The Time Has Come For Me To Say Goodbye! I Can’t Do This Anymore! I’ll Leave You With A Parting Gift

[@peggywilcox9244]

Wow Kevin! That took an enormous amount of courage and self resolve! Accolades for breaking through the fear of what 'others may think' and stand for the beautiful man, spirit and being you are. I am old enough to be your Mother and as such, I can hear and, albeit see how this has been an emotional journey for you. Congratulations for breaking free from these childhood dysfunctional love language emotions.

[@HomesteadingOffTheGrid]

Thank you!

[@TheToyOdyssey]

Love this channel. I think I speak for most of your subscribers that we can all relate to you. Thanks for always being authentic, and an all- around good person.

[@HomesteadingOffTheGrid]

I appreciate that!

[@roserea3156]

I'd rather be alone, it's peaceful.

[@roserea3156]

Glad Travis helped you

[@carriefranklin971]

Agreed, none of us are free of error. Lol stepping forward and away is the best medicine.

[@TheToyOdyssey]

@@carriefranklin971 well said.

[@drewc8065]

It’s bittersweet if this is the end. Nothing but love for you and your family. You are blessed to have a wife who loves you and a Son who looks up to you. You already have everything. Even if you loose everything else.

[@TheToyOdyssey]

Not the end but a new beginning. Kevin is in a better place now mentally.

[@joannezamojski1150]

Wow. Kevin! I'm sorry for what you've had to go through. I'm glad you are able to start building healthy relationships with a couple of your sisters. You are right to take care of you and your family. When people see you climbing out of that hole they're in, they don't like it. But good for you. Stay true to yourself and don't let anyone steal your joy anymore. God bless you Kevin and I send my love and best wishes to you and your wife and son. Reach out for Jesus and he will keep you. God bless you to the fullest.

[@deborahwalker6641]

Kevin, I knew you would not be leaving your KZbin channel. I believe it has been part of your healing experience by sharing everything that you have with all the people that care about you. You make me think, you definitely make me laugh, and today you made me cry. The passion in your voice made me understand how important it is for you to close this chapter of your life. Thanks to you, Dearly and Daniel for the many hours of enjoyment that you've given me. Hope there will be many more.

[@jodavis2243]

Kevin, build your Happiness now with Dearly & Daniel. be at peace, do what you know is right for you. keep up your channel, it is your joy for expression. I enjoy your stories.😊

[@HomesteadingOffTheGrid]

Thank you. Just wait until October. Today was about taking the gloves off. October is about coming out swinging.

[@HomesteadingOffTheGrid]

Thank you.

[@vanessanurkala6868]

@@HomesteadingOffTheGrid I'm so proud of you Kevin! ❤️🌹❤️

[@reluctantninja4849]

Oh Please, don't stop your channel, your stories are so intriguing, fascinating, fresh. You are an impressive story teller. I enjoy your channel, your family, and your forest mystery critters! Please, reconsider your decision. Remember, We All have luggage from the past that others refuse to let go of. Yes ,we all make mistakes ,we learn, we grow, we must let go, forgive ourselves and forgive others. Distance yourselves from toxic family/people cut them out of your life. Yes, be true to yourself. You are a man of courage,fortitude, honesty. You are blessed with "Dearly" and your precious son. Hold them close, they are a great blessing of love.

[@johnweimer2685]

Much love and respect for you! I have always enjoyed your channel

[@lola-littleoldladyadventur5353]

I have loved this channel for years. And even more so now. So many of us have pasts that we don't want to divulge. But knowing yours makes me respect you even more. You could have gone down a dark path. But you are mentally strong. And one of the wisest people I've ever heard. Lots of love to you, Dearly and Daniel.

[@lmhoovable]

You are amazing. Had to "divorce" my two sisters because of the toxicity. have felt guilty for years because of it. time to say goodbye to the guilt. now my niece (daughter to one of the sisters) has come to the same realization. sometimes being vindicated is a good thing. thank you for sharing...you are a treasure!

[@HomesteadingOffTheGrid]

We are not alone, brother. We're just silent. But silence can be deadly. Congrats on making the right moves for you.

