting satyre.

[@marthawolfsen5809]

I actually once read a criticism of Jane Austen that it wasn't really true that all single men of "good fortune must be in want of a wife." This critic obviously had no ear at all for satire!@@kawaibakaneko

[@OkGoGirl82]

I love how Austen represented several different versions of love and marriage too. There's the incompatible one of Mr. & Mrs. Bennet, the marriage of Charlotte to Mr. Collins for the sake of economic security (which was a very real and common type of marriage then), the foolish "shot-gun" wedding of Lydia and Wickham, the happy marriage of the Gardiners, and then of course the also hopefully happy marriages of Jane & Bingley and Elizabeth & Darcy.

[@CorwinFound]

The Gardiner's are such overlooked characters! They aren't just the un-cringe characters that Lizzy can point Darcy towards. In many ways they are Lizzy's mentors and act in a parental role quite often. Without ever saying it even through Lizzy, Austen is very clearly holding them up as the ideal marriage. Loving but also a very practical partnership, both materially and personality wise. Rather than overt passion, their marital success is conveyed through respect and companionship. Austen's thesis is that this is the basis for a sound marriage rather than the tropes of the time, either purely mercenary or purely passionate motivations.

[@MiljaHahto]

And this in only one book!

[@EmL-kg5gn]

I find the contrast between the Bennets and the Collins very interesting because they’re both incompatible marriages. Neither partnership is built on shared values. The difference is that Charlotte wasn’t ignorant of Mr Collins’ faults and made a conscious decision that she could handle it, and she actually could. Mr Bennet had no idea what he was getting himself into because he overvalued outward appearance and was blindsided

[@MiljaHahto]

@@EmL-kg5gn It happens easily in a society that thinks women and girls to be silly little creatures. One does not necessarily distinguish between those who indeed are and those who only seem to be - and what a difference it makes.

[@michaelbaughman8524]

The Gardiners and Admiral and Mrs. Croft in Persuasion are my favorite Austen couples.

[@Fairysnuff91]

I think what is so interesting about Jane Austen is that she was able to write so many different kinds of heroine and admire qualities in all of them. It’s so obvious from her work that she loves and respects women of all kinds and I think that’s beautiful.

[@pricklypear7516]

I suppose that the scullery maids and chambermaids and housekeepers don't really qualify as "women of all kinds." Austen wrote a romance that promoted "equality," but only as long as it was confined to certain levels of already-privileged women. Unlike Jonathon Swift, who used satire to enfranchise the most downtrodden of people LONG before Austen set pen to paper, she wasn't interested in championing ALL women. Just those who were apt to buy her books.

[@Teffi_Club]

​@@pricklypear7516Jonathan Swift is great, and I'm sorry to see how he was downgraded to children's lit author. However, Jane Austen had a shorter life and a different education from Swift. Should she lived until 70, we would have gotten more novels from her. And who knows what issues they woud have discussed.

[@EmL-kg5gn]

You’re right but I think it’s actually good that she stuck to what she knew because this is exactly what allowed her to expose the ridiculousness and hypocrisy of the class structure so well. She also doesn’t write the nobility. I think sticking closer to her own class experience helped her social commentary ring true, she critiqued from a perspective that was genuine to herself. One of Austen’s biggest strengths as a writer is her insight into the psychology of others but she wouldn’t have had as many opportunities to develop insight into the experiences of lower classes. Instead she acknowledges their plight through things like the anxiety of Mrs Bennet about what might happen to her and her daughters if they lost their rank, a mindset she’d have had more opportunity to witness and understand. These days we put a really high value on representation, and rightly so, but I think there’s also value to Jane Austen’s approach. So much of the poor representation we see in media comes from people who vastly overestimate their ability to understand others who have a very different social background to themselves. It would’ve been very difficult for Austen to hear the perspective of a servant. Even if she’d asked, they wouldn’t have been able to answer honestly without some level of fear for their livelihood

[@AuntLoopy123]

@@EmL-kg5gn True! She wrote what she knew, and what she was ALLOWED to know. She certainly did not ignore the existence of the lower classes, nor talk smack about them. She simply wrote about her heroines and heroes (and villains and side-characters) existing near those people, but not among those people, because that was the TRUTH OF HER SOCIETY. In order for her to write about the lower classes being equal to the upper classes, she would have had to 1) actually socialize with the lower classes enough to understand them, and that was STRICTLY VERBOTEN, even moreso for an UNMARRIED woman; 2) portray the lower classes in a way that was both accurate and acceptable to the only people in the country who were actually literate enough to read her works, which is the middle and upper classes. For the middle classes, mostly MEN. It was hard enough to get men to accept a woman as a protagonist! But note, as well, that she did not write about the nobility, except in rare cases, and never as the main protagonists. The highest she actually goes is the daughter or second son of an Earl. No Marquesses or Dukes to be found. Check out any Regency Romance paperback, published by Harlequin or Signet or any other major modern Romance publishing house. It's chock-a-block full of Dukes, Marquesses and Earls, but very few Misters. Everyone is a Lord or Lady. And the servants are rarely mentioned, at all. If the servants ARE mentioned in a MODERN book set in Regency England, then it is because the servant is somehow stepping out of their sphere (frequently to assist the put-upon heroine to make her brave escape, by dressing as a scullery maid). You want to chide a Regency romance author for not writing about the lower classes? Chide the MODERN authors who actually HAVE ACCESS TO and KNOW the lower classes, but write about the high nobility, instead. Jane Austen wrote what she knew, and wrote it very well. And, FOR HER TIME, she was very progressive. Sadly, you can put one of the most reactionary people of today's world into Regency England, and they would be frozen out of society, for being TOO EXTREME in their progressiveness. Women voting?! Absurd! Even the Bluestockings did not go so far! Also, Jane Austen and Jonathan Swift weren't even alive at the same time. He died about 30 years before she was born. Now you're going to say that means she should have picked up his banner and run with it. However, remember, his banner applied to the POOR, not the FEMALE. It's an "apples and oranges" argument, at best. They're both yummy fruit.

