The truth about living alone as a minimalist

[@Vsekacecaps]

I am in love with your independence. You work a 40 hour week, provide for yourself and put a roof over your head, don't rely on nobody. 👌

[@AmericanDreamer]

she's indeed a great role model!!!!

[@carlmarc3877]

That is extremely attractive

[@arminiusofgermania]

Must be pretty lonely.

[@M33-f9t]

Not relying on anybody is a recipe for being alone.

[@elizabethtimothy9510]

Dear you are not alone. I am an introvert, love my space, peace and quiet but never lonely. I enjoy it so much, people don't really understand or get why, even as a child, I often prefer to be alone. I am never bored as 24hrs is too short for me, I read, write, pray, eat, work , go on adventures and outdoor activites( which people that knows me think it is crazy), and I sleep. I live a contented and simple life and I am happy.

[@seventhchild7270]

Elizabeth timothy....YES!....AMEN!

[@alfiemarie]

Omg im the same. I am such a loner too. And it does get lonely but what I have come to realize is that everyone feels lonely, even those in a relationship or surrounded with many friends. Love your videos!

[@alfiemarie]

George Allen because i am a man.

[@shakitahill1437]

you right. u can be in a relationship and still feel along .

[@yzza22]

Alfie Bart I’m in a relationship for 5 years now, and I ve always been lonely.... No friends, except from my dog..and parrot. But still lonely.. and a loner... I wish it wasn’t like that, but judging by the type of humans that surrend us,I prefer it like that..

[@Coopogers]

So true... I find myself lonely even surrounded by people

[@omarswearingen7199]

She's right

[@jamoriah]

You are refreshingly honest. If you live alone a relationship with God is the best. You will never be alone.

[@ginah.6243]

Ayesha Khan read the BIBLE for a real relationship with Jesus.

[@yemoteleyq.9068]

JMK yes! I’m looking forward to this when I move out on my own. I feel like my relationship will thrive with Christ as I will have no distractions.

[@hipoint9mmcarbine731]

gods are not real

[@hipoint9mmcarbine731]

Dan Jesus Jehovah Yahweh Thor Mithra Aphrodite, they all are non existent.

[@devsox1]

Yes Amen to that! I might be moving by myself in a couple of weeks and I already feel my relationship with God strengthening. In the end, God is the only thing that matters

[@1Daisygirl1]

I am a 58 yr old divorced and single grandmother who came across your videos researching minimal lifestyles. On one video you talk about being vegan and the answer why was watching the film Cowspiracy. I was curious and that led to watching Cowspiracy, Earthlings etc. Because of you I am a proud vegan! You are a very intelligent, beautiful, young, and sensitive soul. This time in your life is only a chapter but the lessons and experience gained will benefit the rest of life as you become a wife, mother, and grandmother. It may be hard to see that right now but just wait! Doors will open when you least expect it and good quality people will enter them. 💕

[@simpleblessings3]

Daisy Kelly I cannot Amen this enough !! So so true 🌷 Kyra...you are on such a beautiful path! You will see that as you continue to walk and grow and create this life, that kindred spirits will come into your life!! You are such a blessing to many .. You are making a difference by sharing your journey!! ❤🌷❤🌷❤

[@glamorousgenna20]

Daisy Kelly Proof that we can all learn something from EVERYbody. 👏🏻

[@sophiasummer7339]

Daisy Kelly hi please listen to Dr Natasha Campbell McBride and Lierre Keith who was a vegan for 20 years and she says it ruined her health. Just listen. Not to change your mind but to have a 360 view on veganisim.

[@jenniferh.7219]

I don't care how many Cowspiracys I watch I'm still gonna get to chicken, beef & bacon! go go u veganese - that's why the world works, some people exist in the space u cannot & vice versa

[@ΓιωταΕυγενιαδου]

👍👍👍👍👍🌷🌷🌷🌷🌷

[@yamieandre7700]

Honey - I am loner big time, because it is better to be alone, than in bad company! I have a cat🐱

[@godschild163]

Amen

[@abbymoyer2014]

Agree!!!

[@originalmix2546]

Cats are a great company

[@sugarmcdoodles8462]

Yamie Andre me too! That’s him in my profile pic

[@yamieandre7700]

He/she's cute! Keep doing your videos, I am learning from you.

