"I wanted him to live my way. Now he doesn't live at all." This might be the best short I've ever seen. So well done.
@thewayout5098 ай бұрын
Thank you
@kjohns51392 жыл бұрын
Great short film, and so tragically true. Many closeted gay men are living two lives, with wives and children. However; it not only hurts the family, but in the long-run, it hurts the man trying to live two lives. it is very unfair that in the vast majority of these men's cases, family, religion, society and circumstances forced them into a traditionally straight life. A life where they could never be happy, or live-out their true selves. And once the children come along, the lies grow bigger, more often, and to more people. One day the guy wakes up to find the massive web of deceit he's woven for himself, feeling there's no way out. I know all this to be true. I lived a lie for 32 years. And even though I never cheated on my wife, I never knew the contentment, fulfillment, and happiness of being me, and knowing how to love and be loved as I was created to be, by a man side. But at 55-years-old, after 32 years of marriage, and two grown sons, I met a wonderful man who helped me see who I really was. At the time, I was in Evangelical ministry, for decades, and he was a Roman Catholic priest, of over 18 years. Subsequently, I got divorced, and he left the Church. And to say it was tough, is a massive understatement. In 2012 we got engaged to be married. At the point that I choose to be honest and open, I stopped living everyone else’s truth, and choose to live mine. It was very hard, for everyone involved, but finally I was free. And THAT, is worth, all you have to pay for that freedom. As difficult as it would be for this man to come out, in the long-run, it would be best, for him and everyone in his life. Sometimes your truth, is hard to live, but it is always better than living a lie.
@shimonkabili55542 жыл бұрын
Thanks for sharing. I believe that they are still millions of guys around the world that are living double life fearing, and not knowing how to revile them selfs to the world. Sadly many of them never do.
@tvrajagopalaniyer8375 Жыл бұрын
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@siegfriedsomseb2974 Жыл бұрын
@@shimonkabili5554❤
@kanishkk6531 Жыл бұрын
@Shimon Kabili - Thank you for this very meaningful short film.... I am Indian & gay and in my late forties. I came out to my parents when they wanted me to marry a woman. They accepted me immediately though I'm not sure they entirely understood the difficulties, the sadness and worst of all the loneliness of being gay & single in India. Despite it all, I'm relieved that I'm not living a double life and a lie. Your short film reaffirmed my belief that I did the right thing years ago....
@saroxkingdom Жыл бұрын
You're lucky. Your parents accepted you. Mine haven't. We just don't talk about it, and I'm still living under their roof.
@declankelly98298 ай бұрын
@@saroxkingdom Get out of that bloody house!
@muwanguzishakira Жыл бұрын
😢😢😢😢the conversation grandpa gave was soo painful. He's not living ma way nor other ways 😭😭😭 they need to be loved and accepted. No one has right to judge them.
@aaric17032 жыл бұрын
Excellent and unexpected film. It never ceases to amaze me how people use religion as a basis for hate.
@shimonkabili55542 жыл бұрын
Me too.
@itsallagame73542 жыл бұрын
Because religion is hate. Simple
@WorldEye88 Жыл бұрын
The family was Jewish. It really doesn’t matter about religion. In this case is him who’s living a double life. The wife is the victim.
Very touching story, special the scene in the car, i dont pity the main character though he made all his choices like many people i know, but im glad he found his way in the end*
@joeowens61802 жыл бұрын
Extremely well done; the policeman was compassionate, but Ryan's life will always have a double torture. I hope he has learned...... "what you are doing."
@hunterchampion5433 Жыл бұрын
That’s so foul with your wife and kids on the trip. You’re cheating everyone. I don’t really believe in cheating but I believe in honesty. I understand that sex can just be Sex but you have to be considerate and transparent.
@royyork25462 жыл бұрын
A WONDERFUL STORY..WISHING LIFESTYLE WOULD BE EASIER....LOVE STORY..SINCERELY, ROY LEONARDO DUKE YORK 2ND...
@josemartinseurodance4735 Жыл бұрын
BELA FOTOGRAFIA E UM CASAL GAY LINDOS ❤❤❤❤❤❤
@WorldEye88 Жыл бұрын
Great movie. Israeli and Mexican cast with excellent performance. A real situation. However 11:55, how stupid can you be to leave the bed to look for a guy in the streets in the middle of the night… The urges were really bad. He got lucky. Police were benevolent and helped him.
@dougrobnyc Жыл бұрын
Bisexual or Gay living in the closet is no way to live.
@Budnbuf2 жыл бұрын
Well done. I am hoping to see more from you Shimon.
@shimonkabili55542 жыл бұрын
Thank you. I am working on it.
@joellebrown5392 жыл бұрын
The argentinian guy is really beautiful. Whats his name?
@georgensal2 жыл бұрын
Very well done.....
@stevelapierre47762 жыл бұрын
This is based on TRUE EVENTS.... people comment, ''touching, well done...'! It is anti-human... If gays are treated like this in Mehico... I never knew this... Well to hell with Mehico!!!
