The TRUTH about MY MUM | How we SURVIVED her ABSENCE

[@Chykoli]

Hey love

[@ijeomaezeagu1401]

The 'bestest' big sis💕💕💕

[@BanterWithNj]

Big Sister Extraordinaire!!!🙌🏽🙌🏽🙌🏽😘😘😘❤

[@Chykoli]

@@BanterWithNj 😊

[@Chykoli]

@@ijeomaezeagu1401 😊

[@ugonnaarida8656]

@@Chykoli awww Chukwu gozie unu.

[@favordestiny5711]

Your hubby need to give a special gift to chioma, she did a good job on ur up bringing, you are so humble and lovely heart ❤

[@BanterWithNj]

I agree😄😉 Thank you So Much!❤

[@eziomachukwuocha7468]

I second this.. Nj is simply Amazing

[@anonnona6433]

I think it's okay to share some of these stories so long as you are comfortable with it. These are learning points for many. Many people grew up in homes where the parents separated/divorced. Very many couples are going through separation with children. What can a single parent learn from this. I know this is not the entire story. And each one of you dealt with the trauma differently. Even Chioma, who was thrown into the deep end has her own story. It is a story of triumph. A story of victory.

[@BanterWithNj]

Thank you!👌🏽❤

[@floxysfeed4448]

Your mum is a great woman don't ever think she's not,then your Dad is a super dad full of love infact he planted love in your home,and you guys are the nicest and strongest people I've seen.my prayer is if they are still separated they'll still come back together no matter what.

[@AdaezeElnorah]

She decides to share it's now a problem "you don't need to explain to anyone blah blah blah" She doesn't share still problem...Do you all consider people's mental health at all?? God bless you and your family NJ

[@dianadiamond9867]

Thanks for sharing Nj I also grow up in a broken home my mum took my younger brother and sister and left me and my elder sister with my dad it was not easy oooh but I thank God today am a mother of 4adorable kids

[@Mosiwomeka]

Truth is that you even owe no one any explanation.... Most important is that everyone is healthy, alive and strong and you all turned out well

[@pricelessify7799]

The same thing I wanted to say

[@eziomachukwuocha7468]

Nj considers us her 2nd family hence she shared.It is good she clears d air,bcos her mum has always bn missing in her family house n stuff.its raises an eye for questions. NJ thankyu so much. I appreciate u more.God bless ur new home

[@modeleodebiyi1967]

NJ, it took a lot for you to share. Coming from an older generation, I would say the dynamics of your family is nobody’s business. KZbin has created people to think they must know every single detail about a YT’s life, which I think is an invasion of privacy. I must say though that Ify and Chioma have done a really good job on bringing you all up with manners, respect, love and unity. I pray nothing breaks that bond in Jesus Name. Amen. ❤️❤️❤️

[@BanterWithNj]

AMEN!!! Thank you So much. God Bless you🤗❤❤

[@goodness_chinwe2114]

Wow!!! Nobody will ever know that you guys grew up without your mom,your dad really did a good job 💕💕💕💕💕Thanks for sharing🙏🙏

[@soniajethro]

My respect for you just skyrocketed! You mean you’re older than Nelo and you always act so humble- I must say your life (the little we are privilege to see) has taught me ALOT! Thank you so much 😊

[@piriem7579]

I agree. Even Nelo is humble, she is just an outgoing person but I love this family

[@BanterWithNj]

Thank you So Much!❤

[@BanterWithNj]

@@piriem7579 Thank you❤❤

[@Godskreation]

The most important is the grace of God over all of you. Every single one of you turned out great. End of story!

[@BanterWithNj]

Thank you!😄

[@yummykitchendirect4528]

In family its really important for kids to love each other while they are still young as once they grow they will still take care of each other.

[@alublack7242]

You just reminded me of my upbringing and childhood... I can absolutely relate with your story . My mum had 2 boys and 4 girls as well . She and my dad separated when I was 4. Keep shining - Thanks for sharing.

[@BanterWithNj]

❤❤❤❤

[@greatlyhappy4791]

The absence of a mom is always felt

[@BanterWithNj]

Yeah!

[@bellznjollz80]

You're a good story teller. Thank you for sharing with us. All I can say is that it's not all families with separated parents that the kids will turn out bad...look at your guyz...you all are doing great. Kudos to your parents for doing a great job even though they are no together.

[@BanterWithNj]

Thank you So Much!😊❤❤

[@giginebolisa1051]

You owe no one any explanation. People only destroy what they know 🤷🏽‍♀️. You still look beautiful still😍😍

[@BanterWithNj]

Thank you Love😘🤗❤

[@JenniferAnidu]

Very true!!

