The shortest haircut we’ve ever done

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FatheringAutism

FatheringAutism

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@fatheringautism
@fatheringautism Жыл бұрын
This was a hard day for us. (5 years ago btw) I understand the sentiment of a lot of people here but I want to share context because you really never know what others are going through. Abbie had long hair to the middle of her back but she had started chewing and ingesting her hair. We had it cut into a bob to fix that. The problem with the bob is that we could never keep it out of her face for very long so she would always have her whole face covered by her hair. We had to make a quality of life decision for her. We wanted to cry that day cutting her hair so short. I hated that her hair style was dictated by her disability. Fortunately she doesn’t chew her hair anymore and she is back to long hair again.
@llanimay
@llanimay Жыл бұрын
thank you for sharing ! though you didnt have to truly.. its interesting viewers can watch your content, praisw your parenting and trust your judgement any other time, but suddenly feel like they understand your daughter better based on the "vibes" in this quick cut clip, pretty much out of context.. It was interesting and enlightening to know the reasoning though still! she also looks gorgeous!
@tequilamariex
@tequilamariex Жыл бұрын
I hate that you all have to explain quality of life decisions to a bunch of strangers, but I do always enjoy your videos and comments. I have learned so much about autism through you all and Abbie. Your videos are always an insightful way y'all have to handle autism
@bleepbloop8449
@bleepbloop8449 Жыл бұрын
very proud of you guys for following your heart and doing what's best for her first and foremost. health and safety comes first! :)
@cmasterson
@cmasterson Жыл бұрын
Thanks for sharing. And she is looking up at the lights because she can hear it. My daughter does the same thing. She turns lights and ceiling fans off because she can hear it or the noise from the electrical circuit. It has a humming sound if you get near it and listen.
@joannaharrison7368
@joannaharrison7368 Жыл бұрын
I'm so sorry you are all enduring these challenges. Thank you for sharing the experience, because at first I Def thought she hated it but I now undetstand
@tinamoore4310
@tinamoore4310 Жыл бұрын
She wasn’t mad about the experience, just the result. I can relate!
@theduchessofschroon6111
@theduchessofschroon6111 Жыл бұрын
What a mean thing to say! And why was it necessary for you to say it? I personally think she looks cute! I don't get it 😕...
@tinamoore4310
@tinamoore4310 Жыл бұрын
@@theduchessofschroon6111 I have a seven year old non verbal autistic grandson. I’ve seen what he goes through. Slow your roll, honey.
@TheGroovies27
@TheGroovies27 Жыл бұрын
I think she was being a little shy about it, not that she didn't like her hair cut. My daughter will be all shy acting when all the attention is on her when we are around other people.
@Cope.Seethe.
@Cope.Seethe. Жыл бұрын
​@@theduchessofschroon6111 Yeah literally chill out. Youre acting like the commentor was hateful and called Abbie a mean name or something. All they said is that she didnt look as excited by the end of it and that they could relate. MOST people can relate.
@saranorris4914
@saranorris4914 Жыл бұрын
I don't think she was mad about the results I think she was just not used to seeing herself with that look but in my opinion it looked like she had a bit of a twinkle in her eye the entire time and I really think she enjoyed the whole Salon experience. Even if it isn't her favorite look, it's awesome she is trying something new. Hair grows, so no harm done.
@justmythoughtsjustmythough7202
@justmythoughtsjustmythough7202 Жыл бұрын
She liked the bob but not the Final Cut. It must be frustrating not to be able to communicate effectively.
@anthonyandersonofficial5557
@anthonyandersonofficial5557 Жыл бұрын
It is. Thank you for understanding
@kundalinee
@kundalinee Жыл бұрын
I think we need to do a better job at learning body language for those who struggle w words, words are a very limited part of our communication styles
@amycastillo1333
@amycastillo1333 Жыл бұрын
Absolutely my thoughts!
@sweethomealamanda
@sweethomealamanda Жыл бұрын
​@@laureli988 They won't they've been doing this for years unfortunately. 😢
@sophial3151
@sophial3151 Жыл бұрын
That's what I saw too.
@Time.for.tea.
@Time.for.tea. Жыл бұрын
My heart sank when I saw her disappointed reaction. She went from having joy in her eyes and looking happy to looking down with her eyes filled with sadness. Ugh.
@FALL2024CALIFORNIA
@FALL2024CALIFORNIA Жыл бұрын
I CAN'T BELIEVE MUM ALLOWED THAT.
@AammaK
@AammaK Жыл бұрын
I’m confused, where do you know that?
