Wassup #DEFINING Fam! In today's video, we gathered the gents and unpacked some of the interesting things that men do! Please make sure to let us know your thoughts on this chat! #RoadTo50K
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@itsjust.zainodiaz29134 жыл бұрын
I always appreciate the honesty and rawness of the opinions on this channel as problematic as some may find it I find these conversations extremely necessary. // As for the mike vn... i cant breathe.
@ksway84714 жыл бұрын
True, the truth doesn't always go down well, people expect a panel of abo Dennis and thats not helpful... We need to hear the truth and understand things from all perspective....
@Mollyolifant27674 жыл бұрын
The woman dating Dennis is blessed... Such substance from someone 😭🙆🏽♀️
@matshepomaduna50354 жыл бұрын
Right!
@lihlemngunyana38514 жыл бұрын
True
@mmathaboledwaba4 жыл бұрын
I second that
@melomahlawole96094 жыл бұрын
I know right 🥺 and I’m so thankful... it’s me, but he doesn’t know mara that’s not important.
@evidancemogale34024 жыл бұрын
@@melomahlawole9609 I am weak. 😂😭
@Ngasii4 жыл бұрын
The theme of this video has one thing ring in my head: Masculinity is a performance. Society has taught us to be such thespians that some of us believe a great deal of what is taught. Men are taught to be such independent creatures with the power to create our own worlds but still somehow most are made with a cookie cutter and baked at 180°. We look similar varying in size, colour and maybe even shape but taste exactly the sane because the ingredients used came together to form one homogenous batter. A lot of what is taught to us is then taught to our ladies. Men are told hugging is not done by men but by women and then women are told if men hug each other then you best question his intentions. These god-complexes we have don't even allow us to tell other men that they are handsome because we lose the entire plot. It is very funny seeing a guy use every "manly" adjective he can think of instead of just sayiny he thought his boy looks good that day. I mean, should it automatically mean he is interested in his friend now? We go against nature in stripping a man from his emotions. Dennis, you made mention of the fact that men don't understand their emotions. I believe they could if they were allowed to instead of being told "men don't cry" and "toughen up" and "be a man". We truly rob ourselves of life in forcing each other into such a riggid way of being. Womxn in the world suffer by us because we unknowingly create and recreate monsters instead of men. We forever look to one up another to see who is the better man. We are our cast and crew. Lights. Camera. Masculinity.
@msingathingwenze66314 жыл бұрын
And the lengths that guys go through to prove that they are "real men" are amusing and a lot of the time quite repulsive. Men themselves are creating monsters in each other everyday day by encouring each other to indulge in destructive vices and behaviors, and by not holding one another accountable for their transgressions especially in our black neighbourhoods/townships where the soil for toxic masculinity is very fertile, the vibrations amongst men are low, the narrative of what a man is is distorted and they are spiritually disaligned therefore creating a very low quality of men who indulge in all sorts of henius and gross human crimes(sexual abuse, aggravated battery and pre meditated murder) because of the teachings of toxic masculinity that emphasise that being a real man is being a wreckless brute. Our way of life is not only a hazard to women and children, it is also detrimental to our own physical and emotional well being and what makes this even sadder is that there are still men out there that are men in the true sence and embody the true masculine essence culturally, morally, universally and wholistically and but there a few and far between that is the problem.
@isiphilemathafeni50004 жыл бұрын
We need a female version of this episode.
@buhlemazibuko26564 жыл бұрын
Your mind😍
@Percy_mzangwa4 жыл бұрын
Yes we do..