[@elisecollins8467]

so true about men thinking jane austen is only for women - my grandfather read pride and prejudice with his book club last year and he said it was a book he never would have picked up by choice but he couldn't believe how good it was, he considers it once of the best books he's ever read now that he's given it a chance

[@Teffi_Club]

Wow, kudos to your grandfather for being a book club member! Usually men do not come to it. They probably consider it as part of women's culture. Like novels.

[@kirstena4001]

In Northanger Abbey as well Mr Tilney unabashedly admits to enjoying novels - clearly another reason for us to love him!

[@EllieDashwood]

His charms have no ends 👌🏻🎩📖💕

[@kirstena4001]

@@EllieDashwood and i think i recall that John Thorpe badmouths novels.

[@OkGoGirl82]

@@kirstena4001 He does indeed.

[@MsJubjubbird]

Mr Darcy also praises Lizzie for reading- though she doesn't pick up on it.

[@ct8764]

Certainly Mr Collins wouldn't dane to read a novel aloud.

[@emelynbuskirk1010]

The English novelist Rudyard Kipling wrote a short story called "The Janeites" It's about a group of English soldiers who are fans of our Miss Jane.

[@cmm5542]

Oh, I've GOT to read that!

[@EmoBearRights]

It had a basis in fact - soldiers in World War I read her novels in the trenches. It was partly escapism but I think they probably enjoyed upper class people being satirised and relationships between people is universal.

[@monroeclewis1973]

Thank you for bringing Austen to light. She would surely appreciate your efforts if she were still with us. But, in a way she still is, thanks to you.

[@PokhrajRoy.]

I think Jane Austen has spicy takes that I love and also the fact that her heroines are relatable beyond one’s identity. It has a timeless quality.

[@tabithag6523]

I’ve made my way through 5/6 of her novels and she is fucking spicy. With a very clear disregard for certain kinds of people. She shows what real kinds of consequences came with actions of the time and so much is still relevant. How many times have the young and silly been duped by the older and good looking? Some things never change.

[@tticusFinch]

Absolutely agree. So many times as I've read her work I've had to put the book down and ask myself "When was this written again?" Because it is so relatable, the characters' perspectives, reasoning, and even the humor is timeless.

[@annaboes8359]

I grew up in this toxic, mysogonistic sort of society where I rebelled against my own femininity when it started developing. I wanted to be very much 'not like other girls', and I would have done almost everything for that. Even though the most girls in my life where way more mature, tougher and kinder than me, all at once. Reading romance novels or anything female associated was like a guilty pleasure that I tried to keep even from myself - I would reach for science fiction or horror novels instead, even though I made sure to go for authors who I knew to write a decent romantic subplot. It wasn't romance, after all, it was sci fi, and if there were people flirting and kissing in it, well, I couldn't help that... I'm so glad to finally live in a world where there are people who remind everyone that, no, female doesn't mean low quality or stupid. Thanks for this awesome video, I'm sure to recommend it to the young girls I'm working with nowadays. They really need to see this. 🙂

[@janiefallout8]

I suspect we all grew up it this kind of society, more or less. Yes, things are changing but there is still a lot of covert misogyny, at least where I live. Women's interests are looked down on, women's films and books are vilified. When I tell people that I studied physics, I play video games, I knit and write sci-fi and erotica, they just don't know in which box to put me. Honestly, I don't know either. I don't think the existence of these boxes make us a good service, though. After all, we're all human.

[@arezoooik937]

Every time I read Jane Austin's novels ,I feel that they're more about the journey of maturing emotionally rather than plain romance. what makes her books so interesting is that, she creates really relatable characters with complex emotions and situations for them todisplay them so naturally,as if they are living and breathing right in front of you. It's very satisfying.

[@MissCaraMint]

I agree. It’s why I hesitate to call them romance novels. They seem closer to coming of age stories mostly. The exception being Persuasion, which is something different altogether.

[@MalcolmTurner-k2k]

So true. Jane finishes her life with a compliment to attachment, stolidity. Loving best loves longest. The ephemeral Musgrave conception. The shocking admittance that some find romance without love, having a mistress and a thing that suits both parties. Jane knew the full span of human interaction, she had read Fielding. But I have a feeling that much of what she feels is to do with companionship. Because of her own disability, perhaps, she veers away from the physical.

[@helenavalentine9718]

Thank you for this discussion. I love Austen because her books are so satisfying on so many levels simultaneously. I get my romantic fix while enjoying irony, social criticism and the opportunity to think about: what makes a good life partner? what is ethical behavior in various situations? what respect is due to parents, elders, people above and below us in social status, etc. Love your channel because you discuss serious topics without pedantry and with all the enthusiasm of a lover of Jane.

[@PokhrajRoy.]

Did you know that there’s a whole playlist of Jennifer Ehle reading ‘Pride and Prejudice’ out loud?

[@EllieDashwood]

What?!?! That is so cool!!!!

[@PokhrajRoy.]

@@EllieDashwood kzbin.info/aero/PLL84Aw12nRu1NHMOltb9n7ca8XaYlnU77

[@raraavis7782]

I gotta check that out! She has such a pleasant voice.

[@vbrown6445]

Yes! She did it during the early days of the pandemic.

[@Melshed]

@@EllieDashwood it is amazing, you need to find it! It’s very casually read, she obviously has a blast!

[@beckawilk]

My mother and I love Jane Austen books and movies. My father used to leave the room. Once, when we were watching P &P he was doing something in the background, it took him 1/2 an hour to become fascinated and by an hour , he was on the lounge thoroughly engrossed. (He has opinions about Lady Catherine!!!). His genre is westerns but it has taken him a lifetime to admit his favourites have the main subplot as romance. It is sad that because society characterises romance as for women only, men have to pretend not to enjoy it even though in real life romance would never occur without both sexes.

[@billbauer9795]

"men have to pretend not to enjoy it even though in real life romance would never occur without both sexes." Romance/dating is sex work/prostitution done by men in order to experience sex. It is prostitution because most men aren't into it. Just like female prostitutes participate in sex with the end goal of a cash payment in mind - most men are going through the motions of dating and romance with the end goal of sex in mind.