@AammaK
@AammaK Жыл бұрын
@@FALL2024CALIFORNIAI CAN’T BELIEVE YOU FEEL LIKE YOU CAN SAY THAT
@brittanypurpur2933
@brittanypurpur2933 Жыл бұрын
Read the pinned comment
@brittanypurpur2933
@brittanypurpur2933 Жыл бұрын
@@FALL2024CALIFORNIAread the pinned comment
@tinabarraza8635
@tinabarraza8635 Жыл бұрын
That style looks fabulous on you Abbie. Beautiful ma'am ❤
@erinmack8918
@erinmack8918 Жыл бұрын
I got the vibe she enjoyed the process but didn’t particularly like the result. She looks adorable don’t get me wrong. It’s just the vibe I got…
@kayt6612
@kayt6612 Жыл бұрын
Glad I wasn't the only one. It's a cute cut, but we've all had that haircut that uh scared us a little when we first saw ourselves LOL
@minerchick1258
@minerchick1258 Жыл бұрын
@@kayt6612 yeah it seemed like she loved the bob 😢
@andreawhite1496
@andreawhite1496 Жыл бұрын
That's what I thought too
@kimberley6166
@kimberley6166 Жыл бұрын
Same
@soniczforever5470
@soniczforever5470 Жыл бұрын
I don't get the impression it was her desicion
@muffintuffin5593
@muffintuffin5593 Жыл бұрын
I recently got my hair cut very short because of sensory issues. Maybe just a little longer than her’s. It helped me. If it was cut that short for sensory issues, I totally understand and I hope it helped a ton!
@julietteoscaralphanovember2223
@julietteoscaralphanovember2223 Жыл бұрын
Abbie was eating her hair and that could have harmed her so they made the decision to go short. She's not eating her hair now they said
@classy_info
@classy_info Жыл бұрын
Yeah they recently pinned an explanation
@renae4
@renae4 Жыл бұрын
As soon as my depression gets better I'll be doing the same.
@blondie8822
@blondie8822 Жыл бұрын
What a sweet girl. You can tell she didn’t like the cut. I can’t imagine how frustrating that can be.♥️
@Aureliathepreppy-ng4uq
@Aureliathepreppy-ng4uq Жыл бұрын
Listen it was so she didnt get ill from chewing her hair and unless you have ab autistic child then i will yake their advice over some random hater on the internet anyday
@Shakera...
@Shakera... Жыл бұрын
​@@Aureliathepreppy-ng4uq There's a difference between being a hater and stating a fact, yes it had to be short to make sure she was not ingesting it, but it doesn't change that she did not look like she liked it. Two things can be true without being twisted and misconstrued to fit another's pov
@blondie8822
@blondie8822 Жыл бұрын
@@Aureliathepreppy-ng4uq Why are you so mad? Lol I was giving my OPINION and being very serious at the same time. I said “you can tell she didn’t like the cut. I can’t imagine how frustrating that can be.” What do you disagree with? And why do I have to have an autistic child to understand? How do you know I don’t have one? It’s very simple so I don’t understand how you don’t understand this. She’s a sweet girl and very beautiful. Being autistic can be hard at times because you can’t express what you want in these types of situations. (If you’re non verbal). And I’m sure all of us hated a haircut or two when we were younger. And I absolutely agree and understand why they HAD to cut it. Jesus. It’s people like you who make me sick. I created two sentences and you took it to a whole different level. Seriously…what’s wrong with you?
@michaelamccrackin
@michaelamccrackin Жыл бұрын
For the last couple of years I have been seeing videos your family puts up of her. She is so amazing and growing up so fast. I know you said this was 5 years ago. I can only imagine what a young lady she has grown into by now. Gof bless you. Much love and always in my prayers.
@doriwilson6991
@doriwilson6991 Жыл бұрын
She did awesome. It helps when the stylist is patient too
@jenniferwhitmore4671
@jenniferwhitmore4671 Жыл бұрын
Aww she hates it 😔 she looks so sad. I hope they let it grow back, my daughter with autism loves her long hair too and was so sad the one time we cut it this short, only to make it easier for us to care for. Wasn’t fair to her and will never do again.
@audreymai2773
@audreymai2773 Жыл бұрын
That's why they wanted it short. Has nothing to do with her.
@rochelle4133
@rochelle4133 Жыл бұрын
@@audreymai2773 agreed, definitely seems like that haircut is for the parents. Not for her :/
@4lovebysara
@4lovebysara Жыл бұрын
She doesn't necessarily hate it. Getting your hair cut can be a very overestimating experience for someone with autism. We can't tell from this video why the cut was done or how Abbie feels. I think she's probably overstimulated in this video vs not liking her haircut. She may not, and maybe it was done for the parents, but we can't possibly tell from this one video, so it's best not to assume the worst of these parents who obviously care about their daughter.
@Delicate_Disaster
@Delicate_Disaster Жыл бұрын
​@4 Love, by Sara idk, when it was to chin length she looked really happy and was smiling, but as it got shorter she just wanted to look down and not see her reflection. I'm with everyone else.
@paigealsup1031
@paigealsup1031 Жыл бұрын
This!!! My thoughts exactly!
