What a powerful scene. So realistic. The moment everyone remains quiet in the hall , they knew exactly who was in control. This scene brings innumerable messages. By the way he played Rocket in The Planet Of The Apes trilogy.
@thelastattempt6665 жыл бұрын
One of the best scenes of this decade, and one of the best performances, hands down
@DL-hu9yw5 жыл бұрын
Agreed, it's simply one of the best scenes I've seen in any film, ever. Both shocking, and deeply (uncannily) familiar. I also agree about the acting .. I can't imagine how much training-and raw talent-went into this.
@vicentegeonix Жыл бұрын
Maybe a little exaggerated but really good scene.
@Nick-cy2tn Жыл бұрын
When your parents make you come downstairs at a family gathering
@alexisezequielmontoya247713 күн бұрын
mejor comentario :v
5 жыл бұрын
Usually this guy is Hollywood’s top stuntman/performer for animal characters. He doesn’t normally show himself.
@coolstoryneedsmoredragons43365 жыл бұрын
so he is acting normally, makes sense
@jimmym33525 жыл бұрын
The wait staff are probably figuring this is what rich people do for fun.
@colincolin5696 Жыл бұрын
I’ve never seen someone be so identical to an animal. This is actually crazy. It’s like watching an angry ape showing off. So cool for some reason 😂
@corbinbrodie2636 Жыл бұрын
For the past 5 years I've worked at one of the UK's foremost independent cinemas in Scotland, until we financially collapsed back in October. While looking for a new job been revisiting on youtube film bits from my past 5 years of regularly seeing the best of world, independent, classic cinema. This scene...out of all of it...five years of watching the best of world and independent film...this was the scene I always remembered. This was the one scene I saw out of oodles of amazing film scenes that I never forgot. The one that made me go...that...that right there...that's why you make films, to create that kind of situation with so many layers you don't know where to start in talking about it. But the impact is visceral on all those levels.
@fredspipa8 ай бұрын
Thank you. I remember audibly gasping a few minutes into this scene, then after it was over this euphoria washed over me and I just had to stop the movie and step outside. And I had the exact same thought as you had: "moments like these is why you make films"
@koller133 ай бұрын
Did you work at the GFT in Glasgow? Been there very often, great place!
@malkavian62754 жыл бұрын
Legit one of the most uncomfortable movie scenes I've seen
@omg92612 жыл бұрын
Such a great scene and the performance of the main actor is perfect.
@wdyatdf Жыл бұрын
On the small screen too.
@blindsoul79155 жыл бұрын
How do you deal with bad behavior? This scene exposes that modernity does not have an answer. It will take a catastrophe before people act.
@tim26705 жыл бұрын
Encephalych Dementium yes!
@fede-cinamer1445 жыл бұрын
The thing is: should art have boundaries? For us art is something entertaining you. We approach it as something we can decide whether or not to put an end to. But is not true that art is all around us in every moment? This scene want to give us a perspective of what art can be if the boundary is broken. Should it be safe? I apologize for my English but I am from another country.
@Diictator5 жыл бұрын
So true, it not only very powerfully shows that, but also notice how in the end it's really one grown old man that helps the lady, after like 30 s screaming, but at least he does, and THEN comes other men. So all it really takes is to have one good person, brave enough to act first and then we can maybe avoid the catastrophe.
@Diictator5 жыл бұрын
@KeoneArt it's purpose isn't to prove anything, it's to show you the director's view or perspective on a situation that happens and how it does happen ,so that maybe it would change some of the viewer's perspective on the matter... all scenes are acted out, the best ones make no exception, but they don't feel "acted" because of the performances of the actors. And this is one of those IN MY OPINION :) ( To my knowledge all the people on the scene are either stuntsmen/women or extras, so they knew and agreed to all of this, but some of them were not really acting, which makes it even better )
@martybm76175 жыл бұрын
well it is because we rely on the assumption that everyone is aware of their "boundaries" and we drew those boundaries as we built the civilization, as we call it.
@zaheersarang64665 жыл бұрын
How have I not seen this before. Definitely going to give this a watch. This was incredible.
@andersdondes4748 Жыл бұрын
It's called the Square and it won the golden Palm inn Cannes. You should check out Triangle of Sadness as well. ^^
@Spacejuno Жыл бұрын
It’s the best scene in the movie but the film it’s self is not as cohesive as I would like in my humble opinion.