@monicamuchindu4 жыл бұрын
I agreee
@GlowWithRed4 жыл бұрын
Definitely
@aslbuthelezi4 жыл бұрын
True
@nazo66674 жыл бұрын
Next time can we please have Sibu Mpanza and Sipho men who understand the importance of such conversations. I think the time to joke about toxic masculinity has ended and I dont know if these guys understand that. This was a very difficult episode for me to watch as a woman ngoba these are realities that truly hurt women, but are seemingly jokes to these guys. . I appreciate that there is an open conversation, that's amazing. And I know that defining had good intentions with this video. But next time ndicela uSibu no Sipho, men who will take the opportunity to teach. Not men who make cheating, lying etc etc (toxic masculinity) stuff look "cool" . . Still love and appreciate Defining content ♥️🙌🏾
@justthabi4 жыл бұрын
I totally agree with you Sinazo
@mbalimayisela84704 жыл бұрын
Dude for real ey
@nonhlanhlaradebe77284 жыл бұрын
Kamampela
@AG-fg1uk4 жыл бұрын
PERIODT...I think only Dennis and Mcebo made sound points 🤦🏾♀️
@azaniaplug14614 жыл бұрын
You sound like a sad soul.
@Lydia_m4 жыл бұрын
And that's why i'll remain single.I simply don't have time for BS.I hope some of the comments made in this video were for clout because we need men with better reasoning capacity and a high moral compass.Yuuu, i cannot deal
@ksway84714 жыл бұрын
No dont, they're so many great guys honestly
@minenhleramokgonami47604 жыл бұрын
Dennis is the Woolworths of men ❤️
@mbalibuth.62563 жыл бұрын
💯%
@otlotlengmomphi71073 жыл бұрын
The creme de la creme brahhhh 🥇
@khunindlovu33104 жыл бұрын
I love how we can never predict the content here...which makes it interesting...CONTENT IS ALWAYS ON A 💯
@DEFINING4 жыл бұрын
Thank you Ndlovu🙌🏿😭🔥🔥
@tshabangunv6584 жыл бұрын
True hey🙂
@thati_monaheng4 жыл бұрын
Somebody needs to teach Phila about healthy friendships and accountability. His feelings regarding this are very troubling. It is the very thing that is wrong with black families
@mbalimayisela84704 жыл бұрын
Definitely agree with you
@nondumisobuthelezi45703 жыл бұрын
true
@LifeAndGodliness014 жыл бұрын
I enjoyed this... 1. Men don't have to lie according to our mood because when we find out, it's not easy to trust you again. Honesty is key. 2. The bro code is there but character is more important. Be you and proudly you. Stand up for what is right and shun what makes you uncomfortable. 3. Thank you for teaching your friend how to own up ❤️ we need more men to stand and fight with us against these atrocious crimes. I loved this.
@DEFINING4 жыл бұрын
Thank you Shontel! I truly appreciate what you've shared, especially point 2! We need to maintain our characters in every space
@sisandanyuswa24534 жыл бұрын
Also this "We were raised this way" mentality is an issue. You can't be at an age where you can reason and still hide behind that statement. A lot of us were raised in toxic environments, but we don't go around hurting people in the name of "we were raised this way". I got worried listening to the views on lying, learn how to communicate. Have a teachable spirit, teach yourself how to communicate. Let's not pride ourselves in how toxic we are just because we were raised that way or we're "protecting and serving" , cause those are the teachings you'll impart onto the next generation
@DEFINING4 жыл бұрын
I love how you emphasized that we need to have a teachable spirit! Nothing in this life is certain, hence we constantly have to learn and unlearn🙌🏿🔥.
@kgabomolele33464 жыл бұрын
Facts
@sibonilembatha4 жыл бұрын
Dennis is super smart. I love the way he thinks, there is just so much sense to the things he talks about.😫🍀🙏🏿
@itsnomacles4 жыл бұрын
Cebo is only allowed to wear bucket hats from here on. Regards Management
@HelangMedia4 жыл бұрын
Nomathamsanqa Plaatjie Right?! 🔥🔥 and you’re the HBIC so it’s official
@nonhlanhlatlhogi52044 жыл бұрын
Right
@cebompanza38604 жыл бұрын
Dankie leadership 😂🙌🏽
@magiquereviews4 жыл бұрын
I licked my screen
@Lelo.m4 жыл бұрын
There’s nothing wrong with what Phila said. Like many, he was speaking from a place that lacked knowledge and our fellow brothers educated him. At the end of the day, the purpose was fulfilled. I love this channel 👏🏽❤️🥺
@DEFINING4 жыл бұрын
We're all here to educate and inform one another. His intention wasnt to trigger or gaslight anyone. Very well said Kgalalelo🙏🏿
@azaniaplug14614 жыл бұрын
Been going through comments and you the only person who saw the bigger picture❤️❤️, imagine they were all perfect, it was gonna be boring.
