The REASON Why Meeting A Cluster B Type Can Suck You Dry | Jordan Peterson

The REASON Why Meeting A Cluster B Type Can Suck You Dry | Jordan Peterson #shorts #jordanpeterson #wisdom

[@thebigcheese4495]

“Light herself on fire to singe them” That description is amazing.

[@siok4375]

Ive literally used that explanation in therapy about my ex, its very true

[@IsPsychology-is4bv]

Or drug them , wisdom intelligent justice psychologically spirituality 1Corinthians 14 :26-32

[@spike24.7]

Jordan’s ABSOLUTE SAVAGERY astounds me. The man is so full of surprises

[@MrThankeesai]

and seemingly off the cuff no less

[@darlawrence9295]

You may think JP is speaking metaphorically but he is actually telling the truth. My ex-wife called the cops, waited for them to show up and then slapped me as hard as she could leaving her handprint. She then slapped herself repeatedly on the face and until her face was bright red. When she let the 4 cops in. She was sobbing hysterically. They immediately surrounded me and wanted to arrest me. Luckily a supervisor showed up and listened to my story. He then took her hand and put it on the handprint on my face and then the handprints on her face. The handprints on her face matched her hand perfectly Then he took my hand and none of the small handprints fit the outline of my huge hand. She went to jail that day and we were soon divorced and I became a single father. I never remarried and probably never will.

[@notnow8464]

Story of my life down to the "if she happens to be attractive" detail. She found a whole crew of heroes to "save" her. But the kids and I escaped thanks to a great judge who figured her out.

[@youtbe999]

You should tell your story.

[@philscandle6751]

Legendary ☯️👊👑🧙

[@w415800]

You should look up those "heroes" who hooked up with her and laugh at them.

[@theothersideofpleasant]

I think our judge knew and just helped her out more.

[@darlawrence9295]

It took 3 years and finally, luckily, getting a female judge that did not care about how pretty my wife was, before I finally gained full custody of my children. The court said the recordings of what she was doing to me were inadmissible because she didn't give permission to be recorded in her own house. The recordings I had of the phone calls my sons made to me while she was going off on them and then lying to the cops were admissible though. Because my sons agreed to the phone calls to be recorded and her incidental yelling at them in the background was not subject to privacy. I didn't really understand the difference but it set me and my children free.

[@doulos77]

it is so hard to believe people can be that evil. until it happens to you. it leaves quite a mark...

[@mountain10]

Absolutely!!!!

[@kyle5244]

100 percent 🙆🏽‍♂️

[@JM-kq4le]

I never dated or remarried again

[@ryandonovan5895]

Thankfully not common - but they most certainly exist....in case anyone needs convincing.

[@user-sk9fc5xl5n]

Happened to me around 2021. Now I understand what evil is. Jokes about being edgy and evil aren't funny anymore.

[@ladylightvybe4138]

This was my sister in law. Thank God my brother got away but it took him 25years & cost a cool mill. I tried to warn him after I met her. I picked it up almost immediately but he was gone. Gentleman, please listen to those who love you if they have doubts about your prospective partner.

[@rolfnilsson1888]

Even worse, everyone said she was wonderful. Two lifelong friends joked that she'd beat me up and ruin me. They weren't joking. They hid the warning in humour. I missed it.

[@bonnsterthemonster]

All logic gone if ya can't quell the crotch. This goes for all sexes.

[@ladylightvybe4138]

@rolfnilsson1888 I am so sorry. I hope you are on the road to healing sir. 💖

[@TD-ug4mg]

The closest we've ever seen to a man mounting a defense against this was Johnny depp, and it still cost him hundreds of millions of dollars and having his name dragged through the mud.

[@LyndaAlsford]

I hope that in the future more men will be believed because of Johnny Depp... It's horrendous what some women do to the men in their life

[@ftdadtrucker5672]

Johnny Depp; the only man ever to both win the argument and have the last word.

[@Tony-112]

"There should be a captain there somewhere !"

[@aetherland1883]

But they somehow pretend that everything is the fault of the "oppressive patriarchy"

[@Anabee3]

Yeah...that was pretty horrendous to watch/hear. ESPECLY those recordings of her mocking laugh. She sounded demonic to me. And I don't say that lightly, nor with an ounce of hyperbole.

[@michael-1680]

This is far more common than anyone wants to admit.

[@timmyj5575]

there tends to be more psychopathic men than women so i dont think so

[@dracolusus]

@@vanbalzup6481 What caused your dopamine deficiency? Yeah, Anyone, implies the people that have experienced this. Stop being a midwit

[@Brandon-1996]

You mean far less uncommon? If you ask the internet, stories will spring forth regardless.

[@sshreddderr9409]

its the norm.

[@thomasmitchell4128]

It's business as usual. This is a casual Tuesday for a lot of women.

[@youtbe999]

That disorder should be renamed to Cluster F.

[@ryandonovan5895]

Bravo...bravo...

[@acdcjor]

Sick F disorder

[@Valstein0]

Genius

[@acdcjor]

Sick F disorder

[@wheel-man5319]

Cluster-FU in the case of women.

[@sandywhat2429]

I'm a woman and I've met 2 like this. I've seen one literally con everyone they come into contact with, bat their eyelashes, cry without tears with their chin quivering. Lie about literally everything. I rarely see anyone talk about women and psychopathy.

[@sshreddderr9409]

all women are like that. verbal manipulation is to women the same tool that physical aggression is to men, except that it is legal, has no stigma, and is legally, socially and culturally encouraged by the system and has no consequence, particularly if the victim is a man or a child. you are like that too. if some man got angry at you over your behavior, you would never look inwards, your instinct would be to manipulate the audience by pretending to be scared

[@TheBoon14]

Nice to see a gal say this :) women don’t really face consequences for their aggression since it’s usually done in such covert ways. But i’ve dated 2 like this, their power is more than enough to make you commit suicide/ruin your life.

