THE TERRIBLE TRUTH ABOUT LUXURY FOOTWEAR - IS IT WORTH IT?? FT. Hermes, Chanel, Fendi, Dior

[@marybethlengyel8875]

Hi Dayle, I’m a little rough on my shoes can’t be helped. I’m disabled and walk with a limp so I tend to beat them up. I only have a hand full of designer shoes. They are all LV. Two pairs of LV sandals, two pairs of LV sneakers. The rest are anywhere from a 100 to 375 a pair depending on the shoe. But my thoughts are I’m grateful to be able to walk in the first place so if I rip up my shoes then oh well they’re made to be worn. Take care sweetie🌸🌸🌸🌸🌸

[@DaylesAddiction]

Now that’s perspective- thanks for sharing.

[@inae4545]

I walk a lot and I have a huge designer shoe collection. I always get them soled unless it’s a delicate evening shoe. Rubber soles are more comfortable, they can be cleaned and they don’t absorb dirt in the same way leather soles does. I normally get soles in the same color as the leather under the shoe instead of black. I like that look better and for me it feels more luxurious. I do not buy shoes if they have a seam on the inside sole as it gives bad blisters. I never clean patent leather with wet wipes. It makes them go sticky and miscolored in no time. When I try shoes before buying I differentiate between a slightly tight shoe and a shoe that will give blisters and pain. I walk around and look at my foot afterwards. If it’s left red dents it’s a no. If it’s slightly tight it’s good as it will form to the foot. Some of my favourite brands due to both look and quality are Jimmy Choo, Fendi and Ferragamo.

[@DaylesAddiction]

Lots of great tips here Aina!! Thanks for sharing!

[@StyledByGwenny]

I've always loved the look of the Dior slingbacks, but not anymore!

[@DaylesAddiction]

Not good, not good at all!

[@NaomiJones-pc3bz]

Dayle, thank you so much for sharing these honest insights and shoe ‘battle stories’! 😂 Hearing about the wear and tear on each pair was so relatable-and definitely makes me think twice about some brands like Valentino and Dior! Adding those protective layers early sounds like a game-changer. Can’t wait for more of your real-talk reviews-they’re so helpful! ❤

[@elsie2]

Over 15 years ago I proudly walked into my cobblers with my first Louboutins to get Topis. He laughed so much, told me there was absolutely no difference between them and a $100 pair from Myer, that women were getting ripped off. Hubbies Church, he said were quality plus and on a different level. Like you, I still buy the ones I love 😆😂

[@aleciacarter9315]

So glad you have warned me off the dior slings as I always ponder over these however I hear they’re uncomfortable

[@DaylesAddiction]

These ones are not the best, the softer fabric ones might be better

[@farleysmythe]

Every pair of luxury shoes I have owned has ripped my feet to shreds. I truly believe they are not made for people who walk or work. Valentino, dior, even Hermes orans. I have a Uk average foot size and width…nothing extreme. I’m too old to be arsed with so much pain just to live anymore and frankly no luxury item is worth it if you can’t enjoy wearing it.

[@DaylesAddiction]

@ that is some hard truth!

[@emjayluxe]

I've never had any of my shoes reinforced/protected and I probably should. I do wear them! I figure, that's why I bought them?? And I love them!

[@DaylesAddiction]

They do put a kick in your step!

[@Buttercookiesssss]

Usually we are either a bag girl, or shoe girl, or jewellery girl, always loving something more. I am bag girl 😅 never feel like luxury shoes are worth it

[@juliel4096]

I’m hard on my shoes. RV is on my list of shoes to buy. My Orans got ruined in a rain storm in Singapore, they stretched a lot but they are comfy. I love my Fendi Colibris, they are stylish and comfortable. Have a pair of Chanel suede loafers and espadrilles that I love the look, but the top of the shoe is so tight on my foot. Such a bummer. I was told that Chanel does a wide in some shoes, so i will have to inquire about that next time I’m in boutique. Designer shoes are worth it if you like the look and will wear them!!