[@SharonandFamily]

Absence of the mom is always felt i can to totally relate to this. Well done Chioma 😊😊.

[@Ada_SmartExporter]

No one would guess Nelo is the last born. She even behaves like the gangster that wants to bully you. I’m just so happy you all are happy now. There’s nothing like the bond of family. 💖💖💖

[@BanterWithNj]

😄😄😄❤

[@anonnona6433]

Lol. You can't blame her much. She had to learn how to survive at a young age. The separation of parents 💔 😢 usually leaves an indelible mark on the children.

[@abisolao5411]

😀😀😀😀

[@magdalenevongdip4843]

I'm also surprised😹😹😹😹

[@Levelupgirlies]

Your Sisters Chioma and Ify did an amazing job 👏👏

[@BanterWithNj]

Thank you😊❤

[@PerpetualOjochide]

This is my story too. Just that for us, it was our dad who left. I was in JSS2 when my parents divorced. We are six children too and so close knit. We are our friends and today, my sisters are happily married and our eldest brother is a priest. We thank God for everything

[@BanterWithNj]

Oh!! Thank God for everything!🤗🤗❤

[@KosyJohnson]

I really appreciate you sharing your story. MOTHERS ARE THE BEST 💯

[@BanterWithNj]

I absolutely agree. Thank you Kosy❤️

[@ShawndresCorner]

Big sis really did a great job raising you all, thanks for sharing this video sis though you owe no one an explanation.

[@chikaokoyeikezue]

Your Big sister did an amazing job, kudos to her 💯💯..what an amazing personality you’ve got ..... keep being yourself dear ❤️❤️

[@BanterWithNj]

Thank you So Much!❤❤❤

[@beatricebolger9824]

Life is strange but look how successful your family became. As parents we at times fail our children. Our lovely your story is encouraging and you have come out very successful. Nice content.

[@LadyGiginspired]

You all grew up strong and beautiful so continue to relate well with your mom. She tried her best i can tell.

[@kingsleyugwu8564]

That is why i asked you chioma's contact number three months ago.l just love her. I 🙏 and hope your marriage with chidi will been permanent in jesus name Amen

[@BanterWithNj]

AMEN! Thank you.

[@AnitaAnita-rc9xv]

Dyna have shared a story about mom’s absence, Now you my dearest N.j ... The truth is a mom will always be a mom. I can relate very deeply & emotionally to this story ❤️😭.. I have a step mom who raised me for 14 years without seeing my mom & I was privileged she loved me & taught me all I know today nd that’s why I can’t speak ill of her 😍😇🙏. The sad truth is my mom’s vacuum still affects me till date & has made me torn between 2 mothers . I feel I have to work for double every single tym . I can’t gift my mom without gifting my step mom nd can’t gift my stepmom without gifting my mom. Above all I just wished my mom never left. I cry abt it till date & the whole thing made me an Empath in life ... crying 😭 as I’m typing 💬...

[@bankejo6432]

It is well dear

[@BanterWithNj]

🫂🫂🫂❤️❤️

[@AnitaAnita-rc9xv]

@@BanterWithNj thank you N.J❤️❤️❤️

[@ToluNazzal]

Your Sister is a super Mum…she did a good job the Holy Spirit gave her that gift….you turned out so well with great values and genuine luv for others…. Thank you NJ for sharing.❤️❤️❤️❤️

[@adaezeobi3249]

Thanks to Chioma and Ify..God bless them immensely

[@BanterWithNj]

AMEN!!! Thank you. God Bless you too❤

[@Rm-lb7ou]

Awwww! What a story!!!! You are truly adorable! To the glory of God you're all grown and extremely loveable and responsible! Love you more my dear!😘😘😘😘😘😘😘

[@TriniRoyQuiReyes]

God is with you . God bless your Big sisters Aww Your sister Chioma is mum sent by God to guide you. Well close knitted family. Thank You for sharing your childhood memory with us.

[@BanterWithNj]

You're welcome. Thank you for watching ❤

[@kerenkeziaofficial]

It is well...I was touched watching this. Thank you for sharing. ❤️🙏🏽 God bless your mum and dad.

