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@nicholaselliott4439
@nicholaselliott4439 5 жыл бұрын
Ghosting is probably the worst way to break up with someone because there is no explanation.
@EmilyBalga
@EmilyBalga 5 жыл бұрын
Just waiting and wondering why and or if they're coming home. A coworker of mine did this to his wife and their 3 children. Left her for a rich w****. They still don't know where he is. A**hole. Oh and he's also a pervert that likes to check out every woman he sees and look down their shirts when he gets the chance.. mine included. I haven't worn a v-neck since. Just gross.
@SashiKouran
@SashiKouran 3 жыл бұрын
I didn't ghost my bro.I was there while my bro went live on youtube, was waiting for the right time to return so I can give him what I promised,can't go empty handed.
@alicialow7224
@alicialow7224 2 жыл бұрын
my ex was a sailor, we were in an interracial relationship but i loved him dearly. After 2 weeks from our 1 year anniversary. He sent me a text message at 6am requesting for a breakup and ghosted me thereafter. It took me 1-2 years to recover from the trauma emotionally and psychologically. But I survived. 3 years later I’m in a healthy loving relationship with the love of my life (doctor) & I am grateful for all the support from friends and family in guiding me out of the shipwreck (no pun intended)❤️
@esmooth919
@esmooth919 Жыл бұрын
You're right. Ghosting is the worst way, but it's the only way I can deal whenever someone has particularly wronged the shit out of me. There are certain things I just cannot put up with, and once I lose respect for you, that's it.
@therealsaintlucifer777
@therealsaintlucifer777 Жыл бұрын
😢
@chunkymonkey9097
@chunkymonkey9097 5 жыл бұрын
These just get significantly more and more worse. No one can tell me that humans aren’t the most cruel living creatures.
@StefanTravis
@StefanTravis 5 жыл бұрын
He dumped me, claiming we'd never "really" been dating, then sent a stream of abusive texts when I started seeing someone else. Then tried to guilt me into getting back with him, cue more abusive texts when I didn't. Then he got arrested for threatening to burn someone's house down. Remember guys, there's no D in Crazy, so don't put one in.
@emmanuelortega922
@emmanuelortega922 5 жыл бұрын
That's extremely abusive, uncalled for, and just stupid. I'm sorry you had to go through that, but I'm glad that you have moved on. I wish you luck
@StefanTravis
@StefanTravis 5 жыл бұрын
@@emmanuelortega922 Thank you. I used to wonder why I attract damaged men, but the reason's obvious - I want to fix them. But I can't.
@emmanuelortega922
@emmanuelortega922 5 жыл бұрын
@@StefanTravis But it's still nice of you to try to, and it's nice people that run the world
@Ambipie
@Ambipie 3 жыл бұрын
Never fix someone who doesn't want to stop being broken. They won't let you.
@neffetitiedwards956
@neffetitiedwards956 2 жыл бұрын
@@Ambipie I know this all....too.....well.😒😒
@Bigfoot_With_Internet_Access
@Bigfoot_With_Internet_Access 5 жыл бұрын
Don't have to worry about it when you just never date anyone anyway, problem solved
@See-if_I_care
@See-if_I_care 3 жыл бұрын
Makes sense
@66DoodleGal
@66DoodleGal 5 жыл бұрын
My parents: When are you going to get a husband? Me:....*cracks up with laughter*
@myufostory689
@myufostory689 4 жыл бұрын
I received a wedding invitation from a friend, Ted, who lived in New York. I was surprised that he was engaged. I live in the Pacific Northwest so I flew across the country to attend his wedding. It was at some kind of hippie commune or something. I met Ted's bride to be, Stella, but she gave me judgemental eyes so I didn't really care for her. She ended up living Ted at the alter and got back together with her ex. There's a positive ending to the story. Ted met his future wife, Tracy. She was very warm and welcoming when I met her at their wedding. She saved a dance for me at the reception.
@Aileneaugustine123
@Aileneaugustine123 5 жыл бұрын
Omg so this happened with someone i know That guy actually faked his death in a flood to get away from her because he had a relationship with someone else He was an asshole and they even had a daughter lol (The wife thought he was dead ) Years later he came back to that place with a beard and stuff so he looked slightly differnt The daughter was just a kid when her dad "supposedly died " but she did have pictures with him so she recognised him and realised he's now married
@IDK-kv8ob
@IDK-kv8ob 5 жыл бұрын
Damn. That's shitty.
