The Toxic Rise of Trad Wife Thirst Traps

[@eszteragnesnagy6508]

Why some women think, that being a homewrecker is a flex? 😂 Girl, if he did it FOR you, he will do it TO you. Period 😂

[@Shady.80s]

How you get them is how you lose them

[@ProxyNumber001]

because they think they bring value to the table that doesn't inherently exist in every other human; mix that with an underdeveloped sense of empathy and self worth.

[@Oujouj426]

Wishful thinking that shitty people always get their comeuppance, sometimes they just succeed and that's it. There are pensioners whose "relationship story" is that one cheated on their previous partner.

[@vtauoyctynwbrooylm6008]

They want to show that they're so desirable they can bag someone else's partner. They crave attention, doesn't matter what the future holds.

[@AamuAurora]

The "homewrecker" in question is the man who broke his family and betrayed them. "Why some women..." should be "why some people..." because there are also men who also find pride in this. No matter the circumstances the burden of loyalty lays at the shoulders of family members, and can't be transferred to strangers who "seduced them". Men aren't thoughtless beasts who can stop themselves, and they don't just roam the world, automatically romancing anybody who's willing. If so they'd be real victims, and those cunning women who didn't respect the official ownership certificate/marriage would be responsible for men's choices. However, as we know they're self-aware beings, regular humans just like everybody else, so the obligation of loyalty and putting the family first is theirs, and there's no reason to blame others for their decisions, even willing participants. Again, people who engage in this kind of sport, should be criticized and looked down upon, but they can't be blamed for another adult's decisions. They're morally wrong and bad, but they can't be blamed for a family falling apart because a man decided to cheat. As if the bar was in hell, and there were no expectations for men to be loyal and loving, and the only reason a man doesn't cheat is if other women reject him. This term, "homewrecker" says exactly this, that you should expect nothing from a man who vowed and has a romantic relationships, and you have to rely on stranger women to care more about you than your very own partner. Again, these people are bad and reprehensible, but this word just perfectly encapsulates the whole "boys will be boys" culture, and how women are brainwashed just so they never blame men, and accept infidelity as the result of other women's actions. If I borrowed your money, and told you I couldn't return it because I spent it gambling, would you blame me or the casino? Let's say the casino was flashy, and there were various advertisements inviting people inside that I passed by on my way home everyday; they even offered a bonus just for entering. It was still I who had a moral obligation to you, not the casino that intentionally lured me inside. You could be angry at the fact that gambling ads are so prevalent, experience feelings of frustration at the fact that it is legal to monetarily incentivise people to enter games, but you wouldn't blame the casino itself because you know that the responsibility of honoring our agreement was mine. No matter what business psychology trick was used on me, I didn't inform you about the gambling issues before the loan, I didn't try to prevent it by changing my usual commute, and it was I who didn't consider your comfort and wellbeing, knowing that the rent was due and you needed the money. The marketing team who designed the ads, and did the research on the psychological profile of a typical gambler to be more alluring, was aware of the horrible impact the industry has on people, and they contributed to the suffering, feeding this horrible machine, but they still can't be personally blamed for every gambler's broken promises, their debts and worries. They are morally wrong and add to the evil in this world, but they're just a symptom of a larger issue, not the cause. I'll just throw it here, that I have no clue about gambling but I hope that people in the know can get through my metaphor 😂 However, it's an interesting question, why do people willingly put themselves in the position of secret lovers? I think some believe that it proves their desirability if someone breaks a taboo to be with them, but they ignore the fact that cheaters just look for an occasion.

[@rashikhare8480]

That Cooking with Kyaaa song is gonna haunt me in my dream

[@maeannengo4908]

Cursed LSS

[@beautifullEternal]

In the shtoopid baby voice too 😫

[@onlyanuli]

coooooking with kyaaaaaa👻

[@Sam-2-e3c]

@@onlyanuli I feel like she she’s low-key not even that hot. She’s a butter face and she’s not even really caked up

[@SweetIrony0]

Good lawd! It's so obnoxious...

[@eliza6971]

*me, hearing the cooking w/ Kaya controversy:* eh, let her live, she’s just being a weird pick me for views. *me, hearing her theme song 5x in a row:* straight to jail, immediately.

[@sosomumu]

exactly 😭😭😭

[@Sdouglas0987]

Absolutely. The way she sings it, once is awful.

[@monikatiwari3117]

Same 😭

[@veri.contrary]

i just got to this reaction point, oml i’m about to fast forward through the rest of the example clips 😭

[@KellyKels23]

Fr that plucked my last nerve QUICK!

[@marimarlopez4806]

If she didn’t put other women down in every single video, most people wouldn't have a problem with it. It's the constant projection and competition with other women. Saying I will take your man, me vs. her, etc. She could just say she enjoys cooking while throwing it down and would still get the male validation she so much craves. Wanting to have more traditional roles is not bad, but putting other lifestyles down is the problem. But these types of people get a high from feeling superior.

[@Jen321able]

You're exactly right. I don't think people would have a issue with her dancing and showing off with her cooking. But why does she have to put other women down because they may not do exactly what she does? Then you get called a hater for not liking her.

[@megsmacgregs320]

Fr that’s my only issue with her, I don’t care about the rest tbh

[@Idontwannabemeanymore1]

@@Jen321able fr, although I can’t get over the fact I never see any men in her videos.

[@mariabrown6926]

She's trolling and getting to the bag without taking her clothes off.

[@poisonangel6178]

She’s rage baiting for sure

[@megcomb8838]

"The food looks weirdly British" the ungodly snort I made XD

[@okaycola2]

Actually tho

[@mistress.villaina7591]

one of the dishes looked straight up gross

[@CitySlickerButtKicker]

As a cook and I do it professionally, her food was fucking sloppy AF.