[@raraavis7782]

Another thing worth considering...what topic besides romance and light social commentary were women supposed to write about, really? You can only write about what you know. And back then, without tv/radio, never mind the internet, you only knew what you had experienced yourself, pretty much. And women back then didn't leave home for a higher education (university), didn't learn a trade or went into business (usually). They didn't go into politics or the military or (mostly) travel very much. Their home and local community and church was their domain and what they were most familiar with. And every girl would grow up with the importance of making a good match (or at least marrying a respectable man) firmly impressed upon her. It would have been a rare and fortunate woman, having seen enough of the world to have much else to write about, really.

[@luiysia]

lol yeah she even talks about this in persuasion

[@darkwitnesslxx]

Hmm...yet Mary Shelley was able to do it.

[@tymanung6382]

1800s included some adventurous English women who wrote. For example, 1) 1 Austen---era English woman traveled around both sides of Mediterranean in various local clothes as travel correspondent til felled by disease in Egypt? 2) Also early 1800s, an English woman travelled around earl independent Argentina. 3) By mid & late 1800s, the no. of English + other European women who wrote from personal experiences about "non typical" places continued to increase.

[@TC-ku4vv]

@@darkwitnesslxxShe's not like other girls

[@NM-ub6ml]

@@darkwitnesslxx Mary Shelly came from a background that was different from the start and paid a very high price for many of her choices. \her example is not a normal example

[@janedashwood2018]

A problem with the beauty vs brains views held by Lizzie’s parents is that Mr Bennett didn’t gain this wisdom until AFTER he married for beauty. Most men highly prize beauty in a partner and won’t date, let alone marry, unless they find their partner attractive. So Mrs Bennett’s point of view has a lot of merit, because beauty and spirits go herself, Jane and Lydia suitors and eventually husbands (though Lydia’s was a shotgun wedding). Even Lizzie was pretty and has been played be truly beautiful actresses. It would be interesting to see an adaptation where Lizzie was played by an average looking woman.

[@lovetolovefairytales]

Except Lizzy isn't average looking. The book never stops telling us she has fine eyes and is vivacious.

[@Irina-Daniela]

Lizzy is the second pretties of a family of beautiful girls(except for Mary who is the only plain one). Lizzy is prettier than Lydia

[@MsJubjubbird]

I feel Mr Palmer and Charlotte are another Mr and Mrs Bennett in the making and married for the same reason. Except with more money and they have a son to leave things to.

[@melodyclark1944]

@@Irina-Daniela If Lizzy is prettier than Lydia then why does Mrs. Bennett think they can marry off Lydia so much easier?

[@scottlang7271]

Having fine eyes and being vivacious are certainly attractive features in both human genders. But that doesn’t necessarily translate to Lizzie being beautiful, with flawless skin, hair and teeth - especially given how widespread diseases like smallpox were back then. So I agree with an earlier comment- it would be really interesting to see a TV or movie remake of P&P without someone who looks like a model playing Lizzie.

[@PokhrajRoy.]

I’m LIVING for the Podcast-esque Setup and it’s a nice reminder that you’ve grown and prospered as a creator. I’m happy to see this journey.

[@EllieDashwood]

Awww! Thank you! It was fun switching things up! 😃😂

[@MsJubjubbird]

What makes Jane's writing so great is all the side characters she has and their little subplots. And she doesn't just dismiss them. She writes them in great detail. So you feel like you are in a little society. Plus that is where a lot of the social commentary comes from- like about the role of the clergy, the role of the military, social protocols etc. and she also makes her characters well rounded people with different facets that we can relate to- which makes it much more robust than something like Twilight- the kind of romance novel that gives the rest a bad name- which is pages and pages of a boring girl saying how much she loves a guy and not much else.

[@faithful2thecall]

As a man I am definitely in agreement with you that more men need to be introduced to the joys of Ms. Austen's outstanding literature. I think that part of the problem as to why romance novels (and films) are looked down on is because too many associate those stories today as erotic or lust-driven, instead of the slow burning, tender romances in a lot classic literature (sorry Romeo and Juliet, but you're an exception in this case). There are, of course, exceptions on both ends as well as a vast variance in the level of talent various storytellers possess. Because of that view of romance stories being driven by physical desire instead of a complete picture of who the other is romance stories get dismissed as being more shallow and without as much to say about the human condition.

[@EmL-kg5gn]

As a woman I 100% agree with your assessment! That’s why I thought I hated romance focused media. My sister loves shows like marriage at first sight, the bachelor, love island etc. because she loves the social aspect and the psychology but I can’t tolerate the sexualisation. Human sexuality isn’t inherently negative at all but it’s so often written as being shallow at best and degrading at worst! I’m inclined to avoid the topic because seeing that part of someone’s relationship feels invasive to me even if it’s fictional, and in some ways I think part of our problem is that people are used to looking at it as a performance. But I do wonder if more writing about the erotic side of relationships as respectful and loving could be healthy for people? We have so many depictions of shallow, degrading, and violent sexuality in our modern media that maybe having a better example/influence would be good. I’m not sure what the answer is but either way I’m actually very thankful for well written romances!

[@slugqueengenius]

Deeply impressed with Ellie Dashwood’s feminist understanding of Jane Austin and her writing, and her deconstruction of our understanding of it in modern culture. I’m addicted to these excellent posts, but especially this one, which calls out the pernicious behavior of many women, though out patriarchal cultured societies (including modern western society), to diminish women’s interests and identify themselves as aligned with “men’s interests” in order to be considered more seriously. This has the overall effect of confirming the superiority of men and the continued subordination of women. As a reformed “guy’s girl/tomboy” I see the folly in this behavior and am astonished that Jane Austin called it out so well in the regency era- as has Ellie Dashwood by making these modern videos! Thank you.

[@EH23831]

I think it’s not only a romance novel. There is definitely the romantic structure there - the would be lovers being kept apart by various things - but there is the social commentary and the comedy of manners in there as well. Also, her characters always take a journey of self understanding and improvement which make them so relatable.

