Your attraction to a woman will change your behavior... Here's why

[@Codesiderio]

While I agree that as a man I'll judge more harshly a woman I care about, I've learned not to be openly judgemental and provide sort of a safe non-judgmental space so that she can talk about her past, then I'll decide if she is worth the headache.

[@alansantos6142]

Yes the method is saying "I won't judge" and you will hear some stuff. They openly share that shit at first😂. Deeper into it, she will realize this and try to hide it if she likes you enough.

[@HeartlessDissident]

i just finished training before watching this, you have a very developed understand of things brotha. i just wanted to say that and wish you peace in times that our patience is always being tested. Safe travels

[@georgeelder8415]

It's a reality... If you care about a potential future with her, it goes without saying, some sort of correction & direction will have to occur, the earlier the better...

[@alansantos6142]

I met this girl(25yo) at work and she seems cool and fun to hang around with. She approached me a lot at work, giving me good signals. Even inviting me first to hang out. I like her tatoos and the goth look with piercings and colored hair bc I am more of an emo guy myself(23yo). Thing is, she is kind of into the hardcore drugs and always smelling of weed, giving me a BPD vibe I recognize well from my past. BUT I want to ignore these red flags and just enjoy the moment. I'm deciding to keep it arms length, not judging and maybe I can learn from this. What's wrong with a little practice? In the past I did a mistake to commit to a girl like this and it was such a mistake. I just want a friend who I can be comfortable and if intimacy happens, it's on her. I decide if there's commitment or not. A fwb situation seems best for me now. I get benefits and I still want to treat her as a friend. Maybe not... Man I just don't want to ruin it. I don't know her intentions with me, and I brought condoms just in case cause you never know what do they want to do with you. They decide sex, not me. I decide relationship. That's all in my male perspective on why I don't care about her decisions in life. Take it how you want, I WANT TO WIN THIS TIME. (and be kind to her/respectful ofc) BECAUSE WHY why is it that the guy who doesn't take her seriously always win in the end? Giving me headaches and making me not care. I have to be like this in order to be okay and get what I want. I've seen it happen over and over. "Don't get married, don't have kids, don't get a gf" BY EVERY MALE FRIEND/RELATIVE I HAVE. I want to see a happy ending for once ffs. Even I don't like my parents bc dad gets ordered around like a puppy by my mom and he doesn't see the narcisism.

[@alansantos6142]

I will judge her if I consider her for s relstionship, but I know I'm not at my best now so, I take what falls on my hands. I know she wouldn't commit to me anyways on the long run.

[@marcusmcgraw3519]

Trust me when I say this. You are much better off not caring about her past, even for the sake of relationship purposes as opposed to hook up purposes. If she has a high body count, you can use that to your advantage. I’m sorry, but I just KNOW that you can’t say that every single one of those guys was better than me

[@stephensummers1958]

Video Request: I am divorcing my wife. She wasn't taking good care of our kids and doing weird crap with dudes online. Curious what my market value is... I hear a lot about other women's market value, but what about mine? I am 42, good looking, good job in the medical field. Not fat but not shredded... but working on getting shredded. Hoping to keep the House. Hoping the court will see that she never cleaned it and put zero money into it and the kids deserve to stay in their house. Maybe a dream but hoping it happens. According to my lawyer, I live in a good area to be a man. I have a decent car and I plan to have 100% custody of my kids since she didn't take care of them and I have some proof of that. My kids are more important than another woman, so if my market value is in the dirt then it's whatever.

[@iampicasso1811]

great video brother! Link to her channel?

[@jarodorla6949]

What is her name? Wow she is incredibly articulate and sounds switched on.