[@dps5819]

Its absolutely exhausting how some people are so miserable with their own life they need to continue to spread that misery with those they have resentment or maybe its jealousy, you need to just be you & focus on your beautiful family, I honestly can relate to what your saying, I to have made a choice to keep out those who bring negativity in my life, those kinds of people are not worth the energy given, life is to short...

[@HomesteadingOffTheGrid]

I totally agree!

[@oldmcdanelsfarm592]

So true!! Misery does love company!!

[@shawn4notes165]

Yes too many people backstab me in pass and if you are not truthful then forget you, time to move on but the people who are good around you , hold on t o them and make them part of your family. Blessed you and your family. Can not until October to hear your stories

[@HomesteadingOffTheGrid]

Amen!

[@marilynadams349]

No one has it too easy. You have gotten better . Do not give up.

[@at89able]

Plz don't stop. I love your channel. Don't worry about what people think of you. Keep being you and just delete those types of people from your channel. Qkeep pushing on. Don't ever quit or give in. There will always be haters.

[@jenniferdriscoll2517]

Hi Kevin I did what you have done enough is enough... do not feel guilty at all. from Ontario Canada

[@deborahjohnson7090]

will truly miss your story telling and your homestead.I am a 71 yr. old granny who waits every day for your wonderful takes on life and the creatures in your back woods. I will miss you all.please come back one day~

[@HomesteadingOffTheGrid]

Wow, thank you

[@gatorgogo2742]

you left a hole in my heart. i have come to care for you and your family. wishing you only the best. i know how hard and also how painful it is to cut ties with toxic relatives and 'friends'. God bless.

[@HomesteadingOffTheGrid]

Thank you so much

[@belindal9181]

Life can be crazy when you’re raised by mentally comprised people. It’s amazing how they can convince people, turn the storyline into their own stories too. I know exactly what you are talking about! Separation from these types of people is a must to live a normal life. Love your family!🌸

[@bettybrooks9579]

Kevin my heart goes out to you. Knowing your pain from experience myself. I always thought if I loved her the way I wanted her to love me that it would work. My Son Jim is about your age. She made my childhood hell, never knew when her next attack of physical violence and mental abuse would happen. As a child of 12 I was working beside her in the fields, she took the money, was forced to outwork adults and to remain quite, no complaints about hurting was allowed. She is 83 now and still brags she could reach over the back seat while driving and bloody all six of our noses. Yep that's a little about my birth handler. I feel you Kevin. She doesn't talk to me anymore, but it is peaceful in my life. As a adult until I was 64 years old I kept her happy giving her money, buying her clothes and things. Even took her on Hawaii and Alaskan trips. So it ends with me knowing I went above and beyond what I had to. Peacefully Your Fan Betty from Ca

[@HomesteadingOffTheGrid]

Thanks for sharing that. And glad you finally cut the ties.

[@vhurd4996]

Thank you Kevin for sharing your past with us today. It is unfortunate that you or anyone else has to share their past, when it really is none of our business. In my opinion. But, by stepping forward and speaking about your past hopefully it will help others to re-evaluate their lives. It truly is sad that there are people out there that take pleasure in causing pain to people that they do or do not know. I am thankful for finding your channel Kevin. The life you and Dearly and your son live is what most people do strive for. Some with painful pasts that they need to heal from. Some that truly want to live a quiet life out in the woods. Thank you for sharing your lives with us Kevin. I know I truly appreciate your channel and your chats. It makes my day better by seeing the serene property that you live on. Until tomorrow Kevin and Dearly and Daniel, may you have a great evening.

[@ninabenson2827]

Nobody's perfect Kevin. You don't have to be perfect to be awesome. And you, Dearly and Daniel are pretty darn cool as far as I'm concerned.👍💞😎🤗

[@HomesteadingOffTheGrid]

Wow, thank you

[@TheKindnessChronicles247]

What you said really resonated with me ... I just started watching you a few months ago and have really enjoyed your content. I appreciate your openness and honesty. I will miss your content but wish you all the best in your healing process and in all your future endeavors.

