THE TALKING STAGE // Christian Relationship Series // EP 1

[@vimati_queen]

Who else liked this video before watching cos they know it is going to be a packed ❤

[@chefWinny]

I'm here

[@PreciousOlawale]

Don't let your heart leap faster than your spirit. That is so apt. Thank you so much

[@akosuaserwaajulia]

I really love it when you guys give advice. You've earned the right to! God bless you for doing it right for us to learn from you.❤ Now lemme go back and watch😂

[@PriaseGoodness]

Following your channel has really been a blessing to me

[@chidinmaezeamalu]

Am not a fan of following strangers but meeting your channel is a blessing, Thank you for being a role model. I see the growth so far in all ramifications, sister Bae talks more now. Am still hopeful to meeting my own. More grace to you sir/ma. God bless you

[@ChillieCakes]

Sister Bae keeps blinking & that cracks me up😂😂🤣 I learnt alot from this conversation♥️ Thank you so much Stalwart lovers

[@temiloluwaoyetunde4958]

Thank you o!. i'm so happy someone finally shares this perspective. I see a lot of relationship coaches even say you can know someone in one month, howwww? if some scenarios don't play out, you may never know a person's true character. For example, how do you know if someone has anger issues if you didn't give time for them to even reveal the temper to you. If people had longer talking stages, they wouldn't have so many exes. The best time to choose is not after you've decided to date them. That's what love really is; I've seen you to a very large extent and i choose you. You have the rest of your lives to be married so why are you running?. Even if you're old, you've already waited this long, why rush into a marriage that will make you wish you waited a bit more.

[@PeculiarFerdinard]

My questions 🙋‍♀️ are: 1. Is it possible to have friends that are dating when you are on a purity journey 2. What is the best way to turn guys down without making so much enemies in life. 3. How can you curtail feelings that are already growing for someone in a talking stage

[@Discovering_U]

I'm excited about this series. Pls, don't stop. I love you

[@sally_b6916]

This is really informative and it came at the time where i needed it the most..... God bless you for this good work you're both doing. These are my questions: 1. What if during the talking stage, you're growing emotional towards the person and you really like the person and you don't want to assume that the person also likes you because of how much time you spend together, is it alright or okay to ask the "what are we?" Or " where is this friendship leading?" question to get clarity especially for ladies? 2. Please give examples of questions to ask during the talking stage to get to know the person

[@victoriaowoeye]

This episode is really a blessing. God bless you both.

[@Queen_Gbemisola]

Wooowww,this series is starting hotttt🔥🔥. Learnt a lottttt

[@jahdieukam]

Been a while I watched these amazing two. I've missed you two.

[@TheStalwartLovers]

We've actually been posting every week. Welcome back

[@farodoyeomolola2603]

Finally! Thank you for choosing this topic! More grace to you!

[@adejokearemu737]

I don't have a different opinion about talking stage. You said it all correctly

[@olivefaithchanne]

I really enjoyed ur talk show and I want to say thank you sir and ma. I which I can make it as a Reverend Farther. sincerely, staying too long as friend is not easy oo expecially when she tick all the boxes... And then you have be sure if the fellings is even mutual because of rejection and again the time I should be spending on praying for my vision, purpose or ministry is now converted to asking God for leading about a perticular friend or sisters in d talking stage. It's well, I trust the Holy spirit to help us as brothers and just make dis things easy for us.

[@the_nurse_influencer]

Thank you for shedding more light to this topic🙏

[@estheradeoye]

This series is so timely. Thank you Stalwart lovers ❤️❤️❤️

[@Helen_Dcrown]

For the love of relationship gist 😊 Weldone guys

[@NaomiRaphael-p2j]

Am from 🇹🇿 still learning here

[@thedemkal]

I love this video... Thanks for yielding to the Lord. More Grace for this series

[@vanessaotoo589]

This so educative and very informative and I can really resonate with it. For me, I think this is very timely. I’m currently in a talking stage with an old friend I’ve know for over 7years and I can relate to the part where you quickly want to move things to the next level 😂😂. So I realized that my flesh was going ahead of my spirit and so I prayed a prayer. I told God to help me manage my emotions and rather expose his intentions to me. Honestly, after that prayer I suddenly became cool and peaceful within. I’m not highly expectant of anything and I’m okay even if it doesn’t end up in anything serious. Thank you Uncle Boo and Sister Bae☺️

[@medicay]

Thank you for this amazing episode Stalwart lovers 😊

[@abigailolayemi8605]

Having boundaries is key.

[@Derinscuisine]

Thank you so much for this. Can’t wait for the other episodes

[@Sha____]

Noticed you’re wearing the same thing in different colours 😍❤

[@OluwaseyiAlawode-hl9ku]

Glad to have you guys back ❤️🔥🔥

[@TheStalwartLovers]

We never left. I don't know why KZbin didn't recommend our videos to you guys.

[@AkosuaSerwaa-]

I don’t think I agree with the fact that talking stage is always “natural, subtle and organic” Because for instance, you meet someone at an event, within a month, they like you and express interest in you In this case, they’re only making their intentions clear to you so as not to put them in the wrong zone (lol) From that day onwards, if you think they’re someone you’re also interested in but it’s too soon to be in a relationship, you’re in a talking stage. In this season, You’re praying , seeking counsel and studying them to see if you’ll make things official. There is nothing subtle about this and both of you are aware what you’re doing.

