the void after detachment. attracting my own energy back. self-empowerment diary.

[@let9989]

Thank you for sharing this. It’s really helpful for me, too. I even took notes 😊

[@EmbraceYourselfBaby]

@@let9989 I’m so glad you found it helpful 🧡

[@BarbaraBoholm]

Nastja your videos are balm for my soul,your eye for beauty like a rainbow,your thoughts,your big warm heart,thank you for being you!!! Warm hugs coming your way💖🍁🍂🫖🍵🥧☕🥑🍉🍊🍜🕯📓🖋

[@EmbraceYourselfBaby]

Oh Barbara 🥰🤗 thank you for wrapping me this warm blanket of a comment 🥹 you put a big smile on my face with your words and little symbols of everyday joys 🍁 🍵 🕯️💕✨ sending warm and grateful hugs back to you, hoping you are fine 🍀 much much love, Nsstja

[@humbleviewpoint]

The poets, sculptors, and artists we love are not the only prescient souls that existed. They are, however, the ones who rose above their circumstances. You have solidly joined the ranks of talented creators who bring their gift to the world through their tears. And for that, we adore you. As long as you can, please grace us with your unique and beautiful perspective.❤

[@EmbraceYourselfBaby]

I think being able to discover beauty within hidden places is a gift… and it says so much about the observer: you ❤️ thank you so much Dave for reflecting so much love back to me through your gaze. I feel truly blessed to be connected to you and have you as a dear friend 🫂 love, Nastja

[@izza_vip]

The void that opens up after detachment can be terrifying, but it is also an opportunity for growth and self-discovery. Create more space and bring more peace. Keep shining Nat. Love you ❤

[@EmbraceYourselfBaby]

@@izza_vip you’re spot on Izza 🧡 I hope you are staying strong right now 🍀 it sounds like it… sending you a big, warm hug 🫂🌈, love Nastja

[@izza_vip]

@@EmbraceYourselfBaby first of all, I think you are doing well queen. And nowadays I'm trying to realise myself that everything happens for a reason and sometimes those things are totally out of control of us. And main thing is I'm trying to stop care about what others think and cut off people I don't want in my life and filling me with negativity. All thanks to you Nat ! And I'm not telling you that I'm totally fine but I'm trying. Take care ♥️

[@EmbraceYourselfBaby]

@@izza_vip this comment fills me with so much joy Izza ✨☀️✨ you‘re energy feels so vibrant and I can sense that there was a shift. You knowing that it‘s a process and not everything will be “just fine” over night is a really good sign. It feels grounded and strong. 💪 and that’s the direction to go! You are taking your power back Izza 🌈 I’m so happy 🍀 sending you much love and light from underneath a gloomy autumn sky 🍁🤗🫂

[@lovelearnandgrow2853]

The Rainbow and the sun breaking through the wooded trail... that was so Beautiful! Thank you! Know deep in your heart that all will be Good! Blessings Nastja!

[@EmbraceYourselfBaby]

@@lovelearnandgrow2853 what a beautiful comment 🥹 thank you Edward 🌈

[@lovelearnandgrow2853]

@@EmbraceYourselfBaby 🙂

[@Kunstmann_Film]

Beautiful video and nice God rays 🤗

[@EmbraceYourselfBaby]

Thank you Mr. Kunstmann 😊🙏 but what are god rays ?

[@Kunstmann_Film]

@@EmbraceYourselfBaby Those light rays through the mist in the first and a later shot are being called God rays 😘

[@EmbraceYourselfBaby]

@@Kunstmann_Film hab ich mal wieder was gelernt 😊💛

[@itsfaiherself]

I relate so much to your approach in this video! I also find that making lists helps me navigate through the feelings of detachment and regain a sense of control. It’s truly encouraging to focus on staying grounded and nurturing ourselves✨🌟 Thank you for being you Nastja🥰and for sharing such an honest and heartfelt video. Your insights are inspiring and remind us that we’re not alone on this journey!🫶🏽

[@EmbraceYourselfBaby]

@@itsfaiherself thank you so much sweet Fai 🫂💕 it just brings me a sense of relief and empowerment, realizing that a lot of the pain I’m feeling is coming from projection and a hurt self-worth. Reframing is a very powerful tool, especially when we feel a strong sense of emptiness. And I wanna thank you too for being your precious you and for making me feel less alone on this challenging journey. Sending you a huge hug 💕🌈🤗

[@virginiavilas]

