Why we want the wrong things | Luke Burgis

[@elenasomething5452]

This was an excellent video essay! I think so many people look at the external world for validation--I cetainly was before I realized how unhappy I was in life. It is impossible not to when we are inundated with the media/TV/internet selling us an idealized version of a product or a villified version of the world. At a certain point, we all need the power to look inside ourselves and find truth and meaning. It is not someone a person finds in a job, spouse, child, paycheck, drug, drink etc Seeing the truth is the only way to see what we desire in the long run. It's all about balance.

[@prapanthebachelorette6803]

I agree with you on the balance concept

[@pranjalsagar9849]

We love the wrong things to make them right. It's the inner hero among us all.

[@rugino3614]

Memes, the desires of the soul

[@treznopresto4878]

The wise man, The Cambodian Memer himself

[@Callummullans]

Desire seems to be a cathartic dream in spite of what is all too often, that frown a kid gives when they’re saying what they’ll do as an adult sticks it’s just the rhetoric now holds more credit and so it’s attacked in more creative and personal ways.

[@pif5023]

I did that. I had a period where I was “off the rail” society puts you in. Unfortunately I am having a lot of troubles reconciling what I have found “I am” with how we live today simply because we have no real control over our lives.

[@ultraextraorca7644]

You actually have complete control over your life because you have Free Will. Every single action you take is in your perceived pursuit of happiness. Just because you believe something will make you happier doesn't mean it will, but your belief is the reason why you do it. There are intrinsic and extrinsic motivations for our actions. Oftentimes others believe they have no choice in an action that we are only extrinsically motivated to do, but that's not the truth. You don't have to go to work. You'll have no money though and you want money for food. There's full choice in the action, even if you hate your job. Working the job is better than being hungry.

[@heristyono4755]

We desire things that can help us fit in.

[@Troy-ol5fk]

Really made me think

[@The-Well]

That's our goal! Thanks for spending your time with us!

[@hieu5558]

trully inspired video🥰

[@melih9can]

I didn't understand anything from the video, can you explain?

[@liam8370]

unlike animals we don't just have instinctual desires but abstract ones as well and there are two according to him thin and thick desires thin desires are those which we copy from other people like if they have something we'd want that as well? while thick desires are those which are deeply rooted the things that were taught to us in childhood or what we actually want? people usually follow their thin desires which doesn't mean anything in the long run and we should identify the thick desires that give us real happiness. hmm I see I don't understand a few things as well

[@manamohana999]

Nice

[@philopolymath]

We?

[@maha-madpedo-gayphukumber1533]

Acting on desires in not the real nature of human it is nature of animal human nature is for self realisation of the consiousness and merge in it. But since we are evolved from animals and and are human animals. We act on our basic instinct and drive. Science and spirituality (not religion and god fairy tale) are interwoven you can't seprate them. Whether you belive or not whether there is empirical evidence or not. The things we seek are just outside of our reach. We are just limited and finite beings trying to understand the unlimited and infinite which is outside of our reach. How can limited and infinite beings like humans can understand,fathom and comprehend something that is unlimited and infinite. It's impossible. There is only one way to comprehend it and it is to believe in infinite.

[@har5814]

Masarap ang bawal.

[@busioluwatoye4977]

Deep