The Ultimatum: Queer Love's Stars Talk Couples Drama & SHADY Vanessa | E! News

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"The Ultimatum: Queer Love" stars Lexi Goldberg and Mal Wright talk about misaligned goals on Netflix's reality dating competition. Plus, Yoly Rojas explains her trust issues surrounding her and Mal's partnership. Then, the reality TV cast dishes on Vanessa Papa's villainous vibe and Xander Boger explains why she didn't stick up for her.
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[@pearlliehart8106]

Mal and Sam are the most mature ones from the entire bunch.

[@Jonjones520]

So not true. Lol.

[@pearlliehart8106]

@@Jonjones520 It is, for me.

[@Jonjones520]

@@pearlliehart8106 Sam for sure. I Can concede that Mal is second but she’s not on the same level as Sam.

[@pearlliehart8106]

@@Jonjones520 Like I said, that’s MY own opinion. You don’t have to agree. Mal and Sam, for me. Thanks.

[@nadadada]

​@@pearlliehart8106 I agree with you!

[@Jeanette3]

Mildred was the WORST one on this show. Disgusting behavior. And Mal was seriously the most understanding and chill person I’ve ever seen in this kind of situation. She was so calm, patient and understanding of Yoly’s feelings for Xander. Because I could never be that chill about my partner having feelings for someone else!😅

[@hubabaloop]

Absolutely not! Haha she was great

[@Cookie-cr6gf]

What about Sam? 😂 first I was like who is that she didn’t kiss hug one person I mean Aussie yea but Aussie is a mental mess

[@Jamangel]

Lol

[@bronwynmantel7722]

Mal's forecasting was accurate to a t.

[@Jonjones520]

Xander’s cowardice throughout the season really bothered me. They deserve a crown for being the leader of non-answers.

[@earth2ellie]

this. bigger personalities and mistakes were focused on but Xander also did wrong because they lied to Vanessa about having feelings for Yoly and being under the radar when conflict broke out.

[@doubleservings2890]

Maybe because I'm older and in a long term relationship, but I can't understand why feeling that your partner is your best friend means things have gone south!?!? Becoming best friends should be a goal, a relationship will never sustain the constant spark/feeling of newness like in the beginning and that's natural but doesn't mean you won't have sparkly moments all throughout your time together 🥰

[@maggiebrooks3982]

You are absolutely right. Its maturity to understand that a relationship does not consist of only the honeymoon phase. My parents have been married 45 years. My dad had a stroke 3 years ago, so my mama mostly takes care of him while my brother and I help. I cannot bring myself to do any care that reveals my dad's private parts🤢 My mama says, "oh that's because he's your dad, and not your honey"

[@DustyStarrs]

I think what they mean is that the relationship feels more just platonic rather than it being mostly romantic. I totally agree with you though!

[@Sage-Em]

Because there's no spark then. It's just being buddies.

[@PanoramicView-o5p]

Agreed! My boyfriend and I met online and we’ve been together for one year now him and I are best friends and he always tells me that we are basically the same. We can laugh at stupid stuff and crack jokes that may seem stupid at the time, but we just click and always having not just a relationship with a significant other but also having that person as your best friend is always good, because you always create new memories throughout your entire relationship

[@Cookie-cr6gf]

Agree and Vanessa took Xander for granted and got a slap in the face . She didn’t invest in her .

[@atemel-r2r]

Mal was right from the get go

[@Nay-wd1tp]

Yup! Yoli falls for whoever she's with 😂😂😂let's see how long it last

[@emfarah3758]

@@Nay-wd1tpMy thoughts exactly!

[@danifranc7011]

Yuppppp she called it! Yoly so shadey

[@MonsterZamberletti]

@@infinite88588 thats so true and nobody is talking about that!

[@infinite88588]

@@MonsterZamberletti she wasted Yolys time man...that's a woman who knows how to love; Yolys a real one...she knew that woman wanted babies and was just pushing for time....3 years and u still don't know what u want. If your confused bout what u want...don't date...figure your needs out.