[@growing07]

Kevin, I have observing that something was up before your family trip. I'm not sure what has been your triggers, but this is what I humbly think and want to share to you. Family comes out with misery when you are feeling/ring well. Strangers? Screw that ugly. Absolutely NO ONE deserves the time of you. Please take the time to heal,let out, and rest. Come back, even under new KZbin title, I and many others who call you friend, will be here for you and the fabulous Lake family. Take care and know I'm sharing endless bear hugs. .

[@mariaialegria8256]

Hey Brother we all have your six thank you for being so honest about yourself even though it really isn't any of our business ,thank you for being real and being you . Been in your place I was kicked out of my home when my parents found out I was gay , I ived in my car for a year got an apartment and after missing out in so many family Holidays, one day My father found out where I was living and showed up at my place and asked for my forgiveness it's not like your situation but some times you have to walk away from all the negative and toxic things and people just to keep your sanity, we Love You Brother 😍 what ever you were or did in you past you have grown into the most awesome person I have had the pleasure of knowing love you Brother keep being you and being honest May the Good Lord continue Blessing you Brother and Dearly and Daniel, much love your friend and fan Bella. P.S. We all got your Six Brother!!!!!

[@bassgal247]

I have fought my whole life , freeing myself from scarey, disfunctional childhood events. I get it! But, if you truly are gone I will miss you and your wonderful family terribly. Sending love and support. Very lonely place here without you.....a fellow traveler. Bless you!!!

[@catherinegay1404]

Wow. I'll have to email you! I applaud you for this video and content. And as someone who is about old enough to be your mom ( 65 next month...yea!!) I am proud of ya Kevin! Very proud. Please don't let them win. I don't believe you will but... And don't stop the channel. I have abandonment issues!! Kidding..but not. I look forward to these videos, and even though I don't always comment, I always watch. And learn. You are loved & respected by many. Don't you dare forget that.

[@HomesteadingOffTheGrid]

Thank you!

[@lindamiddleton9394]

Going to miss you, I really enjoyed your openness and honesty. So God bless you.

[@gailvaness]

Hello Kevin Dearly and Daniel. I have Greatly enjoyed your videos with your storylines every chance I got. I will Greatly miss all of you. We all understand that there is life out in this world of ours and that we all need to enjoy while it's here wherever we all stay or Travel to and from. Love the way you take Great stock in your garden's, fish pond, Fruit trees. To me that is like a free paradise of Loving what you do. I pray that God keeps Blessing you Unconditionally. Thank you for your Story telling that I have Greatly appreciated and Enjoyed all those times. It was like sitting down at a Campfire and telling stories of a Bigone Era. Thank you for those Great Memories.

[@PaulaWAgentP]

I was just talking about you to my husband last night about your videos. Just wanted to say I love ‘em!

[@HomesteadingOffTheGrid]

Awesome! Thank you!

[@shaman6682]

Both my parents are Army & Guard Veterans, your Red Crayon 🖍 Video was a godsend to the war at home as I care for them in their homes as disabled full service veterans. I’m just hearing the child support part of this, I have two older half siblings who are 50 now that my father paid a ton of child support/benefits to their mother and stopped getting to see them early in their teens.. keep the faith, know you have peers, fans, and 💜 rooting for your peace .

[@MakeItSo1111]

Awwww, please don’t leave; we ALL come from messed up families! You are lucky to have found Dearly! (I haven’t found my significant other, I am 64 and lonely. No children.) You are lucky to have children and have found love! Thank you for sharing your story!! ❤️

[@crazybeautiful1962]

Thank you for sharing. Wow I get it . My family has nothing to do with me only two half sisters left that have nothing to do with me and my only son that has nothing to do with his dad or me we both can’t be crazy , hard to take that your only 38 year old educated son was taught to disapprove of me breaks my heart!! I been married 4 times. I’m finally figuring it out and learning to love myself and stay away from toxic people. Took me the last couple years to realize I’m a humble, loving and kind person. Not the looser I was always told I was. Worked hard for 45 years from 17 till this day as a hairdresser and proud of who I am today. First time I have ever seen your channel . It was divine intervention, I needed this so bad. Sending love and hugs from The Great Smoky Mountains in Tennessee. Happily single with my 3 precious pups.

[@Amanda-pj7yi]

Don't let haters hold you down!! Move on my man, screw what people think! You got this!

