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The rise of lonely single men

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emilywking

emilywking

2 жыл бұрын

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@mikevg5200
@mikevg5200 Жыл бұрын
The loneliness of solitude is far more pleasant than the loneliness of neglect
@johnsievila9680
@johnsievila9680 Жыл бұрын
So damn true!! Every time I feel lonely from the solitude I remember how lonely I felt when I was with her neglected and I realize how much better it is to be alone than to be lonely with someone
@F_U_N_C_U_2morrow
@F_U_N_C_U_2morrow Жыл бұрын
I can affirm this. I feel less lonely in my fortress of solitude.
@walkertranger5746
@walkertranger5746 Жыл бұрын
Nothing like being with a woman ,, yet feeling alone
@GenericInternetter
@GenericInternetter Жыл бұрын
Omg true words
@daniel-qh4zq
@daniel-qh4zq Жыл бұрын
I agree completely. That is what killed every relationship i have been in.
@jazzyjake99
@jazzyjake99 2 жыл бұрын
I’ve read that article. The comments on that from women prove that women don’t really care about what men struggle with.
@AN-vx2ls
@AN-vx2ls Жыл бұрын
Are you kidding the are laughing and think it’s funny as hell!! They are basking in this article with delight and joy!! This is what make American women happy!
@anderstermansen130
@anderstermansen130 Жыл бұрын
Link.
@ra3_ven239
@ra3_ven239 Жыл бұрын
And vise versa.
@aphilippinesadventure9184
@aphilippinesadventure9184 Жыл бұрын
Men, get your passport and GO. American men are sought out by women all over the world. American women are avoided.
@swigityswooty7887
@swigityswooty7887 Жыл бұрын
It’s genetic nihilism. They know they can’t provide beauty and femininity because they’re built like linebackers. So they resort to coping mechanisms to soothe their own unfulfilled desires which they wasted when they were 17. What they don’t realize is that if they lived in an average man’s shoes for a month, they’d spray brain matter all over their wall.
@AdelaideGuy1968
@AdelaideGuy1968 Жыл бұрын
Being Single and alone, is FAR better than being in a relationship, and alone.
@jdguy23
@jdguy23 10 ай бұрын
and getting a dog helps too haha
@assplundah
@assplundah 8 ай бұрын
100%!!👍👌💪💪
@RohrerBulldogs
@RohrerBulldogs Жыл бұрын
Being alone is A LOT better than wishing you were!
@Qolaj
@Qolaj Жыл бұрын
These females think us males should try to imitate Aaron Johnson’s lifestyle like it’s Kick-Ass 😂
@SuperSedingAngeL-yr0
@SuperSedingAngeL-yr0 Жыл бұрын
This is actually poetry, just want to let you know. 👌
@Gentelmenghost
@Gentelmenghost 10 ай бұрын
Being left with no choice but to be around someone is not the same thing as having meaningful relationships. Also, choosing to be alone and feeling alone in a crowded room are just fundementally different.
@Useryuic
@Useryuic 10 ай бұрын
@@Gentelmenghost being alone is not a choice especially if you’re around untrustworthy nationalities. Make sure you human in the right quality of human life because not all human life in the world is born in the correct quality of life. A black boy born in the USA was supposed to marry and have children in Australia.
@Gentelmenghost
@Gentelmenghost 10 ай бұрын
@@Useryuic The discussion is about men and boys in America and how the affects of loneliness are devastating for a lot of them. But it does seem like in some ways you don't trust people of other nationalities, would be the first one to see race, and would encourage casting judgments on people. And I say that solely based on how you framed your response and the direction you took it vs. the actual subject matter at hand.
@levihorn299
@levihorn299 Жыл бұрын
I’m single, but definitely not lonely lol. Men are expected to approach women if we’re interested, but get called creepy and rejected when we do and we are expected to accept that as well. Maybe give that guy a chance before you just dismiss him.
@scottcarl3086
@scottcarl3086 Жыл бұрын
Thank you! 🙌
@rsrs6959
@rsrs6959 Жыл бұрын
100% agree with you. That's the sad reality and bitter truth of the world.
@rsrs6959
@rsrs6959 Жыл бұрын
@I Coroa 💯💯
@CaseyBDook
@CaseyBDook Жыл бұрын
​@࿘ COROA ࿗ a very old comedian said, "if I was poor, they would call me insane. Because I have money they call me eccentric.
@gnanasabaapatirg7376
@gnanasabaapatirg7376 Жыл бұрын
Just asked someone damn dismissed like worms that didn't matter. Never approaching a woman ever.
@mycull
@mycull Жыл бұрын
Alone yes. Lonely...far from it! I don't want someone's needs being my priority. I don't have to come home after an 11 hour day and listen to mind-numbing drama. I just sit back and chill... In peace and quite.
@johnarmenta2199
@johnarmenta2199 Жыл бұрын
The MONK!! I bow with respect to you, sir!
@Octobris
@Octobris Жыл бұрын
Quiet*.
@yourgrandpa2539
@yourgrandpa2539 10 ай бұрын
men, when the wall hits, dont take them in. many women in their 18-20s rejected guys around their age, went to clubs and hooked up with randoms through their 20s now in their 30s after 50+ bodycount and all kinds of trauma, dont be stupid and commit to them you worked hard, built yourself and achieved financial freedom. now in your 30s, in your prime, dont let them shame you for not wanting them and call you names.