@Jodipodi55
@Jodipodi55 Жыл бұрын
She's heart broken. She's gonna love growing it back. We have all been there.
@denishapayne9245
@denishapayne9245 Жыл бұрын
Ctfuu yall are weird! Do you even watch this channel, or know why her PARENTS felt the need for this hair cut!? Smfh😒🙄
@zodiaccentral8908
@zodiaccentral8908 Жыл бұрын
I don’t think she liked the result in the end, but I think we all look in the mirror after a major haircut at times and think oh what have I done now!? 😂 what a sweet hairdresser! She’s such a lucky girl to have such a sweet family!!!! ❤
@Fillianthefilofal
@Fillianthefilofal Жыл бұрын
yeah, recently I got a haircut from shoulder length to chin length I cried for like two hours after that and then after my mom curled it I liked it it's always that first few times that you look at yourself in the mirror with your new haircut.
@zodiaccentral8908
@zodiaccentral8908 Жыл бұрын
@@Fillianthefilofal totally agree!!! I haven’t cut my hair in any major way since middle school for that reason😂😂😂. I have very curly wild hair and my mom had no idea what to do with it so she kept cutting it shorter and shorter and she would also cut the big bangs people had in the 90s. On top of all that she would brush the curls out so it was a big ball of frizz. I absolutely hated it and all the kids used to call me mushroom head. I’ve had very VERY long hair every since! 😂😂😂
@Fillianthefilofal
@Fillianthefilofal Жыл бұрын
@@zodiaccentral8908 Oh no poor mushroom head 😭💟
@zodiaccentral8908
@zodiaccentral8908 Жыл бұрын
@@Fillianthefilofal 😂😂 yeah! It’s so funny the things we remember! Gosh that was like almost 30 years ago and I still don’t like my hair short! 😂😂😂 how are you feeling with your hair cut now? Are you finally loving it or do you still want to let it grow back out?
@beanmoo
@beanmoo Жыл бұрын
Every hair cut I’ve ever gotten kmaooo
@sunshinejgb
@sunshinejgb Жыл бұрын
Abbie looks so pretty anyway her hair is cut. That child's face can light up a room.Shes lucky to have amazing parents! 💗💗💗
@gligi729
@gligi729 Жыл бұрын
Aww she’s soooo beautiful!!!
@GracePower6988
@GracePower6988 Жыл бұрын
This is amazing, I love the amount of effort y’all have went threw to get here with communication and it’s so amazing to watch her grow.
@jennygrausam2481
@jennygrausam2481 Жыл бұрын
I think video was from a few years ago. Abbie still had long hair
@lanale2437
@lanale2437 Жыл бұрын
I love how her hairdresser was so kind to abbie
@kellsiediemer872
@kellsiediemer872 Жыл бұрын
Part of her discomfort may come from the normalcy of her longer hair covering her face, it may be more of a sensory comfort or even ability to block things out by using her hair as a shield. Keep complimenting her and building up her confidence. New hair cuts are an adjustment for anyone!
@lisarice4402
@lisarice4402 Жыл бұрын
Great truth!!
@joshuacsupohdvideomaker7873
@joshuacsupohdvideomaker7873 Жыл бұрын
it's comfort and sensory for my son. He likes it on his back
@TheKatarinaGiselle
@TheKatarinaGiselle Жыл бұрын
No, it was because she put her hair in her mouth as a aenseory comfort that they cut her hair.
@joshuacsupohdvideomaker7873
@joshuacsupohdvideomaker7873 Жыл бұрын
@TheKatarinaGiselle that doesn't mean any of the other things aren't true...they even said she would have her whole face covered by hair...it's bc it's comforting
@chattycatty3336
@chattycatty3336 Жыл бұрын
​@@TheKatarinaGiselle yes, but that doesnt mean she wasnt comfortable using it to block her face, i doubt her family would cut it just because of that so obviously there was another reason. They were just explaining why abs might be feeling a bit out of her shell without it is all :)
@jacquelynaskling4051
@jacquelynaskling4051 Жыл бұрын
She looks adorable!❤
@CuriousLindZ
@CuriousLindZ Жыл бұрын
She's absolutely gorgeous
@kris3126
@kris3126 Жыл бұрын
Poor kid at least she didn't get a Tupperware bowl cut like I had in the 70's 😊
@Sakura163
@Sakura163 Жыл бұрын
Yup same but mine was in the 80s
@happybunny1976
@happybunny1976 Жыл бұрын
I love the bowl 🥣
@tammyhale5316
@tammyhale5316 Жыл бұрын
Basically she did 😐 poor girl
@Abc-1973
@Abc-1973 Жыл бұрын
Abby seemed like she was enjoying the process but as soon as she saw herself she didn’t seem happy. 🙁 Abby you are a doll no matter what haircut you get. We 💖 you!
@qs-ii1872
@qs-ii1872 Жыл бұрын
Abbie looks so cute with that cut! I hope the cut grows on her, I know new things can be scary or hard for people like us.