@BillyMuka4 жыл бұрын
From minute 15 is a clear indication of ignorance is bliss for "some" men! Understand what accountability means and why we [as women] so blatantly call [some] men out for it! You chose to be friends with someone, their actions reflect you on you as you have liked and hung around them. If you see someone your friend doing something wrong, you have to correct them. It doesn't guarantee that they are going to change their ways or respond lightly because it is coming from you, but you still have a responsibility for the people [that you CHOOSE to] keep. Accountability means stepping up is biting the bullet and letting your "friend" no where he (or she) is going wrong. If you don't , you are part of the orchestration of their downfall and it's on you!
@mamobumabunda30124 жыл бұрын
Why are y'all clapping for him being committed in a relationship for 3 years?😂😂😂😂 y'all are playing🚮🚮 Commitment is a minimum requirement in a relationship
@liveforfitness844 жыл бұрын
Lol yes we get it mara three years is a long time watseba😂😂a lot can happen in these streets within 3 years 😂😂
@omphemetsekale84694 жыл бұрын
SIS!!!🤣 i literally day here thinking why are fish being applauded for swimming😭🤦🏽♀️
@kwetsephetla35973 жыл бұрын
Friend 😂❤️
@refilwemokgaotsi44344 жыл бұрын
Dennis come through with the explanations 🙌🏾
@isiphilemathafeni50004 жыл бұрын
Yhuuu hay Dennis on the last topic spitting facts. We need more men like you.
@matsheposeloi40644 жыл бұрын
Cebo talking about “unlearning” this is my everyday chat! 💡
@tlalylemeke72404 жыл бұрын
I'm so stressed by the guy in the striped shirt💔💔💔it's unfortunate that his disposition is actually a common one among men.
@nelisiwesishange10843 жыл бұрын
He is an idiot 🙄 stupid nje.
@kefilwepilane63764 жыл бұрын
To be fair, they answered the questions. Different perspectives make it more realistic. Problematic yes. But I would have been worried if there weren't any problematic responses. But wow
@TheJooceza4 жыл бұрын
Time with the Gents is always the Best 🔥🔥🔥we made it to Defining AGAIN😭😭😭😭
@DEFINING4 жыл бұрын
It's always good having you on DEFINING + seeing you🙌🏿🙏🏿🔥
@melomahlawole96094 жыл бұрын
‘Men need to realize that they have a role to play’ PERIODT
@TheJooceza4 жыл бұрын
Melo Melanin facts🙌🏽
@nobuhleluciazulu60284 жыл бұрын
The wisdom Dennis carries 😭❤ blessed is the woman dating him.
@Kabaweezy4 жыл бұрын
MEN sign the register We're having the discussions, We are unlearning toxicity
@deedidi92054 жыл бұрын
Guys please help me. Where do I find me a Dennis? His thinking and perspective is on another level. I'm always learning something from him
@khunindlovu33104 жыл бұрын
We need a whole episode on holding men accountable the topic got real soon...looks like there are so many T&C
@angelkabila59624 жыл бұрын
Dennis has so much wisdom 😩❤️ I love hearing his opinion.
@DEFINING4 жыл бұрын
Thank you Fam🙌🏿😭👏🏿🔥
@sibonilembatha4 жыл бұрын
Angel Kabila he really does 😫😍
@mbalidlungela62254 жыл бұрын
"if its not toxic I don't want it, if I die I die" 😂💀
@kgantshomokgalaka10844 жыл бұрын
“Competing with your homies” what’re you, 15?😂
@DEFINING4 жыл бұрын
👏🏿👏🏿👏🏿😂
@toxicteezy83104 жыл бұрын
😂😂right
@reratilwemanchidi15374 жыл бұрын
More individuals like Dennis are NEEDED 👏👏!!!
@dineoletsoko47134 жыл бұрын
I think every guy needs a friend like Dennis, he speaks so much sense!