[@gloriaolvera8502]

Kevin, I learned many years ago that not all people are meant to be in your life forever…including family. I’m glad you shared your experience with us, it may help others recognize and remove toxic people from there lives.

[@HomesteadingOffTheGrid]

Well said!

[@sassholesoutherner8630]

This is the first time I have come across your channel. I 100 percent understand your situation. You are not alone in it. Society tells us that we only have one mother and we should love and cherish her. What they don't have experience with is a mother or father who is a narcissist. The only way to win in that situation is simply to not play. I went no contact about 5 years ago with my mother. My father is deceased. I wish that I would have gone no contact years ago. Unfortunately for me, I was gas lighted and manipulated for so long that it took moving my mother in after my father and brother died to see what had been in plain view. I can promise the peace that you get when you go no contact is far worth nasty words or looks. Good luck, sir, and I hope you take the time to heal and unlearn all the negative things that you were taught as a child.

[@claire6091]

Thank you for sharing your past with us. I don't judge, we all have skeletons in the closet. Your a good man and have a wonderful family. God Bless you and your family 🙏💖

[@jand1558]

Wow Kevin that was a lot of weight you have been carrying. God bless you! May you now find the peace that you deserve!

[@Amagi870]

I just recently fund your channel. You appear to be taking the healthy path of disconnecting with toxic people, blood or not. I wish you all the best.

[@dieag8273]

Hi Kevin. I enjoy you honesty, your openness, your stories and whatever to hell this channel is about. One thing I have learned in my life, which most people couldn't survive much less thrive. I live by the golden rule. I treat everyone as I want to be treated. To be able to thrive this way I release stress by this. I take care of everything I can and that which I cannot, I leave it a lone until I can.. God bless

[@HomesteadingOffTheGrid]

Thanks for that

[@mariagautier5956]

Thank you for sharing your story. It does take great courage and strength to be real and honest especially in this world today. I too have had many people in my life that were incredibly toxic that I had to cut ties with for my own sanity and well being. Love your channel your beautiful family and your beautiful property! We have your six!

[@janiceferguson1400]

I will miss your stories. Sorry for what you are going through.

[@mikearringtonbf52]

Kevin I just made the same decision in my personal life. I will miss your goofy videos and really miss the insight you have found and passed on to me and everyone else. Godspeed Captain.

[@felixcat9455]

Thanks for sharing this. It’s timely. I’m dealing with someone that I think has BPD and I’m terrified of her. she is scary. She is acting like a stalker and thank God were were never together although she acts like a jealous ex. I finally had to block her after she threatened me. These people are scary. She take something very benign and acts like I said or did the most horrible disrespectful thing you could possibly imagine. They play on your guilt and Shame and finally I came clean and said this what actually happened and not gonna hide anymore. What happened is far more benign that what really happened and I’m not gonna live in fear of this women. Prayer works. I think that people know that they are off mentally. Don’t let them bring you down even though they will try. I get what you are doing. Bring your past to the light so they can’t use it as leverage against you.

[@HomesteadingOffTheGrid]

Exactly! And fyi, there is only one way to deal with BPD's who are NOT seeking treatment. RUN LIKE HELL! Amber Turd. 'Nuff said.

[@cornishmaid9138]

I’m 68 and I divorced my toxic family years ago. Best thing I ever did for my mental health and well being. Good luck to you and your family. We hope to see you return and continue to share with us the truth of your living through these times. Kudos to you.

[@danikellogg4259]

If u leave I will surely miss u…remember your actions, family,honor,morales, these are all within gods laws..I will hate to see u go but understand we love u and your family

[@patriciabeckman8573]

WOW Kevin! True looney experiences. I admire and respect you for standing up for you, your wife and son. Thank you for your honesty and example. 💕

[@HomesteadingOffTheGrid]

Thanks for watching

[@bridgethedrur]

Lesson learned. But man! Having to be you..... with those aholes who "raised" you and your sisters?! Your family is always going to shape who you become. Either because of or in spite of them. Truly thankful for your service ❤️ Love your channel and so happy for getting to see it. ❤️❤️❤️

[@HomesteadingOffTheGrid]

Thank you.

