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@roespo34724 жыл бұрын
You crack me up. Keeping it real with no sugar coating
@dp28494 жыл бұрын
I’ve heard being scarce is the key. But the way you put it makes more sense and doable. Say “shit” “fuck”, whatever, more often. Your talk is real.
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@deefields65374 жыл бұрын
🙋🏽♀️queen here 😁
@su-enaahleebeautifulcontra36174 жыл бұрын
If you chase a butterfly it'll fly away if you sit in patience, the butterfly will come to you
@SR777364 жыл бұрын
Facts!
@priscillapie4 жыл бұрын
🦋
@michelles70604 жыл бұрын
🤯
@laurenslife58114 жыл бұрын
❤️
@Tluv_19554 жыл бұрын
Love that soo true !!!!
@Gauri_shreya4 жыл бұрын
"Your absence and your silence has more power than your actions and your words" ❤️
@brownsugarglamour4 жыл бұрын
This doesn’t even have to be for a significant other, it can be for anyone that is neglecting you ... lowkey the no-contact rule at its finest!!
@MindfulAttraction2.04 жыл бұрын
💯
@soujannyaroy40634 жыл бұрын
This isn't true, bcoz ik someone did the no contact thing with me lately..and I'm really glad..I love it that I no longer have to talk to them
@Jd5657-j1g4 жыл бұрын
For real this is fuck up what are teaching these women
@Meyouletsgo3 жыл бұрын
But again only works if someone is interested in you !
@Scorpio373 жыл бұрын
@@Jd5657-j1g he teaches us how the game is played and not to be stupid.
@Gauri_shreya4 жыл бұрын
"Your absence and unavailability will do all the dirty work for you ladies" ❤️
@beautifultoxiclady6983 жыл бұрын
Absence, slow motion , disinterest on and off , self care, confidence, will make them chase you men are burn to chase... MEN will chase but make sure your confident and don’t cave in after one try. Even if your married don’t make him think your fully his.
@larisabellydance24924 жыл бұрын
So basically be a cat ... maintain aloof , detached preoccupation with your own life Lock up your emotions and get back some self respect ....🤷🏻♀️
@kennedyl77334 жыл бұрын
This stuff works people. My relationship dynamics have shifted a full 180. I like myself so much more because of this advice. I strategically distance myself (be less attentive to my mans calls, texts etc) once a month and I notice how much deeper he appreciates me the weeks to follow. Ladies, dedicate one videos of this guy a day until you’re caught up. Take notes while watching and practice in day to day life. You will notice yourself shifting in the best way subconsciously!
@Tluv_19554 жыл бұрын
Omg ur silence and ur absence is more powerful then ur words and actions powerful I needed this I’m ignoring his ass this gave me strength thanks Alex !!!!!
@MindfulAttraction2.04 жыл бұрын
👍
@maritzag45024 жыл бұрын
Lol yes girl!!🙌💪
@Mymy__Butterfly224 жыл бұрын
I'm starting to become unavailable to a lot of people...guys in particular because they undervalue me and expect me to always be there.
@MegaLadylove20124 жыл бұрын
I get it but why think like that hun? Nobody is capable of undervaluing you. It’s impossible. All they can do is project their insecurities onto you
@nikkibreezy60584 жыл бұрын
I went silence and cut him all the way off...we was fwb and he had been playing myself and finally realized i was better then that situationsghip because something happened that was a dealbreaker for me...he came looking for me shortly after but i still blew him off no contact...even though i still luv and lust for him i just dont see him the same anymore and i feel like he does not deserve me and what i bring to the table
@lilamhk72654 жыл бұрын
How long did he wait till he contacted you again?
@kaneejehp64504 жыл бұрын
Yes same but thy i had we him and bang tables were turned again 😰
@theanxiousgirlpodcastbycec98814 жыл бұрын
nikki breezy I did the same thing and now I’m engaged (not to him) and I’m glad I did it.
@nikkibreezy60584 жыл бұрын
@@theanxiousgirlpodcastbycec9881 congratlations sis!!! Hope mine king is coming soon
@kaneejehp64504 жыл бұрын
Same after so much drama and heartbreak who wants thm back but i miss and cry but dont want back
@MegaLadylove20124 жыл бұрын
This strategy works great when you’re seeing multiple ppl or have a busy life
@MegaLadylove20124 жыл бұрын
Maria Khaled Oh yes I’m familiar with SheraSeven. I rec her for every gal on her leveled up journey
@kerstitekko99584 жыл бұрын
Seems like
@bae16_654 жыл бұрын
Agree
@blueblaze98622 жыл бұрын
Yup..they end up bugging the fuck out of u lol
@DamnGina024 жыл бұрын
Men are pursuers by nature; I learned to fall back & miss him on my own time. got to let the dude you fw come to you.