[@chickenfoot2423]

I actually gasped when I heard that bit because I'm from worcestershire😭 I've got to defend us by saying we don't eat like that lol

[@Luv4Apricot]

I’m British and shes not even wrong 😭

[@sammylamsu5178]

Cooking is a basic life skill that everyone should learn. Its beneficial to your mental health and stomach

[@societyisboring]

Yet it's not required in school. But 9 different forms of advance math are

[@uzernamex]

yes 🙂‍↕️ google it.

[@Loool_7656]

@@societyisboring It's required in Swedish schools lmao

[@JellyPop3000]

@@Loool_7656yall are just cooler :(

[@IndecisiveJR]

Honestly it’s just better to cook for yourself. You know how u like it what seasonings u want. U can cook at whatever time u want without being bound to another person opening up their time or energy to cook for u. It’s fun as well. I don’t expect people to be a pro at cooking but like y’all can make a sandwich at least or like the basics?

[@97olives]

If she’s so bad then where’s her man?? She’s been doing all that talk and yet still doesn’t have a man lmao

[@richrich2862]

😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂 cos she ain’t a baddie

[@bumfricker2487]

way better to appeal to the gooners, FROM A DISTANCE, than actually deal with their misogynistic bs for real I'd be all for her getting that bag if she wasn't on the "competing with women, I'll steal your man teehee" pick-me shit

[@alondra_missi]

Looks like she's too busy stuck in the kitchen like a trad wife and not enough hitting the street like a baddie./s This mix isn't working! Picking up mutts is easy, getting someone loyal and loving is another story.

[@rattling.casket]

It's her job,, just like idols and popstars;; if she shows off her man she'll lose all her male fans.. and Money

[@tamiausten873]

​@@rattling.casket not to mention, her male fans would never allow their girlfriend do this, at least that's what they claim.

[@Tediruxevelt]

I’m straight and unfortunately like men, and I will never understand women who try to take someone’s man. Men ain’t even that good.

[@katrinam6795]

Same lol

[@Mira-gu6we]

True, she can cook for him, take the man permanently and bring me a plate of food too.

[@jjbaglazer_]

period 😭

[@dismurrart6648]

And if he can be stolen he wasn't worth stealing. Imo, its that the pickle thought that because he is off the market, he must have been good enough to be secured, but if she can steal him, that means she is more high value than his old partner. I hate using incelly sounding words but I think thats what some of these pick mes think

[@Tediruxevelt]

@@dismurrart6648 well they do say you lose them how you found them. So they shouldn’t be surprised when he’s cheating on the new girl.

[@emilyemily9831]

When men cook, it’s a “treat for the wife” or he’s a professional chef. When a woman cooks, she’s “doing her duty” and “being a woman”. Edit: Literally everyone can cook regardless of gender, but traditionalist values force women to be cooks while men are praised for choosing to cook. That’s my point. Instead of being weird, comment your favorite recipes so I can try them out!

[@judasdubois]

Which is so weird because like I came from a conservative household but my dad was a baker and he cooked as often as my mom and was better at it. I do most of the dinner cooking in my household. Maybe I'm just a picky eater but I want my food done the way I like it which means cooking it?

[@abrielle13]

My boyfriend is the main cook in our house. He loves it!

[@veri.contrary]

and when women are professional chefs?? oh my god don’t get me started with the disrespect and cognitive dissonance (source: was garde manger for fine dining and my mom is a personal chef)

[@judasdubois]

@@veri.contrary That kind of shit is hilarious as if like someone who does something for a living just wants to clock out and do more of it. Like some do, some don't. Some of the worst maintained cars I ever saw were driven by mechanics etc.

[@Kirsten_is_cursed10]

@@judasduboisyou missed the point here..like, realllllly bad. 😅

[@alouette525]

Why are we glorifying cooking for women? It’s a basic skill that everyone should know. Besides I think most women do know how to cook but it is just a mundane task for most that we don’t care to make it our personality.

[@Eiiriz_1485]

Exactlyy

[@metriq8268]

I made cooking most of my personality, so I married a man who also knows how to cook well so he can properly appreciate it. I’m not about to let myself get taken for granted.

[@emilymatthews2990]

Pretty Much how I am. I know some things about cooking but I have no desire to do it after a long day. Besides I live alone, so it really doesn’t matter really. I have nobody to impress and I’d like to keep it that way. What with how a lot of Gen Z men are.

[@fans_xd]

It's only glorified because they want some glorified maid, and you know some people are just lazy to do stuff at mundane/daily task.

[@christinebelzie194]

Ask the incels who prop this up.

[@ramenramrod]

I hear this one coworker chant "Cooking with Kya," and I finally know WTF he's talking about... I wish I didn't know...

[@knjparadise]

omg how is he not embarrassed

[@meljaxb]

💀 boiii, i got second-hand embarrassment and I don't even know your co-worker 😂

[@AirTheHuntress]

Of course it's a "he"....

[@claida339]

Tomorrow is gonna be hella awkward bc now you know and can't forget

[@tigerkitten8352]

I think I would start laughing loudly every time he did that after knowing bc he will never have someone like Kya, but oh yeah, it is a woman's fault HE is alone!

[@sabrinakirby6650]

I work full time and go to school for hours after work; I’m exhausted when I get home and without fail my boyfriend asks me what I want to eat and he makes it for me. I love him soooo much, AND HE DOESNT EVEN KNOW WHO KYA IS (I’m holding on tight and never letting him go)

[@emrald_]

Good luck on your studies, I love that you found a mutual partnership 🫶 the worst thing about this "trend" is that some men feel entitled to have their partners do everything for them and don't value their work, idk what your exact situation is but I hope it all works out!

[@avenuu]

Awwwwww thats so sweet i wish the best for you and your relationship

[@CarterAvalon]

may his algorithm never lead him gooner corners of the internet, amen

[@societyisboring]

I'm a dude I only know of her cause of all the complaints never looked her up never seen her videos

[@Peperina26]

The best wishes for your studies and relationship !!!

[@user-pn6pg3mx9g]

What I want to know is why men feel entitled to a woman cooking everything for him when she works full time just like him. How about learning to be an adult and cook your own meals??