[@TameAle]

Men are more physically dangerous, but women go undetected a lot longer. Peterson has pointed out that when women cry, the part of the brain that responds to physical pain in men, lights up. They become partially disabled. They may not know the details, but manipulative women know this.

[@joshua-l6m]

I think it's because a lot of psychopathic traits are treated as ideal or standard in female media circles. Lying to get your way, emotional manipulation, lack of empathy for others- especially men, materialism, is all put on a pedestal in modern female oriented media. I think a lot of "psychopaths" nowadays are just reg immature people awarded for bad behavior

[@guy12327]

Because of "the message".

[@user-zh5fh2li9u]

Thank you !! This is so true ! The Cluster B will antagonize, degrade, abuse, may commit crime, and ignore all boundaries, yet when their victim reacts (REACTIVE abuse), the Cluster B will call the police !

[@pokemonpro8438]

Men do exactlly as women. There is no difference.

[@user-zh5fh2li9u]

@@pokemonpro8438 I agree with you 100% !! They will play horrible mind games to make you jealous, try to control your actions/behavior to make you do what THEY want you to do, they will demonize you to others (hopefully those who hear their insanity know better), and they will BAIT you to react ! They may know what buttons to push to purposely agitate you, so you react ! Then they can act like the victim ! It is so disgusting, and sometimes it may take years for an individual to pick up on it ! They are SO evil, and may withhold information from you, or get their flying monkeys to sabotage you, so you fail, or suffer far worse consequences ! I hear you and totally understand !!!! - Jen Gable (Justeson)

[@vukan.mp3]

cluster B is a collection of different personality disorders . not everyone in cluster B behaves the same way (manipulatively and ruthlessly)

[@money1star]

It’s amazing how accurate this is. And the proof is after her and I got divorced, she was in a new relationship in four months and I’ve shut myself off from the opposite sex. It’s been 4 years and just now getting over the trauma of her lying about me to get full custody of my daughter.

[@apebass2215]

Don't shut yourself off from the opposite sex, it won't help you or your daughter in the longterm.

[@brandonflores2398]

She’s a dirtbag and now’s your chance to have some fun of your own, you’re gonna be okay bro, your daughter still loves you regardless, dust your shoulder and live bro.

[@mr.jx5n324]

4 months? damn.. mine was in a new relationship the next day 😎💀

[@rakjy5628]

stay strong brother! keep your eyes open for new experiences and your heart open for new feelings. #StayStrong

[@hadenanderson563]

If you are ever in Alabama...

[@noneyabusinesshomie]

It's really the knights in shining armor that give all the power in the world to these crazy women. To all the knights out there: stop trying to be a superhero, you don't know the whole story for you to even say anything let alone dare think or do anything. Many good men have been falsely imprisoned because of you "super heroes" IT NEEDS TO STOP NOW

[@jon4843]

But I haven't seen her without her clothes yet.

[@AngloSupreme]

I don't involve myself in other people's problems... a lesson that never sunk in properly until 40+ years old.

[@dang8134]

This is the best comment here I've read so far. They master the casting of their spell. No one can believe their being dooped.

[@paulsaulpaul]

The "white knight" (is what these type of men are called) are not doing it for the plight of the woman. It's for their own narcissistic virtue signaling. These people are easy to play (both the psycho woman and the narcissistic white knight) by some variation of reverse psychology. That is easy to do if you recognize what is happening and walk away from it (quickly). The challenge is to give up your attachment to the woman. This action of walking away disempowers them both at best. At worst (for him), he gets a one-night-stand and ends up being the psycho's next target. And these type of men are very shallow and generally also psychopathic (in the sense that they are faking their virtue to use the woman for their own gratification). It's lose-lose for them. And you were going to lose her anyway.

[@noneyabusinesshomie]

@@bonnsterthemonster What's a delusion? That wanna be super heroes don't help escalate a problem between a psychotic person and a person being wrongly accused?

[@martiwalsh4308]

Johnny & Amber.

[@Valstein0]

Perfect case study

[@rosacruz7258]

Yes, he is describing Ms Heard to a tee... Her crying without tears too. And marshalling Elon as the next knight in shiny armour as well.

[@Mazzaaaaman]

​@@rosacruz7258It was so crazy to watch Amber cry dry tears and then when one of the lawyers shouted "objection!" she would immediately stop as if the director has shouted "cut". So fake.

[@user-tt5lb9vf5v]

My dog stepped on a bee...

[@wendigos_eat_people7177]

@@user-tt5lb9vf5v Just be happy Amber Turd didn't poop in your dog's doggy bed.....

[@mattlenton2012]

He just described my mother......to perfection. Gave me the f*ckin chills.

[@devinlewis5082]

Oh, I thought it was ALL of them.

[@hhjhj393]

@@devinlewis5082 It is all women just depends on the severity. My mom is highly territorial too, but she isn't nearly as bad as the other women I see. Most women make my mom look like a saint, but again my mom is INSANELY rare, and even still she is still territorial, and can be hyper aggressive if you cross her wrong.

[@kokoskokso]

Oh yeah, mommy dearest. Imagine you're an extremely capable child and a woman too so at some point she starts viewing you as competition. Feckin almost 40 and still doing therapy, after years of hell with her and years of hell afterwards. The turning point was realizing she's really sick and so it wouldn't be wise believing what she told me about myself. But when you're a kid growing up that's kind of impossible. Anyhoo we exchange polite birthday texts and similar stuff every now and then and that's it. She doesn't know where I live because she'd keep coming over and causing a ruckus. You made your bed, now lie in it. I sincerely wish her lots of healing cos God knows she needs it.

[@NotAffiliated]

YUP! my mother too exactly

[@NotAffiliated]

@@kokoskokso I'm close to your age and only recently have I realized that everything my mother taught me was crap. Biggest lier and deceiver of my lifetime. Created incredible trust issues.