[@KookyAssignments]

Not Mal predicting 😭

[@Stephdh25]

Let me find out she psychic too. Chileee

[@bellaloves2815]

The true villains were Yoly and Mildred. Mildred literally committed DV against her partner and pushed the stereotype of Latina women being verbally ab*sive and explosive to excuse her own terrible behaviour (tiff had their own problems but Mildred had no right to do what she did to Tiff). And Yoly SUPPORTED Mildred doing what she did. Also proved Mal right in what Mal thought Yoly would do, which was “fall in love” with whoever was available to her and fast, and could give her want she wanted aka money for a kid and whatever else. Mal was right to not trust Yoly’s emotions and then Yoly basically cheating and manipulating Mal and Xander AFTER getting engaged to Mal. Vanessa was just annoying, she was very loud and outgoing, which rubbed a lot of people the wrong way. And Yoly calling Vanessa a snake is very ironic. Vanessa is not the worst person like the show made her to be (immature and shouldn’t be in a relationship sure) and the cast just collectively jumping to hate her was strange even though some of them supported truly toxic people.

[@graceking9723]

i second this. i feel like vanessa was a scape goat for the narcissists so they could divert people’s attention away from them

[@TheAlreadytaken24]

​@@graceking9723definitely not true.. the pessimistic mentality is wild.. and to overlook how manipulative vanessa was is crazy.. and mildred ex abused her before the show.. but y'all focus on how someone is reacting clearly y'all know nothing about reactive abuse..

[@asughara545]

Yoly is a 🚩🚩. Mal deserves better than her. If you’re falling for everybody that comes within spitting distance of you then you are for the streets.

[@Sweetieee]

💯

[@maggiebrooks3982]

Definitely something to consider about someone

[@mochalatte8202]

Mal was so right about her falling in love quickly. I loved how much love Mal had for Yoly, and kept Yoly's feelings in consideration even though her heart was breaking.

[@lindseytaylor2285]

Facts

[@maggiebrooks3982]

I'm not trying to be ugly, but Yoly seems like the kind of person that might cheat on you with a coworker.

[@kennyBee995]

Vanessa had a lot of growth. Meanwhile some people just devolved and showed theit true colors.

[@stephski2274]

I doubt she did.

[@justinedawnz]

Exactly. I feel like she was ganged up on unnecessarily. Yoly manipulated Mal throughout the process and I can't stand the way she kept accusing Vanessa of the exact things she was doing.

[@morgan69666]

Am I the only one that didn’t think Vanessa was a villain??? Yoly was worse, Mildred was worse, Xander fully fell in love with someone else, like??? She just wasn’t sure monogamy for life was for her since when does that make her a villain?? She wasn’t sure and she figured it out and I don’t think it’s fair how mean everyone is to her on the cast? She’s like a scapegoat for everything

[@Stephdh25]

Vanessa was definitely annoying, but throughout the show you can really tell that she’s grown.

[@angiem27]

Yesss, I agree, I didn't like Vanessa at first but she ended up showing growth which i respect. I didn't like that they ganged up on her. Yoly and Mildred disgust me. Lexie I stopped liking her she's so pretentious and self-righteous. Get off your pedestal.

[@danifranc7011]

Agree. Vanessa is childish party girl play too much but yoly and Mildred were scummmmmm

[@morgan69666]

@@danifranc7011 I don’t even think it’s fair to call her childish… she was fully transparent form the beginning through the end about how she felt and what she wanted and the other people took it as a personal dig or something that it didn’t align with their thoughts/feelings

[@danifranc7011]

@@morgan69666 being transparent doesn't mean not childish. The 2 can exist at the same time.

[@PaintMePretty79]

I LOVE Lexi’s hair! The super long hair was just too heavy. This length with the soft layers is perfect!

[@BlueAlien1313]

Mal and Lexi are straight shooters and very honest and I respect and like them both. These two should have picked each other because they have so much in common but I am very happy they are friends.

[@JaZmine147]

I think the age difference made Mal to friendzone Lexi. The moment they met with Mal's friend, Mal took her advice that 24 is way too young for a serious relationship with her. Although I love Lexis personality, she needs to mature mentally a little bit before she can date someone like Mal. Them being friends is an amazing outcome. ❤

[@BlueAlien1313]

@@JaZmine147 I think Lexi is very mature and I love her outlook on life and relationships in general. I am glad those two are friends. They both seemed to be really good people.

[@devesongs]

Mal is a player. Lexi needs a reality check with Mal but she’s young so she doesn’t see it. I’m sure Mal is a great person but she’s not relationship material clearly.