[@heidijay5902]

I used to have a large luxury shoe collection, I also used to have the lifestyle to wear them. I learned that a quality pair of shoes that I paid $350(ish) for lasted longer than the designer shoes & I used to get the leather soled shoes re-soled as soon as I purchased them too. My lifestyle has completely changed (for the better), I don’t work in an office anymore, & I don’t go to the kinds of events or places where I would wear designer shoes anymore either. For me it’s not worth it, but I certainly had fun wearing designer shoes when I had somewhere to wear them to (even though they are definitely overpriced for the quality).

[@DaylesAddiction]

Thank you for sharing your experience- I expect we all end up on the same Journey!

[@nickjsne]

My shoes go through it too don’t worry you aren’t alone in that !! I was also looking at my stilettos and laughing how 90% of them look far far more trashed than your Viviers that had a little damage and I hadn’t even considered not wearing them 😂😂 if someone’s that intent on looking at my feet then that’s their private business 😂😂

[@DaylesAddiction]

Keep their opinions to themselves

[@beth3410]

Great video. Great advice. I have a beautiful pair of Hermes shoes I’ve never worn. I will take them to the cobbler and give it a go. Thank you.

[@DaylesAddiction]

Prevention is better than tears!

[@ht7292]

Thanks for a great video. I have similar wear and tear to my shoes as you do 🥹❤️ the first time I went to a good shoe repairer, they told me the common issues for each pair so now I consider wear and tear when I purchase any new lux shoes. Glad yours are all mostly repairable - love that you have a back up pair 🤣❤️

[@DaylesAddiction]

Yes they are a wealth of knowledge!

[@orattik]

I heard that the reason they use a leather bottom is so that the shoe can mould to the specific owner’s foot in the beginning, while they’re being broken in. After it’s fine to resole them.

[@DaylesAddiction]

Oh really, I hadn’t heard that, thanks for sharing!

[@jo_xiaojie]

I love this video. I am so rough on my shoes and I hate the wear and tear 😂.

[@DaylesAddiction]

It kills me to see the damage

[@JenniGower]

I only have luxury sneakers and all of them have worn well but then I don't get to wear them a lot, so I probably will be still be wearing them when I'm in my 80's . 🤣 Thank you lovely Dayle for another great video. You are simply glowing and looking beautiful as always. Much love. Jenni. XX💜💜

[@DaylesAddiction]

Ah Jenni, the sneakers are probably the best wearing but not always the most comfortable. You’ll be the coolest 80yo!!

[@maisali3152]

Hi Dayle. I can't believe how crappy those diors are! My cobbler says to bring in the shoes before they are worn to have a Topy applied. I was shocked at how scuffed my Manolos were after one use. He said designer shoes are the worst offenders usually. I have multiple ferragamo pairs and they wear well. My issue is the heal scuff from driving. My non luxury, but still Italian and Spanish shoes are so well made and don't all this extra pain 😂

[@DaylesAddiction]

The label =pain and suffering yet we still do it!

[@CocoLainey]

Dale, Doria Bag Spa should be able to retouch/paint the back of your Roger Vivier heels so they look brand new. I’ve seen them rebuild dog chewed sneakers & super worn LV/Chanel ballet flats so worth getting a quote for your fav pair!💜

[@DaylesAddiction]

Oooh that’s good to know, thank you!

[@kaylheecarroll3186]

I'm very careful on when to decide when to buy luxury shoes and when and where to them 😊💜

[@DaylesAddiction]

Take it by the horns!

[@kaylheecarroll3186]

@@DaylesAddiction true!

[@delphine_red]

Hello Dayle! I have always loved shoes and they are the first designer goods I ever bought, before bags, accessories… I believe fashion goods are to be lived in and worn. I don’t get why we should keep are best things in pristine condition and unused. I have shoes from Isabel Marant, Gianvito Rossi, Jimmy Choo, Hermès, Aquazzura, Valentino. When buying shoes, I try them to fit my lifestyle and style, and avoid very fancy shoes for a fantasy lifestyle x

[@DaylesAddiction]

Or only wear the fantasy shoes on fantasy occasions!