[@Kivlor]

I grew up in a household full of women who did this kind of stuff. I'll warn, it doesnt take a cluster B personality psychopath, just someone who understands the game, how it works, and is mad (or desperately wants to win) enough that they are willing to shed their morals for the moment.

[@fmartin3051]

My step-father's first wife was like this. I've met men abused by women and there's very little help. Men, please, keep good records. Talk to a lawyer. Very carefully begin severing financial ties. Tape arguments. Make an exit plan. You do NOT want to be tied to an actual psychopath. The moment you realize, start taking steps to break the relationship. Nobody, wether male or female, should feel hunted at home.

[@deannahenry8314]

Excellent advice for either side.

[@jamiebiddix4302]

I've been the victim of that insanity. It severely impacted my life at a young age. Saddest part is she hurt my daughter with her actions as well. It took two decades for me to recover.

[@Morrisfactor]

I feel your pain. Happened to me too; ex had BPD and even after 28 years I have the scars and have never really recovered.

[@smit816]

Mom is like that, we all hate her with a passion. Some people should not have kids. Forever will my childhood be stolen, and thats just something you learn to deal with.

[@fraskf6765]

No wait. Yes you are mostly correct, ut maybe try to regain a bit of your childhood. There are enough immature men put there who want to do stupid stuff 😂 and you could join us and have a bit of fun.

[@Aaron-sv3uv]

Trust not a woman when she weeps, for it is her nature to weep when she wants her will - Socrates

[@bonnsterthemonster]

And women don't desire sex until a man convinces her that she should.

[@blueorangeblossom]

While Socrates was brilliant he and Plato came from a society and time that practiced pe*der*as*ty. Which was practiced in ancient Greece. There is speculation about this concerning him and his students, in Greece at this time women were not well respected and men held more rights. Some women could have land...but it was very different. Instead; I would study Jesus and what he said about marriage and love. As well as the Old testament, which while under the law-did help men stay away from evil women-specifically wisdom from proverbs.

[@shieldwolf65]

I've seen women hurt, dog bites, car accidents, angry, told they have a brain tumour & no tears. Emotional manipulation time. Waterworks.

[@user-kx8km9te8s]

Had to cut ties with a friend, I saw those characteristics in her.....Thank you God she's not in my life anymore!!!!!!

[@lazybuggg]

My boyfriend’s best friend is dealing with this right now. He broke up with the cluster b type and she started hitting him, slapping him, broke his belongings. He never laid a finger on her. Then SHE stole his phone so he couldn’t call the police & she used it to call the cops on HIM! Accused him of hitting her, tried to have him arrested, tried to tell the authorities that his elderly mother was dealing drugs. The case was thrown out when the judge saw all the scratches & bruises on him & there were none on her. He recently found a new girlfriend and his ex called him up & said she will do everything in her power to ruin his life and have him arrested. Then she started a smear campaign against him & got one of his friends to believe her.( knight in shining armor) it’s scary how vindictive she is.

[@doit9854]

We used to just see if they floated not that long ago...

[@lottielane2486]

​@@doit9854maybe we still should .😅

[@MultiChrisjb]

@@doit9854 not really, they were the ones setting someone else for that.

[@Ayce410]

Pimp hand ✋️

[@hhjhj393]

My dad is a bit of a cuck loser, and when my mom divorced him he married two absolutely insane women. My mom didn't take ANYTHING from my dad, my dad was an alcoholic loser, I don't hate him, but it is what it is. She just wanted him gone and they had already been seperated for a while anyways. Eventually years later he remarried another woman, I went to visit and it was some stereotypical 304 and her daughter who had a baby from a dude who was gone. My dad was basically a cuck taking care of this woman's brood. Then my dad was trying to get me with the daughter and I flipped out on him. Eventually he calls me crying the woman he married was obviously a 304 screwing other dudes and he was a guppy paying everything and she ditched him the minute he struggled financially. Then he found another woman who was an alcoholic and she was the WORST. She basically made my dad her bitch and made him buy her booze, she lazed around their apartment, quit her job, didn't do anything, just got drunk. She would throw things out of the balcony, damage cars, she broke the windshield on my dads car, she got my dad arrested by saying he beat her, trust me my dad's a wimp he couldn't beat a woman. My dad even had voicemail messages of her threatening him, threatening to beat herself and call the cops if he didn't buy her booze. I think my dad has shit on his record now, he had to have a breathalyzer and all sorts of other shit. I gave up on my dad and haven't talked to him in years. I feel bad for him, but I have told him over and over again that these women are taking advantage of him but he is just kinda stupid. Some dudes are just gonna suffer. I admit that I am a loser that's why I am super careful with women.

[@Li-rm2gj]

All the people here commenting - Don’t feel shame it happened. Feel proud we survived.

[@InoFughaul]

Nice.

[@VelvetThunder167]

They'll fake cry on the phone, and then look at they're friend and laugh I hope the dogs of hell find them

[@dollop405]

That's exactly what my ex-husband did. Pathetic

[@fraskf6765]

​​@@dollop405press x to doubt. I just cannot imagine that you 1 mwt a man who acts like this AND that 2 he had friends that supported this. Is it a "feminist" lie to discredit men? Or are you just very very unlucky?

[@dollop405]

You tube doesn't seem to want to accept my anti feminist response. Let's try this again...men need women and vice versa

[@pokemonpro8438]

There is no difference between the men and women who do this kind of thing. Attorneys and psychologists make money off us thinking that. I have known both men and women who did this. Unfortunately, I didn't know what to look for or recognize this phenomonon for what it was until I was married and had children with a man who did this. My teen son almost ended up with a female like this but because I was wary he was more prepared to end things when he knew for himself, but it was still hard. ​Both parents supposedly had this issue. She told him after I guessed. Raise your children with love and tenderness, and treat them all fairly. Check your arrogance and hostility. Children who feel loved, valued, and safe, have consistency, and are taught decency by example will more than likely be healthy. @@fraskf6765

[@tsriftsal3581]

We suffer because we are already there my friend

[@thespiritof76..]

