The TRUTH About Sugar Daddies ⎮ My Experience

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In this video I am sharing more in depth about my testimony coming to Jesus and my past experience with sugar daddies. I think it's time we talk about the darker side of this industry and what many people struggle with. Not many people are sharing their personal experience with sugar daddies because it can be scary to talk about. There are many shameful emotions that I felt surrounding the topic and it's been hard to process through a lot of the trauma these situations have caused. #mytestimony
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[@Goat.Cheese]

If someone has serious trauma, dont just see a "Christian counselor" (which can mean anything). See an evidence-based, trauma-informed therapist or psychologist.

[@ritaevergreen7234]

I would also add in EDMR or even somatic expirencing which helps deal with trauma at the root

[@jameshyde1501]

That is the worse! mistake one could make!

[@sarawawa8984]

Therapist can also mean anything. You want someone licensed. So a licensed counselor, a psychologist, and usually they list their specialities if you look them up online or call up and ask

[@jameshyde1501]

@@sarawawa8984 I simple ask: Who were the authorities to issue the licenses. Most of them are Psychopaths and Highly educated in the Wrong! direction. "The proof is in the Pudding". Just take a general look at our society today!

[@utubecomment21]

@@sarawawa8984 Many years ago, one investigative TV program tried 'so called' licensed counsellors, and rightly concluded that most were in it for the repeat business, when it obviously wasn't necessary. Having been a counsellor for many, years, most of my peers, I wouldn't trust them to run a bath, let alone trying to help someone run their lives!

[@constanzalb9076]

“The body keeps the score” great book for healing from trauma

[@adandel2281]

The body keeps high body count score?

[@emilyfisher8559]

It’s really cool how comfortable you have become with sharing this experience for the growth of others! You have grown so much and it really cool to see that.

[@Kian_Wolfgang]

Thank you Emily! I appreciate that. Putting my coincidence in Christ and what He had done for me instead of putting it in myself and what I have done 🙏🏼🙏🏼

[@JAWZMUZIK1]

Skip the video guys. She just yaps on about religion and her feelings and there's no information here

[@MichaelPrudhomme-u7x]

Her premise was victimhood😂 and the darkness of patriarchy.

[@DivaDivine88]

Thank you for this 🙏🏾

[@PeachesLemons]

Finally someone who is honest about the whole SB and SD world. Sick of all the KZbinrs who upsell and glamourise it!

[@ShatteredRippleBooks]

My second husband involved an older man in our marriage. I was still hurting from the split with my first husband. So my guard was down and I didn't want another relationship to end so I let him lead me down that path. This went on for a few months. Then my husband made me end it all and I was relieved. I was left mentally scarred by the experience. My husband would not come near me sexually after. So I was left feeling like it was my fault for agreeing to what he wanted. After ten years of very little affection from him I finished our relationship. I am now back with my first husband who knows what I have been through and is loving and supportive. I am so embarrassed about what I did still and angry at myself for letting him treat me that way. I just don't seem to be able to forget. I have had therapy but not deeply in this area. I'm scared about sharing my story as I'm always scared of being judged. But I want other women to know that men like this are not worth your love and affection.

[@Kian_Wolfgang]

I’m so sorry you went through this 💔 I’m sure it must have been so confusing for you. Definitely keep pressing into therapy or a trusted mentor to work through the experience. It’s okay if you’re not comfortable sharing with other people, but at least sharing with a close friend or therapist is a great place to start.

[@ShatteredRippleBooks]

Thankyou I have a very supportive boyfriend so it helps to talk to him.

