The Trouble With Being Beautiful-Bri

Soft White Underbelly interview and portrait of Bri, a young woman in Miami, Florida.
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[@brittanyadeline]

Hello! It’s bri. I just wanted to add a couple comments. First, thank you mark for interviewing me. I have read every single comment and to those positive ones, thank you! To those negative ones: I do not believe I am the prettiest person ever, and I did not ask Mark to title the video this. I just wanted to come on and talk about my past as an Onlyfans model, how it got to that point, and how my looks have impacted the way people think of me. I do not have fake extensions or surgery, I was naturally born this way. The way I dress is because my brain is wired to believe I have to dress this way because that’s what I was taught my whole life. I pray that you watch the whole video before leaving that nasty comment, as it does affect the real person on the screen. I am not just some super elevated girl who believes she is the best, I have real feelings and those things hurt. So before judging me for how I look before watch this whole video (which is ironic considering that’s what the video is about) maybe watch it and then make your opinion.

[@danielrn133]

People who are negative are showing their own insecurities.

[@SoftWhiteUnderbelly]

Thank you Bri…and yes, you are beautiful both inside and out.

[@michellemarie08]

You are gorgeous!! You were put here to make a huge difference in this world, don’t let anyone dim your sparkle!!

[@roel.vinckens]

You'll find love. You'll find friendship. First within, then around you. I wish you all the best.

[@blaqken7726]

No way you read every comment. That’s torture 😂

[@ignasty3591]

The troubles of being ugly, next on Soft White Underbelly. Hit me up.

[@coyotequeen]

Aw don't be hard on yourself ... Least you have great teeth in your display pic 🤣

[@chrism5126]

lol

[@sugarsore]

​@@coyotequeenlmao

[@sylwiakowalczyk3270]

Great teeth 🤣🤣🤣🤣

[@raindog428]

@@coyotequeen gold🤣

[@daphnebrookes5010]

Mark, please be careful not to interrupt your guests. Especially when they are telling you that they don’t feel valued for their intellect. I know your intentions are to be helpful, but I think it’s important to allow them space to share their negative self talk rather than being interrupted by your opinion.

[@bluekreed]

👏 👏

[@jonnyOATH]

All good in this case. She’s a pathological liar. She’s been exposed on other podcasts.

[@Bigbootiejudiee]

Where can I find the videos this?​@@jonnyOATH

[@karenelizabethlee]

The host was all over her geez.

[@Beeti1]

@@jonnyOATH - Even if that's true, it doesn't make it all good.

[@fessali5726]

People don’t know what it’s like being alone as a child. But everyone seems to be an expert when talking.

[@meddinaheeleen7618]

💕True.

[@2307rani]

Hope you find a spiritual path.

[@kathyh4804]

Exactly! My story is much like hers, but I am hopeful she will rise above her past to a beautiful future …. Knowing she is loved

[@starmaker101]

Yes people do know what it’s like. She knows and all the others that have experienced it in the world.

[@fessali5726]

@@starmaker101 well obviously. That’s what I said. Are you a parrot?

[@flash2tz]

Bri, you probably won't see this, but there is something you need to know. I am an old woman now (just turned 60!), but it seems like just last month I was 30. Let me tell you: You are very young, you have a LOT of life ahead of you still. Let the past be the past. You have so many more years to make bigger mistakes. Don't dismiss finding love. You don't even need to think about that at this point. You will find love when you are ready for it, you won't be looking. Never forget your past mistakes, or you will risk making them again. Rather, remember them, but do not let them define you. You are so much more than your past.

[@myn1670]

You directed this to Bri but it means a lot to me too as a 24-year-old. Thank you

[@malloryg4251]

@@myn1670 Aww, that's nice to hear! I wish you the best. Being in your 20's is a weird time, but it gets better : )

[@malloryg4251]

I agree with you! Bri has a lot of growing up to do and I think she'll eventually gain the wisdom she needs, as long she makes the right decisions.

[@celinemccutcheon1988]

Very well said,from another 60 yr old ladie

[@flash2tz]

@@malloryg4251 I would disagree somewhat with you. We do not learn from our successes. We learn from our mistakes. Also, I think she is already quite wise. She knows what she doesn't want from life and that's more than half the battle.

[@KelleyWhite-ps5dm]

Having a narcisistic parent is no joke. They f*** you up in the head. It doesn't matter what you look like those wounds are freaking deep and profound. Profound.

[@Eli-tq8fj]

DEEP!!

[@mwamengele]

I believe no one ever really heal from abuse by a caregiver, ever

[@lajcee]

Fuck yeah

[@LastRebel1978]

Nope we do but usually have empathy others do not and end up with a covert narcissist or weak partner that seems to end up destroying our spirit. I knew from an early age my parents didn’t know much about relationships but this world comes to steal and destroy and many are on its team. Wish she would cover up. If you don’t want to be used you have to stop advertising at minimum.

[@mwamengele]

@@Vool2go You are probably right, though I think a caregiver can do more damage to a vulnerable young mind, than a school bully or a toxic boss who meet you with a bit of matured defenses and an escape route, a child has to take the abuse till they leave home when older.

[@jone5312]

I support anybody who has made it to adulthood without any family or support and are still alive. Thats a different pain. 💯

[@kinazz19]

🤚

[@alihall676]

Bri, I am proud of all the courage you have displayed with sharing your story. You are making an impact. Many people will hear this story and will learn from your experience. I wish you nothing but the best. For everyone who is judging her please consider what she dealt with at a very young age. She had to survive!

[@LadyC1103]

I am a 65 year old grandmother and you have nothing to be ashamed of. You did what you had to do. I was a beautiful woman too and every one hated me. Men were awful. I am proud of you for taking the incentive to take care of yourself. Love yourself. Look yourself in the mirror and tell that little girl inside, it’s ok. You are ok. You are guilty of nothing. You are doing good things and are on track to do more. You are young and smart and a beautiful woman, and that can be so powerful. Use that energy and power to keep going forward. Don’t look back. The past is done. Own the comments and say Damn right, I did that. So what? Keep looking forward. ❤

[@ElleR3416]

Excellent advice!!! 👍🏼😊👍🏼

[@jameyrobbins13]

💥NOT A FEMALE!!!! Its a MALE!!!!!!

[@oldcollegecoed]

66 year old grandma & agree 100%!

[@ILoveAnchovies334]

i agree with you, as a man, we are awful to women. most of us at least. i see it all the time, many men are angry at women for various reasons and sadly treat them as lesser humans. They are missing out on having meaningful relationships which creates more resentment of course.

[@Truth17John17]

You're a 65 year old Grandmother and you think this woman has nothing to be ashamed of? How about the fact that she dresses like a hussy? She wears provocative clothing that she knows full well tantalizes men, and then is offended as she parades around with her low-cut top and bare mid-drift - when those men treat her with disrespect. She then claims that what she wears makes no difference. Well, we're not stupid and that is a lie. What a woman wears DOES make a difference. If she dresses like a slut, then why does she expect to be be treated like a class act? Her excuse? "That's how my mother dressed me." Do you honestly think this woman has done NOTHING to be ashamed of? Think again.....

[@allmywdwrk]

Never judge someone for the choices they made when you don’t know the options they had to choose from.

[@tannerlock2]

Facts.. how did we get so far away from that perspective & teachings? I forgot that we had so many perfect people who think making a negative comment or attempting to sabotage another human is how we grow as a species 😂

[@chrisjones6496]

Exactly right! Well said and I couldn’t agree more.

[@venividivici6418]

Yeah and that's why people judge beautiful young women in Western nations. Because they have more options and privilege than any other group in human history.

[@crustinagohard9049]

This is a good thread 😊

[@xxcelr8rs]

Best thing I read in a while.

[@jackyavaa3459]

Sending this woman the biggest hug. Your story really resonated with me, thank you for sharing your story. 🫶🏼

[@blondiejones7656]

What an incredible, wise person she is. Thank you for sharing your beautiful heart. I wish I had been as wise at her age.

[@Soshesaysjessica]

Thanks for sharing Bri! I was in the entertainment industry once and now I’ve graduated law school and tackling cases. You can totally do it!