I had to twice learned my lesson to never ever ever offer to help a female stranded at a gas station with all her luggage... Never do it just keep moving. Attractive women are never, never abandoned

[@reneehouser2925]

My mother did this to me & Dad for 38 yrs. My daughter even had my mother terrified. I can tell ya that women like that made it impossible for nice women to get any help getting away from abusive men.

[@NakujaChan]

Nobody wins around a pyscho. I doubt even they do.

[@leonardodasilva7809]

Dr. Peterson saying it like it is yet once again.

[@yehiaismail2451]

💯 I was married to one of those cluster B I ended up twice In jail and once in psychiatric facility and haven't seen my kids since July 1st 2023

[@carisballing]

I am so sorry for you. Sorry to hear your story.

[@annkelly626]

That is so tragic 😢

[@hadenanderson563]

Write postcards to your kids, and take a picture of them, and mail them. Say messages that can be read by anyone (I miss you. I love you. You are amazing.) It shows that you never stopped trying, yet it's transparent so your words can't be twisted. It's a short matter of time before your sincere effort is discovered. The pictures are your proof.

[@GiaBasquiAi-ho7hf]

How did you end up in jail twice and in a mental facility when she was the crazy one?

[@wendigos_eat_people7177]

@@GiaBasquiAi-ho7hf Simple, She got mad and made up a lie and called the cops to punish him and they came and took him to jail. not once but twice.

[@Patriot_Eke]

Yep, this is 100% right on. What still surprises me is how easily she still gets away with all her terrible stunts and lies too.

[@dominusbalial835]

Psychopaths and Narcissists are drawn together and work together really well. In terms of succeeding at being anti-social.

[@Clevelandsteamer324]

Best description ever! They still get supply while you are dying on side of road. Schaddenfreude

[@JesHendell]

Imagine how many innocent men end up in prison because of women like that.🤬

[@dollop405]

Unfortunately, I'm a female and my lying narcissistic husband did that to me. Lied and put me in jail. Took my money out of the bank the very next day. I had bought the home we lived in with cash and put his name on the title because he was my spouse, right? No stupid of me. He took half of it because he was, "entitled to it". He worked for 1-1/2 years out of our 9 year marriage.

[@yopoxikeweapescai9066]

​@@dollop405im srry for you, but i really wonder how ppl in your situation can just endure so much shit and not just end them.

[@triskelionchi3747]

​@@yopoxikeweapescai9066In the end hate only poisons us and adds to the suffering of the world. Better to tend to the wound than to ignore it to inflict more wounds on others, no matter how justified it feels. It's just not worth it.

[@dollop405]

Thank you, and God bless you. Very difficult to this day. ​@@yopoxikeweapescai9066

[@dollop405]

I wouldn't say hate. Justice would be very nice though. ​@@triskelionchi3747

[@GAIS414]

I had a girlfriend like that for 7 years. The first four years was heaven. The last three years, she showed her true colors. Damn near killed me.

[@Morrisfactor]

Same here. First two years were heaven, the next four years were hell. She had BPD but I stayed the extra years for the kids. I've never really recovered from it, even after 28 years has passed.

[@elise9537]

@@Morrisfactor you couldnt tell when you meet her? did you live with her during those first years? what is a sign that someone might have BPD?

[@Morrisfactor]

@@elise9537 I did live with her for two years before we got married. She was great; we had no fights or arguments and got along wonderfully. Two weeks after our marriage she flicked a switch in her brain and from then on it was like she hated me. I stayed for another two years because we had a newborn, but eventually she kicked me out and did her best to destroy me in every way you can imagine. (I made EVERY child support and alimony payment in full and on time). I've since found out that some borderlines can hide their affliction for two years or more. The good thing is that I have a wonderful daughter from the marriage and remain close with the two stepdaughters.

[@perezfamBoss]

My ex wife down to the T. I lost everything, including my kids. Then followed by attack of my status and changing my kids last name. Brainwashed them to thinking I’m evil. Then got herself a sucker to fill in and take the punishment she prescribes without complaining , and he takes it since he can’t do better than her

[@user-mx6ct4lo7d]

That's exactly what's happening to me. Got jailed 4 times. Was looking at four years this last time. The last 3 were her crime. The first I was provoked. I still love her

[@gerrybennett2820]

God it sounds like we married the same one my ex done the exact thing only I get to see my kids Wednesday and 2nd weekend 6 yrs now I joke with my kids calling them my ex surname but some people are just wired for drama

[@alexlilano1931]

My ex wife was like this. The crazy thing is she truly believe her lies. She did invite a knight and shinning armor. We ended our marriage after two weeks when I found out about their affair. I was literally apologizing about our relationship to her and she twisted my words. She literally said, "stop threatening me" multiple times. The Knight and shinning armor was her childhood boyfriend. He was also a former friend. (Didnt know they dated when i asked her out). My sister said Im doing a lot better than her. I told my sister I want to leave it in the past and she didnt say anymore. My former friend probably realized freaking crazy my ex wife was. She made about 50% up in her head and she truly believes it. I think she had the beginning stages paranoid schizophrenia. This might sound bad. I only stayed because of religion and very happy when she told me about him. I still felt guilty because I felt like a sinner and pushed her away. I felt happy the guy came because it made the divorce a lot easier.