[@IndecisiveJR]

Cooking is a basic skill. I don’t feel like cooking should be like gender specific? (If I’m using that right) im not expecting every man and women to be a chef in the kitchen but just know the basics and I don’t think it’s a requirement for the man or woman to cook like every night.

[@savagesweetheart90]

That's too difficult for them

[@wisefoolwillow]

It's about stroking their ego, the delusional desire to be seen as a "King".

[@mimia.4810]

That’s the part no one talks about. The average couple needs both the man and the woman working to pay bills. Women work just like men and sometimes are breadwinners. All this bashing “modern women” for not being traditional anymore is stupid and unfair. I’m sure the women who have provider husbands /boyfriends do more domestic labor around the house. The average woman isn’t a stay at home wife.

[@purplelove3666]

​@@savagesweetheart90how,I thought they were logical

[@sunshineenjoyer]

you brought up a really good point that the men don't want Kaya herself but someone like her. the men don't want their partner to be liberated like her online but only to them privately! at the end of the day, she's still another woman who is comfortable in her own body and that confidence is something they don't want in a trad wife. whewww, this was such a good commentary video

[@dismurrart6648]

Imo, they don't even want the woman like kya. Gooners don't actually want to try for a partner because then they might get rejected or might find that a partner takes work. They'd rather say "oh im single because women don't live up to MY standards"

[@kykawaii803]

Being comfortable has nothing to do with shaken your back side infront of a camera for strangers😭😭 she might as well join only fans with all that nonsense

[@shahanaparveen2413]

@@kykawaii803you sound 13

[@brie2964]

There is no such thing as “liberated online”. It’s exposing your body which is supposed to be sacred for you and your partner only. Not for any and every stranger online. Being comfortable in your body actually means that you don’t dress scantily clad for validation from others. You’re comfortable with who you are to not do that. I think everything has been normalized nowadays that a lot of women no longer see this as an issue.

[@CatRockk]

​​​​​@@brie2964POV: You don't understand what the word liberation means. You genuinely shouldn't use words, meanings, or thoughts you don't fully comprehend. And you clearly have a biased opinion of what's 'sacred.' You don't even understand that what you said goes against the concepts of liberation.

[@Metallikat]

“I’m not trying to be mean” I am. People like this drive me nuts

[@ohklahoma7376]

"I am" lmaoooo girl you so real for that.

[@i-inked]

Then don't watch. There's a block for a reason. All everyone that doesn't like her have to do, is block her 😂.

[@AjhayKateGiagonia]

@Momoartzn she's only reacting to the video itself wdym? It's really u isn't it LOL

[@ItsOKtobeNormal]

Yeah. Usually the girls who make being able to cook their whole personality don't even cook that well. I LOVE baking but I'd never try to use my skills to impress a man, well, maybe my husband but thats it.

[@littleesecretss]

It's so sad to see so many women willing to let themselves get disrespected for fleeting validation. We can't make anyone do anything, but we can always control our own actions, and I hope they see that they deserve better!

[@Froggele]

If they did it in the privacy of their home (+ not in front of children if they have any), I wouldn’t even have a problem with it. Maybe they enjoy it too, it’s their kink or something but the fact that they post it on an app that is heavily frequented by children and not behind a paywall that indicates that this is a specific type of content is the problem in my opinion. On the other hand, I can’t really hate on women taking advantage of men who are so stupid that they don’t understand the difference between corn and reality anymore. I think it’s just harmful for boys who might not have the maturity to understand that this just for content.

[@fans_xd]

We know they are thirsty.. but for money! Duh!

[@MayanOwl]

You do know it's an act right? She's not doing this off screen. The men that watch her would be saying all that without her might as well take their money so they don't travel Thailand to live out their 50's dream.

[@Zectifin]

its not for fleeting validation, its for money. they grift pays.

[@Killjoy_Mel]

I'm of the opposite mind. The world is going to sexualise, subjugate and terrorize women anyway, always has, treating like we're stupid cattle. At least we can rob them blind: you're dumb enough to pay online for a thirst trap cooking mid food and twirling her butt, you deserve to be parted with your money. If we women have to labour like this, we can sure as hell go and get paid to do it. I'd do it. I don't need validation, never have, but I'd fully put in a cooking and twerking act singing a cringy, unconvincing jingle for my channel until I've worked my way up to something I could invest smartly in my home country, and post videos of me laughing 5 minutes straight at the morons who paid for that idiotic content every day until I'm in the hospice with dementia. We do deserve better, deserve never gave anybody anything. You have to take it, and if those men try to reverse women's rights to take it away from you, then you gotta prey on their weakness. Men broke the civil contract first, women are now free to play just as dirty,

[@BarboraVolfová-n2x]

its weird cuz traditionalism hates sexual promiscuity so it doesnt make sense

[@trollingizlife2298]

😉 They’re not really traditional. You can call them neo-traditionalists at best.

[@user-sb6ud5io3v]

Define "traditional"? Its an adjective. "Traditional usa christian", Traditional Ethiopian, traditional amazonian brazilian, traditional sikh indian etc

[@ptvfl]

@@user-sb6ud5io3vare you purposely being dense, you know know exactly what they’re talking about 😂😂😂

[@user-sb6ud5io3v]

@@ptvfl im actually not. People from around the world are watching this and what is labeled as "traditional" is not shallow and one sided.

[@tintincruz8660]

It's catering to the gender roles, not traditionalism. Gender roles of women is to serve and please men, literal food and 🍑. She knows what she's doing.

[@xysarenottheprize]

In my experience, men never pick the pickme. They say they want Women to be pickmes but for some reason pickmes are always single and baddies are always taken.

[@Moonpriestest]

what they actually want is a baddie they can tame into a tradwife. but don't lose your baddie ways or I will get bored and mess around with the baddie at work.