[@ashleybish0p]

Gosh I'm sorry you experienced this:[ How awful of him to talk you into something you didn't feel comfortable with in the first place...then emotionally/psychologically abuse you afterwards & treat you as if it was your fault. The long term effects of abuse is very serious and something that should be talked about more. My story isn't the same as yours, however I was verbally/emotionally/mentally and a little bit of physical abuse for the last 4 years with my kids dad. I still live with him but not in a relationship. I thought things would be better but I am severely damaged and not the same. I hope I'm able to move out in the future but I need to seek therapy for this. I don't think I'm capable to be in a relationship with anyone ever again. Not only does it take a toll on you mentally/emotionally...but I am having physical problems from it too. High blood pressure from constant stress, weight fluctuates, increased depression and anxiety making me sick to my stomach, inflammation and so on. I am glad you were able to get away and are in a healthy relationship now. Good for you. Keep your head up and dont beat yourself up because it wasn't your fault. He was gaslighting and manipulating you & you deserved none of it. Karma is a real thing so he will pay for all the pain he caused you in some way or another. Sending love and positive thoughts your way♥︎

[@jameshyde1501]

The Father casts all of your sins, once you bring them to Him in repentance, into the sea of forgetfulness. Never to be remembered again.

[@michelinekollmann868]

This is my opinion and I do not pretend at all that I am right, it is just a point of view that maybe can ressonate with someone out there, maybe not. So please don't beat me up for my opinion. As I said, it is just a point of view amongst millions of different points of view. Here we go, that is what I think: Everything that happens to us is a mirror of our deep down beliefs. So first of all, it is important to realize that something inside of us allowed it to happen or subconsciously attracted it. We want to see this, accept it and then forgive ourselves. It is important to speak to our soul/God/the divine and ask for help to grow inside, love ourselves more, to attract good things in our life. Then, acknowledge the fact that what happened is past and let it go. Open your heart for new experiences. Accept, forgive, let go, grow/transform yourself, attract new and good things. If you stick to the past and remember it over and over again, you make it your identity, which it is not. You need to break free. This is not longer you. You have grown and attract better things in your life. The point of "bad experiences" is to use them to grow. We can break or we can grow. We are capable of growing incredibly, with Gods help (or the divine, whatever you believe in).

[@MrWaterbugdesign]

It's common knowledge prostitution is high risk. Putting a cute name on it doesn't make it safer.

[@asiafinefinereetoptop7730]

These people get kidnapped all the time

[@AR-zn1uy]

My ex was into this. Got raped, abused, I tried to help her and she wasn't ready I dumped her and cut all ties.

[@Emma-sq9mx]

No but the same makes it *seem* safer

[@Melancholymadness62]

​@@AR-zn1uyGood for you😗

[@theghostofumarskoolishere.4632]

@@AR-zn1uylies

[@MadelineLorene1]

“The Body Keeps the Score” is an amazing book that helps you understand how trauma impacts and changes our brain chemistry! It helped me a LOT

[@moniquegarcia8361]

Wow Kian, to see God's grace and love towards you through your testimony and relationship with Kyle is beautiful! You have so much to share and it's always a blessing to hear 💛

[@ContrarianExpatriate]

If you had negative experiences being a sugar baby, that is a reflection that you have deep, dark issues that need resolution. You were the one who CHOSE these men so you bear the responsibility of bringing that turmoil into your life.

[@sydneysmith2545]

Just started crying when you started talking about God speaking directly to you. I feel that so deeply and I know EXACTLY how that feels and it’s the best feeling in the world.

[@BiggyCheeseCentral]

Kian, your original testimony is the way I was saved. Thank you so much for honesty and sharing your story. Love you so much.

[@oscarm.1417]

This is not sugaring, this is prostitution. Sugaring is an entirely different thing but it is very rare. It's rare because very few men are wealthy and, of those, very few use sugaring as a relationship strategy.

[@angelatorres0055]

People needed this. God was so in you sharing this!

[@Kian_Wolfgang]

Thank you 💛💛

[@Loriiiiilynnnnn]

Crazy how your story became a God story. But really it was Gods story all along, and you just had to live through it to eventually give all glory to God. Not sure if that made sense…but thankful for you and your transparency. 💖💖💖

[@Venus-gn5oi]

I've seen it so many times being glamourised within the TikTok generation. There's nothing glamorous about sugar daddies or any type of work for men's pleasure. It's 100% going to take a toll on woman's mental, emotional and physical health.