@darlingblue
@darlingblue 5 жыл бұрын
I was going to move up to his city, around 3 hours away from my hometown, a job I loved, my friends and family. we looked at apartments together for myself, I transferred my job to that city's branch and put a deposit down on a pet friendly flat so I could take my dog with me. A week before I was meant to move, he blocked me on everything. Then he sent me a text a couple days later saying he just wanted to be friends. He was my first love and he broke my heart repeatedly, but I was young and dumb and madly in love. It truly broke my spirit for several years, and I moved country to get away. Now I'm with my fiancé who is a great man❤️
@vsantiago2195
@vsantiago2195 5 жыл бұрын
This gives me so much hope because as strange as it is this is very similar to my heartbroken story right now. I met my ex bf online two years ago. We started as friends because I wasn't interested in him romantically. He was an amazing, incredible friend and a beautiful person as well, not physically but mentally and emotionally. A few months into our friendship he fell in love and asked me to be his. I realized I loved him too (I'd never dated a man before and was oblivious) and it was wonderful and he visited me several times during our partner as he lived 6 hrs away. We never had a single argument and everyday and conversation with him filled me with happiness and he said the same of me to him, he showed me sex with a man is beautiful and warm and safe and I showed him to love the Earth and all it entails with all his heart. I thought we would marry and have children, he even said I was the only woman he ever met he would actually want to be his wife and mother to our kids. I was 20 he 25 and soon he asked me to move to his state with him. I said yes, despite not knowing anyone outside my state. I brought my beloved dog and left all my family and spent all my money and stayed with his friend when I arrived to his state. A week after I arrived he had yet to come pick me up. I called and he picked up and broke up with me... said he just wanted to be friends and needed to focus on himself. I thought it was okay and encouraged him to do what he feels is right and what he needs right now. But he then moved states and stopped all contact with me, and I was left in a state I didn't know with someone I barely knew, all I had was my dog. Soon after his friend proved to be a real asshole and nascissist and eventually kicked me out. I'm still recovering from all the pain and questions never answered and wishing for hope. Thank you for giving it to me
@darlingblue
@darlingblue 5 жыл бұрын
@@vsantiago2195 I'm so, so sorry you've had to go through this. He shouldn't have done that to you, it's such a cruel way to break someone's heart, especially someone who was supposed to love you. I just remember the week after in a blur, turned my phone off, drank and cried a lot, cancelled all my plans of moving despite it being non refundable and a hassle to everything, and then visited my sister in the States for a few months with the last of my savings. Ex kept coming in and out of my life for a couple years after that, constantly breaking my heart because he knew I loved him with all I had at the time despite how sad it made me. I feel silly looking back because I shouldn't have continued on, but also mad that he took advantage of my naiveté and the fact that I really loved him. I was very much a down to earth person who wanted to good by everyone and went with the flow, he was a kind of an uptight businessman who was charming and knowledgeable about things, and culturally we were similar. I'm sorry that youve had to go through that. I'm sorry about his friend treating you that way too. Are you living in the same state still or did you manage to move back? I know it's so much easier to say, but eventually it'll get better, and the days will go easier, until eventually you dont think about it everyday. Then you'll find someone who makes you think "why did I waste all that love on someone who treated me like that", and who makes you happy, who is happy to be with you and who will talk with you during the bad/uncertain times instead of running away without a second thought. I really wish you all the best and hope you and your doggy are doing well now❤️
@Artem2034
@Artem2034 4 жыл бұрын
Some days its hard thinking that I've been single all my life at this point but then I watch videos like that and think "I don't need that much stress in my life so I'm good". :D
@sayuncleordie
@sayuncleordie 5 жыл бұрын
Asked for a divorce over a text so she wouldn’t feel guilty about cheating on our marriage. Then was surprised when the paper work was sitting on the kitchen table for her to fill out when she got home. She moved new guy in 2 weeks later. It’s ok though. There have been 4 guys since me, and they all got the same.
@snark894
@snark894 5 жыл бұрын
8:23 started legit tearing up
@exipee850
@exipee850 4 жыл бұрын
How could you cry with that piano music in the background
@PrincessofPower84
@PrincessofPower84 Жыл бұрын
All of these are awful, but the false arrest, breakup after the stillborn, and the cancer story are beyond the most horrible.
@wendyscorporate8640
@wendyscorporate8640 5 жыл бұрын
*after three years of dating* Her: name one fact about me Me😐 Her: anything Me:😐 Her:ok name one fact about your car Me: proceeds to list all engine specs Her : gtfo
@jaden2014
@jaden2014 5 жыл бұрын
Wendy’s thats just tuff
@proneiscute616
@proneiscute616 5 жыл бұрын
Hell yeah a nice cool cup of depression🤣
@notjudgementalsoldier5135
@notjudgementalsoldier5135 5 жыл бұрын
ProneyBoi _YT my favourite
@awdrifter3394
@awdrifter3394 5 жыл бұрын
14:16 that was sad.
@EmilyBalga
@EmilyBalga 5 жыл бұрын
My grandma died Christmas day.. not a breakup, but still.. then my ex and I got back together after his brother died a week later. 7 months strong, if anyone wanted a somewhat happy ending. We're very much so happy, and planning on moving in together in 6 months
@ArtDrumz
@ArtDrumz 2 жыл бұрын
Wow some of these are not only heartbreaking but show just how horrible and manipulative some people are.