[@carmensaify]

I'm glad women are getting happy to be single/ celibate. If this is what's out there- men who are ready to cheat or leave...we are better off single & enjoying our lives​@@Moonpriestest

[@natnat8393]

True true true! And if they do choose the pick mes they rarely ever respect them 🤦🏾‍♀️

[@mimia.4810]

On paper, men feel they should chose the modest homely girl next door. But those girls don’t sexually entice them. The baddies are who they really desire impulsively. That’s why they shame baddies so much, they hate the fact they want what they shouldn’t. That’s also why the try to beg baddies to be more domesticated so they can be with them. It’s a weird psychological thing. Kinda like how some women are attracted to “bad boys” and not “nice guys”.

[@xysarenottheprize]

@ It’s the tradwife paradox. They need the good girl who cooks and cleans but they want the baddie who doesn’t lift a finger.

[@judasdubois]

Its kind of sad to appeal to sad dudes by going "I'll do things your spouse/girlfriend wont." When the majority of the men they are trying to appeal for have a checklist of shit they don't do because it might make them gay. Like having sex with a woman or pooping just a little too long.

[@vixelscoffeehouse]

it's even funnier because they don't have girlfriends to cheat on anyways so 😭

[@judasdubois]

@@vixelscoffeehouse I mean I'm sure their right hand gets jealous when its lefties turn at the wheel as it were.

[@haroldharold9042]

most of them don’t even wipe their asses because it’s gay 😂 and some women are out there begging them for validation. it’s crazy

[@rayrayrayray7]

@@vixelscoffeehousethisss😩. 9 time out of 10 the insecure boys talking about cheating have no options to cheat with let alone a gf to begin with, and they’re big mad ab it

[@danielragsdale9849]

I almost never actually cringe. That trap where the dude's just calling her names while she brings him food almost made me physically ill. Crazy how easy it is to trick angry losers into giving you engagement this way.

[@bbubybunn6866]

Right! Her voice was very annoying too. The husband also sounded very stupid & goofy every time he called her the b word 😭💀🤣.

[@B0OBIES]

Thank you for making this because everyone is making it seem like normal girls wouldn't have a problem with this. Shes not a girls girl if shes talking about taking your man. Like why would any woman be supportive of that??

[@shokoshoko5761]

They keep saying it shouldn't affect them (which I agree with, her lines are too cringy to be getting offended by) and because a number of women have left actual hateful comments on her page, no sort of criticism is allowed. I'm sure some girlboss tiktok feminist will use this video to call Missy a jealous pick me

[@fans_xd]

@@shokoshoko5761 I would call her as an opportunistic prick, also what do you expect? She is clearly not girly girl and people are blind, blind!

[@christinebelzie194]

If anything, that line is annoying af to hear.

[@nyah-bu1sc]

@@B0OBIES it's not that it's being supportive. It's just not taking that seriously because ik she doesn't know him. i just watch for the actual cooking and I don't see the problem with her because there are so many songs out there that say the exact same line. words mean nothing on social media. but if it was in person, then yea, that would be personal and she would actually be talking about my guy.

[@nyah-bu1sc]

also I think we have so many other things to worry about 😭 then to be nick picking at a girl who says "she'll take your man" on social media. social media is pretty fake anyways and most people are liars. And if anyone's man is interacting with her content. Then that just shows how much respect he has for you.

[@becauseimmissy_]

Hey guys!! Just wanted to leave a comment about my feelings for Kya since it might be lost in all the jokes. Im pretty neutral abt it. I dont think shes a bad/evil person that women should be threatened by. But she does start off every video with pick me rage bait. I personally think its valid to not like her and think shes a pick me. Overall, after her rug pull crypto scheme that she promoted via thirst traps to men, its safe to say that she probably will end up like hauk tuah girl / possible legal problems, so just let her get that bag for now 💀

[@BDugg121]

I say this with no exaggeration, she looks like a stripper trying to diversify. Also, more combo Roman Empire content/twerking on this channel.

[@earlybirddreamful]

i love that you care about your content enough to write this type of stuff (and your laugh) ❤

[@Zectifin]

I'm not willing to give people like this a pass. Adults can do what they want, but we have to remember there are also young teens on all social media who are gonna be further pushed down an alt right pipeline from this kind of stuff. She might not be as bad as someone who actually pushes and believes fascist content, but making conservatism look sexy for money still helps conservatism.

[@jasminek112]

@@ZectifinI understand your point, however, others peoples children are not her responsibility. It’s on the parents to instill in their child critical thinking skills and not to follow the opinions or suggestions of people on tv or online without doing their research and due diligence. It is also on the parents to monitor and regulate what kind of media and how much of it their child consumes.

[@kayhaven4710]

God that “cooking with Kaya” chant didn’t become annoying AT all. Also I agree that the food looked REALLY mid.

[@christinebelzie194]

Lol, I remember seeing a repost on Twitter from a guy saying “respectfully I pass, this looks like something out of AppleBee’s” That had me laughing! 😂

[@alanamontero4743]

It's so irritating. 😂

[@Jennifer-my5dm]

It looks so unhealthy, Hey, Kya, ever hear of vegetables?

[@dismurrart6648]

It looks like my meal prep i made a week ago

[@kayhaven4710]

@@Jennifer-my5dm it even that it’s unhealthy per day, but it seemed very sodium and gravy based which personally would burn me out in a day or two.

[@prihaps]

I find it incredibly sad when women think that is the only valuable thing about them is being hot and cooking and cleaning. I am incredibly grateful that my husband appreciates me for everything else. For my accomplishments, for my personality and my humor, my love for him, my determination, etc.

[@FishareFriendsNotFood972]

Honestly, if those women want to take waste of space men off our hands.......they are doing me a giant favor, lol!

[@Romantic_Juliet]

Trash taking the trash out 😭

[@karimwebo8546]

That's actually not a bad idea(? Pair up pick me girls with red pillers and leave the rest for us 👍

[@Anngrl69]

At this point I’m down for banning all social media so I don’t have to see this bs anymore

[@2MelissaSue]

Except Missy.