@ashbuhari24963 жыл бұрын
Awww the guy sitting in the middle is so open minded. The lady dating him is one of the luckiest lady ever. Respect🙌🏽
@thandiwemthombeni69744 жыл бұрын
That voicenote never gets old🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
@DEFINING4 жыл бұрын
Never😅😂😂🙌🏿🔥
@relebogile4264 жыл бұрын
Defining with breaking the stereotypes and having the difficult conversations🥺🥺. This content>>>
@DEFINING4 жыл бұрын
🙏🏿🙏🏿🙏🏿
@bonoloatong4 жыл бұрын
I appreciate Philani for being honest with his perspectives! I thoroughly appreciate the boy! I love you all. Good episode!
@TheJooceza4 жыл бұрын
Bonolo Atong thank you ☺️
@DEFINING4 жыл бұрын
🙌🏿🙏🏿🙏🏿🙏🏿
@Babs.K4 жыл бұрын
Lol I see Dennis laughing at this “spreading” lingo 🤣
@thembelihlendlovu35584 жыл бұрын
His reaction kills me wuu😂😂😂😂
@onthegoodsideco4 жыл бұрын
Dennis is squirming 60% of the time! Haha! The Jooce guys are hecticccccccccccc! Nice vid!
@HelangMedia4 жыл бұрын
Dennis’ reactions 😂😂😂
@DEFINING4 жыл бұрын
🙈🙈 Always trying to be honest🙌🏿😅🔥
@kagisomodutwane53614 жыл бұрын
Dennis has beeeeeeeeeen shook the whole time!!!! Like me, I am Dennis's reactions. 👀👀🙆♀️🙆♀️🙆♀️🙆♀️🙆♀️🚶♀️🚶♀️🚶♀️🚶♀️🚶♀️
@misstmotswana82174 жыл бұрын
Content is fire.. such conversations need to be made a norm in society because that's how some men will realise that they did something wrong (last point)
@chumiisa_m4 жыл бұрын
I've never jumped this fast to watch a video. Y'all better not lie
@ayandahlongwane88574 жыл бұрын
😂😂You n me both
@HelangMedia4 жыл бұрын
Usually I get afraid of what Bongani is going to say but when TheJooce is in the building I worry about Philane 👀
@HelangMedia4 жыл бұрын
In fact Bonga also. They’re both nje just a lot hlena
@TheJooceza4 жыл бұрын
Wow 😂😂😂
@tropicalmk35194 жыл бұрын
Facts💔It disappoints me that Philani has this kind of mindset💔and I'm a jooce fan joh😔now I'm even embarrassed to say that I am one😔💔
@vuyogqola4 жыл бұрын
👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼I respect every single one of them. It was an interesting conversation. As a black community we have a lot to un learn👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼
@khokhelwazokwana6814 жыл бұрын
Ive come to learn that in conversations like these if people dont see the harm they do by not making people accountable they simply have conversations for 21minutes and 41 seconds and continue with their lives. They see nothing wrong with how much of a difference they could create if they opened up their minds to understanding perspectives, learning and unlearning certain things in society.
@HelangMedia4 жыл бұрын
TheJooce has showed me that I won’t date a Zulu man 😂😂. Noways guys. I would make an exception for Cebo though, because he said wang rata tata on yesterday’s Instagram live. So in my heart he’s Tswana.
@DEFINING4 жыл бұрын
😂😂😂
@cebompanza38604 жыл бұрын
😂😂😂rata tatata
@mponangmokoena74234 жыл бұрын
Also can guys change the conversations they have with each other!! That culture of backing each other when you cheat is TRASH!😪
@BambinoMaduna4 жыл бұрын
Dennis did that “Deep ass Heavy Negro Sigh” 😂 Philani just drained his energy with that last scenario.
@olwethumiti60654 жыл бұрын
Whyyy is Dennis the cutest 😂😂❤️with his little millyrock, love it man
@minnieluvuno11243 жыл бұрын
Growing up we were taught to hold each other accountable & letting each other know when we are wrong. This distancing yourself situation is what gives them the safety net that's led to such high statistics. Reprimand each other, help each other learn & change the mindset.