[@f.brigette8807]

I grew up with a sister close in age to me and many female cousins. In my teens, 20s and even now, when I am around them I feel distant, annoyed and starved emotionally and intelluctually. I am left feeling exhausted in their company. Sounds sort of mean, but when I am finally by myself I feel recharged. Healthier to be alone than spend too much time in the wrong company, even if it's familly!! 😄 And don't feel ashamed or guilty for feeling it!

[@heniratna653]

Same with me..... feel exhausted when surrounding by the wrong people 😊

[@thewhisperpoet]

#introvert

[@yemoteleyq.9068]

Glad I’m not the only one - I love my family but I’m so different from most of them.

[@marciesalkowski8139]

This made me think of how much acknowledgement was missed as a child and as an adult in a previous relationship... and maybe thats maybe one of the reasons I enjoy being alone (hsp) because i dont have diss appointment

[@Gravitywalker20]

Those are called toxic blood relatives. I wouldn't call them family. You need to discharge them from your life permanently! Don't wait until you get older.

[@Hannah-sf5no]

Being alone is so liberating, cause you answer to nobody, do what pleases you. Live life and love life.

[@KevinWalker7339]

Hi Kyra - I lived alone for 12 years, then got married and lived with my wife for 5 years, and then got divorced. That's when it got interesting, because I found myself falling back into habits that I had in my 20's. I actually had a live-in roommate for about a year after my divorce, but it wasn't a great situation. Now I'm back to living alone - it's been 2 years, and I kind of like it. I do get lonely and paranoid and messy, but I'm self sufficient and I know that I can take care of issues when they arise. I think that the forced independence has made me a stronger person. I do wish there was a support group for people who live alone ;-).

[@MarkNOTW]

Kevin Walker I agree. It’s harder for men I think as women are generally more social.

[@Metsada007]

Kevin Walker - I also live alone, but never married and never had any romantic relationship, managing my anxiety and depression is consuming my whole life.

[@spunkycat6144]

Every young woman should be required to see this video.

[@mmowec8159]

I agree!

[@janeday3237]

The way women are behaving they might want to get used to being alone.

[@doubledown8229]

I don't want to be around Western women. I avoid them like the plague. If I see a group of women walking down the sidewalk, I'll cross the street.

[@M33-f9t]

Hahahahahaha! Good advice Jane!

[@derpina615]

I relate a 1000000% LMFAO. The paranoia is real. Especially when you *think* you kept soemthing somewhere but it “moved”.. and I’m like, IM THE ONLY ONE HERE. But anyway, all of it got better with time. I miss it now. It’s frustrating sometimes living with another human (even if you’re married to that human) 🤣

[@diannerowley9358]

I don't trust anyone. I'm alone too I'd rather have no friends because they just caused me trouble. I'm minimalist and vegan too. I live in Australia though... Sounds like you miss your mum. You sound very much like me. I feel the same. Much love darling I think you need a big hug. Xxxxxxx I think your a smart young woman who is just needs a hug. Xxxcc

[@GREENEYELADY606]

dianne rowley I don’t trust anyone as well they indeed cause trouble

[@FashionCityOnline]

Me tooo

[@e.o.a101]

True...I don't trust anyone...don't have friends and the friends that I have don't even bother to contact me not even a phone call or a text message to just say 'Hello'.....sad 😑😕.

[@jcap4859]

I’m in the same boat with you...I lived in apartments alone a lot then me and my boyfriend moved in together...then I moved back by myself. I’m a loner and I actually enjoy it

[@Living.minimal]

See I always wonder if I’ll be a good room mate or girlfriend once I move in with someone else. Kinda terrifies me to think I might be a little to much of a neat freak to pick up after someone else lol but hey I guess I’ll see one day. And being a loner I find is one of the best experiences someone could do for themselves. You actually get to know what you like and what you don’t like to do.

[@GREENEYELADY606]

Jazmine Capel I enjoy being alone as well

[@TyraHigh]

Girl so glad to read this post, my boyfriend is amazing and took me in after family put me out and I know he’d like me to stay but I miss having my space.

[@accurry8566]

Living alone is something I never did and I regret not having that time to get to know myself. I can't do that now that I have a family but if I had a do over I would do it for a period of time. Stay safe girlie!