@alicialow7224
@alicialow7224 2 жыл бұрын
my ex was a sailor, we were in an interracial relationship but i loved him dearly. After 2 weeks from our 1 year anniversary. He sent me a text message at 6am requesting for a breakup and ghosted me thereafter. It took me 1-2 years to recover from the trauma emotionally and psychologically. But I survived. 3 years later I’m in a healthy loving relationship with the love of my life (he’s a doctor) & I am grateful for all the support from friends and family in guiding me out of the shipwreck (no pun intended)❤️
@a-10warthog40
@a-10warthog40 3 жыл бұрын
This music killed the mood
@puffbunn
@puffbunn 5 жыл бұрын
She dumped me once, got back together with me after six months. everything was good, then she cut off all together. As I presented a one year anniversary gift she said she got back together with me to “get revenge” and that she never loved me. How rood.
@puppetpawss
@puppetpawss Жыл бұрын
We had broken up beforehand, but the end to the friendship with my ex was singlehandedly one of the most painful and gutting experiences of my life. Overtime, they just started to respond to my messages less frequently and much less sincere, always chalking it up to being too busy with their other friends, or with their personal life. Then they stopped talking to me entirely. Then they slowly started to unfriend me from every single platform we had communication on, with the final being them unfriending me on my Nintendo Switch. 7+ year's and our friendship ended without a word. I think what pains me more looking back on it wasn't even the slow demise of the relationship, it was how much I had fought to keep it from happening even when back then I knew it was inevitable. I supported every decision they made, even if it was against my comfort or to my discretion. I was so desperate to keep them in my life that even as they started to disappear from every platform we had contact on, I mentally denied that it was over until I finally just left the chat we communicated most on. I still get so nauseated remembering the moment I discovered that they had unfriended me on our main chat service. That sinking feeling, that instant feeling of sick, having to hold back tears because my father was home and I was in class on a zoom call. So overall, the reason it was the worst was that our friendship of several years, ever since the 3rd grade, was thrown down the drain and without a single word of clarification.
@dais1151
@dais1151 5 жыл бұрын
Valentines day this year, I had really had flu. Been off college for a week or more, just in bed. I rang my boyfriend to say I was too ill to come up to see him but I was really sorry and I'd take another day off college to go see him as soon as I was better. He hangs up the phone and two hours later texts me saying if I can't even be bothered to go see him *3 hours away btw* on valentines day maybe I didn't care about him. Turns out he was seeing someone else and was waiting for an excuse. Pretty cruel way to break the news though. Especially since I was sick and home alone.
@natalies9468
@natalies9468 5 жыл бұрын
At the time, I was 18 and My manager (27) from work who had transferred from a different country to work at my work. We dated for 6months. His contract is up at my work so he has to go back to his original country. I’m distraught. On our last day, as he was dropping me off, he told me he had a wife so he won’t be lonely in his home country. I was horrified. He’s still with the wife to this day and she doesn’t know anything. He still slides into my DM’s from time to time. It’s been five years since this happened, smh 🤦🏻‍♀️.
@Regal23_
@Regal23_ 3 жыл бұрын
Oh my God
@kerekgyartodavid4247
@kerekgyartodavid4247 3 жыл бұрын
These are the most brutal stories I have ever heard of...and almost every one of them come from the USA....wtf 14:59 that sad excuse of a woman is a sociopath
@Regal23_
@Regal23_ 3 жыл бұрын
Oh land of the free
@Tepix25
@Tepix25 10 ай бұрын
It made me feel used. She just kept giving me dry messages for days. Then out of nowhere says, “I think we should break up.” Barely even got to discuss why but she said this. “Yknow that one time I seemed uninterested? I didn’t tell you why and tried to brush it off but it just kept coming back.” Apparently, the message was pretty clear that the entire time we were dating she didn’t actually mean it. She said she had the same issue with other dudes (other dudes, yeah another big red flag I ignored, a bunch of exs) and after some time she just lost interest. She KNEW that we were never going to work out. Yet she decided to break my heart and lie to me. I feel like an idiot for falling into the same trap the other dudes fell into. I feel lied to, like a joke. The constant reassurance she gave me was all a lie. The effort I put into our relationship was all meaningless, and to even think that she knew it was meaningless hurts even more. It’s mentally damaging. If it wasn’t for spring vacation being the very next day I might not even be here typing this. Im grateful to be still be here though. Im gradually getting over it, but I don’t know how this is going to effect my next relationship (if I even het one at all). This break up almost completely ruined my perspective on dating. I hope to find someone trustworthy and loyal one day though. I want to experience a healthy, long term relationship where the both of us can strive without dishonesty or lack of loyalty.
@kolonarulez5222
@kolonarulez5222 3 жыл бұрын
12:59 She took the whole feast, she took the Who pudding, she took the Roast Beast!