Today I read the closed captions of “a digital diary” without sound. What a visual feast !!! Processing and production are two distinct functions. Your videos are a refreshing blend of the two. Listing “pros and cons” is a great tool for examining any subject, including a personal experience. We give ourselves the opportunity to let ALL the feelings flow, be accounted for, and then let go. It’s not the void we need to detach from, but the feelings we ascribe to it. It just is. This is what it is to Live Life 😊 Sending lots of love and big hugs your way, N. 💚💚💚💚💚🤗🤗 -V

[@EmbraceYourselfBaby]

Feeling an instant boost of energy reading your precious words V 💥💕 it’s amazing how you manage to extract the essence of what I’m trying to portray in my videos and feed it back to me 🥰 can’t thank you enough for your presence here 😊🫂✨ ps: I loved your photos so much 💗 (in case you didn’t receive my reply)

[@virginiavilas]

@@EmbraceYourselfBaby There is true joy in feeling seen 😊😊 - via vlogs and photos 🥰

[@EmbraceYourselfBaby]

@@virginiavilas that’s so true… It’s kind of healing in a way… not being seen for who we are, is one of the worst things. But being seen and appreciated as our authentic self, re-creates a connection between the outside world and ourselves ✨☀️✨ wishing you a lovely day sweet V 💕

[@Reenascripts-writtenbyReenaS]

🎉thank you for this video❤

[@EmbraceYourselfBaby]

Thank you again for all your lovely comments Reena 💛🩵🩷

[@tatjanasittig9265]

It will take a long time for the pain to subside. Your approach to coping with separation deserves respect. Nevertheless, it seems to me that the person who left you has oppressed and tired you out. Even more, he still does. But you are worthy of being loved and respected as an independent person in every way. Your wonderful videos, filled with beauty and sorrow, prove that. One day I heard the following sentence: Letting go is not a weakness, but a sign of self-love. So let the person go and you will gain new vitality that will be so good for you, your little son and your great creative power.☘🍀

[@EmbraceYourselfBaby]

Danke 🥹🫂❤️

[@tatjanasittig9265]

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[@tanyatalkstoomuch]

I have been separated for 5 months now. I can really relate to everything you've shared in this video. Thank you.

[@EmbraceYourselfBaby]

@@tanyatalkstoomuch thank you Tanya 🧡 wishing you lots of strength during this challenging time 🫂

[@jasonbroadcastsinabuckethat]

I always learn from your words and wisdom. A loss & gain list is such a brilliant idea. I love it. It's something I will try going forward. Love 'Bowie the Cat' and the 'little spider from Mars' in this video. Have a lovely evening & weekend Nastja. 🫂🙏

[@EmbraceYourselfBaby]

@@jasonbroadcastsinabuckethat thank you so much Jason 🫂 and yeah! It’s a Bowie cat haha 🐈 I thought it looked familiar 😅 sending you a big hug 💗 I’ll get back to you soon 🤗

[@humbleviewpoint]

I thought of Bowie too. Our mutual friend Nastja is such a bright spot in our world. I'm going to put on "Let's Dance" and play it at the appropriate volume to wash out any negativity. Talk to you soon, Jason.

[@EmbraceYourselfBaby]

@@humbleviewpoint aaaw Dave 🥰

[@jasonbroadcastsinabuckethat]

@@humbleviewpoint You are so right Dave. We are lucky to have a wonderful mutual friend. 🙏

[@twartist1411]

What a wonderful video!! i enjoyed sharing the day with you and you beautifully spoke words with such emotion!! Look at all the subscribers you are gaining!! I am so proud of you. The people you are helping by just being you is bringing me such joy!

[@EmbraceYourselfBaby]

@@twartist1411 I’m always so happy to receive your comments Tina ❤️ you’ve been here with me since the start, feeding me back so much of the energy I put into this channel 🍀 I’m truly grateful for that 🙏 some people come, some people go. But the ones who stay on a journey with you, are the ones that are a true gift. Sending you lots of love and sunshine from underneath a bright blue sky ☀️✨

[@EmbraceYourselfBaby]

Hey Tina ❤ I‘ve just been wondering how you are and hope everything‘s fine. Since I have no other way to reach you, I’m writing you here. Sending you lots of warmth and love 💖🫂✨ Nastja

[@CeeWilson-vf9kj]

Gosh relating so much! Feeling the void a lot. My ex partner was also my best friend; as someone who is shy and introverted, i don't find it easy to make new friends and so I'm feeling pretty alone. I went to a social event today and struggled to make or feel any connections. I guess it's a season that must be weathered at this moment. But to follow your example: I have the opportunity to grow in unexpected and yet unknown directions Thank you for your honesty with us. Wishing you peace this weekend- Cee ❤

[@EmbraceYourselfBaby]

Thank you so much for sharing this with me Cee 💗 I know that feeling from social events so well… especially when there is a lot of superficial small talk I feel so alone. I‘m learning that it’s so important to stop abandoning myself in situations like these. just the other night I was at an event like you just described. And I went home early and cried the whole evening. But it was the right thing to do. Then I could regain energy and focus on my core again. Tonight I will listen to the podcast you recommended to me. Looking forward and sending you warm hugs 🫂🌈🍁

[@CeeWilson-vf9kj]

​@EmbraceYourselfBaby yes, I think honouring our own energy is so important. Hope you enjoyed the podcast!