[@kcmarie3774]

Girl im with you. I like being alone. I enjoy my own company lol. I feel relaxed and drama free that way. My husband works alot and I prefer that lol

[@cintiasilva8116]

I really admired your lifestyle! you should be soooo proud of yourself! you are a truly inspiration...please keep posting more videos. you probably don't even realize how much people lives you change everyday. THANK YOU A LOT! GOD BLESS YOU!

[@kevinmak712]

Don't feel guilty about being single. God will always love you and will never forsake you. I am 34 and am still not married.

[@vivien0430]

Fist Bump!

[@absloutelyRasha]

Awww Sweet Kyra! you are not alone , we are your youtube community with you. I am an only child and I have been living by myself most of the times. You get to use to it. You are responsible and my advise would be in your next move to get a place that includes all utilities in the rent so you do not have to pay too many bills. If they accept pets it would be great so you can have a companion. Start affirming that you are safe as you get used to keep the place secure. It is normal to talk to yourself, I have the best conversations with myself. Everything is going to be ok with you and soon you will have your own family and not feel alone.

[@Stocks_4]

She is alone and nothing will helps us. . . She is young so she can easily find a nice companion. So plz don't encourage her about loneliness. . .

[@Stocks_4]

And yeah it's a truth. . . Being alone sucks especially for a girl. .

[@courtneymanning6606]

I feel the same way you do about not having any friends. Once I changed my lifestyle, I also change the People I associated myself with. Since then, I have yet to find a good friend. But i am also okay with that. When the time is right, me, you, and anyone else who feels this way will meet someone!

[@blueyellow3621]

Love your background! Your bedroom looks super neat and calm. And your bedroom is the proof you’re a responsible adult. Going to subscribe to your channel!

[@sarahs5340]

I really love your videos. Sometimes being alone is a season in life. I like your positivity and there are many wonderful things about living single.

[@pinkest]

I totally relate to *everything* in this video. I lived alone for 2 years, and the funniest thing was the rice! 😂🍚 I remember when I literally put a palm size amount in a boiler half hearted as a joke & it was literally the perfect amount! Over time, you just adjust, and I wouldn’t trade that time I got to live alone because so many women go straight from home into marriage and miss out on getting to know themselves on an individual independent level. Best of luck on your journey! ✨☺️

[@spunkycat6144]

Okay, I am going to try to palm sized rice now. LOL.

[@debbiestevenson2992]

I lived alone and hated it at first.. I was 20 miles from my family and I don't have friends like that either. I have many acquaintances but I keep my circle very small. You are smart Kyra and are a positive example for others.

[@homegirl4155]

I can’t help but have a sad heart when I see genuinely nice people who don’t have a social circle. I know you don’t want pity, I just feel social interaction is so important for humans xx

[@sb2459]

I love being alone and it has helped me to strengthen my relationship with God. My mind is more calm and there is no others' shit in my head. Its just me n God. Loving my peaceful life.

[@hollyhighnote9203]

I just found your channel and can relate to SO many things!! I'm a minimalist too but have been a long time before it really had a name. And like you, friends are limited. Just based on lifestyle, etc. It's hard for a lot of people to understand living a certain way coupled with also being a bit of a loner, or introvert. It's so encouraging to find other people who are so similar so thanks for putting a little bit of your life out there, you're NOT alone! And as someone who started that kind of minimalist thinking and lifestyle a long time ago, those habits are awesome to have even as you have more money. So glad to "meet" you!

[@JENNIEG04]

Hello from Chicago. Awww, I'd definitely be your friend. I'm a loner as well bc I had to purge bad friends. Great video.

[@yarelimacedo]

Lets be friends! I live in Chicago!

[@evelynsierra692]

I live in Chicago too hey girls!!

[@94100josie]

Chicago girl here too :)

[@ChicagosSinfulSwede]

Chicago chick here too!! 🙋

[@zhiyizhu14]

I live in Chicago! You guys are awesome!

[@AnaGarcia-fh7iw]

I so relate make me feel better knowing I'm not the only loner living solo out there!

[@sandysandoz467]

So true we never let people come to our house. My family says the walls talk lol... People are nosey so i relate. I talk to myself it's normal.

[@gabriela12176]

Kyra, first of all you are not Alone you have got US who follow your Channel. I am truly proud and admire your bravery. If you miss a video on KZbin we 're calling 911 . I Promise❤❤❤👍

[@mialynnrivera3700]

Thanks for sharing your experience! I can agree with being a loner, I am too. And I'm actually glad I'm not the only one. Your channel has helped me to "grow up". It sounds weird but your videos have really helped me to grow up and live better.