[@bubulle311]

"The journey of self understanding and improvement" as you say is a part of a romance novel too I think. Even if it's not only a romance book thing. Because characters have to understand something about themselves and/or the other one in order to be together. If not why are they not together at the beginning of the book?

[@ShawnNowlan]

I think your analysis is spot on. Jane Austen actually has several stories of couples finding each other in "Pride and Prejudice" - and in almost every case, the character of the two is what makes the particular couple attracted to each other. Echoing real life, Austen doesn't separate romance from general satire or manners or incisive commentary on how society worked. I have always been particularly struck by Charlotte's discussion with Lizzie over romance and marriage, and I see it as one of the deepest insights in the book.

[@9786oof]

If there’s not a romance in a book, I dont want to read it! I had no idea people dismissed the topic of romance in books considering it’s so popular. I’m thinking about all the fanfiction i’ve ever read and most of it has been related to romance it’s what the people are interested in!

[@cmm5542]

I watch another lovely channel, Jill Bearup, who refers to this phenomenon as 'it's what the people want.' And that is nothing for us to be ashamed of. I believe another excellent term for it is 'democracy' 😆.

[@CandiceCandyLin]

SO WELL SAID Ellie!!!!! I'm very tired of the girl power movement dismissing romance. What is wrong with having both? I always feel like dismissing romance in favour of female empowerment has negative implications for female identity itself. There is absolute nothing wrong with being strong AND romantic at the same time.

[@anaceciliasoares4993]

I made my husband read P&P and he likes it so much he made his father read It as well.

[@PokhrajRoy.]

I see so many awesome men reacting to Rom-Coms and have positive reactions to female coded interests like why can’t we have more of this?

[@dudleymaryannjones9509]

Rom coms help make up for the terrible time I had in high school, romance wise. I was so clueless about girls. Now all of my best friends are women. Since I am 81, not kidding about “friends”.

[@Teffi_Club]

😊🌷

[@lilgrannyari]

What I have always loved about Austen is that her work is a reflection of the complex, intelligent, and deeply empathetic writer that she is. I re-read Pride and Prejudice annually along with a few of my other favorite Austen novels, and what I love is that you can continuously reinvigorate your reading experience by taking on a different focus. You can read Pride and Prejudic as a commentary on class in Regency England, an opportunity to analyze conplex family dynamics, an examination of the impact of patriarchal systems on women's autonomy, a narrative on personal growth, and yes, a compelling and emotional romance among a myriad of other interpretations.

[@dirgniflesuoh7950]

I tend to see a lineage from Austen, passing some other authors to "Anne of Green Gables", and what turned into "girls' books". I read AoGG many times in my childhood and youth, and when I later got into my Austen period, Brontë and Middlemarch ... It felt so familiar. Now rereading AoGG it is so very clear that it was not a children's book at the start ... and it annoyed me so much when a litterary history book brought up Tom Sawyer but not Anne Shirley. Other fun part: Science Fiction as a genre is also often judged by the worst trash, not by the master works, those are often instead called "real litterature".

[@kodamaakemi9758]

Love that one of the kitties decided to cameo. 💖 Can't tell if it's Remus or Romulus.

[@IndomitableT]

Indeed, and Ellie did not miss a beat of her explanation❣️👌🏽

[@marshatolbert154]

Fantastic analysis as always Ellie darling. I've always thought that Austen used the prism of romance to explore a number of themes, but that doesn't mean that romance in and of itself is unimportant. I've always thought that the fate of women in a male-dominated society was a vital interest to Austen. So much of a woman's life at that time was determined by class (it still is, frankly), and marriage was the means by which one sustained or improved one's social class, Thus romance, and I don't just mean a marriage plot, but the search for a true companion in life, was tremendously important. I think Austen's novels are fascinating explorations of family dynamics, especially between fathers and daughters. I've noticed that a theme sustained throughout Austen's novels is what happens to a young woman when her father fails to properly provide for her. Your many videos expanding upon the history, legal environment and hierarchy of the Regency era make a similar point. Women are treated as afterthoughts or pawns by any patriarchal society, and Austen's novels put that injustice into sharp relief, while remaining sparkling, witty entertainment. Every time I re-read an Austen novel, I gain some new insight into not only the manners and thinking of the Regency era, but our own era as well, even while I laugh out loud at her adept skewering of her society. That's genius. Denigrating the romance in the novels just further perpetuates the notion that what is of importance to women is "not really important," and does a disservice to Austen herself.

[@dsr8223]

I was in a bookclub 20 years ago in which one of the members, who was a PhD candidate in English Literature, told me condescendingly that P&P was a satire, not a romance. Oh. But, once he (snidely) said that, I actually began to appreciate the novel on a deeper level.

[@PokhrajRoy.]

As a connoisseur of Rom-Coms and Holiday Movies, they provided me with valuable knowledge and I could definitely write Academic Papers on them.

[@RobinGH]

I enjoy the new and different kinds of content you've created lately, but my favorite will always be your commentary and analysis on Jane Austin, her works, and her world.

[@scottlang7271]

I discovered P&P by accident in my early 30’s by accident on TV and it grabbed me so much that I borrowed the novel from the library that same week (and the book impressed me even more!). Austen’s setup is really interesting from all sorts of perspectives, and her characters endure because so many of them reflect each other as opposites, but not in an obvious manner. For example, Darcy is proud and snobby, but has depth and honour under the surface. By contrast, Wickham is all amiability on the surface but lacks much virtue on the inside. And this contrast is somewhat matched by the difference between Lizzie (outwardly relatively poor and with limited options, but possessing intelligence, honesty and integrity) and Caroline Bingley (who outwardly has beauty and social standing, but lacks integrity, kindness or the ability to reflect upon her behaviour). Bingley is gentle, kind but lacks confidence, while Collins is neither and is full of his own (self-assumed) importance. The similar female counterparts here are Mrs Gardiner (calm, perceptive, and tactful) as opposed to Lady Catherine (arrogant, rude and full of her own self-importance). Georgina (shy, quiet, well-behaved) is the opposite of Lydia (loud, spoilt and with little to no self-control). Charlotte (practical, observant, patient and mostly unflappable) is in direct contrast to Mrs.Bennet (flippant, talkative, neurotic, uncouth). I find that the majority of JAFF variations that I read are pleasant enough, partially because they are familiar, but mostly because Austen’s original character tropes are so powerful and recognisable over 200 years later. However, the Happy Ever After angle makes many of them very predictable - and thus forgettable. Those that don’t just focus on the romance, but upon the personal growth of the characters, are far more powerful. So while I agree that the romance angle is important, I think that the broader human questions around character and values are what puts Austen’s books in the timeless category.

