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At first I didn't see much in Harry Styles. I thought that maybe this former One Direction star was just a studly dude with not much in the personality realm. But as I kept watching, I noticed how strong his eye contact was with everyone he talked to. He has a piercing, intimidating look-but it still is filled with love. That's the balance I'm always talking about when it comes to charm. Assertive + Lovely = Harry. If you haven't already, go check out his interview with Zane Lowe, and watch how calm and focused he is. Until then, see you for my next video!
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[@alicelily550]

“every girl on earth is in love with him” I’m sorry but the love for harry is not restrictable to only one gender and only one planet

[@AnthonyRecenello]

Lolz

[@oliviajrh390]

Bruh

[@kc7159]

As a male I can confirm this message

[@AnthonyRecenello]

@@kc7159 LOLZ

[@nalaa9618]

Ufff you just had to destroy it...

[@hannalexahathway1688]

the dangerous thing about harry is that his look is just a bonus. he's a really good person at his core. you can strip everything away from him, and even if everything else goes away he’s still a good person.

[@rxd_tulips8269]

hannalexa hathway that’s so true. It’s not just his looks

[@slowedfreak2775]

Fan girl fs 😂

[@rxd_tulips8269]

Mario Gomez so what if I’m a fan? You got a problem

[@mylifeismypfp8722]

I’ll strip everything off of him yk 😉😌

[@azaka3720]

He actually is the nicest human being ever. For eg- leonardo di caprio, was very handsome at a young age, but he was not the nicest. and now that he is old , and lost his good looks, girls do not prefer him much. Thats not true for harry because his personality and what he actually is, outshines everything else..

[@barbaral2474]

Basically: treat people with kindness

[@AnthonyRecenello]

Yes! Some people have trouble knowing how to do such simple things. Which is why I like to break down the reasoning 😁

[@jade2982]

Fine line

[@4Pyuh]

"Maybe we can..."

[@ziau.s9283]

@@4Pyuh find a PLAAACE to feel good!

[@mylifeismypfp8722]

TPWK

[@sandyrose4189]

His deep sleepy voice with a British accent does help a lot

[@AnthonyRecenello]

Yup. But what about for brits?

[@fightfannerd2078]

yes it does

[@lulucottontails]

@@AnthonyRecenello I was shocked when I first heard him speak, he does sound a bit sleepy & not at all like the Londoner I am. A bit "country", in the sweetest possible way. I was not used to the Cheshire accent. But I would not want him to speak in any other way now.

[@trusttrust8472]

Women fall in love listening, men fall in love looking. I am a woman and a sucker for a great voice = Morgan Freeman. Older, but what the heck. To fall a sleep and wake up listening to..yummy

[@annabaerg3776]

@@AnthonyRecenello I think even without the accent, his voice and just the way that he speaks in general is quite unique.

[@kaceyabbott2576]

It kills me how much people stereotype Harry styles as the typical heartthrob which he is but people appreciate his ability to attract people with his honesty and realism

[@AnthonyRecenello]

Yes exactly!

[@gardengear1921]

exactly !!!

[@kaceyabbott2576]

Anthony Recenello thank you I get bullied for admiring Harry styles so much

[@gardengear1921]

Kacey Abbott omg i know how u feel!!!

[@kaceyabbott2576]

Garden Gear its so annoying !! Also are u going to see Harry next year ??

[@Kat-xq6nu]

“every girl is in love with him” yes but not the way everyone thinks we do .

[@AnthonyRecenello]

Can u explain the way you do?

[@Kat-xq6nu]

My opinion : Yes we love him . I’ve been a fan myself in the early 1D days. People that don’t know much about him and his fans , they see a bunch of “girls” that think he’s hot af and we wish to be in a “relationship with him” . It isn’t true , well for majority of us I’m guessing . Not every fan of his are girls . Yes whenever you see Harry with fans most are girls , but there many different fans that aren’t just girls . We honestly just support him as an artist and for being such a different artist than others. He spread out positivity , supports us back and do things in such a special way that not many other artists do . Honestly go check on Twitter yourself . Some of us are gay/straight/bi and most of us came out because of Harry . What I’m really saying is that people stereotype us fans when really we’re more than that . I hope I made sense . There’s more I’d like to say but I don’t want to mess up with my sayings cause I honestly can’t think straight lol

[@Kat-xq6nu]

Anthony Recenello we love him for all the work he put for into us, for everything he has done .

[@hellojoyzz9618]

We love him the way we love family and friends it’s like someone you just care deeply about even if you don’t know them at all . But there is just something about him that makes us feel comfortable with ourselves and happy (:

[@stylesolivia7691]

I love him because he's such a beautiful soul and skin. He has every thing I'm looking for in a human being. O I'm definitely attracted to and sooooo obsessed with him but never dreamed of being in a romantic relationship with him. I wanna be him. I wanna be that good.