@casriaAmarel
@casriaAmarel 5 жыл бұрын
Keep in mind this was a long distance thing. I don't even remember what her reason was. All I know is she went from the love of my life and everyone knew it, to the girl I'm a third wheel around. It started when her friend would hit on her. I suck at expressing jealousy, and he clearly didn't get the memo. To be honest, only my friends seemed to understand why this broke me down. While still trying to recover from that, her other friend came in. My ex would say things like, "I'm cold." Her friend would do something in person, as they'd be texting our group chat while seeing each other in person. The comment would change to, "One leg is warm, and the other is cold." It was little things like that. They kept me thinking, "Oh, she's happy right now, who am I to interrupt?" And, "They're best friends. This is fine." That was only working until the I Love You's were going more between them than between us. Again, I suck at saying, "Hey, this makes me hurt inside. Maybe we should talk a little more, and not just about her." _by the way, her family got the message before I did, or maybe I was suppressing it._ Anyway, broke up. She got together with her friend two days later. I remember this being the day after Christmas. Funny, it got even harder to recover when someone did a really fucked up prank on me. They anonymously texted me over Instagram, saying they were from the dark web, but did nothing but insult me and my relationship skills. The only reason I know they weren't really from the dark web was because I asked for my full name and exact location. Never got an answer outside of Texas. Hayden, Sierra, and Rayne, if you ever find this, I hate you all. My dear ex, not just for this story, but also because you tried to keep me around when you were bored. Probably cause you knew I'd do anything for a second chance back then.
@ltdee1970
@ltdee1970 3 ай бұрын
For me: the love of my life. Tuesday night went to her house hung out, had a good time, watch a little TV, hopped on the bus, gone home That Night Talk on the Phone, Wednesday morning she's mad at me for no reason and tells her best friend that she wants to break up with me??!! WTF!!!. There was no argument, just she got tired of being with one guy.. I believe she kind of regret it, she see what could have been, but we're still good friends. I am Happily Married for 29 years
@Arak_Drakoniz
@Arak_Drakoniz Жыл бұрын
My ex would often tell me about this guy she “dated before me” and how much of a POS he was and how he would gaslight her. He lived with his mom and off of her, was unemployed and his only friends were people 10+ years younger, including high school kids. She broke up with me after a year of cheating on me with him. Almost another year later, I found out he’s a pedophile.
@azlynfugate6590
@azlynfugate6590 5 жыл бұрын
My ex boyfriend/best friend broke up with me on Thanksgiving at his grandparents house by hugging me and telling me he didn't love me anymore. We joke about it now but I was pretty angry when we had been together for almost a year, never fought, and I found out he started dating some other girl who despised me 2 days later because she added me on FB.
@MeCooper
@MeCooper 5 жыл бұрын
8:19 Honestly even when I was a teenager I never understood why people make this kind of stuff up. Especially when they make it sound all melodramatic and hollywood. It's as if they are trying to portray some down trodden underdog character for like etc... But the problem is it's so unrealistic that the only way this could have occurred irl is if the writer has acted over the top _(I'm talking crack head levels)_ of aggression. It's as if cops are just inhuman actors following a script when in reality, It's nothing like that. Jesus christ just watch an episode of Cops and youll notice how blasé cops are about criminals.... *Because they deal with this type of crap literally on a day to day basis.* If cops were getting all personal about every damn call out they'd have a damn mental break down after 2 weeks... I mean christ man... These are people doing 12~ hour shifts a day of nothing but criminal bullshit for years on end, Only a moron would think they do stupid crap like blatantly listening to hearsay and acting as if its fact! #oldmanrant Ah sorry, But it's like... Fk man. At least *try* to make the story some what believable.
@jaybarbour7766
@jaybarbour7766 4 жыл бұрын
I'm really hoping your right guy...
@jawuanhart8540
@jawuanhart8540 3 жыл бұрын
Maybe he was black 😂🤷
@theyanderereal-lifechannel993
@theyanderereal-lifechannel993 5 жыл бұрын
I just broke up with my abusive emotionally manipulative girlfriend
@roxy5048
@roxy5048 5 жыл бұрын
best of luck the coming time!
@user-tk9xt1qm8j
@user-tk9xt1qm8j 3 жыл бұрын
I just broke up with my boyfriend of 2 years because my parents won’t let me hang out with him talk to him they wanted me to break up with him I felt so sad when I broke up with him I felt really bad and I fucking hate my parents I literally loved My boyfriend so much but I guess all good things must come to an end😔💜😭
@angelcordova3709
@angelcordova3709 4 жыл бұрын
Not me but a friend He had this perfect girl and I thought they were a perfect couple until the girl finally told him she was bisexual and that she was falling in love with a girl ://
@myeternalteardrop
@myeternalteardrop 7 ай бұрын
My first gf broke up with me on myspace, but not through a message. If you remember there was the top friends feature where you could list your top 8 friends. Most people reserved the #1 spot for their SO or their bestie if they were single. Likewise, I was my ex's #1 and she was mine, until one day I suddenly wasn't. A dude she met at the library and became friends with was #1 and I was moved to #2. I know she was a teenager and teens do shitty things when dating but jeez. Bonus points for the fact that she was 15 and dude was in his early to mid 20's. She's also now married to the dude.