[@spunkycat6144]

Me too.

[@McDermottFamily100]

It really hit hard when you said you choose not to have friends. I feel exactly the same way. I am completely content with my two kids, my husband and my immediate family. Thank you for validating this perspective :) LOVE your channel. Best to you!

[@mikellecallahan6319]

i understand as well. It can be lonelier with the wrong person so alone should be okay. There is a lot to be said about PEACE!! I love how you can have who you want in your house which makes you secure. Good video!!!

[@torontobella9790]

I totally agree with you on "It's okay to be alone" I share a lot of your beliefs. You have so much online support and love, don't ever feel like you don't have friends. Lots of love from Toronto.

[@miriamperez26]

I can really relate to the last one. I'm a senior citizen and I live all alone and the same thought has crossed by mind. Thank you for sharing this...you're a young girl, I thought only old people thought about dying alone. You really touched my heart. God bless you!!💟💟💟

[@desiderata333]

Wow I’m a mom and I couldn’t imagine not checking in on my daughter often. You’re an incredible and lovely young lady and it makes me sad you feel if you were to pass away (God forbid), that no one would know for a long time. How can that be? You’re truly very special and deserve to not feel so alone even though you live alone. Sending gentle hugs sweetie. God bless you. 💜💜💜🙏🏽

[@lilliannorman3374]

wow I wanna be like her she's got everything together and really responsible

[@kathybeamer5477]

I've always been a loner, too. It does have it's moments but I really enjoy it. Being alone and being lonely are two different things! I was always the odd person at work that went to lunch by myself instead of going with a group because the thought of being at lunch with the same person every. single. day sounded so boring! Maybe eventually you can move to an apartment that allows pets.

[@sylvestr79]

Kathy Beamer yessssssss. So true. Being alone and being lonely are SO different.

[@urmoen5351]

@@sylvestr79 Is it fun doing things alone?

[@jeanharris2906]

You nailed it. I live alone and can relate to all your points. Thanks for sharing because I believe others of us who live alone like you can appreciate your openness on this topic. Wishing all of the solo dwellers an awesome rest of the week from another solo dweller. ❤️

[@Hobbes123]

Wow! Fate brought me here to watch this video. I totally relate to everything you said about living alone. I live with Roomate but my house is soooo quiet you hardly run into the Roomate’s where I freak out at night with every little noise. It’s so true what you mentioned about having control of who comes in and out of your house. I realized the other day that girls from school I thought were my friends just came over to my dorm to get ready, just using me because I live close to campus. I realized I have the choice of letting them come here, so I said no more. Those people aren’t real friends and honestly prefer to be a loner than to have fake friends. Living alone is just part of adulthood, maturing, and realizing what is good for you.

[@user-th9ig4hk7c]

I think this is your best video so far. Love it. You do actually have friends coz your sisters and family are like your friends. Besides you'd get annoyed with loads of fake friends coz they'd probably be messy and mess your lovely apartment up ! Really really can relate to this video. Thank you 😊

[@calmisnatural]

Could you make video about why you choose don't have friends, if you ever had friends in the past etc. I'm interested in this topic. Thanks for your videos :)

[@In_time]

Lenka Bacmanakova check out her “why I chose to be a minimalist” vid.. she talks about it a bit there (actually I think she speaks about it here and there in a few other vids as well) but I agree, would love to hear more on the subject as I am very much in the same boat... I think It’s way more common than we think 🤔🤷🏼‍♀️

[@teamhipoint5477]

friendship is bullshit; ive seen a few long term friendships of co-workers crumble or become badly damaged because someone lied or accused the other person of something etc. My best friends are my pets 🐕🐕🐈🐈🐈

[@believer_1898]

Girl!! I’m glad I’m not the only one lol the closest interactions I have had with Christ is by being physically alone.

[@elizabethtimothy4776]

God talks to us when we are still or should I say we hear God in a moment of calm, still , even Jesus often seperated himself from his disciples and go up in the mountains to pray. There are always revelations, visions, ideas that happen when we are alone not when crowded

[@johnhall3670]

Loneliness gets worse over time I hope you are able to find friends soon.

[@chickedeedee292]

I have no friends either. Takes too much effort to talk. Keep your mind busy with work, reading, social media, pets, family, have a few casual friends, just in case you get into a relationship and the guy thinks you are a bit weird not having any friends. I could have friends but i don't put enough energy and time into it.