@sarahbell8886
@sarahbell8886 Жыл бұрын
She's absolutely perfect!!!! Love the cut !!
@amanda5764
@amanda5764 Жыл бұрын
She looked so much happier when she saw it jaw length. I hope she's allowed to grow it out.
@Gilliebeany
@Gilliebeany Жыл бұрын
Ready the description in the video
@MBJK_baby
@MBJK_baby Жыл бұрын
She kept chewing her hair and ingesting it
@thevandemics
@thevandemics Жыл бұрын
I know this is a old video but I think Abbies hair looked beautiful in the bob in the middle of video and think Abbie loved it too by the smiles she was given, wasn't so keen on the end haircut although I do understand why it was styled like that, and she did amazing sitting through it 😊😊
@eveelee4152
@eveelee4152 Жыл бұрын
@@kambubbles6366 um... yes it is this an old video what are you saying
@tamtamm22
@tamtamm22 Жыл бұрын
The bob was gorgeous
@LolaRyck
@LolaRyck Жыл бұрын
I agree. I liked it at first. But it’ll grow back right. I think we all need a major short cut at least once in our life
@Alisonwarr87
@Alisonwarr87 Жыл бұрын
@@tamtamm22 agreed the Bob was it ❤
@sourgummiez
@sourgummiez Жыл бұрын
This wasn’t a Bob though…..this is a boys haircut
@crystalm392
@crystalm392 Жыл бұрын
I worked with adults who have autism. It's hard when they can't talk what to do, but yes, u really have to use face cues, and it's a learning process. Hair grows back. But yes, it looked like she didn't like the result.
@galaxyamber8001
@galaxyamber8001 Жыл бұрын
Yeah she didn’t look pleased at all
@isabelamogosanu7777
@isabelamogosanu7777 Жыл бұрын
It was very upsetting for me to watch because I had a mom who forced me to cut off all my length because she never wanted to brush it for me or teach me hair care. (she was also mentally ill so I guess I can't blame her completely) but it was so traumatizing having my hair cut off bc of all the matting in the back. I cried during it
@mariposawell6313
@mariposawell6313 Жыл бұрын
Read the top comment from the channel. It explains.
@Beckyw10140
@Beckyw10140 Жыл бұрын
Absolutely she does not like!
@ash.bunnyy
@ash.bunnyy Жыл бұрын
@@isabelamogosanu7777 they pinned a comment above saying that she had issues with chewing and consuming her hair, they tried cutting it into a bob but then her hair was in her face all the time because it couldnt be pulled into a pony, so this was their last option
@liaderose3760
@liaderose3760 Жыл бұрын
I also feel like she liked the process and maybe when her hair was cut to chin length, but didn't really like the final cut. With that being said, this haircut is so perfect for her face! She looks gorgeous!! As always, much love all! 💜 💕
@martika324
@martika324 Жыл бұрын
Your hair style is awesome!
@marieennis6114
@marieennis6114 Жыл бұрын
Her hair looks adorable❤
@DiannaMelero
@DiannaMelero Жыл бұрын
Poor thing she looked so happy in the beginning and by the end she was too embarrassed to look she's such a beautiful girl either way ❤🎉
@BrianaLynn7
@BrianaLynn7 Жыл бұрын
I think you’re putting your own feelings onto her. I don’t think she cares about how she looks. She’s probably overstimulated from the event of a haircut.
@DiannaMelero
@DiannaMelero Жыл бұрын
I can see that she could just be overstimulated but you don't think she has feelings and maybe just maybe she didn't really like the hair cut
@anonymous-bb2dw
@anonymous-bb2dw Жыл бұрын
nobody asked you dianna
@debbiering2272
@debbiering2272 Жыл бұрын
@VaultAmelia101 You do?
@BrianaLynn7
@BrianaLynn7 Жыл бұрын
@@DiannaMelero I think she has feelings but truthfully I don't think she thinks about superficial things. She might not like the cut because of the way it feels on her head or maybe its a change, but I doubt she is sad about how she looks. Just my opinion.
@bowiegirl5662
@bowiegirl5662 Жыл бұрын
That haircut looks amazing!!! Abbie has the cutest face. Every hair style looks so cute on her. Love it!!!❤
@debbiering2272
@debbiering2272 Жыл бұрын
Looks terrible!!
@bowiegirl5662
@bowiegirl5662 Жыл бұрын
@@debbiering2272 Well you're a gem.
@angelique707
@angelique707 Жыл бұрын
I don’t she she loves it though. They went too short and it looks quite masculine. The bob looked great. Should have stopped there.