[@thomasburchfield1383]

Thanks for acknowledging us guys out there. Love Jane Austen. Keep up the good work!

[@PokhrajRoy.]

I recently learned that Emily Brontë wrote ‘Wüthering Heights’ but it was panned by critics and re-evaluated positively much later.

[@TheMehamil85]

I am listening to Pride and Prejudice. It's definitely helping me understand the archaic language better. What's surprising to me is how well Jane Austen understood how people tick during a time when psyco analysis hadn't even started yet. Do you know if she studied philosophy? Like David Hume?

[@egm8602]

Women owned the psychological language and approach to life until Freud stole it for his own profit.

[@AuntLoopy123]

I love Mansfield Park. And one of the things I LOVE about Mansfield Park is the utter respect that Sir Thomas and his children show to Lady Bertram. They may not actually FEEL respect towards her, but they TREAT her with the utmost respect and affection. Sir Thomas, in particular, shows her love, whether he feels it, or not. Why? Because it is simply the correct and polite thing to do, and he entered into a marriage contract with her, which OBLIGES him to treat her best of all the women in the world, and to teach his sons to treat their wives well, and his daughters to treat their husbands well. He is attempting to train his children to have happy marriages (at least on the surface), though good behavior. It almost works. Mariah treats her husband well on the surface, right up until the moment she dumps him for another man. The rest of the children, however, seem to choose better, and, at the very least, know how to behave themselves. Apparently, nobody taught this lesson to Mr. Bennet.

[@edclark6543]

One of the 'real men' on your channel (lol). Your channel is really good. It is my true motivation for chopping logs, growing my beard, bench pressing with my anvil, target practice with my spittoon, IV'ing my daily rum allowance, and lifting up the occasional vehicle with one (well developed) forearm whilst changing the flat tyre with my other. Other than that your channel also helps me connect with my feminine side. So thank you 💪🏋️

[@mariebray9831]

P&P, at my first read at 14yrs, wholly a romance, rereading into my 20's and 30's a comedy of manners, further rereading into my 40s and 50s, added an enjoyment of the beauty of the flow of the words. Now entering my 60s what more can I get from this very special novel?

[@tecc]

It can be both!!!!! I agree with the determination that dismissing the book as not a romance is deeply steeped in attempts to dismiss female interests and concerns.

[@DipityS]

It's Jane Austen's confidence in her own opinion that always surprises me. Not for her the putting down of other authors to boost her own work, she had the confidence to defend what she sees as worthy and stand up for her fellow sister authors. She may not be a feminist writer is the sense we understand today, but she did believe women were capable of sensible thought and deserved respect - I keep thinking of Anne Elliot's conversation with Captain Harville - her depiction of two people of worth and character who had great respect for each other and each other's sex while debating each other on the other sex's qualities of commitment and suchlike. I can't articulate it as I'd like to - but Austen's deep self-worth stands out for me. And her belief in standing with other women - which I'd love you to touch on one day in the future if you have any time.

[@tymanung6382]

But Jane Austen, was very aware of the philosophy of leading contemporary English feminist thinker + writer Mary Wollstonecraft.

[@alexb7596]

I love your videos and analysis. Your way of presenting information is very engaging!

[@EllieDashwood]

Aw!!! Thank you!!! 😃

[@johnwatson7493]

Loved the video, thanks so much. All your videos are great, but as someone who recently undertook to read classic novels having not been a great reader in the past, I especially enjoy videos like this one. Your analyses are instructive, helpful and much appreciated.

[@EllieDashwood]

Aw, thank you so much! I’m so glad it was helpful! 😃 And I hope your classic novel reading has been going well! 😃

[@j.munday7913]

Your flowers turned out really lovely!!! When I have bad months emotionally, a lot of times romance novels are just what I need. Most of them, like a lot of books in general, are not in depth at all. They're light entertainment, light social commentary and there's nothing at all wrong with that. I'm seeking lightness! But sometimes I get blown away by how well the author combines the complex experience of emotional maturity, human nature, relationships of all types, humor, seriousness, heartache, etc. This month I was reading a full-on smut novel that had insane world building, actual fear for characters wellbeing, a necromancer leading an army against the human lands.... like I was not prepared. Honestly that book saved my life because I was either nervous giggling through a smut chapter or being enthralled by the danger of war. Was it perfect? Nah, but that world building tho. Damn. In the case of P&P women thought they were getting a nice little romantic read, but they got so much more and that's why Jane Austen is the queen of romance. Each character is unique and insightful in some way. Even the characters who feel amped up such as Mr. Collins... we can find a Mr. Collins in our life! We've seen couples where the husband is basically expertly handled by the wife to spend as little time bothering her as possible. Romance was serious business for women back then as well. They weren't allowed to inherit much, and their options for wealth were limited to the men in their lives. If you made a mistake when picking a husband, you were kind of screwed unless he predeceased you and you were able to marry again suitably. I think Jane treated romance novels with the seriousness they deserved, seeing as how many people's lives get wrecked in the modern day by a bad relationship cause the guy/gal is cuteeee but otherwise messed up. Back then.... you'd be married to that person.