[@JaZmine147]

@@devesongs How is Mal a player in your opinion? Just curious to understand your perspective.

[@Jamangel]

Lol

[@gelaben26]

Thank God they cut out Mildred she is an abuser. Xander and Sam truly are beautiful inside and out

[@motheryuba57]

Wondering if Mildred had some heavy childhood abuse that left her thinking she has to be tough all the time and not allow herself to be vulnerable. It was so sad watching her and Tiff get so toxically entangled. I hope she gets some kind of help to grow into a better person. She's not ready for a relationship till she addresses her abusive behaviors.

[@Cookie-cr6gf]

Yea it’s like Mildred and Aussie shiidddd Aussie a be like 🚶‍♀️ 🚪 👈🏼👈🏼👈🏼👈🏼 she don’t want to hear that beat up all the time

[@lauraperdomo9095]

Mal has my ❤.

[@tarielmbugua1554]

I wish she can act another love series

[@88hayla]

The real villains: Lexi, yoly, MILDRED

[@user-kf6ed7iu5h]

Fr

[@b.a.hazard6787]

Yeahhh. Wouldn’t outright call Lexi a villain but her treatment of Rae at the end wasn’t it. Why do we need to tell grampa again?? Just super manipulative and like there’s some things you don’t need to tell your whole extended family boo

[@justinedawnz]

I agree!

[@Maria.0.1]

Mal, Rae and Xander definetely dodged some bullets 💀

[@jecintawangui3727]

💯 agree with you

[@JaZmine147]

Rae needs some serious therapy to stop being avoidant and discover who she really is. She gets a pass because she's under 30 but if she keeps behaving like this in her 40ies (Aussie cough cough), it would be horrific.

[@calture5086]

Hope Rae will not end up with another person like Lexi..what a nightmare. She's one step away from Mildred.

[@JohnJohn-xs5ru]

@@JaZmine147 Aussie is x5 worse.

[@JaZmine147]

@@JohnJohn-xs5ru So true. She has 20 years more on her shoulders living with unresolved trauma.

[@arualstarr]

Lexi was so immature and insecure, she just kept hyperfocusing on what Rae was/wasn't doing. sunshine needs to take a look at her own issues, and really work on herself too. She is absolutely acting her age, and it's normal for her to have those types of issues when this young. it doesn't make her a bad person, but I hope she gets herself into some therapy.

[@b.a.hazard6787]

Exactly. Wish more people would talk about this. It’s kind troubling to hear everyone commend her for being so well spoken and mature. Really didn’t like the way she was treating Rae at the end and considering how fast she moved on after their breakup, it doesn’t seem like she’s ready for a commitment like marriage.

[@alexandryan100]

At first she seemed great, but it didn't take long for her jealousy to seep into every area of her life. She sabotaged herself with her vendetta against Vanessa. Which sucks because she was right about her but then couldn't let it go.

[@mayakiruluta2084]

I think Mal’s describing Vanessa is spot on, she’s annoying as heck to watch but she’s harmless for the most part

[@ABeautifulMess101]

I like Vanessa. I feel like she was just misunderstood and although Xander regrets sticking up for Vanessa, I’m glad that she did. Bullying someone is never okay.

[@alyssabenavides3127]

when xander said “maybe at least own up to that. but i mean that’s not my journey” 😂😭😭😭

[@CaulkMongler]

Vanessa might’ve put her foot in her mouth a couple times, but I def think she hides a facade of nervousness and using laughter to hide her anxiety. I think she was honest with her feelings by the end of the show and was able to healthily reflect on herself - much more healthy than a good handful of the other contestants on the show.

[@9crimes87]

Yoly and Xander: was it love, lust or infatuation?? The feeliing or newnest and novelty usyally wears off eventually which is why strong foundation is necessary to reach longevity

[@TheREALycorona559]

I think it was lust !

[@Rexxie00]

People are attacking Mal in the comments about their trial marriage to Lexi but it was pretty obvious that she was never going to choose Lexi over Yoly. I personally think that Mal could see that Lexi was going through a lot because of the vanessa and rae situation and was just trying to help her feel better by going along with whatever Lexi did. They were a sweetheart to everyone, never bullied Xander even though it was obvious that they were hurt by the relationship between Yoly and Xander. They were the nicest person after Sam on that show, emotionally mature and she was right the whole time about Yoly being a faller. Mal stan for life.