@williammelvin5 жыл бұрын
7:07 is when shit got real. Every head down.
@siobhan28483 Жыл бұрын
I could just feel everyone’s uneasiness. I kept thinking how I would cope in a situation like that. I’d most probably make a quick exit!
@sergiomoreno6861 Жыл бұрын
Now that's incredible, give the man an Oscar, he deserves it.
@tausendwasser6701 Жыл бұрын
No he does not.
@helix5779 Жыл бұрын
@@tausendwasser6701 yes he does
@tausendwasser6701 Жыл бұрын
@@helix5779 You don't know much about the Academy Awards, don't you? 😉
@helix5779 Жыл бұрын
@@tausendwasser6701 the wink emoji hahaha. you have no idea how lame you're coming across
@tausendwasser6701 Жыл бұрын
@@helix5779 I'm on the internet dude, I couldn't care less how I come across...
@tannushka5992Ай бұрын
It reminds me the reactions of USA and EU in relation to the Russian Federation. But there is one difference: USA and EU still do not really try to stop the Russian Reich
@secretrarecollctbles18925 жыл бұрын
notice at the end they became like wild animals to defend that woman, theres a fine line between civilized society and our animal nature,we like to think we are much more because we eat with a fork and wear clothes but in reality when the chips are down, we will eat eachother
@DL-hu9yw5 жыл бұрын
Agreed, too often we forget that humans are animals, too. There's peril in that forgetting.
@kaelonroache82404 жыл бұрын
Alright Joker hahaha
@secretrarecollctbles18924 жыл бұрын
Ah hah hah hah
@jonathanwalther Жыл бұрын
That's the comment, I was searching for. Thanks.
@str.77 Жыл бұрын
Actually, in the end the people finally adopted the normal behaviour.
@RoboJules Жыл бұрын
This gives me the same feeling I get when I have to take the bus with a homeless person going through psychosis.
@kalakritistudios11 ай бұрын
I feel like this scene should be connected with the one with the Turret's syndrome one.
@wareaglefishing35755 жыл бұрын
This why I had to quit drinking ,because this was apparently how I behaved .
@Nimue3335 жыл бұрын
Hahaha
@jonathanwalther Жыл бұрын
Thx, what an insight. Stay sober and seek help, if needed.
@raqueldeshow9678 Жыл бұрын
hhahahhaahaa damn
@joaquinorellana79873 жыл бұрын
i saw the movie by THIS scene, thank you lord by give me eyes to see this incredible performance, so many subtext you can take of this pure, raw, powerful scene, just incredible
@tmanning61985 жыл бұрын
The truth is , EVERY THING is art. You can't manage the power or influence of an artists work just because you own an art gallery. If art imitates life and you personal life is out of control, how do you expect to manage an art performance which perfectly resembles the nature of that life itself. I always hear art enthusiasts demanding a display of 'Art without Boundaries', well here it is , a performance artist pretending to be a monkey is what they paid for Until they realized it was too much for them too handle.
@Torresmo25 жыл бұрын
If everything is art,nothing is art !
@NastyNas6955 жыл бұрын
Well said, exactly the reason why this scene is so important and meaningful, thanks for commenting
@vicentegeonix Жыл бұрын
A chimp*
@giannirodriguez334 жыл бұрын
Looper Lol! took me an eternity to find this.
@citizenoftrone657011 ай бұрын
Me at the class reunion
@allykins17675 жыл бұрын
It's all fun and games until someone's face gets ripped off.
@minagola69505 жыл бұрын
Okay so basically
@mtb57784 ай бұрын
amazing scene. never seen anything like this.
@nathanjedrej792 Жыл бұрын
It was like that scene in greystoke. Christopher lambert going round the dinner table growling and heaving bosoms a plenty.
@massimilianodipendente22452 жыл бұрын
Very powerful.
@peterolesen35673 жыл бұрын
5:14 right there, that's when everything went to s***
@ban44866 жыл бұрын
Is that Warren Buffet?