@masterpoe4942
@masterpoe4942 10 ай бұрын
And it's priceless!...✌️😁
@rafeshort8884
@rafeshort8884 10 ай бұрын
@@Octobris he didn't finish the thought cause he's so chill he didn't have to, I am assuming. This had to be it "...and quite frankly I'm happier for it."
@theboldthebrazen3147
@theboldthebrazen3147 Жыл бұрын
My wife went out & got a second job to help out the household. Because when I advised that I was going to have to get another job to cover extra expenses, she took a couple days & took note how much I did around the house on top of a 10-hour work day. She told me that I already “work” 16 hour days as it is. She could pick up extra hours and maybe cover after school care for kids for the 2-hour overlap. She literally told me she could be gone 4-6 extra hours a day & not effect the family dynamic. I hugged her. I didn’t care about who puts in the most effort, it was just wonderful being recognized for my part.
@mralien4710
@mralien4710 4 ай бұрын
Buy a lotto ticket this is a one in a trillion story. Now to check back on you in 10 years. Stay strong brother
@juanderuano8969
@juanderuano8969 10 ай бұрын
Cool video. My relationship of 5 years ended a month ago. The love of my life decided to leave me, I really love her so much I can’t stop thinking about her, I’ve tried my very best to get her back in my life, but to no avail, I’m frustrated, I don’t see my life with anyone else. I’ve done my best to get rid of the thoughts of her, but I can’t, I don’t know why I’m saying this here, I really miss her and just can’t stop thinking about her
@juanderuano8969
@juanderuano8969 10 ай бұрын
Amazing, how did you get a spiritual counselor, and how do i reach her?
@juanderuano8969
@juanderuano8969 10 ай бұрын
Thank you for this valuable information, i just looked her up now online. impressive
@AN-vx2ls
@AN-vx2ls Жыл бұрын
Most women (at least in the US) seem rather delighted about this particular study! That says a lot!
@dethbedsmolzwhent.t6498
@dethbedsmolzwhent.t6498 Жыл бұрын
they are until they reach 30. it never fails
@rodrigomoran5181
@rodrigomoran5181 Жыл бұрын
Not only in the USA 🇺🇸 is in a lot of parts of the world bruh
@balleraap007
@balleraap007 Жыл бұрын
Because they’re the inferior gender
@temich1985
@temich1985 Жыл бұрын
@@rodrigomoran5181 pretty much anywhere where there's tinder and ig
@jeffharrison6059
@jeffharrison6059 11 ай бұрын
It's not mentioned much, but women are quite hateful towards men. It's called misandry. The misogyny equivalent for women.
@dingleberrypie6612
@dingleberrypie6612 Жыл бұрын
The last woman lived with expected me to pay all the bills will she stayed home doing nothing all day, and then cook her dinner when I got home around 6. Never again.
@jayboley9683
@jayboley9683 10 ай бұрын
I feel your pain my friend. Truly
@thomashammerheart3915
@thomashammerheart3915 10 ай бұрын
If I may ask a bold question…. If she took care of her body, was intimate, and a pleasant person to be around, would you have done all that with a smile on your face?
@dingleberrypie6612
@dingleberrypie6612 10 ай бұрын
Probably. Problem was she was miserable to be around to the point I avoided my own house. Then she went to Malaysia and said she was going to cheat on me. I dropped all her stuff off at her mom's and never talked to her again.
@Livinlife444
@Livinlife444 10 ай бұрын
Been there done that brother. Leeches
@donone1493
@donone1493 10 ай бұрын
Too should have noticed that problem the first week and put rules in the house
@ShaunHensley
@ShaunHensley Жыл бұрын
Prior to this what we had was an epidemic of lonely, married men. We prefer lonely and single. Women prefer us lonely and married. Wonder why
@mrfire7724
@mrfire7724 Жыл бұрын
If men don't step up they make fun of you If men do step up he gets rejected What an amazing world we live in
@benhawks2524
@benhawks2524 10 ай бұрын
Yeah it’s moronic and asinine. Nothing will change unless men change how they act towards this situation
@EMcgame.23
@EMcgame.23 10 ай бұрын
​@@benhawks2524he not lying you can Flex all your money on social media wearing Gucci belt all of this stuff guess what you still get rejected that's why I said if a woman don't like my average men I am then I'm not going to keep on stress myself out friend girl to talk to
@aaronwhitehall8729
@aaronwhitehall8729 Жыл бұрын
Very happy single man right here!!! Never married or kids and oozing good vibes 🤘
@muffs55mercury61
@muffs55mercury61 Жыл бұрын
Good for you!! Marriage and kids are the worst drain on your finances. Never touched the proposition.
@ilikepancakes2368
@ilikepancakes2368 Жыл бұрын
@@muffs55mercury61 Money means nothing without family.
@muffs55mercury61
@muffs55mercury61 Жыл бұрын
@@ilikepancakes2368 Depends on what kind of family you have. Me I had to get away from the big city and that meant being further from family.