@trstee4 жыл бұрын
Absence & Silence? Noted. Thanks Notification gang gang 🙌🏼
@MindfulAttraction2.04 жыл бұрын
👊
@relaxingsoundsforpeaceands35093 жыл бұрын
Absense makes the heart grow fonder 💯
@triads3333 жыл бұрын
The way I talk to my man bring me the goddess vibes in me, because I speak slower and gracefully. I don't know how to explain this but it just give me power and exude my femininity.
@tre96562 жыл бұрын
Love this, I'll definitely try to do this
@thedisciplinedtrader20244 жыл бұрын
Girls, you are in fact queens and goddesses. I disagree with him on that!
@Scorpio373 жыл бұрын
I was gonna comment this. Haha im like WHAAAAT? I am a QUEEN!
@freeagent_girl234 жыл бұрын
You are a GENIUS! Thank you. I cannot believe I just found your channel. But "when the student is ready the master appears".
@Ragedodge4 жыл бұрын
Dudes be so pissed at me when I do this to them...they call me crazy...lmfao. they are all losers...I give them nothing but I'm nice when they reach out
@romansworld88914 жыл бұрын
The say people call people crazy when they cant control them...truth?
@MegaLadylove20124 жыл бұрын
I love it🤣🤣🤣🤣. I’ve learned this myself. I literally do nothing. You hear me, nothing and they whine and whine smh whatever. That guy would play you like ish if you’re nice to him
@bohacovasimona4 жыл бұрын
@@MegaLadylove2012 can confirm, absolutely
@rena1ism4 жыл бұрын
I dont watch anymore other advisers about relationships ,you are the best ...you help me and i listen it every day at least one or two you tubes..this motivation is helping me really a lot...i think we live in a crual world and all women must be wise enough not to get hurt by any men ...
@Sara.S.Alshamsi4 жыл бұрын
Absolutely true .. long story short I put my boundary first then I gave him examples and when he tested me and crossed my red lines I showed him I wasn’t joking around ... and guess what he is begging for second chance and I told him no because really I don’t like his personality ... I really saw the red flags and i ignored it
@Emi106734 жыл бұрын
This works like magic.
@MindfulAttraction2.04 жыл бұрын
✨✨✨
@Emi106734 жыл бұрын
Maria Khaled yess I watch her channel all the time too. Ty🤗❤️
@vondamiles54704 жыл бұрын
Alex don't change for the last few years your videos have helped me to understand men but increase my confidence and this works 100% I have learned to text much less and take my time. I feel so good now.
@heavenawaits80104 жыл бұрын
What happens if you're actually normal?? If you're not programmed to be ungrateful?? You end up getting used and abused, because you don't play games, and you actually expect people to be normal like you. If you want to date today, you must become toxic like everyone else. I'd rather die single.
@lilamhk72654 жыл бұрын
Same
@caren57854 жыл бұрын
I'm learning that people don't appreciate directness. I say this because I'm "normal" as you call it and don't like to play games. They like to be messed with like Alex says. I've also learned that while women are super in tune with what they want out of a man, men on the other hand don't really know what they want with you for a long time. It's a "duh" moment but that helps me put things in perspective. I am going to allow things to develop naturally and see if they are worthy of my best qualities. People are shit sometimes so why give them the best of you right off the bat. Sorry for the rant, just trying to help.
@heavenawaits80104 жыл бұрын
@@caren5785 absolutely! I had the habit of giving too much too soon. Never again!!!
@ambicalle4 жыл бұрын
Whatchu mean I’m a queen and a goddess
@sunflowers24694 жыл бұрын
🌹💖🌺yes!!!
@abigailkamara26754 жыл бұрын
Princess !!!!!!
@serginelefevre8244 жыл бұрын
Period he lost me at that part
@amiajones82724 жыл бұрын
Periodddd
@preetshahi214 жыл бұрын
My favorite part - "unless its rice and beans" lmao. I love your channel Alex.
@MindfulAttraction2.04 жыл бұрын
Thank you 😆
@mintkimono3 жыл бұрын
Why i do feel you’re training me to become a warrior.
@angelbaveghems89292 жыл бұрын
Yo this was the best Advise you ever gave it worked for me ! I used your tactics now I’m getting married soon thank you!!