[@miranda0298]

he’s a true gem. i don’t think ive seen a celebrity more charming than him

[@AnthonyRecenello]

Yeah he’s pretty darn great lolz

[@miranda0298]

Anthony Recenello he sure is!

[@cynthiatenney1597]

I agree totally!

[@tropicalcandyland6266]

SAAME

[@LaLabutterfly]

Brad Pitt, Leonardo Dicaprio, James Dean, Marilyn Monroe

[@bonnie3232]

His mother taught him wonderful morals and values. He is very authentic. And yes, he is very present.

[@chelseajanele]

Exactly.

[@nimthara4542]

I don't think she actively tried teaching him anything. It's like Harry said. He learnt from watching her. She didn't try to teach, she was just a very good person and her child learnt from watching her.

[@alicelily550]

moral of this video: be a harry styles, not a scarface

[@AnthonyRecenello]

Lol hahaha

[@assenavnang3166]

Omg lmao

[@ryanx3584]

Nah, just be u.

[@fae2559]

That quiet confidence is so damn attractive. I think we all who aren’t confident like that are so drawn to people who are confident because they just scream peacefulness, and it’s also the fact that they are comfortable with who they are, and isn’t that something we all want to feel.

[@AnthonyRecenello]

Agreed

[@kaushy]

That is something I've noticed in aquarius men

[@cakepudding3220]

I’m a women and my therapist told me I have a quiet confidence

[@kaushy]

@@omokok1877 no

[@jovanagmijovic4953]

his kindness radiates way more than his beauty.

[@annikastevens7735]

Another thing is like he is so confident in expressing himself in his music. He said in his doc that he didn't care about following the trends and he wanted to do it his way and tell the truth to his fans and the world. He was also open about how writing his first album was very therapeutic.

[@AnthonyRecenello]

Yes that’s so true

[@karlas_vibe]

Could you tell me please which doc are you talking about?)

[@sydneycrutch8932]

@@karlas_vibe His behind the album documentary. It's only on apple music.

[@clusterhug8918]

Your name though! I love it

[@karlas_vibe]

Sydney Crutchfield ohh I’ve found it thanks)

[@AS-ke6co]

This is hands down , the best comment section ever. There's so much love. Harry truly needs to read this. I hope he does.

[@ashleythebest.]

Ancient Aspirer I felt the same as I commented lol 🌸 I love this love people are capable of having

[@tropicalcandyland6266]

Ancient Aspirer honestly ♥️

[@Champ1988]

He has the brooding quality of a Johnny Depp or Rob Pattinson. But with better control of his body. He's expressive in his mannerisms and has a lighter, more approachable energy to him. Yet he's still masculine. It's hard to explain. But he has extroverted elements to his otherwise unassuming demeanor.

[@Chrisopsful]

Champ1988 I think he is very in the mood to express himself fully. Without hising something. He tries to be as real as it is possible.

[@AnthonyRecenello]

Great stuff guys. As always, charm is a balance of two opposites. It’s clear that Harry is both feminine and masculine at the same time.

[@Therealsoso10]

It’s the libra rising ♎️

[@AnthonyRecenello]

Btw you reminded me that he is a master of Grace. Which is one of the nine traits of a charmer.

[@lauralunaazul]

Yes.

[@AS-ke6co]

That's the thing even if he gets old , loses his hair and shiny skin , I'll keep on loving him. He's truly someone i look up to. He makes me want to be better and make this world better. He gives me hope in humanity. He's sunlight . Warm and bright , caressing every soul he touches .

[@AnthonyRecenello]

Awwwwwww

[@Aangaang77]

❤ same

[@marianardzs1639]

Ancient Aspirer this actually made me cry i totally relate

[@arinarahman3758]

me too

[@Ninaofthe90s]

I have severe social anxiety disorder since early childhood...so basically I don't have any confidence to speak of. Harry is like...one of those people I'm completely in awe of. I'm so in love with his confidence. It's probably the most attractive part of him. Which is really saying something.

[@AnthonyRecenello]

Yes definitely. I’m so glad he is there to inspire you.

[@user-dc7zw]

i think the most attractive thing about him is his ability to be kind to people no matter what. you’ll never find this guy being rude. he’s just genuinely humble.

[@krg5754]

Ninaofthe90s hell yeah!

[@spangol87]

Emilia Clarke is similar for the females, and humans in general. Impossible to teach this eh!

[@AnthonyRecenello]

It’s possible to teach. Yes Emilia is ridiculously charming

[@conniek1039]

I aspire to be a mum like Anne

[@TheDucktowel]

Nicki K she raised a great son!

[@stylesolivia7691]

She needs to write a parenting book, starting now. And I'll definitely buy it.

[@conniek1039]

Styles Olivia YES!!

[@vittanirmala]

me toooo😍😍🥺

[@whyisgamora4191]

Imagine raising such a kind person.. Would be like completing a life goal, for sure.