@maddlepaddle420
@maddlepaddle420 Жыл бұрын
​@@angelique707 its for medical reasons, she was eating her hair
@jennygrausam2481
@jennygrausam2481 Жыл бұрын
​@@debbiering2272 nasty comment this was a few years ago. Terrible comment
@emilymartin1172
@emilymartin1172 Жыл бұрын
I hated when my mom cut my hair that short I was DEVASTATED it grew back and it was the 1rst grade so not so bad but I hope she at least asked if that’s what she wanted first and made sure she understood!
@zodiaccentral8908
@zodiaccentral8908 Жыл бұрын
I can totally relate!! Shouldn’t cut girls hair short unless they are asking for it. It really destroys your self esteem. My mom used to cut my hair short and my bangs and since my hair is curly and she didn’t know how to care for it she was also brushing it dry and frizzy. I HATED IT! Plus, the kids all called me mushroom head.
@JustAnAngelx
@JustAnAngelx Жыл бұрын
She’s so freakin pretty though ;-;
@UsagiDene8626
@UsagiDene8626 Жыл бұрын
It’ll grow back abby I’m glad she has such a loving parents to make her feel beautiful.
@puffinboo3919
@puffinboo3919 Жыл бұрын
No. Why’d y’all cut her hair like that smh.
@missrubylilou
@missrubylilou Жыл бұрын
It’s everyone’s opinion, I don’t thing she liked the result sm, and I feeel bad cause her mom wanted it. And some ppl just like it short!
@adiraikome3055
@adiraikome3055 Жыл бұрын
It’s not your child nor your business 🤷🏽‍♀️
@draculaura9386
@draculaura9386 Жыл бұрын
She has a disability, Her parents probably didn’t choose for her or she can’t speak right
@nattylite9220
@nattylite9220 Жыл бұрын
@@adiraikome3055 posting on a public forum means it’s now our business as the public is meant to give output :)
@edynfox6368
@edynfox6368 Жыл бұрын
I agree!!!!😢😢😢
@MsCatori
@MsCatori Жыл бұрын
I remember the first haircut I saw Abby get. You had to use candy to keep her calm. It's great to see her smiling and not stressing over a haircut!
@lottiecollins53
@lottiecollins53 Жыл бұрын
Oh she’s so beautiful, her smile about 13 secs in just melts my heart
@mariannasharp3662
@mariannasharp3662 Жыл бұрын
She is adorable! It looks great!
@debbieklose8776
@debbieklose8776 Жыл бұрын
I think this is an adorable haircut on Abbey! She’s adorable and I have much honor and respect for her parents that have Abbeys upmost care and love for her. This haircut is adorable and the care and love all involved in this event is nothing but stellar ❤
@geekchick4859
@geekchick4859 Жыл бұрын
Not so keen on the haircut but I totally appreciate what a massive step this is. And she took it so well!!
@reynasaid8065
@reynasaid8065 Жыл бұрын
Now she looks so much like her brother.
@beajack4990
@beajack4990 Жыл бұрын
A lot of 12 year old boys have this haircut, I’m surprised they chose this for her…
@cynthiatenorio9842
@cynthiatenorio9842 Жыл бұрын
She’s adorable ❤ I don’t think she wanted her hair cut.
@kanitraparsons7345
@kanitraparsons7345 Жыл бұрын
Looking even more fabulous Abby!! Beautiful ❤❤❤
@cynthiarutherford3535
@cynthiarutherford3535 Жыл бұрын
So cute.Fits her look so much.😊
@carlakale9622
@carlakale9622 Жыл бұрын
Her expression says it all😢
@lisad5176
@lisad5176 Жыл бұрын
She didn't deserve to have hair cute off like a boy
@jeseniaescobedo74
@jeseniaescobedo74 Жыл бұрын
As a hairdresser myself, I’m so glad you chose ulta. I too work for ulta and we are always open to help people in these situations. We know how hard it can be to find accommodations but we strive for that. I’m very glad she enjoyed her service! You all deserve self care and a nice spa time 😊
@ReineDeLaSeine14
@ReineDeLaSeine14 Жыл бұрын
Yeah, I’ve been a customer at Ulta and they’ve always been awesome with accommodations.
@WritingsOfASpicyMind
@WritingsOfASpicyMind Жыл бұрын
Even the hairdresser seemed unsure when the mom said short. She was so happy and smiling when she greeted Abbie, and that was completely gone talking to the mom. I don't think Abbie wanted it that short. The bob in the middle seemed to please her though.
@kdkdldld5356
@kdkdldld5356 Жыл бұрын
Yeah but the hair went in her face and before she had a Bob she used to chewing her hair
@ghostlove4153
@ghostlove4153 Жыл бұрын
She has long hair know the bob was always in her face and before the she was chewing her hair dont judge ppl if u dont know the full story
@Rainy-In-The-Desert
@Rainy-In-The-Desert Жыл бұрын
Example- "A child has uncontrollable eating so the parent limits their access to food when it's not safe" Would you call that child abuse? Please read WHY the family did this, this wasn't about pleasing her it was about her safety and health. That ALWAYS trumps stuff.
