The Third Biggest Enemy to Homemakers

[@katharinesantana7147]

You are the Madam Chic in my life, thank you for inspiring me. 💕

[@TheDailyConnoisseur]

Thank you, Katharine!

[@Shannon.Hazleton]

Totally agree!

[@tonicarey971]

Homemaking is noble and important. And you're right about being prepared...absolutely everything breaks down if you're unprepared! It took me a long time to learn to think about tomorrow today.

[@marthaneudorf1899]

Wow that small phrase, think about tomorrow today is so powerful and true.

[@paulajohnson7075]

This video was not only a good lesson. It was absolutely a work of art: the music, your calm movements, your “talking” at times without saying a word, your example~showing the work and then the reward! Lovely! Thank you, Jennifer.

[@TheDailyConnoisseur]

Thank you, Paula!

[@liddfamily10]

This was absolutely beautiful and inspiring. I love watching your videos Jennifer. “The wise woman builds her house but the foolish tears it down with her own hands” Proverbs 14:1. God Bless 💕

[@MsPants1632]

The Liddicoat's wow I really needed to read that!! Thanks for sharing 💕💕 Like an ah-ha moment!! 💡

[@liddfamily10]

Jen Pants we are all a work in progress 🙂

[@nishobit.1293]

Homemaking and raising kids is the most valuable and responsible work. Thank you for all your videos. I like your calmness and poise. 🙂

[@nancyfelkner9782]

Thank you for these words. My two downfalls - clutter and disorganization! They keep me from getting to those activities I love - reading, piano, sewing, etc. I love the book you were reading in this video. They faced such chaos, major home repairs, but they loved their food, neighbors, and even the repairmen! In the midst of the chaos they enjoyed their life in Provence.

[@SallyAnn191]

I like the idea of 'boutique home' mentality. There used to be a programme in the UK called 'Upstairs Downstairs' about life in Edwardian times and watching the routine of looking after an Edwardian home always motivated me to be tidy and clean.

[@bpattique8753]

Such good advice .. and beautiful music too. My mother always used to say "Never put off till tomorrow, what you can do today" I've always done that, and I do think it stops jobs from mounting up. :D

[@Shannon.Hazleton]

Yes I completely agree, and especially in this age, young homemakers start out not knowing where to .... start! I spent many years drowning in frustration and constantly telling my husband that I was set up to fail in my job as a homemaker because I didn’t have working systems in place and didn’t even know how to get to that point. And once you already have children, it is infinitely more difficult to figure out how to be well prepared for keeping a home. I would love to see you do a few more videos on this topic, showing a few vital areas you spend time being well prepared... If you could show us some of your basic foundations of preparedness, I think this would be so helpful to new homemakers.

[@unprofitableservantofJesus]

Yes, just about 4 years in and I'm still a mess. 😭 But with the Lord i keep praying to be a better wife and mother and he knows I'm trying to honor his word by tending the home and he's led me to certain channels or given me patience and energy to do tasks that help make my home better. I just commented on her last video about how i need to do more meal prepping. So i know that is something the Lord is going to work in me next. Amen. Everything is a process and i should enjoy it instead of trying to be perfect at it already 😓

[@marlenek3412]

This was so adorable :) baby Connoisseur popping in 😊 This series is so enjoyable, the message, and the aesthetic.

[@BlissPeterson]

Loving this series, and your writing, Jennifer. When I first read your book and began watching (many years ago!), I would have called myself a hopeless housekeeper. I never resented being a SAHM/homemaker - I'd left a job as a busy litigation attorney (which I loved) to be at home with my kids (which I loved more.) I considered it a privilege (and still do), but I felt hopeless, as I did not learn about routines and habits as a child (and was always a slob..it becomes sort of a self-fulfilling prophecy, once you identify yourself that way.) I didn't want my children growing up in chaos. Your books and your videos have truly changed things for me. Am I perfect and is my house always tidy? Absolutely not. But the improvement is startling, and life is much better. I am still working on ways to improve, mainly to ensure that I can ENJOY my life at home that much more. Thank you for all the motiviation and encouragement.