[@jes61722]

You are so honest and real! Keep working hard and good things will come your way babe. Sending love from your Boston fam

[@mai-lyjohnson8607]

Aww you’re never alone! God is always with you. Have a relationship with him and get to know him is the best feeling in the world😊

[@kelliewohlford2752]

This video is a perfect explanation of living alone!! And yes my biggest fear is if something would happen and no one would know or if I am sick and needed medical attention but there's no one around to help (such as what if your blood sugar drops and you have no one to run get something sweet to eat FAST or choking) that is a major reason I hated living alone. I rarely ever had people over so the house just felt like a house not a home, but when someone would come over it did feel warm and like a home. I for sure aren't meant to live alone. I moved in with my boyfriend a few months ago.. shewww living alone is over!! Great video, lady!

[@camillemccraw]

i love!!! that you made this video about being alone and not compromising your values to be friends with people that you do not mesh with. i live with my boyfriend but he goes out of town for work sometimes. i only have a few friends and we hang out about once a month. i think you are probably saving a ton of money by living this lifestyle too. keep making real videos like this ❤️

[@Pineapple-ob2kb]

Everything you said is absolutely true however I commend you for being a beautiful young lady I’m being wise enough to know that not everybody is your friend and you pick and choose who is in and out of your life👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽🙌🏽🙌🏽🙌🏽🙌🏽

[@JennyT101]

I hear you. When I first lived on my own I was a bit lonely, but I really enjoyed living alone once I got used to it. Now I'm married and occasionally I miss it. Lol. Living alone can be nice because you don't have to rely on horrible roommates who don't pay bills on time and make a mess. I once lived with a roommate who supposedly forgot to pay the electric bill she was responsible for and our power got shut off! As for friends, I have gone through periods when I didn't really have any friends because there was just no one i clicked with, or I outgrew my friends, but these periods don't last forever. You're awesome and I admire your minimalist, responsible life style!

[@elizabethfarias9104]

I'm a loner too! Glad to know that there are more of us :) I know it can get lonely at times living by yourself, but as someone who can't afford to do that yet I consider you so lucky to have your own space without having to compromise with anyone

[@agapeglenda]

New subbie, I’m 55, two adult children & 2 grandchildren & I live alone. It gets easier with time & I find living in studios to be much more appealing then living in a space with walls. Great vid.

[@janeelizabeth6711]

Having lived alone in the past I can definitely relate to some of the points you raised. My Mum who has lived on her own for 24 years says one thing she is paranoid about is checking her doors and windows are locked. Great video by the way.

[@catz2505]

Good video. I'm alone also, but have no family. I got an app for my phone that contacts me at a set time each day to make sure I'm okay. If I don't respond they try to call, if I don't answer they call my contacts to check. It's just another step to know someone is checking on you. You worry about these things.

[@ojukwubucket8735]

Hi. beautiful!

[@spunkycat6144]

What app is it....LOL, I need it.

[@ojukwubucket8735]

@@spunkycat6144 hi. May I know you Ange!

[@ojukwubucket8735]

@@spunkycat6144 are you a gal!

[@ojukwubucket8735]

@@spunkycat6144 where do you stay!

[@zaynab2085]

I am new watching your videos and I love the videos. Your apartment looks great, I am also Latina, Vegan and I am enjoy watching your cleaning, minimalist and plants videos. I think we are in a journey and we are being more selective about who we call friends and allow into our lives. I am the same way. Do not worry, you are not alone, there are people that share the lifestyle you have chosen. You will meet them when you least expect it. Thank you for sharing .

[@dcollins217]

Great video! I am a loner also. The worst part is that I'm married and still feeling alone. But it's nice to know that living alone is something you get used too. Because I can't imagine spending the rest of my life with someone just to avoid living alone. Good luck with everything!

[@rochellethundercloud346]

Totally get you.many people who leave assisted living facilities often forget about little things,like rent,heat,lights,food,laundry,transportation,doctors,medicine,etc. A budget is essential for life,no matter who you are,what your financial situation is.budget.

[@coffeebooksandrainydays7942]

Same here! Living alone is not for everyone. I do have 2 pups, so I have found my balance. They keep each other company, so even with them I get my alone time, though, lol. Over the years I have figured out that I don’t really relax until I am alone. I also have no chosen friends. People I talk to daily at work, but I don’t have people to talk on the phone or hang out with. I just prefer it this way. Some of us are just made this way.