[@autumnvalerio1231]

Ahhh what a bummer!! I truly am sorry for the things you have endured with a mentally ill female and make care taker. My heart is heavy for you and I can truly tell you I know what’s it’s like to be trashed and hung out by the same line of DNA. I call mine ... bio egg donor. It’s sounds harsh but my mom left me at age 8. Just what your talking about is my reality... BPD-- for anyone reading it’s not multiple personalities... it’s actually what you said ...fear of ABANDONMENT! And it’s caused by environment. It’s not like bipolar or just regular depression. Relationships are tough. I am not complacent in my diagnoses and I seek help first from my Lord and Savior Jesus Christ, and I have a professional counselor I see as well- no shame in that! It gave me chills to hear your testimony today. You shared so much and very vulnerable but you also gave so much! Your wife and son are blessed to have you! You are very blessed in your ability to speak and tell stories! I pray for only the peace Jesus Christ can give you! God bless you and your family!

[@HomesteadingOffTheGrid]

Thank you, and good for you, too.

[@rosecampiran9301]

I hear you, Kevin. you come out swinging to set the record straight n let the cards fall where they may. I love to hear it. No Peter Pan. Owning your own junk. Stepping out unafraid of what anyone thinks. I am blessed to hear your process. Yes, you have issues n are loveable. The whole mix of awareness makes you a good father, husband and man. Here's to you! 👏 👏 Bravo n carry on.

[@braveheart4639]

Oh no keven! I love for the way you are! I will miss you! I loved your channel

[@billpuhljr1073]

Kevin, Always the best content. You help so many people more than you may think. Thanks for all you do! Sorry you have to put up with all this BS! We can all relate in different ways on what you been talking about. Always here for ya! Have a great evening! Well atleast try to.

[@HomesteadingOffTheGrid]

I appreciate that!

[@johnathanlewis2049]

Kevin if this is the end of your channel. Gods blessings to you and your family- Dearly aka Giggly Girl and Daniel. Will miss the videos about He She Ir or They potentially in the woods behind your home. One other thing - Thank you for sharing the great and funny stuff you’ve shared with us. Have really enjoyed this channel

[@sarahh4757]

It's not the end of the channel. 🙂

[@maureenjossick429]

Just saying “goodbye” and “good riddance” to a life time full of sorrows and hurt. He was inspired by a close friend to share a big part of his life with us,he never has before. This is probably one of the bravest,most raw videos of unburdening I’ve ever seen. I do not know the man personally, but I am proud of how far he has come. He has truly overcome a lot of life’s BS!! And he just wanted to bare his soul. I’ve since subbed to his channel.

[@victoriarhoades6043]

Praying for you and your family. Stay strong and courteous Kevin. 🙏🙏🙏

[@kathyfromtexas8613]

I wish you, and your family of three, the very best of life. You're a good guy !

[@cherylcooper2838]

Kevin is not going away he is free from hiding now! Best to you Kevin says a woman with a narcissistic (at the least) mother. Life goes on with less bumps without them.

[@lorettavannatta4107]

i WAS RAISED THE SAME WAY!!I fought it and won!! Please keep sharing your stories

[@lindasuebradley6402]

No Kevin. It's hard to face our shortcommings, especially when you have been fighting your family all your life to convince them that you are not all those judgements they have laid on you, but the most liberating thing I have ever done is to compare who I am instead of who they decided I was. I don't fight and argue so I usually pulled back and let them think what they wanted. When my mother passed my brother and sister turned on me like vipers. (i was the bastard child) I made up my mind that I would not allow toxic individuals to be any part of my life. They are dead to me. 6 years later, I love God, my children and grandchildren, and myself. I don't miss them because i realize that I would never have been "friends" with them because I chose my friends based on honor and respect. There was nothing to miss. I should have done it a long time ago. Good on you Kevin. I know nearly every inch of your place, i love you and your family and it's been a pleasure getting to know you. I'm in west Tennessee if you ever get this way I would welcome you in my home. I will sorely miss you. Take care my friend and love like it's your last day, every day, LindaB

[@pattyharrison4758]

Sweet message to block toxic people in your life and including family members, had to do that myself.