[@TheDailyConnoisseur]

I loved this. Thank you so much, Bliss xx

[@donnacampbell1641]

This video and advice is good for everyone trying to keep their house nice and organized. I am retired and live alone. I had a housekeeper for 20 years or so while I worked a high stress job. Now, after 31 years of work, I keep my own house and enjoy it and even do a more thorough job than my housekeeper did. If I am not organized, and if I do not stay on track with my routines, then the work increases and is harder for me to do. I am always amazed at where you got such wisdom as such a young age. Thanks for your help.

[@TheDailyConnoisseur]

Thank you, Donna xx

[@yaelrar.4460]

I love cleaning videos. They truly get me inspired to tackle my home.I love knowing there are other women like me who take pride in their homes and creating a lovely atmosphere.🌿

[@carmenchristel3271]

Deine homemaker videos geben mir so viel Kraft und sind so wundervoll!!!Vielen Dank dafür,liebe Grüsse aus Deutschland

[@colleencmason]

Yes! I find that simplifying is the best way to be prepared! Great video! ❤️

[@TheDailyConnoisseur]

Thank you so much! xx

[@karendavidson5455]

Jennifer, this is a message that deeply needs to be heard. Society today is clearly showing the need for home life to be put back to number 1.

[@CynthiaL]

I love this video! I have been using the “boutique home” mentality for a few years - this philosophy helps keep me motivated. I definitely agree with you, being prepared is so important - our homes are a reflection of ourselves, habits and attitudes included. Thank you for always sharing your wisdom 💕😊

[@TheDailyConnoisseur]

Thank you, Cynthia!

[@Glowupby40]

Tea on the sofa? Living on the edge, are we? ;) Thanks for the video. I enjoy this series.

[@amandazplace5663]

So true! Whether you adopt the Flylady method, are a list maker🙋, use a planner, whatever, find a way to be prepared. Then, those daily unexpected moments won't throw you wildly off course.🙌🙌

[@myrasimmons3535]

Yes, being prepared and organized makes what would be a "major setback" simply a little "bump in the road". I have adopted a cleaning routine over the past year that I don't deviate from hardly ever, but I have had to adjust now that I am back at work full time. Adjusting simply meant moving my "desk planning day" from Wednesday to Thursday. I also realized that I don't have to do the actual grocery shopping. I can order online and pick it up on my way home from work, saving me about two hours on a Saturday. It makes it even more important to menu plan and write out a grocery list so that when I get ready to order, I'm not wasting two hours online trying to figure out what I need. I have two built in "catch up" days in my week. If something happens on a day (like today where we had a major vehicle problem and it's our midweek service at church) where it makes it impossible for me to do my daily home blessing task, I have a day that I can move it to in order to catch up. I use Flylady's routines as my inspiration, along with your books, but I make my routines work for my life. Routines and order make my life so much easier and peaceful.

[@sparkleafter50]

Your video's are a break and breath of fresh air for me. When I need to take a break from my day I watch one of your videos and it is like having a cup of tea in a peaceful setting.

[@TheDailyConnoisseur]

Thank you, Tammy xx

[@suzanneandersen7319]

Oh I love this series Jennifer, keep them coming! I love how you take so much pride in homemaking and it helps us not to fall into the feeling that it is so mundane. I like to listen to 1940’s music while I clean and it really keeps me focused. I don’t watch tv anymore as I feel that it is much too distracting, but I find like you, reading, knitting or embroidery is so relaxing. Thank you for such a classy and wonderful channel!

[@jennifer9567]

I sincerely love these videos! I completely agree with being prepared and sometimes I find when I am not, I end up feeling overwhelmed instantly! Thank you so much Jennifer! I really feel inspired watching you clean and cooking. :)

[@jenniferstilwell3817]

Totally off-topic, but as a professional pianist, I want to say THANK YOU for not loading the top of your piano with lovely little decorations! Our pianos are not curio shelves 😂

[@ericagoehring1089]

I am enjoying the series! I am usually a homeschooling mom, but this summer I spent many hours working as a postpartum doula. It is important and rewarding work, but the experience ABSOLUTELY showed me my heart and my passion: HOME. I am so happy to be back where I belong!