@danstrayer111
@danstrayer111 Жыл бұрын
purely opinion. But I'll remember your comment this winter when I'm on the beach in Mexico with more money than I can spend.@@ilikepancakes2368
@michaellarusch4317
@michaellarusch4317 2 жыл бұрын
One of the problems I have with the article (and others like it) is the idea that men that aren't dating/married are "lonely". While there are still some men who wouldn't mind being with a woman (if they could find one that isn't a modern woman), there are many who are not interested in dating or marriage at all. Many of these men are happy with their lives the way they are. They aren't lonely at all. They have many friends and spend their time the way they want. The idea that men aren't dating, and therefore are lonely, is just another version of the "men NEED women" (they don't) canard that is constantly used to prop modern women up.
@2xxNorMacKxx2
@2xxNorMacKxx2 Жыл бұрын
@@moremelessyou6525 Oh don’t get him wrong. There are still men out there who would kill for a good loving wife. But because they’re not hot and rich, the women pass him off as a rapist and treat him like shit. So yes he is depressed and lonely. Yes it’s true not all single men are lonely. But of course everyone wants to forget about those that are.
@2xxNorMacKxx2
@2xxNorMacKxx2 Жыл бұрын
@@moremelessyou6525 I have no choice but to enjoy it. It’s either that or death. So I don’t let my depression win, even though it sucks. And it’s not so much that I “want” to find someone. It just pisses me off when women think that it’s our fault that we’re single and alone. They refuse to give us average people a chance and they only wanna go after the hot rich top few percentage of men. Then when they turn out to be jerks, the women blame all men and say all men are jerks.
@2xxNorMacKxx2
@2xxNorMacKxx2 Жыл бұрын
@@moremelessyou6525 Women like to say that “men don’t know what it’s like to be women”. Well I’ll say the same thing. Women have absolutely no clue how lonely and depressed men can be. And I’m 32. Below average looks. Low income. Not strong although I do stay in a little bit of shape. I’m not smart but I’m sure not stupid either.
@2xxNorMacKxx2
@2xxNorMacKxx2 Жыл бұрын
@@moremelessyou6525 I don’t have high standards. I have old traditional standards and modern women don’t like them. I’m also a Christian. I’m white. I am against all this stupid woke crap. I believe in 2 genders. So almost none of my values line up with people nowadays. As far as what I look for in a woman, it’s nothing much. She’ll be beautiful in my eyes. I want a mature woman. And by that, I mean she knows that is ok to be goofy and have fun but also knows the value of hard work and getting stuff done. I want someone with similar music taste to mine. But when you get down into values and beliefs, I’m screwed because most women aren’t traditional women anymore. They all want men to be these traditional good genuine men but they don’t want to bring anything to the table. Also we live in a crappy fast paced world. Everything has to be NOW. People want the makings of a decade long relationship after only a few months. And everyone sleeps around so there’s no sacredness to sex anymore. I don’t want a woman who’s been with every dude in town. But of course you can’t say that because then she’ll say you’re “judging”. I’m a virgin myself which women love to say how nice and cool that is. But then when I ask one of them to date me, they don’t want to because then that means they’ll have to stop having sex until we’re married and they don’t want to make that commitment
@2xxNorMacKxx2
@2xxNorMacKxx2 Жыл бұрын
@@moremelessyou6525 Any other questions? As a woman, you have no clue what it’s like being a man in 2023. Always told to go up and be yourself and talk to women but always having the fear of being labeled a rapist if you talk to one and then the women always tell you it’s your fault your single. Then the women can’t figure out why men kill themselves at such a higher rate than women do.
@bkroberts89
@bkroberts89 Жыл бұрын
Being single and alone is better than being with a toxic abusive women. A couple points to go with that. 1. Abusive women are really common contrary to what main stream society tells men. 2. Mainstream society has led men to believe that they can’t exist without women while preaching to women they don’t need men. The reality is reverse of that. 3. Women are a downright liability today and you are a monster if you expect anything from them or have any kind of boundaries while you are expected to do everything for them at all times.
@unlimited971
@unlimited971 10 ай бұрын
Miss me with that crap
@devilsreaper5008
@devilsreaper5008 10 ай бұрын
True.
@user-dz4ye5ln6q
@user-dz4ye5ln6q 9 ай бұрын
Ya but you still choose to be with her tho You can always opt out of dating when you have a girlfriend. But you cant opt IN to dating if you don't have one Nice try tho.....
@real-ishstraighttruthnocha1687
@real-ishstraighttruthnocha1687 Жыл бұрын
I may be single, but I've never felt lonely. I don't even notice. Peace & quiet are worth a fortune, and I have them for free.
@MrEOM41
@MrEOM41 Жыл бұрын
The rise of men having disposable income 😅💰
@sasquach3.090
@sasquach3.090 Жыл бұрын
😂
@muffs55mercury61
@muffs55mercury61 Жыл бұрын
And not being in a position that a woman will try and separate a man from his money.
@MrEOM41
@MrEOM41 Жыл бұрын
@@muffs55mercury61 yup women love to spend money.. and tell you how to and not to spend yours when in a relationship 😅
@UnlistedAccount
@UnlistedAccount Жыл бұрын
Good point.
@LootandScoot
@LootandScoot Жыл бұрын
Maaaan I have been single for almost a year and I have so much money left over because of it I thought my bank account wasn't updating
@richardfollettjr.393
@richardfollettjr.393 Жыл бұрын
Speaking only for myself ... at 60 I've had enough of the games and drama, I am too set in my ways now . ... not that I haven't been approached .... I'm just DONE ! !