@karenlewkowitz5858 Жыл бұрын
60+ takes. Powerful
@ericvanderschueren3775 Жыл бұрын
La scène - sinon tout le film, bien qu'elle soit annoncée et comme filée après sa séquence - m'a fait penser à un film de Nagisa Oshima, Max mon amour, dont l'intrigue était la découverte par un mari bourgeois et pétri de convenances que sa jeune femme avait un amant : un chimpanzé. De l'art et de ses conventions cérémonieuses jusqu'à sa discours sur la chose, à l'amour paradoxal se jouent les mêmes crispations et les mêmes réflexes (l'hallali des pleutres qui se rachètent de leur lâcheté dans une mêlée comme une purge d'eux-mêmes où sauver la jeune femme n'est plus finalement plus le but).
@pachusaurio5 жыл бұрын
It is a powerful, uncomfortable and provocative scene. The performance is impeccable and the address is very accurate. Now, a tip for those who upload this. If you want to have more views on KZbin, you should headline the video "Monkey at the party goes wrong" XD
@gustavoclarindo1012 жыл бұрын
"You won't believe what happens next!!"🤣🤣
@azzyclark38606 жыл бұрын
Fucking amazing scene!
@GabrielMacDougall5 күн бұрын
I read somewhere that after the director said cut Terry kept standing his ground and screaming and destroying the whole set.
@Dylan-Blok5 жыл бұрын
Love how they foreshadowed this scene. Like, barely. The only two things I recall are the monkey during the sex scene and when we saw this same dude on a big screen in the museum. Anyone noticed other foreshadowing?
@KD--sj8eo Жыл бұрын
Not really foreshadowing.
@marcosloriggio83503 ай бұрын
increible
@juliaandersson7479 Жыл бұрын
I just realized that the woman being attacked by the ape in the end is called "Princess Madeleine" in the Imdb list of characters. She's a royal, even.
@tausendwasser6701 Жыл бұрын
Her name is Madeleine Trollvik, not royal at all (of course not).
@juliaandersson7479 Жыл бұрын
@@tausendwasser6701 I meant the character, of course, not the actress.
@asdfh-jj2xr Жыл бұрын
@Julia Andersson it's allegorical Ukraine
@cody56305 жыл бұрын
reminds me of Fritz Perl
@beafboy013 жыл бұрын
The interesting take I got from this is that it shows how much more "Civilized" "High-socety" is. Imagine this happening at a burger king, or with more working class people. He would have been mobbed a lot sooner. What does this say about "Society"?
@yomandenmark3 жыл бұрын
good point
@binra37882 жыл бұрын
Why did everyone obey covid dictate? The terrorism is explicit in the scene above. But seeking 'herd' immunity is seeking personal salvation by distancing & abandoning 'others'.
@beafboy012 жыл бұрын
@@binra3788 No, one is a social construct, the other is solid scientific evidence ya peanut. Take your meds.
@crayzmarc Жыл бұрын
Seen the science now?.The papers Pfizer was forced to release? The adverse reactions? Your mind is a peanut if you don't check out the. true facts and swallow the narrative.
@jonathanwalther Жыл бұрын
@@binra3788 "obey covid dictate"? Geez, your ability to differentiate is approaching Zero.
@Sobek883 ай бұрын
Did they kill him or was he in the plastic covered from the rain?
@keboonplumeria5266Ай бұрын
It's just so painful to finish. So far, I think that Columbia looked handsome
@asdfh-jj2xr Жыл бұрын
Now we know that scene is about russian invasion to Ukraine. Prediction came true. 😮
@stargazer33252 жыл бұрын
well that was uncomfortable
@MiniUsyk6 ай бұрын
I'll have what he's having..
@alexdolya77905 жыл бұрын
who made this scene...
@KaterinaRuud5 жыл бұрын
The director is Ruben Östlund, if that is what you mean.
@itsluv5orca2 ай бұрын
Claes Bang:👁👄👁
@user-gg8ty9sm9lАй бұрын
amusingly 😂
@javierherrera44165 жыл бұрын
Tarzan live action
@calvinchao15075 жыл бұрын
I hated the smartass at 4:30 more tho
@The360Nate5 жыл бұрын
calvin chao That smartass is Dominic West who is a great actor I loved him as Jimmy McNulty in The Wire.