[@larag1764]

Lovely to see your oldest girl and baby boy in this video. Both are growing up so fast ! For me, having dinner organised is the most important task - once I know what I’m cooking (or better still, have already cooked and just need to reheat/complete) I feel like the rest of my day falls into place.

[@melstyle7619]

I can not imagine getting everything done throughout the day for the family and home if I had to work. I have watched my mom work and come home exhausted. The house in neglected because of it. Believe it or not I cannot prepare unless I put it on paper. It’s like the words are so much more of a reminder and visual as you go about your day. This video is so true.

[@DansonforJoy]

Oh, Jennifer! My heart is full, because this video spoke so directly to me. Preparedness is something I am constantly thinking about, striving toward. It can be exhausting, though, in certain seasons of life, and I so appreciate the reminder of the beauty and peace that are found in making preparations for smooth days. 🌿 (Loved ALL the home making footage in this video!)

[@lisamariewolaver4992]

I love this video. (And your velvet scrunchie!) I am entering my third year of marriage and baby two due in Oct. I have been working hard at prepping and organizing this summer and its paying off! Its much easier to do the daily tasks and very pleasant to dwell in our beautiful little condo. Thank you for the encouragement.

[@megangoggans1208]

Thank you for doing the home making series. I am not a home maker myself, or a mother, but I am a wife and a home owner who desires to make our house feel like a home. I find it hard to work 40+ hours a week and also keep house. Keeping house is definitely harder for me than my usual 8-5 job. Thank you for encouraging me with these videos and reminding me that I am not the only one that struggles.

[@lindas.1751]

Yes. Finding a meal planning approach that works for us has made a lot of difference for me

[@felitascott434]

Thank you for the homemaking encouragement! I just pulled my apron off after a late dinner & a Bible reading with my family. A FULL day, but rewarding. You shine greatly Jennifer & you have such a beautiful family. Keep bringing the encouragement to us 🙂

[@sasikalanbs]

WONDERFUL WORDS - HOME MAKING THOUGH IT CAN BE OVERWHELMING AND EXHAUSTING IS ALSO DEEPLY SATISFYING WORK.

[@remoorekable]

THIS!! I have been struggling so badly. I am an organized person. I am a no clutter type of person. I don’t like chaos. So how did my home get socluttered and my kids don’t help and I mess up routines and even though I’ve gotten better and cooking meals at home, I am not perfect. I’m loving the homemaker series. I definitely need to check out Madame Chic’s books!

[@bootomatokidsbooks6535]

This is an area that doesn’t come naturally to me. I have to be very intentional about being prepared because something in my nature just doesn’t want to be. 🤪 With school starting, I’m doing my best to make lunches the night before, load backpacks the night before, ect. It really does take the pressure off in the morning.

[@anitas5817]

I love going back to these older videos - they’re still beautiful and inspiring, and I always get something from them that improves my life a bit. This one makes me realize I haven’t really organized my cleaning supplies to make it easy to clean, or really been intentional or consistent with meal planning. Thank you for the inspiration Jennifer.

[@bonniedixon8172]

Just the time watching your videos is a breath of fresh air and helps me so much!!! Thank you so much for sharing what’s on your heart.It truly is a blessing to me.God Bless!!!

[@rachel_carns]

The scene of you and your children is so precious! 💕I am loving this series and it is helping me focus. 😀

[@sarahs458]

I needed this message today. Just yesterday, it hit me that I have been allowing myself to fall into unpreparedness with my meal planning... making me way too stressed. I suppose summer got the best of me. So, I sat down with favorite recipes and an old meal plan, and got to work! Then, this message this morning. Thank you! ❤️

[@hollycaffeinatednerdgirl940]

Lovely video with the littles popping in. I've always kept a clean and tidy home, it's important to me, but lately chronic pain and a tad bit of the blues is making me less effective. I just need to refigure and change my approach. Thank you for the inspiration and words of wisdom. 😊

[@anitadizney8987]

Me, too. Let me know if you find answers!

