The Struggles of Marriage while Parenting

[@cindybokpe7360]

I don’t think you guys have any idea about how impactful these videos are . God bless you for being vulnerable and actually sharing with us . I am always so blessed and enlightened about these tips ❤️ Thank you

[@GabesandAnna]

🥹🥹🥹 thanks for the encouragement! We are blessed too by sharing what we are learning on our journey ❤️

[@sia.n5906]

I once threw a pillow at my husband when l heard him snoring away during the new born struggle night days 😂 he had been at work all day and came home to make dinner and clean up, but still!!! I couldn't help be resentful he was getting sleep. It happens. Communication is key and being open and honest helps. Thank you for being honest and vulnerable

[@georginasiaw6605]

😂 I can understand

[@jllj9231]

Yea we must understand difficult times are an opportunity for GROWTH. Maturity and dealing with inner healing, repentance and deliverance issues

[@leannen8791]

Very timely video as Hubby and I are in the newborn season too. The sleep deprivation can definitely intensify unhelpful thoughts. Great tips for how to work together as a team in the season. I will look into the EASY method for my newborn too

[@GabesandAnna]

Congratulations on your baby!! We are doing so well this time around so we hope the tips help you too ❤️

[@Agnes-nr7do]

I am not yet in this season but I love watching these videos to better prepare me for the future! So thank you guys! ❤️

[@GabesandAnna]

So amazing that you watch these kind of videos before you’re in the season 🤎🤎🤎

[@londonwilliams6152]

This is why this couple will always go the long run because they are HONEST. May God continue to do the great work He has begun in the two of you. ❤️👌🏾🙏🏾💓👏🏾

[@GabesandAnna]

Aww thanks! AMEN 🫶🏾

[@magdalenelawson]

Very helpful for expectant Mothers and Fathers 🥰

[@GabesandAnna]

So glad it’s helpful! 🤎

[@MrsJ...x]

Whew this video is so real. Parenting but especially the newborn season can put a heavy strain on the marriage. I remember feeling that resentment being up breastfeeding whilst hubby snored away 🤣. A lot of talking and adjusting with prayer helped and it got better.

[@temitao]

I love these videos, children are years off for me but I love watching these to prepare myself for the reality as I tend to romanticise these stages in life ❤

[@GabesandAnna]

Amazing that you’re watching in advance! ❤️❤️

[@missdbrown2967]

This is so real! Also the idea of holding your tongue I agree with 💯 Your partner wouldn’t forget a hurtful word but you are likely to forget that you were even thinking it

[@GabesandAnna]

Exactly this!

[@sylboa]

I love how real this video is. God bless you for sharing. May God give you strength, energy and peace in your household.

[@GabesandAnna]

Amen! Thanks for the love

[@rhemamensah6582]

Thank you #dekufam that’s why I always look forward to your videos . I love them because it’s real and you guys are transparent I learn a lot as I prepare towards the next stage of my life. ❤❤

[@GabesandAnna]

Happy that our transparency can help others 🤎

[@esthermulwa2203]

parenting is a real job anna

[@evanessmuvimi1678]

Gabe just avoid the what did you do during the day question

[@GabesandAnna]

😂😂😂 probably best to

[@sylboa]

Just ask how are you? How was your day? ​@GabesandAnna

[@suzanneclaiborne3265]

I can see where your coming from - say how was your day instead of what did you do Today?

[@agnietmpofu1970]

Thank you❤so relatable

[@GabesandAnna]

You're welcome 😊

[@sinentokozosibeko3675]

❤❤❤

[@bridelamb2000]

I love you fam, such a beautiful couple. Please if I may I ask, how do you feel about having a helper? Even if it's not a stay in helper, just someone who can help once or twice a week to ease the load.

[@BIMPSALMS]

Grandma and new born nanny help

[@georginasiaw6605]

Love your tips❤❤❤

[@GabesandAnna]

Glad you love them ❤️

[@misss7758]

Give Gabe some credit. He is doing alot.

[@GabesandAnna]

He’s amazing but this is the reality of thoughts that come to mind when in the newborn season

[@alphineb1237]

@@GabesandAnnaTHIS!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! 🙌🏾🙌🏾👏🏾👏🏾 No one is saying the spouse is not doing anything but that newborn stage when you’re not sleeping and the main source of food for your baby; it’s hard not to resent them when they get to sleep 6-8 hrs meanwhile you can’t even get 3hrs sleep straight.

[@maripa971]

Hi, you're underrated

[@GabesandAnna]

🙏🏾🤎

[@adepejumobaolorunduro2072]

Pump and take turns in doing the night shifts

[@GabesandAnna]

We could but I’d rather do the nights because Gabes can’t nap during the day as he’s in the office. Anna x