[@leliadan2167]

Just because you delete social media, it doesn't mean it's not in the world we are living in, I personally can hear it out of people tones, if not them just saying it face to face. So stay, and so you know what the red flags are, and you wouldn't be out of the loop for your own well-being in the real world.

[@Anngrl69]

@@leliadan2167 Yeah, this was tongue in cheek cause most stuff that goes viral is just rage bait and exhausting. I deleted everything except KZbin cause I can’t fully quit social media and listening to the tea But I do feel grateful that I have a good group of friends around me who do not participate in the weird gender competition stuff.

[@KellyKels23]

I deleted everything except KZbin and IG. And I only have those to watch movie reactions & follow celebs or KZbinrs I like as well as look at funny memes and reels. So I miss most stupid drama until videos like this randomly pop up, and I decide to see what's going on. It's a lot more peaceful when you keep the noise to a minimum.

[@fans_xd]

You can start by just banning things you don't like to see. Although, the main problem itself is the owners who just don't ban straightforward harassment or hate speech for the minority because they are the ones who accept this type of content, now with Elon allowing hate speech for women and lgtbq+, Its obvious at this point.

[@Liaeleis]

Missy is talented like tlc for finding the most absurdest people ever but I’ll watch it for you missy😊.

[@becauseimmissy_]

Im so chronically online hahha

[@baby.nay.]

She could have been a ruthless producer , but she used her powers for good.

[@Liaeleis]

@@becauseimmissy_lol

[@ericj2575]

the very first video, Kia's, felt like cocomelon for men I don't want to interact with

[@alanamontero4743]

"cocomelon for men" 😂

[@karimwebo8546]

pick me brainrot 😭

[@f.d.75]

Hahaha

[@chxriqq]

COCOMELON FOR MEN IS SO ACCURATE

[@bbubybunn6866]

OH MYGOD THAT THE MOST ACCURATE COMPARISON I HAVE SEEN SINCE I DONE HEARD ABOUT THIS GIRL 😭😭😭!! Like when lil’ kids go “COCOMELONNN 😆” men be like “COOKING WIT’ KYA COOKING WIT’ KYAAA 😆😫!!” Just mad annoying. At least lil’ kids are adorable & annoying 😭.

[@TiaMukherjee-dm4um]

19:58 As a woman I was just like disgusted at how far women will go sometimes. Honestly like this, me and every woman I know would NEVER.

[@guisantos2934]

I don't think most men want that either. I think it's mostly cavemen with one brain cell left and an unreasonably large salary for his qualifications

[@avenuu]

EXACTLY WTH WERE THEY DOING 😨

[@JadeIsChronicallyTired]

That one made me feel so fucking gross, like viscerally disgusted

[@swagchorizo5198]

The Mika examples she showed are SO GROSSSSS like holy- Like, they have these weird undertones with the baby voice, using "bitch", the way the guy films her whole body but can't even show his face, passport bro, DDLG (note how they use the word "Daddy" on the caption at 19:49), etc., they make the videos feel like they're about to turn into an adult video at any moment. It just makes me wonder why post stuff like that on TikTok publicly instead of keeping that stuff to themselves in the bedroom or at least posting on somewhere more appropriate. Idk, the few videos Missy showed just left a bad taste in my mouth 😣

[@IndecisiveJR]

@TiaMukherjee-dm4um I just find it....odd. Gives me Stepford Wives Vibes but somehow worse with use of the word "Bitch" when referring to her. Maybe it's just cause I can cook for myself (to the point where i don't even like most fast food places) but just having a partner with no emotions besides just being "quirky" and serving just seems boring especially for years. Not to mention from the few people I've seen in these positions, I doubt most women treated like this genuinely are happy.

[@AshleyfromTX]

Imagine making a life skill your entire personality lol

[@kattodoggo3868]

She's doing it for money. As she should. Profit off those losers

[@aorihanazari524]

@@kattodoggo3868 She should, would've been nice if she didn't step on other women in the process.

[@Molotov-20]

​@@kattodoggo3868 What a boring life then

[@Lowkeykindabi]

​@@kattodoggo3868exactly, I'm not even mad like get that bag sis😻😻

[@LilAquaticVision]

You literally just described Rachel Ray… And *every* woman with a cooking show💀

[@kiterafrey]

NGL, if someone slid into my comments and went, "If you don't make breakfast for your man, then I will." I'd respond, "Oh thank god, I could use a day off. Keep his diabetic needs in mind and don't leave me a mess. Cheers."

[@c.hexy33]

This 👏👏👏

[@squash6497]

Right? Sweep the kitchen floor while you're at it, and give the dog his pills lmao.

[@Beeperoni]

The funniest part about Mika is that those are all HelloFresh meals 😹

[@Lowkeykindabi]

No way💀😭

[@abiliv-lf9tz]

Is it bad I would honestly believe this--

[@beautifullEternal]

But is it sponsored tho? 😂

[@seventhunder6470]

Missy, the creator of the Pythagorean theorem was Pythagoras 😂

[@Kirsten_is_cursed10]

No, it was Theoremeus 😂

[@briskettacos]

That's the joke

[@misply8121]

He's actually not the creator, just the first to show the proof for it

[@AMortifyingOrdeal]

Kaya's singing is giving me flashbacks to my highschool bully who would do that same cutesy sing-song thing around guys she liked.

[@VTerry-o1r]

No way...

[@Davian775]

Cooking with kya is similar to only fans girls. If Kya was just twerking and cooking with no male pandering, the males would hate Kya.

[@PoppinPumpkins]

If he's threatening you with CookingWithKya, then threaten him with DonutDaddy XDD

[@kenny995]

Brilliant 🙌❤️

[@colombuschrist]

😭😭im using that

[@brl0522]

All the guys that like cooking with Kya don’t mention that when she’s done cooking,they want her to clean the kitchen BEFORE SHE GOES TO WORK

[@novatryxward9372]

Exactly they want that traditional relationship with none of the traditions. No religious beliefs to actually base your relationship on, they won't let the woman stay home 100% to actually be a good cook and take care of the home. They want a woman who works full time and is a full time stay at home wife/ mother

[@brl0522]

@ exactly

[@mycattypedthis2827]

Women promoting domestic servitude and financial dependence for views and money gotta be dystopian, right?..

