The REAL Reason Men Cheat.. | Out Of Love EP7

[@ImtheONEnotthetwo]

I say that same thing. DISCIPLINE is more important than motivation and willpower. Discipline will get you where you need to be.

[@allgasnobrakes123]

Young men and women, this is how you should be getting relationship advice. Stop listening to habitual daters and single people. Listen to these beautiful, successful couple. ❤❤❤ them. 💪🏾💪🏾💪🏾👍🏾👍🏾👍🏾

[@Jt_Jesus_is_king4orever]

Real talk 💯😤🙏🏾❤️

[@ImtheONEnotthetwo]

Exactly!!!

[@ashleyr.4392]

I love commitment advice from serial daters. Those make me giggle

[@nicolemcclain3627]

Really good episode! Discipline- never thought about that.

[@ImtheONEnotthetwo]

Darryl is highly intelligent and wise. I’m looking forward to keeping up with this podcast. Great job Both of you!!

[@mzschelioaas-shelois7152]

Lack of Discipline and commitment

[@marie_spice3004]

Well said!! It’s the lack of discipline

[@chosen4love7]

I agree totally, self control, one of the fruits of the spirit !!

[@v.i.butterfly4779]

Bully had me rolling frfr😂😂😂😂😂. He’s like ,woman get to the point 🤣🤣🤣

[@berlindaburnett6583]

Spiritual maturity is a must and a beautiful and humbling thing ❤

[@homeschoolmompat1]

"A woman should be valued and desired by the right man-someone who truly loves her, respects her, and shows his commitment through patience and understanding. Unfortunately, the world is often clouded by negativity and distractions, so all we can do is pray for the best. But I must say, I love your show-it's really interesting!"

[@kingdomkeata]

Awesome podcast and great episode! Love you guys! ❤️

[@JaneWhite-u5z]

This speak facts but I can’t let go of my ex, It’s been a few weeks since the breakup, what if he is my soulmate and I just lost him

[@JaneWhite-u5z]

That’s exactly how I feel. I don’t know how to move on. I still want him back, but it feels impossible.

[@JaneWhite-u5z]

Thank you for this valuable information, i just looked him up now online. impressive

[@di-shawniesmall6036]

Time heals you need time. It's not gonna go away overnight. But this had to happen for the right person to appreciate you. For you to get to know yourself and what you like and do not like and want in your next relationship. To be able to date yourself and appreciate you for a while. And the ultimate if he's really the man that the most high wants you with, he can see what he had and messed up and come back correct and more mature. I don't know your story, but this is your testimony, and you will get through it. Stay positive.

[@Niecy1109]

Fantastic conversation!!! This helps people to see that it’s not necessarily your fault when someone cheats. It’s no excuse for cheating but lack of discipline is a major reason. It’s also why we should make sure that the opposite sex has moral values and not just out there!

[@tayedagoddesss]

I think you guys are a great example that we all need to see… thank you for sharing ❤

[@georgegriffin-o6f]

this brother and sister give me hope for black love

[@gigiworthen3084]

I loved it! Bullyjuice-Darryl, you are wise beyond your years. I sincerely enjoyed this podcast. This was of a truth; I should know I am a mature woman of a particular age. Thank you for your devotion to God and your commitment to your wife.

[@dleethachamp]

I was crying this whole conversation 😂 but enjoying the conversation & information as well

[@pamelargordon5454]

I love the Out Of Love podcast and conversations

[@jadajackson1740]

Lmao I’m enjoying this episode way too much and I’m only 17 mins in 😂 love the commentary and chemistry between the two of you! ❤️

[@ImtheONEnotthetwo]

I loved this discussion and I couldn’t stop laughing about confused cheating, 😂, you can’t get revenge on your imagination 😂

[@devinevisionary]

Yall chemistry crazy ❤

[@BrandonMakwavarara]

😂😂Bully's character

[@tamaracallender5079]

Great podcast. I love you guys. God bless you and your family ❤

[@tamickanelson7561]

Good talk. Been there waiting until God sends the man he has for me 😊

[@mojenks6109]

Lack discipline..period!!