[@Fistacuff21]

Stick to the pole or sucking on them! Women don’t belong in the workforce especially the likes of you

[@Fistacuff21]

Stick to the pole or sucking on them! Women don’t belong in the workforce especially the likes of you

[@Onelightoftheworld]

Congratulations! You’ve worked really hard.

[@jlawson7204]

She's a pathological liar.

[@maitemardomingo272]

@@jlawson7204why do you say that??

[@nutzky]

Beauty is not the problem. Not having a family and friends to begin with is. If she had had a loving family, she wouldn't have been in this situation.

[@misslove7698]

I agree she lacks that so it's the cause of most of her downfalls

[@bayani7626]

true. what's her only fans? (for research purposes)

[@aspartamekillsyaknow9019]

That's that narcissistic attitude

[@itsmelili326]

44:23 I hate that, bri, women, in general, are so insecure. It really is their problem but it sucks.

[@cuixinshi]

@@misslove7698you have to realize just because someone has a kind and giving heart even if she/he’s gorgeous. They are gonna get used. Attraction does not mean admiration.

[@AlwaysHereAndNow]

Bri, you have a beautiful life ahead of you. You will heal from the past through therapy and trauma informed coaching and rise. You are smart, self aware, and your higher self will guide you forward. Your experience can help so many younger girls and women. Thank you for being vulnerable enough to share. I wish you the very very very best.

[@Zepllica]

This is the MOST I’ve ever heard Mark speak during an interview. Wonder why? Fascinating.

[@Tania-gd9rg]

Right?! How fucking awkward 😂

[@anne-mp5cy]

You guys are crazy 😂😂😄

[@biglou9776]

Mark was drooling all over her

[@Zepllica]

@@anne-mp5cy you think???? I’ve watched a lot of his interviews. I can’t remember ever hearing his voice that much. And certainly not offering his advice constantly lol. Can you think of one? I might be wrong 🤷🏻‍♂️

[@AB-hk1pq]

I counted how many times Mark called this woman beautiful, attractive etc…it was 55 times. If this interview was about objectifying someone based on their looks….he definitely added to the score of that.

[@DrLeaders]

Around 30:30 she says “just doing drugs or alcohol would be better”. How quickly Mark says “NO IT WOULDN’T” was so perfect. Good on you, Mark. Got my eyes a bit misty there.

[@johnwayne8494]

He's like "Girl I literally live on Skid Row....no"

[@ejagger]

He really was quick with that, and with genuine conviction.

[@larrycopenhaver]

he's seen it all so he knows

[@wheninroamful]

nice call, he cares and he knows more than most.

[@kimmathe6701]

His genuine kindness and care towards her was touching. Self medicating with alcohol and drugs is heartbreaking. My hope is she can choose a life of recovery & trust and love herself. He also was insightful and kept bringing to her attention her strengths and that she can make her life better . Loved that encouragement.

[@ericnash6204]

WOW. As a father of two daughter's this really breaks my heart to watch. I hope she gets all her dreams fulfilled.

[@Truth17John17]

PLEASE.... 59 LIKES? What is wrong with you people? You hope she gets all her dreams fulfilled as she tempts many other impressionable young women how to become a millionaire "the easy way"? I truly fear for our society.....

[@ericnash6204]

@@Truth17John17 Look, a Self-proclaimed christian (intentionally lower case for you). Remember to love all of our brothers and sisters that we see and hear. Whether or not you are a believer, don't sully all by spewing your hate. I hope for all to get their dreams met in this life. There is nothing wrong with well-wishing for our entire society.

[@Lunarmoonbun]

Man i was crying hearing you even speak at some points cause you can hear in your voice how difficult speaking about this is as it still hurts and such. And your words even showed how deep of a pain you went through TT i hope you were able to get some therapy to work through the emotions that others put on you :< i feel like its really hard to feel like theres any actual real connection with people sometimes in a world where everything is cut into short and ‘digestible’ content but i love lately that people are becoming more aware of mental health. That widens the possibility that you’ll meet someone who treats you just the way you need and youre just perfect for them. You seem like a bright and lovely person and its really sad that sometimes people cant see that, but i hope you remember that theres those that do. I always tell myself - the love i deserve exists because i exist. I know there is a love and there are friends who will be perfect for me because im someone with all of this love i want to share type feeling yknow. I hope youre able to find that place quickly, its frustrating journey i know but i think you’ll get there 🙏🏽💗

[@SuperJJ09]

Thanks Mark for that wonderful interview ! I noticed you commented more in this interview than usual and I could also feel you somehow could relate a lot in what Brittany was saying. So interesting and what an angle on an industry that pictures this life as the winning lottery ticket. Thanks Britt for being yourself in this video, how I see it : You are playing a game of cards and where given a handful of wildcards, A lot of people are angry and envious of this hand as this hand is almost impossible to get, it is thus hard to restrain yourself with this hand and you threw a few of those cards out the window, I believe though you kept the best ones so far and I hope you do keep them for yourself and learn in life how to make the best of those. Keep it up, it was very interesting and eye opening to see your point of view on a life we so many of us think is granted to someone looking like you. Loneliness is the silent cancer that plagues our society, it affects our old loved ones, it affects the people most in need, and it also affects those we thought had it all figured it out. Judging is probably one of the easiest way we have to protect ourself in this world, it is not a good way, but it is, to take your own word, a fast and easy way to do it. I really hope you may find people to relate to that accept you the way you are Also as a note, some of us man are not all jerks :D, there is hope for you :)

[@Supahmusic_]

“FORGIVE YOURSELF COMPELTELY” I love that Mark!!!

[@zizaperoj1337]

Yes, magnificent!

[@LisaCharleyboy]

🙌🏼

[@carmenbenitez141]

Her problem is not her looks, the real issue is her low self esteem! When others smell that you beg for attention and acceptance, they will take advantage of it! I hope she gets a great therapist to help her ❤

[@Truth17John17]

Another problem is the REAL reason she gave this interview. In my opinion, she's laughing all the way to the ATM..... You don't dress like a sex object, state you have no other choice, and then complain because men treat you like a sex object..... unless you are a manipulative liar or have serious mental issues.

[@silvias550]

Best comment

[@michellewormuth9919]

Okay yes, you’re right… but you can also work your ass off and do everything right. Build your life just like everyone else. When you’re beautiful like this people will think you, “slept your way to the top”. You can’t trust men bc you always think they want more. You also can’t trust you’re actually doing a great job bc you don’t know if men just want to sleep with you

[@jessilovely]

Self esteem (low, high, mid, all the way in hell, whatever) is NEVER and never has been an invitation to take advantage. It is not wrong to ask for attention or acceptance - it is a natural reaction for survival instilled in us from birth and I don’t know when this became a thing to be frowned upon. This comment is the epitome of victim-blaming, good intentions aside. People’s self esteem is shaped by their environment and circumstances and no one is asking for ill treatment or judgment by simply just being what they have become. If you take advantage of someone, it’s your fault - never their fault for not being able to see you coming. Think about who this line of thinking alienates - neurodivergents, old, young, poor… anyone vulnerable in any way. I know this comment was meant well but it left a sour taste the moment I read it as I grew up in purity culture seeped in victim-blaming. It doesn’t matter what length your skirt is, whether it’s too short is purely subjective and it is never the reason you get targeted, only the excuse used to justify selfish actions. Same goes here. Her self esteem may be high compared to others, low compared to others. The problem is not her - the problem is a society that has not let her grow and be in peace. You sadly may be right that in this world therapy may be the only option for her to grasp some autonomy in a world where the responsibility of being safe is placed wholly on the victim. I hope you find a great therapist too ❤

[@zazazebra8138]

Beautiful person .. she ll make it 💯

[@user-pn7xw6pw4g]

Hugs Bri. I feel like you let too much get to your head. You really can just wake up in the morning and be the exact person you want to be. You can disconnect from your past (which isn't bad and your soul is fine.) You can wake up BEING your best friend, the person that loves you and confident. Just takes you making up your mind that you are happy with yourself (you should be, you've accomplished so much!) and then show that to the world. It's your confidence and comfort in your own skin that will propel you into the relationships you need. I think you're amazing. One more hug

[@kimpierce2844]

Bri, I am old enough to be your grandmother. Sending you big hugs, shine your bright light on the world. Listen to Mark, he had great advice for you, he knows what he is doing and it shows.