[@bannaxe7338]

I'm glad you're doing good now man God bless you

[@eehlohluell]

She was the one who didn't believe in that marriage, you went into it believing in it and committed to it. If one partner doesn't believe in the marriage, it falls apart. It's not your fault you believed she wanted the marriage for the same reasons and with the same strength as you did-you were deceived-and if you ask me, I think that's more than enough to justify the legal ending of the marriage when she wasn't in it at heart. This is coming from a woman, if that matters, you did the right thing and I wish you well whether you decide to try to marry again or not:)

[@5150Bud]

Some demons wear skirts and some of those demons are in the church. Been a regular attender for over 52 years and I’ve seen a few.

[@zoharyaaupharaisrael1983]

🥱🥱🥱

[@kyle5244]

This is so eerily similar to my situation just minus the marriage part of it. Girlfriend/boyfriend situation instead.

[@rennbr1895]

Gosh this exact thing happened to me, my ex girlfriend almost ruined my life and career when I tried to leave her, she got me in jail over false accusations, thankfully things worked out for me the judge didn’t believe her and I got to keep my career and life but I felt I was lucky to escape that situation unharmed

[@erikekholm9617]

Men, when trying to rescue a damsel in distress, all you end up with is a distressed damsel

[@bodhisattvaswamigurudeva2883]

Thanks. You've just explained the explosive personality of the estranged woman who destroys my life daily. Evil cannot exist without Good to prey upon! 😂❤🎉

[@paulblak9122]

Been there ito save my daughter,it took 3 years before they found out I wasn't lying that she was mental

[@stoneyvowell1239]

Yep! That's the way it works. You don't even have to raise a hand to trigger the rage. All you have to do is have your own opinion, or attempt to be assertive and be your own advocate. They need the say in everything about you. And the bad thing about calling the authorities is that even with the proof that she was the problem, you're the one that gets all the punishment.

[@rollerball2297]

I legit had an ex like this in my early twenties. She thought I was cheating on her and slapped the shit out of me so hard, I was bleeding on my face. I told her she was a lunatic and tried to leave the house she started swinging on me and I held her wrist so I wouldn’t get hit. Afterwards she told my family and our friends that I broke her wrist and hit her and even sent photos that made it appear like she was bruised using makeup or something (this is back when we had camera flip phones so it was easier to fake) It was a wake up call for me to stay away from truly dangerous toxic women

[@Nefelibatacomingthrough]

How can you recognize this kind of people in a surface level conversation? I'd like to find out as soon as possible and maybe Im not sure enough to recognize it.

[@stefantrebinjac]

Solution is in how you approach any relationship and how good of a communicator you are. Also, you need to be bizarre too! If you aren't, prepare for sadness. Bizarre? What does it mean? Example: Get to know a girl you like, talk about very personal stuff, be bizarre in the details and if you love her, accept forthrightly the conditions which she may have. While also having conditions for her in return. It's a game you got to play, simply put. Then even if she is a bit crazy or emotionally unstable, but also good for you, it will be fine. You can be happy with such a person, pretty sure. That's all. 😉 As for me, I'll wait for a "yandere-ish" lady. Personally, I prefer obsessiveness. It's a true display of love, which should be treated with gentleness and love in return.

[@FULLNOIZ]

It's in their eyes​@@Nefelibatacomingthrough

[@edennis8578]

​@@NefelibatacomingthroughI don't know if women do this, but psychopathic men won't wait very long before they're telling you how all of their gfs/wives physically attacked them and that they were crazy. I guarantee you that those guys made them crazy, IF the stories are true. I was stupid enough to believe a guy like that once and I lived to regret it. In my experience, female psychopaths often keep very quiet about their previous relationships because they've gone to prison over their behavior. One of my sons got involved with a woman who, it turned out, went to prison for trying to run over her ex with her car. She lost custody of her kids over it, too. My other son almost married a woman who had been in prison for ped0. He googled her and there it was, with her mug shot and all.

[@thewatchers5930]

How do these people get this personality??? I'm suspicious as an Empath what makes other dysfunctional people people get this way. Surveillance cameras a necesdity. Trust nobody 💯 Question everything Like narcissists run fast

[@barefootarts737]

Learn to say no. And teach all your friends to get used to hearing it from you. Best repellent ever.

[@user-fq1oj2tr3v]

I have 3 women friends who act this way. As they age they have ended up alone. I don't see them anymore, either. They were all diagnosed bi polar, tho. That obsession with loving to call the cops is really contemptible.

[@cindy3218]

And they are your friends? Really?

[@GiaBasquiAi-ho7hf]

​@@cindy3218😂😂😂

[@Gransterman]

That’s when you set up a nanny cam in every room and record every interaction

[@mysterybotts]

This is my stepmother. My dad tried to commit unalive twice because of all the toll it took on him. She somehow got my grandmother to stop talking to him and had a thing going with my uncle. My father and I didn’t have a good relationship when I was a child, but we ended up really close because of my efforts to hash things out. The rollercoaster was so crazy that it literally sounds fake. He unfortunately passed away in on New Year’s Eve of 2020-2021 due to a tumor in his large intestine. I miss him and constantly think about him everyday. I love you Dad. ♾️ RIP TMC ♾️

[@LoneHeckler]

They are more common than you think

[@thestorybehindthat5236]

If someone is this crazy you need to get away from them way before things get to this point. A man hitting a woman is never going to go over well. You have the upper hand in strength and it will always be seen as an abuse of power when used against women and children.

[@joel7227]

I've noticed a pattern between ALL Cluster B's ive met, and may be an early warning sigh you're walking into a trap. - If someone you barely know, begins pulling stories of hardship out of their ass, this is a red flag. The first thing these people will do, is attempt to convince you they are a 'victim' of 'something' and you should feel sorry for, or pity them. Imagine they are mentalist doing hypnosis. If you're aware that the purpose of the interaction is hypnosis, you'll see right through the show. If you go into it with a 'Mmmm maybe i believe in hypnosis", they've got you in the trap. Just be aware that the stories of woe, is a perception of the reality, not a fact of it. So always ask yourself - 'Why am i being told, this story of woe. What is the goal?'