@sawtoothdragoon98955 жыл бұрын
Any movie he is in he's always THAT GUY it seems
@urmumsbaps Жыл бұрын
@@The360Nate the fuck did I do
@vibefrog21775 жыл бұрын
damn pcp is one hell of a drug
@Uvisir Жыл бұрын
Nobody actually listened to the instructions
@iiscritical7795 Жыл бұрын
You aren't supposed to listen to the instructions, you aren't supposed to let someone else be attacked by a wild animal while you hide in the herd. That's the point. But what the scene illustrates so perfectly is that societally, we DO let bad things happen to other people because it's not happening to us.
@dcdiegovideos Жыл бұрын
O que foi isso?😅
@wasgeorgewashington5 жыл бұрын
I’m so confused as to why at first when he began to rape her and she was screaming for help, no one did anything.
@jiggajigjones82105 жыл бұрын
I was shocked no strong independent woman got in there.
@scravtasm83545 жыл бұрын
This whole scene is about the bystander effect, among other things.
@thegentleassassin Жыл бұрын
@@jiggajigjones8210 Did you come up with that all by yourself? Wow buddy
@Tired-of-fools Жыл бұрын
It's the instinct of fear talking.
@KD--sj8eo Жыл бұрын
@@jiggajigjones8210 mong
@user-mt6mu9uo8hАй бұрын
russia/"civilized" western world
@carlosadrianodesousareis45665 жыл бұрын
Que loucura
@thorinoakenshield3964 жыл бұрын
ThuleanPerspective expose this theme and banned from youtube.
@DiegoM26525 күн бұрын
Two cars crashes together. Far right extremists in the comments: "That's a metaphor of Russia and Usa"
@mav78044 жыл бұрын
Can someone explain to me what is happening? In the actual movie, is he just acting?
@morganstephens13743 жыл бұрын
The whole film is about an art museum so pretty much in the film he acts like an ape as a form of art and also the director told the guy to go into the scene and do whatever you want in there so basically nearly the entire scene was improv
@yomandenmark3 жыл бұрын
@@morganstephens1374 i really hope that the last scenen with the wiman was not improv, but i doubt it was because there was some serious stunts with hairpulling, that he would nt have gotten away with without preparing the actress. also the hel p help help not bing repsonded to had to be scripted for the herd then to jump him later. i seriously hope so
@monkeymamaa2 жыл бұрын
@@yomandenmark oh it's definitely scripted for the movie. In the movie, the guy with the broken glass is the art director, and before this dinner he told the guy to come as part of the museum exhibition. I hope that makes it clearer. Don't worry about the safety of the actors, they just did a really good job. You should watch the movie!
@yomandenmark2 жыл бұрын
@@monkeymamaa I watched it and loved it. I am an actress myself, and safety is a very big topic, because people have gone too far when the camera was rolling. it's just that they said in an interview that he improvised a lot of the scene, so I hope that last bit with the woman is scripted. Midnight in Paris is one exampleof improved scene going too far. The actress was raped on screen. and those kind of things happen, but I hope that part was scripted, and i believe it was, because the hairpulling has to be instructed very minutely.
@jameson17612 жыл бұрын
@@monkeymamaa this scene scared I am sad nw
@flocz56555 жыл бұрын
That happens when u wear sneakers to a suit.
@MrJocko111 Жыл бұрын
xD
@conortague54106 жыл бұрын
10:52 Did they kill him?
@AMPFEAST5 жыл бұрын
no but they broke some of his teeth
@glamdolly303 жыл бұрын
Sure looks like it!
@TuYolPol Жыл бұрын
La vérité sur l'homme
@doobiesmoke155 жыл бұрын
So is he like supposed to be Tarzan or something
@TheFoshaMan8 ай бұрын
imagine that we are too close to behaving like this if it were not for that 1% that differentiates us from the chimpanzee
@Qsoch11 ай бұрын
Best scene in cinema about Russia and Europe relations. Лучшая сцена в кино об отношениях России и Европы.
@babaroga735 ай бұрын
There's a difference between a bear and an ape.
@galaka9390Ай бұрын
@@babaroga73They are both animals. Они оба животные.
@VerbranntiChaib15 жыл бұрын
I had a student in my class who behaved in similar fashion. One of the family of a nasty bunch of folk who were into nasty stuff. Criminal, drugs and murders Their kids went to our school, where I was relief teacher, replacing the HOD who was on Stress Leave. The principal was also on Stress Leave.. The deputy was a nobody. I faced this person alone, with no support as the rest of the students admired him. I faced up to him Man to Man. in the car park after school. He stepped into his bright red expensive convertible and flicked his cigarette butt in my direction. I lost that little battle.