[@WenchInTheTinfoilHat]

That he does.

[@rdw2457]

❤️

[@Mia-li3he]

I don’t know why people are hating on her. She is sharing her story and taking accountability for what she did to put herself through college. She’s not saying Poor me for being beautiful. She’s is just sharing her experience through life and wants to be seen for her intelligence

[@Alexxx492]

Everyone hating on her is an example of why being beautiful is hard. She is getting an eduction and supporting herself, nothing to hate about her

[@YagirlGGxoxo]

Does* She is still doing sex work

[@marylee924]

She is still making money online. I think she misled Mark.

[@YagirlGGxoxo]

@@marylee924 exactly...the whole interview is a lie. And she expects people to feel sorry for her for what?

[@Alexxx492]

@@marylee924 where is she making money?

[@charleydublin7304]

Bri is beautiful and brave. I admire anyone who overcomes a tough childhood to find their way in this tough world. She certainly has a lot to be proud of for what she overcame.

[@pink-3237]

You're not only beautiful, but a very intelligent lady. What you have already accomplished shows your determination. I have two beautiful daughter's who also went through the hate, especially the older one, who was a cheerleader during her school years and my youngest one, who was crowned prom queen her senior year. The enviness of beauty from others never goes away as it didn't for them. Embrace it sweetie! They now are in their early thirties and no longer care about the naysayers. They've learned to accept the hate as compliments, as you should to. As a mother, I feel your pain. I'm here for you and would welcome you any day as my daughter! Let go, be free and enjoy your beauty God has given you. ❤

[@Krstinedprtz]

I think the title of this video is misleading and seems to be leading to a lot of judgemental comments. This young lady has been through a lot and has had many struggles. The takeaway I get from her story is that beauty doesn't equate to happiness. Wishing her success and happiness!! ❤❤

[@reneelibby4885]

if people bothered to watch the vid or possibly open their minds before posting their knee jerk comments .....

[@jennimoto7237]

Totally agree

[@Seargent_Scraps]

Been through a lot? LMAO. Like what? Made money? Drank a little bit? Has jerks in her family like most people.

[@1stunna91]

Right lol​@@Seargent_Scraps

[@crownednubian5700]

As far as the title goes, can we simply say, mission accomplished. It has us commenting and captivated quite an audience. ❤

[@lauragamello560]

The thing that absolutely crushes my heart with someone like Bri, and so many others that you have interviewed on your channel, is that they have been betrayed from the get-go by the people who are supposed to care the most about them. To Look out for them. Family, and especially PARENTS. Holy hell. I can’t imagine my life without my family and the support they give me and that I give to them. She has nothing like that. This is so sad to me. I hope she finds people and the support she desperately needs to come into her life and help her emotionally. Because she won’t ever heal from that horrible early start but she can maybe move forward feeling a little bit better about herself and to feel real love. My thoughts are with you, young lady. And please keep up with her Mark. I’d like to know how she makes out because she deserves so much more.

[@TheOhioCountryboy]

She already set up a new OnlyFans account. It looks like she was just doing this as a publicity stunt.

[@bretbauer7582]

@@TheOhioCountryboy Very well could be. This is the life she knows and the way she understands validation. I really don't think she's as much bi-polar as BPD, which means she's very reactive. Her whole backstory really lends itself to having a cluster B disorder more than bi-polar. Sex, substance abuse, past trauma.... etc. This interview is almost enough to diagnose that. It's hard for her to get away from what her instincts are especially because there is rewards for doing so. Gotta wish her the best but she really needs a GREAT therapist who understands her actual issues and she has to want to change, making $100K a month? How?

[@kenkaneki1522]

@@TheOhioCountryboy exactly all these people in the comments look stupid, she obviously needed more attention for her OF.

[@buttercatz99]

You only know the part of the story she tells and the facts are not concrete. I'm always skeptical since people lie so much and spin things to make themselves look like a victim. I don't know what her full story is and we can only go on what she says in the interview. Men do not leave a woman if she takes care of herself, is humble, loving and adds value to his life.

[@TheOhioCountryboy]

@@buttercatz99 Good men don't leave a woman like that. Some men only see a woman's value as being a sexual conquest. And seeing as how she already started up a new OnlyFans, it appears her real reason for this interview was to promote her new OnlyFans.

[@Kel_the_slacker]

Wow, loved your story and thanks for sharing. Sad that so many people feel as if they need to tear down a person who’s already torn. Keep working towards your goals! Success is the best “I told you so”

[@amyhenson3987]

Beauty is in the eye of the beholder. Beauty comes from the inside. Loving yourself is the most empowering thing ever

[@Beth915G]

Bri, I enjoyed your interview so much. You are so smart, articulate, well spoken, and just a beautiful soul. I think you are going to do big things in this world. Thank you for sharing your story.

[@thegoldengatesound]

Just a young cub. Faster you learn that most people suck and caring what they think is a waste of your time, the faster you can get on with your life. Respect

[@samtheeagle799]

Ironically, a large percentage of people would have clicked on this video because Bri is attractive.

[@SteaksOnSpear]

what a stupid outlook

[@Dannniellleee]

@@SteaksOnSpearIn an ideal world, it would be a terrible outlook to have. In the real world we all live in, it’s better to radically accept how bad ppl can be than to be naive about their nature and intentions.

[@SteaksOnSpear]

@@Dannniellleee its seems weak to me, too be so afraid of people wronging you, just have some common sense and be on your guard when you meet new ppl. Most people are very nice, just dont let them take advantage of you and you dont have to see the world like that. Its mostly when i go to third world countries ppl try to take advantage but you can easily stop them if you aren't a total tool

[@Dannniellleee]

@@SteaksOnSpear Would you say that you know yourself and that you have healthy boundaries?

[@petestegler9885]

I've had to deal with some very tough life stuff too. In life, and in business, I learned that it's really smart to be very honest about everything. If you can take what you think is your greatest weakness, and then turn that very thing into your greatest strength, you will transcend and be amazed. Fear and shame will just evaporate. On another note, I had a great teacher who taught me that, it takes two things to have a healthy relationship...risk...and trust. Loving is a risk. Trust comes after. I wish you the very best, Bri.

[@smilinacha]

Bri, I so appreciate you coming on the channel with Mark to do this interview. But I must admit the difficulties you’ve been dealing with absolutely break my heart. I am 57 years old and can’t imagine any of my kids feeling unloved for who they are. But while complicated, I don’t believe your past will ultimately determine your future. I believe you have the character, fortitude and everything it takes to eliminate the door that keeps trying to call you back to your past occupation, and work your way into a career in which you will find all the self-respect you deserve to have, and bring you real friends and people who truly love you like a sister or daughter - for the beautiful person you really are - on the inside as well as outside. I wish you the absolute best of every good thing in life starting with peace with God, whose Love for you is perfect and pure. You are going to do great things. 🤗

[@misseverything4u]

Young woman. You are way ahead of the game. They are jealous because You are exceptional in Every way. Smart, thoughtful, experienced, and Pretty. I see your points. Give it time. Don't quit. Go. Fiyht. Win. An old woman, 68, who sees you. Exceptional!

[@whodis2792]

I love the way you wrote your message. Almost like a poem. Just so lovely.

[@aquavita1]

Being beautiful opens a lot of doors, including a lot of wrong doors. If you can play your cards right and choose wisely, you'd be unstoppable. I wish you to develop this wisdom, girl. I am rooting for you!