[@shieldwolf65]

Good point. Particularly if it's a toxic, abusive, Narcissistic, manipulative controlling Yada Yada Ex. Red flags already.

[@lagoya]

Excellent advice. Stay away from “victims” in general (not necessarily people who have suffered, but people who talk endlessly about their suffering even to relative strangers). I know plenty who have truly suffered but you wouldn’t know it, because they choose not to burden everyone around them or they just want to move past it. I know others who kind of suffered but stay focused on it even when things become better. That’s not a healthy way to be and they WILL drag you down with them if you allow it

[@ChristianAndrew1.4]

Been through this and thankfully I had the knowledge to navigate and defend myself. Even though it took years and years to fully get myself back. The cluster B should be required reading early on in life.

[@JimKJeffries]

The description of having life sucked out from me, so true.

[@dandeehart9553]

This has been EXACTLY PROVEN by the DA in the Ruby Franke case, she appeared to be sorry & quite a few of these men were just immediately taken by her 🐊 tears!

[@steveascension9626]

The greatest truth telling psychologist of the modern era.

[@idolhand6468]

Experienced this first hand . Is a hard one to bounce back from

[@sleepingcomfortably9991]

This very same happened to me. I had children with her. When they drop the veil after they have what they want, you will never forget it. I have spent 12 years protecting the children to the best of my ability. But the drama never ends and you have to be prepared for anything.

[@AllAhabNoMoby]

What no one wants to accept is that the 'power' this woman appears to have really resides with the State, not with the woman. There would be no problem for the man if the State didn't throw its full weight behind the psychopath.

[@dimariobell8499]

It's the "women are wonderful effect"

[@Bronek.Konarski]

Unfortunately, there are too many people making money from this treatment of men by the state to have anything changed for the better.

[@jwhippet8313]

Yup. Happened to me. Mine called the police to say I was kidnapping our children. When the police came, she was having a flip out in the house and I was calm on the porch. Almost got shot for putting my hands in my pockets.

[@philomelodia]

He is absolutely, 150% correct. My ex is cluster B. He knows whereof he speaks. It was brutal. She has her white knight now. Dumb shit came galloping to the rescue after I left. Listened to and allowed himself to be galvanized by her tale of whoa. She’s very good at it. Made absolutely sure that he would spend the rest of his days proving to her that, unlike me, he would never be one to run away. He’s caught for life in a web spun out of the threads of his own integrity. Poor bastard is now finding out just exactly why I left and there is squat all he can do about it without betraying his core principles. Oh, well. Better him than me.

[@user-mx6ct4lo7d]

Ha! Thats my excuse for staying B4 she put me in jail for her crime. Then I came out and family disappeared. Blocked all the way around. Even Cash app! 0 contact is cruel and my job not hers! Now she sucks everyone off but me

[@catmando1786]

I was the band director at ponte vedra high school and had 4 girls in my guitar class with EXACTLY this demeanor. Teaching crazy was the most difficult thing I've ever had to do. I have 3 artificial valves in my heart and they went to complain to the principal saying the thought of it made them sick with disgust every time they heard the clicking. The principal asked me to muffle my chest by wearing a heavy jacket of some kind of chest dampener. He said he would drop the temp in the band room for my convenience. They fired me because I said no. I've never been more grateful to be let go.

[@MillenialWanderer]

Happened to me as a lesbian woman who was not healed from my childhood trauma around my mother. You love what you know.

[@anthuanjm]

Please Explain 😢

[@Aaron-sv3uv]

They say women will marry a man like their dad, but for the lesbian it is their mother apparently. Very interesting, thanks for sharing

[@anombrerose6311]

Very Very True. God have Mercy if that type has children.

[@Meetthemaker1day]

My life in only a few seconds. Kudos Doc.

[@FreerDHabit]

Going through this now. In court cause she said I abused her. While she sleeps with multiple men. She’s beautiful and caught me when I was at my lowest. My mother had died among other things. When I finally decided to call out her behavior she ruined my life entirely. Telling my friends and family how bad I am and got me in jail. Please pray for me fellas. Vet these woman whole heartily before you give them your heart.

[@siok4375]

I am currently the little dried up corpse. All of this happened to me and more. Im currently trying to get my life back together and would love to hear his take on coming back from a catastrophe like that

[@MC_Hammerpants]

You cannot yet see the opportunity you've gained in the midst of destruction and pain you've endured. Would you believe me if I said where you are right now is a blessing? Rediscover your purpose. The thing that gives your life meaning. It will give reason for your corpse self to reanimate into the better future you. Enter your cocoon phase which walls you construct from your purpose. Once you emerge and slowly return to normalcy, you will find you now carry a magnificent set of invisible armor that not only protects but also boosts your strength and wisdom toward people and the world in ways that could never be gained without being in the position you are in today. You feel you are a corpse because the old you needed to die. If it didn't, you would remain the same person who allowed themself to be in the situation you are currently in... Which would inevitably repeat the cycle. Don't miss the old you but don't forget it either. It all begins with your decision to make: either rediscover your purpose or remain a corpse. You'll understand everything else I said eventually. Best of luck when making your decision, friend.

[@senrab253]

4 years into recovery from one of these scenarios. Borderline personality disorder is a nightmare that keeps giving.

[@ghostinthenetworks662]

Thank God for someone that can identify and articulate in scientific terms what many men have suffered at the hands of psychotic women. Till now I think women have erroneously been viewed as being only victims

[@rexweller3759]

This type may be the mother of a friend who wants to make YOU their boyfriend and plays the damsel in distress. She used her sons to try to get boyfriends l heard later.

[@bonnsterthemonster]

This is such nonsense. The only men who are victims of psychopaths have been murdered by psychopaths. If she didn't murder you then she's not a psychopath. Watch the movie, "Psycho".