[@gotlaufa]

I'm learning so much from your homemaking videos! Growing up my mom was always working & busy with social activities, so we didn't have a harmonious home life. I remember my white envy for one of my friends whose mom was a 100% home maker and seemed to be at home for her, ready & prepared. I wanted that for my children someday. Of course my own home is not perfect. I am struggling to balance running our business, running our home, and spending quality time with my kids every single day. Your videos are a great help - both as how-to's and inspiration to keep on going.

[@racheld.2046]

Very timely message Jennifer. ❤ We are walking through some very hard trials right now & the new homeschooling year looms close. I need to step back, take a breath & be prepared. Blessings to you and please keep this series coming ❤❤

[@juliedavis4542]

I'm really enjoying this series Jennifer☺ I work full time and really struggle keeping a good routine at home. I'm organized and regimented at work but my housekeeping routine is all over the place and it bothers me so much. I know organization is the key! Thanks so much for sharing!

[@RosieJ7223]

These videos are some of my favorites, Jennifer. When you have B roll of cleaning or just everyday life with your voiceover full of wisdom and encouragement. Love your channel ❤️

[@TheLadyoftheHouse]

How funny Jennifer, I’m talking about my unpreparedness today! I agree, everything in our home runs so much smoother if we would simply prepare! Wonderful enemy to shed light on and something I’m still working on🌹

[@TheDailyConnoisseur]

I know! That's so funny we were on the same wavelength today! haha Great minds xx

[@AmaryllisTV]

You're do right about being prepared. On the days I am intentional about planning all my tasks the days are just easier. Routines are not just for the kids.

[@bevsines876]

It's been four years since this series and I've really enjoyed watching and listening to them. This is one I struggled with mostly. I'm not exactly sure why!!

[@maryblumreich9813]

Mother's home was just as you described. Always clean, neat, tidy. No chaos. Organized and near perfect. It was a one child home, had a full time husband and father, no pets, and mother was a full time homemaker. I had four children, innumerable pets, worked full time, with a difficult husband. A different life.

[@smaira2759]

Love, love this series because it is very timely for me. This was the one I needed to hear today. Forever thank ful to you Jennifer x

[@TheDailyConnoisseur]

Thank you, Smaira!

[@bethi5978]

Lovely video. Some thoughts as I was watching: 1) I find caring for my home deeply satisfying. Even the mundane tasks are soothing to me. 2)I have learned so much from watching and listening to your KZbin videos and have been encouraged to find that others feel as I do. 3) Your home is lovely, and I love your white sofa. 4) As another viewer said, you are the Madame Chic in my life too!. Hope to see your October Chic Assignment soon.

[@michellek.5744]

You are so right. Preparedness is a must. If we are disorganized on the outside, we will feel disorganized on the inside. Once prepared and organized, we are more peaceful and better equipped to handle what comes our way. Love your videos :)

[@lamplightmarket]

These Homemaking videos are truly a blessing and encouragement! I am writing a Home Ec course for my homeschooled daughter in high school, and I am going to include the viewing of this series as part of the home management section. Thank you!

[@MJ-wg3ng]

Your videos are so soothing to watch and listen to 💕 l am an empty nester of 8 adult children. I loved being a stay home wife and mother which is why l am captivated by your videos. Your elegance is truly enchanting as well as your obvious love of family. Stay encouraged and blessed. Much love 💕

[@grannysquareswagonwheels2604]

I absolutely love how the kids were all grouping up in front of the video.

[@sueg.k.6377]

What fun to see the children helping! Thank you for this little series on enemies of homemaking. I'm taking it to heart.

[@courtneyb5145]

Wow! I totally needed this video. This is something I struggle with ALL the time. Thank you for motivating me to take my job seriously and buckle down and come up with a plan. For 10yrs, I’ve struggled with coming up with meals and I just need to think through it and just make a darn meal plan!

[@bluewillow4985]

It is so refreshing to see a young woman who makes the beauty of homemaking look attractive and though a hard job at times, it truly is an art! When I was a young woman being a homemaker was all I desired to be. Though I loved art, fine music and tea time I also incorporated those passions into my regular chores , even having three boys!♥️ I wore an apron and dresses when it was unpopular( still do ) though I enjoy pants as well. I don't know, I just felt compelled to say a small bit about me with another woman who enjoys being a lady and making her home a refuge of comfort and serenity! I believe it is a woman's highest privlege! God bless you!🌹

[@brifren2]

The Madam Chic you are describing sounds just like my Mum. And my grandmothers. And they were French :) They are still my inspiration...