@whateverrr38934 жыл бұрын
If I ever ignore a person it means you don’t matter in my life and if a guy thinks ghosting me and ignoring me would make me miss him? NAH that will make me lose interest and that happened to me with a childish dude who thinks just like you..guess what? I blocked him everywhere on social media and real life..I don’t need closure cuz I love myself and I don’t rely on no man for happiness, goodbye and good riddance!
@LaTrav084 жыл бұрын
Blocking shows way too much emotion...next time just go silent💯
@singuensful4 жыл бұрын
What Everrr i did exactly the same with an ex. He went silent on me for 2 months. I didn’t reached out to him, i said nothing i woke up one day and unfriended him, blocked him everywhere. I didn’t even liked him and i already told him i want to break up but he did everything to come back only to start acting like a fool again. These men 🤦🏽♀️
@DallasJayCook3 жыл бұрын
Blocking.. nah. That’s too much bitterness. Just master the art of idgaf and you’re good.
@jeanetteedwards31294 жыл бұрын
Watching u has changed my life! Everything u day is based on pure human nature! Everything works!!
@josephobeghe80484 жыл бұрын
This doesn't work for every guy,if the guy pulls away and she does,they end up not communicating thereby leading to distance,things like this is why people are not happy in relationships anymore
@Jd5657-j1g4 жыл бұрын
If two like each other way play mind games. The problem with women now they want be the masculine force in a relationship and that's way relationship are failing a woman should be feminine an submissive. This guy should not be tell woman this
@josephobeghe80484 жыл бұрын
@@Jd5657-j1g totally agree
@shakyfrazer81273 жыл бұрын
If the guy is truly interested he will break the pulling away
@sofeeak86044 жыл бұрын
Everything you have said is so on point! I totally agree it does work. Leave them alone..... and they allllll come back!
@Jenny-sr1dh4 жыл бұрын
"Less is more" lol this shit is so true
@libertybell95944 жыл бұрын
A guy I used to date would get so pissed when I went silent. First thing he would do was to try to make me jealous with other women. He would go into punisher mode. He wanted nonstop attention. Very exhausting. I'm the type of girl that likes to have my space. I felt so suffocated with his neediness. I finally determined that he was a narcissist. So this tactic of staying silent and absent may I only work on regular guys.
@moons43634 жыл бұрын
Me too
@sujotaveras60554 жыл бұрын
You create balance in the love game. Many sweet people need you.
@michellebaca10244 жыл бұрын
You never do or give advise to hurt anyone why dies youtube care? You have shown me my mistakes in my relationship where I was letting a player play me and I had no self respect. You are doing great work
@brujalinda4 жыл бұрын
I love this video! I believe Ive learned everything in this video I woke up this morning saying to myself I have to be whiling to lose him if I have feelings for him I guess is time to grow and let it be.
@MindfulAttraction2.04 жыл бұрын
Yes!
@Madehello4 жыл бұрын
“Unless it’s rice and beans” 🤦🏾♀️🤣🤣
@Rachelann74 жыл бұрын
You give some of the best advice when it comes to dating and men
@MindfulAttraction2.04 жыл бұрын
Thanks!
@successsnacks70954 жыл бұрын
Never ashamed!!!!! Will suggest!! You are yourself. That’s why I love your channel
@thecapricorn54163 жыл бұрын
I don't mention you to friends not because im ashamed but ONLY bcz i don't wanna them to have this holy precious advices im taking from you 🥰🥰🥰🤩🤩🤩
@itsHappening-ry2ef3 жыл бұрын
Women are Goddesses ❤️❤️ when you learn this every will work in your favor 👀👀🎉🎉
@mewomeoww59914 жыл бұрын
Your silence and absence have mote power wooowww
@b3ll3edits2 жыл бұрын
I'm ur fan in Tiktok and went through here to look for you🤣🤣
@vondamone94024 жыл бұрын
Everything you say makes so much sense.....thanks for helping me feel better with understanding hot and cold men.
@tfujyghkhgfcjvhkbjn11014 жыл бұрын
“create pain and distance blahblahblah” summarized your video without watching it. jk lmfaooooooooo
@Sneha-rc6hh4 жыл бұрын
But that's the damn "point"
@tfujyghkhgfcjvhkbjn11014 жыл бұрын
But that's the damn "point"
@fashionbabytumbler03 жыл бұрын
But that’s the damn “point”
@generationalcursebreaker53973 жыл бұрын
Lmao
@Ggirl4164 жыл бұрын
Lmfaooo this guy is hilarious but so correct!😂
@MindfulAttraction2.04 жыл бұрын
🤷
@misstimzy3 жыл бұрын
Aww we got the same name 😌🥰
@aks83984 жыл бұрын
I enjoy your sense of humor so much 😅
@New-mg4zp4 жыл бұрын
Alex we have been apart our whole lives is that enough absence ?🤣😍
@ArtsyMegz_On_Etsy3 жыл бұрын
This is what I have resorted to now, because I am walking away from him; I am totally done trying!