[@mjalphonse]

I first found you from your testimony and have been following since! I love your vulnerability and how real you are! It is rare and so refreshing! ❤️

[@avig8334]

Great video, many of these men are predators. Their behavior are so in appropriate. The mental toll of dealing with these men is draining.

[@beautifulrecovery2337]

Girl! You clearly grew where you were planted!!!! 🙌🙌 You can tell you have done the hard healing work in private. Proud of you

[@jessimitchell2051]

My favorite book that is Sex, Purity, and the Longings of a Girls Heart by Girl Defined. This helped me find healing from lust and porn, but the book touches on sooo many different sexually sinful things that people go through. It helped me see that God is the greatest form of intimacy you can ever have and that He is the only one who can truly fulfill you and heal you.

[@SarahAgapi]

Yes i love that book Im reading it now! So good.

[@Kian_Wolfgang]

Thank you so much!

[@erincarr9411]

The idea of purity is so so so toxic

[@Jhihmoac]

Without getting into it, I know dudes that "keep" women in condos, nice cars, high living, etc. For what they're paying out, they seek some type of "return on their investment", and what they expect from the lady is often NOT good!

[@arbretree5463]

Although I don't recommend anyone watch 'Redeeming love', I really enjoyed this video. Thanks a lot for your boldness and transparency! Stay blessed

[@ikr2377]

All young girls should watch this

[@rationalirrationality5691]

The thing is. It is a two way street. This is how society is going in general. Glad you are getting out. However you cannot place blame on just the men that are in it as well.

[@brittanyjones8656]

All addictions are evil because they are rooted in sin .. people are steeped in sin , born in it. No one has a moral compass. There is nothing good in humans. This is why we need Jesus to change us and set us free from sin.

[@bubbles-o72]

The guilt does carry with you I know too what your going thru. When I was homeless I went thru something similar to survive. I still feel guilty but have moved on about it. We can't change the past but we can change the present. These men have issues only God knows it is not our responsibility to know Why all we can do is to Pray for them they change.

[@bellaholman627]

I am in a serious Christian relationship with my boyfriend and our goal is marriage. I experienced multiple situations of sexual assault as a young teen. My bf knows this but doesn’t know the specifics of the situations, and I know he often feels confused and doesn’t know how he can best love me in tricky moments. Do you think it is appropriate to share more details, especially as they tie into my testimony?

[@chrisildabre4141]

Sometimes it's difficult for the next person too understand , but, like for how long are u gonna hide it? And well! Without the truth how's the relationship gonna last? Do you want ur relationship to be founded on basis of lies?

[@POMLOFFICIAL]

Girly in 5 YEARS, you’ll see how many OF girl’s he SUBBED tooo

[@ruthesth5136]

What a gift from God to be renewed by the blood of Jesus, it's such a difficult path, but God is merciful and lead the way

[@nannyheather5640]

Thanks for talking about this. People never talk about this, especially at church and people struggle with this. You are so brave and beautiful inside and out. Big hugs and prayers your way! Love ya

[@bmotron]

This video is a blessing. My x turned to the sugar baby life and i have been so confused. Thanks your video really shed light on the darkness.

[@sonofnergal4794]

the topic isnt talked about cause its cut and dry, having a sugar daddy is renting yourself out for money… and if you don’t know what that could imply, or how far it could go, you’re not the sharpest tool in the shed. Greeds ugly, no shiz

[@Jesscalmvision]

I used to be involved in the LGBTQ community, and called myself gay. I was dating a couple different women and both of them were into Sugar Daddies and that’s how I got into it. It was definitely not a good experience and it was glamorized even by my ex girlfriends… but I felt used and gross and got out fairly quickly… 4 months after I got into it. I had to repent and ask Jesus to heal me. I’m not sure if there is more pain but I know my view of sex and sexuality was extremely skewed from all my choices and life experiences.