[@avrysdrawings8125]

Harry finally getting the clout for being an absolutely amazing and kind human is LONG OVERDUE

[@AnthonyRecenello]

Totes mcgotes

[@brookeelisa3003]

I've actually always wondered why I was drawn to Harry- even from the start in One Direction. He definitely stood out, but in a quiet way if that makes sense. Now that he's solo, you can tell he's something else.

[@tropicalcandyland6266]

Saaame

[@asenpongen9203]

Oh yes!!! Since X-factor auditions. He was just something else. He always had that confidence. The King 👑. The good King ❣️

[@KrystalKalleen]

Same. I thought it was more than just "looks".

[@edgbaston149]

Same

[@xeniyafilimonova8535]

@@asenpongen9203 I agree he was calm and respectful from his first audition. Very charming with his "boo" when Lous said that he did not have enough confidence. Like wtf? Seriously? And I noticed that even then people wanted to touch him and kiss him. Such a kind charm! ❤️🐈

[@yveslover7576]

i truly can’t explain the way i love him, it’s not like the omg he’s hot, i love him type of way. i just love his whole being, his personality and his traits like a true friend type of love, even though he doesn’t know me. i dont know how to explain it, i just love him.

[@mylifeismypfp8722]

This comment 👏🏽

[@mylifeismypfp8722]

Also hello there sub user 🤭

[@ashlynnsmith369]

Every time I ever tell someone harry is my celebrity crush they say he’s not even that cute and I’m like (first off he is) it’s not all about looks just him as a person he’s just such an amazing person no one understands until they truly see him in action and realize he’s not a normal celebrity.

[@whutwhutwhut730]

periodt.

[@loux6836]

samee

[@teetertotter5787]

So proud of the man Harry has become. His mama raised him right. How many people in show business starting out at 16 end up as brilliantly as he is as an adult? It's rare.

[@joshdunham7167]

I guess it's something exclusive to English people, look at Rupert, Daniel radcliffe, Emma watson, the guy who plays malfoy, niall horan, Harry, it's like they are better parents than Americans in general.

[@lizzy4868]

Mo-lester zendaya tho but I agree

[@KrystalKalleen]

Another good example is Freddie Highmore

[@KrystalKalleen]

@@joshdunham7167 Ha! Before I read your comment I gave the example of Freddie Highmore!

[@selias-qm2nc]

harry inspires me to be a kinder person. Before I started looking more intro him I was such a cynical brat, today i am more forgiving of outers, less selfish, and i have a much more positive outlook on things. Not to be dramatic, but he changed me lmao. and this is coming from another guy

[@AnthonyRecenello]

Heck yeah Elias! I hope to see more of you on my videos. :-)

[@kaylinport7581]

You just made me fall inlove with Harry allll over again man.

[@AnthonyRecenello]

Awwww

[@tropicalcandyland6266]

Ikrrr

[@fayestardust]

Having met him and having had a conversation with him, I can confirm everything you've said. There were multiple people in the room. They were loud, they were moving about. But they may as well not have been there at all when I was talking to Harry. I think it works both ways, too. His confidence and encouragement increased my own. It was like having a conversation with a good friend. Familiar, funny, a little flirty but only meant to flatter. It was nearly five years ago, but that conversation and particularly that feeling really still linger. And I bet you that if I met him again today, he'd still remember. He's that person.

[@fayestardust]

To add to this, since KZbin keeps alerting me to my own comment... I’m in a wheelchair, right? Harry was the only person in the room who actually sat on his heels for a bit so we were eye level while talking. Now, this isn’t an uncommon thing for people to do, yet most people don’t. To me, that night, it spoke volumes.

[@KrystalKalleen]

Wow, what a lucky person you are! He seems very intellectual also. One to have long conversations about the world, universe anything to go in depth about, that is what I need.

[@KrystalKalleen]

@@fayestardust wow, he went out of his way to make you more comfortable and get at your level. That right there DOES speak volumes on his character . Where are these men??

[@fayestardust]

@@KrystalKalleen I know. I’m still single. But they must be out there somewhere, right? Maybe I’ll just meet Harry again sometime and ask him to go out on a date XD

[@Drexxaal]

Wow! That was so beautiful n pure! Thank u 4 sharing ur experience n describing it like the artist u really r! Beautiful!💋

[@sydneykinne3631]

I literally love him so much. Like yes he’s gorgeous but there’s SO many more reasons why I adore this man. He’s ridiculously kind and he’s hilarious & he’s smart and giving and sweet. Harry spends so much time at his concerts having conversations with his fans & he’s very modest. Harry respects women & is always preaching about how he doesn’t give af if you’re bi or gay or trans or straight like he deadass doesn’t care. He loves his fans regardless and wants everyone to feel comfortable and accepted when they’re around him. Harry is the type of person I strive to be everyday

[@rhiw4260]

THIS. COMMENT. RIGHT. HERE.