[@Gulag00]

What kind of doors

[@natasharichardson4609]

She's so young!!! And has time to improve her life now. You can't judge people for their checkered past. I was in a strip club with my straight male friend and also a burlesque show dancers tried to recruit ME! LOL It was flattering but, I could never do that. I was born with 40FF boobs. I think sometimes people think that I'm a slut because the twins need to breath and I'm a beautiful Goth woman. I don't consider haters when I do my makeup and get dressed everyday. It;'s for ME! I love looking hot

[@mercymaingi1724]

​@@Gulag00financial ones duh

[@MercedesMoneIsOutCold]

@@Gulag00really? Being beautiful can get you a lifestyle without having to work a real job and still make money, example: only fans

[@hernandocortez6351]

@@Gulag00 Tons of job opportunities that don't necessarily require seductive clothing, or superior academic credentials. You'll be hired as eye candy just to "brighten up the place."

[@jessieollinger]

You’re so powerful chica. I’m not close with my family anymore either. Bless you girl, be grateful for the friends you have. They are special. Trust is hard. 🌹🙏

[@TIENxSHINHAN]

Finally you get someone who can talk about the struggles that us beautiful people experience.

[@Stonezster]

Us beautiful people? She's a plain Jane. Why is it that females averaging a 5 think themselves a 10? This girl isn't even marriageable...

[@cashcali5214]

How about being “big” and beautiful? That was quite the quandary.. men acted like I owed them a slim body. Women did not like or trust me automatically because I was pretty. I never even believed I was pretty.. I felt like a freak.

[@semaywilson7219]

@@cashcali5214it’s usually jealousy. It doesn’t matter if you’re big or small. If you’ve got confidence or you love yourself etc people tend to dislike that considering they don’t have it in themselves

[@user-sj1df6gf9o]

I love her humility....., incase someone says i've never met her....,, here's the thing , Energy is real, you can tell that this young lady has gone through a lot , God loooves you sooo passionately and created you perfectly the way you're!! I wish her all the best

[@shadforthw3535]

I don't know she's blaming other people for her woes. She says women don't like her because of her beauty. Don't you know a lot of beautiful women who have lots of friends?

[@youwontrememberme]

@@shadforthw3535 You cant deny that women get very jealous, different circles consist of different people

[@Mrs.WhiteLady]

Amen! She seems genuine and I believe everything she said. God will protect her!

[@ConservativeWoman35]

​@@Mrs.WhiteLadyinterestingly enough she has been in several podcasts in the last few weeks and has been outted as a liar.

[@thecognitivedissonant3606]

I appreciate that you give a girl like this some good "Dad" advice re how to deal with past mistakes and things out of her control and how to move forward. Also glad to hear you're taking care of your own mental health, Mark. Being a tender-hearted person in the work that you do can cause burn out when you see so much suffering, so taking care of yourself and maintaining healthy boundaries is really necessary so you can sustain the good that you do in the world. Bless you always, best wishes to Bri. You're not your past, you are a living Spirit in a crazy physical world. Someone once said to me, "Each day, each moment, each breath is a new beginning". Almost 40 years later, I'm still here and have grown a lot through my experiences ❤️

[@yesic7196]

❤

[@Sweetpea4God]

Bri you are such a beautiful person from the inside out! It saddens my heart to hear you say you have no (close) friends, but you do have a diamond friendship with your best friend! Seriously that’s all you need, the world is too full of back stabbing people. My daughter suffers from Bipolar disorder and is beautiful young woman too. Having the illness makes it hard to have friends because of the emotional cycling of the illness. I’m going to tell you as I do my own daughter, aim high on your dreams and focus on achieving them! The world will do everything in its power to crush your spirit, but you will be an over comer! Thanks for sharing your story , sending a huge mom hug your way!

[@MelanieTanner-qh3yd]

Amen to you're not a bad person! It is truth that we all do strange things to cope, to survive, to feel "right" or comfortable in our own skin. You are beautiful and strong and you're going to prove so many of just that!

[@brynttr]

Wow...what an articulate young woman. Very self aware. Brains and beauty and with all she's been through she maintains a strong sense of humanity. I'm optimistic for her future.

[@scottrasmussen6465]

Take a shower and you will be brand new..i never did that before ....ok

[@Rebekah_Renders]

I think the fact that Bri feels bad about what she did is what’s allowing other people to treat her badly. People have a way of picking up on your insecurities and because she’s so gorgeous and nice, they want to break her down just so they feel like they are on her level or better than her. They use her insecurities against her. I truly feel bad for her.

[@realbobbyaxel]

You are naive. Or just like her

[@numbernine3436]

👏👏👏👏 SAY IT LOUDER FOR THE PEOPLE IN THE BACK🗣. I NEVER tell my insecurities. It can be something small like I'm scared of butterflies. Low & behold someone will find it hilarious to let 200 🦋 loose in my bedroom. Hold your head up like ain't nothing going to rattle you. I just had a boss ask if I were afraid of heights. I said "not at all" I hate heights. Out of meanness she would hv me doing s'thing 80' in the air

[@emmanuellavarsamidou-brown2126]

This was a very insightful comment. I agree with you never thought about it like that before.

[@Truth17John17]

Except for that Bri continues to wear clothing that screams, "I am a sex object!" -- clothing that clearly tantalizes men -- and then gets upset when the men she encounters respond to her appearance. Woman who dress like that WANT to be seen as a sexual object or they would not dress that way. For her to say, "This is the only clothing I know how to wear because it's how my mother dressed me" is a copout, a very flimsy excuse. Bri -- while entitled to wear whatever she wants -- has absolutely no right to get upset when men treat her as a sexual object. If you don't want to be treated like a hussy, don't dress like one!

[@lindsayp9691]

@@numbernine3436I love this.

[@annabanana6312]

Aww... Thank you for sharing! Rooting for you! ❤

[@TheBerninatorHawk84]

As a young guy, when we see a beautiful girl we assume every aspect of her life is perfect. It is an engrained bias. I loved hearing you open up for this public therapy session. You are a very strong person. We don't choose who are parents are and what we look like. You should not be dealing with regret to this day. Even if you feel like you made some mistakes, understand that mistakes are a part of life and human beings are fallible. Please don't let that vampire of regret suck the joy out of your life. You deserve to be at peace with yourself and love who you are. You deserve to enjoy your life. Use tools like therapy to work towards acceptance of what happened in the past. From one human to another -> I love you

[@HiGlowie]

You could say the same about how people are programmed to see white males. Regardless of that you look like, life can be unimaginably cruel.

[@guiga_megui]

Yes I wish more guys would not assume this and tries to see a different prespective

[@MsKelize]

❤❤❤

[@Lovergirl0279]

Your comment gives me hope ❤ thank you ❤

[@karenday9109]

Well said 👏

[@Gram72534]

Haters are going to hate!!! Love yourself forget the rest.

[@reneelibby4885]

yup!!!

[@charlottewillis9582]

Less is more. I totally agree, With your simple comment. Thank you

[@natasharichardson4609]

You're right! I tell myself this every day lol! I've never been in the sex industry but guys sexualize me constantly. I'm single at 39.

[@Gram72534]

@@natasharichardson4609 if people are hating on you, it's because there jealous! They want to be like you guys beautiful on the inside and out, they don't have that so they try to bring the ones that do down!!! So really, they're not worth the time of day!!!!

[@natasharichardson4609]

@@Gram72534 100%

[@chrismacarthur5903]

Hi Bri, I commend you for having the bravery to tell your story. Don’t listen to the haters, they have problems, judging themselves apparently and need to judge others to make themselves feel better. I think it’s great that you have such awesome aspirations. Maybe someone else mentioned this, I haven’t read through many of the comments, but have you thought of changing your name, maybe that would help release you from your past persona that you don’t want others to relate you to the person you’re trying to become. Always believe in yourself, believe in hope, and believe your future!

[@1974august6]

His daughters are in her age range, I think she hit his heart strings because of that. He doesn't usually "conversate" like this during the story. This is one interview I got a glimpse of who Mark is and why he does these. He is bashed constantly, it's so sad. This video says ALOT about him. I'm glad i watched it all the way through. Thank you Mark for doing what you do. Brittany I wish you nothing but the best, you will realize as you age this really isn't as big as its been made to be in younger years. We ALL have pasts, mistakes and regrets (they're liars if they say different)! You have to let that go, its done. If you dwell so will others. I hope you give yourself grace, allow yourself to be loved, and give yourself love!! You can do all you set your mind too! You've already proven that! ❤

[@judymurray191]

Conversate is not a word. It is called conversing.