[@abelovedflame]

Yep! They're out there. My ex lied in custody court right to the judge's face...and he caught her. Used the kids as a weapon against me. Anything to make herself feel better. Zero accountability. Be glad when they're gone! 20 years later she lives alone with her cats...

[@samaspen3077]

I have recently had a woman take photos of bruises she had from hitting me....be careful

[@AnhPham-ep6cf]

Well did you also do the same and report to the police with that same evidence? That's assault at the very least!

[@thewatchers5930]

I've watched someone use makeup looked like bruises. These nut jobs make me sick 🤢

[@bhatkat]

Had a tenant who acquired some bruises, likely from slipping in the tub. Went on a campaign to frame a guy that was absolutely sensational. Victims advocacy units, took it all the way to the chief of police and with no satisfaction there it was to the mayor's office. She set me up twice, ended up marrying a POS junkie a month after marrying him. Last I checked she was still up to her antics in her late 50's.

[@shieldwolf65]

@samaspen3077, Even if you take photos & report it to Police *"For Record Only - No Action Required"* It creates a prior paper trail of incidents. That a recording interactions without her knowing so her true colours are shown.

[@gravesclayton3604]

Wait until you have an ex-wife like this, who then gets full custody of your 2 children and trains your daughter to behave the same. You only get them back when she shows each of them out, in turn, at age 18. Your son has nothing to do with either of the other 2, because he has had to bear the brunt of it in your absence. Your daughter, however, returns fully armed, ready, and willing to torch herself, and everyone else, related to her or not, just to attempt to get her way. Meanwhile, the creator of this monster gets to live happily, 3K miles away, avoiding any and all consequences. And the best part of it all, the courts supported all of this while it was in the making! Isn't that just wonderful?

[@marksmith2003]

Happened to me. She tried to steal my car. When I got my keys back I was sitting on the couch and she threw an end table at my head. I ducked and it bounced off my back/shoulder and put a hole in the wall behind me. She then flipped the kitchen table with everything on it. At that point I wrapped my arms around her to try to restrain her....I was able to get her under conyrol and i even drove her to work after the incident but she got violent in the car so I pulled over about a quarter mile away from her work and a told her to get out. Then I made a U turn and went home...I was expecting an apology later that day, but instead she went to the police and wrote a whole fictitious police report saying that I repeatedly punched and kicked her in the face and tried to kill her by running her over with my car. Even though she didn't have a mark on her, I was arraigned the next day for felony assault and assault with a deadly weapon, was thrown in jail with $50k bail and was facing 15 years in jail for something i didn't do. The case was dismissed in the end, but it destroyed me as a person and ruined the rest of my life.... I'm now a shell of the man I was....I can't even tell my story especially to people who don't know me because I am afraid people wont believe me and label me as an abuser or woman beater....

[@shieldwolf65]

That's the worst. Try living in a small town when they do this. Ya gotta move. It sux. My ex only had moments of crazy, when on her period or when she felt rejected BC of Mommy/Daddy abandonment issues. But when she went off it was spectacular. She went to war by the light of burning bridges. Then would demand an apology for upsetting her.

[@LoganPEade]

49 years ago, still in high school, I had the extreme fortune too notice this very odd behavior with more than a few girls and begun to figure it out then before any got their evil hooks on my life. Knowing the danger signs, when I met my wife it was easy to see she was normal, married 39 fantastic years and still going strong is proof enough!

[@branwhite4973]

Literally light on fire... sadly this isbthe truth

[@6string42]

I now have a clinical term to describe the single worst period of my life. Thank you Dr Peterson!

[@philanthropicnightmare1206]

amber heard lol

[@AnthonyPorter-bleh]

People need to talk more about these type of women. They are more common then a lot of folks realize.

[@morenitascorp9246]

NPD male, same story

[@Novarcharesk]

Less dangerous legalistically. Women can twist shit into their favour WAY more than any narcissistic man.

[@MC_Hammerpants]

An npd male wouldn't abuse himself and call the cops while crying to get his girl arrested because it portrays weakness to others in his meticulously crafted fake persona

[@morenitascorp9246]

@@MC_Hammerpants Blameshifting | FutureFaking | Gaslighting | Slander lol they would and do

[@MC_Hammerpants]

@@morenitascorp9246 he would typically go about those things differently than a female for reasons I mentioned above

[@morenitascorp9246]

@@MC_Hammerpants no

[@ryandeweese363]

Reminds me of my ex wife of 13 years.. Disgusting woman stole and manipulated my kids against me...tore our marriage apart with straight lies... Had to throw my hands up and give it to God, Not a thing I can do...

[@P2Reflectschannel-hh2zl]

I can ensure you this is not some sort of misogyny. It's a terrible reality. Keep in mind, he's not referring to "women." He's referring only to women with very select disorders.

[@pavla2055]

I watch this happening in the next door rental house - any woman with a house can get a man and she lays in wait for them . She has told me of 4 previous live ins and has gone through the 5th since we've been here . The police come about once a month for some real or imagined issue to pay her attention she seeks . She started calling police on us - I told them to check the number of times she's having them around - they haven't been back in 8 months . Everything and everybody is fuel for drama for these type .

[@Golgotha357]

Yep! You just described my life.

[@ryandonovan5895]

Username checks out!

[@Golgotha357]

Mine? I'd hope so. 😂

[@ryandonovan5895]

@@Golgotha357 I actually said that over a brain fart. Ever seen the movie Dogma? The Golgothan? He/she was one of those, eh? 💩💩💩

[@Golgotha357]

Yes, it's a fave.