[@lulucottontails]

yes, and I'm glad he doesn't define his sexuality

[@Kllyec]

1000% agree! He’s also unapologetically himself with 0 arrogance and very modest and I have to say that’s amazing. Being able to say “who cares” about all these things like race and gender and sexual orientation,,,, it’s just so freeing. I strive to be like him as well

[@Hcgjbvjj35457]

THIS IS WHY EVERY GIRL LOVES HIM THIS IS THE REASON AND THIS IS WHY I LOVE HIM. T.P.W.K.

[@tropicalcandyland6266]

I want to be like him too. I am in love with him

[@laurenbray8314]

I concur. He's the sexiest guy on earth and it's not just because of his looks, his personality is really what makes him attractive. He's a good person.

[@tropicalcandyland6266]

Lauren Bray trueee

[@JiJi-yg9op]

Facts!

[@0220xiv]

Earlier today, I was watching an interview of Harry Styles. In the comment section of that video, there was one comment that went something like: "Harry looks at every single person like he's in love with them." And that resonates so strongly with what you said, about focusing your entire attention to that one person you're interacting with. It might not even be something he does consciously, but it struck me after you put it in words, and it is true. He does that every single time.

[@AnthonyRecenello]

They probably watched my video 🤪

[@gibsonowens4401]

I'm so glad you talked about this because obviously Harry is visually attractive but that's not what hooked most of his fans...it's his vibe, this feeling he radiates to people that just makes you feel good and safe and comfortable and you can tell he doesn't try to have this it just is him. He is extremely talented and attractive but the real reason Harry has our hearts is because he is so honest and real and is honestly the best thing to ever come out of the human race

[@KrystalKalleen]

Ah another thing to mention, safe and comfortable! Women need this. You don't have to be the sexiest physically looking guy. Women need a man that is confident, sincere, open , caring and someone that makes them feel safe, comfortable and loved.

[@gibsonowens4401]

@@KrystalKalleen yes! Exactly

[@lovebot2681]

it took him years to get here, eight years ago, i watched this young man crying over hate messages he got, i love him and i couldn’t be more proud of him

[@jane-annjoseph5868]

Yes. That has always stood out to me. He used to care a lot what people thought. Look at him now! That tid bit helps to inspire me.

[@Hollyhock7]

I love how he effortlessly oscillates between brooding sexy presence, and sudden cute silly behavior and wit. Like a lighthearted , free spirited sweetie.

[@i_7274]

I fell in love with him when he said something like “I’ve always wanted to be someone who didn’t care what people think...... but I just don’t think I am” and that was it,, he thinks he isn’t but he legit is , he’s so captivating to look / listen to

[@AnthonyRecenello]

Vulnerability is the most attractive thing to women.

[@i_7274]

Anthony Recenello I agree!

[@potmki6601]

@Anthony thanks for always diminishing us to animals with predictable behaviour

[@AnthonyRecenello]

Hi iop! I’m sorry you think I’m doing that. Better said, I think vulnerability is the most attractive thing to all humans. I think we’re based in love. Sure, people are attracted to other things. But I think when a person is openly showing themselves to others, there’s a purity that removes people’s ego and enables us to connect. We can put it in a ton of diff ways... I just wasn’t predicting someone would get offended by my words. I’ll try to be more clear and less mistakingly implicative. Thanks for bringing it to my attention!

[@shellieeyre8758]

I think it's fine to care what people think but only insofar as it aids your understanding if the impact our behaviour has on those around us, not in terms of trying to please everyone all the time and in the process losing sight of who we really are.

[@oleum5589]

his aura is immensely powerful. ive not seen that aura in any celebrity recently. Real Gs move in silence after all.

[@jmickeyvh]

Whatever you are, whoever you are, whether you’re his friend, an interviewer, a celebrity, a fan or someone he just met, Harry would always look you in the eye, gives you his full attention while you’re talking and just looks at you like you’re the only person in the room that it’s almost intimidating. He’s got the whole package.

[@AnthonyRecenello]

Agreed! Thanks JM

[@meyansworld2993]

Harry Styles is one of a kind.

[@soapoperagirl1]

That is truly Harry. This man is one of a kind.

[@rhondaevans9751]

We love Harry because he never labels him self as being famous and he has so much love for everyone. He's taught us all to treat people with kindness and to give love and choose love and that its ok to be whoever we want to be. Quiet frankly i wouldn't want a better Rolemodel or Idol other than Harry. I also love the fact that he loves us fans so much. I just hope he knows we love him just as much as he loves us......

[@h1775]

I know exactly where every single clip is from I-

[@AnthonyRecenello]

Lol you nerd! 🤪

[@user-dc7zw]

we’d be great friends

[@kated1544]

we've got an unhealthy obsession i think

[@oniceballelos9261]

haha same 🙋🏾‍♀️💚

[@QueenHalo]

"Harry styles should be studied" 🤤

[@AnthonyRecenello]

And he has been!