[@elizabethlaneberry]

You became part of my nightly routine! The hardest part of my life (at 55) is that my peace comes from letting go and to forgive. Many decades of not being able to, and it's still a struggle. I pray you will find that wave of peace within the brainwaves of the past memories and present happenings that disturb your life. If you continue a channel, go private. Your true fans will be able to answer questions to join. Weed out the haters. Life it too short and unpredictable, and your talents we have loved and thoroughly enjoyed! Thank you for bringing us into your life. Will always be looking out to see you again!

[@bassgal247]

You go, mister! You are a hero in my eyes. Articulate with incredible clarity! Freedom from the past.

[@lorean7268]

It’s a shame the audio was bad, because this was a good video. I pray your family can see what a wonderful person you are through your spelling it out;since they obviously couldn’t see. Praying God’s hands in this for healing of this broken family. My heart goes out to you and your family. One day your children will realize that they are just as human as their father. 🙏🏼

[@gailblackburn8794]

Please Don't Leave We All Aren't Perfect So Please Stay

[@jesseblack0713]

Good for you Kevin, life is to short. Keep your head up brother.

[@DB-po8rs]

I dont know whats going on but good luck to you and yours. Not sure why you'd let that stuff interfere with your channel. Gonna miss you guys. ( can't hit the 👍 )

[@HomesteadingOffTheGrid]

I appreciate that

[@christinakern110]

Thank you for your couage. Its not easy to see what is what with anyone including, ourselves. You have a great future with your own family. My husband (R.I.P.) had mental issues too. It became really hard to understand him at that time. I couldn't understand why he couldn't love me. Our kids love me, now my grand children are here and loving me too. I'm sad he isn't here to see them. In turn I'm glad he isn't here because love wasn't in his heart.

[@dalepadalik3920]

I like your content and You being straight forward with everything you share.

[@Robinsheart711]

Thanks you for sharing! Yes it seems many have different but similar situations! I drew my line 3 years ago! Just thank you for being you! Be happy! Love your channel!!

[@HomesteadingOffTheGrid]

Wonderful!

[@karlasosa372]

There a lot of us with parents/family issues. Yes the best is walk away from them .

[@lisareneebrown-wigginton4045]

Just got to catch up on videos as I have been busy with work summer chores. Thank you for sharing. Ya know Kevin, you have come along way, you have tried reaching out to your sperm donors and made the right decision to keep Daniel out of that circle. Unfortunately we can't pick our family or change their demented ways of thinking. You can see the love in Dearly's eyes when she looks at you. Daniel too. You're a good man Kevin. Maybe the grand finale to say good bye is to write an autobiography and I pray 🙏 these people leave you alone. Much love to you N Dearly n Daniel. ❤️

[@annagullace1403]

Dear Kevin,,, I am truly sorry for the Hurt you must carry within you knowing that your parents are Not the loving nurturing human beings that you dearly crave. The road of life is full of Bumps and Bruises. WE pick ourselves up and tarry on. Please know that you’re a beautiful person. God loves you Kevin and your awesome family.

[@beckyt.3150]

Kevin we all have skeletons in our closets NO One is perfect and if they think they are they got another truthful coming and when they hear it it will bite them and it will shock them , So what if you was married 3 time I know my father law was married 7 times before he got with his currant wife he had now . Its life You cant be stuck into what some call normal realm Life goes on look forward and beyond it. If you quit then I will miss your youtube page .Cause I do look forward of seeing your stories , your everyday life that you and Dearly do .But maybe its another chapter in your life that will need to pass Because we do go on with or without .And you dont need to explain yourself , I dont what is my life is my life it is no one else's business what my life is.

[@elizabethgallagher1575]

October won't be the same, you will be missed by many.

[@dorothygott8527]

Hugs and positive thoughts sent to you and yours.

[@cathybrubaker9705]

I’ve been honored to watch your videos. I think a lot of you, your sweet wife, and young son.

[@PhyllisBennettNana]

May God bless you & your family!! Y'all will be missed!

[@cindyroth3708]

Kevin this breaks my heart hearing this. That's all I can say is I think you are a true great kind guy that has been traumatized at way too young of an age. Keep the positivity going. I'm so happy you have dearly and daniel.

[@HomesteadingOffTheGrid]

I appreciate that. Thank you.