[@nonenone3624]

bruhh i laughed soo much during this episode...😂😂🎉❤🎉❤ loved it

[@UnknownJadev2]

Great answer! That covers everything

[@paulaadeoye987]

Yea you guys have a podcast 🎉

[@Ms.Virtuous]

Heavy topic and I love it cuz it’s ya’ll ❤

[@TheresaGary-kb7kr]

Amazing conversation you have a beautiful family God Bless ❤

[@ashleyr.4392]

I enjoy the intellectual dialog between you both. This was informative and entertaining in a great way. I'm glad I chimed in. Now I can back track your other videos! My Family started out a bully juice fans in his active duty days, and I picked up when you guys began collaborating as a couple. Thank you for all the years👏 fyi: ❤ me some CHAT GPT😂

[@craiglee9347]

I agree. It all comes down to morales, principles and discipline.

[@CW-ou6gu]

I’ve been following Bully Juice for some time now and came across their podcast by fluke. Since then I’ve listened to all seven episodes in like four days. Amazing. I love what you guys are doing. However, with this episode wish you had addressed why WOMEN chest. I’ve been cheated on, so I can relate to women who have been cheated on. Maybe this can be a topic for a future episode. Keep grinding and continues to walk in HIS light. 👑

[@kieoniadr]

You guys are soooo funny!! So fun but serious. 😊❤😂

[@NalaniWood-v6d]

*Chances are they just can't resist our amazing ability to always be right. 😉*

[@Tgallager2742]

Cheating is a definitely a discipline problem…both men and women cheat women are better at hiding it and this is definitely a character issue

[@elta333]

This was beautiful... ❤

[@bequetta]

This episode was on point, thank you👏🏿👏🏿

[@sharonrobinson3776]

Happy New Year this Q&A was on time thank you all very much blessings to you both 😊

[@Michaelaa.queen_]

This was sooo good

[@c.l.b1667]

Yes I agree discipline...but also being selfish!! Some men want to have the cake and eat it.

[@bridgettewilliford8438]

Love the advice keep it coming ❤

[@AltaMenneh]

I agree! Lack of discipline and self-control. Also just to add to the conversation, we are all sinful so only with God's help can we overcome❤ I enjoyed this episode. Thank you!

[@kimsamuel5669]

Hi Tiff & Hubby, (sorry I can’t remember your name.) I wanted to confess that I was subscribed here because of your other channel but never listened … I don’t particularly like podcasts because they are so long. I prefer videos because they can be 10/20 minutes and I like to see while I’m listening. However I had some chores to finish and wanted something to help me feel motivated to complete them. More importantly I wanted to know the answer so I listened completely. Up until I heard the final answer I thought it would be something Tiff said. Although I have not cheated on anyone I always wanted to know why it happened to me. I was given Crapy reasons so I rejected those and came up with something that made sense to me… (Long distance relationships.) I guess it comforted me to believe it wasn’t something I did wrong. The revelation that I received at the end has me reeling… It opened my eyes to allowed me to question myself. I have accepted that I don’t have self discipline in every aspect of my life. I wasn’t aware that it really mattered. I thought that if you have self discipline in one area of your life you could check the box as “yes” I have it. I didn’t dig deeper. It’s missing when I over shop, over sleep, over eat, call out from work, quit on my new yr. resolution, skip Bible study, flake on my family… CRAPOLA… I don’t think I can credit myself with self discipline now. Although I’ve never cheated… Should I say Thank you??? What the heck just happened. My 1st podcast…🥺🤔

[@Queen_EL11]

Who’s Tiff? & they said their names in the into. 😅

[@ironlaceforgedfromthefires2578]

😂😂😂 y’all crack me up!

[@intentionalparenting2605]

Awesome conversations ❤

[@aniabrandt7]

💯 true. Man cheat because of lack of discipline 😢

[@LessonswithBethany]

I love y’all’s podcast! It’s like a breath of fresh air ❤ Thank yall for mentioning Jesus Christ ! God bless ❤

[@MichelleAFuture]

I can share that I got cheated on because I wasn’t giving him what he needed. I just had a baby and he felt like his needs weren’t being met and he chose to entertain someone else

[@YahsPreciousJewel]

It’s most likely due to unhealed trauma that only God can heal. Speaking from experience. Both must do the work to fix what’s broken but it starts spiritually.

[@sherrihamilton1582]

this is dynamic

[@resicup63]

Narcissist/ selfish

[@Ms.Virtuous]

Def that low self esteem

[@MeMe-dx1dx]

Its called being a Dominatrix, You are definitely correct Darryl discipline Is definitely it. You have hit the nail with that You can also use yourself considering how many women when you started this channel have tried to creep inside your dm's and you have kept yourself disciplined to keep the other women at Bay to let them know my wife is my only choice for me.She is your Queen..

[@robynd8521]

I'm glad it's only some!