[@BanterWithNj]

AMEN!!! Thank you So much. God Bless you too ❤❤❤

[@livewithPrecy]

Nj, you are indeed cool headed. Keep the good work 🥰

[@yemol9454]

What matters most is that your mum bore very beautiful children and no matter what, she'll always be your mum. In some cases, marriages aren't the easiest of things, but life goes on. May God bless you all xx

[@ayomisssss4255]

Although I never asked. Thanks for explaining.. I'm glad both parents are alive and well and you have full access to both of them. That is the most important my dear. God bless them. Amen 🙏

[@BanterWithNj]

AMEN!! You're right. Thank you so much! God Bless you ❤❤

[@elizabethletsoso2558]

Ayomis well said dearie 🥰

[@Alajoketia]

No family is perfect,some marriages don't work out but the couple make the best of coparenting,I would say your parents did their best judging from the way you guys turned out,love radiates from you guys like a shining light, y'all have a lot to give.

[@sombochiva9886]

Personally I always hate it when people ask about my dad, can they just focus on the family I speak off. Whoever I don’t mention it means I don’t have anything to say about them. Thank you for sharing. You’re blessed to have had then both still present in your lives even though they were separated

[@robbierobina]

You all grew up well. My dad and uncle were your dad's very close business partner. Thanks for sharing..

[@madeidanimo8963]

I love the way you shared this maturely without giving too much info..still a learning point in it cause parents go through this and finding ways in it..Thanks for sharing✌

[@BanterWithNj]

Thank you♥️

[@Jennytalesgist]

Oh my God!!!! It's so hard to believe that you didn't stay with your mum..while growing up. How did you learn to be HUMBLE AND NICE...... Wow...Chioma really did a great job.... Its well N. J.....my regards to your mum

[@BanterWithNj]

Thank you😊❤

[@amandastvshow247]

Nwanne m you are a good story teller, I wish I and my sisters are bonded too. I will share my stories on my channel soon by his grace. Thanks for sharing.

[@ezeolujecinta8287]

My dear, am so surprise to hear this,, your sister chioma did amazing Job for you guys,, look at today , you guys are blessed,, thank God your parents are still alive to you see guys doing well,, am so happy for you and your sisters

[@BanterWithNj]

Thank you So Much!😊❤

[@eevasworld1094]

I think you owe no one any explanation, people we always want to know everything that is happening around, one can only share what he or she wants, thanks for sharing

[@BanterWithNj]

Thank you So Much!🤗❤❤

[@elizabethletsoso2558]

Eeva's kitchen that's so true 💯🥰

[@ivygbhidihorgari6577]

Ooh so sweet of you NJ♥️. Thanks for the information We'r happy mum is fine. Keep on growing and keep shinning babes. You r blessed

[@ShawndresCorner]

Your parents are really mature people who tried as much as they can not to allow their private issues affect their relationship with their kids, but it always gets to the kids one way or the other

[@chinenyennamonunwokoye1462]

Yea, honestly. I love that the kids love their mum and their dad and that both even separated didn't fail to olay their roles in the lives of their children as much as they could.

[@Nemyinspired]

Wow!!! People dey Sha ask personal questions ooo. Nice stories and I'm happy for your parents,the way they acted maturely not bringing you guys into the whole brouhaha. Nice

[@francesjane3544]

My dear you tried ooh... you’re bolder than you seem.

[@gladysajaelo3052]

N.J. Thank you for unraveling the mystery behind your family’s tight bonding. You needed each other to turn out the way you all did. You are all disciplined and Blessed!

[@BanterWithNj]

Thank you😊❤

[@Nelly1013]

Hey yaa!! My heart goes out to you! It's nice that you were vulnerable and poured your heart out. I have a new found respect for adammadu Chioma, and Ify as well. They did a phenomenal job! Chineke Gozie Fa! If I see Chioma in this our United States I'll say a humongous thank you to her!

[@Chykoli]

😘

[@BanterWithNj]

AMEN!!! Thank you So Much!😘🤗❤

[@jennysoutlet]

Amen

[@NacoFam]

Your mum is a very beautiful woman, I just love the love you all shares in your family..

[@BanterWithNj]

Thank you😊❤

[@rachelberi]

You owe no one an explanation but I was just curious to know who mum was because all u siblings are well cultured. Waoh Waoh thanks to Choima and Ify

[@olaoluwaanuoluwapo8337]

BELIEVE IN THE LORD JESUS CHRIST AND BE SAVED. PREPARE FOR THE GLORIOUS RAPTURE OF BELIEVERS IN CHRIST JESUS. AMEN

[@nimiaworinde6417]

NJ made her hair!!!! You look so good 😍. Let me go and watch the video first

[@BanterWithNj]

Thank you😁

[@chinenyeokeke8495]

Awww knowing how much of a private person you’re and having the courage to share this sensitive topic with us is beyond beautiful dearie ❤️ Glad that you all got a bond no one can break. Keeping sharing your love and positive vibes boo 🥰

[@BanterWithNj]

Thank you So Much Nenye🙏🏽❤️❤️❤️

[@IfySuccess]

Wow you and your sisters nobody will know that you did not grow up with your mom God bless your mom and your dad the most important thing is that all of you are blessed and doing great for yourself today keep being the great woman you are .