[@Michelleanene]

Thanks for this series ❤

[@AriwayoEmmanuel]

Very Helpful...Thank you for this session sir and ma

[@Dems413]

This was very informative. Thank you.

[@Lifestylewithjessy]

My question is what do you think about the prayer “ lord if they’re not for me let them leave” ??

[@danieloluwapelumi8900]

God bless you Stalwart Lover❤

[@thedemkal]

I love you guys so much. May God keep you both ❤

[@ihejirikaadaeze1660]

Am really enjoying it

[@priscilladellor9784]

Wow, such worth of wisdom

[@queenesther7588]

Thank you for this!

[@jumokeajide7770]

Profound!

[@Adeola_Adeyemi]

Thank you for this sir and ma❤

[@efua_hasford]

Thank you so much😊

[@faithafolabi5278]

Thank you Very much for this. So now, if there's rush of emotions and leading words, how can one correct it

[@PriaseGoodness]

You talked about ticking boxes Please can you list them

[@PeculiarFerdinard]

I have a question 🙋‍♀️: What if you have quite a number of male friends, like 3, and you’re very open and friendly with all of them, does it make you look like you’re easy to get at?

[@okoroowen]

Thank you for this

[@ihejirikaadaeze1660]

During talking stage that's when one get to know someone likes and dislikes Talking stage is it same like dating? Please if not what's the difference between dating, talking stage and courtship?

[@thelovely961]

Really good video, I agree with all points apart from 2. I feel like some really important points were made however, God does speak and tell people if someone is the one for them or not. In The Bible God has orchestrated a couples, either directly or indirectly and there are many couples who have heard The Lord say this is the person for them, who are married. I understand this is not the case for everyone but saying he won’t or doesn’t isn’t really true. Also, courtship doesn’t involve sexual intimacy at all. courtship is more so a godly context of relationships so if sex is happening in a “courtship” it isn’t really a courtship at all; it’s more so worldly dating or compromise. I thought this was such a wonderful video otherwise, with some great tips!

[@mercyolawore8689]

hmm this topic is very interesting, because I believe in friendship before a relationship even if I like the person, is that always advisable because people in the world make you feel like you are friendzoning the person meanwhile you just want to genuinely know the person on a neutral level. How can I balance that as a lady especially when explaining your belief on this matter. most guys say if a lady friendzones them they take their mind away from the lady

[@PriaseGoodness]

Thanks so much

[@PriaseGoodness]

Please how can i ask a question Can i ask a question here

[@TheStalwartLovers]

Yes you can

[@sandrananor4725]

I don't know if I'm late or on time but I want to get a clarification on something please..... After several months of being friends(talking stage) with this guy, we both realized we had feelings and made it known to each other. But I had it clear for us to wait, study ourselves more, and other reasons. In the process, we didn't involve in romantic acts but just continuously reminded ourselves that we love each other....would you still consider this as a taking stage ….if not...what would this be? because it's definitely not a dating stage

[@Delfie-Dif]

You are courting the person

[@chimwemwenamutowe4182]

Good evening, Sorry for using the comment section.I received a notification about sending or donating for a breakthrough to an orphanage from this channel,I was wondering if the account was hacked in any way or it is truly my message Sir

[@TheStalwartLovers]

It's a scam account. Not from us.

[@WinnieWyn]

Please is TheStalwartLovers1 your other channel? I received a message from you and i want to know if you're truly the one

[@TheStalwartLovers]

That's a scammer. We don't go by that name and we would never ask you to send money in exchange for prayers. Please be careful out there.

[@hadassah997]

I got the same message too. It sounds like scammers requesting orphanage donations. No evil thing will happen to any of us in Jesus name. Amen

[@euniceolawoyin1041]

I got similar message too.

[@StalwartGuys]

Just report them and mark them as spam

[@Helen_Dcrown]

Thanks!

[@TheStalwartLovers]

Thank you for your gift 🙏🏽

[@StalwartGuys]

God bless you!

[@Helen_Dcrown]

@@TheStalwartLovers you welcome 🤗

[@dorcasifeoluwa7204]

❤❤❤❤

[@faithafolabi5278]

This message waa literally directed to me because I'm currently in a fix and I don't want to make mistakes I guess talking stage has really been misinterpreted in this time.

[@desvicfunhouse821]

I just can't believe how you both left your channel to crash to this extent Wake up!!

[@TheStalwartLovers]

It's hard to understand your point. We never left our channel, you can check the videos for yourself. And if you're that passionate about seeing our channel grow, feel free to advertise it every way you can. God bless.

[@priscilla8632]

Thank you for this wonderful session, sir&ma. I have a question. I've been friends with this guy for few years now. Though we've known each other right from secondary school, but we don't talk at all. Then later in Uni, I initiated the friendship. This guy has been my friend and I noticed that the friendship and communication has grown compared to when we just started talking. He's a great guy, smart, brilliant. I actually feel safe to confide in him about some issues especially academics and when I wanted to make a tough decision. But my issue with him is that he's not really into spiritual activities. He doesn't go to church regularly. Though he has changed now compared to when I just got to know him. He hasn't said anything about relationship, but because of myself and my mind, I want to know if he's a no go area even before anything like that comes up? Thanks as you respond, sir&ma.

[@priscillafumadorh7186]

Very helpful...thank you @stalwartlovers