@shimonkabili55542 жыл бұрын
Yes it's base on my true experience.
@itsallagame73542 жыл бұрын
Are you the married guy? And did you get together with the other guy?
@stevelapierre47762 жыл бұрын
@@itsallagame7354 Hi, NO.. I am not but spoke to the real guy and THIS is really what happened to him unreal... I knew a few people go there every year, and meet teen male prostitutes on the beach and I find this true story.. To hell with Mexico like I said....is this ok!!!??
@Deftonesalexglover_girl Жыл бұрын
@@shimonkabili5554ממש עצוב לי לשמוע מקווה שהיחס ישתנה.
@pixie992 жыл бұрын
Thank you xx
@staymonspencertcb70467 ай бұрын
My fear was so high if they get caught 🫣
@Twinkietoots2 жыл бұрын
And the message is ????? Live your life in a lie ????
@FabianWolter-kh1mt2 ай бұрын
06:00
@irenejunechiriikenyangal2542 жыл бұрын
🔥🔥🔥🔥😘😘😘😘
@2622ja Жыл бұрын
Ein Ende ohne Ende.
@SomoIya-qh7jz10 ай бұрын
🥰🥰😍😍💕💕❤️❤️💖💖💞💞👍💯
@rajhakesepian12112 жыл бұрын
Ni film pendek ap masih ada film fullnya
@jammyhome8544 Жыл бұрын
So funny one 😂😂😂
@JackHuang-on2ce4 ай бұрын
When a husband is fed up having with his wife, he could find others to have sex with, and that's totally alright. But he won't allow his wife to have sex with the others, sometimes for years. How kind is that?
@LMays-cu2hp2 жыл бұрын
Very nice..
@Natalieollievere-lr5jy Жыл бұрын
ROMANS 5:8 BUT GOD COMMENDETH HIS LOVE TOWARD US ,IN THAT, WHILE WE WERE YET SINNERS , CHRIST DIED FOR US.
@declankelly98299 ай бұрын
You are quoting a man who abused homosexual people. Read Romans chapter 1. Paul from Tarsus was exactly like the Police chief in the movie. He was homophobic. Since you quote him I suspect you are too.
@I_JUST_LOVE_MEN7 ай бұрын
That means you can do anything but you'll go to heaven?
@juanramos.jr.7948 Жыл бұрын
En tiempo la mentira se va da cuenta! La verdad siempre va salir! Yo siento por la familia, todo sus vidas destruirlo! Se el sabia que era gay el debería da cuenta de principio. El solo destruir la vida de todos. Merecer que lo espera! Solo opinión de un gay!
@keithdubas80442 жыл бұрын
This presents itself as a LGBTQ film, but it is not. It infers you should live as a frustracted, closeted person.
@crowwatcher17210 ай бұрын
True, wrong message
@behnammobile15052 жыл бұрын
Please make Farsi subtitles
@shimonkabili55542 жыл бұрын
Sorry I don't have a way to do that.
@MichaelBell-fx8yr5 ай бұрын
How are you going from Michael Gordon Bell 😊
@josephlenehan4461 Жыл бұрын
Joseph and today
@hpy9137 Жыл бұрын
El objetivo principal del corto parece ser continuar con la manía de los estadounidenses de ofender a otras naciones desde su supuesta superioridad. Cuando terminan negando las injusticias de su tierra y lo conservadores que son en su gran mayoría. Tristemente realista. Todos sufren por no ser honestos y dejar ser.
@neculaiboranda Жыл бұрын
😅😅😅😅
@juancarlosdelacruz78592 жыл бұрын
Por favor en español
@rppacademic5 ай бұрын
Smoking ... sooo stupid!
@neculaiboranda Жыл бұрын
😊r55r😊
@DANIIEL322 жыл бұрын
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@cynthiajones43322 жыл бұрын
Truly I say to you, whoever hears my word (Jesus) and believes him who sent me (God) has eternal life. He does not come into judgment, but has passed from death to life.John 5:24 Are people born gay? Do people choose to commit adultery/fornicate or are they born with a tendency to sin? Please think about it. Repent/believe or you will not inherit the kingdom of God. Out of love Jesus died for you, live for Him.
@KCal12132 жыл бұрын
Shut the hell up with your stupidity. Worry about your own eternal life.
@neilcognito2 жыл бұрын
How do you say, "Piss off" in spanish? 😕 Also, note your bible also say, to not force your beleives and teachings on others. That is a sin, and you will not inherit his kingdom. Now, please go repent, and bug off.
@shimonkabili55542 жыл бұрын
@@neilcognito The only nasty replies that I get are from religious people that are supposed to be peaceful and come people. Think about that.
@felixcanas94462 жыл бұрын
Say what? You Dídac not understand this story at all. Why Did you watch it?
@itsallagame73542 жыл бұрын
Religious people are the most hateful and bigoted bunch. They’re not supposed to be peaceful