@ghostlove4153
@ghostlove4153 Жыл бұрын
@@Rainy-In-The-Desert yeah ty! :)
@Rainy-In-The-Desert
@Rainy-In-The-Desert Жыл бұрын
@@ghostlove4153 They're such a sweet family and they adore their kids, I can't stand seeing the judgement 😔
@pinkiesvlogs2
@pinkiesvlogs2 Жыл бұрын
It looks great on her. Very cute!
@remiakintoye7789
@remiakintoye7789 Жыл бұрын
She has such a beautiful smile
@wendymarieglew6548
@wendymarieglew6548 Жыл бұрын
Cherish that stylist!! She has so much patience and you can see how challenging it was to cut shame Abbie didn’t like it but hair grows and it’s not permanent
@thetruthwillsetyoufree8204
@thetruthwillsetyoufree8204 Жыл бұрын
Whether the "stylist" was nice or had patience is no excuse for this terribly horrible awful job she did! She butchered her hair making her look like a boy, and having no style to it whatsoever! Just because they asked for short, doesn't mean one should just go and butcher their hair.🥺 At the very least she could have given her a SHORT BUT CUTE STYLISH BOB CUT, instead of this disastrous awful mess! Poor Abby! She's SMART, and she knows when she sees a bad haircut. After all she's a young lady..we know what we want and don't. 🤣🤷‍♀️ Then she lies and tells her "it looks so cute!"🙄 Her dad on the other hand KNEW she didn't like it so he tried building her confidence telling her the same but I imagine was screaming inside how much he hated it. I would have been so upset and 😠 and refused to pay! But that's just my opinion. I'm just thankful she no longer chews her hair nor has this "style." And hopefully nomore sees this "stylist."😳 nomore
@nicholasthompson1215
@nicholasthompson1215 Жыл бұрын
Lol I think it looks awesome! You could see her staring in the mirror like "what have we done" as we all do. Just awesome.
@southerngypsy1894
@southerngypsy1894 Жыл бұрын
She's liking it when it's still long and chin length....when it gets cut SHORT...if you actually pay attention to her face and expressions.... She hates it.
@deannad9105
@deannad9105 Жыл бұрын
Change is hard, especially when you aren't able to weigh in on the decision. I hope that she learns to love it or that the parents find her favorite haircut in the future❤ And she seems to really like the stylist. So that's a great first step
@mowlessbeemore2107
@mowlessbeemore2107 Жыл бұрын
Too cute, Abbie! You have beautiful hair.
@hermalindasalais3638
@hermalindasalais3638 Жыл бұрын
Oh I'm jealous. It's so gorgeous!!😊
@elizabethlafleur3267
@elizabethlafleur3267 Жыл бұрын
Abby holding back tears
@_.-._.-.
@_.-._.-. Жыл бұрын
Haircuts and the sensory experiences that come with them can be a bit overwhelming, but she did fantastic either way
@lindywheeler4192
@lindywheeler4192 Жыл бұрын
​@@_.-._.-. She did great! But, she didn't seem to be happy about the end results.
@patriciawilliamsn9605
@patriciawilliamsn9605 Жыл бұрын
She smiled through the whole thing! She looks adorable!
@reeblob2673
@reeblob2673 Жыл бұрын
She was not smiling she was crying
@f1ex999
@f1ex999 Жыл бұрын
she hated the result too, you can tell by the look on her face
@destinymarie9409
@destinymarie9409 Жыл бұрын
She definitely didn't like the result. But she didn't mind the process. She kept her head down by the end and didn't wanna look, stopped smiling. She may be non verbal, but she's still communicating and they missed that just for the haircut. Its kinda sad. It was cute but I don't think she liked it
@isabelamogosanu7777
@isabelamogosanu7777 Жыл бұрын
The bob was so cute when it was chin length. But she didn't like how short it was at the end :(
@sophial3151
@sophial3151 Жыл бұрын
I think she liked it at the jaw best. That's when she looked and smiled. Hopefully she will get the cut she wants next time or learn to like it very short.
@AammaK
@AammaK Жыл бұрын
She did, this was five years ago
@shaunahuerta9597
@shaunahuerta9597 Жыл бұрын
I’m new to watching your videos… so just wondering; have you ever thought about buying Abbie a Speech Tablet? I recently watched a documentary about a young man who was non verbal. He and his father co-authored a book about his autism and his frustrations toward his inability to speak or display his feelings. Due to his autism his parents didn’t think he was able to explain his thoughts or communicate until they used this type of tablet. If spelling is an issue the tablet has pictures they can use. They are expensive ($500+) but absolutely worth it.