[@marionmarcetic7287]

Fortunately My Mom Was A Very Sweet Woman Who Sacrificed A Lot For Her Family! Not A Monster Like These Aforementioned Women! Rest In Peace Mommy You Were Gone Much Too Soon And I Love And Miss You A Lot! Shalom And Amen!🛐✝️🛐🛐😇🌟🤗🙏🙏🙏🇨🇦🇮🇱♾️🇺🇲🇺🇲🇺🇲🗽🦅❤❤❤‼️

[@TessG9107]

The way this short appeared after I learned mnemonics for the different clusters for an exam.

[@bbuzz1687]

He is so right. Prison is full of them.

[@bonnsterthemonster]

Oh bull

[@Ggdivhjkjl]

Society needs wise men and honourable leaders to deal with women like that.

[@bonnsterthemonster]

I disagree. Women should deal with the women. Let the men deal with the men. Jordan's wife is homely and his daughter is a painted,clipped, doll.

[@ninelives56]

I've known women like that. Especially one comes to mind who lied and got some guys to beat up another guy. Another: I once went out with a guy who had a friend with a wife like that. We decided to meet at a bar, and when I was in the bathroom, she told me to go back out and deliberately step on a man's shoes and knock his drink over so he would chastise me and my date would confront him and her husband in turn would stand up for my date, and a bar fight would commence. I left alone, never dated that guy again and never spoke to that couple again. Sick women out there.

[@mrawesomeDK]

There are lots of them. But nobody wants to have that discussion, because it holds women accountable.

[@edennis8578]

Lots of people are having that discussion, especially after Amber Heard and Meghan Markle. Look them up.

[@SuperSoundtracksEX]

I ended up marrying one, she destroyed my entire life. Everything I took joy in, she poisoned and she did so in the disguise of a kind person who just wanted to help everyone. She has only ever wanted to help herself and, barring that, hold absolute dominion. If she can’t have both, she’ll scheme and burn everything down.

[@adifferentangle7064]

I know a few guys who survived this shit.

[@dollop405]

I'm trying to survive this, "shit" from my ex husband. Shit doesn't even begin to explain it.

[@joe-un1ky]

the first time (yeah sorry) I broke up with my ex was when she marched down the street, when we were out clubbing, screaming at me to "get away from her" as if I was some sort of rapist or attacker because I had become upset with her for getting wasted when I'd asked her to be careful not to drink too much (as she always did). this, by the way, was an outing with my friend that she'd invited herself to

[@In_debt_to_Christ]

We need more of this level of intellect.

[@peanbean1973]

This is why reacting aggressively to people you transgress on you is a great weakness. Only a non reactive man can protext himself from psychopaths and sociopaths

[@shawnawilliams3025]

If this describes your life at all you need to leave them

[@JenoLaszloMolnar]

Perhaps you are not aware how persistent some women can be. Was I supposed to colonize the moon alone ?

[@edennis8578]

Haven't you ever heard that hell hath no fury like a woman scorned? You haven't seen anything until you've seen a psychopath scorned. They can hurt you in ways that normal people can't even imagine.

[@user-yi7fz8ly2z]

After watching this Will Smith started yelling; "KEEP MY WIFE'S NAME OUT OF YOUR MOUTH!"

[@bnic9471]

My husband went through this with his first wife. He could not even hold a differing opinion without getting browbeaten for it. We have been married (happily) for 10 years, and he still sometimes shows signs of stress from memories of marriage to her. I won't go into detail because cluster Bs all act in similar ways, as if there were some cluster b school out there.

[@thenextbondvillainklaussch3266]

"Hell hath no fury as a woman scorned" And if you poke around in Hell enough time's , you just might find the Devil ......

[@davidh6300]

I think we saw this sort of behaviour in Amber Heard.

[@carlosenriquez2092]

Having worked in a county jail, I can tell you this was very common. I wish he would speak on the vulnerabilities of the police officers and how easily they where taken in. How willing they are to fall in.

[@bonnsterthemonster]

Then they shouldn't be police officers.

[@carlosenriquez2092]

@@bonnsterthemonster if only it were that easy.

[@timcoolican459]

Been there...left her.

[@dollop405]

Been there, left him

[@tonymonxana992]

I personally know two men who separately got falsely accused of domestic abuse. Both girls inured themselves on purpose after an argument then called the cops

[@trudibarraclough478]

Sounds like my mother.

[@Son_Of_Mort]

Your loved ❤

[@wendigos_eat_people7177]

@@Son_Of_Mort Cluster-b's can't love. That requires empathy they don't have.

[@rogersheddy6414]

My dad's mother was like this and she ruined a lot of lives. She had an absolute hor of the idea of cremation and had plotted out what her funeral was to be like down to the last detail. She was in a hospital dying from a stroke and one son was keeping watch until he'd been there for like twenty two hours. The youngest son came by and said he take over for him. 12 hours later, the doctor came By and let him know that she hadn't made it. He told my Uncle about the different funeral. Homes gave him a list and then mentioned crematoria nearby. You can guess what happens...

[@mhouse16]

I feel almost every man has had this happen in our lifetime.

[@yehorveremii]

yes.

[@dollop405]

Women too

[@mhouse16]

@@dollop405 I'll take your word on it.

[@Li-rm2gj]

No, it’s not that common. Why do you think it’s hard for people to believe you? It’s ok though I believe you.

[@catherinemurphy9726]

It's unfortunately because men are encouraged to look before they leap, so to speak. Cluster B men and women love bomb/seduce or play the "rescue me" card when they first meet someone. If you find yourself completely bowled over by someone new, slow down.

[@vikingshark2634]

I'm no psychologist so I can't diagnose my second and final fiancée. But the description fits. She tried (unsuccessfully, but it could have gone either way) to cost me a 12-year military career and my security clearance with her false allegations.

[@janeyrevanescence12]

I was stalked by someone who was diagnosed with BPD. Had to completely go off the grid until I felt safe again. She was scary good at getting people on her side too, which made it easy for her to stalk me.