[@emilymorris5988]

I have never seen any of your videos until today. You probably popped up because I had recently viewed a couple of videos on minimalism. I just wanted to let you know how much this video connected with me. Just today I was thinking how I have been alone most of my life and started crying thinking of it. I am a 67 year- old woman who never thought I would wind up spending my life living alone, Also, I have had to return to work part- time at a low paying job because my Social Security is not enough to live on. Maybe I was supposed to see your video, but I can so much relate to what you experience although I am so much older, You seem so much like an old soul and so very sweet. In your case, this is just a temporary state. Sometimes, living alone can be peaceful and great, but humans were not made to live alone all the time. I do have my faith, so I know I am not really alone, but I do get lonely at times.

[@LeeLeesBanter]

Another good point about controlling your place is never feel obligated to open the door when someone knocks unexpectedly. Do not worry about being considered rude. I never opened the Door to strangers, I just hollar through the door "Can I help you" and then "No Thank You " all without ever compromising my safety. if it was ever a real emergency, I would tell them " I will call the police for you" & then do so.

[@muslimmuslim8095]

Hi Kyra, I totally empathise with every single thing you said. Especially the last one. Thank you for such an honest account.

[@martacarvalho7315]

Hey Kyra! Thanks for the video, and I must say I completely understand what you said about being alone, it's not as bad as it may sound, but it's real. And honestly it's normal to feel like that when living alone. I found out that for me loneliness comes in cycles and feels slightly different every time it comes. Having friends that completely resonate with us and our lifestyle isn't the easiest thing, but it doesn't mean they don't exist; I'd love to have a friend like you! 🖤 Oh, and congrats on the channel, you're going to be big on here 😊 xx

[@beatricei.gardiner13]

Hi Kyra. I can identify with you. It is a blessing as even though I live alone I enjoy my own company tremendously and though I have much older friends as many as are the days of the week I am my very own best friend. For me the scariest part about living alone are the hurricanes. I trust God to take care of me though and He never fails. Stay safe. You are wise in being slow to form friendships as a good friend is very hard to find. Not everyone who says they’re your friend is a true friend.

[@Chariots1981]

Being freaked out by random noises in the middle of the night, fear of dying and no one noticing until they smell something (kind of reminded me of Bridget Jones' Diary)... many of us can relate to that. But as you said, being able to control those that come into your space is wonderful and having lots of random people around can be both tiring and annoying. Being alone makes you responsible for everything so it can be tough but it has its rewards in abundance. Really enjoying your frankness about these things.

[@Senior_El_Guapo]

I really appreciate this video especially the part about being a loner, you have absolutely described me. Also you, Matt D’Avella and Hueguh have inspired me to pursue a minimalist life style. Thank you for your videos I look forward to the next.

[@bryanolivo8093]

Less is more fore sure!👍

[@elijaheffron7065]

It is so awesome to know that woman like yourself is still here on planet earth. I am so serious I live in Los Angeles C.A men here pray 🙏🙏 to meet people like yourself.

[@MySecretJourney]

Elijah Effron yeah usually for exploitation reasons.

[@elijaheffron7065]

Secret Journey there's just not a lot of genuine people in Hollywood. Lots of Role playing. Enjoy your life it all ENDS one day. 💃💃💪

[@Iloveme28able]

This video was sent by the universe, thank you so much for giving us great information. I am a loner also, i used to be sad but the days go by and i feel more comfortable.

[@DontknowSina]

I totally feel you! Fellow Loner haha. I don't have any friends either.

[@CrystleDragon]

I live alone too, and I love it, but I'm lucky enough to live in the same city as my family. If I get lonely I just bug them xD As for the door locking thing, here's a trick that works for me: say the day of the week when you lock your door. It changes often enough, so it's unique enough to remember you did it.

[@Mschele]

Crystle Rose OMG!!! That’s brilliant!!

[@CrystleDragon]

@@Mschele awww thanks :)

[@TheNicoliyah]

That's a cool tip 😎

[@gloriaobetti2247]

dear Kyra, you are independent, honest, kind, you have so much strength to share with all people, be proud of yourself

[@evapiras2338]

Your so young and you wont be alone forever you have so much life ahead of you will find in time things to occupy your life example a spouse possibly children new quality friends exercise its a big world out there enjoy it!!!!