[@crystalkolb8496]

@@judymurray191 Are you sure that's right? Opppps, I meant Wright? No, Write? Maybe its Rite.....perhaps its Reight? 😉 Wink wink

[@nameirrelevant387]

Thanks for correcting her, you may have just saved her from a future lifetime of sounding ignorant.​@@judymurray191

[@beverlyhayshouston2770]

Conversate is the most annoying word that young people use.

[@ambersisco7828]

Actually in that context it would be "converse" and by the way it makes me feel icky to even correct a grammar nazi.pretty lame​@@judymurray191

[@lauramiti2482]

I have rarely heard Mark talk as much as he did in this video. He felt her pain. I think she is a beautiful soul that has been terribly broken. Wish you well, wish you friendship, wish you love.

[@elliushka]

I was thinking the same thing. She just never had any supportive people in her life, she feels everyone against her, women hate her , men take advantage of her. That and her burden of guilt is crushing her young and gentle soul. She needs people who genuinely care/ love her . They are out there 😊

[@18_rabbit]

@@elliushka yes they are, but when young it's hard to know who they are and who to trust. I'm a guy who was considered quite good looking apparently (hard for me to imagine exactly but anyway, whatever), i was truly in disbelief that ppl would treat me superfiically based on my good looks, lol. But it really was happening, and i got used, and abandoned repeatedly. I dn't really feel comfortable explaining other details of comments my own mother made, single parent family, widowed. But anyway, suffice it to say, a similary dynamic happens to men as well, just different.

[@lisbodilkarlsson2267]

Well, one thing that is fair is that eventually her beauty will vanish, and she will look as The rest of us

[@MrFelix002]

How come the interviewer is talking so much,he’s explaining more of himself to her it’s supposed to be the other way around

[@whelkpeopleofdoom]

Nah he was just thirsty AF. Embarrassing. There have been so many more sympathetic stories on here where he doesn't interact as much, but she's an OF hottie, so he engages heavily.

[@Archie583]

Good to see the ad for Betterhelp! I'm a therapist who works on Betterhelp. I heartily recommend it. I was resistant to doing online therapy, but as it turns out, telehealth is as good or better than having to drive to an office...for both the therapist and the client. I'm just here to say that Bipolar Disorder doesn't start at a certain age, as the young lady said, it may have become apparent to her at the age of 20, but it is different for everyone. So, if you suspect that you may have Bipolar Disorder, please don't wait until you are 20 years old to seek help. It is sad that women are objectified in our society. Maybe someday we will evolve past that, but don't hold your breath. Unfortunately, even the interviewer here is showing a bit (a lot) more enthusiasm than in other videos.

[@orange.0822]

bri, I feel for you and I support you! I also have bipolar disorder. I wish you all the best! you deserve so much love! ❤❤❤❤

[@supervidere7]

I really wish this impressive Lady all the happiness she deserves.

[@dianaray1470]

I was young and beautiful with the exact same story as Bri. I never got to enjoy it. I’m older and not nearly as beautiful any longer. But am finally at peace and don’t have to worry about being used anymore. Sad that’s what it took.

[@edp3202]

No average guy was good to you?

[@Gonzo_Bubb]

@@edp3202 They were probably invisible to her.

[@edp3202]

@@Gonzo_Bubb which is too bad. And the nice average girls get passed over too.

[@InTheNow2020]

First of all Bri, I think you are brave to come on KZbin and do this. It shows a lot of maturity and authenticity of your character to share your experiences. It sounds like your mom is a narcissist and this is very challenging to understand and overcome. As for business asperations, if you know what it is like to make $100k p-month, then you will have no problem building a business or business's that can earn much more than that. But then again money is not everything or the most important thing. As I was told years ago, follow your highest joy and excitement, without any expectation of the outcome. And I am really pleased to see SWU team up with Better Help. An absolute master stroke. Our society desperately needs this cognitive therapy. A person to be heard and helped. For at the end of the day we must go within to figure out our challenges in this life. Be good. Peace.😊

[@dhvandenb4208]

Thank you Bri for sharing your story! And Mark, your videos are essential to this world, and speak deeply of the human condition. You're doing great work!

[@sammora7808]

Father of two raising a 13 & 7yr old. Both beautiful little girls. I literally just had a conversation with my oldest about being beautiful and the troubles it will bring via boys and girls. “Not everyone knows how to handle their beauty”

[@Mukanimou]

Having good parents giving them a strong, secure foundation and a strong sense of self can help their children handle most anything. You sound like a good father, bless you.

[@user-cg9lx1vf2y]

Start by not calling your daughter beautiful, try smart strong capable funny instead

[@Mukanimou]

and beautiful @@user-cg9lx1vf2y

[@edp3202]

Have you considered getting them into sports and maybe encouraging them not to sexualize themselves by dressing modestly, cutting their hair, and being good students and sporty? Then they'd know they're smart and have talent.

[@blessedbythebest1003]

Beaty but could be empty inside

[@kayem9909]

Not only is she beautiful but she is smart and kind. Wish her parents could see how wonderful she is.

[@randymarsh9488]

She isn't smart, she ruined her dating life by doing OF

[@Mmmmkaaay]

She doesn't have to tell men that she has done sex work. I did phone sex in the 90s. Do you think I divulge that to men? No way! ​@@randymarsh9488

[@randymarsh9488]

@@Xy3913 LMAOO shed not smart, she's F'd up her dating life and she would be made a fool on the whatever podcast

[@HateSpeech4Life]

Her parents ruined her and she’ll ruin whatever kid she has it’s a cycle for all you hose

[@DaFireElf]

@@randymarsh9488 stfu she has more fortitude, grit, and ingenuity in her fingernail than you would ever in your whole lifetime. stop projecting ur own insecurities dumbass

[@EvaCaletkova]

Interesting conversation. Thank you. One learns from every person's experience. Soft White Underbelly interviews are so diverse

[@MelissaRamirez-fm5hm]

It is sad and interesting to see that some part of the purpose of the video was to share and educate and or explain what this person has gone through in their life experiences up to now, yet some people still don’t understand or are have clouded judgment to even bring up how the topic name came about. 😳 There is so much I want to say but for some it goes in one ear out the other. Our own life experiences will lead us to some choices we make and they may be good or bad (this said based off those who judge you for who and what you do) but only you will understand why you did what you did. Only those who have come about from similar life experiences will understand you the most. Thank you for sharing your upbringing and the difficult times you have gone through up to now. It is difficult to just be you when you are considered beautiful. Being attractive comes with a stigma that can be hurtful.

[@Daniela-gn4ue]

I loved her interview! You can tell how strong and intelligent Bri is. She’s been through hell and she’s standing tall, kicking a$%, and going back to school. Such an inspiring interview. ❤️ You got this girl!

[@Jmaurice82]

She's a pathetic liar and got exposed last night on youtube lol

[@joshuamaulden9084]

she seems like a really nice person. I hope things pan out for her

[@edp3202]

She really does.

[@Truth17John17]

I disagree . I see a cunning manipulator who has you and many others fooled. She cries about men treating her like a sex object while wearing provocative clothing that literally screams, "I am a sex object!" As an OF performer, she is well aware of the effect her attire has on men. If she was serious about wanting men to treat her with respect, she would dress accordingly. Meanwhile, she is still collecting funds from her OF work, and this appearance has probably greatly increased her "presence".

[@jaymaestro2008]

bri adeline, is much nicer in person than you'd expect. she has that drake effect

[@chasedwar2]

Nice pun, pan out from Panama 😂

[@lindamoore2882]

Bri, thank you for sharing your story with the world. What i saw come through the camera was your inner beauty not just the pretty shine on your exterior. My heart is sad for many things you endured as a child. I hope one day you find happiness, peace and laughter as you move through life. Xo from Alaska

[@lauraloudon4098]

You are so brave, and you are so strong, you have done so well to remain standing with all you have dealt with. I hope you learn to love yourself despite all the pain you have endured. remember you have survived so much, I wish for you to have the best life ever moving forward.