@n.w.owhoknowstheshadowknow58
@n.w.owhoknowstheshadowknow58 4 жыл бұрын
5 years just left while I was at work
@jessicalefebvre9683
@jessicalefebvre9683 Жыл бұрын
Got broken up over Facebook by finding out an ex was with a new girl a week before Valentine's day. Needless to say, I loathe Valentine's Day now.
@danniis9444
@danniis9444 3 жыл бұрын
The saddest break up stories with happy music in the background. Mmmkay
@angelinadavis6809
@angelinadavis6809 5 жыл бұрын
When I broke up with my ex, it was the beginning of high school and one day I walked onto the bus and I heard my ex yell once I sat down “ IM BREAKING UP WITH YOU!” I was like “Uh what did i do and also why the fuck did you have to yell that the whole bus can hear.” Everybody called my ex an asshole for embarrassing me but I never cared about the breakup.
@Ambipie
@Ambipie 3 жыл бұрын
...he met someone more attractive to him and was too young to communicate anything nice
@JonkerHoodMoments
@JonkerHoodMoments 5 жыл бұрын
can i get some updoots its my 15th birthday and its ending in two hours
@justscrollingbyaa2417
@justscrollingbyaa2417 4 жыл бұрын
DeZiRe HeRcuLes happy birthday
@deviledegg5664
@deviledegg5664 3 жыл бұрын
Dated a girl for almost 3 years, was convinced she was the one I was so in love but had no idea she didn't love me back, moved states for this woman and got an apartment for the both of us but when it came time for her to move in with me she decided to move with her parents to Idaho and left me high and dry in a place I had no friends or anyone to help me through the deep depression I found myself in. Worked out for the best though cause I found the woman of my dreams she's crazy for me and I'm crazy for her. Life turned out pretty good in the long run.
@LamborghiniDiabloSVPursuit
@LamborghiniDiabloSVPursuit 5 жыл бұрын
Much like one of the posts. SO just kinda upped and left. No goodbyes, no indications they were going away, no closure, no nothing. There wasn't anything bad between us, atleast I think there wasn't. I mean, I'm sure there weren't. I waited for about 4 years, in hopes that eventually they'll come back, but by the fifth year, I just kinda accepted they were gone, and I gotta move on from the proverbial gravestone. Until today, I'm still wracked with doubt, whether I was the one who caused, quite possibly one of the best things in my life to just up and leave me to fend for myself. I'm a bit socially dumb, maybe I did something low-key wrong. Maybe I didn't love them enough, or show it to them. Maybe I was just annoying by being too clingy. Maybe I'm just not cut out to be long-term material. Maybe I'm just expendable. I don't know anymore, maybe life just stacked the relationship deck against me and I'm always destined to be dealt a bad hand.
@emmanuelortega922
@emmanuelortega922 5 жыл бұрын
Things just happen for a reason, their's because of something probably with themself. And don't believe that about yourself. You'll one day find that SO that's very special and will appreciate you well
@ratman7212
@ratman7212 3 жыл бұрын
That story about the girl who lied to the police about the threatening text message pissed me off the justice system is so sexist
@ischeele7203
@ischeele7203 Жыл бұрын
He decided we were platonic friends, neglected to tell me, and I only found out we weren't dating when I vented a bit to a mutual friend 🙃
@voidtectonic
@voidtectonic 5 жыл бұрын
I got dumped after a night shift when we were both working. Said he loved me during my break, dumped me when I clocked off. Didnt even care that I was sobbing outside, he was too busy laughing with the guys inside to care while my boss came outside and consoled me. She was the best. This was after I bought his mom a necklace for her birthday.
@nubreed13
@nubreed13 4 жыл бұрын
Dated a really flakey girl in high school/college. She dumped me on Facebook saying she was too busy with school to date anyone. A week later her sister showed me photos of the vacation she skipped school to attend. So much for needing time to study.......
@DanielSelk
@DanielSelk 2 жыл бұрын
The letter of reference for future lovers...not gonna lie, that evil genius made me laugh.
@piaanna9067
@piaanna9067 6 ай бұрын
Well my husband packed his stuff and left while I was at my last day of work before maternity leave. 35 weeks pregnancy in a high risk. No explanation, just left his wedding ring behind on my side of the bed.
@edcmontucky985
@edcmontucky985 5 жыл бұрын
I would like to vent something here. I had a girl I was convinced id marry randomly ghost me last year and it's still really messing with me.
@brianpeople
@brianpeople 3 жыл бұрын
I had an ex who ghosted me for another guy, ended up being in a toxic 2 year relationship with that person, and tried to come back begging for another chance... after 2 years of silence 😂🤣 no thank you!