[@EmmaChitupa]

I really love mal and lex relo

[@WorkersUnited111]

Mal is not nonbinary.

[@jenaywilliams]

Yoly calling Vanessa a snake is so ironic.

[@imjade1520]

Yoly IS a red flag

[@dragonflyy920]

Yoli loves love not the person she says she is in love with.

[@Grace-ju1gp]

I have a huge crush on Mal

[@Loops-1]

I’m a straight woman but I can say Mal is hot and could get it

[@blueirene2659]

Me too 🥹

[@nikiwe3442]

Me tooooo

[@tarielmbugua1554]

Me tooooo ❤❤❤❤

[@yunjin1stfan]

me too like

[@really8704]

I think Vanessa wasn’t all bad tbh

[@SkarGig]

Mal and Lexi should just be together and have their own show lol

[@mycollegeshirt]

Yes

[@jenaywilliams]

Ma deserves better than Lexi.

[@tonidiane6153]

Dang, so do we know the outcomes already? bc it sounds like Xander didnt choose Vanessa.

[@MegaNicolemarie]

I know ...sounds like she didn't pick Vanessa

[@seanne_30]

@@MegaNicolemarie I sure hope she didn't.. Vanessa is not for her

[@moniqueuu8777]

Thank God!

[@MichelleLeah]

The new episodes are up now

[@nickylee3998]

Is there a season 2 soon

[@virus76892]

the title says shady vanessa but lbh even though she was annoying she was honest. Yoly on the other hand....

[@mamalotus8988]

Yooooooo not Xander shading Vanessa for causing messiness during her trial marriage 💀💀💀 that's wild

[@MegaNicolemarie]

Im actually in love with Xander I know thats weird but she's amazing ❤

[@seanne_30]

I 100% agree.... From the moment i saw her appear in the first episode, my entire being gravitated towards her.. I feel like she has so much to give and it's not being reciprocated the way i'd love for it to.. I personally don't believe that either Yoly or Vanessa is right for Xander

[@tarielmbugua1554]

Same ❤❤❤but If I can get mal I can be happy am in love with her❤

[@queenesquiresquad]

😂

[@tarielmbugua1554]

@@queenesquiresquad 😂🤣😂😂😂🙆‍♀️

[@rociosegura6091]

Same

[@hubabaloop]

Lexi’s hair 😭😍😍😍 stunning gorgeous

[@Cookie-cr6gf]

Omg I so love ❤her lol

[@erinvaughn3739]

I love Lexi and Mal .. This show is outstanding 💖💪💖💪💖💪 I would love to see a group of older women 💖♥️💖

[@sadiM653]

Lexi pretends to be super mature but she’s not. Especially considering she didn’t know when to cut off Rae. Rae was really just blowing in the wind with rather she wanted to be with Lexi or not. Mal is a catch so I can see why Lexi likes Mal. But in reality I don’t see them ever working out long term. She’s simply not Mal’s type even though Mal probably wouldn’t mind dating her, I wouldn’t see that really going anywhere for Lexi realistically. Also Lexi’s parents seemed very annoyed with that being a possibility. Lexi also seemed very reliant on her parents especially for planning her possible wedding etc… like chill we know her parents would not agree with her marrying a black woman who is 12 years older than her. Especially since she has never even dated 1 black woman ever. Mal is not checking for her like she thinks.

[@yarapinto7957]

At the end yoly was the shadiest 😂😂😂😂😂

[@kiecutielove2923]

I couldn't stand Yoly, she is so phony and condescending. Seriously! She was arrogant and annoying, she had it out for Vanessa from day one and I don't believe she loved Xander, Mal said it from the beginning she falls in love with everyone she's with and that's a serious red flag

[@Watchlater109]

People need to learn when to let go

[@dragonflyy920]

The truth is that both Yoli and Vanessa are manipulative in different ways. Yoli peeped that and disliked Vanessa for being similar. AND Vanessa gets away with more cuz she is white. Xander is cute but she seems to like a bit of toxicity hence why she went from Vanessa to Yoli, two sides of the same coin.