[@rosecampiran9301]

Thank you for all your story. Means a lot. Shared DNA and family of origin, paternal/maternal caretakers are good words for family who play mind games, gaslight, try to use, perpetrate and manipulate other family members and sabotage future healing and recovery. I agree that mental illness is no one's fault and I too expect those who have it in my family to get help. Not my problem to solve. Yes, Kevin, no more secrets. Revealing the truth of childhood hurts, yet your choice for recovery n wholeness greatly inspires me! You are heroic, brave and courageous n much admired. Don't ever change the wonderful journey you are on!! Yes, I love and work on forgivingvthose who inflict pain. The solitude away from toxic family is so sweet! Those who seek health I will embrace. Love to you and I share your joy of a treasured family of 3! It is enough.

[@kathyblessings247]

Love this honesty.... yep my childhood was a mess my "said" parents checked out and forgot I existed I was walking the streets of Seattle at the age of 4 unattended on a daily basis my German Shepard back then that my older half sister got was my true parent yes a German Shepard protected me daily wherever I went.... I ended up in Foster Care at the age of 9 cause my "Mom" had one of many nervous breakdowns my "Dad"was a alcoholic and never even talked to me I was like a picture on the wall n not acknowledged.... never once said he loved me etc Just know your not alone.... they both have passed on.... I have much healing to do.... and I don't allow anyone DNA or not treat me like a sub human.... sad to say my 2 oldest sons are treating me as such these day they are Active Duty and in a somewhat Narcissistic mentality which I can't be zround..... my "Father" was Military as well and spent from 2 Wars etc Sorry a woman turned your children against you.... Dearly is a Blessing 💖 as well as your son... I said it before you have a beautiful family and thankyou again for your service.... I have terrible separation anxiety... so bad that I have refused to be in a relationship for several years now, it's sad cause I love partnership companionship etc I'm a very loving person... Your ex wife is evil.... you treat dearly like GOLD Stay Blessed 🙌

[@donnahelmer551]

Can relate. What you're doing is part of recovery and healing. Congrats for your strength to break through. Prayers for a bright future. Most of my family is no contact too. Not my choice.

[@amethystgarnet3161]

Yup, the truth shall set you free!

[@jeanninejones8350]

I hate to see you go, your videos have been so enjoyable. At the same time I'm happy for you for setting your boundaries and speaking your truth. I was 50 when I did the same thing and since then it feels like the weight of the world is off my shoulders. I didn't Realize how much it effect it had on me until I let it go. I wish you the best, I hope you find nothing but joy. I have

[@LiveFree123]

I have the utmost respect for you young man! I’ve got your six. I’ve been free from a lunatic, in marriage, like you just described for 4 yrs now. You have no idea how timely this is because I’m currently facing some things that will have to be addressed and probably in a public forum. He was a very public figure here where I live but he fled the country. I love you and your beautiful family!

[@HomesteadingOffTheGrid]

You can do it! Let the light of truth in, it is the best cleanser.

[@donnaraeavery847]

Kevin, I got to that point in my life were my toxic family members were getting in my way to a life of happiness. My Phyc doc told me no one ever told you that you have to love your family. I found that odd at the time but as time went on it made more sense to me and I gave up the relationships. Stop letting them live rent free in your head. Your changing your life because of them. Change your life because it is something you want to do, not because of them.

[@HomesteadingOffTheGrid]

Great advice! We can all learn from your experience and follow in your footsteps.

[@mariaialegria8256]

at the beginning of your video a big white rabbit 🐇 hopped into the bushes

[@SuperMedic123]

Please please do not leave altogether. Of all the therapy I have had and all the self help books I’ve read, it has been you that has opened up my mind to see the truth about so many things. You have helped me more than all those high paid professional psychiatric people and or any other help I’ve sought to “fix” my wrong way of thinking which was brought on by growing up in a screwed up family and then seeking out and finding my own dysfunctional home. I have spent years trying to undo the damage done to my now grown daughters. So please don’t leave and end your channel. So many people will love what you are doing by giving us the truth about sickness of the mind caused by borderline personality disorder and other self oriented behavioral disorders.