[@DaisyNinjaGirl]

About why Romance as a genre: when people talk about that, I keep thinking about something one of my English Lit professors had to say about a movie called _Hiroshima Mon Amour_, which was an interrace love story directly engaging with the emotional trauma of WWII. She said when it first came out, a lot of viewer had this really intense emotional experience that "if the lovers manage to reconcile, then the world won't end." And that's what a good love story does - it finds a way to reconcile differences so that the world won't end. In _Pride and Prejudice_, the Bennett family is directly saved by Mr Darcy's interventions, but also Elizabeth has time to reflect that she would lighten him up, and he would expand her. Their happy marriage, in the face of Mr and Mrs Bennett's unhappy one is the world refusing to end. By the way, I've been reading Gaskell's _North and South_ from a recommendation you made on this channel, and really love it. And for them, the love story parallels the industrial plot - if Thornton hadn't taken the time to make friends with workers like Nick Higgins, he wouldn't have the information about Frederick that lets him reconcile with Margaret; and his reconciliation with her is what saves the mill. The world doesn't end again. (It's such a great book.)

[@mbeebaker6749]

I love Jane Austen's writing for the fascinating characters. Love them or hate them, almost every character is developed enough to remind you of real people that you know, or of yourself. Her characters have flaws and sometimes make stupid decisions, but you can fallow the lodgic, of lack of lodgic in their choices based on their character. The twists do not feel like plot devices, even when they are unexpected. When the when Wickham is Wickham you think, "yeah, he would do that, the jerk!" And like Lizzy we sit back and think, "yeah, that makes sense." Many authors try to "surprise" their audience by making a character and then getting that character to behave in a way that makes no sense in order to further the plot. (E.g. having Mary run away to Scotland with Mr. Colins would be a surprise, but it would make no sense! Mary is too proper and Lady Catherine would never approve!) That wouldn't be subversion, it would just be bad writing. Jane Austen is never a sloppy writer. That's what I love about her work.

[@andreaoliveira6948]

I heard once that all the plots of modern novels or films if not comes from Shaskepeare it comes from Jane Austen. You can relate any plot to one of them. I think its true.

[@Albatross0426]

It's fascinating that Jane Austen's novel Northanger Abbey is that same exploration as Michel Foucault's the History of Sexuality Vol 1. Not only was she capable of recognizing biopower expressed through the "repression" of sexuality; in that codifying/regulating it led to it becoming the center of societal concern. She managed to address in the style of a love story that not only typifies the point, but expands it to others in a more palatable way. You leave her novel questioning how sex was repressed in a world that seemed entrenched in it.

[@latterdaycovenantliving]

I hope this is a series, break down every chap I’m here for it.

[@charlesiragui2473]

Great video! "Romance" is the mating process of the human being. Clearly, that is a topic of interest. It is at the heart of human existence. And Austen was commenting on that process, doing what humans do, analyze themselves. How does it actually happen? How should we live wisely? What stakes are involved and what motivates the people concerned (potential spouses and their families)? And the women's interest being denigrated? Yes. Apparently, this is a male blindspot.

[@mery5989]

This is so true, like even in school they're like nooo it's a comedy of manners!! and sure it is but it's the way they say it. Honestly the older I get the more it feels hurtful because it's so pervasive how everything associated with femininity, half or more of all things, constantly has to be apologised for and put down, and we don't even know how to talk without doing it. it's like this wall between men and women, either you proudly say yes I like this and it is worthy and great and just hit a wall and communicate nothing and stand on two opposite sides misunderstanding each other, or you apologise and justify and rationalise and explain and slowly introduce the idea that maybe feminine things are okay and maybe make some headway. it's not even between men and women, it's between mysoginistic people and not mysoginistic people and also just all the men that have been raised without anything "feminine" and actually have not thought about romantic relationships that much at all. sometimes it just makes me so sad, it feels there's so much in the way of the truth in so many ways and people just can't communicate and learn from each other

[@DaisyNinjaGirl]

I think it's important to remember that teenage girls liked both the Beatles and Star Trek first. (I know what you mean, though.)

[@vanessaTheGrittyArtist]

It makes alot more sense that people are surprised i love romance so much. I never had this thought about romance, that its frivolous. I would be sitting in corner as a rebellious teen, dressed goth/punk, reading and loving historical romance.🤷🏻‍♀️ I've always found it interesting how anyone actually finds love back then. I've loved Jane Austen since I first saw Pride and Prejudice too, in the early 2000s

[@oekmama]

I remember reading somewhere that Austen was quite popular among gentlemen. Bravo. You’re so right, Ellie, this is why modern readers HAVE to reread P&P to really get what Miss Austen was trying to say. It wasn’t til I hit Mrs Bennett’s age, that I could read it from her perspective. Late, I know. But thankfully you are here to break it down.

[@sarahmwalsh]

You're so right about Mrs. Bennet giving preference to the daughters who most resemble her as a young woman - and it's certainly telling that in spite of all her hard work to try to get Jane and Lizzy married off, it's Lydia who manages to snag a husband first!!

[@Teffi_Club]

First, but not happiest. Mrs. Bennett got herself Mr. Bennett. But Lydia got herself a peice of scoundrel. It is obvious infidelity and quarrels will entertain their life together.

[@kimcarey5092]

HI Ellie! I'm a scholar of race and class studying late 19th/ early 20th C America. I find Austin's analysis of class bias fascinating. Yes, she wrote social commentary on romance and personal relationships, but I find her observations of social class and the way it orders society most interesting of all.

[@one_smol_duck]

Beyond socially engrained sexism (we've all been there let's be real), I'm still struggling to see how anyone could read Jane Austen and claim she didn't (or didn't want to) write romance. It's true that her novels encompass a lot more than romance, but the romance plots are so intricately laid out, and so fundamental to not just the plot but the entire movement of her works. Yes, she wrote social commentary. But her primary frame for that social commentary was (quite obviously) romance and marriage.

[@maxinemaiolino6440]

This is so accurate, Jane Austen was a GENIUS for her times.

[@shiningstar8766]

Or in any time.

[@camilleszalma4556]

Although I like all of JA's 6 novels, Pride and Prejudice is my favorite. I think it's the novel she wrote that has been adapted the most times, maybe even in the most languages (which I suspect is also true of the book itself). I think the reason is that the heroin had every inducement I could imagine possible in that society to accept the hero the first time he proposed, and her best friend wouldn't have believed it possible that she'd miss the chance of being Mrs. Darcy and mistress of Pemberley. So the fact that she does (in which choice her father might be the only person in her circle of acquaintance who would support her) seems to me to be a demonstration of power that I find staggering. As you pointed out in your video, in general, power has not been split down the middle between men and women. So when a woman has power, I notice.