[@infinite88588]

Stop hating on Yoly for no reason; Yoly and Vanessa are worlds apart different personalities....it makes no sense the show is called Ultimatum...these peoples relationship where already on the rocks all of them they jst needed a lil push to make the choices to move forward.

[@Sage-Em]

Cause she's white? Come one, this has nothing to do with skin colour. We can be better than that. Vanessa is a snake, and that's it

[@dragonflyy920]

@@infinite88588 Personalities can be anything: soft spoken, nice, smiley all the time. Yes their personalities are different but their actions are similar: when you look at their actions, they did the same thing. Does Yoly get a pass because she came off as kinder through the manipulation to both people manipulated? Just cuz Yoly is softer with it doesn't mean she is not manipulative. She told her GF she had nothing to worry about and was telling Xander she loved her and didn't know what to do. Thats what gets a lot of people messed up with manipulative people - giving someone a pass because they appear to be confused or people that know how to stay calm and appear nice during manipulation a pass.

[@MuZiC199ChIcK]

@@infinite88588 yoli is literally terrible like what 😂😂😂

[@blisssecured4119]

interesting analysis

[@sosweetmeanstreak]

Yoli you're toxic too babe.

[@terranuovabiochar]

Lexi was so controlling with Rae yet said she wants to get married with mal LOL. She is the real villain

[@raquelvalencia2491]

Yeah I don’t like Lexi either

[@naranjitanaranja2235]

Lexi was not controlling, Rae was unfaithful, and Lexi has al the right to feel uncomfortable with their relationship. It's wild how you people always describe others so awful when her feelings are totally valid.

[@JaZmine147]

She didn't say she wants to marry Mal. She said Mal was the perfect trial marriage person to have this experience with.

[@Aprinsa]

@@naranjitanaranja2235 agree with you except on Rae being unfaithful. Honestly this whole situation was pretty dubious… like how are you “breaking up” with someone to have a “monogamous” relationship with someone else, but y’all are making promises to each other about what’s not happening with your new relationship? Frankly the entire idea is absurd and should make you question the absurdity of the monogamous mentality. It’s like they were set up to both think this was okay and NOT think it was okay, creating a chaotic experience for all. To both think it was monogamy and have two relationships effectively at once. No wonder almost all of them broke up in the end.

[@Jonjones520]

@@naranjitanaranja2235 lol you don’t think Lexi was controlling? I’m sure way before the ultimatum, Lexi was speaking over Rae, invalidating her feelings and making her feel guilty for being human and falling within the boundaries that Lexi set. Lexi has classic emotional abuser tendencies.

[@estemelrod3445]

I want a show with Lexi and Mal.

[@salamander8301]

Lexi is a psycho She is so controlling of rae, it's no wonder that girl has no self esteem. The way she cornering Vanessa and trying to make everyone hate her was crazy mean girl behaviour.

[@PlantyOfBlessings]

I completely agree with you!!

[@raquelvalencia2491]

I’m glad more people are seeing it . She tries to get her parents to gang up on Rae too . She can’t let things go and tried to control Rae’s experience

[@salamander8301]

@@raquelvalencia2491 she seemed to cone alive after living with Vanessa

[@moniqueuu8777]

Vanessa is one too.

[@xobls]

I don’t care for Vanessa either BUT, Lexi was absolutely the pot calling the kettle black in saying Vanessa was there “for the wrong reasons” & that Vanessa was there for “fame”, meanwhile Lexi has 600k followers on instagram. So it appears LEXI just wanted to be famous & was projecting hardcore. She’s a clown 😂

[@aashnadiva]

Both Vanessa and Mildred seem to clearly have Narcissistic Personality Disorder (NPD). As a survivor of many years of abuse from a romantic partner with NPD, it was painful to see Vanessa and Mildred abuse and manipulate others on the show. I hope this show helps others to see the signs of narcissistic abuse and gives them the courage to cut narcissists out of their lives. I hope it doesn't glorify or boost the careers of narcissists, which Netflix should be more mindful of. For those who think highly of Vanessa, I urge you to research what is called a covert, passive-aggressive narcissist. Narcissists are sneaky, and can even be charming at times, but they are actually pathological liars and dangerous people. To any people out there who are being abused, or think they might be, you are not alone, you deserve better, and you will get through this even when you think you can't.