[@SuperMedic123]

Maybe I should start my own channel and talk about some of the BS that I’ve gone through. If it would help someone I would do it. Thanks for having the courage to do this! Your a blessing from God.

[@lydiataft9979]

It takes so much courage and awareness to find your own voice and walk your own path. Keep moving forward. Our experiences grow and expand us into better people when we allow it. I appreciate you sharing how you are doing this.

[@HomesteadingOffTheGrid]

Thank you, I will. All the best to you.

[@deborahjohnson7090]

Please don't leave.

[@kellymcalien3351]

Yeah, stay away from the toxic ppl. You're fine and you dont have to be perfect. Sounds like they want to run your life and mad because they cant.

[@AlisaD1003]

Much love to you and your family. I honor you for sharing. Everyone must choose to remove toxic people from their lives no matter who they are.

[@kimberlyregan2480]

Thanks for sharing. I feel your frustration. Staying away can be the healthiest thing you can do. Never felt excepted in my family.

[@HomesteadingOffTheGrid]

Thanks for sharing!!

[@marthakuntzman3243]

God bless you for being able to get away from abuse. The smartest person in the family goes for help! Stay well and take care of your family. I'm with you on your outlook.

[@jeannetyska8464]

I love your channel and can’t wait for you to read your stories from your book. I’ll look for you to come back every day. 😚😘

[@counselorscouch1013]

Your openness is inspirational, sir. (And explains many things.) You are a better man than, I, Gunga Din. Many Many Blessings!

[@nancymacinnis]

So sorry to see you go. Hope you are ok, and know how many lives you have touched. Hubby and I watched your videos together. Today we also had to make a big change in our lives and dealing with toxic relationships within family. We've had to do it before as well. It is so hard until you get through it and realize how unhealthy it was. We would be remiss if we did not say we wish you would come back, maybe in the future if possible. But we understand, being burned especially by someone in your family, or just being totally disrespected by them, it sure is a wake up call.

[@nickreno2201]

Just come back to us when you are ready my friend

[@Cdees57]

Kevin i have so much respect for you. I was raised with abuse ...mental and physical from my mother. I held her as she took her last breath even after going thru all i did for 49+ years. There was racism and bigotry from my mothers family. Thankfully my mother wasnt that way. God bless you Kevin for laying it all out there and breaking those ties. Youve gained so much respect from me today. Love your family you have now and leave the rest of it where it belongs....in the past.

[@forestelf1129]

Currently relocating from my toxic family...will pray for u and Dearly and Daniel. Take care of one another and God bless you all

[@HomesteadingOffTheGrid]

Best of luck!

[@GH-cz4zr]

Yes Kevin, the time has come remove from our lives, those we don't resonate with. I have done the same with those who are negative and wish to pull you down, some family members included. Your intuition feels it's right - it's part of our future progression. Warmest Regards x

[@genevahenderson5622]

Thank you for sharing “the rest of the story”. Love you guys and all you do. God bless!

[@HomesteadingOffTheGrid]

Thanks for watching!

[@annrammacher3397]

LOVE YOU KEVIN!!!!!

[@BUGMAN-22]

Mr. Lake like they say you can't pick your parent's but you CAN choose to keep toxic people out of your life. Kinda blows me away, someone would try to interfere with the happy life you have carved out for your self. Thanks for the past advice about not allowing toxic people to influence you or be part of your life. God bless you and your family.

[@sarahsimpkins2736]

Amen...I'm proud of you!!!!.that was my first husband .I've got a keeper this time..

[@rosita3671]

I found your channel…or should I say …it found me! After hearing your story I wanted to give you a virtual hug. You validate my life by sharing yours. I so identify. I’m sorry for the hell you have through. You mention that you are placing an email address so if we need to contact you we can. I have looked everywhere I can think of but I’m unable to find it. Could you, please send it to me, if you’re comfortable sharing… it not I completely understand.🌟✨🙏 It warms my heart to know you are loved by your amazing wife and your loving son! It makes all the difference in the world!🙏🌟✨

[@thefoggymountainwitch]

My best wishes for you three! I hope we will get informations about the new books that you write, so that we can enjoy your storys. Thank you for all the videos you made and the dealing with the lunatic trolls...