[@therealdial]

Kian, I absolutely adore you! I’ve been following you since your story of how you met Kyle popped up for me in my recommended in 2020☺️ can we get a hair tutorial!? Your curls are unreal. Love your vulnerability, you’ve been a big inspiration for me to want to speak out on my struggle with porn and how God redeemed me. ❤️

[@Kian_Wolfgang]

Thank you so much!! I can share in a future Vlog. If god is putting it on your heart to share then definitely do it 🤍 I know a lot of women need to hear from someone who has gone through it

[@xsmash5328]

no mercy b*atch

[@nikkidasso6623]

Thx for sharing your story and pointing people to Jesus with so much wisdom and compassion. Phylicia Masonheimer is someone I follow on KZbin ~ she struggled in high school with sexual sin and talks a lot about it. She actually doesn’t recommend Redeeming Love but cautions it just bc it’s a little explicit so some may struggle with that. But anyway, maybe a voice to listen and learn from. Keep up your amazing work!

[@queenchiomaofficial]

Thanks for being so brave to share your story again. ❤️ A couple of books that might help are ‘Healing the Wounded Soul’ (a Christian book on overcoming sexual abuse and transformation), it covers a wide range and very therapeutic by Dan B Allender& ‘Heart Healing’, by Mark DeJesus. Hope these help. 🙏🏽

[@Kian_Wolfgang]

Thank you so much 💛💛

[@queenchiomaofficial]

@@Kian_Wolfgang You are so welcome. 😊

[@rahulj8724]

Your strength comes from Lord.. he will flourish you and protect you sister

[@lydiahiksan1232]

Thank you for sharing your experience. Young people find themselves in a lot of debt at a very young age with the price of college, it's the norm now sadly. My senior year of college, the financial aid office told me LAST MINUTE I had to pay my tuition bill out of pocket b/c they "ran out" of financial aid, and I didn't have any other option other than dropping out of school during my LAST year or putting the entire year on my credit card. I put it on my credit card.....it was not fun, the littlest things would make me snap due to all the pressure on the college bursar/ registrars offices. For example, they would send an email about "rebalancing" my tuition bill but not say in the email if they were charging me more or less...and I would SNAP, I would send back scathing emails saying "Do not CHANGE the price you are charging me without NOTIFYING ME of what that changes actually are! These are peoples lives here have some decency." Or the registar would send some bs about not having up to date medical records when I already uploaded them a month before the deadline and they would say they would put a hold on my school account and xyz and I would flip tf out on them, like don't pull any more sh**. Or when the the financial advising office would give terrible terrible advice saying to just take out a "sallie mae" loan when literally every single person who has ever had one says to NEVER take one out b/c of the predatory interest rates that you'll never be able to get ahead of. I was so pissed and disgusted with them. And I remember them pushing so hard for students to study abroad lmaooooo yeah w/ WHAT money??!! Their financial aid offices need to actually ADVISE students and actually HELP them, not screw them over their senior year, the greedy pigs! College is a business no. 1. High schools need to have life skills class that actually tell you how to finance college and the difference between types of colleges and their price range, students need to be told before they are 18 of their financial options....but that would make too much sense right. I understand what pressures young people are under! I was able to get a job and save money and pay my credit cards once i graduated and had been making some money thankfully. It's hard and I don't judge people for getting creative to get money when they start getting scared by their credit card debt, it is not fun, you go to sleep thinking about what's going to happen and you wake up the same way.

[@parkjimin7252]

Oh my gawd that’s awful that they did that. And yes I absolutely agree with you. Cuz personally I cant afford college without financial Aid helping me.

[@lydiahiksan1232]

@@parkjimin7252 Yes, I couldn't afford my rent, my good credit score was ruined ext.... so I understand being 20 and under a lot of financial pressure and feeling like you need to do something drastic because life has backed you into a corner. It's an awful feeling b/c you feel you never did anything wrong and yet your life is coming crashing down, it gives off a severe sense of hopelessness. I never had a stable parent so I couldn't turn to either of them, thankfully, I had an aunt that allowed me to move in w/ her. She knew I was trying to pay off debts from school and I stayed there for years while I finished my degree and got a job in a restaurant and stayed at that job for years and finally paid of my debts so my life was kind of unstable and unconventional. So I don't judge young woman at all for doing what they feel they need to, not everyone has a family member that can help them. And I think when a young person has had instability their whole life and no family it makes sense they would date an older person that has stability, it's like you can't choose your family but you can choose someone who has their sh** together for once.