[@alisolilac]

Love your videos 💜💜💜

[@EllieDashwood]

😃😊☺️

[@deanmcmanis9398]

Good analysis Ellie, as usual. Similarly in our time TV was not taken seriously, and many top film actors would think that it was a sign of failure if they "lowered" themselves to act in TV programs, as opposed to only film and theater work. And the same could be said for pop music as opposed to classical music. Being topical, engaging, and popular doesn't have to be at odds with analyzing and expressing the human condition. But the work needs to be balanced to avoid being labeled dry/boring or trite/shallow.

[@aelisedasilva]

Nothing to do with the subject, but I just wanted to say that I could listen to you talk about anything you enjoy for hours without tiring lol you have such a nice voice, it calms me down to a point where I binge watched your videos the other day when I was about to have an anxiety attack 😅

[@jandobson5441]

So true. Ellie’s voice is very melodious, isn’t it. Hope you’re having a better day today, and the tomorrows too, of course btw

[@JAPPoPLOPP]

Ellie I’ve watched all of your content and keep coming back to this video. I think it’s the best one yet on your channel. Such an insightful and well explained analysis! This is truly why I keep reading Austen

[@priyam8372]

Thank God you are back with some good Austen content ❤

[@veronicaleighauthor]

Really enjoyed this. So many of my relatives don't understand the greatness of Austen. They only remember that she wrote about marriage and romance, totally missing her satire and social commentary. Guess now I have more of an argument to make when they shrug her off. I have a question: do you take topic suggestions? I'd be curious to hear your thoughts on religion of the Regency Era, or in Austen's books, or her life. Just wondered. Thank you for your channel, really helps me understand Austen and the period better.

[@PerryVillanueva]

Very interesting. I just finished a realistic romance novel (now in the publisher's hand) and I used elements from 'Pride and Prejudice' and it does takes place in London.

[@pmarkhill519]

I absolutely LOVE this discussion and argument. What a beautiful job. Austen’s observation of human nature is over and again completely exquisite!

[@ivealwaysbeenswimming9030]

Thank you for always giving so much insight to the complexities of Jane Austen’s novels and the themes which, due to its contextual nature, is often lost on me! I find that I can, with much more pride, appreciate having read the works.

[@alessandrasmith339]

Now that I’m engaged, I’ve been seeing unbelievable parallels between my family and the Bennets and my fiancé’s family and the Darcy’s. Lizzie’s fight to maintain her independence, see the faults in her closest relations, but still maintain hers and her family’s dignity in the face of others is something I really resonate with. Comparing the story to my own situation has helped me see the strength in Mrs. Bennet, the exhaustion that must take over Mr. Bennet, and the unique inner worlds of Kitty and Mary. But most of all, P&P gave me the best and most helpful guide for navigating relations that no one else I know seems to have. I will defend Jane Austen’s writing to my grave because she put into words what so many people experience but have no idea how to articulate!

[@yamyrm3687]

Hi Ellie, love this video ❤

[@EllieDashwood]

Awwww, yay! I’m so glad! 😃

[@twinnish]

I recognized the “romance” but I loved the sly humor and, yes, snark in the novels. She was making a social commentary and clearly had aa perspective. They actually made me re-examine myself and my ideas about humanity.

[@covetcatdoesstuff2392]

Have you ever done a video on the process of breaking an entail? That would be absolutely fascinating!

[@sarahwatts7152]

I think romances are easy to lampoon because, as Ellie said, they're written with a mainly female audience in mind. I love modern romance novels (Jennifer Crusie!! So smart and so fun), but I know they aren't High Art. Of course they aren't! I view them as the reading equivalent of candy, with all the pleasure that implies. Wheezy Waiter had a video recently about how to eat healthily in which he and his wife talk about their relationship to junk-type food; China said, "happiness is also good for you," by which she means that she still eats sweets, just in moderation. "Happiness is also good for you" also pertains to other things we consume purely for the joy of it; you have to balance the serious with the fun.

[@shellbell2167]

I appreciate Jane Austen’s understanding of the complexity of her characters in temperament, personality, integrity, self-discipline, thoughts, etc. we, as fallible humans, exemplify. People are not black/white, but grey and multifaceted. Mindset, thoughts, and opinions can seemingly change from one setting/scenario to the next. There are two fiction books I want my boys to read before they leave are house. Pride and Prejudice and North and South by Elizabeth Gaskell. Gaskell ties in the complexity of character with a revealing approach to social issues so you see more grey instead of black/white. Definitely important in today’s society as well. We need to stop demonizing one another, but understand human natures complexities.

[@cmm3745]

The more I watch your videos, the more I love and understand Jane Austen. Thanks a lot!

[@alcyonae]

Ellie this is one of your best essays yet. What a powerful conclusion

[@normamcphee8956]

Pride and Prejudice is a GOOD romance novel. One of the very best examples of what the genre can be in the hands of a great writer.

[@miriamportugal4703]

I love your videos about Jane Austen! The way you defend women's interests is wonderful. Congratulations on the excellency of your work!!!!!

[@cat_luvr6895]

I think I would consider it the greatest Wish-Fulfillment story ever written. ♥

[@ralphstephan353]

I think P&P highlights the anxiety re trusting one’s instincts to choose a partner, especially given the grossly unequal, almost S&M-related parental marriage. The daughters start off knowing that they want only to not end up with the wrong husband, setting the stage for iconostasic Lizzy who is prepared to forego marriage entirely if need be. The chip on her shoulder intrigues and acts as a warning to any man who presumes to control her. It’s just short of being labeled a psychological thriller. It remains one of my all time favorites.

[@ralphstephan353]

Lydia, of course, is the exception to the above.

[@pmarkhill519]

I love Austen’s social commentary. She gives us an inside chuckle on human nature. 😅

[@PokhrajRoy.]