[@EmbraceYourselfBaby]

@@CeeWilson-vf9kj yes I did! It reminded me of one of my favorite teachers (Pema Chordron). The 8 stages are so insightful and gave me a lot to think about.. I will listen to it again! Thank you Cee 🫂❤️🌈

[@CeeWilson-vf9kj]

@@EmbraceYourselfBaby glad you enjoyed it! 💞

[@shellycottrell433]

Wishing you so many, exciting possibilities dear soul. You got this ❤ and you sharing your light , experience and vulnerability has touched the hearts of many. Keep your heart open beautiful ❤

[@EmbraceYourselfBaby]

@@shellycottrell433 don’t make me cry Shelly 🥹🙈💕 thank you so much for saying these incredibly kind things 🫂 it encourages me more than you know… I hope you are well 🍀 and sending you much love 💛🌈☀️ Nastja

[@Indudevidasi]

Dear Nastja!💕 Yes the void can be a scary place but I found the longer I’m sitting in that void rather than just trying to aVOID;) it, the more I’m listening to the void- what it really needs…the less scary it becomes. For me it is like connecting with myself and be presant with me and my real needs. And than I can develop a plan and focus on my real desires and make concious decisions with what people I want in my life. The list you recommended I think can be very helpful to become more clear and see things more rational. Thank U for sharing so much of yourself with us! 🙏 I’m sending you a warm hug and a big kiss! 🤗😘 Yours Indu.

[@EmbraceYourselfBaby]

@@Indudevidasi thank you my sweet Indu ❤️ I had the same thought lately about a-voiding and also avoidant attachment style. It goes to show how much we are connected mentally 😅 you’re my inspiration 🌈 hdgdl 🥰 deine Nastja

[@tatjanasittig9265]

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[@Reenascripts-writtenbyReenaS]

I can't believe I am leaving a career of 13 years😢the illusion of security I built up like limerance of an idealised lover🎉a loss and gain list❤thank you for this suggestion😅13years of 20 years of learning means I have been set free 7 years early to pave my own path🎉

[@Reenascripts-writtenbyReenaS]

I am currently on @3:36 of this video❤that space of detachment🎉it is an overwhelming lake of lack being in a storm cloud,yet seeing with curious eyes of the inner teenager I wonder what's next,I wonder what flips this script of melancholy oooh what if something is exciting just ahead I get to learn and grow wildly after but first release fully release all this emotion and be light to "travel"ahead

[@Reenascripts-writtenbyReenaS]

@8:35 is an excellent point that I also see in career transition 🎉

[@Reenascripts-writtenbyReenaS]

What are the skills talents interests you have picked up while in the relationship what you have learned you carry it forward for sure to be a part of your offering to this wide world...maybe even your creativity received a tiny upgrade❤❤❤❤

[@Reenascripts-writtenbyReenaS]

This is a great video,music and camera shots nature sky and creatures🎉love it

[@EmbraceYourselfBaby]

Oh Reena ☺️, how I love your comments 🥰! Just yesterday, I listened to a podcast about limerence and how we sometimes use it as a soothing mechanism to regulate our emotions. The parallel you’re drawing to your professional life/career is so interesting… there is so much to unpack and think about. I can relate a lot. It probably has to do with something we call escapism. It’s easier to fill the void with limerence and idealization, or on the other hand, with resentful emotions, rather than facing the facts-because it can be very sobering. But gaining awareness is the first step, I think…

[@SimonaWilliams-n1t]

Hallo ❤

[@EmbraceYourselfBaby]

@@SimonaWilliams-n1t hallo Simona 🤗☀️🍁

[@JulieElvenMusic]

Your videos are good for the soul. Thank you so much for sharing your heart with us ❤️ and I'm doing the losing / gaining list right now 🫶🏼

[@EmbraceYourselfBaby]

Thank you so much for giving be such a beautiful feedback Julie 🥹❤️ that means a lot to me 🙏 I always try to do something good for my heart with these videos and I‘m so happy it does the same for you. Makes me feel really grateful 🍀 love, Nastja