The true reason why men and women struggle to live together

[@powerlifting85]

Yeah, I concur. My 5 year relationship ended last year, after living with her for about 2 years. She built up a lot of resentment towards me about where I put things and using toiletry items, etc. Real tedious shit. I found out at the end that she had all this built up anger towards me for the smallest things about living with another human. Never move in with her.

[@GoblinMode369]

Am I the crazy one!? Yes... yes you are

[@OnderHassan]

I've always said that the only real solution when it comes to dealing with a modern woman is to not commit to her or move her into your place. I was never given any crap from a woman who I refused to commit to but got pretty much all of it when I took her seriously. Take from that what you will.

[@Serpicouk]

By the way compromise isn't the answer. The more you compromise and sacrifice,the less attracted she will be to you and the less she will respect you. You will appear agreeable and spineless. This will make her feel anxious and polarise her into the masculine. The masculine is more judgemental. So you will be left with an anxious judgemental woman trying to control you more to end her anxiety. The best thing for both of you is to say. "Im going to do whatever i like in my apartment. If you have a problem, you can go somewhere else". This might seem mean but this will maximise respect/attraction/femininity, while minimising anxiety. She wants to be with an attractive authentic man, give her that gift.

[@ModernDatingMastery]

*It’s essential to remember that successful cohabitation requires teamwork and flexibility from both partners.*

[@bandita2068]

Mate you know it has nothing to do with the socks women feel not logically think :) (but as a guy it is normal you try to find logical explanation for such behaviors)... She simply lost attraction/ there is a new higher value guy around > she will make up the smallest inconveniences possible as they are just glimpses of actual reality to justify her feelings, which are an excuse for her bad behavior/awful communication skills > an interface used to attempt communication to men. The guy does not show his best behavior like he did as become comfortable, not dating her, not making feel special like before, which makes her feel bad about herself. Which is exaggerated by her insecurity, which clearly shows on the fakeness of all of her appearances. As you said does not matter the guy working 12 hours , waking up at 4 etc. women are selfish they care what they get, they always want more. The guy is good till the girl is not bored and having the emotional rollercoaster, she would leave a boring/ tidy guy in a heartbeat .. And No, you cannot have any actual (not s*x) work with those black pitchforks on your hand... A guy of value would not even give a second of his time to such women.

[@pratik6342]

Spot on!

[@kotangensische]

First time here, great format and smart points!

[@NeoXSpirit]

it's not about time to do it but about the action, your sock, your shit, but i agree that if the women don't like it, she has to do it or to talk about it with his guy, but I feel that is just an excuse to search a better option

[@petrfilinger9205]

Solid advice. I’m awed

[@MrChristocentric]

laundry basket near the head where you sleep, how tidy

[@erwangaillard1637]

Honest question related to the video. Recently broke off with my exGF and for the first time in 10 years I’m living by myself in my own flat : cooking, chosing the design of my flat, clothes, care products etc… I’ve now realized I don’t even need a woman other than to f. I mean no woman can bring value in my life. At this point I know I want to have kids but there’s no incentive to find a wife. What would you do ?

[@georgeelder8415]

Stay single, live alone. Give her space to miss you, get together, enjoy each other, then send her on her way... Rinse and repeat.

[@mdhazeldine]

If you want kids, get married. If you don't, then there is little reason to unless you have a religious conviction to do it. That said, when you become older, it may be harder to date and if you find a good woman, maybe you'll want the stability of marriage, but divorce has become so easy and beneficial for women these days, that it's not a guarantee of much security TBH.

[@GunfighterAlpha]

Take it from divorced dad with a kid. You don't want kids. It's not worth the risk. You'll eventually be divorced, paying child support, have little to no say nor any influence in that Childs life. You lose 6 ways from Sunday.

[@erwangaillard1637]

@@GunfighterAlpha then why marry ? Better to have kids without mariage no ? Also thinking about paying a family law guy to know all the tricks and avoid being destroyed.