[@NicoleMarie_5775]

She literally had no resources to pay for college or eat or live so to think that she feels so badly about her choices breaks my heart for her. I was honestly so happy to hear that she was able to hold on to even a portion of the money she made and has invested it for her future. This girl is intelligent and will have a bright future and I think that’s bad ass. So many girls in her situation at 17 years old, with the childhood she had, wouldn’t have been thinking of applying for college or if they did and arrived at school without a family to back them financially, wouldn’t have been as resourceful as this young lady and would have ended up dropping out, homeless, or any number of things so anyone that judges her should be ashamed of themselves. Jealousy and envy are such toxic traits to have. Great story Mark, I wish her the best and I’d love to see a follow up on her in a couple years…especially to let her haters see where she is by then! Successful people don’t have time to hate on others…. 🤔

[@Truth17John17]

If she was so intelligent, she wouldn't dress in a provocative manner, and then cry about men responding to her as if she's a sex object. If you don't want to be treated like a slut, don't dress like one! Why do you think she dressed this way for this interview? Well.... could it be that she is still earning income from OnlyFans, and this SWU appearance is only going to increase her "presence?..... (thanks to good ole' helpful Mark).

[@hope7959]

It’s heartbreaking

[@jasonfreese2654]

Not having someone to have your back lost and lonely don't matter about looks there's people out there that will take advantage of these young women I'm just glad she didn't find that evil..

[@SuperRobertoClemente]

I think Mark does really important work that allows marginalized people to have voices, but does anyone else feel like he's crushing a bit here? I mean the line "you have it the worst because you're beautiful" is a bit much. There is no Suffering Olympics. Also, as Bri herself points out in her comment above, the title of the video is itself not quite right. OnlyFans is sex work and OnlyFans is what made her suffering a million times worse. Bri is super articulate on this point: it's this devil's bargain with easy money, but then you're signing up to have your sexy pics on the internet forever. No one should have to deal with that.

[@Truth17John17]

@@SuperRobertoClemente How many young, impressional girls watched this video and were tempted to consider the opportunity to make big money quickly? In addition, Bri's claiming she "HAD to do it" because "she had no other choice" simply isn't true. Nor is it true that "her brain is wired to dress this way." The fact that people actually believe some of the absurdities she claims actually worries me for the state of society. You might want to research the real reason Mark features certain people on his channel. This one is a no-bainer..... Bri's audience (income) has increased tenfold....

[@PalleSchultz]

What I see is a survivor with a conscience. I think she can and will put all her experiences to good use. She’s definitely smart enough to do so. Godspeed Brittany.

[@ConservativeWoman35]

Interesting assessment as she was just outted as a liar on several podcasts.

[@senaraasini]

Bri I live miles away in a little island country but i would just fly there just to give you big warm hug, you deserve all the love in the world and i pray that you find ultimate peace. .

[@northernstarseedtarot]

I wish I could give you a big mamma hug and tell you that if I was your mom, I would wrap you up all safe so you never had to go through all this. I'd also tell you you're worth it and you're enough and hold your hand through the tough spots in life & laugh through the happy ones. You got this girl 🙏🏻

[@FGFGrateful]

I'm glad you did this interview Mark. And that Bri was vulnerable enough to be open. I knew someone who did this same thing. And it usually causes a lot of narcissism. But sounds like Bri has a good head on her shoulders. My friend wasn't so lucky. She ended up on drugs and ended her own life. I hope women listen to her story. Money and attention isn't everything. Good luck to you.

[@n.w.p.4315]

Uhhh comparing two random people is a huge disservice. I’m sure your friend was a lovely person but this Bri woman is a money hungry succubus playing the victim because she’s too pretty. She’s full of shit. Don’t ruin your friends legacy by comparing the 2

[@lostinspace699]

I'm only believing some of this everyone has to be accountable Life is shit and hard ,,

[@Fishegg82]

Ugh. I'm so sorry. I have no friends or family either. I'm twice your age though and getting therapy and meds. You are wonderful. I'm rooting for you!! You're a beautiful person inside and out. I'd be your friend in a heartbeat if I was younger. Stay strong sweetie pie 🩷🩷🩷

[@lizkim1546]

No worries this this huge community. I don’t have friends either and my only family is my mom and sometimes sister. I am 35 and enjoy watching these videos. I hope this community continues to grow and blossom

[@Fishegg82]

@@lizkim1546 I enjoy them as well ❤️‍🩹 Are you a Korean adoptee by chance?

[@Fishegg82]

@@lizkim1546 do you have Instagram?

[@nicoledonovan2057]

I'm rooting for you, too. I hope you make a nice friend. You deserve it and so much more.❤

[@user-fw9cf3wc5t]

Very kind words...

[@user-wf4kw1df8s]

Go easy on yourself lady. We all make mistakes and you didn't hurt anyone.Stay strong and beautiful . Look after yourself,I wish you all the best and a life full of love and happiness!

[@lottagreenmalmqvist7651]

I feel you’re pain! You’re strong and everything will be alright. ❤

[@brithansgen534]

When I was 20 I drove out to LA and my mom freaked out and asked how I'd avoid becoming a prostitute... I ended up with a regular job at an art supply store, but I was beautiful. A lot of people tried to take advantage of that. Eventually... I am no longer really hot - now I'm almost 40 and just kind and approachable. I remember wishing for that when I was younger. I wore overalls and pretended nothing hurt. The small town I grew up in thought I was a slut - boys treated me like a trophy. It's a real thing. My life is better not being hot. Love you for telling your story. It sounds ridiculous, but you actually have to be incredibly self-contained when you're attractive. It's not an affectation... it's often self-preservation.

[@kripahanda3350]

Yes… being beautiful or ugly is difficult.. when one is beautiful people really only see that and women often feel threatened and we ourselves value ourselves for this… just too much focus overall on physical appearance

[@SKIMSPersonalStylist]

Yes

[@Exploer8591]

You don't have to be beautiful to be a prostitute. Even though you're not hot anymore, you could still earn some money. Don't give up on your dreams.

[@elainer8288]

Being attractive should be a blessing. The real problem is evil people in this world. The are mean to the beautiful, ugly, average-looking, men, women, any race, etc.

[@CarolT55]

It is a choice to pursue a look. Granted childhood trauma can lead to poor choices. But maturity is beautiful, not skin deep but a better kind of “lookin’ good “ or “hot”!❤

[@brenda44414]

You're very self aware for your age. My mother had bi-polar and wasnt diagnosed until she was 79 yrs old! You have come really far and will go far. Only fans has given you the money for your dreams and thats great. Youve done well! Youre not an addict, alcoholic, you made your money and thats given you the means to move on. Theres so many people out there that won't judge you. Theres girls that are not mean and jealous, theres men who will treat you right. You will find sincere people.

[@jaymaestro2008]

I hope she found a sincere friend in me

[@mts7274]

She is a shallow woman who actually believes sexualizing herself for the pleasure of others is the correct path in life. But hey, when money is the God you worship... 🤡🤡🤡

[@sunflower0nthemoon]

Bri, you have a good head on your shoulders. Don’t give up on your dreams! You’re still so young. Keep your determination and keep moving forward - you will accomplish so much. I appreciated your input, so much, Mark. You gave advice that I would also give and I could hear the care in your voice. Outstanding video.

[@PassiveIncomeUniversity-lt6yw]

Bri thanks for sharing your story. Showing such strength and perseverance. I pray for you to find genuine love and lasting relationships. You have a beautiful soul.

[@stellarkelli]

she has told my exact story about how going viral and being pressured on onlyfans will wreck you mentally and all your relationships. thank you for this mark.

[@kittimcconnell2633]

If Bri starts her podcast, maybe you could be one of her guests.

[@subtomypage]

stop lyng

[@sskkkkiiii]

You made that choice. Cope

[@subtomypage]

@@sskkkkiiii onlyskankfangurls tryn to get sorrow ls wild

[@_Mario_PL_]

She only came for the interview was to get more simps to pay for her OF. Even her Insta has a promo 50% off for "one day only" on her OF.