[@Orangeisgreat383]

Kaya‘s cooking would probably give you high blood pressure and/or diabetes

[@Lowkeykindabi]

And the food is average at best, not trying to bash her or anything I just can't see the food appeal y'know

[@Aimztastic]

⁠@@Lowkeykindabino really. Like if she was cheffing it up I’d be like get your bag sis but the food objectively looks mid and bad for your health!

[@IndecisiveJR]

It’s like how I feel about hooters….no one was thinking about the food quality here…guys just see a attractive woman serving food and putting on a show or display

[@merchantfan]

That's why she's always single, her boyfriends constantly drop dead from heart attacks or go into diabetic comas

[@Sugar_Fatale]

RIGHT! She’s taking men alright! Taking them straight to the GRAVE!!! 😂 🤣

[@NZKiwi87]

I’ve been with my guy 14 years, I recently noticed that I’ve been doing the majority of the cooking and decided I didn’t want to any more and I just stopped. Now we each get our own food organised, sometimes we do it together, sometimes not. If a man leaves you because you don’t cook for him, he ain’t no man.

[@the-girl-of-her-dreams]

If you are criticizing someone and they call you insecure, they don't want women standing up for themselves. It's ✨️mis0gyny✨️.

[@mochimochi7669]

It’s a manipulation tactic. “Do this for me or I’ll leave you for someone else.” Don’t let the door hit your ass on the way out.

[@vibez2806]

​@mochimochi7669 like "if he wanted to then he would"?

[@k4nd1incyb3rsp4c3]

@@vibez2806 isn't that what girls say about like... their crush not texting them back on snapchat? I've never heard of a girl say that about an actual relationship she is in.

[@naishinno]

my boyfriend looks forward to cooking for me when we are together/eventually live together. not only that, but he's the better cook. i dont understand this fixation that women must be the domestic sycophant when BOTH people typically have to work full time....

[@fashioname20]

bruh the first girl that cooks gave me so much cringe everytime she sing her song like that song was so awfulll, is gonna haunt me

[@Kirsten_is_cursed10]

Fr she dances like a middle school boy 😅

[@Java.Fox17]

Major agree. Big thing I havent seen anyone mention too is that the WAY she says it has to be on purpose. She sounds like a little girl stumbling over the song

[@IndecisiveJR]

​@Java.Fox17 Probably on purpose. Seems a little forced. I don't know if it's a thing women do outside of social media or entertainment but I think it's supposed to give off the vibes of being non threatening or non assertive to mostly older men. They won't worry about a woman overstepping her "position" sounding and acting that way.

[@MuseSunflower]

What amuses me is that there's entire podcasts dedicated to saying that women having tattoos, who twerk & post thirst trap posts and get too much attention from men are not "wife material" - but yet this woman does all of those things and because she has food in her hand she's a wife. It just goes to show don't take men too seriously with what they claim to want. They are always contradicting themselves I heard someone say there's a reason she's cooking by herself 😂 and it's true. A lot of men talk big game but rarely back it up with action. They idealize women like this for clout or to make other women feel inadequate, but when it comes to genuinely dating or building something real, they fall short. they’re more invested in the image of what they think women should be rather than reality I totally here for 🔥Commentary With Missy 🔥 though

[@TomikaKelly]

💯 Kya's tattoos, twerking, and provocative clothes are overlooked by those men because she is doing something IN SERVICE OF them. 🫠

[@laouiser]

Kya talks about stealing men so much but it doesn't seem like she's even got a man herself 💀 messy asf

[@vibez2806]

Cause she don't want one

[@cserialen]

the amount of cooking-with-kya is enough to make me get off the bed and shut my screen down.

[@cyber3luvz]

if you buy "kya coin" you deserve to be scammed 😹

[@Lowkeykindabi]

Definitely deserve 😂😂

[@anothercub6958]

Generally, if you buy a coin, you deserve to be scammed

[@GuntWastelander]

@@anothercub6958and if you sell a coin, you deserve far worse 👀

[@whelkpeopleofdoom]

She lured the garbage men in and then scammed them. Honestly, bravo girl 👏. Morally, I couldn't live with myself if I went online and empowered a bunch of disgusting men to bully women into cooking for their undeserving asses, but if there was a way to lure these men in, snatch their money and bail without being a pick-me, I'd do it lol.

[@Sugar_Fatale]

😂🤣 I’m WHEEZING!

[@janel.8921]

There was a trope I remember from childhood. It was girls without looks are great cooks. It implies plain women develop cooking skills to compete with more attractive women. The old the way to a man’s heart is through his stomach.

[@joyeetaghosh2209]

Yeah

[@natalieblack1698]

You gotta remember to angle the blade upwards though, with a sharp edge away from yourself. 😉

[@Oujouj426]

Maybe I'm desensitized and an ascended gooner, but all this "sex sells" type softcore stuff does absolutely nothing for me as long as I know actual porn exists. I just don't get how other guys are entranced by this shit.

[@3u-n3ma_r1-c0]

ascended gooner is an amazing phrase

[@seachelle2316]

"ascended gooner" LMAOO

[@strawberryynoodlesauce]

@@seachelle2316I lost it

[@mafuwu]

'ascended gooner' holy crap i'm stealing that

[@JadeIsChronicallyTired]

My thought is that people who fall for the soft core sex sells stuff don't watch porn for various reasons, I've had classmates who talk about not being able to watch porn because they're worried their partners will get mad or they feel weird doing it unless absolutely no one else is in their home or that they don't watch porn because it's "weird" or even because they're ashamed of it So I think that stigma makes it easier to fall for this kind of stuff. That in combination with the "members of the opposite sex aren't real people but rather objects of attraction" mentality some people have.