[@anyba8551]

Once you've started to watch Harry and see his real personality, you won't be able to stop loving him. What a wonderful person 🖤

[@mind-wonders]

There are so many elements that could be discussed regarding why he is so luminous. I could talk about this endlessly. In his interview on the Today show, the host Hoda told him that when he performs it's like he is making eye contact with the people in the crowd, there is a feeling of intimacy to it. And she adds that even though she has seen many artists perform on her show, she has never seen anything like that before and she can therefore understand the intensity of his fandom. So, Harry manages to carry that presence from one-on-one conversation to a room with thousands of people. That's Powerful. But if he can do it we can all do it, it just takes some practice and open heart.

[@AnthonyRecenello]

Yes you’re so right

[@user-ci7vu7eo9w]

yea practice.maybe

[@toladep]

He just exudes charisma and cool, he has that IT factor in a way a lot of male artists can only wish.

[@AnthonyRecenello]

Yuppers!

[@Angela68.]

He is another Elvis - Elvis had that IT FACTOR he had charisma and when he walked in a room everyone stopped. thats who harry reminds me of. Elvis was a really good person along with his looks and talent. Elvis was effortless. harry is effortless and beautiful.

[@hiraqure]

I don’t think it’s anything magical, it’s just being a good human and wholesome being

[@joann7401]

Hira you don’t find a lot of people like him

[@undercover_idiot]

And because being a good, wholesome human being is so rare...it seems magical.

[@salmanakber6368]

No its not that despite having everything that he has and how much he has been bullied he has remained kind.... A lot of people become aggressive and abusive when they get abused like harry but he remains kind.... Being kind is harder then being aggressive remember that!

[@KuinasBrokenNail]

The fact there isn’t an ounce of toxic masculinity in him is realllly attractive. Take notes guys 👀

[@khinthwe5659]

I hate when media makes Harry styles look like a “womanizer” He is a sweet,caring,energetic,bubbly,awesome,wise,and more person

[@tropicalcandyland6266]

Khin Thwe I feel the same way

[@agirlwhoeatscarrots2211]

hes just about the opposite of that

[@fatoumatacisse3796]

@@agirlwhoeatscarrots2211 how where is the proof

[@sumaiyahmohammad7285]

I actually cry watching this because everything is just true about him he’s the most humble man ever in this entire world and his quiet confidence is insane

[@AnthonyRecenello]

Omg it’s such insane

[@louiet711]

he has mystery to him. he’s quiet but loud and outgoing, has a sarcastic humor, an amazing amount of kindness, and most of all he’s confident. i will never understand how someone can be so perfect. his looks are a bonus and on top of all of this is extremely fun talented

[@helenmilchling368]

Just found you. Really enjoyed this. I am 61 and was blown away first by Harry's physical beauty. Then watching his performances I found myself just adoring him for being such a kind sweet man who is incredibly talented and gives all when he performs.

[@annab4815]

you come for the look, gain interest with the charm and stay for his utter morality and kindness.

[@isabellaknight]

i love this videooooo. ego isn't incredibly attractive, neither is power. i love men (or people, generally) who are comfortable being and expressing themselves. ego isn't sexy

[@LeezPgh]

That presence comes from good parenting. From someone paying enough consistent attuned attention to your children. Allowing them to be themselves and them knowing they are deeply cared for. Great video.

[@rainforrest7808]

it's funny; my crush on harry styles began when I watched him in an interview. I had known who he was/what he looked like for years, but it was his personality that made him hella attractive to me

[@nataliacortes6919]

Do one of these with Tom Holland, he’s a great example to analyse all of this.

[@AnthonyRecenello]

Haha I already did one. Here you go! Tom Holland: kzbin.info/www/bejne/qKCaYp9mdsmjZ9E

[@nataliacortes6919]

Anthony Recenello hahah didn’t noticed at first until I finished watching it lmao 😂 It’s amazing, I’m loving these videos

[@AnthonyRecenello]

Thanks Natalia you’re the best!

[@Somer-set]

he has that X factor that can not be learned.... either uve got it or not.... he is interested in you and genuine.. funny as hell intelligent and sweet... so sexy)

[@AnthonyRecenello]

So true!

[@sierrasprings1013]

I came here to learn about Harry. I left knowing so much more, with a new horizon in my life.

[@user-df2hv8mz5o]

humble, calm but wildly confident. thats on point

[@tarynisfantabulous]

Harry Styles is honestly a walking piece of art. He’s just one of the most authentic and real celebrities out there. I desire to be like him

[@AS-ke6co]

I truly hope that harry reads this comment section. He should know how much he's adored by all of us. Also I've established that harry is my second mum. Literally he's so kind , confident and loving. He deserves all the love and kindness . He's an angel.