@muffs55mercury61
@muffs55mercury61 Жыл бұрын
I used to think life was a waste without a woman in my life. Not anymore. I have my house, classic car and truck. two cats and a French bulldog. I don't need anything else. People used to say I'd be lonely with no kids or grandkids but nothing can be further from the truth.
@Universaltruth333
@Universaltruth333 Жыл бұрын
You are a strong independent man who don’t need no woman! 😂
@alexnothing7930
@alexnothing7930 Жыл бұрын
​@@Universaltruth333yep!
@Universaltruth333
@Universaltruth333 Жыл бұрын
@@alexnothing7930 super feminine to be bragging about not having a woman in your life😂.
@Apache1970
@Apache1970 11 ай бұрын
​@@Universaltruth333Dear friend, this is the problem. You are stereotyping him. Trust me, many of these guys have been hurt by women who they liked. Being kind to them is the least you could do.
@Universaltruth333
@Universaltruth333 11 ай бұрын
@@Apache1970 that’s doing the most…I choose to protect myself and trust only the ones I can. Stereotyping that’s funny. Then they can keep it in their pants and get connected with resources and men of their own kind and leave women alone since they are such victims to a single commenter on KZbin stereotyping them. Lol. Not everyone deserves your kindness. Especially the hurt ones who refuse to get connected and remain victims of their own adult circumstances. This commentor reaks self loathing. Building a fortress of isolation only further causes you to be a target of victimization.
@LK-gl3rj
@LK-gl3rj Жыл бұрын
Men remain single because they're SICK OF BEING EXPECTED TO FINANCIALLY SUBSIDISE WOMEN.
@muffs55mercury61
@muffs55mercury61 Жыл бұрын
The only thing I subsidize are my pets and keep gas and upkeep in the vehicles.
@nope9858
@nope9858 Жыл бұрын
​@@muffs55mercury61same
@tiahnarodriguez3809
@tiahnarodriguez3809 Жыл бұрын
Can you blame women? Men created a culture where they are the main bread winners, and tell women to stay home and not work. Be mad at your forefathers for that one.
@gregwatruba4541
@gregwatruba4541 Жыл бұрын
Yep. I just subside my dogs.
@LK-gl3rj
@LK-gl3rj Жыл бұрын
@@-Duo Correct. In their eyes you're just a cash machine; that's all.
@sebjones1566
@sebjones1566 Жыл бұрын
I am in the Army, got no chance to be in a relationship, always away on deployment. Love my job, all that matters.
@hoedemakerbart
@hoedemakerbart Жыл бұрын
Same, but i am not in the army. But have my own company in bike maintenance and repair. Long days. Hobbys in the weekend. So much to do no time for dating
@amirpride
@amirpride Жыл бұрын
See you on the other side brother.
@johnarmenta2199
@johnarmenta2199 Жыл бұрын
Thank you for your service! Mad respect to you, sir!
@scotthunt9055
@scotthunt9055 Жыл бұрын
Ex army here. Do yourself a favor and stay single in the Army. Also supply your own birth control. Don’t get trapped.
@julonkrutor4649
@julonkrutor4649 Жыл бұрын
If you ever leave, do yourself a favor and stay singel until you build yourself a place in the world with friends and hobbies.
@pankratos5017
@pankratos5017 Жыл бұрын
Being alone doesn't mean being lonely. A man can live in a modest apartment by himself and be content, but you could live in a mansion with a women and she will still find things to complain and be dissatisfied about.
@oscaraurelio8869
@oscaraurelio8869 Жыл бұрын
Soap operas are one of the illustrations of this trope
@user-ez1yy7cn4i
@user-ez1yy7cn4i 11 ай бұрын
That artical says rise of mans happyness index 😂😂 ...siss!!!
@jarack3256
@jarack3256 Жыл бұрын
There is a difference between alone and lonely. You can be in a relationship with the wrong person and be lonely.
@dawor1761
@dawor1761 Жыл бұрын
Me and my Harley Davidson; we're never lonely. Always out with the Bro's. Most women these days are Narcissistic, self directed gold diggers and not worthy of a good man and a serious, emotionally connected relationship. Period!!
@benhawks2524
@benhawks2524 10 ай бұрын
Correct, 99% are not worth your time my man, keep living your best life
@anthonywilliams7052
@anthonywilliams7052 Жыл бұрын
Most if not all just want "someone to pay for me". Pay for yourself.
@n2skcmo
@n2skcmo Жыл бұрын
Who says we are lonely? Stay true to yourself KINGS !
@codeallen267
@codeallen267 Жыл бұрын
Men step up to what? There's nothing of worth. I'm going to go eat a sandwich.
@secdef01
@secdef01 Жыл бұрын
As a single man who has a house, truck, job and a level of peace. What is a woman going to bring into my life that is going to improve it?
@quintenhowell9779
@quintenhowell9779 2 ай бұрын
Nothing these days. I got what you have and I enjoy my peace. Tried dating but was just misled. Rather keep to myself and be happy. Then to waste time, money, and effort just to have a broken heart in the end. Love isn't what they seek. They seek rich life styles, someone to brag about to their friends, and dick. Rather just give dick than give my heart to someone to play with. Love is dead
@ashhhh-se5uf
@ashhhh-se5uf Жыл бұрын
As a women, my heart goes out to the men 😢 you guys deserve so much more respect. You guys are awesome, and deserve so much better ❤
@anthonywilliams7052
@anthonywilliams7052 Жыл бұрын
I know you mean well but where are ANY of you speaking up? You say NOTHING about the D____mow___LYSING treatment of men and boys the last 50 years but sports, now that's important. The 5 to 6 times number or us "going to Heaven" and not a word. All we here is negative and D___mor__YSING. Maybe 1 in sever million say anything.