[@kathleenhemingway1884]

I love this series! Thank you for all the work you do!

[@TheDailyConnoisseur]

Thank you, Kathleen!

[@LoriSkees]

This topic hit home with me. Lately I have been running around trying to find my cleaning products and have gotten lax about meal planning. I read “A Year in Provence” years ago and it’s one of my favorites! Also, I’m enjoying the Amory Ames series by Ashley Weaver. I’m on book 5. I think you would love “A Fine Romance: Falling in Love With the English Countryside” by Susan Branch. Thanks for getting me back on track! Love this series!

[@janjentz1053]

Your videos give me a peaceful and meaningful message. Always a joy to watch.

[@wanda520]

You mentioned your washing machine was leaving residue on your clothing. My washer manufacturer recommends leaving the top up to dry out and running the cleaning cycle once a month to prevent mold.

[@giselav123]

Love your tablecloth, it reminds me of Mother Theresa's habit. Her vocation was to the service of the most needy! And our family is "lovely needy" indeed ❤️🌸

[@kallistoindrani5689]

I really like how she says 'keepers of the home'.

[@tayloranthony4322]

I am obbbbsesssed with your home-making series. Thank you so.so. Much 🤍 my life makes so much more sense now & I feel good doing these things , and beautiful being a simple stay at home mom. You’ve literally changed my whole life outlook & the lenses I was looking thru before thank you . So much Jennifer

[@gelstoneadministration5736]

Jennifer, These videos are so therapeutic. However, I truly appreciate your homemaker's series. The messages are so important to teach us to plan, slow down and really evaluate was is important..Family... Thanks Jennifer!

[@seagrape2881]

So inspiring and right before I'm starting to clean the house. #encouragement

[@runtherace1201]

I completely agree. I thrive with routines, get so much more accomplished, and enjoy more peace. Thank you for affirming this.

[@rosieschweebie]

Wonderful video. Great advice. Thank you for making homemakers like myself feel valued and important.

[@Story_1379]

I love these videos so much, please keep them coming!

[@LlamaMama60]

I so love the way you show us how wonderful it is to have a well organized and clean home . I have watched all that I could on yr channel and I must tell you ... You and the way you present yr self and what you have shared has changed how I think and what to change how I present myself and my home and for that I Thank you

[@evasochocki5209]

Very lovely video, as always. The suggestion you gave about finding a routine that you are able to stick with is really the key. my problem has been trying to do a schedule that doesn't work, which ties in with enemy number two : perfection. Instead of a perfect schedule, do what works for you.

[@oakmoongrove9971]

Jennifer, these are just the words I needed to hear, thank you. You are truly an inspiration. i have loved all your books. i am grateful for the time and energy you put into these videos.

[@jamesbriggs5740]

I broke my knee at the beginning of the summer and my routines went by the wayside when I couldn't even walk or carry things. I am trying to reset after a recent trip. Kathy B.

[@janewood2962]

You have and continue to be such an inspiration. My daily goal is to try to DELIGHT in my daily to do's. What is the alternative? They must be done and so it truly is the only way through. Not that I am always successful lol! Oh, and your kids are darling and your hair very chic:)

[@blessedhaven5792]

Thank you for your wonderful videos!! I sometimes find it difficult to find like minded ladies, especially when it comes to homemaking.

[@gaylebuster1079]

I have been working the FlyLady system (Kat) for a year or so. But, now I’m concentrating on decluttering. Your home is clutter free...real key to a peaceful environment and easier cleaning experience. Thanks for your videos.😻👍

[@relaxingmomentsasmr149]

Love these relaxing inspiring videos. This “enemy” is a real problem for me, due to laziness and not motivating myself more. Thanks for the inspiration. So neat to see the book you’re reading, I’m a Peter Mayle fan. A Year in, Toujours, and Encore Provence are in my top favorites. The first book I read of his is Acquired Tastes. I love his writing! Also, he wrote a baby book that is hilarious, I bought it when my son was a baby. I highly recommend since you have young ones. He also wrote a detective novel that is sitting on my shelf and I haven’t read yet. Have a great week!