@carilouwrens4365
@carilouwrens4365 Жыл бұрын
Her smile made me smile❤
@pamhamilton3488
@pamhamilton3488 Жыл бұрын
She definitely has her own will like all girls . They need to be sensitive to her feelings ❤
@AammaK
@AammaK Жыл бұрын
What makes you think they aren’t? Wth
@pamhamilton3488
@pamhamilton3488 Жыл бұрын
She OBVIOUSLY does “ NOT “ .. like the hair cut. I would buy her a wig until it grew out & she could put a smile on her face ❤
@Soup_Whale99
@Soup_Whale99 Жыл бұрын
@@pamhamilton3488read the pinned comment
@justaperson8386
@justaperson8386 Жыл бұрын
The end genuinely makes me sad... The way she gets touched in the face to show the haircut to the camera... And how they talk about her as if she's not there...
@blanket4763
@blanket4763 Жыл бұрын
As a woman with autism it makes me sad. I don’t think she wanted her hair cut *that* short
@maddlepaddle420
@maddlepaddle420 Жыл бұрын
​@@blanket4763 its hard and ive been there but atleast she cant hurt herself anymore
@_JustJoe
@_JustJoe Жыл бұрын
​@@blanket4763 She was eating her hair, she's doing better now and has long hair again.
@viepng
@viepng Жыл бұрын
Fr in the beginning how she bent down and waved in her face like ... Back tf up
@asabetti2353
@asabetti2353 Жыл бұрын
She was eating her hair. It was for her benefit. She is back to long hair now
@jgr_lilli_
@jgr_lilli_ Жыл бұрын
This was an adorable look on her!
@trenarash9057
@trenarash9057 Жыл бұрын
LOVE IT! SO BEAUTIFUL!!❤❤
@tiahigby9311
@tiahigby9311 Жыл бұрын
She looks so sweet.
@TheScottronica
@TheScottronica Жыл бұрын
I love that smile she gave half way through. She seems to like the company of that hair stylist.
@janeevans4758
@janeevans4758 Жыл бұрын
She didn't look very pleased with the results that's for sure.
@danadobbie8980
@danadobbie8980 Жыл бұрын
Wonderful family. Such a sweet hair dresser!
@dunderkak66
@dunderkak66 Жыл бұрын
Looks great and such a beautiful smile!
@EmmaGoldmanlovesyou
@EmmaGoldmanlovesyou Жыл бұрын
She looks awesome!
@jayzepickle6637
@jayzepickle6637 Жыл бұрын
I've always been too scared to cut my hair too short but after seeing this I'm starting to think maybe I can! I have a head and face shape similar to abbie and she looks stunning with that hair cut!
@Puffafish1
@Puffafish1 Жыл бұрын
Go for it and if you don't like it, it will grow out in a couple of month's, go on I dare you to do it, if nothing else it will surprise you and you too can be as cute as Abbie, take care and I wish for you the very best of what life has to offer❤❤
@roxanamcglinchey6613
@roxanamcglinchey6613 Жыл бұрын
I love seeing Abbie smiling away! I really like her hair.. I don't think Abbie liked it at first though!!! I hope she gets used seeing herself with short hair.. ❤
@thecookingandcleaningmom5878
@thecookingandcleaningmom5878 Жыл бұрын
Abbie looks amazing! Like others have said, she looks wonderful with all cuts. She’s just lucky that way.
@chelseafromwhomville
@chelseafromwhomville Жыл бұрын
It looks amazing Abbie ❤
@nannaschlosser2797
@nannaschlosser2797 Жыл бұрын
She honestly looks so pretty
@RelaxingForLife
@RelaxingForLife Жыл бұрын
Well done Abby so proud of you. absolutely cute... I got these cuts when I was your age.
@Stuffedcrust1
@Stuffedcrust1 Жыл бұрын
She is 18 I think that is what's they said that in one video don’t take my word for it
@DoctorJoanieTool
@DoctorJoanieTool Жыл бұрын
LOVE that cut. I keep wishing for another short cut for her. Show off that beautiful face.
@ginastinson7059
@ginastinson7059 Жыл бұрын
She looks sad, like she doesn’t care for it but she does look totally adorable. I think a chin length bob style would look great on Abbie.
@jasonervoes1326
@jasonervoes1326 Жыл бұрын
I love her beautiful hair.
@kerirofkahr2374
@kerirofkahr2374 Жыл бұрын
I understand there was a reason behind it and I truly understand just her face and the very end where it looks as if she is about to cry makes my heart hurt. She looked adorable with the cut but love it long like it is now. Abbie is truly beautiful and you both are amazing, inspiring parents
@alva--._..l-._.-l.._.--
@alva--._..l-._.-l.._.-- Жыл бұрын
I love it! It seems she's going to the red carpet to show off her new look. You go, girl!