[@delphine_red]

@ I meant I avoid buying shoes to sit on a shelf, that don’t suit my lifestyle. But I do have some sandals that get less wear, if I feel fancy 😁

[@Theshalina]

I second your opinions on Dior, Valentino and Chanel. I have several pairs of Rockstuds and they are my go to for comfort. Dior never break in and fall apart before they ever would. Chanel…well Chanel are not made to use lol. I have to add an honorable mention that is Gucci. Their shoes have held up for years of wear. I hope to find a pair of Calibris this fall that I can’t live without. Thank you for your honesty

[@DaylesAddiction]

Gucci definitely do great shoes!!

[@lv_lover3393]

We used to have the best cobbler in our small town but he retired and nowhere is as good so reluctant to buy expensive shoes ! ❤

[@DaylesAddiction]

Yes it’s a dying trade.

[@gordon20081]

You look so pretty in this video! 😘

[@DaylesAddiction]

Thanks, you are too kind!

[@DianeRS66]

I take things to the cobbler when I first buy them and have bottoms done before I even wear them once. They hold up better that way, particularly orans. If you wear them, even once, the bottoms go much quicker. I’ve tried it both ways. It’s prevention that saves the day.

[@DaylesAddiction]

So interesting! I'm going to have to try that!

[@hollygrace6814]

Love you Dayle, but we must not be surprised anymore about modern day Chanel. its totally woeful!!

[@deborahcurtis1385]

Heat does tend to break down glue it's a reality unfortunately. But no excuses when you're paying top dollar they can use the best glue and get it right IMO!

[@DaylesAddiction]

I know I know 🙈🙈🙈

[@DaylesAddiction]

Apparently it’s top quality 😒😜

[@hollygrace6814]

@@DaylesAddictionlol we all live and learn, and then learn some more 😂

[@narelleparsons6745]

The best shoes I have ever seen in construction and quality are my Chanel lace ups. Second are my Paul Green boots from Peter Shepherd. I have never worn leather soled shoes out without getting a Topy sole first. Regarding your Chanel sandals, you should have got a Topy sole then polished and waterproofed them before wearing them out. Leather is not necessarily fully waterproof. For many years I have used Collonil sprays and creams for whatever fabric. Also, Saphir leather products are the Rolls Royce for their leather products. I am a quite fanatical with leather maintenance, but it pays dividends. The problem is my purchases last an eternity and the urge to buy more requires restraint. Unfortunately, leather being leather, is not a fabric to be knocked about. Thats my tips for leather maintenance. When I visit Melbourne Evans is the place for luxury shoe and bag repairs. Amazing work but expensive. They are the only shop that I know that sell Saphir.

[@DaylesAddiction]

Lots of wise words here! Thanks for sharing!

[@narelleparsons6745]

@@DaylesAddiction Thanks Dayle. I could rave all day about leather care. I must add so that I don't mislead anyone, you do not polish Chanel leather bags. They simply are wiped. Also, Saphir sell very different leather products. For example, nappa leather has its own product. There is an online site I have seen that sells Saphir but you need to be careful and choose the right leather maintenance for creams etc. as they differ for different leather types.

[@deborahcurtis1385]

Collonil products are the best!

[@SvDu-bb7rh]

The shoes you’ve shown are fragile by design, however Dior quality reminds me of China’s cheap shoes in the 90’s ))) I wear flat shoes, so the only thing I am trying to avoid is light colour sole.

[@DaylesAddiction]

They are definitely not for me!