0:39 Iconic first line argue with a wall.

[@Draconisrex1]

I really like the new outfit!

[@EllieDashwood]

Aw!!! Thank you!!!

[@zazubombay]

Just watching for the first time! So well said Ellie -- you are an amazing, articulate scholar!

[@TadanoCandy]

The first time I watched P&P, it was the 2007 and I only began watching halfway through. I loved the vibe so I looked for the whole movie and watched it from the beginning. Then I loved Darcy’s character development so much that I looked into the 1995 version and read the book. Now I love it because of all the ironies, all the social commentary, and of course the character development of both Darcy AND Lizzie. It’s my favorite story of all time and I rewatch or re-read (listen to Jennifer Ehle reading) the book every year

[@TadanoCandy]

I think part of why I like writing stories about 2 main characters that contains romance is because I admire P&P

[@ladykatietx]

Your videos are one of my favorite things about Fridays! Re-watching today because I could talk about Jane Austen forever!!

[@mariongustafson5982]

Hi Ellie, Thank you for this video. I was able to defend Jane's honor at a group meeting today! Someone asked 'who is Jane Austen'. I responded that she was a writer in the early 1800s. I explained that some scholars claim she wrote romance, but (thanks to you!) I believe she wrote about social commentary, history, finance and family. The group was impressed and intrigued! Thank you again for showing me that Jane's witty writing covers many deep subjects!

[@kbye2321]

But is it not a romance too? Just because it’s a social commentary and intricate coming-of-age story does mean it is not also a romance. In my opinion, the fact that it is a romance only lifts it up, since romance is basically a fundamental and vulnerable aspect of human existence (barring some exceptions) and is basically the human mating ritual. We shouldn’t denigrate the romance of P&P, just because the story is a commentary on society as well. They are all worthy topics and it wouldn’t do right to split them apart since the story relies on all those themes.

[@justjukka]

Awww yeah! Yeti fam! 🎙 I still get kinda pedantic about it. "It's a social commentary with romantic elements!" Then break down all the definitions of "romantic" and how little of it has to do with love. I couldn't call it a "romantic social commentary", because if the social commentary were romanticized, I think Lydia would have been saved from Wickham.

[@kbye2321]

Perhaps “it’s a romance that’s also a work of social commentary” would be good…?

[@Scout-bt3mo]

Great video! I love how Jane Austen incorporated a lot of psychology in her books.

[@joseygonzalez1800]

kitty wanted to help with the video!

[@EllieDashwood]

He did! He wanted to be the main star! 😂🐱💕

[@GLIAUDIOLIBRIDELTUBO]

Jane Austen è stata una scrittrice estremamente moderna per la sua epoca. La sua penna era pungente e a volte critica nei confronti di taluni personaggi.

[@funonyoutube1716]

Brilliant analysis. I agree with every work -- delivered with wit and taste! She's analyzing human experience in the search for love and stability, and satirizing all the misunderstandings and myths that people cling to -- the ridiculousness of silly assumptions, such as the universal truth that all rich men are in need of a wife --- the very first line.

[@Melshed]

Oh wow, I did not expect you to 100% change my mind about this 🤯🤯

[@theresashult2754]

This is such a provocative video! It got me to thinking about some of the other books and authors I love to read; one of which is John Grisham. I don't love all of his books but one of my favorites is "The Broker" - a novel about a Washington lawyer who is running for his life after the CIA get him pardoned for an intricate satellite/ selling secrets crime and puts him in Italy to see who will kill him. But even Grisham flavors his spy thriller with a touch of romance...because as you've just pointed out...romance is a fundamental human connection that permeates almost everyone's life. Adding romance, even to a spy thriller, is a great way to flavor almost any book. Jane Austen embraces this so well!

[@aliciadc8362]

Thanks for the video Ellie! I found the video interesting because I personally have never thought of P&P (my favourite book of all time) as a romance novel. When I think of a 'romance novel', I think of the 20th century Mills & Boon or Harlequin novels with the half-undressed couple on the cover, where the entire plot of the story is a woman chasing after a (seemingly) unavailable man, with few other characters and very little plotline other than the romance itself. I would struggle to compare these books to P&P, and I would personally place P&P in a completely different literary category. However, if a 'romance novel' is more broadly defined as 'a novel where the primary plot is romance', then yes, P&P would absolutely fall into that category and I would have no issue with that. I guess I consider P&P to be 'a social commentary about romance' rather than 'a romance novel'. I would say Ms Austen's social commentary is the far more important part of P&P than the romance itself. For example, if Darcy and Elizabeth ended up being good friends rather than getting married, but everything else stayed the same, I don't think it would have taken a great deal away from the plotline or social lessons of P&P, though it might have been less interesting. The romance gave the plot excitement, interest and weight, but it wasn't the point of the book, in my view.

[@cheerio3847]

Well said! Romance really is the most intricate process and relationship to examine in literature. Fuzzy emotions are after all, the most common reason for many other aspects of life. The reason people commit crimes is often related to emotions and nobody says murder mysteries are shallow! BTW, just today I was watching a narrowboat channel and they were on the Leeds to Liverpool canal and went thru a place called Saltaire on the river Aire (and canal), and hit a town called Bingley! There are Bingley locks etc, and right there is the Hirst woods, by what was the Hirst mill and Hirst locks.... makes me wonder did Jane get her naming inspiration from this small area of the canal? It would have been there in her time. A bit of a nod toward their industrial trade roots. All this is just outside Leeds. I saw the Bingley sign in the video and it took me aback!

[@jessica8313]

Loved this video Ellie! You're so well-spoken and you clearly put so much love and thought and time into your videos. It's greatly appreciated!

[@geovanamara9293]

This is incredible!!! Exactly the kind of analysis and perspectives swaps that we need to get closer to a society with gender equality. I absolutely loved the video! Thank you Ellie!!!

[@kmrose]

Some of the best novels I've read are romance. They're well written, funny, provide biting commentary on society, etc.

[@6of9js]

Way to go, Ellie! Another top rate analysis.