[@lauraapotter7911]

BRI I'm a mother and grandmother and my heart goes out to you. I just want to give you a hug and know that there are good people out there. I'm sorry you didn't get the love you needed by your mom. You deserve love. I pray you find the love you need, it starts when you find the way to love yourself. I'm proud of you being a young woman that has goals to better yourself, it's a lot what you've already accomplished

[@lewellen1414]

Lady, this girl has lied about everything. You just listened to a pile of shit on the interview. Look her up

[@Stopvotingdemocrat]

shes the biggest lier on earth. please research her.

[@Decades-pl2kl]

Great advice regardless of what you look like

[@reek1111]

The willingness to give people like her sympathy is sad . This chick is a horrible human being who is the biggest liar on the promiscuous side of the internet . Do your research on who this chick is . She’s purely a emotional sympathy vampire and boy is she feeding off everyone’s bs

[@maria.vargas5511]

I agree Mr Laita interrupted her too much. He usually does not interrupt I don't know what happened this time??

[@claudinegarcia487]

Thank you for being so compassionate and and her the reassurance she needed and deserves.

[@minidini4000]

She hurt so much.. it even hurts my heart to hear about it but thanks to her for sharing. May she be protected. I wish her all the best in the world, she deserves only the best because she and all of us are loved children of God. May God bless her and send her the people she needs who truly care and love her. I'm around her age as well and have serious mental health issues- had to drop out of school and can't really work and have been feeling so lonely while being a total people pleaser for years because who would love me for who I really am??.. at least I have my faith and God who helps me trough it all and professional support for my health. Lots of love & compassion for her from a stranger from the other side of the planet♡

[@CowboyJohn123]

You shouldnt watch these videos if you get so hurted about this nonsense 😂

[@CuteCatsofIstanbul]

I'm ugly, poor and have a plethora of mental health issues. My advice for Bri would be - focus on helping those in need; whether it is helping in a soup kitchen/setting up one for the homeless or volunteering in an animal shelter or helping animals back in Panama, or getting that law degrees to help the voiceless. And be aware of those who want to use you, they come in all shapes and sizes, so stay kind but keep your distance. The true good people will find each other. ❤

[@cynthiamartin9845]

Did I miss it or is this a first at suggesting to help other less fortunate? Exactly! Try other socioeconomic groups that are less fortunate.Living at the bottom I know many who have big hearts and are the best at being a friend.

[@mauric99]

@@cynthiamartin9845 She won't do it....she's just on this channel to get more status for her social media....

[@mileysong1117]

I bet she will use her law degree for good...

[@BklynNY471]

❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤

[@nicoledonovan2057]

I'm sure you are not ugly. You have a very kind heart.❤

[@user-wx9dq5ek8w]

never judge someone by the way they look she seems like a kind and sweet genuine person there’s so much more to her then her appearance I feel bad for her for all the pain she’s been through , I wish her the best with all her goals she wants to accomplish she’s going to do great!

[@NightLifeDJs1]

@brittanyadeline I'll be your friend and go out for movies, I need friends too! I'm Latino.

[@EntertainmentAgencycom-jz8pq]

Bri, I just watched your video and your story has touched me so much. Mark, thank you for bringing this young lady forward and sharing her touching story with us. When I look at you, Bri I see a beautiful young soul who fell into the grasps of a world that has been abusive, untrustworthy and very unworthy of a true gem like yourself. Bri, there is a whole other amazing world out there for you! It’s all yours for the taking. I can 100% see you as a strong, intelligent and powerful business leader and role model for many people. Within you, you possess a hidden strength and a hunger to be and show the world you are more than a beautiful face. You need to first separate yourself from those who are a negative force, those who are into exploiting you for your looks and for what you fell into in your past. They are undeserving of you and should be no where in your inner circle of close friends. Only strong, positive and true friends need to be in that circle you are building. Anyone else is detrimental to building the new you. Start today and put yourself in the driver seat of your own destination. You set your own GPS in the direction where your goals are whether it is law, Doctor, business owner etc. For me as a woman I set my GPS towards the entertainment and real estate business long ago when I was only 17 years old and became the best at what I do. There will always be room to grow in the industry of your choice so take advantage of any growth that benefits you and makes you stronger. Surround yourself with professional people in your industry and learn and grow each day. Don’t let a day go by without doing something positive for yourself and towards the goals you are setting. I noticed in your conversation that several times you brought up that you pray a lot, so it would be so spiritually beneficial for you to find a strong Christ centered church to help build a strong foundation. When you get to a point in your life and you are in a position of strength emotionally and professionally then reach out to help others who are hurting like you have been for so many years. You will become the strong positive force for those who are hurting and don’t know the direction in life they want. Life problems can bring people down to a point to where they feel there is no hope. Bri, you need to be that strong leader that is so crucial in todays society. Stay in contact with Mark because he will be such a huge positive role model for you. Mark is a huge role model for so many not only in his community but far beyond his community. I hope in time Mark will have you back on and we will see Bri growing stronger and becoming what I know without a doubt she can and will achieve. Now go take control of your destiny and become anything you desire to be. You can do it! ❤️💯⚡️TCB ⚡️

[@ZainabM-vv7cd]

You're a wonderful person , I hope you find the right support that you deserve. More power to you Brii🌼

[@dbooherful]

For Bri and anyone else here that needs to hear this... You were created in your uniqueness by our Heavenly Father who only loves you... and He has wonderful plans for you. Do not think for one moment you are not worthy to love and be loved just as you are. Bri, your story is heartbreaking but also so relatable... our moms were similar as you described and mine got me into modeling at 11y and also sexualized me from a young age. I was a trophy for her when she was paying any attention to me. And nothing to her the rest of the time. I preferred being nothing. I've had 3 abusive relationships with men that seem to be so much like my mother. I finally started getting Trauma Therapy 3y ago and have an amazing therapist. I wish I had my therapist when I was a kid and my life would be so different. I cut my mom out of my life in March 2020 at the beginning of the pandemic and she passed away this past New Year's Eve. She was a true narcissist and so toxic. I'm the only one in my family to stand up to her and I mourned losing her for a very long time long before she ever actually died. Now I just feel a sense of closure like I'm no longer waiting for an apology or ammends that's never going to happen. I protected my children from her and that enough for me even if other family members shame me for walking away from her. It's like I don't matter to them... that's what that feels like. I'm a LCSW now and I'm really proud of myself. You should be proud of yourself too. You're kind... that shows in your interview. And you have such resilience. Be love and love will find you. Also, knowing everything you shared, I would be proud to be your friend. There is still good in the world. .. believe that.

[@happpyaf]

I hope this woman finds herself, heals, thrives, and finds good people to walk with in this life. Good luck to you and stay strong.

[@lorrecallon1974]

I grew up before internet . I made bad choices without and audience. Some were to survive , others to cope with up bringing . Whether your beautiful or not its a hard journey . Chin up girl this lady is rooting for you to find peace and love !

[@sophiaalila]

I’m 60 years old. I was beautiful and resourceful. Men saw me as an object, commented my looks and wanted sex with me. My mom and other women were often jealous of me. I was excluded in girls groups when they didn’t want me there. There was no internet. I was shy. I dressed down. I acted like a tomboy to feel more safe. And to get some friends. Thank you for sharing so honestly and wisely, Bri💞 Keeping being you🧝‍♀️

[@marianstroup1]

I SO relate to this young lady. I too was born being beautiful and had certain life experiences with men and women that are similar. While I didn't go down her path, I can relate to how this effects relationships, and it is lonely. I also am extremely smart with a very high IQ, and have accomplished so much, but so many can't see that. They only see what you look like, and almost dismiss your intelligence because of their biases. So glad you've taken your life into your OWN hands!

[@debbieriddle9429]

I trained a young lady for a job many years ago....her name was Bri also. She was absolutely beautiful. She got a lot of hate, and talked to me about it a lot during those couple months. Women treated her so bad, simply because of the way she looked. My heart went out to her. My heart goes out to you too young lady. You are a beautiful young lady, but I also see your inner beauty. I just want you to know, I, a 67 year old woman, am praying for you. Someone is going to love you, you're young, give it time. First, you... have to love you, and forgive yourself. There will always be haters, and people will always judge other people for many reasons. Please don't let those people decide who you will be. Get your education, and be who you want to be. There is not a person who hasn't made mistakes in their life. Please don't let your mistakes define your life. I truly am praying for you to have a long, healthy, happy, life. Jesus loves you.