@anthonywilliams7052
@anthonywilliams7052 Жыл бұрын
Way too many are ALLI__GATORS making up stories and most are quick to join in when they know it's not true. You are all too much of a risk to be arond now. I even had an alli__gator when parking my car they intentionally blocked the hanicap spot then ALL__GATORED me. If not for all the cameras.... So we will stay far away now, we should all wear bodycams if we are 100 feet from you. Number of you speakup up, ZERO! So speak up or don't be suprised when the 6 in 1000 getting married now turns into ZERO along with the Bir__th rate now. Too risking for even "fun" now.
@anthonywilliams7052
@anthonywilliams7052 Жыл бұрын
All of you being ALL___GATORS is what's making the New Girls in sports. You created them and once again say nothing. To quote them "I was NEVER LOVED or accepted as a boy so I became a ______". Very sad, yet you only complain about what you made. Speak up, don't allow the ALL___GATORS, and the treatment we keep getting. In the mean time we will stay far away, never help, never date, watch society fall and do nothing like you all collectively wanted.
@ashhhh-se5uf
@ashhhh-se5uf Жыл бұрын
@@anthonywilliams7052 I'm confused on what you are trying to say
@ShaunHensley
@ShaunHensley Жыл бұрын
@@ashhhh-se5uf he’s saying your words here are cheap, what’s needed is for you women to shame the other women until things change.
@chzzyg2698
@chzzyg2698 Жыл бұрын
Lonely is kind of the opposite. It's more like complete freedom.
@Percival-kl9yy
@Percival-kl9yy 10 ай бұрын
*Looks like the article is intentionally misleading then - I'm not surprised - the epidemic of lonely men aren't the men in relationships - it's the [nice] men that, despite their best efforts, cannot get a relationship up off the ground - the woman in the vid is obliviously overlooking the fact that the majority of men considered to be "boyfriend/husband material" by most women are usually abusive or apathetic (hence women's complaints and eventual divorce - once things get too violent) the truth is the problem is that most women are rejecting the actual good men with good genes, leading to the future tainting of the Human genepool and the **_actual_** problem of the overall situation.*
@jimdaniel4412
@jimdaniel4412 2 жыл бұрын
am really tired of the division. Girls have all sorts of dudes in dms and have to do nothing for validation. Men get off your phones
@amiyrbarclift1640
@amiyrbarclift1640 Жыл бұрын
I felt this one
@BOSSDONMAN
@BOSSDONMAN Жыл бұрын
@@amiyrbarclift1640 Even obese single moms have their DMs being blown up
@mattoast7325
@mattoast7325 Жыл бұрын
America. Land of the simps.
@GiblixStudio
@GiblixStudio Жыл бұрын
those that slide into their dm's are not men. they're simp soy boys. that's why women always complain they can't find a good decent man anymore.
@kaijikhristicus8123
@kaijikhristicus8123 Жыл бұрын
Fr, she always wants to check your phone yet she never puts hers down to talk with you. Absolute hypocrisy
@dusto429
@dusto429 Жыл бұрын
Every time I hear the word "lonely" my brain translates it to "peaceful" and yes, I am very happy being "lonely"
@premiumfruits3528
@premiumfruits3528 Жыл бұрын
I'm single because I'm unwanted, according to women. If I'm unwanted, why are they so upset that I'm staying single and giving up? Make it make sense.
@paulsengupta971
@paulsengupta971 10 ай бұрын
Don't go looking for logic!
@davidgleeson2749
@davidgleeson2749 Жыл бұрын
Girl smiled at me as we both got gas. I smiled back, then walked over and introduced myself. I asked if she might want to meet up for coffee soon, and she smiled again and said no, thank you because I have a boyfriend. I said , "I had to ask because you smiled so big at me, and I walked back to my car. Less than 5 minutes later, I was hemmed up by 3 cop cars with weapons drawn on me. The lady called the cops and told the station that there was a man making sexual gestures and harassing her. All i could do was shake my head and wonder why this woman did this. I've not approached a woman since. Beware, my friends.
@creepybastard3165
@creepybastard3165 Жыл бұрын
I was sat next to a swimming pool and the female life guard started talking to me. After about 10 seconds she said I e got a boyfriend....... I didn't even speak she started speaking to me. She told her boyfriend who was in the gym and other members of staff had to sepetate us from fighting. I was sat down she spoke to me I didn't even speak.
@ss0498
@ss0498 Жыл бұрын
This incident should alone make you consider being single for life , don't go after them brother the AI robots will be in market soon.
@ReasonAboveEverything
@ReasonAboveEverything Жыл бұрын
what the fuck did I just read.
@antonyrice951
@antonyrice951 Жыл бұрын
Wow! Wow!Wow! I can relate to this! Good luck in Ur future attempts at dating!