[@annnnne]

Netflix reality shows always have an assumed villain and then the real villain.

[@moniqueuu8777]

So glad Xander found happiness, peace, someone real because that Vanessa w is one manipulative, selfish, egotistical woman. Either Rae wanted to be free of Lexi or she's terrible at showing interest. She seemed so not into Vanessa.

[@BlueberrySummertime]

Vanessa hasn’t manipulated anyone. She’s the only one who’s shown any growth

[@74MD74]

​@@BlueberrySummertime Just because she showed growth doesn't negate anything she did prior to changing. She was very manipulative

[@really8704]

@@74MD74 everyone is allowed to change

[@hubabaloop]

@@really8704all can be true.

[@Cookie-cr6gf]

When aussie called Sam boo ❤❤❤❤❤

[@kathryn1304]

I loved Mal and Lexi.

[@Cookie-cr6gf]

Glad Xander left Vanessa she takes her for granted her own father even told her that .when it hit her she couldn’t handle it . She didn’t think no one wanted Xander . Please I’m straight and I like Xander she has a beautiful heart soul mind and strong willed she dealt with Vanessa long enough . Glad she left it for to better herself

[@tle7026]

idk why lexi is calling out vanessa for being "fake" when shes just as toxic. imagine berating your partner for sleeping with someone else when you're broken up and guilttripping her by constantly rubbing in her face that she's going to tell her grandpa that likes her. like WHAT? and it's all she ever talked about in the second half of the season. work on your insecurities sis

[@chellesocray]

Soooooo….. second comment on this channel of the night…. Just finished watching the reunion…. Lexi and Rae over??? I’m confused. So why would you go on a reunion and say you are happy? I cracked up laughing at Netflix’s captioned ending. I am dead. 😂😂😂

[@razorbladelemonade]

It is rather sad that not one couple survived.

[@SP-kr7wp]

Except for Aussie and sam !

[@Cookie-cr6gf]

Oh yes ppl forget about them lol I guess they was easily forgotten

[@rociosegura6091]

Mildred made me SO MAD

[@JaZmine147]

Mildred is the WORST.

[@rociosegura6091]

@@JaZmine147 she was like I'M LATINA. Well my whole family is Italian, so? There's culture and then there's RESPECT.

[@JaZmine147]

@@rociosegura6091 Seriously though. I'm Greek and in my family we talk loud and over each other as well at dinner etc, but when we're 1 on 1 we always let the other person finish talking and then we respond. So ridiculous she tried to make it about culture.

[@camilacelinbancelin]

dude all these people need mad therapy and communication workshops, non violent communication, except Mel. Mel is the greatest. Followed by Lexi who has some issues but for 24 very very good. Aussi is broken beyond repair, poor Mildred has soooo much trauma in her body, she doesn't know what's lefty from right. And Xander is a gem. Pure heart.

[@boolowoertheenappydreaded5359]

nobody is broken beyond repair do not push that narrative. will the journey be long? yes. but everyone deserves adequate help and a chance to be rehabilitated, especially from childhood abuse.

[@camilacelinbancelin]

@@boolowoertheenappydreaded5359 absolutely 🙏🏼🙏🏼

[@SkarGig]

Yoly seems like the shady snake lol i don't get anyone's annoyance with vanessa. Hating on the most cis looking and acting woman is what it comes off as.

[@really8704]

Exactly 😂

[@spiritwarrior1111]

💕💍🥇Sam & Aussie🥇💍💕 Sam so impressive with her in-depth understanding of human behavior & holding space. Aussie tending to s trauma & gaining coping skills will make a great Wife. Congrats. 💎🌹💕🥇💍💕 Mal 💎 -Yoly🚩 Zander💎 - Vanessa🚩 Tiff 💎(w/talk therapy!)- Mildred🚩 Rae - Vanessa 🐛Growing Pains🦋 Note: If your heart & head is in the right place you can grow with tools & coping skills. 🗝Recommend, before toxicity is Irreversible & beyond repair. We do the work on wounds and trauma so we don’t project our pain on other people, especially the ones that love us. But do it because you love yourself.🗝 🌹🌟❣️🌟🌹

[@camilacelinbancelin]

Beautiful

[@jonathancruz1822]

Thank you for this comment ❤️

[@jenaywilliams]

Wishful thinking. Most of these relationships were already beyond repair before coming on the show.