[@BanterWithNj]

Thank you!❤

[@ujinspired9434]

Is touching but the most important is that two of them are alive and their kids are doing well, is better than dieing for the marriage and not being there for your kids, may God continue to bless them

[@BanterWithNj]

AMEN!!! Thank you So much. God Bless you too ❤

[@chizobajoytv5428]

JUST LOVING YOUR CALM DISPOSITION. FELT LIKE CRYING ABOUT YOUR MOM AND DAD BUT GOD KNOWS THE BEST.

[@asliceofsam]

I am so thrilled by your story. Closely knighted family! Glad mum is still in your life.

[@BanterWithNj]

Thank you😊❤

[@Alajoketia]

You owe nobody an explanation and we are grateful you shared too at the same time,don't let anyone make you feel vulnerable, it's well with you.

[@AngelEze]

You look beautiful, calm, and collected. I love you 💖

[@BanterWithNj]

Thank you So much!❤❤❤❤❤

[@AngelEze]

@@BanterWithNj You are welcome

[@maikysworldtv]

Wow thanks for sharing and your sisters played thier role very well.

[@alheri_ebenezer]

Separation Affects the Kids in Every way, Thank God you are fine Now A mother will always love her Children 😍

[@diaryofmandylove.5059]

I truly appreciate Aunty Chioma and Ify...for raising you to the woman you become today. Thanks for sharing your story, honestly I've been longing to see your Mom like I usually see nazom's Mum. Thanks for loving her too .

[@nursekarimatcanada]

WOW a bit emotional thanks for sharing but thank God for all the lovely people that surround you like chioma and all, God bless her and your mom and dad....things happen for a reason. I always love your simplicity and admire you alot 💝

[@BanterWithNj]

Thank you So Much 😊❤

[@milsordam5362]

Its a family/ Village that raise children. They did a great job with the blessing of both your parent. You all turn out fine💞

[@joykelechi1553]

You can’t help but love NJ 😊. Thanks for sharing.

[@BanterWithNj]

You're welcome. Thank you for watching ♥️

[@UjuOnowu]

A big hug for Chioma.

[@blessinggold3329]

I always sister chioma vibes.. God bless her.. KISSES TO U Guys 💞💞💞💞💞

[@joydavid5428]

Very sorry Nj,in Nigeria 70%are brought up without mom or even dad,in my case i was brought up without either of them😢😢i didn't felt bad thanks to my granny😢,great vlog sis👸👏👏👏👏👍👍👍👍

[@BanterWithNj]

🤗🤗🤗🤗🤗🤗🤗🤗🤗❤❤

[@nnekanwosu5126]

Despite the fact that Mom was not in the picture. Your daddy’s touch and feelings looking at the way he smiles says it all. Is a man of action without too many words.❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️ God’s blessings always Njideka and family 🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽

[@naturalinspirationsbynekod2143]

Aww, thanks for sharing your story. Not too much and just enough. You're so sweet, you know I care about you and family. Hugs n' love for my Nj. 🤗💖

[@BanterWithNj]

Thank you Love🤗🤗❤❤❤

[@JuliaFranks]

Siblings bonding is so important, i am so happy i have that with my mine. Thanks for sharing.

[@BanterWithNj]

Super important!👌🏽

[@elizabethletsoso2558]

Trust me so very important indeed 💕

[@chukwumachukwulobe2636]

Oh so nice to hear from u about your mum Well since u re all grown why not try to bring your mum home One thing I have learnt about life is that we have so much little time let’s not miss any chance on love and family communion

[@ucheokoye6744]

Thanks for sharing my dear 😘 We love you 💕💕

[@BanterWithNj]

❤❤❤❤😘

[@UjuOnowu]

Wow!! NJ thank you for sharing your story.

[@odibeze879]

All d first daughters, l salute u all, sis Chioma n cousin Ify💞💞💞💞💞may God continue 2 bless u both 4 taking care of ur younger ones.

[@BanterWithNj]

AMEN!!! Thank you So much. God Bless you too ❤

[@SimplyEby]

I can relate, my parents were also separated but in my case we grew up with our mum. Thanks for sharing.