@pauldurbin6586
@pauldurbin6586 Жыл бұрын
first mistake, you were at a gas station for more than 5 minutes
@krissmall5984
@krissmall5984 Жыл бұрын
Remember, there is a massive difference between being alone and being lonely. Being lonely is a state of mind not a state of being.
@JohnSmith-cz3us
@JohnSmith-cz3us Жыл бұрын
If the other party believes this so, then this is more of a reflection on how they think 😮
@swigityswooty7887
@swigityswooty7887 Жыл бұрын
Only if you have responsibilities. If your a lazy fuck then don’t expect your loneliness to go away.
@Stronghand-yw1lk
@Stronghand-yw1lk Жыл бұрын
I'd rather be single and lonely than partnered and absolutely miserable!
@crazygrof
@crazygrof 10 ай бұрын
With the flag you're showing for your profile pic, the only thing you have to worry about is if your sister will give you the same thing she gives your father
@user-dz4ye5ln6q
@user-dz4ye5ln6q 9 ай бұрын
​@@crazygrofstates rights was/is legitimate Go fly your Israeli flag
@night2656
@night2656 Жыл бұрын
It hurts how much your words are true.
@kenchorney2724
@kenchorney2724 Жыл бұрын
I "stepped up". My reward for doing so was a wife who racked up over 40k in debt behind my back and then left with no warning after 24 years. I'll take "lonely" and single over married from now on, thanks.
@kbob5427
@kbob5427 Жыл бұрын
Damn it’s nice to know that there are some women out there who care about mens struggles.
@sa2321-b1h
@sa2321-b1h Жыл бұрын
They pretend because there is a market for it. Be careful!
@tgreeny1400
@tgreeny1400 10 ай бұрын
She doesn't really care, she just knows she can make money off the views by talking about it since the market is there.
@masterpoe4942
@masterpoe4942 10 ай бұрын
Trust me..this girl ain't one of em...
@NoNameWillBeGiven-sj2ib
@NoNameWillBeGiven-sj2ib 9 ай бұрын
No one gives a damn about l0sers' struggles
@VakarianArt
@VakarianArt Жыл бұрын
I've never seen a woman "Step Up" in a relationship. They just leave.
@Wahinies
@Wahinies 11 ай бұрын
Modern Western*
@VakarianArt
@VakarianArt 11 ай бұрын
@@Wahinies fair fair
@troydunn8463
@troydunn8463 Жыл бұрын
I've not yet seen the article about the rise of Involuntarily Single women and how they should step up to be worth marrying.
@thedarkdragon89
@thedarkdragon89 Жыл бұрын
I frankly just don't care anymore, at this point, I'm not lonely, this is just my life. I'm at peace and can go out on my own terms if needed.
@anthonywilliams7052
@anthonywilliams7052 Жыл бұрын
They need to STEP UP and PAY FOR MEN. No double standards!
@Universaltruth333
@Universaltruth333 Жыл бұрын
Ew you act like women and men are the same. News flash they are not.
@svenolsen8184
@svenolsen8184 Жыл бұрын
Women wouldn't exist without double standards.
@anthonywilliams7052
@anthonywilliams7052 Жыл бұрын
It would be nice if I could see the comments but YT censored them.
@imgingergiraffe3731
@imgingergiraffe3731 Жыл бұрын
I know alot of men, myself included, where it is our fault that we are lonely. 😂 Some of us just don't care anymore, we are out here making money and helping people. Finding a good woman isn't worth the work these days, too rare, she gonna have to find me. 😂
@Panwere36
@Panwere36 Жыл бұрын
Thank you, Emily.. for exposing the growing toxic narcissism from more than a few women...
@coenvdb6032
@coenvdb6032 10 ай бұрын
Girls are trained to never ever blame themselves. Ever.
@carolusrex9138
@carolusrex9138 Жыл бұрын
Treat her like a queen and she treats you like a peasant
@lukemehalick370
@lukemehalick370 10 ай бұрын
Oh ya, us guys have so many expectations. Here's a list. 1. Loyalty. That's essentially all a woman has to be.
@dustydreams5940
@dustydreams5940 Жыл бұрын
At this point being single and never trying looks way better than what ive had to deal with so far. Im lonely but its worth it.
@MightySquirrel724
@MightySquirrel724 10 ай бұрын
Same. I have lonely moments, but I just look at my past and how women are today... And those lonely moments go away.
@GordonWulfman
@GordonWulfman 11 ай бұрын
I am sad and lonely. The thought of having the wrong woman makes me infinitely sadder. Call it fear, but I'm just going to stay single. The risk is too high.
@-MacCloud-
@-MacCloud- Жыл бұрын
I am not going to "step up". I make enough money to afford my own house and car and save money for a rainy day. It's my way or the highway from this point out. The juice isn't worth the squeeze otherwise.
@dalecostello3442
@dalecostello3442 Жыл бұрын
That’s is why I’m so glad I’ve been single for 8 years now. I have no desire to ever be with anyone or let alone be married again
@edpreston1635
@edpreston1635 Жыл бұрын
Lonely? Oh, hell no. Filing for divorce and walking away is the best thing that ever happened to me.
@sa2321-b1h
@sa2321-b1h Жыл бұрын
Life is better this way. Good for you 👏🏼
@Noobsd
@Noobsd Жыл бұрын
single for past 10 years now 34 happy but not lonely. enjoying my life 😁😁😁
@HuntinHound
@HuntinHound 10 ай бұрын
Hands down your my favorite person to watch lately, your so unbiased and just call out the bullish good job, love your content keep it up queen👑
@tomcondon6169
@tomcondon6169 Жыл бұрын
This has happened so often: a partner is feeling inadequate, and accuses me of causing her to be so.