[@mmafreakful]

Eminem has always had a goofy personality to the extreme that could be seen as overcompensating for something but people always loved his goofiness. maybe because they know he wasnt just a happy go lucky person. its like they respected him more for being goofy because of how troubling his childhood and young adult life was and didnt try to hide it but also wasnt self pittying. just incredibly vulnerable even if it was aggressive, it showed strength to be so forthcoming. something to explore with one of our biggest icons

[@AnthonyRecenello]

Interesting take on Eminem, thair.

[@acasoimporta_2729]

@@AnthonyRecenello a video about him pls :D

[@melisamongaya7462]

I like Harry because I see a liitle bit of where he came from and he didn't change He is one of a kind and true person He's not trying to be cool, he is just being himself

[@mercykachigunda9418]

Ikr...nit to he hateful but thats what i dislike about Zayn...hr tries so hard to seem cool..bashing 1d music because he wants people to think his music is cool..even how he takes pictures he TRIES TOO HARD..and it just turns me off

[@natalierose7084]

MERCY KACHIGUNDA how does he bash 1d’s music? he left the band because of issues he was having

[@flyhigh66]

His so light and gentle and really a cool guy

[@Hcgjbvjj35457]

You know what every girl love about him is not his looks and fame. It's his personality, the gentleman he is and how kind he is. T.P.W.K.

[@annabanana2526]

Im a HUGE Harry fan and yk what. He’s not even that handsome. He’s generally not someone im attracted to physically but its who he is. He sweet, charismatic, funny, confident and the list goes on. Hes 100% not ugly at all. Not even close but hes perfect

[@AnthonyRecenello]

Who do you think is more handsome than Harry?

[@nalaa9618]

@Ki l being hot and being handsome is totally different...smh

[@jk-zx8pd]

harrys literally so handsome 😭

[@farjanasiddiqueananya2914]

"Every girl in the world is in love with him" .. couldn't agree more!

[@honeylocks71]

He's an Aquarian male.

[@theycallmevitch]

LMAO YESSS all I could think of while watching this was AQUARIUS STELLIUM!!! He’s majorlyyyy Aquarius dominant

[@honeylocks71]

nova_ray That makes him damn near Perfect.

[@karyandherlyrics7859]

@nova_ray really? I thought he had a libra moon?

[@potmki6601]

I guess the only thing you can do to raise a good person is to schedule their birth. And we all can chill the f out and don't try to be better since out birth time defines who we are *eye roll*

[@moonlineslover]

He definitely radiates that.

[@jitendrayadav1122]

Sir you just put my feelings in words... I love him for same reason. What you said is so correct. His not only a love of my life, he is my idol, my inspiration, the most handsome, incredibly confident, magnificent, witty person I've ever seen in the whole wide world 😌💓

[@lohithaavijayakumar1033]

*whether it's a person or a fish" lmao😂😂I felt that

[@AnthonyRecenello]

Hahaha that one is for the REAL fans

[@judithfranca4692]

Anthony Recenello OMG . You’re amazing ! 💚💙

[@thsigfrjgt1510]

I think what is incredibly attractive about Harry is his willingness to be vulnerable. He trusts the people who love him and gives himself to them. He makes them feel special and they in turn feel so protective and loving toward him. There is a climate of safety and complete trust between him and those of us who love and appreciate him

[@mind-wonders]

Beautiful video. I adore Harry and only discovered him a couple of months ago. Since then I've plunged into him music, shows and interviews and can't stop. I dare say that even his outward beauty is a direct consequence of his attitude and presence. I look at him and want to be like that. He inspires me to become my best self.

[@AnthonyRecenello]

Agreed!

[@DianaCZ1]

When my bestfriend asks me why i'm so into Harry (obsessed is his word tho) i really don't know how to explain it to him. It's everything, his creativity, his way of carrying himself, his way to speak, his manners, obviously his looks, his music, it's just EVERYTHING. I might be blindsided but he seems like he is a confident dude who does whatever he wants, is polite, funny and sexy af. I love him so much and thank jesus for Anne and Des and also Gemma for supporting him every step of the way.

[@lulucottontails]

Yes, his politeness is so attractive and effortless, what a change from most macho hip hop artists

[@esrblgn]

This is a great video but I honestly think an 8 minute video doesn't do Harry justice. Like he's confident but also humble, kind but also strong, masculine and feminine, calm and excited, open and mysterious, charismatic and sweet etc. He does so many shows and promotion but it feels like he's private. He literally is everything all at once (in an artistic way too; a singer, songwriter, actor, model, businessman!) and his great talent, good looks, cleverness and incredible sense of humor are an amazing bonus. I genuinely think he's the perfect human. He's been in the industry for nearly 10 years and we're yet to see a problematic behaviour or a person who met him and didn't love him. Mark my words, it won't be long he's considered a living legend.