@Mr_Plop1
@Mr_Plop1 4 жыл бұрын
Sometimes I feel lonely and want a gf, then I see videos like this. Oh well, time to go check on those robotics stocks!
@mereru9681
@mereru9681 Жыл бұрын
Ex used my spare key to come into my home unannounced with two bags of my things after 3 days of ignoring me. Sucked.
@slimeyvids7304
@slimeyvids7304 5 жыл бұрын
I felt a strange urge to comment.
@clibothy
@clibothy 5 жыл бұрын
SlimeyVids IT WAS YOUR DESTINY
@xxxaye7142
@xxxaye7142 3 жыл бұрын
my ex who back then still identified as lesbian broke up with me over text right after i sent her a message reading "hey, i love you and hope you have a great day!", aight ouch but i can deal some days later i message him again to talk things out, he just goes "i felt like you were dependent on me yet rather than talking about it like we promised i decided it'd hurt less for you if i did it this way, also there were other reasons too", did he tell me the other reasons? nope then, three days after that he comes out as male and told me even if i'd still love him, and be willing to date him despite being a lesbian, he wouldn't be able to believe i'd view him as anything less than a woman. now the thing is had he told me that in our dms beforehand great, no rather he did it in the group chat that was active telling me that right in front of our friends who were also active. in said groupchat with our friends a day after that he then proceeded to say, i quote "lol no i don't like boobs, i'm gay, like really fucking gay. turns out accepting that i'm a lesbian was simply easier than accepting that i'm transgender and into men i don't like women at all lmao", he did that while i was active too. im glad he could figure things out for himself but i would've preferred he had told me that in our dms first rather than dropping those things at random in the gc while i and everyone else was active
@missfleming5465
@missfleming5465 5 жыл бұрын
Got dumped by a boyfriend I was seeing in college at 16(I'm from the U.K)because I wasn't pregnant(had a pregnancy scare even though I was taking contraceptives) he was a bum who wanted to have a baby so I would be entitled to benefits and a council home. I sure dodged a bullet with that scare and asshole.
@The_Rhykker
@The_Rhykker 2 жыл бұрын
This shit gives me no hope especially with The current state of dating.
@Crazy-Cat-Lady-of-CA
@Crazy-Cat-Lady-of-CA 5 жыл бұрын
Called him for Christmas and saw his wedding announcement to the town pump a few months later.
@ParallelParadigms
@ParallelParadigms 4 ай бұрын
She moved to Cleveland with some guy named Leeland that she met at the bank
@Bookend74Dinner
@Bookend74Dinner 3 жыл бұрын
Mine, told me that he felt that he shouldn't be dating anyone right now, six weeks later, he tells me about that he went on a successful date... interesting. 🙄☹️
@emilymordenn
@emilymordenn 5 жыл бұрын
he told me he didnt like my friends and minecraft
@SaraH-jn5db
@SaraH-jn5db 2 жыл бұрын
Ghosted after 3 years together, wish I was joking
@legion3912
@legion3912 5 жыл бұрын
Got a Dear John email from one gf a decade ago. She blamed all her problems on us, and sent us spiraling down the suicide route. Have some niftly scars which are conversation pieces ^^
@HaleyAnneBechler
@HaleyAnneBechler 5 жыл бұрын
A text message was all I got. Apparently he didn't "feel the spark" when we kissed (which wasn't many times since we only saw each other on weekends lol). Right after, he meets and gets married to someone else. Four years later, I'm still not interested or looking. It's all good. 👍
@t_rex8767
@t_rex8767 2 жыл бұрын
and this is why i enjoy being single....would be nice to have a woman to hug though....jeez this probably sounds pathetic
@Liutgard
@Liutgard 5 жыл бұрын
After *19 years* abruptly announced that he was done with me. OVER SKYPE.
@yuathetsundere2482
@yuathetsundere2482 5 жыл бұрын
now I'm better about being single, thanks
@SashiKouran
@SashiKouran 3 жыл бұрын
Cultural differences sure is number one since there should be a huge adjustment with 2 people not just one. Two cultures combining to create a legacy is hard. I go with the flow and stick to what my upbring is no matter how other things are crappy, people change over time. We are adults with adult needs and have rights to get what we want also freedom is supposed to be free. I was just being kind not trying to be all romantic but a woman and man cannot be friends. One person will always fall for the other. I'm very oblivious and it takes years for me to understand since all men somehow I don't know treats me the same also women too. I get love confessions on both sexes. Many people mistaken my kindness for flirting. I don't mind returning the love too if they somehow feel something if they are somewhat attractive. We all have types not just one. I on the hand will stick to my dreams and is determine to tick every bo x of my bucket list. I look at how much work I'm gonna do for a relationship, I weigh the pros and cons. I choose based on chemistry of the relationship,not just looks or money since looks and money will always be adjustable. I look at the overall future. This is my reasoning. I use logic a lot.