@thati_monaheng4 жыл бұрын
DEFINING always coming through with premium content 🔥👏🏽
@queenethnkosi86854 жыл бұрын
1st question the 'with you' is silent 😆😆😂😂
@letlotlonyenye76264 жыл бұрын
Thank you for your candour. I feel like men need to hold each other accountable and create a new culture. #JustSaying
@alizwamandubu71594 жыл бұрын
I laughed so hard at the squeezing butt question because I do it to mans all the time and I get a mixed reaction from him but I know he lowkey likes it. 😹😹
@azaniaplug14614 жыл бұрын
Lol we like it kakhulu🤣
@kevin_from_work4 жыл бұрын
Some pretty serious stuff that you guys have put together here, and i like that closing argument about accountability and how if someone confronts you about something, it means that they respect your opinion on that matter. I personally have been in such situations its not an easy situation to be in, but like the brother said there that we need to make that moment count and use it wisely.
@otlotlengmomphi71073 жыл бұрын
Argh man, Dennis 👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼 Goosebumps 🥺
@daniellathavede10204 жыл бұрын
uPhila can’t say his name is from philanthropist after this chat.
@tebogokgohlo89034 жыл бұрын
Honestly
@msingathingwenze66314 жыл бұрын
For real though🤣🤣🤣🤣
@msingathingwenze66314 жыл бұрын
@Zama mlotshwa 🤣🤣🤣
@Collleeeen4 жыл бұрын
I agree.
@nonkululekotshabalala97744 жыл бұрын
@@Collleeeen I agree this dude doesn't think he listens to respond not to understand..that's pure ignorance.
@Taz-Noe4 жыл бұрын
Love this👏❤ Your conversation about holding your friends accountable is so relevant👏
@wendy79154 жыл бұрын
What couldve been a great episode, is watered down by the immaturity.
@Kearamojela4 жыл бұрын
Wendy Ngcobo No ways, this was a great episode. The honesty is what we need in order to correct and unlearn things that are toxic in our society.
@odi93774 жыл бұрын
After watching this one... It's official guys... I'm in love with Dennis!!!
@monicamuchindu4 жыл бұрын
And helooks so clean shuu
@nomceboncanana49294 жыл бұрын
Please leave my boyfriend alone sis🙅🏾♀️🙅🏾♀️
@odi93774 жыл бұрын
@@nomceboncanana4929 noted sister 😉 noted 😄😄😄
@lesegomzondi66084 жыл бұрын
Bhuti with the stripped t-shirt's views are a biiiiiiiiiit problematic
@amandamkhize55394 жыл бұрын
lesego mzondi when they were having the rape conversion 😦!
@elihlegwala83724 жыл бұрын
Very much so.
@makoma_lotus81164 жыл бұрын
He is hella trashy on a regular...even on their own channel
@mosimatjale77254 жыл бұрын
And you can see that the gents were bored by some of his replies wuuuuuu Hai ave abora uboti ohot
@nhlanhlahadebe4124 жыл бұрын
Soo cringe
@Bokotho4 жыл бұрын
I wish more men could start having such conversations. I'm sharing this with all my guy friends.
@nelisamadokwe60624 жыл бұрын
Big ups to Bongani with that 3-year relationship 👏
@DEFINING4 жыл бұрын
🙌🏿👏🏿👏🏿🔥🔥
@marangphalalo54384 жыл бұрын
Yeah no, imagine dating the guy in stripes 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣 haikona 🙅🏽♀️ I’m scared
@azaniaplug14614 жыл бұрын
You'd be surprised maybe his dating game tops all of them.
@didintlemotemekoane84364 жыл бұрын
Bathong guys why is Dennis soooo cute?😍😍
@TheJooceza4 жыл бұрын
Didintle Motemekoane Hot Boy Dennie 🔥🔥🔥
@chiedzalight.96564 жыл бұрын
I don't think getting bored cannot be used as an excuse for cheating. I think cheating has a little to do with exercising of autonomy. An individual invests so much into a relationship and after a long time they feel that they have no sense of agency and they try to get it back. Great content, always nice to listening to such. This gives perspective and helps understand the different dynamics that comes to play when problems arise.