[@mirandaraquel6479]

Your children are beautiful; such precious smiles. 💕

[@jaricot1056]

I am very much enjoying your home-maker series Jennifer! Thank thank you for your wonderful advice and inspiration! Pauline xx 🙂

[@mtzlfldt]

I can't even begin to tell you how much I'm loving your channel! 😊💕

[@bevsines876]

Thankyou Jennifer fir the be prepared video and yes i've really enjoyed the homemaking series. And a special thanks for mention of Madame Chic. Beverley xx

[@jamesnbrenda8960]

Question about the books you were holding... I know the 3 chic books & the children’s book coming out. However, it looks like you were holding an extra red/orange book cover as well. What is that book as well?? Thank you for inspiring all of us! These are the attitudes I grew up with. A good dinner or supper was enjoyed, then the adults would linger over a cup of coffee and enjoy the conversation. When we were children and all the cousins were @ the grandparents home. We HAD to set in the living room to “let our food settle” according to grandpa. After about 30 minutes of whispering, story telling and snickers and giggles we got to take off outside again and play around the yard. To this day I miss the coffee pot always going and family and friends coming & going, always a family connection. It is kind of sad that we are spread all over the country now. How I miss those days helping grandma around the house (I am sure I was in her way more than helping 🤪) I had amazing parents that allowed us to share and enjoy all of our families! Oh my goodness!! I am rambling!! Sorry! Your vlogs stir up wonderful memories of my past and those who have crossed on over the “other side of Jordan!”

[@TheDailyConnoisseur]

Hi Brenda, the Orange book is Connoisseur Kids, which comes out in September and the red book is Mademoiselle Chic, which is the children's book I did only for Japan. I enjoyed the reminiscing about your family! xx

[@amymaryon]

Love your videos....you are doing a fantastic job in everything that you do .Keep going !!!

[@TheDailyConnoisseur]

Love you, Amy! I know you've been having a hard week too with Andrea passing. It's so upsetting. But God is still good. Sending love, my friend. Jennifer xx

[@TeriHargraveartist]

That candle smells lovely :D

[@joaroy6028]

Your voice and the music in the background is so soothing.

[@manycallmemom8406]

Jennifer!! NEVER run your clock forward! ALWAYS run it backwards!

[@thaomeexiong1420]

Thanks for the inspiration. I have a too be more prepared with meals so I don't always feel like there is nothing to eat even though the frig is full of food.

[@goav3256]

Thank you very much for this series Jen! Very encouraging!

[@Haley_Wozniak]

I've got the cleaning down, but really need to plan meals. I get so anxious around dinner time.

[@RuthGonzalez]

Thank you for sharing. This is something that I want to be better at. I will try to view home making from your perspective.

[@bettysharp8813]

Good morning... You inspire me...

[@SweetAndSimpleHome]

Wonderful video again Jennifer! Great advice and encouragement. ☺️

[@TheDailyConnoisseur]

Thank you, Rachel! I want to send you my new book. Should I DM you on Insta? xx

[@olalila2173]

Thank you...thank you for being here ❤

[@marciewhite5368]

I'm really loving your "enemies" series!

[@susansauls8902]

Your children are delightfully precious!

[@deannab9511]

I love this homemaker series! Beautiful children and great video! ❤

[@megsthriftedlife]

I love these videos. I had this one playing while I popped on my apron to get some laundry done this morning👕

[@22304abc]

Jennifer, you were speaking to me today. I want a tranquil home.

[@sli9301]

Thank you, Jennifer. You are an inspiration! Thank you for your wonderful content here. I would wish to, but will not be able to join your paid subscription..i live on a tight budget. But you are bringing light and hope to my corner of the world, and i can offer you my prayers to the Lord in thanks and request for His blessing upon you and your family; I know this is real and effective. Much appreciation.