@brycepowell3313
@brycepowell3313 5 жыл бұрын
My saddest break up story is with my phone. After a day, though, I found a new one.
@Handsomegargoyle04
@Handsomegargoyle04 5 жыл бұрын
Yeah my younger brother just drop his phone like a rock and allways manages to break... but it somehow allways works after dropping.
@bondedcastaway3085
@bondedcastaway3085 5 жыл бұрын
I had an ex that I shared a bank account with. We just had a another big fight over the fact I was cheating (again) and she wanted to have the account separated. I drove to pick her up the next morning, she was wearing my favorite outfit and the bra I bought her to wear for sexy times (she had it super obvious) When she got to the car I told her to get in the back seat and that I brought my one night stand with me. She tried to be pretend friendly to her but we both just ignored her in the back seat. She eventually started crying. After we separated the accounts I left her there at the bank to find another ride back home (we were about 10 miles away) The worst part in my opinion was that the women I was with was just a one night stand, later I posted my actual new girlfriend and the one night stand all over my social media and included a bit just for my ex “I got my cake and ate it too”
@xdoxxy
@xdoxxy 4 жыл бұрын
This comment is so trash, and it seems like you are too. I don’t know if you’re looking for props or if you’re just stupid but this ain’t it.
@theorangemouse3277
@theorangemouse3277 5 жыл бұрын
Wow, many reditors here. Hi!
@santiagomarin2546
@santiagomarin2546 4 жыл бұрын
I don't understand 2:00
@SWIFTO_SCYTHE
@SWIFTO_SCYTHE 5 жыл бұрын
Finding out of her engagement to some other dude public on facebook by my sister... who called me at the crack of dawn...
@sadisticwolf2722
@sadisticwolf2722 5 жыл бұрын
This is why im a Sadist, I have no empathy for human life and / or sympathy for them The slits on my arm feel better than feeling for a human ... I need help..lol
@Ambipie
@Ambipie 3 жыл бұрын
you're not a sadist you're a kid who cuts
@shinko6342
@shinko6342 5 жыл бұрын
The day I had my gallbladder removed he decided to get married to some redhead and post all the photos on facebook.
@highschoollegend9769
@highschoollegend9769 5 жыл бұрын
How are we doing gentlemen
@ekiller5689
@ekiller5689 4 жыл бұрын
Painful
@Butterscotchbreadcrumbs345
@Butterscotchbreadcrumbs345 3 жыл бұрын
Any ideas on an art project I can do with the shit my ex gave me? I wanna get rid of it and was thinking of burning it, but now I think I want to ruin it with art first.
@Synthetic113
@Synthetic113 5 жыл бұрын
6:55 What does SO stand for? I fell like it's obvious
@XG_Winchest3r
@XG_Winchest3r 5 жыл бұрын
Legocat studios significant other.
@daleautomotiveandvlogs7217
@daleautomotiveandvlogs7217 4 жыл бұрын
Dated this girl for about 1 to 2 years really loved her bought her anything she ever asked for paid her phone bill and hung out with her family almost all the time made a mistake in the past of swatting at her and accidentally Landing a blow felt guilty about it made a lot of mistakes about calling her names in the past feel guilty about it lost my self-confidence she ends up leaving me and I feel sad so I start acting needy and clingy she just blocked me two days ago have been through this before with her we came back stronger considering counseling for myself and possible relationship counseling if we get back together *update therapy for myself was needed got suicidal and deppressed but I'm moving on for good she unblocked me but did not message me I messaged her and she told me how much she hated me and hoped that I would have died I'm not dealing with that anymore in my life I blocked her and return and don't plan on unblocking her
@droptini
@droptini 5 жыл бұрын
Her house burnt down and she left didnt tell me anything
@jaden2014
@jaden2014 5 жыл бұрын
DropGun713 damn man
@9f4
@9f4 5 жыл бұрын
We love two sentence bs texts
@cliffpadilla5871
@cliffpadilla5871 2 жыл бұрын
I was dumped by text message.
@Vessecora
@Vessecora 5 жыл бұрын
16:31 Sounds like they were getting close to developing Munchhausen's!
@captainmarmot2692
@captainmarmot2692 5 жыл бұрын
hi
@brownjordan0523
@brownjordan0523 4 жыл бұрын
Hooked up with my ex best friend, dumped me afterwards.
@horsewithnoname2042
@horsewithnoname2042 4 жыл бұрын
Lol if it was ur "friend" u were never dating them anyway
@MrShang-rb3zy
@MrShang-rb3zy 3 жыл бұрын
Notice how it's almost 90% women?
@NGMonocrom
@NGMonocrom 5 жыл бұрын
Check another video.... or don't.
@seanmederos1
@seanmederos1 5 жыл бұрын
So yea, women don't view men as human........