[@betsylaughlin8652]

Debbie you were a safe and caring woman for the Bri that you trained. You were brought together for a reason, and I’m sure your Bri still remembers your kindness to this day. We remember people who touch our hearts and protect us at times in our life when we are vulnerable. There is no greater love than to protect vulnerable people, whether the world sees that they are vulnerable or not. So many exploit the vulnerable, so people like you who protect and help the vulnerable give me hope they the world has good people 🙏💖

[@debbieriddle9429]

@@betsylaughlin8652 So kind of you to respond, I felt the need to reach out to this young lady. I don't want her to lose hope, and not follow her dream. My heart goes out to anyone who is mistreated. I don't understand why it's hard for people to just treat others the way they like to be treated. My Bible teaches me to love my neighbor as myself, and I do my best to do that. I'm like you, I have to believe there are still good people in this world, if not, we're truly in a world of hurt. As far as the young lady I trained, I hope she has had a wonderful life. I'm sure as kind as she was, she has touched many lives with her kindness, because she certainly was a very kind, beautiful person. Thank you, and God Bless you. Have a wonderful evening.

[@mbarkley5688]

O gosh this is such a sweet post. Thank you . I needed to hear this too. Jesus told me you rule !!🎉❤😊

[@gardensofthegods]

That was good of you to be so kind to that young lady ... she needed that kind of nurturing to help her pain and sorrow . Yes I believe the young lady in the video here will go on to have a good life ... but you're right , she needs to forgive herself .

[@jideesan3769]

Wanted to give an advice or two to bri but reading yours made me feel it wasn't necessary..so apt so on point.. @bri...trust me if you can follow this advises..there is no limit to what you can achieve All the best..cheers

[@bigliam7877]

Breaks my heart that such an intelligent beautiful young soul, has been so beaten down by so many. I hope with strength and determination you find true happiness!

[@randymarsh9488]

She never gave up her lifestyle, it's all a facade! She still has her only fans and she's still has the mean old nasty tweets that she tweets out to people. She's 100% bipolar and fake!

[@Truth17John17]

What is intelligent about dressing in an extremely provocative manner, intended to entice men, and then crying about men treating you like a sex object? Not only is her excuse flimsy, it's stupid.

[@marcob6880]

It's no doubt that this woman was targeted by multiple predators, but as she said multiple times "it's what I had to do," but it wasn't ever what she had to do. Horrible circumstances she has lived with no doubt, I have empathy for her, but she chose her path.

[@Truth17John17]

@@marcob6880 I absolutely 100% agree. She did not "have to" be an OF model. In addition, she does not need to continue to wear provocative attire that she is well aware has an effect on men, while crying about men treating her as a sex object. That's illogical.

[@randymarsh9488]

@@marcob6880 She wasn't targeted. She volunteered her body

[@13TUMBAS]

Awesome interview. The younger generation has so many options, good and bad. Takes a lot of bravery to come on here and tell your story. Makes me humble and thankful for my blessings

[@a.w.3772]

Bri, I wish you every blessing and full healing in your precious life. You are whole, infinite, and complete, just as you are. You DESERVE real friends, authentic kindness, care, love, compassion, caring. You're only 22 and you will find real respect and love from the heart. Don't settle for anything less. You are intelligent, authentic, wise. You deserve the best. Ignore the haters, don't settle for scraps! Please find a good therapist you resonate with and the right meds for your Bipolar type. You got this. You got this. ❤

[@snowwpea]

It comes down to a quote I once read, “if you’re beautiful, everyone loves you but nobody loves you” or something to that effect. Beautiful people always have a hard time finding someone who truly loves you. All my life I’ve been told I’m beautiful but guys only want to use you, not value you.

[@squirrelattackspidy]

Being beautiful increases your mate choices exponentially. Seems to me that you were passing over the nice guys who may not have been as attractive, exciting or rich as the guys you chose to be with.

[@bonsummers2657]

False. Loads of people are respectfully devoted to being with beautiful people,…. in marriage, devotedly, making family, making children,…. making a good life.

[@sadgorl]

@@squirrelattackspidy but at what cost? OP: i felt this. people will say “this is such a pick me opinion” - but it’s painful to always be treated like a prize to be won for what you look like on the outside. nothing deeper is EVER considered, and that’s the awful part about it. then it completely brainwashes you from the experience of that into thinking the only value you have in this world is what your outside shell looks like; and nothing more.

[@athens31415]

I think it's "everyone desires you but nobody loves you". And I think that's 110% true. It's because most people lack empathy, especially men.

[@bonsummers2657]

There's much value in genetics, the appreciation and desire for genetic beauty,…. which shows with the physical body. Beauty with everything is to be upheld, as reasonable. @@sadgorl

[@user-uo3if2di9q]

Bri, I dont know if you will ever see this. I thought this interview was so wonderful. I got emotional a few times listening to you share how you felt because I could feel your pain. You have a lot of work to do to love yourself. If you can find a way to do that, you will find others who will love you as well. The past is just that, the past. We all have done things we wish we didn't but we can't go back and undo. The interviewer cares about you. I could feel it with his comments and the way he listened. He is not the only human that feels that way. You said many times how you don't trust and I can totally understand why, but the only way to let love in is to open your heart. Easy to say but not so easy to do. From my heart I hope you find the love and peace you so deeply desire. Don't give up you will. You have so much to give and it will come back to you! I loved hearing your story. Thank you for doing the interview.

[@fi1mcore]

hanks for sharing your story Bri, hope you're doing well. This is such a great series. Just in framing these shots, i wish there was a little more headroom, especially in the Better Help spots, but I'm not complaining 😃

[@hurricanebee1140]

You’re beautiful not only on the outside but also the inside. This is a cruel world for women, you’re a survivor. You have a friend in me.

[@LucieVital]

The title of this video is clickbait. Many of the people posting are slamming her unnecessarily because of it.

[@letuswrap]

Ya I think Mark could've done better with the vid title

[@montanasky2253]

Mark made a mistake with the title of this interview. Her problems have nothing to do with her looks…which are slightly above average She had a childhood full of neglect and she has mental health issues and she ended up prostituting herself. She has a terrible life. She destroyed any chance of being classy. And that is NOT a beautiful way to live. I feel bad for her. I know lots of beautiful women who have tons of friends

[@tinasmith7630]

​@@letuswrapPicky picky!!+ oh deary me.

[@rickeytmusic]

All fisherman use bait

[@kinduvabigdeal100]

@@letuswrap I'm also not too crazy about him chiming in as much as he is here. He seems fixated on her looks and to have lost some objectivity. I much prefer when he lets the guests talk without judgment, positive or negative.

[@IceeALatte]

I don’t feel like the video is as much about how Beautiful Bri is as it is about the struggles she has faced from her life choices and the cards she was dealt. We all do things in life that we regret. The hard part is finding a way to forgive ourselves for those choices and moving forward from them. Especially , as in her case, she felt like she did what she had to, to survive! Don’t look back Beautiful girl! Don’t let someone’s words have power over your future success! Get the education that you desperately want and prove to YOURSELF, Not your Mom, your family, or anyone else. YOU. PROVE TO YOU that you can rise from ashes and make a difference! Sending you all the Love and many prayers! 🙏

[@Vindexter]

Right On - Universal Wisdom for us all

[@baddestjoanna-michellesmit5578]

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[@Truth17John17]

Considering she's still earning money from OF, and this interview in her extremely provocative outfit will only increase her "presence". Thanks to good ole' Mark!

[@aliciap834]

@@Truth17John17I’ve seen people on here half naked. This is another example of the title.

[@Truth17John17]

@@aliciap834 I agree with you. However, those people weren't complaining about being called sex objects. I don't care at all what she or they wear. She can be half naked if she wants. My point is that she's crying about men responding to her as a sex object when she deliberately dresses like a sex object!