[@vanesabettez5343]

I live alone and live a minimalist lifestyle too. Am an introvert, an autodidact WITHOUT a degree, with a lot of solo intellectual and creative pursuits. I love it! I'm a bit of a nurturer around other people... and when I've lived with others - I tend to look out for everybody. Honestly I LOVE people but it CAN be time and energy consuming and sometimes - oftentimes - I'm the only person looking out for everyone while others are just looking out for themselves but it doesn't stop me from taking everyone into consideration. What it does stop me from doing is being able to feel peace and safety in my home without it taking TONS of work mediating others' inconsiderate, discompassionate behavior. 😮 I know so many people with college degrees and in the hundred of thousands (or close) in debt and STILL working minimum wage jobs (often several to the detriment to their health) due to the economy and their field of study being incompatable with what they can actually do with it in the real world. These days entrepreneurship and side hustles, continuual self improvement and investment, and creative minimalist budgeting is often the less debt inducing, more freeing way to go. 👍 It's definitely not easy, but some of the best things in life are not. 😉😊 Go you!

[@happycam1686]

I am a minimalist lol... friends are expensive sometimes.

[@juliasmith619]

I’m glad you were so honest and real in this video :)

[@utopianjess]

Hi Kyra. What you shared about being alone really resonated with me. I'm an extrovert when I'm out and about in social settings and an introvert when I'm home alone. At first I was afraid to live alone and found myself feeling sad and depressed at times - yearning for company. After living alone for a few years now, I am slowly adjusting to living solo. During this time, I have experimented with creating routines and habits for myself that keep me motivated during my day to day. Also, I have manifested new friendships that align with my lifestyle and values. Life is a wonderful mystery and roller coaster ride. Btw, I would totally be friends with you!!

[@yelyc]

I completely relate to being a total loner haha ; Although “being alone is better than being surrounded by bad company” I absolutely love being alone sometimes, it definitely allows me to recharge my energy 🤣.... l watched your minimalism videos and I was hooked, keep up the great work girlie. btw totally unrelated but have you had any trouble with your plants rotting from being improperly potted? I purchased a small air-plant and wasn’t aware that it wasn’t potted correctly... I have no idea how, or if I can save it,or if I’ll just have to throw the babies away 😭 Lots of love and good vibes 🤙

[@thriftysimplicity]

Being alone recharges me too!

[@vivien0430]

You may be alone/a loner (same here), but you are not alone! Thank you for being aware enough to know yourself that well to make such a conscious choice at this stage in your life. That's an awesome quality and it's such a great contribution to the world!! Loneliness and most things in life are temporary, and happy or not is always a state of mind. Keep saying "no" to be a people-pleaser! You are doing great!

[@MinnieMousey06]

maybe one day when your lease is up, you can move into an apartment that allows pets

[@lanasin1267]

Pets are best company!

[@Malexah_mor]

Arya M yes, cats are the best because they’re low maintenance pets and don’t need much attention like dogs

[@lisa9867]

No dogs are the best!

[@malorierenee]

@@lisa9867 definately depends on your lifestyle..someone working full time in a small apartment might not be able to give a dog the attention it needs. In that case cats are best! Saying that, my dog is my best friend😊 and though living alone can be lonely at times ive never felt alone with her and shes a great alarm system..even if its a skunk at 3am

[@CatchGrace]

I feel you, and I'm comfortable being alone, although at sometimes, It's like a struggle and getting paranoid, it is scary if something bad happens or you may need help urgently, so I always take care and be cautious about the area I'm in, it's a good thing that you have a generating income, I wish I know how to edit a video so I could be a youtuber like you, it's like my connection to my outside world. peace

[@niyu4218]

hey there. I can totally understand you. My friends and family are just an hour away but I do get lonely sometimes. As a person who suffered from panic attacks in the past I often get terrified to die and nobody would find me. I feel you. I try to do not think about it and be in public as much as I can. Love from germany.