@bluemagic71283 жыл бұрын
Dennis👏👏👏 Thank you guy's so much for the accountability talk these are conversations that need to be had especially man and in their circle .Amazing stuff yall keep it up 🙌
@DEFINING3 жыл бұрын
Thank you 🥺🙌🏿🙏🏿
@kelvinvanwyk51644 жыл бұрын
😂👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽haha I could listen to you guys for hours😂 love it
@YourFavoriteBabyMama4 жыл бұрын
Guys, nna I truly get this! Like I do...lol I’m not even bitter about this because it’s a reality
@mihlalisolombela99824 жыл бұрын
“if it’s toxic we don’t want it. if i die i die!” sanoyiki 💀
@minenhlekhazi33124 жыл бұрын
Bruh! 😩💀
@nicolahlongwane41664 жыл бұрын
Dennis and Cebo... Men like you are rare gems. 💖
@nicolahlongwane41664 жыл бұрын
Also Dennis' facial expressions at the rather interesting answers are the bestest!
@DEFINING4 жыл бұрын
I tried to tone it down, but some of the statements kept rocking my world 😅😂🙈🔥
@sindisiweshange83764 жыл бұрын
The notion of returning kindness with sexual favours just condones Prostitution. In light of toxic masculinity; we ought to keep in mind the toxic femininity that comes with it too. I like how it was mentioned ukuthi there's a lot of unlearning and learning that needs to be done. A lot of trauma's that need to be 'healed', the journey is a long one guys! Yuuuh!!🙆 I have a lot to say about the last part of the video😯 got me like 😕🙆🙉
@hellenmmile74814 жыл бұрын
Ah dankie Dennis for the content✨the different perspectives always make the conversations worth listening to
@DEFINING4 жыл бұрын
🙏🏿🙏🏿🙏🏿
@xongilemasungwini28824 жыл бұрын
I didn't see you there Hellen😂
@nonhlanhlatlhogi52044 жыл бұрын
All my faves are here♥️... Friday Made
@DEFINING4 жыл бұрын
Thank you Fam🙌🏿🔥
@mponangmokoena74234 жыл бұрын
Dennis, your channel is SO refreshing bathong. Beautiful content man❤👏🏾
@DEFINING4 жыл бұрын
Thank you Family 🙌🏿🔥🍾
@fiinanambambi54594 жыл бұрын
Indeed
@bonolomarumo75054 жыл бұрын
Yhu hayi KZN seems like it endorses such patriarchal behaviour. I know it's a general issue within the black community but from what I have observed it seems very extreme that side
@siphamakuluma24344 жыл бұрын
Eastern Cape too. And the ladies "understand"
@Aboongwe4 жыл бұрын
Not true. It is just an excuse some hide behind. Born and bred in KZN, lived in GP for 5 years and 2 years and counting in WC. It is black culture. Patriarchal culture is a black SA problem. Not tribal.
@josephvalmdluli38684 жыл бұрын
Denise Is like i dont know about this🤣🤣🤣.he is shocked,Philani is being Philani again... this raw conversation are lit gents
@din_dins_adventures1834 жыл бұрын
I think toxic masculinity will continue to be part of out society for a long time and a lot of things said here confirm it. For me the scary part is that we call people "good" guys when they encourage you to disrespect your relationship..... But anywho I'm glad we having open convos about it. Especially as males because men tend to disregard a women's opinion valid or not.......🤔🤔 Yassssssssssss Dennis give us the wisdom! Here for it 💁♀️🙋♀️
@kagisomodutwane53614 жыл бұрын
Cebo!!!!! My guy !!! 👏👏👏👏🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥 People need to do a lot of unlearning. This needs its own video nje
@mitchellechikwengo30744 жыл бұрын
We're here #notificationgang as always 😍
@esethusino96584 жыл бұрын
💃💃💃❤❤❤❤
@msingathingwenze66314 жыл бұрын
Dennis and the bucket hat guy were the only ones that brought substance to the video to be honest, the rest of the other sentiments and opinions were rather interesting😆
@DEFINING4 жыл бұрын
Cebo (Bucket Hat) really brought some facts to the table🙌🏿🔥🍾. It's important to have different perspectives represented so that we know who, what and how to address it
@msingathingwenze66314 жыл бұрын
Facts💯, topics like these should be incorporated more in daily conversation because they bring to light that us as men/guys really need to take a look at ourselves and realise that we are in shambles as a collective and our way of life is just toxic. A lot of male friendships/squads are built on pure ignorance and no genuine care or concern for one another's well beings honestly and our forefathers are the same, it's just a continuous vicious cycle that looks like it will never end
@DEFINING4 жыл бұрын
@@msingathingwenze6631 sounds like you should have been part of this panel🙏🏿👏🏿😭🙌🏿. Spitting so many bars
@Ngasii4 жыл бұрын
3:32: Because masculinity is a performance.