[@dietriamichelle494]

You are brave to share your family information, it takes a lot to do that. It's really no one business about your parents. That happens for a lot a people around this world. You are such a beautiful soul. Keep smiling NJ.

[@BanterWithNj]

Thank you😊❤

[@ezy795]

NJ this is your story and life. His knew about it long before you were created and he has made your foundation solid. Enjoy your life in your terms and keep smiling. 🤗

[@BanterWithNj]

Thank you🤗❤

[@nenyespecial3440]

My dear i appreciate your effort in sharing this story with us but the truth is that you own no one no explanation of why your mum isn't appearing on your channel often, Am happy your mum and your dad are happy in their separate ways, i love the bond and love that exists among you guys.

[@maureenukrakpo8798]

Never knew your parents are no longer together. Touching story

[@robertaiyke-ibeh9049]

I truly like you alot. You are very humble and simple.

[@BanterWithNj]

Thank you So Much!🤗❤❤

[@fatimaabubakaryerima3227]

I have been watching your videos. From yours to Nneka’s and also Nelo. I thought Nelo was the oldest, followed by Nneka then you were the youngest 🤣🤣❤️

[@fatimaabubakaryerima3227]

I just decided to watch your old videos and I saw this 😂

[@BanterWithNj]

🤣🤣🤣 Nelo would be very happy if, she read this comment!🤣🤣

[@ShalouCuisine]

Chioma did a great job, God bless her. You are a beautiful soul❤️ A mother’s absence is always felt, I come from separated parents too, so I know. I wish to meet you one day🙏🤗

[@BanterWithNj]

🤗🤗🤗❤❤

[@Averylovelylady12345]

I love you so much ♥️ honestly I thought Nelo was your older sis♥️cheers ma'am🥂🥂 I enjoyed this video.

[@BanterWithNj]

Thank you So Much ❤

[@ChichiBeautyworld2206]

Awww i can so relate with this, so Emotional thanks for sharing with us, family is everything 🥰

[@Omoyetv]

Wow am really touched with your story. Hmmmmm it's well.

[@VersatileNana]

Thanks Chioma for stepping in with your whole being to mother these beautiful models with good hearts (Nk, Nj and Nelo)

[@akunnaodor4619]

To God be the glory. It all ended in praise. I respect you for opening up.

[@BanterWithNj]

Thank you😊❤

[@CharityMedia]

You are an amazing person, together with your siblings. God bless you all more and more.

[@BanterWithNj]

AMEN!!! Thank you So much. God Bless you too ❤

[@johnkevinoguike6522]

Extend my greetings to CHIOMA. I admired dancing action during the party night after your wedding.

[@BanterWithNj]

Sure😄👍🏽❤

[@obiejeblessing8569]

Wow I totally enjoyed this video...so nazom's corner is your cousin, was thinking she is your sis ohh

[@vonnechon6409]

Nne thanks for sharing...God bless you.Im glad you did this at your own pace

[@BanterWithNj]

Thank you😊❤

[@joytochi413]

I love you already Nj! You got me glued to your channel. I also love love that your looks are always natural.🥰

[@BanterWithNj]

Awww.. Thank you😊❤

[@stellamarismutinda6617]

Thanks dear for sharing this with us it really touched me I'm glad both your parents are still active in your lives I thank God for all he has done In your lives and the closeness in your family

[@ngoziakosionu790]

Nj you are so special, beautiful inside and outside. I really thank God for your life. Indeed what God cannot fix, solve does not exist.

[@BanterWithNj]

Thank you So Much!❤

[@ngoziakosionu790]

@@BanterWithNj You’re welcome ❤️.

[@AuxarionClare]

God bless you all. Chioma & Ify are amazing. Your lives are a testament of the bond of love, family and sacrifice. ❤️💕💖💕💕

[@emmiendlovu8163]

Sending you hugs 🤗 and proud of the fact that you choose to share as and when you are ready.

[@BanterWithNj]

Thank you❤❤

[@emmiendlovu8163]

You're welcome. I know subscribers can be "busy bodies" but never compromise your mental health or feel under pressure to share personal issues that you're not ready to share.Do it at your own pace.🤗🥰

[@BanterWithNj]

@@emmiendlovu8163 Agreed. Was truly ready to share this bit. Thank you So much!❤

[@emmiendlovu8163]

❤

[@ighodalojoy6267]

@@BanterWithNj please NJ am just asking becos I have seen very terrible cause of parents separation but grown up kids brought them back together...is it possible u ladies work ur parents Asin coming back together again

[@ifeomaoragwu1613]

Thanks for sharing. You all turned out great.