[@ahmerkhan6394]

Not only girls love Harry. He's a true gem for both genders 💎❤️

[@imraatulhusniah5610]

Whether it's a person or a fish LOL

[@AnthonyRecenello]

Hahah you caught it ;-)

[@puppybooidk1832]

I read this the moment he said it

[@breatheinpoetry]

Seriously, I am constantly searching to try and get to know him but it’s just not possible. He truly says so little it’s so mysterious and drives me crazy leaves me wanting more.

[@lulucottontails]

Yes, but at the same time I am glad he keeps certain things private, like his sexuality. A bit of mystery is also very attractive.

[@potmki6601]

Do you imagine how rare nowadays are men, who first of all value such "emasculating" things as kindness and true respect for /everyone/. (I do not blame men for everything, it is dreadful how anything a man can do nowadays is either considered emasculating or is legit toxic. I'm sorry for them, but that what makes me appreciate men like Harry Styles even more.)

[@AnthonyRecenello]

iop erty yes Harry styles is going to help change men’s toxic masculinity. I know it.

[@threeuglies]

Harry Styles just seems like that one genuinely nice guy. Like no faking and masks like a lot of other celebrities. He is just a really kind person. *Thank you for coming to my ted talk*

[@AnthonyRecenello]

I agree loretta good ted talk

[@lillyd4591]

The main thing that makes him so attractive is that he is SO RESPECTFUL (and he is very very good looking and funny😏)

[@mr.dripcat1946]

The only secret that wanna know from harry is *Why he is so perfect*

[@AnthonyRecenello]

Haha!

[@naomindege4522]

Everyone basically likes him because despite being one of the most handsome men on earth he isn't vain or conceited (tho I am not saying that every attractive person is like that) he is nice and kind

[@dani.f.1264]

This has to be my favourite comment section on KZbin. No-one is focusing only on his looks...which I'm so freaking happy for. People are commenting on why they love Harry so I want to do the same...I'm a Nigerian girl, and I love Harry so much (and not in a romantic way). Where I'm from Harry's genre of music is neither popular nor common, so I can't always relate music-wise, but this fandom feels like home. Harry's values reflect on the fans and they are so welcoming and diverse. I have conversations with people from all over the world just because we discovered ourselves in a comment section. (I'm actually in a group chat rn with Indians, Californians, Australians, Germans, and so many more). Harry brings people closer. And for that I respect him so much. Never have I felt less than, or like and outcast because I'm black, which I've felt in other fandoms. I'm sorry for bringing race into this, but it's just a major reason why I love Harry. I just feel so comfortable! He's honestly like a distant uncle I've never met, but care so much about

[@dani.f.1264]

I really hope he sees this video one day, just so he can see just how much he's impacted positively on our lives

[@umamaishmal7819]

HE'S SIMPLY AN ANGEL ON THIS EARTH. HE PREFERS BEING HIMSELF RATHER THAN COPYING OTHERS. WHICH MAKES HIM SO GREAT. HE'S QUITE CONFIDENT. HE JUST TRY TO BE LOYAL AND KIND TO EVERYONE HE MEETS AND THAT'S WHAT MAKES HIM *A VERY GREAT PERSON*

[@h1775]

I see Harry Styles, I click.

[@AnthonyRecenello]

Me too!

[@lillyd4591]

His respectfulness makes him so much more attractive

[@deah6558]

He is genuine, kind and considerate. He’s very respectful and he really cares about his friends and his family. He is appreciative and grateful. It’s everything

[@hmlpilot1542]

It would be cool if you did one of these about Shia Labeouf. He's had a wild life and has had quite the Robert Downey Jr.- style of comeback with getting clean and sober. He seems like such an authentic transparent guy, and being such an autodidact he is so charming and beguiling.

[@AnthonyRecenello]

Ohhhh good one!!!

[@AnthonyRecenello]

I’m putting that one on my list.

[@isukimei4311]

I did not need this cuz hes the most precious thing in my life possible period.

[@somethingaboutblue8484]

yes, harry always has the perfect answers to any questions and even when he doesn’t want to answer a question or when he wants to avoid a question, he can always dodge it smoothly with a more interesting answer. idk if its a thing but i heard people say he’s well media trained

[@AnthonyRecenello]

He’s ridiculously well trained in social skills. It’s almost scary how comfortable he is.

[@user-dc7zw]

i mean if u see other vids of him he can be awkward (in a cute way) when ppl compliment him or show their love for him

[@ejojpeg]

I have watched so many interviews of him the past few days. His voice is just so calming and takes me out of the chaotic energy in the world. He goes so much farther than his looks. Well yes, he's very attractive but he is so respectful, patient, and kind. I'm glad he's getting the attention he deserves.

[@clojoliet]

Makes me think about what some fans have already noticed: Harry always looks people deeply in the eyes, so much most people think he's always flirty. He's not being flirty, he's just focused on the person in front of him. In the same way, he always seems to stare at people during his shows instead of looking at the crowd as a whole. He needs to focus on some people and make them feel special because he has a mind like that, one which doesn't wonder around but rather lands on some particuliar elements of the room. I've never thought of linking that with his confidence... thanks for you analysis!