[@bryanbautista539]

Whew! And I thought I was the only one cursed to destroy my shoes! I would understand if you have a fav pair and you would work it to the bone but let’s face it some luxury footwear are just not made well! 😢 And if you hardly use them even if you put like the silica pouches on the insides of your shoes and the dehumidifier to repel moisture in time they will crack! Thanks for your honesty! Some KZbinrs will say they have nicks on their shoes but will not show it clearly on video as if they were devastated over a minor nick but you really show the condition of your shoes! It made me feel that I’m not the only one doomed to have dysfunctional luxury shoes! I’ve discovered from one KZbinr to add like those clear plastic pads under your sneakers where the soles get most of the pressure hence it tends to thin out the rubber. Just bought some and will soon see if they will actually work! Thank you! New subscriber here! 😊

[@deborahcurtis1385]

The reality is we just all need staff! If you have a dehumidifier going and silica it will inevitably dry out the leather so you must in addition, use leather conditioner on the shoe to counteract the damp. Living in a material world is not easy if you lack staff! I need a personal secretary for sure...haha!

[@DaylesAddiction]

Thanks for subbing and sharing! It’s a harsh reality of enjoying these crazy beautiful shoes!

[@totesgene]

I only have two pairs of Fendi sandals. The one I wear the most have been almost daily wears for 2 1/2 years and there is no wear what-so-ever. Just take some white out on the tips of those Chanels :)

[@DaylesAddiction]

Ha ha old school!!

[@lindathompson5099]

Dayle if you love them wear them! I show toe damage a lot must be my tripping around 🤣

[@DaylesAddiction]

Same here!!

[@Lifeandluxdelights]

She is a kicker 😅 I am shocked by Dior and Chanel tbh! 😮

[@DaylesAddiction]

IKR!!

[@victoriagb7634]

Can I ask who you take your shoes to in Brisbane, please ?

[@DaylesAddiction]

Absolutely- Hallelujah on Adelaide St

[@helenhou2687]

I get topy done on Chanel shoes before I start wearing them the first time .

[@DaylesAddiction]

Smart!

[@Orion126126]

Do you have any luxury recommendations for women’s footwear that run big. Most designers run extra small.

[@DaylesAddiction]

Most are true to size, Gucci tends to run larger

[@deborahcurtis1385]

Dayle you may need shoes specifically for driving. Leave them in the car and put on your special day or night shoes on inside the car after you've parked. I'd assume most of the damage is driving-related especially the top kicking during driving but also the back of the heels. Also you will be kicking the tips of the pointed shoes when you are using stairs. Walk slightly to the side of the stair so you'e not attacking it straight on, like kind of parallel. (I've given you the tip of getting the resoles done immediately after you buy the shoes. Not sure if you recall that?) Tod's have great driving shoes but also other brands have them. I saw some in Coach recently and they're well worth it to preserve your shoes. They're basically glorified moccasins but they have backing on the heel which is ultra reinforced. They're expressly made for driving! I'm not sure if you or Meredith appreciate my constant hints and tips I do sound like a know-all and don't mean to come across that way. But I do really enjoy sharing the knowledge even if it helps someone else. Annoyingly yours, Deb

[@DaylesAddiction]

I’m always intrigued to read your comments some tips I take on, some don’t work for me but I still appreciate the time and effort. Thank you 😊 Honestly Tod’s driving shoes are so ugly…. I’d prefer crocs!

[@deborahcurtis1385]

@@DaylesAddiction LOL I know but the main thing is the shoes stay in the car!!! Unless you're in an accident you won't be seen in them in public like ever. Crocs are unspeakably bad! I have 2 pairs one at each end of the house for gardening issues. FWIW I type really rapidly so even when a post is long I haven't sweated over it so no worries!

[@KazzyDisko]

Always, always seem to come unstuck on escalators! You know where your toe is too close to the stepfall, and it starts to lower as you get to the top- oomph! 😫Need to use elevators where possible. I think I also tend to stomp/walk heavy in my shoes 😬😂

[@DaylesAddiction]

I have to work myself up to time the escalator mount and dismount

[@AnUrbanGypsy]

Omg patent leather rips my feet to shreds, hate wearing shoes in. I really should look after the couple of designer pairs I have much better. Wow, the Dior, Chanel and Aquazzura though - how disappointing! Bedroom shoes only I guess 🤭. My Fendi Feel Dad sandals are heading into their 3rd summer. Those things are indestructible!