@davidthomspson9771
@davidthomspson9771 Жыл бұрын
We're not lonely, it's great to not be around gold digging,arrogant,superficial women,,,I LOVE IT
@alphalifestyleacademy
@alphalifestyleacademy Жыл бұрын
Yup, my ex-wife said make me happy, or ill leave. So she left. Now I'm happy.
@cynicalchimp107
@cynicalchimp107 Жыл бұрын
Thus article implies being lonely is being unhappy. How can that be when 63% of men aren't even interested in dating?
@xbubblehead
@xbubblehead Жыл бұрын
Holding the phone so steady during this is very impressive!
@anthonywilliams7052
@anthonywilliams7052 Жыл бұрын
Men ALL stop giving them your time, attention , and money, have self respect! Treat them the same, INVISIBLE...
@sa2321-b1h
@sa2321-b1h Жыл бұрын
Truth
@joejohn8274
@joejohn8274 10 ай бұрын
I absolutely love being alone! It's so much better than wishing i was! However wishes and dreams really do come true! Couldn't be happier! No BS
@raymitchell9736
@raymitchell9736 Жыл бұрын
Being Emotional needy... I can understand, but blame instead of working together? And then wonder why they're single? Holy Cow... I need help too, we all do... but when I'm drowning in my own issues I don't want to blamed and have more work piled on... or it's easier to say after being exhausted: "it's not going to work out" and then somehow I'm happier being single. Emily, it's refreshing to hear this, Thanks for the great content!
@luvr381
@luvr381 Жыл бұрын
Life is just better when you ignore women's expectations.
@sa2321-b1h
@sa2321-b1h Жыл бұрын
Truth
@JimPNY55
@JimPNY55 Жыл бұрын
Women treat men like crap and don't understand when the guy says "Adios"!
@MrBullet888
@MrBullet888 Жыл бұрын
Not lonely at all. I'm alone but there's a big difference. Its peaceful. I come and go as I please. I was a single Dad with full custody of my daughter and went through a bunch of relationships. None took because I put my daughter 1st. Had one even tell me that she should be 1st and not my daughter. Sorry. So now it's just me. Raised my daughter the best I could and she's on her own now and doing fine. Good job, great boyfriend and living life. To me, that's all that matters.
@vk2ig
@vk2ig Жыл бұрын
You did the right thing. And if she's not already, your daughter will be so thankful for what you did, putting her first.
@christianriddler5063
@christianriddler5063 Жыл бұрын
@@vk2ig Indeed, makes a bigger difference than most people would think.
@ironwillie7666
@ironwillie7666 Жыл бұрын
Just because a man is alone does not mean he is lonely. If a man truly wants to "FEEL" alone, all he needs to do is get married......
@edstringer1138
@edstringer1138 Жыл бұрын
Loneliness is being in a relationship and still be alone .Id rather be single
@mattbonney7591
@mattbonney7591 Жыл бұрын
I have stepped up, I have made an effort. But find I have to constantly walk away or not try, because I’ll “never meet” their expectations. I’d rather be depressed and eat gallons of ice cream alone, than be miserable in a “relationship”.
@TheJames-Edward
@TheJames-Edward 4 ай бұрын
At one point I felt that way, but I'm not anymore. I see more and more people leaving relationships more then ever. Two of my friends that were married for 10 years recently got divorced. That really opened my eyes seeing that.
@brandonnewby178
@brandonnewby178 Жыл бұрын
Alone, but not lonely
@dallasdragneel
@dallasdragneel Жыл бұрын
so we get flammed for approching woman but now we getting flammed for not
@disguisedpickle1360
@disguisedpickle1360 Жыл бұрын
Every video you make where you speak about women and men remind me of a song quote “baby I’m not your dad” literally is the vibe nowadays
@57RWA
@57RWA Жыл бұрын
Not surprised they turned it into something about them
@Fucyourfeelings
@Fucyourfeelings Жыл бұрын
There are millions of lonely married men.
@sasapetroski981
@sasapetroski981 8 ай бұрын
Best for man is to be single. I can create my own plans and do everything I want... Traveling, go to partyes, watch movies in cinema, go to clubs.... Beautiful feeling😊😊😊😊
@blueberryjam698
@blueberryjam698 11 ай бұрын
FACTS!!! Finally, a woman who understands the whole story. Men has feelings too! "Many women expect men to fulfill all of their emotional needs" it is definitely unrealistic, I agree 👍💯. There are men out there who are improving themselves yet, it doesn't seemed like woman sees that in men. Pretty much most woman today look down on men, treating men harshly, it's cruel. Men has feelings too.
@darkerbinding6933
@darkerbinding6933 10 ай бұрын
More like, "The Rise of Happy, Single Men". All due to you women and how you treat us.
@AnotherYoubue
@AnotherYoubue Жыл бұрын
Happily single, Happily alone. Simple life
@sa2321-b1h
@sa2321-b1h Жыл бұрын
You are doing life right. Relationships are overrated.