@Chelle8847
@Chelle8847 Жыл бұрын
Lol everyone's thinking this is a recent video! It was from at least 3 years ago I think right? And you decided to try out the short pixie cut cos her chewing on her hair was more of an issue back then. It was a drastic change, but i thought it was actually really cute, enhanced her cute dimples! And u gotta try out a short/different hairstyle at least once in life I reckon! ❤
@lizkummer9445
@lizkummer9445 Жыл бұрын
This is new 😂😂😂
@isabelamogosanu7777
@isabelamogosanu7777 Жыл бұрын
Even if it was old we are allowed to criticize. We are just seeing it for the first time and they kept it up for people to see
@maddlepaddle420
@maddlepaddle420 Жыл бұрын
​@@isabelamogosanu7777 you can but it seems even after knowimg it was necessary you just want to be a karen and complain
@isabelamogosanu7777
@isabelamogosanu7777 Жыл бұрын
@@maddlepaddle420 you just want to be a Karen and complain to me.. Just keep scrolling honey
@isabelamogosanu7777
@isabelamogosanu7777 Жыл бұрын
@@maddlepaddle420 I'm not the manager. You don't have to demand to speak with me when something upsets you
@avanotch2580
@avanotch2580 Жыл бұрын
Did she get a say in what length? She doesn't seem to like it at all.
@CxsmicRxse
@CxsmicRxse Жыл бұрын
She most likely has.
@isabelamogosanu7777
@isabelamogosanu7777 Жыл бұрын
​@@CxsmicRxse most likely?? She literally doesn't want to turn her head up at the end.. Look at her eyes.
@veraroberts7717
@veraroberts7717 Жыл бұрын
She has a beautiful smile. And I love the hair.❤😊❤
@kaceemajor1987
@kaceemajor1987 8 ай бұрын
Oh thank you sweet lady These cuts for us spectrum moms an dad's can be alot ❤you were so sweet❤
@lindadriscoll5652
@lindadriscoll5652 Жыл бұрын
Gorgeous cut on this pretty girlie.
@ALiz86
@ALiz86 Жыл бұрын
I love this. However, my brother just walked into the house (literally, after he just got his hair cut) with the same haircut. I definitely think Abbie pulls the haircut off 100% better! ❤😊 😂💗😉
@JeanaDylan83
@JeanaDylan83 Жыл бұрын
That's awful😢She look's like a boy now😮..Her hair was totally fine at her shoulder's.
@CxsmicRxse
@CxsmicRxse Жыл бұрын
You are the reason the world is dying.
@maddlepaddle420
@maddlepaddle420 Жыл бұрын
My great nana had a short cut in the 20's pixie cuts are cute, i agree she looks sad but she eats her hair so its medically necessary 😅
@JeanaDylan83
@JeanaDylan83 Жыл бұрын
@@maddlepaddle420 no, the chick look's like a boy with this hair do.
@jennygrausam2481
@jennygrausam2481 Жыл бұрын
Awfew comment, old video
@Coreenhuerta
@Coreenhuerta Жыл бұрын
Beautiful girl. ... Her hair doesn't make her... It's her beautiful person she has that makes her🥰
@margueritesmith9804
@margueritesmith9804 Жыл бұрын
I like it she looks cute. So proud of her. Hugs to her❤❤❤
@TheoriginalANGEK439
@TheoriginalANGEK439 Жыл бұрын
👎🏻 sorry guys…
@aliciabellante6643
@aliciabellante6643 Жыл бұрын
It’s an oooooold video
@TheoriginalANGEK439
@TheoriginalANGEK439 Жыл бұрын
@@aliciabellante6643
@iHeartAmySue
@iHeartAmySue Жыл бұрын
Ikr
@southerngypsy1894
@southerngypsy1894 Жыл бұрын
@@aliciabellante6643 Being an old video makes it ok? Stevie wonder could see the shorter it got the more she hated it.... But they needed that KZbin money so they just kept on going ...
@TheoriginalANGEK439
@TheoriginalANGEK439 Жыл бұрын
@@iHeartAmySue what does that mean ?
@whointhewhat
@whointhewhat Жыл бұрын
She hates it
@emilybaumeister4980
@emilybaumeister4980 Жыл бұрын
Why so short?
@esm337
@esm337 Жыл бұрын
Read the pin❤
@carolapostolos8929
@carolapostolos8929 Жыл бұрын
Love your hair Abbie!❤
@pennychapman2335
@pennychapman2335 Жыл бұрын
Great job to the girl that cut her hair. FANTASTIC JOB. very patient. ABBY YOU LOOK GREAT...💙💙💙
@SandraRodriguez-fp8fb
@SandraRodriguez-fp8fb Жыл бұрын
Abbie you are so beautiful love your short haircut. You’re such a breath of fresh air.
@-LouLaBelle-
@-LouLaBelle- Жыл бұрын
Beautiful girlie 😊 really suits her! ♥️
@tonycalvert3426
@tonycalvert3426 Жыл бұрын
Wow she looks great!!!!
@flyb241
@flyb241 Жыл бұрын
She looks amazing I love it
@EM-mw2qr
@EM-mw2qr 8 ай бұрын
I like it! It brings out her beautiful face more!
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