@TheAttractionTriggers Жыл бұрын
*I recently came across this enlightening video and it had some truly valuable advice. Can't wait to implement these principles!*
@godseed794 жыл бұрын
"...I could improve... I'm planning to" 😂😂😂 That killed me. You sound terribly concerned (not). Lol! Don't change a thing.
@adriaannridolfi5074 жыл бұрын
That was my favorite line ever.
@adriaannridolfi5074 жыл бұрын
And the way he said it..lol exactly😅
@vondamone94024 жыл бұрын
Alex I’m not ashamed of you in fact you helped my confidence and I watch your videos like research. I will join your club very soon. I don’t want you to tone down your content keep it real #nofilter
@linas88414 жыл бұрын
“UNLESS ITS RICE N BEANS” LMFAOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOO
@adeolaadio4 жыл бұрын
This cracked Me up to 😂😂
@sayetazonen66074 жыл бұрын
Maria Khaled I used to listen to her every single day but one day I got tired and realized all that lady teaches is to secure a bag by being with a financially stable guy. I learned about being more feminine from her though.
@Xiandoe4 жыл бұрын
I felt that part lol
@sameichang39284 жыл бұрын
dealing with a low confidence capricorn, you silent, he silent more, you back off, he dissappears XDDDD
@sameichang39284 жыл бұрын
@J thank u, he is most difficult case Ive ever met, but love conquers
@dejalikedejavu63574 жыл бұрын
jalin chen nah i'm a capricorn ,never low confidence, we just reciprocate energy, whats yo sign?
@probinsyanavlogs28354 жыл бұрын
caps are stubborn🤣 u can do this magic to all the signs but not to capricorns with the horns😆
@dejalikedejavu63574 жыл бұрын
rosy cheeks lmao frfr
@luxury.worldtraveler4 жыл бұрын
I’m Capricorn lol
@kklo15604 жыл бұрын
Oh yes we are goddesses 💜 and don’t change, Dalexis, your style is YOURS and it works
@MindfulAttraction2.04 жыл бұрын
Thank you!
@M.Moadeli1234 жыл бұрын
Uhhh what if we desire strong intense connections, or full time companionship? We can never have it if as soon as things start going well we pull away. It's like self sabotaging and getting in the way of what you desire.
@nessava49654 жыл бұрын
You are the younger brother I wish I had. You’re great! Real.
@sophie1909912 жыл бұрын
Watching this makes me realise that I am naturally like this or toxic 😂😂😂 Now that he is doing the same thing with me. I am hurting 😂😂😂
@dianasheilawambui2 жыл бұрын
I have used it and it works very well
@PAPILIO-M Жыл бұрын
I am a cappy woman so for me when you decide to not talk to me or acting indifferent. I will never chase you .disconnection is very bad decision ! I hate mind games
@gurll-fn4ul2 жыл бұрын
Wisest man on earth.
@chrissyfrancis29853 жыл бұрын
I come here just for your commentary alone 😂😂❤️❤️❤️😂😂😂
@rexitapatricia.93414 жыл бұрын
The lockdown due to coronavirus is making him miss me more n more as we stay apart... 🙂 job done..
@mewomeoww59914 жыл бұрын
You look like u got ur life together I’m so happy for u💖💖💖
@apriltopaz63122 жыл бұрын
I'm binge watching your channel and I am ready to grow from your advice 🙂
@diamondgoddess59144 жыл бұрын
You are truly living in your purpose, thank you so much Alex ♥️
@notfoundry4 жыл бұрын
U always keep it real. Keep it coming Alex I love u from philly
@latoyathornton18712 жыл бұрын
We are not ashamed of you Alex.🤣🤣
@ascendedi62024 жыл бұрын
it's all game and shit until you found someone for you and you will know that this messed up shit will not work, you can just be yourself
@tnbtnb33694 жыл бұрын
This doesnt work on guys who use the same tricks or seeing a bunch of women. These tricks only work for men who are desperate and are not seeing any other women.