[@AnthonyRecenello]

EXACTLY!!!

[@jonahlandefeld6131]

Don’t listen to this guy, don’t try to be a “harry styles”. I’m absolutely in love with harry and love everything about him but you should be yourself, there is someone you’ll find out there who loves you for you. Not just with a partner but with friends as well. Don’t practice on being confident or your ability to have “presence”. Be yourself

[@AnthonyRecenello]

Thanks Jonah! You have inspirational words.

[@Beatriz-hs8eu]

I think being like Harry is also being yourself. The most beautiful thing about Harry is the fact that he is himself and doesn't seem to care what anyone thinks.

[@jonahlandefeld6131]

@@Beatriz-hs8eu I totally agree with you

[@jonahlandefeld6131]

@@AnthonyRecenello hey i didnt mean to sound disrespectful towards you, i just didnt want people to think being like Harry Styles is the right way to be, i believe being yourself and accepting your imperfections and flaws is the best way to be. thank you though it means a lot. I liked the video great work

[@AnthonyRecenello]

@@jonahlandefeld6131 Thanks. Yes, these videos are not about mimicking celebrities. These videos are learning the way celebrities have learned to be themselves-and hopefully taking that nugget of wisdom so you can learn to also be your self. Hope to see you again!

[@katy9569]

It's hilarious Harry got to this point because he used to be so goofy and dorky.

[@user-dc7zw]

Katy Katastrophe he still is but he’s just a very private person to the public now. he said before he didn’t like that everyone knew everything about him when he was younger. he’s still the exact same person, but we don’t see it. + he’s kinda stopped using social media.

[@cadenadelreino1442]

He is authentic. People love that. Most people are fake esp celebs.

[@wcw07]

You're right about presence! The only thing though, it's not really a social skill. It's an internal skill. It shows how developed your consciousness is. You don't need any social skills if you're present in life. You're just going through everything almost effortlessly. Because, let's be honest, your ego has no power over anything. You're just a tiny cell of the universe.

[@AnthonyRecenello]

You. Are. Totally. Correct. Thanks for this great comment. I hope to see you round here more often.

[@judithfurmston3731]

One of my best friends has this knack, and another good mate of mine. They can make anyone feel calm just by being there. I'm naturally very confident and "bubbly" and I absolutely don't worry how I come over but people like me can overpower a conversation. I wish I could pull off what Harry does with ease.

[@Laura-yy8nm]

I watched that interview of Harry and it left me thinking so much about how confident he is. I was truly so amazed by his aura and now that I see your video I know it's not only my perception. Very interesting!

[@Monteritoxoxo]

Its so beutiful to heard that he cares about who is with him and that person is the most important in that moment, it means everything

[@finbala8052]

there is an extra warm depth to your videos. They give insight into true rich human existence, far beyond the simplicity of the title and topic

[@helenamaria8141]

Oh, it’s really lovely the way people like Harry. That certainly says a lot about him. I saw so many beautiful declarations of love here, of a possible and true love for Harry and if I didn't know him I would fall in love with him too. He is an open beautiful soul, a peculiar kind of artist. No words, thank you for this🌼

[@somethingaboutblue8484]

helena maria peculiar.... i see what u did there ( ͡° ͜ʖ ͡°)

[@helenamaria8141]

SOTT vibe, yesssss indeed! I was on Eroda Island!🥰

[@lulucottontails]

Yes, it says a lot that everybody who meets him loves him and has good things to say about him

[@GuessWhooou]

Zahn Malik is very attractive but not confident, almost sad really and has outburst unnecessarily. I'm like that I know why. But please make a video on how he could be confident

[@AnthonyRecenello]

Oooo that’s a good idea. Ok thanks rose!

[@hxfizax]

He has anxiety ..

[@BrightArtWorkshops]

Agreed. I think zayn is the most attractive 1D member but the one I'm the least interested in.

[@user-do4co3ff6b]

He's introverted

[@dhelacuna530]

@@user-do4co3ff6b exactly!

[@gabrielagonzalez4021]

He’s just capable of making you feel special. When I went to one of his concerts, I felt like he was only singing to me, you know what I mean? And when he started interacting with the crowd I felt like I was the only one in the room with him, but when he stopped, I realised there were thousands of people around me. That’s how special he made me feel.

[@sydneymmerc]

yes i do love harry styles, but not only for his good looks. Watching him grow up and find the confidence to express himself in every quirky and weird way he wants, watching him just live life for him, and truly Love life is so wonderful. I remember seeing 16 year old harry saying he wishes he could be “one of those people who is just confident in themselves” and seeing him now become that care free person. He is so charming and extremely kind. It’s as if he demands all the attention in a room, but you can tell he’d be just as fine without it. You can even see a huge growth in confidence from HS1 to HS2. I’m rambling but moral of the story is harry styles is one of my favourite people ever