[@futuristicgirl14]

Just remember women who act like that are always the most insecure people alive. Know you’re better than them in every way imaginable bc at least you’re not acting this pathetic.

[@Sweptbythesea]

holy fuck. it looks weirdly british. im crying.

[@BlossomTheCocoon]

I think the saddest thing about Cooking with Kya is that when and if she does get into a relationship (assuming he’s seen her TikToks) the man will expect her to do the sexy cooking and throwing it back very often maybe even everyday 😔 I truly believe that this type of behavior ruins relationships because imo they will only see you as the ‘sexy sex girlfriend who cooks and clean and is sexy always’. They probably won’t leave much room for you to grow and they most likely will grow tired of you and start to dismiss you, start to degrade or even leave you for someone else no matter how much you do for them. imo, they love the idea of Cooking with Kya but don’t want her.

[@BlossomTheCocoon]

There isn’t anything wrong with wanting to hold a traditional role in a relationship but when it comes with this “I can steal your man” mentality I think it becomes something else entirely. Now the man expects you to be the pinnacle of a trad wife, better than the rest aka perfectly submissive. Unrealistic and unattainable.

[@MarinaMcAdams]

kiya is litterially playing these men like a fiddle and they dont even see it its hilarious

[@vibez2806]

Yea playing men by just watching a tiktoker. Now compare that to women in relationships paying 1k to take a Pic with Chris brown

[@youresinningtoo3996]

@@vibez2806 yeah right because most women in relationships pay $1000 to see Chris Brown. The entire world doesn't live in Miami. Get your head out of your ass.

[@louisachalarca6494]

Kya is cooking up basic basic stuff and letting her twerking ability shine

[@bunniesandbeauty700]

As a rule of thumb I generally don’t support exploiting the male gaze for money because unfortunately rather than being empowering, it just reinforces gender expectations and stereotypes and that ultimately has the opposite effect of disempowering women 😕

[@matrixiekitty2127]

Idk who Miss Sky’s husband is but he has no right to disrespect her with THAT voice!! So generic and flat!! Like it’s insulting as is but then when you realize the disrespect is coming from an NPC it just gets worse😭

[@knjparadise]

i wouldn’t be surprised if it was AI generated or something

[@nobitanobi3475]

I think it is also an act cuz that doesn't seem natural at all..

[@jamaisvu8365]

As a pastry artist & a woman, I just want to say AINT NOBODY TRYNA COOK FOR @7:17 FOR FREE, EXCEPT FOR HIS MOTHER & even she is sick of it. Thats just my professional take on the situation

[@brianaherzog]

I'm today year's old when I learned that gooner means something different in the straight world than it does in the gay world.

[@mehanimations2675]

What does it mean gaywise

[@rattling.casket]

Mika Sky is absolutely 100% a 🌽 star and her "boyfriend" is a borrowed cameraman or some shit 😂😂😂 cuz aint no way

[@meifwa5723]

1:10 I wasn’t paying attention ma’am, I was drawing, you jumpscared me

[@daffytaffy5966]

Literally me rn too, i didnt even know what she was making-

[@Grapevinemammi]

Same😂😂😂

[@puffinlia2449]

17:28 this I don’t understand. My grandma was a 1950s housewife, so the “perfect woman” according to some gooners. But she would NEVER let a man talk to her like this😭😭 Women in the 1950s weren’t doormats. At least the ones I know 🫥 ugh…..

[@IndecisiveJR]

I mean some were kinda treated poorly or like doormats but not to that extent...who was callin they wife bish just on a regular basis?

[@TacseraEpSekahs]

By the fifth time she said "Cook this dish for your man before I do", I just wanted to go straight to my man, show him the video and ask HIM to cook me those 😄 You can't "take" a man with food if he's more than capable to cook by his own.

[@IndecisiveJR]

I mean pretty sure her followers are single or not in a happy marriage anyways probably would leave their wives for Kya if they could

[@MsCarotty]

the "cooking with kaia" song sounds a lot like the "peanutbutter jelly time" song... and is as annoying 😂

[@cvpete]

Or bacon pancakes 😂

[@courtneycalvert185]

I'm bi-curious and vids like this prove that attraction is not a choice, I am cursed to like men.

[@karimwebo8546]

Same.

[@DragonRose610]

Just like a lot of social influencers, she probably doesn’t even cook a lot of the food herself. It’s just theater so she can money off make her rage bait.

[@Koalabalaa]

I just think people think about sex too much, almost everything is sexualized it's crazy

[@2MelissaSue]

I was on the phone with my doctor and hurried off the phone when Missy notified she was live. Thank you Missy!

[@Facethefox]

They say that women are angry because the girls can’t cook… but if they wanted cooking they would’ve been watching videos of other people cooking. It’s probably just because shes hot. Kya isn’t that bad but she is BAD. Anyways Love ya missy! You should totally react to girlfriend asmr since you did boyfriend asmr.

[@nyah-bu1sc]

agree!!

[@IndecisiveJR]

It’s not that they can’t im sure that the girls they like or are with simply won’t or at least not all the time due to not being in the mood or tired from work or just don’t want to cook for a man every day for the rest of their life xd

[@abigaelrarts2257]

i think a lot of us used to be pick me-ish when we were younger, and now that our brains are fully developed and we're more confident in who we are we realize how embarrassing it all is. it's like a siren call that you have rly low self esteem. it makes you come across rly needy and desperate and it's hard not to feel sorry for girls who still have to get to the other side of that journey. but you can't infuse that wisdom for ppl a lot of the time, they have to get there on their own. it's just sad bc u hope creepy older guys won't take advantage of them before they do

[@rachelfondeur]

Never thought I’d see trad wife and thirst trap in the same sentence 😭 you’ve got my attention

[@maeannengo4908]

6:49 What a responsible man driving with video recording himself /s

[@beautifullEternal]

Um full version of “In the Arms of the Gooners” when? 😂😂😂

[@TheChromaticAdam]

21:55 Off-topic but I'm glad we got to see Bryce feature in again and dance with Missy towards the end. 😂

[@marchingham]

Being a woman is exhausting. Anyone who says differently is selling something.