@heidi8164
@heidi8164 5 жыл бұрын
I just realized I’m early
@kaylamc7656
@kaylamc7656 5 жыл бұрын
So not really this but sort of was with this lad last year for a couple of months then I find out he had another girlfriend. Finding out this I obviously go to break up with him but haha the girlfriend pops out of nowhere realises he is cheating on her goes full psycopath an then mentally unstable. I am shitting at this point. Me an the lad then do the one thing with can think of an phone her mum. After she has gone home obviously upset I had to then awkwardly break up with him. Not the best timing. Tbh everything sort of worked out ok he definitely got out from that crazy bitch an ye
@lowrodents3306
@lowrodents3306 5 жыл бұрын
he dumped me over text while I was asleep lol
@cutecutiekittens3609
@cutecutiekittens3609 5 жыл бұрын
oop
@UglyBarnical58
@UglyBarnical58 11 ай бұрын
We have been dating for a year and have known each other since high school. She was my first relationship, and she had been in other relationships before we started dating. Apparently, most of them were not good to her and left her without a word. Anyway, on my birthday, she decided to ask me out, I had a crush on her for a while, but I didn't push it because I felt like I wasn't ready for a relationship. But she told me that she had a crush on me for a good while now. So, we started dating, and we were pretty much happy. However, I began to realize I wasn't happy at the city, so I left and moved back to my moms (while she went to college). However, I told her that I still loved her, and I didn't want this to ruin our relationship. She agreed, so we because long distance. We were long distant for a few months and called almost every day, and I went to see her around my birthday again (since it was our first anniversary) A month later, she told me she found a roommate for her college, and she's practically excited for her school life. I was indeed happy for her. Her roommate was apparently dating some guy, and I didn't really think anything of it. Then, a few weeks later, spring break was coming, and I was gonna visit my mom. She then calls me excited, saying that her roommate will drive her to my location since we can be together during spring break. But, I told her that I was visiting my mother and she wouldn't be able to. She then gets upset but understands. However, she then told me she felt disappointed in me and told me some weird things. Practically saying a bunch of stuff that made me begin to cry. Now confused, I asked her, "Are we breaking up?" And she said 'yes, it seems so' and told me she was sorry and we will always be friends. She told me not to block her, and she hanged up. I sit on my bed, confused, upset, angry. I tell my dad, and he gives me a hug and drives me to my moms. I was practically quiet during the whole car trip, not saying a word. Listen to Lil Nas X and heartbreak anniversary. A week after spring break, I came back to my dads and decided to check Twitter. I then found a comment from her replying to some comic where she said, "me and my GF." I then began to realize something... I put all the pieces together... she was cheating on me. I was angry, heartbroken, upset, depressed and alone all over again. It was practically for nothing. I eventually got over it (maybe like a year later), and she's been trying to get into contact with me again. Saying that she was sorry for what she did and her roommate wasn't nice to her and she shouldn't have left me for her. Practically confirming that she was cheating on me. I refused to talk to her, and she still continued to text me. Months went by, and I guess she got the hint and no longer texted me. My lesson from this experience? Dating sucks...
@mustang4118
@mustang4118 5 жыл бұрын
So a girl that I dated didn’t tell me that we broke up, her friend told me and she dated this guy that she liked while we dated and she dated him after
@aaronguenther3577
@aaronguenther3577 5 жыл бұрын
I cant drive so we should break up thays it me .....😐wtf
@TheOriginalPoopBalls
@TheOriginalPoopBalls 5 жыл бұрын
Check another video... Or don't
@chrisvisconsi2921
@chrisvisconsi2921 5 жыл бұрын
I’m sorry this video is too hard for me to watch :(
@zxqu2622
@zxqu2622 5 жыл бұрын
when you do sad videos don’t use this voice & music
@luigispaghetti8769
@luigispaghetti8769 5 жыл бұрын
FIRST!!!!
@droppedinbase5777
@droppedinbase5777 5 жыл бұрын
Speaking of relationships, their's a girl who seems into me and I seem into her, but I don't know what to say or how to explain my love, can someone help me?
@Leetgrain
@Leetgrain 5 жыл бұрын
"Hey, do you maybe want to go on a date some time?"
@zionishereee
@zionishereee 5 жыл бұрын
@@Leetgrain 👍
@droppedinbase5777
@droppedinbase5777 5 жыл бұрын
@@Leetgrain Thank you for the quick response,but for some reason I want to say more and even though I'm one the "cool kids" I'm not as publicly motivated like I will try this method tho, thank you!
@droppedinbase5777
@droppedinbase5777 5 жыл бұрын
@@Leetgrain Nvm, didn't work I couldn't say it today, it just feels so. *AWKWARD* and I swear I never act this way around anyone. ANYONE!, Any tips?
@droppedinbase5777
@droppedinbase5777 5 жыл бұрын
@@Leetgrain *claps* I got very tired of waiting so. Well let's just say I'm going to the movie on Sunday :D THANK YOU.
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