[@iamjane9628]

Hi Kyra. I understand everything you are saying here. I lived alone my whole adult life until I got married at age 37 - and I loved it! I still get a lot of alone time at home due to my husband's work schedule. I too am a loner, and I see nothing wrong with that. I would rather spend time by myself reading, learning a new skill, enjoying my hobbies, or just thinking my own thoughts than be around people I don't have a lot in common with. It can be very difficult as an adult to find quality friends who share your interests, especially if you don't follow a mainstream, conventional, consumption-driven lifestyle. I am thankful that through youtube I have been able to "meet" kindred spirits such as yourself, so that I do not feel so alone in my lifestyle choices. You are a real sweetheart with a great head on your shoulders, and those who know you are lucky to have you in their lives!

[@smileygurl4120]

I’m moving out soon and honestly this video helped me so much and really helped me figure out how I was feeling and putting words to those feelings! Thank you 🙏🏼

[@thedejahdenise]

I calculate my bills at work too before I get paid! I have reminders everywhere.

[@RachelSemeson]

I feel sooo lonely. I can’t even finish this video. My heart hurts

[@randallgoeswhere]

If you die whats to worry about? You no longer exist. Nothing does anymore. I used to be afraid but the older I get the more relieving it is actually knowing that someday youre going to finish life. You can finally relax and just let go.

[@nakalawilliams6666]

same for me. I lived on my own since I was 17, still to now. I feel where your coming from.... props for you girl, 💪 stay strong!!

[@HM-ju9tv]

I love my life but also envy yours lol I never had a chance to live alone. I quickly moved in with my husband and for medical reasons quickly had my daughter. I love being alone. Your lifestyle seems so amazing. You have independence, a super cute apartment, you're beautiful...youre living the life!

[@spunkycat6144]

Put 2 peices of tape with colored marks on it on the door frame. Then when the door is locked is is green (locked and safe), when unlocked it is red (not safe). That way you don't have to walk all the way to the door to check.

[@w.spencer8294]

I’m totally inspired by you. This is the second video of yours that I’ve seen. I used to live alone and I loved it. Now my husband has moved in (we have spent the last 7 years of our 8 year marriage living apart because the law kept us on a no contact status...we got in trouble together about 8 years ago, right after we got married.) so I no longer live alone but I did for so many years and thoroughly enjoyed it. Keep up the great work! It sounds as though it took you a little bit to “grow up” and you’ve done a great job! Now all you gotta do is throw away your TV and buy some books and reprioritize your time. Hugs! You’ve got a friend here in Idaho!

[@Living.minimal]

Thank you 💕 I actually don’t own a tv (haven’t in over 6 yrs) or any electrics 🤫 only my phone and it’s amazing. I’m a minimalist and it was one of the best choices I’ve ever made for myself. Thank you for you beautiful comment.

[@tako_749]

I’m glad you actually talked about the being alone part and how hard that is to adjust to

[@MMPutnam77]

You might check into self-defense classes. In Massachusetts, I bet there are inexpensive or free programs. If you have trouble, you might contact your local police department to see if they can point you to some. This may help to alleviate your fears if you know how to defend yourself.

[@mlfitness67]

I'm a loner myself and much older. After my divorce and I was back to living alone and I love it. I have my days when I do want company but for the most part I enjoy my alone time. You'll be alright

[@tonisieben1551]

Thank you for sharing. I am living alone for the first time and have had the same experiences. I am so surprised that once I got used to it, I found that I really like it. My biggest problem is cooking for one. I haven't mastered it yet but I'm getting better!

[@matat5549]

I work from home and lost friends and family due to making more money each year. I feel better being by myself and learning about myself without negative influences. I used to pay for everyone when I wanted to do something or simply going out to eat (I eat all my meals alone). I know the friends i will acquire in the future are going to be just as awesome as i am. I now save my money to travel and do things i enjoy without the baggage 🙂 continue being you and others will follow!

[@adrianneroman4540]

I just subscribed because you seem like such a warm and good person. Thanks for being so open and genuine about your life. 😀

[@Living.minimal]

Thank you 💕

[@lindarobertt6206]

Most people will live alone at. some point due to divorce or death of a spouse or being single so your videos help people across all ages and incomes! Your videos may also help some people from getting into the wrong relationship because they don't want to live alone.

[@maggiemarenco8815]

I live alone. I agree with everything you’re saying. I know one of the problems I sometimes face is when I can’t assemble something cause it requires someone with much more strength than me, opening a tight closed jar lol. Just things where you just need someone stronger.

[@flawabadawhatzaaa6330]

You seems down to earth person you not alone ppl here support you , I'm I loner too this society now days is no ok anymore.. keep it up 👍👋