[@DanytalyJosephine]

that dress is giving the same vibes as marge chanel suit + ur hair is so pretty + overall body tea in general!!

[@Wallflowerzizme]

LITERALLY MISSY IS SO HOT FOR WHATTTT

[@livia1555]

Who cares what men want honestly?

[@andpeg]

I really can’t be mad at Kya for finding a niche and filling it. I do hope she finds a more stable audience because red-pilled men are super unstable and she antagonized the more reliable audiences.

[@shokoshoko5761]

Funny how out of all the cooking niches, she chose the one that appeals to misogynists and antagonises other women

[@Nyx_TheGodess]

finally two hours seems……reasonable Hey, that’s coming from a guy who waited nearly 21 hours

[@becauseimmissy_]

Omg thank u so much for being early❤️

[@Gorbgorbenson]

My toxic trait is that I have 0 issue when women do rug pulls on men. It's so funny every time.

[@Odysseyodyssey-mr1cx]

17:29 he sounds like onision and it’s giving me PTSD 💀

[@jeriahhewitt9879]

Omfg I came here to say the SAME THING

[@gabbytaylor8549]

Loving these videos discussing pick me culture in social media and how it affects society/psychological effects. Its ts "homework" for my womens class i got for brainstorming topics to discuss in discussion

[@Lowkeykindabi]

No like seriously... Are the straights okay??? 💀💀

[@HermioneGranger-i4l]

Haha we are not. Save me lol 😂

[@honestgenz4413]

Nope😂

[@Lowkeykindabi]

@@HermioneGranger-i4l 😭😭

[@fiestyfox2207]

I kind of feel bad for her, she’s just profiting off of disgusting men. The only people who feel threatened are people insecure in their relationship (please run if your partner compares you to ANY other person). Honestly, exposing all these trash men is a win in my book.

[@Sweptbythesea]

NOT THE HAYDEN P CRUMP SCENE. youre killing me.

[@gabriellakatusiime5589]

4:33 Pythagoras? 😭

[@a_new_ho]

I was just wondering if that was an intentional joke. 😂

[@jaxj968]

literally what i said 😭

[@itsme_edits]

@@jaxj968same 😭😭

[@sourcandy6469]

He probably stole that from an arab anyways

[@problemperson4221]

online tradwives being notoriously bad at cooking is the funniest thing to me

[@Whatisthisgremlin]

I'm on the Kya coin part of the video & now I'm convinced her videos were made to fund for crypto currency. & she knew the degenerate men would pay top dollar 😂

[@eponymouscharacter]

7:31 Face tats detected. Opinion rejected.

[@slxr-9832]

Your funny I’m stealing ts

[@nadjaannabel1]

Also: dude we don't hate Kaya. We cringe at the men who watch her.

[@duck_audios2535]

Not all but ones that looks that bad

[@nannynatalie]

It’s such a boring and cold day. Thanks for warming things up, Missy!

[@baby.nay.]

Is she ever cooking for a man though ? I feel like it’s rage bait and it goes in the garbage 😂

[@yung1717]

Why wouldn’t she eat what she cooked?

[@kukachoo42]

straight people im so sorry

[@Wallflowerzizme]

*straight women Ladies my heart goes out to you I’m so fucking sorry ❤❤❤

[@Sugar_Fatale]

🤣😂 We’re not having fun, but it’s definitely funny. I invite all my sapphic sisters to point and laugh.

[@Katrielible]

I love gen z. As a xenial and mother of two gen z sons, i just have to say, despite the obstacles thrown in your way by the elder generations, the majority of you are witty, brave, smart and so chill in the best ways. I love watching your videos and hearing your perspective on things. I cant imagine growing up in the world y'all had to grow up in and still turning out as well as so many of you have. Keep it up and stay strong. The world is yours ❤

[@AutisticTea]

My question is: once she steals my man, whats she going to do with him? Is she going to listen to an hour of MtG lore? Is she going to get into discussions of Dune? But more seriously: Will she make him laugh? Will she support him emotionally? Is she able to have a mature discussion about problems? Does she hold the same values he does? Like, relationships are more than food. But even more seriously, WILL she listen to 2 hours of MtG lore??

[@sandyjebbu9595]

What’s the mtg lore?

[@AutisticTea]

@sandyjebbu9595 Magic the Gathering lore. You know the card game? All the stories and characters related to it. Some of it is really interesting. But I am not invested, so it can be hard to listen. But his little face lights up and he's so happy, so I listen. I even remember some.

[@reenykay]

omg her theme song she should have it done properly like an intro her cooking with kaya voice made me watch 90% of this on mute

[@kristincox0212]

All the food shown in both Kya and Mika’s videos look mediocre as hell. I don’t know if it’s the food itself or the piss poor lighting.

[@anonymass2165]

8:44 THEN JUST GO lmao

[@JadeFelix-dh3nk]

I’m dead you throwing it back 😂😂😂 but you know you got body girl 🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾

[@fattunicorns]

The worst part is I know exactly how easy it is to be like this when you didn’t have good examples of healthy relationships growing up and all you care about is getting validation. I will never ever go back there again, but it was so bad for me. I was I found myself scrubbing a man’s tile floors with a toothbrush.😢these girls need therapy

[@Jaggyuar]

I was going to name my unborn child Kya, but now I don't think I will 😂

[@alanamontero4743]

Oh no.

[@spikey5281]

I think the pick me stuff isn't just a part of the thirst trap. She does this not to appeal to men, but to anger the women who happen to find her content, rage baiting them into watching and engaging with the video. Her content targets two demographics simultaneously, which, from a business point of view, is pretty smart. And judging by the fact that you made an entire video about her, which you probably wouldn't have if she made regular thirst traps, it's working very well.