[@dragonz6983]

Some of these women gotta be fibbing about their age 🤔cause ain't NO WAY!

[@lindseylane7799]

😂🤣😂🤣.... I was thinking the exact same.

[@lajourdanne]

Apparently Netflix got called out for lying about ages last season, so I wouldn't be surprised.

[@fernandocrustacean]

Oof E the audio on this was not good. Waaay different levels between the interviews and the clips from the show

[@mirelayy4157]

Mal and lexi ❤❤❤

[@rashedadene638]

Lexi was so focused on Vanessa. It was annoying

[@shani3861]

Maybe also its an edit, only focusing on things she said in regards to Vanessa.

[@mandicloud88]

Lexi's done with shirts

[@Cookie-cr6gf]

Yea I didn’t realize how big those breasts are 😂

[@A2daM2daZ]

Love the Mal and Lexi lovers in these comments. We can’t know what goes on behind the scenes but from what we saw on the show alone, they were the most logical. People put off by Lexi’s assertive personality but she wasn’t wrong about anything she said. Of course Lexi could be gentler with Rae, but Rae had the same problems Aussie and Xander did. Like SPEAK UP for yourself. Why always blame the partner when their partner doesn’t know how to speak up? And to that point. Thank god Mal had Lexi as a friend bc she was really about to give up her dignity to be with Yoly who showed at every turn she didn’t want her anymore. And led on two people until the very last second of the show. Clearly the personalities of Lexi and Mal are just my preferences bc for me, some of the passivity. And naïveté of the other contestants annoyed me to not end.

[@homiedotkay4801]

i don’t see all the great traits about lexi everyone is talking about

[@JohnJohn-xs5ru]

I'm starting to change my mind.

[@razorbladelemonade]

She obviously bright but she’s a slick talker and hypocrite deflecting.

[@najma53]

Yoly trying to describe Mal and put her down was her describing her own traits. She’s a horrible person who bagged on Mal every chance she got when Mal only gave her grace.

[@mog9609]

I really wanted Yoli and Xander to be together!!

[@Cookie-cr6gf]

Exactly Sam said if best “ don’t take all the crap with you to a new relationship what happen in your past with family members I think Mildred is pushing tiff and Aussie away

[@infinite88588]

People are out here defending absolute strangers... ill say this tho...it took Mal the threat of someone else to commit to Yoly; she would have strung her along if allowed for longer...Yoly was right to allow herself to explore other options...none should force anyone to commit. Yoly isn't wrong for wanting what she wanted when she wanted it. If she had more of a firm boundary with a time limit she could have saved herself from being strung along by someone she wasn't fully compatible with. Hope she finds love; She deserves it.

[@sillyhermy]

For what you are saying. They are both wrong than. Yoly is a grown adult that shouldn't be playing childish game with lying and pretending to forget things so they are not the 'bad guy'. Yoly was def not innocent in that relationship. It's weird that you ignore that to defend your favorite. They both deserve love. I wish that for the both of them.

[@devesongs]

Exactly. Everyone think Mal is a saint but she was stringing her gf along like a player, but these weirdos in the comment section have no discernment. I’m sure Mal is a nice person but she’s a player, that’s why she reads people easily.

[@tiffanyr6444]

@@devesongsMal didn’t string Yoly along. She was honest and told her that she wasn’t prepared for marriage. Stringing someone alone means lying to them and pretending just to keep them around. Mal told her truth and Yoly CHOSE to stay for 3 years.

[@Cookie-cr6gf]

Rae @27 honey smh sheesh it’s ok we can’t not be sure of anything at at any age but you would think Lexi 27 and Rae 22 she obviously is comfortable just dating right now that’s good for her because she is not ready to make a major commitment she needs to learn more about herself and what she wants and work on her confidence in all honestly so if anything they will remain dating only marriage wouldn’t be healthy for them or either be single because Rae needs to grown up ppl want stability confidence and security . Rae doesn’t show any of that . Like imagine Rae and Aussie together omg what a messs 😂😮😮 exactly

[@Cookie-cr6gf]

My thing is rae needs to talk more we trying to see what she wants . I don’t think marriage is it for her at all she so insecure in her thoughts and actions that’s not a bit ready at all . But as far as continue to dating again I think that’s ok and I think she is ok with that for now marriage isn’t something to rush . Her and Lexi either continue to date to grow and end it and work on yourselves .