@bopheloandstuff3 жыл бұрын
Ultimately, this video proves that men need to educate men and hold men accountable - that's the primary way discrimination and disrespect against women will change. The Dennis' need to call the Philas out more often.
@ModernWife4 жыл бұрын
Lool! Hahaha and you chose The Jooce for this episode.....I haven't even watched but I'm already nervous #TouchOfEntertainment #DEFINING
@DEFINING4 жыл бұрын
😂😂😂
@dineosaane4 жыл бұрын
Cheating is wrong no matter how you look at it its wrong..plus most people do cheat cause they are bored in a relationship and they are afraid to let go their current"boring partner"
@ndzwakazidlamini49664 жыл бұрын
Dennis is such an enlightened individual 💕 such honesty from a man is rare.
@DEFINING4 жыл бұрын
Thank you Ndzwakazi🙌🏿🤗🤗
@cebompanza38604 жыл бұрын
Aaaaah the Mike edit😂😂🤣
@DEFINING4 жыл бұрын
That voice note bro😂🙌🏿🙏🏿🔥
@mntungwa4 жыл бұрын
why wasn't dennis a keynote something at the men's conference?! like, yoh such brilliant views mate! 🙌👌
@sinothandosinayemoerane14634 жыл бұрын
You gents really need to have these conversations more often.
@ModernWife4 жыл бұрын
And oh we have Cebo!!! Welcome back, all the way from TNBA #TheWildCard #DEFINING
@DEFINING4 жыл бұрын
It's so good to have him back🙌🏿😭🔥🍾
@cebompanza38604 жыл бұрын
It’s good to be back 😭 shout out🙌🏽😌
@jesslumka4 жыл бұрын
Thank you Phila for being so honest. There was a lot I ddnt realize, until now, was happening with boys
@lxsakhanya4 жыл бұрын
True. Some people forget that other people go through stuff.
@sandianbc87324 жыл бұрын
This video was actually very educational. Thank you for making it clear that we need to unlearn toxic behaviours as a people and stop saying that's just how it is.
@khanyag60924 жыл бұрын
I liked this video before watching cause I know it's gonna be gooood
@nyasha24324 жыл бұрын
patterns work so well with Dennis' skin!!!!!!!!!
@DEFINING4 жыл бұрын
Thank you🙏🏿🔥
@GlowWithRed4 жыл бұрын
You know what? We need something like this with the ladies. It’s easy for us to look at these gents and think, “Wow. Guys are really stupid.” But women are ‘like this’ in their own ways. Some problematic views but eh 🤷🏽♀️
@aminatudacosta-dah51154 жыл бұрын
Mans in the middle was constantly being shook by homeboiis😭😂😭😂😭
@DEFINING4 жыл бұрын
😂😂😂😂
@emmahs74024 жыл бұрын
you guys literally uplifted my mood!!!✨✨ i mean your truth is hurtfulnyana but the vibes are just🔥✨
@kwamkelemkize74584 жыл бұрын
You can never protect a persons feelings with lies!! Never.
@windymoshoette75544 жыл бұрын
I think we need an episode with the gents about accountability and consent. A lot needs to be dissected