@chermayo21902 жыл бұрын
I recommend you to my niece today. Cause you have advice that works
@GlamorousFashionx4 жыл бұрын
Um yes we are queens and goddesses 💁🏻♀️ #affirmIt
@zubieM4 жыл бұрын
Get ready to grow or you’re about to be destroyed by those emotions!
@aahmonddelite6904 жыл бұрын
😲😮😂
@aahmonddelite6904 жыл бұрын
😮😯😂 Would like to know more about the destroying of emotions part and how its done?
@aahmonddelite6904 жыл бұрын
😯😮😂
@ivonnegaxiola74593 жыл бұрын
No you are perfect .. don’t change anything !.
@Tluv_19554 жыл бұрын
Best relationship advice on KZbin ur the best Alex !
@maria86034 жыл бұрын
obsessed with your videos 👏🏽
@AtiLin2 жыл бұрын
I really love your videos and all the info that you bring up. I keep listening to the old ones like a maniac
@wisstips38814 жыл бұрын
Hahahahaha when he said you get it ? Are you sure i was shaking my head 😂😂
@fatenumberinfinity4 жыл бұрын
LMFAO “it’s not to manipulate him IT’S TO DO HIM A FUCKIN FAVOR” 🤣👏
@QuaesitorVeritatis4 жыл бұрын
Did you just say I’m not a queen? I’m appalled haha
@thecapricorn54163 жыл бұрын
The ""OMG MELISSA U look so HOT "" THING killin mee already 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣luv u dude 💯❤
@Lexi-u5y5i Жыл бұрын
Father Alex here saving us women ❤😂
@gothangel684 жыл бұрын
Works ..ur advice is legit. Pulled back n now it's getting better even tho I wanna double text. I take a break now n he text. They do get overwhelmed by us
@delishaenvy25644 жыл бұрын
Oh boyyy did this video come at the right time. Jesus, i was about to step into white girl excited but imma have to hol back shiiid thanks alex 🖤
@alliegirl69002 жыл бұрын
Out of all the dating coaches you are by far my favorite... rock on
@TheAliiiinaaa4 жыл бұрын
I like this channel a lot, is one of the best.
@AaronTheA4 жыл бұрын
One day we will realize that during this period there were a lot of Cluster B Narcissists and Sociopaths that were giving dating advice that actually push people apart. I've seen Cluster B's give deliberate bad advice to end relationships, put of course in a very concerned and helpful way. Getting a guy obsessed with you is a really really bad idea. Men cannot handle those emotions. It turns into stalking and violence. Pushing and pulling is a Narcissist and Sociopath tactic because they have a malevolent attitude towards people. So actually when you are absent or unavailable, it makes someone think you don't like them. You remember that right? Before this PUA manipulation started. It's the same advice on men's channels by the way!
@desireeserenajackson4 жыл бұрын
Doesnt the person has to care for u first, before your absence matters?
@dg-qn5mi4 жыл бұрын
You honestly changed my whole outlook = life 😭👌
@Dounaadoun242 жыл бұрын
I discovered u Alex and im glad i diid 🥺
@rockangel47724 жыл бұрын
So I pulled away and he said I hope you don’t stop talking to me. I said, It all depends on you.i feel the distance, is there anything I should know?
@Loveok-ok8vz4 жыл бұрын
rock angel you should have just replied lol. Don’t explain anything.
@Mmmulaaan4 жыл бұрын
Right lol did too much
@mamz48344 жыл бұрын
Can you make a video on how to practice talking less and being more elusive ? Like with examples
@lauralusk62924 жыл бұрын
Alex!!!.... Your Vibes are Magnetic 🧲 I’m loving all the Lessons ❤️ What sign are you ? Curious . Im into Astrology
@indrakhichoudhury59624 жыл бұрын
I just love your channel coz the things you say is just so real! And it works like wonders.
@laurenslife58114 жыл бұрын
You really do keep it real!! thanks so much for this.
@MindfulAttraction2.04 жыл бұрын
You're welcome!
@AshlyRa4 жыл бұрын
Would love to buy your courses but now m studying so cannot.. will for sure buy the course it will take time but I will.
@Mri2k54 жыл бұрын
U look like the Dominican weeknd
@mikacastillo77934 жыл бұрын
Lmao he do 😂😂😂😂
@LadyAbstract4 жыл бұрын
You gotta appreciate us freeloaders too man
@MindfulAttraction2.04 жыл бұрын
I LOVE EM TOO!! 😭
@Lolamola3334 жыл бұрын
Man we looooooove this chanel and we watch you from our one and only account ..❤️