[@mariatangled]

Lexi was worse than vanessa LOL, Mildred was insufferable

[@jb2395]

Rae is the beauty in the group. Just my unsolicited opinion!!!

[@fulc4302]

I want mal and yoly break up,..if yoly really love mal u dont fall in love with someone else…i think yoly’s love towards mal is shallow

[@bubbagump1306]

They did own up to it…

[@cat_pb]

I agree, Xander is projecting

[@cyndykated358]

How did (some) of these women find their next partner…in such a small group? Lol.

[@lelelew2735]

Idk y but everytime i see vanessa i see cersei from game of thrones

[@Str8upmoney]

So who stay with who

[@AAAMassaroca]

I don't get ppl in the comments. Like, Mal was also planning to get married with Lexi lol she said to her friend that she wanted that, and Lexi introduced Mal to their parents with the same intention. Idk why u hate so much ppl falling in love. It can happen anytime, the only thing that matters is what u decide to do with it 🤷‍♀️ and tbh, it is not that hard to fall in love with Xander lol Also, ppl don't fall in love with everybody, but with who they connect with, and there are MANY movies and series showing ppl in a relationship falling in love with another person and I bet that in most of these u stay on the side of the new love bc it is much more real than with who they were before.

[@devesongs]

Mal telling a complete 24yr old stranger and you’re 36 that you want biracial kids with them in a few weeks or less is creepy. Mal is a player. I’m sure she’s a nice person but she loves to play with peoples hearts because she’s a narcissist Even her body posture is very narcissistic vibes. The way she sits, hold her face, always leaning to the side… player men do this all the time! 🤣

[@ericagreene1579]

Yoly acted worse than Vanessa though lol

[@lwnordr]

This is just messy and toxic af. lol

[@Aylover]

Yoli = Ben Affleck 😂

[@effie3798]

Lexi has always come off as an immature trouble maker to me.

[@pauladethierry9104]

Lexie is just 😲😲😲 shes just to brilliant for words, genuine asf, raw and truthful.

[@TheMoni77777]

Yoly should be with Xander, the sparks are there 🔥

[@Jessica-cu1rh]

I'm sorry but I'm not believing anything that comes out of Yolis mouth

[@20WUTEVER]

Yoly was terrible man oh man the worst.

[@153ika]

Yoly is the worst in this series actually

[@devesongs]

Mal is a player

[@Jonjones520]

Lol yeeep.

[@gillowens24]

Always drama two girls in a relationship.

[@JaZmine147]

Yeah cause heterosexual couples are drama free. 😂😂😂

[@PanoramicView-o5p]

@@JaZmine147 no but when it’s two girls hormones fly off the handle. I know cause I can be dramatic but my boyfriend can calm me down.

[@FragranceEuphoria]

@@PanoramicView-o5p men have hormones too...

[@JaZmine147]

@@FragranceEuphoria She has never experienced hungry boyfriends when their blood pressure goes down from not eating. Hulk mode. 😂😂

[@hubabaloop]

Just say you’re homophobic.

[@eileen1820]

Christ is King. He is the only way. This is disordered and against His plan for these women.

[@dee7519]

Ok

[@goodysmarts]

@eileen I am an Atheist

[@eileen1820]

@@goodysmarts very sad you're such an easy mark for social engineering. A proxy warrior doing the dirty work for a certain group of people who have exploited and used poor people for countless years. You ARE serving some ideology. You have a [false] god who does not serve you. They used you and you serve them. Sickened by your complicity with your own destruction.

[@kierstynsaoirse]

hmm why are you here then lol 👀

[@eileen1820]

@@kierstynsaoirse where else should I be? an echo chamber like u prefer?

[@theprettygigi]

xander: “i’ve known for a WHILE now, and it took me a WHILE to accept that i love you” …. it’s been 7 days. SEVEN

[@mroddydawg]

Lorrrd Lexi is amazingly gorgeous and I’m straight. I would definitely go for her.🥵🫠

[@calture5086]

Vomit

[@Jonjones520]

Meh, you deserve better than to be with emotionally abusive and manipulative people. Everyone does.

[@hubabaloop]

Ikr