[@georgeelder8415]

@GunfighterAlpha Absolutely my experience as well... Time is your friend... Men win in the end if they never give up...

[@mdhazeldine]

As crazy as this girl is, im actually on her side on this one. If you cant function like an adult and put your damned socks in the laundry basket then you shouldn't be living with other human beings. Living with someone successfully takes having common courtesy for others around you. Its the same if you're house or flat sharing too. Dont be disgusting.

[@bolt-dbtfg]

So if they are not getting married Because they are living together., It means they both made a good decision. Because of realiszing they could not live with each other. And as they did that BEFORE signing the marriage Agreement it means they weren't stuck in a marriage they had great difficult getting out of. . . . and then "no fault divorce" is created in the 70s, inorder to speed up the number of divorces people wanted. As the judicial system was overwhelmed. Not getting into a bad situation that didnt work, and not having a marriage agreement that fvcks you up is a good thing. ---- ALSO. She lost attraction for him. But she needs to protect her reputation so she can't just say, "I want to fvck other men"; she has to find an excuse why he's a "bad person", and "he's not meeting her needs" so she can go off and do what she wants to do. And that means communicating that to everyone within earshot, why suddenly she's not fucking her boyfriend and wants him out so she can get a new man.

[@bladeedge481]

Evil

[@joshuas-g8r]

No one is working on the thought and emotions. The obey the senses.

[@paulroyal2177]

Interesting take on the implied roadblocks of living together. I've joked that "if Mars took our women, men would live in garages and live music would disappear."... I've had a couple of women stay with me in my apartment, and they left without criticizing how I lived in *my* apartment. But now I wonder if they had these hidden and nagging feelings that they refused to hint about, and these thoughts drove them away. It would be easy to use multi-value logic, and attach a 0-10 intensity scale to their feelings, with the caveat that the number will intensify later. Regarding the video, the guy was told to not discard stuff on the floor for several days, and yet his insistence on continuing the offensive behavior was an inconsiderate, daily slap in the face. He was a poor communicator.

[@Scotttyist]

Who puts on dirty socks?? Christ.

[@known8172]

I always work out in the late evening, shower in the gym and put on new socks. When I am at home and go to bed I actually put them on the floor next to my bed and take them back on in the morning..

[@dend1]

Wearing socks more than once a week is fine imo, but I work from home, maybe it's different when you're on your feet all day

[@iloveamerica4891]

#WONG Sorry I do not agree with your argument that man is being efficient by leaving socks on the floor for quick access following day. In the Army proper wear, care of Army uniforms is mandatory. I agree with the woman in this video.

[@kevincanales6654]

You don’t agree with the habit. Perhaps the placement on the floor is untidy and questionable. But it is more efficient to have your clothes out for the next morning. It makes getting ready faster and less tedious for you when you’re groggy and fumbling around after waking. Some people got enough stress in their lives.

[@MAJ0R_TOM]

Did he ever ask her to pick up the socks?

[@stuwilldoo7035]

wow, they feel bad for not putting their socks away, but nothing else ? Seems about right

[@channel1_channel]

Men being messy slobs, yeah, women should be pissed........accountability. There is no need to be a pig at work or at home. Work out a way not to be slob. Yes, different standards.

[@mikaeljonsson4686]

Have you seen many womens bathrooms in tiktok videos? Disgusting chaos... so it's not only men that are slobs...

[@youngmalden645]

Men shouldn't be (and rarely are) pigs but you talking about accountability 😂😂😂😂

[@JanFWeh]

Defending the crazy woman who physically assaulted another person over socks.

[@Solutionsarejustcompromises]

Women schuld ben pissed, why? Fill in the dots plz.

[@rally_chronicles]

Socks? Really?

[@russingersoll5761]

The things that WAHmen like this consider to be difficult are laughable.

[@ahshari]

Is she in jail for assault??