[@joanwilliams9357]

I love your show I love to see you and your handsome husband together

[@devinevisionary]

I think it’s two reasons people cheat 1. They lack DISCIPLINE 2. They chose to because they wanted to In other words it’s either something he couldn’t resist because of lack of character or he is just a person who doesn’t what he wants and deals with the consequences later if he even considers losing you a consequence maybe he know he won’t lose you or he thinks he won’t get caught . Moral of the story they cheat for their reasons it’s not a third party it’s not you it’s not some mystery .

[@resicup63]

There should be discipline in marriage because when you get married, your body belongs to your SPOUSE and NO ONE ELSE!! It's scripture 😊

[@grantbosman152]

Love you guys😎😎😎... Bully and MamaJuice... Can you please show us how you did Bully's hair. I have the same type of hair as you and I really want to do that hairstyle... Can you please give or make a video on how you achieved that style

[@dynamicyve9781]

lol i understand her 100%

[@SLOERI1]

Thanks for discussing this subject, and other subjects. It's very inspiring for commitment and love, and commitment from love. I have been thinking about lack of discipline. Why lacks someone discipline? Isn't he aware of the importance? Is he weak? didn't he learn it? Just do it, sounds simple, but why do some succeed and others fails? I like your analysis of the subject in a logical way. Why did you cheat, because I drank. Why where you there at the party. You made the choice. Why dit you makte choice? To me the answer is lack of connection. One isn't disciplined becasue of lack of connection. Connection to yourself, your dreams and purpose, and your spouse. One doesn't realise the hurt is causes, or one is in such emptyness that feeling pain is even better. When you are standing at a crossroad and have a choice you need values, intelligence and connection, the last one means love to me, to make a complete choice. To me thats responsibilty attuned your greater goals. When a person does not have clear values, is not able to think in action-reaction and lacks connection then obviuosly there is no discipline. Discipline needs a ground to stand on, and a goal to head to. And its a choice, cheating men need to grow in their responsibility of how to deal with emptyness, goals, love, pain, desires, power and vulnerablity.

[@mstoyagrant]

Meaningful Dialogue.

[@jf2930]

Great show. I'm currently dealing with infidelity in my marriage. I tried to work only because my church folks told me so. Yet he keeps cheating. I'm so over it and just going to get a divorce. I'm good though. It is what it is.

[@resicup63]

Well said/ No discipline!!

[@CoastalCasey]

Im missing the family vlogs 😢

[@akeishajemmott5801]

He is a man, and he said it . I agree 💯 . It's a choice

[@selitacjohnson1865]

Thanks for sharing

[@Godsglory7989]

I love you guys! I pray for God to BLESS me with a God fearing King that's GOD FEARING DISCIPLINED KING that's balanced and wise🙏🙏 Great Podcast!

[@ingridhaye4903]

Brit, if a man loves you and value you he will not cheat on you some men are just simple a womanizer they are not faithful to themselves.

[@tatianadaniel3569]

Exactly. Never take a man (or woman) back who has cheated on you...not even once. If they respected you AT ALL, they would not have done that to you AT ALL.

[@daphnehayes4942]

❤❤❤I love dem. ❤❤❤

[@jerrylawson380]

💯

[@xanthippe318]

Your wife looks like an Ethiopian?

[@georgegriffin-o6f]

the sister is so beautiful

[@jessicamdenham]

Shoutout to my fellow ChatGPT lover! Even though she keeps trying to deny it lol jk!

[@marshawilson7664]

❤

[@resicup63]

The thing is a lot of men don't take the marriage covenant serious according to scripture. You can have all the evidence in the world and present it to the individual and they'll say that's not true. It pays to learn how to communicate and be truthful because infidelity brings on serious consequences according to the Bible!!

[@triip_fl2015]

😂

[@Dexus-71]

They want different 🐈. It’s simple. Especially when we get put on hold

[@tatianadaniel3569]

Then don't be mad when you get cheated on. Simple.

[@godfreyerasto1737]

Sounds very simple but this is deep as a man always you should choose discipline over regrets, 5 years ago I was so addicted to porns and masturbation I prayed to Jesus Christ and He saved me…Lust and lack of sexual discipline falls many men…Godly man If you want to marry coz deep down u know you can’t control your Lust plz don’t marriage won’t solve that problem Pray to God that you overcome Lust before you marry

[@troubleman8732]

❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤

[@Pebbles5064]

New to your content and super excited. Hopeful and loving the conversation....🤎🔥