[@mkul5]

Story starts at about 4:11

[@anonymousdelta7339]

Don’t be a gold digger. Even people with only fans are getting PTSD from being dehumanized. When money comes easy it’s a trap. Money IS the root of all evil.

[@starrjohnson1327]

Omg! I figured something weird was going on with that. That is awful!

[@Janicesaheed]

I’d also encourage if you’re able to take on, somatic therapy, trauma is stored in the body. And there are many exercises on what to do whithin somatic therapy, sometimes talking about it, can be re traumatising, you can heal without talking about every detail.

[@ValerieMajor]

Inner-healing is everything! God goes into the wound and heals it and Satan will no longer have access.

[@therealsubaekhyang]

Thinking about how far you've come is proof of how good God is!!

[@rubylight4019]

Hey there, thank you so much for sharing your story! I love your videos and content and think your awesome. I wanted to just mention though when you were talking about viewing the SD as children and reminding yourself that they are God's children too. Well from my understanding we aren't God's children until we become saved biblically speaking. I thought I would just mention that in case you weren't aware. Blessings to you on your continual healing journey!

[@user-mv2tg8hc8c]

I haven’t watched the movie “ Redeeming Love “. I heard that it has sex scenes. We know that God wants us to practice purity and chastity even in marriage. I can’t imagine God saying that it’s ever okay to watch sex scenes because they cause us tu lust. Sex is private between a man spouses. By tasteful, what do you mean? That not much is shown?

[@ilovetech8341]

yes, most men do have issues. in my case, I am just trying to relive my 20s because I was far too serious then. Women aren't ready for real relationships until about 30. Tip to my younger self.

[@nikole2896]

thank you for being so bold about this part of your testimony and not sparing the nitty gritty. my testimony is very similar to yours except I met a man who almost made it a profession/job if you know what I mean, and I shared it with two believers and they said to basically tone down the zeal and be careful about who I share it with. in some ways i can understand what they mean but I also am not going to be ashamed and will proclaim the Gospel and goodness of God because our testimonies show how he can redeem anyone. Jesus even says that the prostitutes and tax collectors will be very receptive to the Good news. God bless your ministry Kian 🥰 also you are extremely gorgeous and radiant!!!!!

[@aoyamiuriko5059]

Amen

[@khadijagwen]

There are those, I am one, who helped a woman get through college ($15,000 for me) no strings attached. I've never mentioned it to anyone, and won't and neither has she. It is between Jesus and me. No intimacy involved.

[@pauls464]

You just did

[@portiawebb533]

Thanks for your transparency, sister❣️✨. God Bless you✨🕊

[@sailuna47]

The movie was really spot on for most of it BUT The book has so much more context and brings you straight into the emotions within all of the characters. Please read the book a couple times and then watch the movie again. It will touch your heart that much more. God Bless

[@alexsimone804]

As for me, with Redeeming Love, I saw it with some girlfriends and my husband and I both agree it wouldn’t be a good movie for him to watch at all! I know everybody is in a different place, but there is a lot of potentially tempting or uncomfortable content for somebody who has struggled with lust/porn!

[@kristydybdahl5844]

Jesus loves you more ❣️ I love how you end each episode you share with this, because it's the TRUTH! JESUS LOVES US MORE! Praise God 🙏❤️

[@Randompotatoes-qs7bm]

I personally don’t see anything wrong with something translational like this as long as both people are single. But if you are attempting to find an actual relationship it can get in the way.

[@Randompotatoes-qs7bm]

I will add as I watch further : I don’t think the addictive parts are ok. I’m simply talking about a normal sexual interaction. And a part of me knows that some people have a very difficult time finding a sexual partner. Not everyone is conventionally good looking or can find a relationship. So In those cases..I do support sex work as a service. If you were traumatized by your experience I am so sorry that happened and I hope you share your healing with us. It’s a very fine line and I think it’s glorified in a way it shouldn’t be.

