The Rules For Handling Instagram During A Breakup

[@DaRyteJuan]

Between the music loop and the jump cuts, I feel like I’m on a carousel I can’t get off and I’m about to lose my lunch.

[@noirrugger]

Hey Chris! If I’m a steady poster on social media, should I post less since she’s looking at every story I post?

[@basicinfo2022]

If they didn't want commitment with you, give them dopamine withdrawal by blocking access to your social media.

[@doohoss1]

Question for you, my ex and I recently broke up because I wasn’t committing and working with her enough. I’ve been fighting to get her back and that hasn’t gone to well. She recently divulged when things got heated on the phone four days ago that she’s seeing someone and they are already boyfriend and girlfriend. It seems a bit fishy. My question is why does she still have allot of pics of me and her being close on instagram, saying she loves me in those pics, even a good percentage of the pics on there that don’t show me are the ones I took of her and the times we had together yet she doesn’t have any pics about her new boyfriend? In the past she would block me, but she hasn’t now? Also she wants to still come by and take my dog for walks and to spend time with him, says it’s good for her mental health and for the dog. Why would she do that if she has a new boyfriend already? She already has two cats of her own.

[@axilty]

What if she went back to her ex few weeks after our breakup and she has blocked me on all, except her main and her second instragram account. Few days ago she finally blocked me again on her main but I’m still not blocked on her second Instagram account. Also she shares her main with her current bf.

[@yukee1127]

Good methods!! Thank you!

[@DaneWashingtonddtke]

Is it ok to deactivate the Instagram account while broken up from your ex

[@basicinfo2022]

Yes, that's radio silence when you disappear virtually to hopefully cause curiousity and fear of losing you. It works if they had genuine love for you.

[@chocolategirlro]

What would you suggest if your ex is not an avid social media user? My ex barely ever uses Instagram, where I usually post most of my stuff. I know he checks Facebook sometimes so I tried changing my picture but neither did he like or comment on it. I'm currently implementing no contact. Please help!!!

[@nicholasglendenning9618]

What if I've been unfollowed on insta and probably muted on Facebook...

[@jarrodoberg2078]

Currently going through this

[@basicinfo2022]

Can't do nothing but to it back to them or don't react. I would mirror them back to give them consequences and feel how it feels.

[@keziadewi6418]

Thanks Chris... I really need this..

[@chrisseitercoaching]

Happy to help!

[@omer0544]

I am after a breakup And in no context for a week now I decided to delete instagram app not the user. And i do trying to improve myself, should i post on instagram my progress? A new job and such? I think staying out from this circle of games is better not? And even the mystery is better ?

[@VyLe-zw6oq]

This is what I need now Chris

[@chrisseitercoaching]

Glad it helps

[@cynthiab8377]

@@chrisseitercoaching what if your ex is also posting on his stories during NC? Do you recommend us to check his stories during NC?

[@bprincess7432]

Chris, What do you think of posting a picture with a guys arm around you but hes cut out the picture? Could be new boyf/could be friend? Do you think this could work?

[@mohammedrehan8012]

It will backfire

[@arlene6347]

I think it’s too obvious. It wouldn’t work

[@zacharydobson5839]

Post or post a story for the jealousy shots, Bc jealous shots don’t make you the subject of the photo, right?

[@ChiChi-td9qm]

Uninstall,block why complicate 🤣

[@sabrinapowell8446]

My ex won’t even view my stories and has blocked me from viewing his.. why do guys do this ?

[@dwaynevandenberghe8464]

To protect ourselves from pain...

[@13DarkMelody]

He blocked me on Instagram but not on anywhere else. He literally has only six photos on Instagram.

[@chrisseitercoaching]

Is that your main form of contact?