@ancalagon11445 жыл бұрын
What lmao
@WhoreTorture6 жыл бұрын
This is god
@jacklennon10355 жыл бұрын
word up broski you've got an appreciation for fine cinema sigEP!
@mikerigby104810 ай бұрын
Always prey on the predator.
@ArvinYorro Жыл бұрын
Imagine that is Putin. How long would it take before the world goes barbaric. Amazing scene. So many interpretations.
@winstonwolf57069 ай бұрын
?
@Tired-of-fools Жыл бұрын
You only see what is before your eyes, do you not see the poetry behind this scene? It's not only about rape, it's about instinct, especially the instinct of preservation of life and fear. It goes far beyond these rape agendas, don't limit yourselves to the basics, go deeper. Animals act by instinct, human beings don't, but many humans end up choosing to act by instinct, which is cruel and foolish.
@anaccount8474 Жыл бұрын
KZbin expert alert!
@justinfung4351 Жыл бұрын
And yet look what civilisation gets you. Because of social codes and norms, they are blinded to the behaviour of the animal so much so that a woman almost gets raped in a room with a hundred people.
@theidiotsarewinning28685 жыл бұрын
I understand what the scene is trying to say, bystander theoy etc, but as part of the story....No mention of deranged actor going berserk in an art piece and being beaten to death? Press conference about a youtube clip though. WHAT?!?!?
@AN4RCHID5 жыл бұрын
He doesn't get beaten to death
@Dingodeel5 жыл бұрын
Man, scene is exhaustive, its not important what will be, author said all he want, that how movie like that works, not about characters, thats about idea. sry for my english btw
@binra37885 жыл бұрын
I see it as a cameo that is not so much part of the drama - as the background to all else. The film is the expansion of that theme. I feel it goes to the terror that our minds are predicated NOT to see, and to divert from in self pretensions seeking mutual reinforcement. The sudden shift from 'art' to life (and threat of loss of face - but suddenly fear of violation and death) - is also in our artifice or artificial lives that suddenly revealed as without foundation. We can also be led into self illusion by those who seek to profit or gain power thereby. We don't realise it IS illusion until suddenly all the rules and expectations of the world that is supposed to be happening are broken.
@user-ls7vo9wo9j5 жыл бұрын
The idiots are Winning This is not really bystander theory
@str.77 Жыл бұрын
@@AN4RCHID So that's somebody else in the plastic bag?
@DaniCrimsonRed Жыл бұрын
Idk this made me cringe and uncomfortable
@MarxistMedia11 күн бұрын
I mean it's supposed to make you uncomfortable.
@pegasisilver6249 Жыл бұрын
This is western europe
@KD--sj8eo Жыл бұрын
Stop watching Fox News you cuck.
@asdfh-jj2xr Жыл бұрын
True. Scene about russian invasion to Ukraine
@winstonwolf57069 ай бұрын
@asdfh-jj2xr, that's deep, man.
@aouanedjamel5850 Жыл бұрын
Not very convence me , its a style of scene but not realist at all , but i luve thé performance for sûre
@coolstoryneedsmoredragons43365 жыл бұрын
puny humans
@tonyr36543 жыл бұрын
Oh ya , this guy bought GME
@ernergumo2 жыл бұрын
Contemporary art is anything but art
@urmumsbaps Жыл бұрын
Prove it
@mykhailolysenko98202 жыл бұрын
It is Putin's Russia
@kylepirko92514 жыл бұрын
It's in our DNA. That's all.
@gFkDYVMx2 жыл бұрын
Western politicians vs Vladimir Putin
@jhg1980 Жыл бұрын
now we know that it was an allegory for the Russian invasion of Ukraine. Confused men are the European Union.
@winstonwolf57069 ай бұрын
And they all clapped.
@Sobek883 ай бұрын
This didn't age well, seems to be the other way around as anyone with a brain reading in between the lines would of know that long before this comment was made a year ago...
@2kewl4uu Жыл бұрын
Reddit brought me here
@liquidsword295 жыл бұрын
so.. is that Jim Carrey?
@sesfilmsllc5 жыл бұрын
No.