[@ellan9891]

It’s sad to hear that you had such a negative experience. It’s also sad that people forget that not everyone can be a SD/SB or not educating yourself on what a sugar arrangement is supposed to be and how you should treat one another. There are truly good SDs who want to help and support women or simply want companionship (that’s how it’s supposed to be). It’s all about strategizing, marketing, and educating yourself so you can attract them. Remember, this is the real world, bad and good people exist together, so be cautious and smart and know you don’t have to do anything you don’t want to.

[@katiejane6761]

Exactly!!

[@misstigerbubbles]

Or just get a normal job and don't depend on old gross men lol

[@AJ-nn1ij]

@@misstigerbubbles not all sugar daddy's are "old gross men." My friend was a sugar baby for a man and it was not at all sexual. He had lost his wife and kids in a car accident just before his oldest daughter went to college, and he paid my friends tuition with the money he had saved for his daughter. My friend had also lost her father. He just wanted to be able to support someone in their education and help then succeed, and was pretty much a mentor figure. They never did anything remotely sexual or romantic or inappropriate. It was just them spending time together and him mentoring her and helping her financially

[@misstigerbubbles]

@@AJ-nn1ij yeah no sorry it's still gross...pyaing for someone's education? Lmao donate to charity, tell others to work for their money, sugar daddies are gross, lonely old men, they need to get Ives

[@AJ-nn1ij]

@@misstigerbubbles You do realize that a lot PhD programs are literally a professor deciding that you are worth the investment and paying for your tuition and stipend? All you need to do is update them on your research and regularly meet with them. Is the whole phd system creepy too? Are all professors that support phd students and take on advisees creeps?

[@Janicesaheed]

I personally don’t think it’s demonic, I’d just say unhealthy, and toxic.

[@KianandKyle]

SO PROUD OF YOU FOR SHARING THIS BABY! SO POWERFUL! I LOVE YOU!!!

[@hannahbarnhart3833]

Your hair looks AMAZING here kian. Loving it.

[@annachristine4008]

Kian I love you and Jesus loves you more ♥️ I sent this to some of my friends that may have needed to hear this, thank you for speaking of Gods testimony in your life, it means more than you know.

[@evolvetravel1]

I'm not even 10 seconds in and I'm really happy there's at least ONE video on KZbin addressing this. I feel trapped with the easy money even though I have a good job and educating myself. It's hard to quit but I feel bleh. Rather be with someone I'm attracted to- any others want to chime in here on regaining your independence? Got excited for the video but she's very long winded IMO

[@meaganbastos]

Questions start at 4:18

[@JasonCrozier-gi3by]

Merry Christmas happy holidays kian

[@kaitlynnyates956]

i know it’s hard to open up like this. thank you.

[@nayamontagne5567]

You have no idea how much god spoke through you to me if this video. Thank you ✨🤍

[@puppetmaster1403]

I thought about being a sugar daddy but don't like wasting time so I'd be like "ok cutie, let's talk about a price for kitty kat over dinner"

[@karengrace6890]

This video and your honesty and your truth and your wisdom were such a gift to me. Thank you.

[@cheryl5667]

I've got no problem calling punters evil. They are not addicted to the violence against women that the sex industry is.

[@aurorap.7578]

Highly recommend the podcast Java with Juli and the book called 'Your Spiritual Toolbox" by Terri Fivash it helped me a lot in taking control of my choices, habits and trauma through Jesus

[@bellavita3097]

You could go to real therapy for your past traumas. Real Dr., no matter if they’re Christian or not.

[@cliffordnewell2445]

Great job. This program was especially good.

[@stefanistephen3035]

Thank you so much for sharing, you are truly inspiring.

[@itsallroses1847]

What a testimony! thank you for your bold truth!

[@brigittegilmore5756]

I'm so proud of younfor your bravery in speaking about your experiences. There is a fantastic book called The Body Keeps The Score by Dr.Bessel Van Der Kolk , it's the best book on trauma and how to work through but it's not an easy read but masterpiece on trauma.May GOD Bless your journey to recovering your authentic self. Thank you for sharing💜

[@hardmoneysolutions]

It's sad when people make what they come to believe is a mistake and then blame it all on, in this case, the "men". You were a product, you put yourself on the shelf with a price tag. Men came along willing to pay that price and then are demonized. How do I know? Cos it happened to me. I was the evil one after practically saving a young girls life from drugs, and prostitution and all sorts of other crap. I ended up the bad guy.