@jameslasswell5821
@jameslasswell5821 3 ай бұрын
Thank you for being so honest
@josephmayberry3638
@josephmayberry3638 Жыл бұрын
I been adapting and adjusting and whatever else so you understand that I have always adjusted to the current times the current way of thinking
@marksouthern7542
@marksouthern7542 Жыл бұрын
In two generations, women threw everything away in the name of equality. They now suffer. Men suffer. Children suffer in the instability. And the cycle of breakdown becomes worse. The social planners and academics of the 1960s and 1970s are to blame.
@michaelrodriguez3329
@michaelrodriguez3329 Жыл бұрын
💯
@ashleyhawkins1993
@ashleyhawkins1993 Жыл бұрын
That’s right there is why w&m are not together.
@michaelrodriguez3329
@michaelrodriguez3329 Жыл бұрын
@@ashleyhawkins1993 There was a time when women competed against women. Men against men . Now women are Completely against men. Instead of both sexes complimented each other
@ShaunHensley
@ShaunHensley Жыл бұрын
No. Women are to blame. They didn’t HAVE to fall for it, they CHOSE to
@KrimsonStorm
@KrimsonStorm Жыл бұрын
The social scientists have lead society to the brink of collapse, just as Robert Heinlein predicted
@Golden_Ghoul
@Golden_Ghoul Жыл бұрын
😵 women expect you to give them the world, but then will ask for more. They don't care about the struggles of men.
@CharlotteSmoothie
@CharlotteSmoothie 10 ай бұрын
"You see Chowder, women have these things in their bodies called "Expectations"." - Mung Daal
@danagiles5100
@danagiles5100 Жыл бұрын
Some people consistently confuse solitude with loneliness. They are not the same.😂
@diversefloater8768
@diversefloater8768 Жыл бұрын
Women: He needs to make siz fix figures, six feet tall, have an 8 incher, and always pickup the phone. Men: She has to be breathing.
@MrBunksauce
@MrBunksauce Жыл бұрын
That kind of scarcity mentality will get you stuck in a toxic relationship. Trust me.
@spenceroconnor3841
@spenceroconnor3841 Жыл бұрын
"Men lonelier than ever. Women most affected"
@user-un3zu6cg7p
@user-un3zu6cg7p Жыл бұрын
God bless you Emily for these videos. You understand a lot of little things my wife did before she died in my arms. I'm 66 years old a widower just enjoy my family
@johnjenkins9202
@johnjenkins9202 Жыл бұрын
I'm 48 I stopped dating because I got sick of women always lying cheating and stealing from me. Without them around I have extra money to do the things that I actually enjoy. I also feel a lot better without a woman constantly bickering at me about something stupid and Petty.
@sa2321-b1h
@sa2321-b1h Жыл бұрын
Your life is precious and you don’t need a woman to feel valued. The exact opposite, you are doing it right!
@michaelhmfic8346
@michaelhmfic8346 Жыл бұрын
We are not lonely. We just choose not to date.
@ThatGymKid14
@ThatGymKid14 Жыл бұрын
Wasn’t directed towards you then
@rs1389
@rs1389 Жыл бұрын
Nah men realising they not taking shit no more 🤣
@JEALSTI
@JEALSTI 10 ай бұрын
I thought I was alone when I was single, but now that I have been married for almost 30 years??? But I promised to stay…. and, I can’t imagine how much worse it would be if I were just trying to get started in today’s dating pool!
@juliusreed5273
@juliusreed5273 Жыл бұрын
Peace and mind is a beautiful thing
@Donenow96
@Donenow96 Жыл бұрын
so underrated nowadays
@mnvikings0527
@mnvikings0527 Жыл бұрын
We are not lonely when single. We are lonely when we are with someone whom has no wish to help. We are perfectly happy when we are by ourselves.
@Ja50nkAt
@Ja50nkAt Жыл бұрын
Nothing cures loneliness like a motorcycle and the open road.
@Jefferyeppystein
@Jefferyeppystein Жыл бұрын
And that tree around the bend of a road just waiting for a hug
@kennethlaw9830
@kennethlaw9830 Жыл бұрын
​@Way Aung well if that's what you expect, that's what will happen. The rest of us know the risks.
@Jefferyeppystein
@Jefferyeppystein Жыл бұрын
@@kennethlaw9830 my best friend said the same, guess he knew the risks too well to not keep that in mind
@melodyjogibson6791
@melodyjogibson6791 9 ай бұрын
I am now a widow but being with him on the vintage 79 Harley was the most romatic. Being one, no need for conversation and holding on to him. Great days.
@Tom_H327
@Tom_H327 10 ай бұрын
Dealing with my wife's emotional needs is a full time job. I had to shut mine off, else I'd be more overworked than I deserve.
@outsidethematrix593
@outsidethematrix593 Жыл бұрын
this is a necessary step for men to be free from societal expectations and pressures. Men have to go through this so that when we come to the other side, we can finally say "We don't need relationships. Screw marriages."
@sa2321-b1h
@sa2321-b1h Жыл бұрын
Truth
@ThePipeMonk
@ThePipeMonk Жыл бұрын
Remember it's NEVER the woman's fault.
@jgfunguy05
@jgfunguy05 Жыл бұрын
That’s why I’ve stayed single for the past 24 years because women today don’t want to provide for any of your emotional needs for the man but they expect you to provide, for every emotional need they have and it is exhausting
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