[@13DarkMelody]

Chris Seiter No. We message frequently. By mobile number,Facebook messenger mostly & Snapchat. He made another Facebook account & did not add me but kept his old account & watches my stories less & less. He says,”No talking”, when I said that I wanted to talk again on the phone because he would call me every single day for months sometimes more than once,anytime of the day or night & sometimes for four hours. He said no talking because he is in a relationship now. I told him texting is the same thing. He also sent me selfies & a video & two sexually oriented memes to remind me of how he remembers things we did etc. Then it’s back to him being stubborn. It’s annoying. He has never been faithful to anyone so I’m going to use that in my favor. I want my fwb back 😐

[@maxscot4236]

Hello to whom it may concern I can recommend you to someone that helps me get my ex back recently he can also help you just as he did helpe me too 🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻

[@maxscot4236]

Text him on WhatsApp 🙏🏻🙏🏻🌹🌹

[@maxscot4236]

*[phone]🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻✅🙏🏻

[@WhatiloveOfficial]

Where do I find the Facebook group? 😁

[@QueenSalda]

I was thinking the same thing

[@Chrissybell1210]

Chris but if the ex has u blocked on Instagram none of this helps so what do we do then??

[@chrisseitercoaching]

Hey Christine, what happens is after sometime your ex will grow curious about what you are doing and unblock you to check for updates. So make sure that you are focused on you

[@yolandakerr7368]

I'm blocked on Facebook so today I noticed I'm not blocked on Instagram not following each other anymore either so I made my profile public because I noticed he was on there the other day

[@jenniferbaris6087]

@@yolandakerr7368 what sapp him right now so that he can help you what sapp him on +:2:3:4:9:0:5:2:1:7:1:0:1:4

[@Ms1999Demi]

My ex and I are almost 2 months apart now. A week ago we had a short contact. He sent me a message. The conversation was in a couple of days. Eventually I ended the conversation, but I left the option to talk later. After we split up I kept on posting on instagram. He did not like the first picture I posted. He did like all the other pictures that came after that. Except for the photo I posted yesterday. Is this strange? I even heard him yesterday for practical reasons...

[@Ms1999Demi]

@@louisemeryem8024 i really want help... how can you help me?

[@Ms1999Demi]

@@louisemeryem8024 did you get your ex back?

[@Ms1999Demi]

@@louisemeryem8024 who do you recommend? And is it free?

[@Ms1999Demi]

@@louisemeryem8024 I’m happy for you! :)

[@Ms1999Demi]

@@louisemeryem8024 is this a number of a relationship coach?

[@hereonlyculturally6334]

@Chris Seiter the boy I love has blocked me everywhere since i offended after a misunderstanding,i tried to apologize etc always blocking,i tried to ask just a platonic friendship virtual always blocking,he had unblocked me only in a cultural site maybe after there a friend of mine begged just to keep me as friend,ut he never reply to me what does it mean??? i have lost him forever right??? i cannot do anything??? could u answer me thanks

[@bmshadmansakib1142]

Elisa that’s very sad and unfortunate and I don’t know who you are or 🥰🥰😢or neither I have met you before . But I understand your feeling I didn’t feel the same thing but it was hard for me when I got separated from my crush . But now I know feel shy or nervous 😒to talk to anyone I wish you all the happiness in your life 😜🇧🇩Just try to improve your self that will be help you a lot to find someone best of best

[@bprincess7432]

Go not contact!! Leave him completely alone now. Make your Instagram open and he start to look at it x

[@tarottualmagemela5676]

Hi culture, well I think you still have a chance with him, try to focus on the NC rules. Just email me [e-mail]. Thanks

[@Chess_Garden]

good subject.. but super annoying music

[@getsetgo4929]

My FA ex thinks i get angry easily and don’t listen to her …😅 I don’t know what can i do ..😊

[@Dragooneater]

Omg 😂 that’s me with the anime pictures

[@chrisseitercoaching]

Haha!

[@scoopofhappiness]

But due to covid and lockdown..i can't go anywhere.. what should i do ?? 😞

[@chrisseitercoaching]

The world is gradually opening up, so get to thinking what you can do.

[@daniel.385]

Yes

[@JordyTotte]

She blocked my on my number not on social média

[@rockeee]

Put her on mute. The end.

[@mitraalizadeh1088]

But What if ge blocked me on instagram🤭😁 I texted him too much and he blocked me 😁

[@chrisseitercoaching]

Eventually you will be unblocked

[@basicinfo2022]

Almost 7 weeks NC and he hasn't unblocked me yet... he has for a few minutes probably to check my page but then blocks again.

[@rebeccajohnson5658]

What if the ex accused me of being Needed and Clingy, and a cheater/liar?

[@BK_2016sr5]

Then bussnuts mah niggie