[@CB-oq5yc]

kian could you talk about what you think about living together before marriage but waiting for marriage. i know some couples out there that truly are waiting and may have certain situations where they do live together. i know you and your fiancé moved in together for a little and people were so hateful saying it’s wrong and stuff when the Bible is clear that sex before marriage is the sin not living together. just wanted to hear your thoughts on how you felt with those comments and what are your thoughts biblically.

[@diddlina8462]

I love the shirt: where is it from?

[@chloefrances5688]

I wish you were more specific and raw with your experiences instead of being so vague 😕

[@goonyedoony7690]

May god of gods bless u and u bring more of him in your life love of all loves must love u from u doing this

[@Ajiaalexus]

I'm so curious if you know people who can come together to help my family, 2 of my brothers were shot one killed and one w jaw reconstruction. Can you please look into it

[@angelatorres0055]

You look so beautiful! I love your hair

[@imrollingmyeyes3071]

Lots of judgement towards men who know that dealing with women in the dating world is the same arrangement but with open financial terms. There are many times more women who want and seek a sugar daddy then men seeking the then. I don’t see the point in shaming men about this.

[@KimlovesOT]

Weird timing! I just happened upon your testimony yesterday. Thanks for sharing ❤️

[@KAYUnwaveringInTruth]

This is so encouraging! God is so good! Thank so much Ki I’ll definitely be praying for you yess! It’s so beautiful how He constantly corrects us I love it and love ❤️ thanks for this video! Your boldness and courage is radiating!

[@faith9659]

Where is your cross necklace from? I love it so much! ❤️

[@jesseferguson3205]

Can't believe you're at 100k subscribers! Congrats, babe

[@rosieaustin9911]

You are amazing & your testimony is beautiful. Also, so excited to see the movie.

[@laurenlove9955]

So inspiring, thank you for sharing 💜🤍

[@sherbetstraw]

You’re so eloquent ! What a gift from god !!

[@miriam9775]

Wow. And again: You are so good in explaining things. Thank you for that Video.

[@EnmmuPuu]

No money worth of dignity

[@MusicaObscuraX]

VERY good video. You are extremely brave!

[@stormchaser419]

Just a curiosity question. Why is marriage such a big deal in Christianity? As a single man I have seen that divorce rates are actually higher among Christians. I don't get it.

[@elenaserna8315]

You're so brave to take about this and raise awareness, God bless you ❤️

[@jameshyde1501]

I was that SD in my past! The problem I have is that I am the kind of Guy who wants the commitment.

[@yodo6414]

Nice, you got saved. Love your story..

[@ceceforrest6736]

I love this, thank you for sharing!

[@KevZen2000]

Thank you to all the sugar babies. You're helping men. It's not wrong to do it. You're attractive, so use it to your advantage. Why work a low paying job, when a man will give you $10,000/month? That's a win win. Sugar babies also helped me from having a girlfriend or wife. It's less draining, and far less costly overall.

[@200991602]

The story about the women with Adman Khsoggy sp was interesting , the video is on YT . Anyway the neighborhood lady got involved in this thinking their life would be nothing but freedom , it became a prison , she had to go where ever the Sugar Daddy wanted , he would call her at 2 am and demand to pack and get on the private jet. Blessings you got out of this lifestyle!

[@GBLahLah]

Disgusting and insulting to humanity.

[@aronzimas5660]

There is a downside to selling your body for money? Who would have thought.

[@goonyedoony7690]

If im wrong this lady would still be in that shit

[@bobobobo869]

Own your bad decisions dont point fingers, e.g i took a shortcut it was a blunder and it that world wasn't for me easy A thief once said he stole cause he was broke qnd and people ddnt look after ther staff A sugar baby says she was broke and men's money seemed like a way out