@xmodisgreat Жыл бұрын
Monke
@WingsTM6 жыл бұрын
This is where the movie totally lost me. It was realistic up to this point - but I really don't think a woman could be raped in front of a whole room full of people and nobody would do anything
@benjaminnarancic6 жыл бұрын
In the end they did something, They all wait for someone else to take action, but fortunatly there's a limit.
@arpudli89626 жыл бұрын
unfortunatelly it happens many time... Imagine before war, everybody "I would not rape a woman" and than suddenly when the chaos reigns a country, rape became a part of every day life. So sad. Watch the scee again. First they are laughing at the phenomena, than somebody leaves, still no action. Action allways comes at the very end and only if some of the mass take a brave step. It represents reallity.
@kornino6 жыл бұрын
I think this scene is about how freedom of speech (or freedom of acting in this case) is tolerable as long as people decide where the limit is.
@MasterOfCookies86 жыл бұрын
This scene illustrates the bystander effect. The more people are near you, the more you are keen to not act at all and expect someone else to act. Everybody was afraid and lowered to primates because of the insane atmosphere the "monkeyman" created. The moment someone acted everybody finally got the courage to do the right thing.
@arpudli89626 жыл бұрын
I am always taking actions but im a trouble maker.... However there are situations when you just dont... Society wise and individualy
@jiggajigjones82105 жыл бұрын
Chad has come. And he is not happy you forced him into Doomerish/NEET behaviour.
@user-vm5hj8kt1x6 жыл бұрын
This scene is an allegory of the current political situation in the world. Russia has committed aggression against Ukraine. But the whole world "is concerned" is silent. No wonder here is an actor Russian. No wonder he was naked to the waist, as if Putin
@meta1storm6 жыл бұрын
Actually the director said the monkey man was inspired by an actual russian artist named Oleg who played a dog and bit someone during his performance.
@user-vm5hj8kt1x6 жыл бұрын
I would not like to think about him at all if he did not kill Ukrainians (12,000 people) and did not steal the territory of Ukraine. It's like when a person is forced to think about the illness that hurts her. Psychological help is needed for Russians who support this regime. Mentally healthy people do not knock down planes with peaceful people.
@user-vm5hj8kt1x6 жыл бұрын
In the movie "крым, путь на родину", Putin himself said that it was a planned military operation (seizing the Crimea by Russian troops). You contradict your president?
@VadimStreltsov6 жыл бұрын
I'm glad there are no objections about my other theses. What about the operation, I have no doubts it was planned, we're just talking about different things. You're talking about one of the secondary causes (Annexation of Crimea, not mentioning Euromaidan as usual), I was talking about the prime cause: the emergence of Ukraine itself, especially in its current territorial state, which is an insult to any Russian and to any sane person on the whole.
@user-vm5hj8kt1x6 жыл бұрын
1. If we mention the USA - they never violate their obligations. The United States is always open. The United States does not act with the help of "green men" like russia. The term "hybrid (meanly, basely, rascally, dirtily) war" is closely linked to Russia. (Korea, Vietnam, Ukraine, etc.) 2. It is not just about statehood, but about ethnic territories. Russia has never been an ethnos. This is a mix of peoples without a specific territory. 3. This is typical for Russians: when there are no arguments and knowledge - the Russian begins to offend the interlocutor.
@hikatogaming38705 жыл бұрын
As soon as he knocked the cup out of the guys hand.. he was asking for a chair to the head and a steak knife (if on table) to the stomach. i wouldn’t tolerate any of that
@BronzeEleven4 жыл бұрын
Yeah I think that's the point the scene is trying to make.
@BronzeEleven4 жыл бұрын
@@TigrayBoxing There's a point in nearly every scene in the movie where someone asks for help and no one helps them. I think this is a comment on the "by-standard effect" and how we follow social cues and instincts rather than behave in a rational way that rises above our animalistic defects. That's the point of "the square" exhibition. It's an idea in our heads, a belief that we're like that, but notice in the movie the exhibition never opens and it remains nothing but an abstract idea. The reality we're shown is very different and the dining hall scene is the climax to that narrative.
@Tattlebot2 жыл бұрын
@@BronzeEleven although it's scripted, best thing to do in this situation is to crouch at his height, facing him, looking without staring. Bear your teeth briefly to show non-dominance (humans have this instinct, called a nervous smile) and then hold your hand out. Now that i think about it that's very close to humans meeting strangers.