[@DaylesAddiction]

I agree those sandals are indestructible! Love the comment re bedroom shoes! 😂

[@lesliecraven3087]

Huge fan of Manolos and Roger Vivier. And no, I don’t wear them outside. Haha

[@DaylesAddiction]

😂😂😂

[@jacquelinemoss1911]

Luxury shoes are definitely for the most gentle of soles 😉 I used to buy so so many pairs of luxury shoes, I had about 150 pairs from Jimmy Choo alone and I have since learned that it’s a complete waste of money! especially as I like my things to be pristine and shoes go on the ground and therefore look worn the very first time you use them 😕 It doesn’t mean I don’t still buy them but it’s not a priority to me anymore

[@DaylesAddiction]

It is so interesting how your priorities change.

[@0123Soleil3210]

Personally I am a US4/FR35. I can get away with flip flops and some trainers in children size but if I want flats or heels in my size I have to go designer as the main stream does not carry sizes that small (and I don't want childish looking shoes, I want women shoes in my size). And I am careful but they do get damaged, especially on the toe part like yours.

[@kpops168]

The only ‘luxury shoes’ ie pumps I think are worth it are Louis Vuitton Archlight Pumps with painted toes, rubber heels and soles. They are also comfortable and I get them in kitten heel - in white in monogram and denim, in patent, in all the colours and materials. They are super tough with their rubber components, neoprene foot beds and canvas sections. I always wonder why Dayle why don’t you get archlight pumps?! Why o why? No need for topi which like fake nails removes a lot of leather in the process. And they are stylish, work with my sporty preferences, go on with velcro and grippy on slippery streets. I can run in them if needed and the need sometimes arises. I do not like adding topi soles to leather soled shoes as they ‘lift’ at the point and I’m a pointy toed lady! I cannot handle the damage topi does to the point when it pulls away at that edge. It hurts me in my soul. Each time I do it to new shoes it hurts and a few wears in and I’m back asking them to stick the topi back to the point but the damage by then is done. I am a real stomper in my shoes though I like them to look delicate so it’s quite an ask and there is only that one shoe that meets those demands. (Now boots that’s a totally different video as the engineering is completely different and they can last!).

[@DaylesAddiction]

I haven’t found a pair I love yet as they are a little bikie like but I’ll persist!!

[@kpops168]

@@DaylesAddiction bikie like? In terms of their being quite a bit of black in the rubber soles and details? They do come in a narrow stylistic range I suppose it’s very athleisure in look like you could wear the heels with your fancy trackie dacks and a hoodie🤣 But that suits my very casual preferences and they are pointy enough to be elevated. All rather sporty sexy looking….

[@aleciacarter9315]

My orans are as worn down as yours 😂 we’ll be basically walking bare feet in a minute

[@DaylesAddiction]

Exactly 😂😂😂

[@silkbuttons]

Not worth it if you are heavy on your shoes …..all the hassle and $$ of going to shoes repairs especially since in Australia shoe specialists are a dying breed and how many true “cobblers” exist? Pretty much non existent.

[@DaylesAddiction]

Not too many at all!

[@silkbuttons]

@@DaylesAddiction I miss all those “old” niches in society

[@AliciaLarriera]

You drive in heels 😱😱😱. Skills! But get thee a pair of Tods driving shoes you keep in the car stat imho.

[@DaylesAddiction]

😂😂😂 just a humble pair of drivers 😂

[@AliciaLarriera]

And I’m Pretty sure they have mauve ones!

[@AliciaLarriera]

@@DaylesAddictionwell I could have suggested crocs but not when we’re in the luxury bubble 😂 btw there are cobblers in Sydney who can colour match your viviers etc and erase those marks on the beloved mauve babies. Let me know if you want deets. x

[@ItsOnlyWarPaint]

You need to take more taxi’s and less walking 😂

[@DaylesAddiction]

True!!!

[@eileenr9932]

👠 😱 💀

[@DaylesAddiction]

😝

[@WilliamTownsend-w1f]

Gorgeous shoes (lots of hiccups) you have to love them to go thru the maintenance. -Lori 👠👡🩰👢

[@DaylesAddiction]

Indeed you do!